JustPearlyThings - August 11, 2023


Social Media Is Pr0n To Women


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

226.18407

Word count

2,383

Sentence count

206

Harmful content

Misogyny

17

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Hate speech

9

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about how technology has changed the way we interact with each other and the world as a whole. We talk about the impact of social media and how it has changed how we interact and interact with one another.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Like, do you know how to sew?
00:00:01.060 I don't.
00:00:01.680 My dad used to do carpentry.
00:00:03.800 My dad would build, like, bookcases.
00:00:05.660 Like, proper, not from, like, IKEA stuff.
00:00:08.220 You know, like, proper from original wood and stuff like that.
00:00:10.180 I mean, people don't do that stuff anymore.
00:00:11.700 Right.
00:00:11.980 Well, it's crazy, too, because we have the most information in human history.
00:00:16.360 We could literally go onto YouTube here and learn literally anything.
00:00:20.520 You could learn how to farm on fucking YouTube.
00:00:22.820 Yeah.
00:00:23.060 And people are like, nah, I'm good.
00:00:23.880 I can give you, like, an in-depth channel analysis.
00:00:26.940 I can do your thumbnails and your titles.
00:00:28.960 But I cannot sew.
00:00:30.000 I was like, sorry, guys.
00:00:35.040 But it's become this world of specialists and stuff, too, as well.
00:00:37.580 Because, like, you have to specialize and be, like, a niche expert in order to be known for anything at all and stuff like that.
00:00:43.180 It's very hard unless you've already been famous or, like, you were a niche expert.
00:00:46.440 This is what we tell people when we have students ask about YouTube.
00:00:49.480 We tell them, like, you have to hypernish into one coin.
00:00:52.620 And hopefully you pick the right coin because if it goes bad, oof.
00:00:55.320 Right?
00:00:55.540 But you pick a good coin, you do really well.
00:00:58.060 And then from there, you can be more general.
00:00:59.520 It's the same thing for everything else.
00:01:01.180 You hypernish into some industry, whatever the fuck it is.
00:01:04.440 You get popping and you get known for that.
00:01:06.540 And then you can start branching out.
00:01:08.380 Like Bradley Martin, for an example, right?
00:01:10.060 He's a super big, cool dude and stuff.
00:01:12.140 Was all bodybuilding and working out in the gym and now is doing, like, more of a podcast and becoming more of, like, an interviewer and stuff like that.
00:01:18.300 And this is what a lot of people do and stuff.
00:01:19.980 Like, I mean, you can start off, like, hyperniched into, like, game or hyperniched into, I mean, whatever it is, femcells or, like, school and then go into something else later on.
00:01:28.020 Have you ever thought about how, like, social media changes how we interact?
00:01:31.800 I was, like, watching, like, high schoolers from, like, videos of high schoolers from, like, 20 years ago.
00:01:38.220 I'm, like, wow.
00:01:38.780 I don't even know what the world was like without smartphones.
00:01:41.480 It's pretty trippy.
00:01:43.340 Like, they came for me in, like, when I was in eighth grade.
00:01:46.520 Right.
00:01:47.140 Like, I mean, I just remember, like, I remember being in middle school.
00:01:50.240 This shit was like, yeah, we didn't have any phones until, like, I would say, like, maybe the end of my sixth grade year.
00:01:55.500 And people started getting flip phones and stuff like that.
00:01:57.860 And then basically it was the girls who got the phones first and every guy ran to get a phone because the moment you got a phone, you got to get their number.
00:02:05.380 It was, like, there was, like, you know when Instagram first launched, everyone could get a super amount of followers?
00:02:09.060 It was that same shit.
00:02:09.980 So I remember, like, in my middle school, as soon as you got a phone, every girl would just give you their number and stuff.
00:02:14.620 And you're, like, fuck yeah, dude.
00:02:17.120 And then, you know, but that was kind of the advantage.
00:02:19.900 It was really, like, girls who, like, at least from what I've seen, that, like, made everyone want to get phones, basically.
00:02:26.500 Classic.
00:02:26.980 We just spend money.
00:02:28.120 Spend money and shit.
00:02:28.960 We just spend.
00:02:29.580 You enslave us.
00:02:30.840 Yeah, yeah.
00:02:31.420 We're like, dad.
00:02:33.740 But, yeah, we've grown softer because of social media.
00:02:36.020 We've gained a lot because of social media, but we've also been hurt a lot.
00:02:39.700 I mean, relationships, I mean, like, it is kind of weird.
00:02:42.440 We shouldn't actually know, like, the rich have always been rich.
00:02:45.360 They've always done fuck shit, orgies, or whatever the fuck they're doing, degeneracy, and good things and bad things, right?
00:02:50.100 Living in these great and amazing homes.
00:02:51.900 But nine times out of ten, you would have never seen it.
00:02:54.980 Or you would have seen a little bit, and that's it.
00:02:57.780 But it's being shown in your face every single fucking day.
00:03:01.200 You have these 21-year-olds.
00:03:02.460 They're showing off they have all this fucking money.
00:03:03.900 And, like, dude, half these 21-year-olds in Dubai are fucking broke in their line.
00:03:07.420 Or they're selling you a dropshipping course and stuff.
00:03:10.440 And very few of them are making money on that and stuff.
00:03:12.720 But you could, Charlie.
00:03:14.920 You could, right?
00:03:16.080 Right.
00:03:16.440 Well, and the other thing is, I was talking to this older woman about this.
00:03:21.180 I think she was, like, my Uber driver.
00:03:22.460 And she was, like, she was saying how back in the day, like, you would watch the music awards or whatever, and you would realize, like, that's not real life.
00:03:30.800 Yeah.
00:03:30.960 But the problem with women now is, like, we think that those men are, like, real life. 0.97
00:03:35.920 Because a lot of times, like, you know, average chicks have access to them. 1.00
00:03:39.480 Yeah.
00:03:39.680 You know what I mean?
00:03:40.080 Or, like, even, like, that lifestyle.
00:03:42.720 Yeah.
00:03:42.940 But she was, like, we knew that, like, okay, you turn on the TV, you go to that event, but that's not real.
00:03:48.380 But, like, now it's, like, we almost think this stuff is real.
00:03:52.560 Yeah.
00:03:52.860 But that's what's really screwed up, like, the dating market as well, isn't it?
00:03:56.220 You know, the whole thing.
00:03:57.100 And Rollo wrote his essay about this several years ago, talking about the global dating marketplace.
00:04:02.040 Because now, like you said, theoretically, you know, an average to middling sort of girl, if she's, you know, relatively cute, 0.82
00:04:08.460 can get dudes from, like, Miami or bloody, I don't know, the south of France or whatever, like, Dubai, DMing her and all of that.
00:04:16.640 And even if she doesn't take up those opportunities, because not everyone is obviously going to,
00:04:21.660 it's going to skew her perception of her value within the dating market. 1.00
00:04:24.340 So, you know, Joe, who works down the local garage, is suddenly going to seem less attractive to her, you know?
00:04:29.640 Because she's looking at these dudes with, like, the 12-pack and everything else.
00:04:32.480 So, unless you have, like, a really strong day game or something like that, or night game,
00:04:36.340 some of the best chicks are just, they're not even in your area anymore. 1.00
00:04:39.520 They're fucking out.
00:04:40.460 And I realized, too, I was like, wow.
00:04:42.940 And even if there is a girl that maybe, like, hasn't slept around, like, or, like, is really attractive,
00:04:47.460 like, all the things that guys look for, I'm like, the line for her is going to be so long,
00:04:51.200 and it almost ruins us having too many choices.
00:04:53.840 Yep.
00:04:54.400 Yeah.
00:04:54.980 Because there was a girl that went on our show, and she was, like, a 21-year-old, like, really attractive virgin. 0.76
00:05:00.360 And I was like, wow.
00:05:02.000 And I was just thinking from her point of view, I'm like, the line is just going to be so long.
00:05:06.860 How do you, like, pick one?
00:05:11.280 It's sort of like that reverse meme and stuff, like, there's a chick getting fucked, 1.00
00:05:14.680 and there's, like, a line, and there's one dude in a suit.
00:05:16.740 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:19.020 Except it's like, oh, you're trying to get the application here.
00:05:21.640 But, I mean, that is crazy.
00:05:22.540 But that is the thing.
00:05:23.260 I mean, like, I can't remember who said this and stuff,
00:05:25.680 but if a woman would just stay a virgin until 24, fuck you, she could get billionaires. 1.00
00:05:28.980 She can get all this stuff.
00:05:30.360 And maybe a tad much, but, you know, or a supermodel, you know, waits that long and stuff. 0.79
00:05:34.720 At least a millionaire.
00:05:35.760 Yeah, at least a millionaire or something like that.
00:05:37.300 But it's that sort of thing, you know.
00:05:41.120 And this all comes down to money, scarcity, you know, game.
00:05:44.440 There's just so much shit.
00:05:45.420 And, like, I really feel like most guys never would.
00:05:48.280 I mean, dude, the amount of stuff you got to learn as a guy and a girl is insane.
00:05:51.320 And then on top of that, like, it's kind of fucked.
00:05:53.300 Like, when you're really young.
00:05:54.940 What do we have to learn?
00:05:55.440 I mean.
00:05:58.120 I'm not a fucker of your life.
00:05:59.280 But, I mean, like, it's like, don't be a whore. 1.00
00:06:02.960 And we're like, we can't do that.
00:06:06.240 I'm built for this shit.
00:06:09.700 But, I mean, like, you know, I mean, I always say this shit.
00:06:13.040 Anyone on the 24 is retarded. 0.98
00:06:14.600 Right?
00:06:15.140 But, and I don't mean that in the worst way, but it's true.
00:06:17.420 But, I mean, you got to think about it.
00:06:18.780 You got a lot to learn.
00:06:19.200 Yeah, you got a lot to learn, right?
00:06:20.400 You got life lessons to learn.
00:06:21.340 And guys are super stupid.
00:06:22.540 I mean, we're stupid.
00:06:23.820 And those guys in their 40s are retarded still. 1.00
00:06:25.540 But, like, you know, we have time to kind of grow up.
00:06:28.000 And on top of that, I mean, yeah, if guys could just get all the pussy they want, they would 1.00
00:06:30.540 take it right away.
00:06:31.740 Right away.
00:06:32.700 But for women, like, you kind of have the cookie already. 1.00
00:06:36.060 And, but you're dumb still. 0.62
00:06:38.120 Yeah.
00:06:38.800 Well, and I realized, too, like, we're also, like, kind of the equivalent of, like, porn addicts
00:06:43.860 walking around because we get so much attention.
00:06:46.800 Oh.
00:06:47.220 You know what I mean?
00:06:47.700 And, like, yeah, because it's, like, we're all, like, and especially just doing this
00:06:50.520 show, I'm, like, we all say, like, the same exact arguments to each other.
00:06:54.480 And we all just, like, regurgitate the same shit we see on social media.
00:06:58.440 And, like, and I was just, like, we're basically just, like, these, like, porn addicted women
00:07:02.760 but, like, social media addicted walking around.
00:07:05.520 Right.
00:07:05.980 Yeah, because they want to be, it's like the magazine, right?
00:07:08.500 Like, back in the day when you were watching, like, Sports Illustrated, you're, like, ooh,
00:07:11.800 I want to be like that girl, right?
00:07:13.060 And that was, like, something to attain to because you have the media making that something
00:07:17.160 bigger than what it is.
00:07:18.580 Yeah.
00:07:19.020 And now we have social media doing that.
00:07:21.760 Facebook was the first time, right?
00:07:23.260 You're, like, I know that motherfucker from high school does not have that great of a life,
00:07:27.400 but he, you know, or she, right, basically paints a fantasy.
00:07:31.640 Yeah.
00:07:31.760 And that's now become, like, the norm.
00:07:34.320 Like, if you don't lie about your life on social media, like.
00:07:38.160 You're fucking up.
00:07:38.900 Well, people won't click on it.
00:07:40.340 Yeah.
00:07:40.520 Yeah, or even, like, I remember, I remember, like, the last time I went out with, like,
00:07:45.780 my volleyball team, I was just like, why do we have to film everything?
00:07:49.460 Like, why do we, or even, like, you just go to a concert, all the, like, I went.
00:07:53.740 Oh, like, not being in the moment?
00:07:55.280 Well, it's like, I went to the weekend.
00:07:58.960 They invited, like, my whole team to, like, go, like, watch the show.
00:08:03.080 I don't even really know much about the weekend, but the concert was kind of satanic.
00:08:06.980 I was like, what on earth?
00:08:07.740 I was like, what on earth is this stuff on the stage?
00:08:11.260 But it was so crazy, because we were in, like, the part where, like, the people that were, like,
00:08:14.980 invited to it, you know what I'm saying?
00:08:17.060 So it was a lot of, like, hot chicks. 1.00
00:08:18.720 Like, and these are some of, I was like, wow, these are the real nines and tens.
00:08:21.780 I've never really seen them before.
00:08:25.000 And I was like, oh, okay.
00:08:26.580 But, yeah, and it was like, they were all just on their phones, like, recording the whole time.
00:08:31.600 And, you know, like, I do this video stuff, so sometimes I'm like, I do not, like, want to be recorded.
00:08:36.600 But it's like women were just out recording everything, like, all the time. 1.00
00:08:40.640 I know men, like, some men, too, but it is not the same.
00:08:43.700 And it's not.
00:08:44.040 They're not doing it for business.
00:08:45.220 They're not doing it for anything.
00:08:46.060 It's just purely attention.
00:08:47.360 I think it's quite hard for dudes.
00:08:49.140 I mean, even for myself, you know, you put stuff on the internet and stuff like that.
00:08:53.560 But to remind myself to film stuff and to take photographs, I mean, it's just, you're just like, yeah, whatever.
00:08:58.080 It's not second nature.
00:08:58.640 Whereas you go out with a girl, and she'll be filming everything, you know, she'll be getting, oh, just take a different angle of me and videoing stuff and putting it on her social media, you know.
00:09:06.640 It's just, it's nuts.
00:09:07.620 Yeah.
00:09:08.060 And regardless of the size of their account, girls from very small accounts to big accounts, you know, they're just all doing it the whole time. 1.00
00:09:13.440 Yeah, and they're like, oh, you know, just go and kneel in the sewer and get that right angle, you know.
00:09:17.980 It's like, fuck off, you know.
00:09:20.920 Instagram boyfriends really bother me.
00:09:23.860 Every time, when we're out and about, because we see here in Vegas, you see this boy, it's nothing bad with a boyfriend or something or a husband taking a picture of the wife.
00:09:29.940 The problem is, is like, when you see these dudes, like, getting in the gutter.
00:09:34.560 Like, I mean, it's like, they're just, basically, she dated a fucking, she's like, she might as well just go date a fucking photographer.
00:09:40.560 What's she fucking doing? 1.00
00:09:41.800 And she's just using this good, because like, half the time, you're over there advertising you're a fucking female. 1.00
00:09:46.040 So why are you, why is she even on social media?
00:09:49.240 And the first, like, I can understand maybe a fucking Facebook or some bullshit, right?
00:09:53.080 Because all my grandmas are on there right now. 0.83
00:09:55.220 But, but like, but, you know, why are, I mean, why is your girl advertising herself?
00:10:00.240 So she can get that bag, ditch them, and then, you know. 1.00
00:10:03.260 Charlie, Charlie, you're just too much sauce.
00:10:04.680 Too much sauce.
00:10:05.080 Oh my gosh.
00:10:05.560 childhood.
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