Single Women In A Nutshell
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Summary
Rachel Wilson's tweet about her husband not doing the dishes goes viral and causes a firestorm on social media. Women argue that women should do more housework and men should do less. What does the Bible say about this and why is this a problem?
Transcript
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So, you know, one thing that Fresh and Fit and other content creators have taught me
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personally being in the space is that men and women have roles.
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You know, there's different roles for men and there's different roles for women.
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And traditional, I really think traditional relationships work the best.
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I'm not saying that no relationship can work if it's more modern.
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But, you know, in a balance of probabilities, traditional relationships where the men are
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providing, women are taking care of the home, tend to work the best.
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As you guys know, Rachel Wilson, who's a friend and commentator on the channel, had a tweet
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She said, in the 16 years we've been together, my husband has never done laundry, the dishes,
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And it's so funny to see, you know, men and women come and attack my friend Rachel.
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Um, because the way that she lives her life, she believes that men and women have roles
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and she does not believe that men are meant to do the dishes.
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And so, um, Phil says that is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone is cool
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So, again, that's more of a female arguing pattern.
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You know, you'll see like a woman's gut reaction when we say water is wet.
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So, again, it's interesting because you see men that tend to be led by women and it's usually
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either something their wives taught them or their mothers taught them.
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Um, and I, I don't know who this guy is, so nothing personal, but this is just a trend
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They, the not all, not all when, again, that's really more of how women talk.
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So this is fine, but it's not a flex and not something everyone's cool with.
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Because some of us men like to cook and cleat and believe that's a shared thing.
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And the question is, do you really think men and women are the same?
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So Hunter Avalon, um, said she posted this as a W for her husband, LMAO.
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Yet marriages that share equal responsibilities tend to last longer and be healthier.
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This guy got into so much heat on Twitter and I, I don't want to say the ins and outs of
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it because I don't know, but he, he recently got divorced.
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Like the left will prod into our personal lives and just go on these witch hunts where
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it's like, what, what does your personal life look like?
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And, you know, uh, my friend who's been married like 15 years is being lectured by a guy that
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just got divorced, how she should be, do more chores.
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And this is where I come back to, you know, guys, there, there are so many, you, you can
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And it's because women and feminists have infiltrated institutions.
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And a lot of these institutions were started by a lot of the big families that have an agenda
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And, you know, that's why a lot of times, while, you know, I will quote studies and left
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I really want to drive the point home that what do we see in real life?
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Uh, do women tend to like the nice guys that just share the equal responsibilities?
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Or do women tend to treat men better that they have to work for?
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Do women tend to treat men better that, um, it's more of a traditional relationship?
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I mean, look around in the world, tell me what you see.
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So Bree says another comment responding to my friend, Rachel, as a married woman, I will
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say that you are wrong about what marriage should look like.
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Husbands love your wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her.
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Do you see, this is why men, okay, this is why men don't even like religious women anymore
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because they weaponize the Bible to control their husbands.
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Again, if the natural order of the world goes, God, men, women, children, who are you
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You can ask, you can, you can give him your opinion, but do you, women are willing to submit
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to your boss when your boss tells you something?
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And, um, we've been told these egalitarian principles were equal, were the same when
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So she says marriage is about sacrificial love on both sides.
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That means doing something for someone else without being asked because it's the right
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Even if you don't want to, your argument that you're, this man is justified when he isn't
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being representative of Christ in his marriage is extremely flawed and telling, but it's nice
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to know that your idea of a traditional man is a lazy video game slob who does nothing
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When she asks for help, I assume that's why so many men defend you and follow you is because
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your broken incel egos, um, tell them what they want to hear.
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That's like another cope that you see women say that we all got millions of followers and
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How often do we hear women whine about video games, but we never hear men whine about women
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I'm like, I think the men are more supportive than the women because you see men taking pictures
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for their girls, Instagram on dates, but you'll never see a woman like helping her guy play
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And the other interesting thing is why is sacrificial love only the love that she deems
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And why is her gut reaction when a guy doesn't do dishes that he doesn't do anything?
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You know, men do yard work, they fix things, they build things like men just do different
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Um, and really should be encouraged that men and women have different roles in the household
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Um, it's just, it's so interesting that it's like even the Christian women will weaponize
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But when your, your boss gives you a task, you don't, you don't say Ephesians 5 25.
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But it's so crazy because they'll listen for money, but we won't listen to a guy that's the
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So the comments have just been going back and forth and crazy.