JustPearlyThings - August 25, 2023


Single Women In A Nutshell


Episode Stats


Length

6 minutes

Words per minute

182.91408

Word count

1,224

Sentence count

62

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

sentences flagged

Hate speech

13

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Summary

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Rachel Wilson's tweet about her husband not doing the dishes goes viral and causes a firestorm on social media. Women argue that women should do more housework and men should do less. What does the Bible say about this and why is this a problem?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So, you know, one thing that Fresh and Fit and other content creators have taught me
00:00:05.820 personally being in the space is that men and women have roles.
00:00:09.840 You know, there's different roles for men and there's different roles for women. 1.00
00:00:12.760 And traditional, I really think traditional relationships work the best.
00:00:17.000 I'm not saying that no relationship can work if it's more modern.
00:00:21.100 Clearly, some do.
00:00:22.460 But, you know, in a balance of probabilities, traditional relationships where the men are
00:00:26.140 providing, women are taking care of the home, tend to work the best. 1.00
00:00:29.780 So Twitter is in an uproar.
00:00:32.200 As you guys know, Rachel Wilson, who's a friend and commentator on the channel, had a tweet
00:00:37.580 go viral.
00:00:39.140 She said, in the 16 years we've been together, my husband has never done laundry, the dishes,
00:00:46.100 cleaned the bathroom, vacuumed or mopped.
00:00:48.540 He does not do housework ever at all.
00:00:51.560 And it's so funny to see, you know, men and women come and attack my friend Rachel.
00:00:59.780 Um, because the way that she lives her life, she believes that men and women have roles
00:01:04.700 and she does not believe that men are meant to do the dishes.
00:01:08.160 That's a woman's job. 1.00
00:01:09.660 The men can do the yard work.
00:01:11.180 And so, um, Phil says that is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone is cool
00:01:17.640 with.
00:01:17.860 So, again, that's more of a female arguing pattern. 1.00
00:01:21.500 You know, you'll see like a woman's gut reaction when we say water is wet. 1.00
00:01:25.440 Well, not all water is wet.
00:01:27.160 That's how women argue. 1.00
00:01:28.700 So, again, it's interesting because you see men that tend to be led by women and it's usually 0.86
00:01:33.520 either something their wives taught them or their mothers taught them.
00:01:36.520 Um, and I, I don't know who this guy is, so nothing personal, but this is just a trend
00:01:42.460 that I see with the average guy.
00:01:44.360 They, the not all, not all when, again, that's really more of how women talk. 0.99
00:01:48.960 So this is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone's cool with.
00:01:53.060 But why?
00:01:53.900 Because some of us men like to cook and cleat and believe that's a shared thing.
00:01:57.860 So, again, guys, what does that tell us?
00:02:00.120 It's back to the egalitarian principle.
00:02:02.320 Men and women are equal.
00:02:03.460 And the question is, do you really think men and women are the same?
00:02:06.800 So Hunter Avalon, um, said she posted this as a W for her husband, LMAO.
00:02:13.580 Yet marriages that share equal responsibilities tend to last longer and be healthier.
00:02:18.920 And she responds like yours.
00:02:23.240 Now, I don't know.
00:02:24.320 This guy got into so much heat on Twitter and I, I don't want to say the ins and outs of
00:02:30.820 it because I don't know, but he, he recently got divorced.
00:02:34.160 So that's the funny thing.
00:02:35.780 Like the left will prod into our personal lives and just go on these witch hunts where
00:02:41.780 it's like, what, what does your personal life look like?
00:02:45.880 And, you know, uh, my friend who's been married like 15 years is being lectured by a guy that
00:02:53.060 just got divorced, how she should be, do more chores. 1.00
00:02:56.100 And this is where I come back to, you know, guys, there, there are so many, you, you can
00:03:01.720 find a study that tells you anything.
00:03:03.940 And it's because women and feminists have infiltrated institutions. 1.00
00:03:07.620 And a lot of these institutions were started by a lot of the big families that have an agenda
00:03:13.160 and do not want to see the family unit thrive.
00:03:16.060 And, you know, that's why a lot of times, while, you know, I will quote studies and left
00:03:21.740 will quote studies.
00:03:22.840 I really want to drive the point home that what do we see in real life?
00:03:27.240 Uh, do women tend to like the nice guys that just share the equal responsibilities? 0.93
00:03:32.420 Do they tend to treat them very well?
00:03:34.720 Or do women tend to treat men better that they have to work for? 1.00
00:03:39.200 Do women tend to treat men better that, um, it's more of a traditional relationship? 0.55
00:03:47.100 I mean, look around in the world, tell me what you see.
00:03:51.520 So Bree says another comment responding to my friend, Rachel, as a married woman, I will
00:03:56.660 say that you are wrong about what marriage should look like.
00:03:59.500 Husbands love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.
00:04:04.440 Do you see, this is why men, okay, this is why men don't even like religious women anymore 0.98
00:04:09.160 because they weaponize the Bible to control their husbands. 1.00
00:04:12.780 Again, if the natural order of the world goes, God, men, women, children, who are you
00:04:18.120 to tell your husband what to do?
00:04:20.860 You can ask, you can, you can give him your opinion, but do you, women are willing to submit 1.00
00:04:26.300 to your boss when your boss tells you something?
00:04:28.660 Do you quote him the Bible?
00:04:30.900 No, you just listen.
00:04:32.560 And, um, we've been told these egalitarian principles were equal, were the same when
00:04:39.440 that's not how it's supposed to work.
00:04:41.100 That's not what marriage is supposed to be. 0.92
00:04:42.800 So she says marriage is about sacrificial love on both sides.
00:04:46.420 That means doing something for someone else without being asked because it's the right
00:04:50.480 thing to do.
00:04:51.040 Even if you don't want to, your argument that you're, this man is justified when he isn't
00:04:55.800 being representative of Christ in his marriage is extremely flawed and telling, but it's nice
00:05:01.500 to know that your idea of a traditional man is a lazy video game slob who does nothing
00:05:06.780 helpful and is a dick to his wife. 0.98
00:05:08.380 When she asks for help, I assume that's why so many men defend you and follow you is because
00:05:13.540 your broken incel egos, um, tell them what they want to hear.
00:05:17.120 You know, it's funny.
00:05:17.720 That's like another cope that you see women say that we all got millions of followers and 1.00
00:05:22.160 views because they're just all incels.
00:05:24.800 You know, it's funny.
00:05:25.820 How often do we hear women whine about video games, but we never hear men whine about women
00:05:30.480 being on social media.
00:05:33.060 It's so funny because I think about this.
00:05:35.140 I'm like, I think the men are more supportive than the women because you see men taking pictures
00:05:39.580 for their girls, Instagram on dates, but you'll never see a woman like helping her guy play 1.00
00:05:44.200 video games.
00:05:44.920 And the other interesting thing is why is sacrificial love only the love that she deems 0.95
00:05:53.000 sacrificial?
00:05:54.100 And why is her gut reaction when a guy doesn't do dishes that he doesn't do anything?
00:05:58.960 You know, men do yard work, they fix things, they build things like men just do different 0.99
00:06:03.620 things.
00:06:04.440 And I think it's okay.
00:06:06.020 Um, and really should be encouraged that men and women have different roles in the household
00:06:10.920 that, that seems to work better.
00:06:13.440 Um, it's just, it's so interesting that it's like even the Christian women will weaponize 1.00
00:06:20.280 the Bible to control their husband. 0.80
00:06:22.600 But when your, your boss gives you a task, you don't, you don't say Ephesians 5 25.
00:06:29.620 No, you just listen.
00:06:30.740 But it's so crazy because they'll listen for money, but we won't listen to a guy that's the
00:06:35.560 father of our, of our kids.
00:06:37.160 So the comments have just been going back and forth and crazy.