JustPearlyThings - Society Has MANIPULATED Women's Divorces w⧸ @RealTroyFrancis @Theunfilterdpodcast PREGAME ｜ EP 154

00:00:00.000 what up guys welcome to the just pearly things youtube channel and welcome to the pregame out

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00:00:34.120 today we have taken on miami so to start why don't we go around everyone say your name age

00:00:41.700 relationship status and what you do for a living starting here and then going around my my name

00:00:48.160 is fanny i'm 21 years old i am single and i do sales what do you sell plastic surgery

00:00:55.860 shout out to miami my name is eric i'm 35 and i am a youtuber we have a podcast shout out to my boy

00:01:04.820 right there that's my co-host unfiltered podcast and uh what was the other question what do i sell

00:01:10.260 relationship status oh uh i'm taken and uh yes i'm a youtuber so there you go

00:01:15.960 hi my name is christy i'm 29 years old i'm a real estate agent in the state of florida

00:01:22.340 i have a pet care business called a pet's home away from home check it out i serve

00:01:26.440 west palm to miami i have a vending machine business if you need any vending machines i

00:01:31.580 got you right now i have uh an all drink machine available and a drink and snack machine available

00:01:36.300 right now and then i also do an online retail store so i basically buy and flip anything i can get my

00:01:42.160 hands on lots of businesses i was i was engaged for six years together for eight and um i've been

00:01:53.080 single on purpose for the past two years what happened to him um he seems like a great guy

00:01:58.600 eight years um he was a great guy um but i actually found out that um he was bisexual and i did not

00:02:04.400 like that so i love so would that be her fault then by your logic because everything's your fault

00:02:10.560 right so yeah you know it's probably science yeah yeah no no no no no he's actually really

00:02:17.620 like that's what i was saying how did you find out he's bisexual um i actually my phone broke 0.51

00:02:22.460 and my accountant called me for a pen to because he was doing my taxes and i had to go into my email

00:02:27.640 and asked him to borrow his phone and when i went to his phone um i went to go to my email he had a gmail

00:02:32.280 i had yahoo i went to yahoo there was already an email in there and i just signed in and it was

00:02:37.260 like welcome to kick your friends are messaging you on kick and then i looked at the videos and saw

00:02:40.940 what he was saying and it was just it was a it was madness yeah but can i see a picture of him i want

00:02:46.320 to see what i want to see if i could if i have my gaydar goes on okay okay okay go ahead hi guys i'm

00:02:53.200 rebecca j i am 30 i live in miami i have a transportation company in miami i am an only fans model

00:03:02.160 i also have a film company here as well fortuna i'm film house if you want to follow me on social

00:03:07.120 media it's at rebecca j live hi i'm ashley i'm 26 i'm a financial strategist and i'm in a relationship

00:03:17.640 troy francis 49 i am a dating coach youtuber content creator all that good stuff dedicated bachelor

00:03:27.740 completely single no women in my life no women staying my hotel at the moment at all 0.91

00:03:32.680 and um hi tiff and uh yeah uh if you want to follow me on social media at real troy francis on

00:03:39.620 uh youtube uh twitter and instagram

00:03:42.440 i'm hector i'm 30 years old i'm in a very serious relationship with a very beautiful woman

00:03:51.360 and what else name age relationship status and fun fact oh fun fact oh wait what you do for a

00:03:58.480 living what i do for a living so i am one of the hosts on the realest podcast in miami unfiltered

00:04:04.040 podcast and i help men unlock the ultimate versions of themselves and master high status

00:04:08.180 so today i want to learn about what is dating like in miami great yes yes wow there's no gaydar

00:04:19.620 actually going off very you might you mind i'm gonna i'm gonna give this to you she turned him 0.98

00:04:25.200 gay oh she turned him think about that you're such a bad girlfriend that your boyfriend went gay 1.00

00:04:32.720 what do you buy so he's yeah he likes both yeah does that happen no there's no such thing as 0.99

00:04:38.940 bisexual men you're homosexual no if you like does he look show him does he look gay to you 0.99

00:04:44.060 he doesn't look gay to me yes really what what gives it away what is it yeah he doesn't talk 0.99

00:04:52.480 let me see yeah yeah yes yes i'm i'm telling you look at his look come on jesus that looks that

00:04:59.760 looks great that looks crazy okay see that i said let me see i said the same thing but see do you see

00:05:06.400 but see all the all the men all the men could point it out so i guess this is why you asked

00:05:11.560 the guys the way we would look at it is i wouldn't hang around that dude yeah i wouldn't hang out with

00:05:15.520 him no i wouldn't hang around him just the way he looks yeah you would i'm telling you he's that

00:05:19.640 person now because you already gave it away that's my reason oh that's the reason why well i mean i have

00:05:23.900 three dudes i hang with i don't really hang around dudes anyway so yeah men know circle's really

00:05:28.820 small but yeah he he gives me the the radar oh man that's just good i can't probably probably

00:05:34.800 he's too beautiful wow you think he's too beautiful you're when a guy's like too good looking you think

00:05:39.820 he's too beautiful oh yeah when a guy's like too good looking they're gay yeah but he wasn't that's 0.99

00:05:46.300 what like he wasn't perfect how does it i don't know how does it feel that like us women are doing 0.97

00:05:52.440 so bad that the men are turning to other men to be women better thank you

00:05:56.540 men have been uh doing this for forever yeah now it's just more open because it's accepted like

00:06:08.900 that's why they're doing it more it's accepted by women it's accepted by no men don't accept

00:06:14.540 but let's not forget that women are going turning into men because women are more masculine than ever

00:06:20.140 nowadays in the west you're pointing at her but you gotta no he's making a good point okay but why

00:06:26.820 why are women more masculine yeah why why have they been tricked by what's going on in society with 1.00

00:06:32.160 everything that's going on it's trick no they've been put in the position on the feminist movement

00:06:35.900 but yeah i can go on and on all night for that okay i would argue it's because um women have just 1.00

00:06:42.540 decided to be men and we suck at being men yeah yeah yeah i don't think it's about us deciding to be 0.57

00:06:48.960 men i think that we have literally been put in a position because men used to stick around men 0.96

00:06:53.320 used to take care of the household no women leave overwhelmingly now now because they're not in a 1.00

00:06:58.460 position to where they need so so now already it's already it's men's fault we're only like two minutes

00:07:02.720 in and it's men's fault it is men's fault you know the men the men the men aren't hanging around in

00:07:06.380 the home though because you guys started leaving like in the 70s no we didn't well no we didn't we

00:07:12.740 didn't we didn't most divorce most divorces are initiated by women yeah so in this day and age 1.00

00:07:18.200 but men started creating single moms back in the 80s 90s where men started leaving relationships

00:07:23.080 what percent what percent of men create single mothers like have multiple baby mothers oh i'm not

00:07:29.760 sure i don't know it's funny it's funny that it's men's fault it's funny that is if if it's men's fault

00:07:34.520 it's because it's under men's control yeah so at the end exactly so at the end of the day you still

00:07:39.160 need men for it to be their fault that's what you don't understand you don't need men for it to be

00:07:44.320 their fault it's your fault because you guys are leaving the home you guys are creating you guys 0.98

00:07:48.420 create and if you don't need if you don't need men are the ones leaving men aren't leaving if they're

00:07:53.840 leaving see her argument her argument is that the reason a woman had to stick around in order to live 1.00

00:08:00.120 the life that she wanted to live because like she couldn't work that's not necessarily true like

00:08:04.160 there was um there were still instances of divorce even before the 60s i know but not as much as now

00:08:08.820 because now we're in a better position like there's there's right now there's writings who gave you that

00:08:12.560 position though the 1800s of women like of men complaining about divorce court it was just more 0.99

00:08:18.680 culturally shamed honestly and women tend to go with like what the culture does so it's not it was 0.98

00:08:25.380 really like imposed by society the culture religion and everything back then wasn't it and those things

00:08:29.680 have slowly eroded over time and now it's kind of a free-for-all so now we're in miami and everyone's

00:08:33.140 just partying and fucking each other and you know we're in this kind of cardi b world now that we all 0.88

00:08:37.420 inhabit it basically but no women are the ones leaving yeah so i think so i think it's women's 0.97

00:08:41.920 fault it's not women i don't i also don't think i also i would imagine i mean we'd have to check the

00:08:46.800 stats on this but i i can't see that it was always men leaving back then and now it's suddenly

00:08:52.320 majority women i think it was probably women who are getting dissatisfied in marriages even back 0.99

00:08:56.360 then yeah i think it's both but i'm saying a lot of men were not stepping up to be fathers that's

00:09:01.660 why we have so many women that are single mothers because men are quick to leave that's not true

00:09:06.400 women are women are they get what what is making the men leave like they're just walking out they 1.00

00:09:11.400 just wake up one day and say hey i'm gonna leave or is the women doing that they have too many 1.00

00:09:15.020 opportunities there's only only only 10 percent of men report having more than one sexual partner in a

00:09:21.360 year yeah that's what i was gonna say that so even even even if you even if you even if you

00:09:27.860 double it that's still only 20 percent of men like 30 percent 30 percent of men and um have said that

00:09:33.520 at some point in their lives they'd have they've had multiple sexual partners in a year but only 10

00:09:37.980 percent in a given year will say they've had multiple sexual partners but that was done that was

00:09:42.500 that that was surveyed um in the past year and it was over 5 000 men so it was a relatively large

00:09:47.240 sample side it was the united states yeah yeah see like i'm talking about like here in miami

00:09:51.980 like but in florida in florida yeah don't guys leave there's too many options they don't stick

00:09:57.040 around well but again but i'm saying that's like only what percent of men even father multiple kids

00:10:02.620 a lot most of them no no it's like 15 percent of men it's because again you guys are all swiping

00:10:08.240 you're all dating the same guys so that's why so it's like if you want a guy that's six foot what

00:10:12.900 percent of men is that 15 percent you want a guy that makes six figures what percent of men is that

00:10:17.100 10 you want a guy that's good looking what percent of men is that you only find 20 percent of men 0.98

00:10:21.560 attractive so a guy that's got all three that's five three two percent so so that's my point but

00:10:28.600 it doesn't take away the fact that men are leaving like men yeah but again you're looking at this you're

00:10:32.740 looking at this student you're looking at this through the miami filter again though because you're

00:10:36.440 saying oh men have got these opportunities and they're going to leave because they've got these

00:10:38.700 opportunities that is really the very very top percentile of men i mean like

00:10:42.740 five percent probably less than five percent of dudes have those opportunities a lot of those

00:10:47.320 guys probably do live in miami or maybe they live in la or new york or whatever but the vast majority

00:10:51.300 of men are invisible to women so the vast majority of normal dudes they don't have all these multiple 0.98

00:10:56.080 opportunities that they think you do but you guys don't see those men because you're not you know

00:10:59.700 you you're they're barely visible to you because that you're not attracted to them you don't think

00:11:03.080 they're cool so it's not the case for most guys no i'm saying back in the um 1980s 1990s men the

00:11:09.940 the family dynamic changed men started men started cheating a lot more they started not

00:11:15.840 even being they get women what what evidence do you have of that it's just it's just facts no no

00:11:20.540 it's just facts it's just facts everyone knows that like tupac even like wrote admission in one

00:11:27.240 of his songs tupac yeah tupac tupac tupac tupac hey tupac died tupac died at 25 his brain wasn't 0.85

00:11:37.560 even fully developed as a man tupac was young reckless and dumb that's why he got killed and 0.68

00:11:42.300 you're basing your facts off of tupac no i'm just saying he made a statement about it when because he 0.79

00:11:47.000 was back in that time okay what was the 80s and 90s um uh we're having a race of babies that don't 0.99

00:11:53.180 hate the ladies or something like that you're quoting a rap yes because back then the family 0.67

00:11:58.620 dynamic miss you're quoting the family dynamic was already disintegrating back then it's only

00:12:04.380 gotten worse over time that's what i'm saying you know you know why the problem though i'm gonna i'm

00:12:08.940 gonna tell you something all of this stuff is just painting a picture to lie to you and to make

00:12:13.940 to to create a gender war and make us think that men are the problem and really we're the problem 0.99

00:12:19.160 you know they they make millions and millions of dollars off leaving this bullshit like it's not 0.90

00:12:25.460 i've tried to save her for the last few months she's unsavable i promise you bro both unsavable 0.93

00:12:33.080 even if we go based off of facts right again this is a 2023 study or it's either 2023 or 2022 so

00:12:41.660 relatively new and they they surveyed 5 000 men only 10 of men report having multiple sexual

00:12:49.060 partners in a year so it's only 10 of men that are sleeping around like that no it's not she's

00:12:56.880 telling you the fact she's telling you a fact that she researched she took the time to research

00:13:01.560 and you don't believe these guys went on there and said that they just said it well okay okay i'll tell

00:13:07.780 you i'll tell you how we know it's a fact because you you use multiple data sources so then you back

00:13:13.980 that up with dating app stats where five percent of men get most of the swipes that that backs up what 0.99

00:13:20.300 the men are also saying then you find other other surveys that say the same thing in different areas

00:13:25.960 it's roughly 10 maybe some you'll find 15 maybe we'll even go crazy and say it's 20. can we circle

00:13:32.880 back real quick on when you said that most women are the ones that are leaving the relationship it's 1.00

00:13:38.880 not men do you have an answer as to why why do you think women are choosing to leave relationships

00:13:45.680 they get bored and they want to something else they want the next shiny shiny bright thing hypergamy 0.92

00:13:50.040 that is not choice you're failing hypergamy okay wait wait actually i want i want her to say that go

00:13:55.740 say that on the mic yeah yeah so why do you why do you think why do you think women are leaving

00:14:00.440 the reason why i think women are leaving is because back then women were put in a position to where 1.00

00:14:04.240 well men had set the life up to where they had more power women needed a man to live the life or 1.00

00:14:10.420 provide the life that she wanted now that women can provide the life that they want they don't have to 1.00

00:14:14.880 stick around when a man is being disloyal disloyal to you he's not being honest he's in and out of the

00:14:19.740 house and living life on his own accord okay also trying so so your your impression is that

00:14:24.920 50 50 of marriages fail right and on top of that if we included long-term relationships most fail

00:14:31.340 do you know the statistics for how long relationships last so so it it depends if it's if you don't if

00:14:36.180 you get married it's like seven eight years if you're in just a normal relationship it's roughly

00:14:40.640 three okay so so and your impression is that they are just disloyal men that are failing well no i

00:14:49.320 think it's just men before women were put in a position to where they needed a man more now we're

00:14:53.640 not in a position where we need it as much so we're so we're quicker to leave because we don't need them

00:14:58.500 as much so your first the first point is true because yes economically you don't need men because 0.72

00:15:04.840 you can women work and obviously there's government support and all that so that's absolutely true 0.99

00:15:08.720 the bit that i contest is the reason why they're leaving so pa was on the show and this anecdotal pa was

00:15:14.000 on a show recently on in in the uk and a woman on there was saying that there was this woman who was she was in

00:15:18.620 her 60s they'd been married for 20 years they had several kids together and then in her 60s this

00:15:23.480 woman decided to leave the husband and the reason she gave was well i've i've been like constrained

00:15:29.420 i've only been a wife and a mother all of my life i want to explore myself i want to explore myself as 0.97

00:15:34.020 being a different kind of woman that guy as far as we know wasn't disloyal that guy wasn't fucking 0.98

00:15:39.040 around you know it was just she was like oh the grass is greener i want to do the pray love thing 0.92

00:15:43.200 so i think you know my impression is that a lot of women are leaving because they kind of get bored 0.76

00:15:47.340 and the grass is greener on the other side i think that applies in some situations for sure

00:15:51.420 but i think in most situations when a woman is in a relationship with a man and she chooses to leave

00:15:55.940 that man the man has let her down in some way and she's and she's decided that she's yeah she's

00:16:01.080 decided it's better without him what is let me down it's relationships people will let you down all

00:16:06.200 the time i will say this and this is like my thing is you've never let someone down ever really are

00:16:11.480 you i've never let my partner never i i really like this is narcissism come on like never you've

00:16:18.080 been a perfect angel no you've been a perfect um do you know the personality trites the like the

00:16:24.740 no i don't care i'm asking okay you were perfect in your relationship yes

00:16:28.840 yes i was so okay that's the issue that's the issue with women today that's the issue with the 1.00

00:16:34.300 majority of women today is the lack of accountability so you're telling me i always told myself you did 1.00

00:16:39.140 nothing wrong in any relationship no i've only been in one relationship from 19 to 27 and i did

00:16:44.720 nothing wrong nothing wrong nothing wrong i got the ring i would want to i got the ring i'm the one

00:16:49.620 who chose to leave call him right now call him right now oh okay okay all right all right yeah yeah

00:16:55.460 oh yeah oh yeah i will say this i feel like people in general give up on each other way too quickly

00:17:02.280 when you go into a marriage if you decide this is the person that i'm going to marry then you do

00:17:07.700 have to see it through as much as you can yeah right and this is why people in the 60s and the

00:17:14.600 70s that did last long marriages they always say the same thing you don't you don't give up on the

00:17:21.180 person that you're with you just you know you just fix it you fix your problem nowadays because there's

00:17:27.120 so many options and because there's so many places you can go to get what you need it's like that uh

00:17:32.960 20 80 rule we don't have to settle do you know what the 20 80 rule what is subtle yeah 0.97

00:17:37.360 what the fuck what are you doing i need you wait i know i want her to finish what she's saying and 0.98

00:17:41.800 then i'll say it so the 20 80 rule is when you're with somebody they're giving you 80 because really 1.00

00:17:46.720 no one is perfect and then you go out and you meet someone with you you meet someone and you think

00:17:53.560 oh they're filling that 20 void oh yeah the person you're with is this feeling because yeah and so

00:18:00.040 but it goes both ways it's not just a woman it's it's on both sides it's on both sides why women 1.00

00:18:05.600 should not give advice bro this is why the only difference this is why women need fathers i'm not

00:18:11.220 first of all number one i'm not saying that i agree with that i think that people need to work things

00:18:16.220 out for as much unless you're being you know mistreated to the point where he's beating your 0.97

00:18:21.800 ass he's cheating so much that he's bringing diseases back home to you he's mistreating your 1.00

00:18:27.820 kids and the kid just any of those things that are obvious to everybody like that's wrong but stupid 1.00

00:18:33.200 shit like he didn't clean the dishes or he didn't help me with the trash or he's like those things can 0.99

00:18:39.700 be worked through and i feel like nowadays yeah i mean people in general what about if the sexism is good 0.98

00:18:45.860 because look we all know good point after a few years yes you know you know each other well the

00:18:51.280 sex starts to kind of you know usually are the ones to veer off first right not necessarily because

00:18:56.380 women get bored as well because that women will say well no i deserve to be satisfied i deserve to 1.00

00:19:00.960 have fun fun fact actually fun fact if a guy has a kid five percent chance it's not yours fellas

00:19:07.820 yeah dr david baker if anyone wants to source usually a man steps out for sex he wants the reason why

00:19:15.040 so does a woman i just gave you five percent oh yeah five percent chance she'll only listen to 1.00

00:19:21.080 the facts that apply to the woman yeah it's not yours five percent uh chance and it's that's on the

00:19:27.300 low end actually but some people that have estimated it higher but i think a lot of y'all opinions are

00:19:33.220 based off of just simple bad experiences with men it seems it seems it seems it seems as if

00:19:40.660 you've only you've only been with one man your whole life oh i had eight sexual partners i've only 0.85

00:19:46.500 been in a relationship with one man man that's a red flag yeah that's crazy you've had eight sexual 0.60

00:19:50.720 partners but you've only been in a relationship with one of them yes that's 17 to 21 um my first

00:19:56.080 two boy i had two before him he was number three and then everyone else has came after in the last two

00:20:01.600 years but you've only been in relationship with eight of the men that you with a one of the eight men

00:20:06.620 that you let enter your body yes you don't you don't see anything wrong with that no i don't

00:20:11.580 interesting um oh actually no my first boyfriend we were together for three years but i don't really

00:20:17.780 consider him an actual boyfriend because we were in high school i'm saying as an adult as an adult

00:20:23.200 i've only dated 19 to 27 i've dated one man but you had sex with him in high school um my first part

00:20:29.080 my first boyfriend yes after high school 18 yeah i think that you guys are basing your opinions on

00:20:34.300 just bad experiences with men because if you were to have good experiences with men

00:20:39.120 i'm not saying him specifically i'm saying with men in general okay yeah right not him specifically

00:20:45.700 you might have had a very beautiful experience i did i really did i really can't but then you said

00:20:49.780 he was bisexual and that's why that's literally the only yeah exactly a bad experience do you think 1.00

00:20:57.480 he was bisexual because i don't think a guy can be bisexual that can be bisexual you think he was

00:21:01.480 bisexual i'm sorry do you think he was gay before or after you i know for a fact he was gay before 0.88

00:21:07.740 me because um after i found the text messages i went through the house and i found a list he literally

00:21:12.720 wrote a list of everybody everybody he's ever slept with and there was there was a guy's name on there

00:21:17.120 before me his name was lando wow and i don't think you could just like honestly like one from one day

00:21:23.140 to the next be like oh i'm gay yeah no no he was for me i think and like actually um you said how

00:21:29.080 there might have been one red flag the only red flag that i can think of now after the fact is like

00:21:34.000 when we first started dating he talked a lot about his very best friend in middle school and honestly

00:21:38.900 he never said anything it wasn't confirmed but i think that was like his first love i think that was

00:21:42.700 the first person he was in love with was his best friend in elementary middle school i think he might

00:21:47.260 have been gay and then after dating you he was like you know what i'm gonna stay with men

00:21:51.100 let's be serious eric but no um and also i think a big reason why he was hiding who he was is because

00:21:58.280 his dad is homophobic and his and he my ex was 13 years my senior and his dad is very homophobic so 0.98

00:22:04.560 with having a homophobic father what is homophobic like he he doesn't they they talk shit about they do 0.99

00:22:10.800 not like fat people they don't they don't like it or they just don't accept it or they disagree with 0.99

00:22:15.760 it um no they didn't like it they disagree with everything like it was like they literally would

00:22:20.540 you know what phobia means yeah you're the fear of no strong irrational wait i don't understand it

00:22:25.560 because if i don't like the gay stuff why why am i afraid of it i'm not afraid of it i just don't i 0.67

00:22:32.720 i don't like it yeah no no his dad is homophobic he literally no so he has a strong rational

00:22:38.260 you're missing what she's saying like i just i don't think that's like if you don't

00:22:43.780 support gay marriage or any of that stuff why is it homophobic i guess that's what that's what

00:22:51.060 everyone's just labeled it as yeah that makes it seem like we're like afraid no but i'm yeah no but

00:22:58.500 i'm just saying words are important so that implies that like i'm afraid of it yeah yeah and and that

00:23:04.420 proves my point that we set off for air where i'm scared of gay people you know this man went to war 0.97

00:23:11.380 he wasn't scared of anybody i'm afraid of gay people he wasn't scared of anybody but he had an

00:23:15.220 irrational fear against gay people because that's what the word that people use so just because

00:23:19.460 they use it to be fair i think the definition of the term has been extended somewhat popularly now

00:23:24.820 yeah colloquially yes the original the original definition you know from the greek was fear of or

00:23:29.620 irrational you know story rational fear of however i think the definition's now been extended so people

00:23:33.540 are using it to label just just just general dislike yeah exactly but then that's not homophobic

00:23:38.420 you just don't like it but no i'm saying that i know but i'm saying that the manner the manner in

00:23:42.420 which people are now using the term has been extended yeah because you're using it wrong so that you

00:23:46.420 could say you could you could say that literally a gay couple would be walking by on the street and he

00:23:52.180 would like there's literally no no reason for him to say anything and he would say oh look at these 1.00

00:23:56.340 fucking faggots you know i love that though i love that people should be able to live their 1.00

00:24:03.220 life free of other people's judgment unless unless it's you and affecting you like if i was if i was 1.00

00:24:09.060 a whore and an only fans girl and you're trying to get to know me and you like it's affecting our 1.00

00:24:13.380 children though it's affecting our children you can place judgment if you if it comes into you and 0.99

00:24:18.260 it's miss miss miss but everybody judges everybody but everyone shouldn't that's what i'm saying no

00:24:23.380 no no no no i have to see it everybody thank you thank you no i wanna i wanna well sometimes i will

00:24:30.420 if i see it in public god no but i don't why do we have to like cater to them i don't know i didn't say

00:24:36.740 i'm not saying cater feel like anyone has to cater to your beliefs and well i they they don't because

00:24:41.940 i don't shove it in their face you don't want a big youtube channel no no no that people people

00:24:48.980 can choose to watch it or they don't do not do not do not but if i i think in general like if i'm in

00:24:54.980 public public no that's an affection or gross i i'm not really into i've never really been into the 0.96

00:25:00.900 public displays of affection in general but gay people throw it in your face yeah they have flags 1.00

00:25:07.220 dedicated but if there's two men walking down the street holding hands like

00:25:11.620 let them hold it well but here's the problem why does it bother you so much that you have to make

00:25:15.780 a nasty comment one day you're going to have children and it when you make it normal then

00:25:22.100 it confuses the kids thank you thank you when he gets when he gets no no hold on that that that it's

00:25:28.660 the in the schools then it's like all right the thing is it used to it used to be like what you did

00:25:39.700 in the bedroom was your business and nobody asked questions and that's my problem with it today is

00:25:45.140 now they're making it super public when it's supposed to be just like whatever you i'm not

00:25:49.460 going to go look in your bedroom i don't care okay but i just don't like it when they throw it in our

00:25:53.940 face okay okay okay so that's what i'm saying is that it affects the kids you're saying well why

00:26:11.460 why does it matter why does it bother you pearl why does it bother you because of the kids i'm saying

00:26:15.620 as two adults to a male and a female walking down the street and two males walking down the street

00:26:20.980 that it does not affect you there are no kids around there's no reason for you to be

00:26:24.660 be casting out a gay slur because you don't have puppies i can't tell you you don't have kids you 0.98

00:26:30.660 have puppies okay i have kids and public showing the public show of affection between heterosexual 0.96

00:26:37.620 couples which is biologically the way that we reproduce is looked down upon what makes you think

00:26:43.460 that public show of affection between two a man and a man or a woman and a woman should be accepted

00:26:50.660 like she just said she just said and which i agree with you i don't even think a man and a woman 0.78

00:26:55.460 should be showing each other too much affection in public i wasn't saying i wasn't out in public

00:27:00.100 or being too i'm not i'm not making an argument for i'm not making an argument for them to be

00:27:04.180 doing public displays or affection they do though oh i understand that but they have whole parades on

00:27:09.060 streets they have whole restaurants dedicated to them so much so that they're even putting it in the

00:27:14.100 school so much so that i think it's in california that if if your child goes to you and says i want

00:27:20.260 to be a boy and he's a and she's a girl and you say no you're a girl and she goes and tells her teacher

00:27:25.060 my father doesn't uh doesn't uh assign what would they call it uh affirm my gender they can come

00:27:31.300 and take my children from me so you're telling me we're having two different arguments no no no no

00:27:36.420 i'm saying that it all applies into the same argument because they're doing that right now

00:27:41.060 the new light year movie they had two women kissing i did not allow my son to watch that movie as much

00:27:46.420 as i love toy story they're putting it everywhere arthur uh mr what's his name mr ratburn is a

00:27:52.660 homosexual you're telling me that they're not attacking our children yeah no they are i'm not 1.00

00:27:57.140 they have a song they have a song that we're not yeah that's not what i'm saying yeah you're saying

00:28:02.180 that you shouldn't judge them if we openly judge each other on a daily basis on everything the

00:28:07.860 moment you see me or i see you i'm already making a judgment on who i think you are and what i think you

00:28:13.300 do and you're doing it the same thing even though no you are subconsciously no she's i don't oh my

00:28:18.980 goodness i know i don't you do it's biological i grew up in a gay household my mom was a lesbian

00:28:26.420 and i thought growing up that was my mom's roommate i never found out my mom was a lesbian

00:28:32.980 till i turned 15 years old that my i accidentally saw my mom kissing her partner and that's when my

00:28:40.740 mom had to come out and tell me but they were already living for seven years mind you they would

00:28:45.380 do everything together to me that was my mom's best friend i never saw no kissing i never saw no

00:28:50.820 affection no nothing my mom was so embarrassed that she locked me in the room with her and she asked me

00:28:56.900 how i felt about it obviously i told her how i felt about it that i wasn't okay with it that i felt

00:29:03.540 disrespected that i felt betrayed because she didn't let me know and what did my mom say it is not your right

00:29:09.380 to know so can i ask you a question real quick has she been honest with you from the beginning 0.97

00:29:14.740 how do you feel about gay people in general before just i wouldn't say they suck but they do okay 0.97

00:29:25.060 but do you feel like maybe the the reason you have this you have this the reason you have this this 0.96

00:29:31.700 outlook on on on gay people is because you have maybe that that distrust with your mom absolutely

00:29:38.660 not because i can go up to my mom and talk to her about everything my mom no you can't do you yes i

00:29:44.020 can yes yes i can no my entire life my entire life like your mom i love my mom okay so so no trauma

00:29:52.180 there is absolutely no trauma no no no so so let's traumatize let's let's let's let's have a lot of

00:29:58.500 no i don't why don't you guys believe her does what is it are you traumatized

00:30:02.900 no i am no i'm okay okay okay thank you

00:30:08.420 right listen yeah

00:30:09.620 with another coming if you how would i would have felt when my friends would have came over

00:30:13.700 seeing my mom and her partner kissing that's embarrassing 0.92

00:30:17.300 yeah and you are actually you're what's sexual now i'm sorry you're heterosexual yes 0.97

00:30:21.220 okay but isn't the whole argument here that this could damage you know the children yeah and she

00:30:26.100 was 50 i mean i suppose i guess you could argue they didn't started living together when i was

00:30:30.480 around because i came back from colombia around seven eight so they started living together around

00:30:36.160 that age when i came back they were already living together so they were in a very long-term

00:30:39.740 relationship bought a house and everything we moved to texas and i promise you i never saw them

00:30:45.240 in no type of kissing or nothing because my mom knew that she kept you she kept we would go out

00:30:50.980 out all of us together and there was no holding hands we would be in the car and there was no

00:30:55.200 holding hand i never saw no argument i never saw i guess you could argue they did the right thing

00:30:58.820 then so they were you know they were they conducted it in a way that it didn't affect have you got

00:31:02.640 brothers and sisters no i'm an only child okay so but they did it in a way they conducted it in a way

00:31:06.920 that you know kept it polite what you're saying they kept it private they kept it in the bedroom

00:31:10.260 which is which is right i guess well i mean that you know in the context of them having a relationship

00:31:16.020 she was trying to avoid me from having traumas and becoming a lesbian we respected a little more 0.98

00:31:20.380 yeah they didn't allow her to be confused so i have um i have a question so i actually i want 0.98

00:31:27.140 to bring it back to miami dating a little bit um so why is it why is the culture so shit in miami 0.97

00:31:35.300 what's going on here i'm from charlotte i don't know what yeah it's based off that fact that um social 0.71

00:31:42.660 media and um everyone has so many options and no one really has that um what they had back in the

00:31:48.800 day of everyone wanting to work it out and get it get it done everyone's so quick to leave because

00:31:53.620 there are so many options it's like you don't have to stick around for something that that isn't

00:31:57.680 completely fulfilling you and because it's easy to leave people do okay can i ask you guys a quick

00:32:02.540 question you can cover off at any time can i ask you girls a quick question because i'm obviously from

00:32:06.960 london i've come here quite a lot so i kind of know it a bit i've got i've got i got friends

00:32:10.560 i got i got friends here and stuff like that but is it would you say is it easier for guys to date

00:32:15.920 here or for women today here for guys or for girls is it easier for for girls to to find you know 0.54

00:32:21.860 guys here or is it easier for guys to find girls here it's easier for guys to find from the guys

00:32:28.080 perspective we would say so i've coached guys out here right i've got i've got clients who live here

00:32:32.260 and stuff like that and and we would say the problem with miami for dating there's obviously

00:32:36.700 there's a lot of hot women here 100 a lot of hot latinas and you know everybody else wandering 1.00

00:32:40.280 around however he knows exactly however lots of puerto ricans lots of colombians however um there's

00:32:46.920 also a lot of very high value men there's a lot of guys with a lot of money with a lot of clout with

00:32:51.680 a lot of fame with a lot of celebrity so that means for the average dude it's probably going to be

00:32:55.220 harder because these women have got all of these options would you agree with that to be best fair 0.89

00:32:58.620 i would say there's um a decent amount of high value guys but the high value guys want multiple women 1.00

00:33:05.320 they don't want just like each side and you guys are all fucking the same ones all time 0.98

00:33:10.740 i would i would argue i would argue that a lot of high value men uh exercise sexual discipline 0.97

00:33:16.680 yeah a real high value a real high value i would just say that the women in miami don't have the 1.00

00:33:22.840 anybody don't have the standards so everybody's sleeping with everybody right like because

00:33:27.240 it's so nasty in miami because women are just they can do whatever they want i can do whatever i want 1.00

00:33:32.980 body autonomy whatever whatever but nobody takes the time to respect their own body they would rather 0.99

00:33:39.660 have the fucking the high value men instead of just i have a i have a question for the ladies here 1.00

00:33:46.020 raise your hand if you've ever had a celebrity slide in your dms 0.99

00:33:50.140 right what did you so one two three four wow so that's okay okay yeah so did raise your hand any of

00:34:01.560 you meet him no okay i was actually on a podcast with him just the other day who who was it i don't

00:34:08.080 well he has a girl right now so i don't want to say okay okay it's fine it's fine you have to say

00:34:12.040 that's just celebrities that's not even included like british guys that underlines that underlines

00:34:21.060 my point because we've got a clear majority of the women here have had at least one celebrity 1.00

00:34:24.780 slide into their dms in miami right so what does that say for the average dude in the street who's

00:34:29.140 working you know who's working in public they don't have a chance exactly so you know

00:34:34.000 i think especially in miami i think that there's this thing that everybody thinks they're the main

00:34:41.220 character and and so it's like everyone is too good for everyone and so instead of getting to

00:34:46.980 know somebody and being like oh this is another human being and let me find out about this person

00:34:51.580 and maybe we have something to connect on everybody wants to be like you know what i mean oh you don't

00:34:56.480 have enough money you know what i mean like i mean that's a quality car i love toyotas i love

00:35:05.620 toyota and girls will go on our podcast and say they will never sit in a toyota no do you know what

00:35:11.320 i really i like hondas and then i fucking right up good mileage 0.96

00:35:14.180 i love lexus because lexus is very reliable as long as you like change the oil lexus is a toyota

00:35:24.680 i know exactly goes like what cars now i'm curious okay so what industries do women typically date here 0.99

00:35:32.160 like if you guys had to pick an industry like bankers bartending i would say the hospitality

00:35:38.100 like industry hospitality what about you oh me yeah i i like businessmen businessmen businessmen

00:35:44.320 i'm still trying to figure that out because i just came out of a seven-year relationship so

00:35:48.840 it's not like i'm out there looking for someone so i'm still trying to figure that out you're so cute

00:35:53.960 she's innocent you guys stay away she's innocent yeah uh i see that a lot of girls here in miami are 1.00

00:36:03.460 dating youtubers podcasters guys that own luxury companies uh cars private jets yeah is that a bad 1.00

00:36:12.440 you know the beautiful you know the beautiful thing about miami all these guys fuck you and then 1.00

00:36:17.020 let you go back into the wild it's so easy it's like pokemon trainers they fuck you and then let 1.00

00:36:22.360 you go right back out that's why i say a woman should figure out that's why i said a woman should 1.00

00:36:27.680 figure out what she wants in life and get her own money because when you have your own money you don't

00:36:31.760 pick a man based off what he provides for you you pick a man based off how he treats you that's just

00:36:35.920 what they do women don't pick men women don't women don't pick men the man what's the point of

00:36:42.140 relationships love love okay what is love for me it's someone that um mutual respect open communication

00:36:50.580 loyalty honesty it's just like having each other's back knowing that hey this is your journey in life

00:36:55.880 this is your journey in life let's do it together okay do you think love is a choice

00:36:59.780 yeah okay so i i think relationships are about family and duty that's what i think that's what i

00:37:08.740 think the goal of relationships are yeah so i i think the question when you say a backup plan

00:37:14.000 you know i think like what is your goal my goal yeah um right now i would be to find a partner that i

00:37:21.500 feel is like the other half of me someone that because my last partner he um he hindered me a lot in

00:37:27.400 life i would be a lot for even though i'm really good for 29 okay what for 20 years what is what is

00:37:33.900 hindered like he he like held me back like oh i'd be at the office and he'd pop up to the office and

00:37:39.480 start drama at the office and try and get like and you were just a perfect angel you never had any

00:37:44.640 i i came from a very small town i came from a it doesn't it doesn't it doesn't matter very strong no

00:37:50.180 no it does if you let me listen very strong family values i when i first came to miami i didn't know

00:37:56.180 what dating was i thought that when you asked a girl to be on a relationship you guys were

00:38:00.720 together it was just you i didn't realize dating is dating multiple people i've only been with one

00:38:05.680 person a very loyal person right and that made you perfect no i'm the pet what makes me perfect is

00:38:11.420 that i never did anything to upset him i never stepped out on him i never disrespected him

00:38:17.040 i've never heard somebody just claim to be perfect i'm not happy you just said it you said

00:38:22.940 i'm perfect because what what could i have done what did i do to make me unperfect what's not

00:38:27.040 what's not making me perfect but no tell me things that i can do that would make me not

00:38:31.860 you can what she's trying to say is that she didn't do anything outward but that can be

00:38:36.520 you can be oblivious to your own faults okay if he i if i was such a bad partner why am i the one

00:38:42.800 that bad partner okay if i was a bad partner perfect you can't wait nobody's saying nobody's

00:38:47.620 saying you were a bad partner we're saying that everybody has flaws everything has flaws so you're

00:38:52.840 not perfect yeah yeah and you'll never be a perfect partner i was in a in my in my relationship

00:38:57.580 my partner boasted about me to people he showed me off i mean i was in kardashian got showed off

00:39:03.520 three times yeah it wasn't it wasn't about my book slander yeah it was yeah it was more about

00:39:10.200 my books he always boasted about how smart i was the fact that we were business partners we were 50

00:39:14.880 50 business partners we literally built and destroyed and rebuilt houses together like we were a perfect

00:39:21.340 team if he did not like men we would still be together today but then if y'all was so perfect why

00:39:27.120 couldn't you look past the fact that he was not because i don't want to be with a man that's with

00:39:31.340 other men but then that's as simple as that perfect as you may claim to be what what then you're not

00:39:36.900 you're saying we're perfect we were business we were this we were this so if you are in a loving

00:39:41.720 relationship and correct me i could be wrong i don't know but if you're in a loving relationship

00:39:46.120 you and you love this man you guys are perfect you business this that sex whatever then you will

00:39:52.160 stay with them with their faults you will work through his sexual orientation no that that is a 0.98

00:39:58.020 hard could i just ask a quick question though did he did he was it the point that he would have said

00:40:02.300 okay listen i maybe i am bisexual but i'm with you babe so this is going to be it it's just going to

00:40:06.420 be us did he sort of say that kind of thing no no no so was it he wanted he would want to carry on

00:40:10.720 seeing yeah he would do it behind my back okay but let's leave him out of the picture you just said

00:40:17.200 that you've been with how many men 18. eight so let's leave him out of the picture why didn't the

00:40:24.160 other men work out my first one um my first first one was a high school relationship my mom took me

00:40:30.960 from my high school um when i was 17. just why why the relationships you're so perfect oh because i

00:40:38.860 wasn't trying to be in um like a long-term relationship you're telling me you were out

00:40:42.660 here fucking seven other guys there's six other guys um five five other guys you also said that 0.98

00:40:51.300 you you said that you were just you didn't know what dating and being together was yeah yeah yeah 0.98

00:40:55.560 you were dating them and they don't yeah was it exclusive um i was only exclusive with the very

00:41:00.560 first the first three i was exclusive with yeah and then the one the ones after i'm confused and

00:41:05.600 she got tainted by miami that's what happened no no in the last year i've been dating but i haven't

00:41:11.120 been dating for a relationship i don't want to i haven't been wanting a relationship i've been

00:41:15.160 wanting my own space so when i was dating it was just for me needing the physical attention like 0.95

00:41:21.060 the physical touch you know the penetrate yes basically dick believe it or not even when women 1.00

00:41:30.340 are independent they still need men that's just crazy yeah for sure do you say anything else like 0.98

00:41:35.640 is there anything else i say a lot i say a lot i i no i just i say it but i said i say the truth

00:41:41.980 i just think no it's people are look i mean people i think people are right to sort of it is a

00:41:46.980 bit capped to say to sort of imply that you're perfect in a relationship because nobody's perfect

00:41:49.920 you you probably didn't say not not one of them was your fault like not one

00:41:54.340 listen um nothing the last five i have not tried to um i have not tried to have a relationship with

00:42:03.360 them it was purely like i enjoy having time with you i want to spend time with you 20 yeah do i have

00:42:09.040 my entire life yes i do so you know if you 60 year olds are not if you if you hit 30 and you're

00:42:15.820 still single you're more likely to not reproduce than reproduce i don't want to reproduce it's not 0.99

00:42:20.340 okay okay well if you don't if you don't want to have kids that's fine but i'm saying it's more

00:42:24.980 likely that you will especially if you hit 35 and you're not married it's like a 15 chance you'll

00:42:30.100 ever marry so like statistically complete you um it does no it doesn't you know i would argue there

00:42:37.820 are some women that are too damaged to be completed by marriage not saying that's you 0.99

00:42:43.300 yeah but i don't but you know i i do think for most women i mean if you look at antidepressant

00:42:51.020 usage for women over the age of 45 when they're single and unmarried it's typically pretty bad

00:42:56.100 so yeah i would say for most women they do feel incomplete without a man well i'm not most women

00:43:02.540 um i feel very complete on my own and i will are we can i ask a question so for the rest of this

00:43:08.240 are we going to always argue the exception or we're going to talk to generality i like her

00:43:13.360 like me i'll be specific that's why we're talking about me just because it gets really confusing

00:43:19.120 because when we sit here and we say i i i i i i i well they were asking me direct questions general

00:43:24.320 general but she made a general statement i feel bad for the animals i can't leave

00:43:29.860 think about the puppies think about the dogs the cats man i'm being i'm being honest though they

00:43:38.800 did they did a study and they said that by 2030 most women are going to have animals they're not

00:43:43.220 even going to want kids anymore like they're all your animals hey even the rate of depression is

00:43:50.080 higher than it's ever been the rate of i was thinking about single mothers i think women should 0.99

00:43:54.820 be banned from owning pets thank you yeah yeah and i have a dog i get to keep i get except for me

00:44:01.080 thank you okay but why do you say that though oh because there's a couple trends that i see that 0.97

00:44:08.260 are quite weird are these these women doing shit with their dogs i've i've said this i said that i've 0.97

00:44:15.520 heard of this this is weird that's some weird shit we gotta stop oh it's a big thing there's some 0.99

00:44:21.660 men sell accounts on uh there's some incel accounts on twitter who are going about that 0.98

00:44:24.480 saying you see men are so despised by women they rather their dogs yeah yeah whether it's true 1.00

00:44:29.760 or not i don't know yeah no no i no there's some there's some girls that have gone to like gotten 1.00

00:44:35.000 in trouble for it it's like a thing there's there's girls that put like peanut butter in their shit yeah 1.00

00:44:39.980 yeah yeah that's that's just and these dogs do can't do anything but do it because well and i see 0.99

00:44:44.780 how women well and i see how women take i see how women take care of their kids so i'm like they

00:44:50.660 obviously can't take care of the dogs any better you know like i mean we look at the outcomes of

00:44:57.160 single mother homes are terrible but these dogs are going to be better it's going to have a lot of 1.00

00:45:01.700 okay question about plastic surgery in miami all right raise your hand men and women who's had

00:45:10.060 plastic surgery here raise your hand yeah obviously i got it i got a bbl he just came out yes yes he's

00:45:21.040 a girl he came out right now i got a bbl from her company really no plastic surgery none none okay

00:45:27.080 i'm surprised i thought it would be the majority basically i mean if you go to the beach there's

00:45:31.220 plenty of plastic surgery out there i didn't realize men got plastic surgery till i came here

00:45:35.860 i saw what did you get done i saw the first time the ab uh what's it called the ab thing

00:45:42.260 what's it called yeah i got an ab edging yeah i heard i heard that i saw that today for the first

00:45:47.120 time i just got a bbl i just got one

00:45:50.240 and he didn't get botched so wait did you i don't understand how he doesn't have his bbl pillow going

00:45:59.020 on right now you cannot be doing that but you you sell plastic you sell cosmetic surgery yes so what

00:46:04.200 what's the clientele like that comes um it's really good because in my clinic i cannot dispose who i work

00:46:09.980 with but in my clinic it's not like i'm like out here calling people it's just people that are

00:46:15.240 inquiring because it's already um a known surgeon okay it's interesting actually because a lot of

00:46:21.680 people will go to colombia won't they yeah we recommend not to do that because in colombia they

00:46:26.820 will take and dominican republic and all these um places will take more fat than where they're 1.00

00:46:33.260 supposed to and they will even end up selling your organs without you knowing so you come back to the 0.98

00:46:37.140 u.s without a lung or something correct me if i'm wrong but a lot of surgeons if you get your

00:46:44.020 surgery done in another country some surgeons here yeah for example so something happened exactly so

00:46:50.100 we we we ask personal questions like if you ever had a miscarriage or if you've ever like gotten

00:46:56.860 gone through any other surgeries and stuff like that and if you've gone to another country out of the

00:47:01.600 u.s to get surgery you cannot get surgery with her surgeon what are the most popular treatments for

00:47:06.800 women i would say i would say bbl and i would say lipo 360 yes but it's not as common as bbl because

00:47:18.300 in miami you remember everybody runs through that and most of the women that are getting surgery are 1.00

00:47:22.800 honestly black women so what what did you get uh bbl 360 anything else or just bbl no no botox filler oh 1.00

00:47:32.700 yeah oh yeah i do do botox okay shout out to party she sees all that shit not regularly but i do do it 0.98

00:47:39.460 um and hello i just started doing no one else no botox but i tried botox i thought we weren't counting 0.73

00:47:46.200 that that counts that's not plastic surgery that's just something i mean i is it that's not plastic

00:47:52.460 it's a cosmetic it's a cosmetic procedure i agree with it no i when you say plastic i was being like a

00:47:58.080 little bit when you said plastic yeah like plastic surgery what if what if a woman's attitude was a 1.00

00:48:04.240 cosmetic procedure i think that i think that unfortunately unfortunately women are quicker 1.00

00:48:12.220 to fix their body than to fix their attitude yes actually i'd like to go around fun fun thing what's

00:48:18.620 one thing you could improve about yourself me myself yeah everyone go around uh one thing i could

00:48:24.380 improve about myself in regards to just me as a person i think i could be more disciplined or

00:48:30.160 disciplined troy what do you think oh jesus christ nothing absolutely nothing no i i think i think well

00:48:37.380 i kind of want to copy him i think discipline is very important i mean i strive to be as disciplined

00:48:42.460 as i can and i go through periods when i am very disciplined other times it can go a little bit haywire

00:48:46.580 particularly with traveling so i would probably co-sign that i think i would say procrastination

00:48:52.160 i'm probably i'm an on-time person but i if you tell me to do something i will wait to the last

00:48:58.660 minute to do it i will wait what about you oh my god the list is long there's so many things

00:49:04.700 i would deter or not determination uh discipline eso mismo discipline 1000 i'm very very gentle with

00:49:13.120 myself when i'm like when i want to give up i give up i've gotten better though i've gotten a lot

00:49:18.180 better with myself um and yeah procrastination um and i think i would be more aware of my temper

00:49:29.360 what do you do you yell her um you almost put it up first he stood up first listen you stood up to me

00:49:38.360 so but you didn't stay enough to the other guy which was right oh whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa

00:49:42.500 i i i you throw him yeah yeah no what i've gotten better obviously i'm i'm older now but people

00:49:48.360 no i've never i listen as far as i would never ever put my hands on anybody ever unless i unless i felt

00:49:55.380 like i had to i'm colombian i would never ever ever i would never no no no no no when i was younger

00:50:03.540 listen when i was younger when i was younger definitely like probably i would be like yeah

00:50:09.380 not even because i like you honestly i wouldn't but i really like you girl

00:50:13.640 what a day what a day i've made my new best friends

00:50:18.520 i really have two friends when i move here yeah no and you know what i think i honestly i like the

00:50:27.980 fact that we have different personalities because i think we could really learn from each other you

00:50:31.940 know like no i think you guys could learn from me okay bro all right bro i haven't learned one

00:50:39.540 okay i said maybe hitting i think that's new but um but yeah that would be it that's it okay what

00:50:47.900 about you my hyper independence hyper and okay so how would you improve that um i guess because

00:50:54.640 all the things you've said have indicated you do not want to improve that yeah no no i just don't

00:51:00.000 want to limit myself because i've been limited before and i just don't want to do that ever

00:51:03.080 again what does limit yourself look my partner like i couldn't like me choosing what jobs to do

00:51:09.140 and when to do them and like just like he literally alienated me from my all my friends and he attempted

00:51:15.620 to do it with my family so it was just like it's like a really big difference in life so so oh why

00:51:22.940 all right how did he do that um okay he didn't like you a quick version so did he didn't want

00:51:28.560 you to hang out with certain friends oh any no friends he has to be there every time okay so why

00:51:33.240 were you with him for eight years we were great friends okay so when i first moved here i wasn't

00:51:38.160 from here okay so he became one of my he was my best friend you know and i didn't know many people

00:51:43.040 except for the people that i worked with and then every time i would create a bond with someone that

00:51:46.740 i worked with he would find ways were they guys or girls girls okay but guys are like too he didn't

00:51:51.500 like it either yeah but um girls it was just like he alienated and then my family um he bought me this

00:51:57.300 um magnet for the fridge and um when my parents were my parent my mom and my sister were staying with me

00:52:04.320 and because we always kept multiple households and because i always have a house for my animals so

00:52:09.360 that my animals can have their own house and then we had our house where we live and our families

00:52:12.920 were together talking to me like that yeah they get their own house that's why he left

00:52:18.240 he did not leave eric he left because you liked your animals more than you did him

00:52:23.820 he was jealous of my animals though he even threatened to kill one and every time he got 0.98

00:52:27.220 upset with me okay why are you dating crazy men this man sounds crazy it's only men it's only one 0.96

00:52:32.240 boy she's crazy no i'm not well we know but but like um what's the i think it was um the fact 0.94

00:52:39.920 that we created such a strong bond and we were like and i told you like i like when i'm in a

00:52:44.440 relationship with someone i don't give up like i'm a very persistent person that's the that's the

00:52:48.460 thing about me and i didn't want to give up the only reason why i gave up is because the sexual

00:52:52.320 orientation that was something that i couldn't get past yeah do you know what's funny you're like i'm

00:52:56.800 not the person to give up and then you said but i gave up i get it i get it i get it you know i get

00:53:04.240 well yeah did he not say because weren't you in a monogamous relationship though so didn't he say

00:53:09.420 so when you confront someone about this didn't he say well yeah but that's deny deny deny he just

00:53:14.120 kept denying even though i had literally physical proof of him in videos and stuff he would just

00:53:19.180 deny it and to this day i can literally well you he sounds a bit crazy he's a narcissist do you do 0.64

00:53:25.940 you believe you attract what every every man is a narcissist there in a way yeah there's certain

00:53:30.960 definitely for sure but for me i was young and naive and fell in love and fell in love with

00:53:39.880 someone and i just did not want to give up with them because i've always come from like my parents

00:53:43.700 they've been together my whole life they're still together right like family's always been strong

00:53:47.900 with me so i figured oh this is my partner there's ups and downs in a relationship let's work it out and

00:53:52.740 so that's what we did we literally every time we had ups and downs we figured it out but i i personally

00:53:57.920 just could not get over the man no i i get that but you realize like you're basically going to make

00:54:03.840 men of the future pay for the mistakes of your past because if you're you you you mentioned that

00:54:09.540 you were afraid to be in that situation again and therefore you always need a backup plan

00:54:14.060 and you always really a backup plan it's my path in life it's not a backup plan

00:54:18.040 okay okay you you mentioned something about being i can't remember the exact wording you said but

00:54:23.520 something about being very scared to be in that situation again and and my point was just it's

00:54:29.060 just making the men of the future pay for the mistakes of your past i don't think when you're

00:54:32.700 more guarded with men of the future i'm not really i wouldn't say i'm really guarded it's just that now

00:54:37.300 that i have my own life and i'm very secure in myself i get to choose and pick the partner that's

00:54:42.740 right for me based off love i don't need a man i want a man and that for me is two very big how does

00:54:49.520 how do women pick men usually well when they for what for in normal women when women based off what 1.00

00:54:55.940 they can provide for them no no i mean like when women pick for love do women typically pick well 0.99

00:55:00.540 oh i would say so yeah if it's for love if it's for genuine love and caring

00:55:05.980 no if it's for if it's for love all right in the last hundred years women have had more choice than 1.00

00:55:11.580 ever so in the 1920s that was actually the first sexual revolution and that was when women 1.00

00:55:16.160 basically got more choice than ever before in picking a partner would you say women pick better 1.00

00:55:21.640 now or they picked better before the 20s i think before the 20s they had better options to pick from

00:55:28.000 we do not have that many good options at this point you're picking the top 10 percent where you

00:55:32.060 to talk about no i'm not cooking no the man doesn't have to have money to be in my pockets

00:55:35.980 and said your guy has to make over 100k i said no you said you're perfect build your perfect guy i

00:55:40.720 told you my perfect guy but i'm realistic the guys that i've dated in the past two years they don't

00:55:44.660 make as much money except for like what do you think your perfect guy wants from you um probably 0.86

00:55:50.800 what do you guys say respect respect first yes i do i respect i'm very respectful um respect first and

00:55:57.040 i have an opinion no you could you can have an opinion you can have an opinion and not be

00:56:05.360 combative when a man when a man when a woman is submissive to her husband because you guys like

00:56:12.200 to say partner you're not saying husband you want a partner right when a when a woman is submissive to 0.99

00:56:17.120 her husband that means she selected him because of his leadership characteristics right she's willing 0.92

00:56:22.000 to yield to his authority because she trusts him and leading them through life just because he's

00:56:27.720 leading her doesn't mean that he's not going to consider her opinion why women have an intuition

00:56:32.880 that men don't have right but you guys have a role just because you're you have an opinion doesn't make

00:56:38.780 you combative and just because you're combative doesn't mean that a man is going to be willing to

00:56:43.220 listen to your opinion because at that point you're just arguing to argue you're not willing to listen to

00:56:47.200 anything that anybody's saying i listen to everyone you're no you're hearing us you you hear me but i'm

00:56:53.440 i hear you and i listen and i respond so what are what are three things what are three things that you

00:56:58.100 think the man that you want wants from you respect uh-huh submissiveness and femininity okay what does

00:57:04.740 submissiveness look like to you like not being combative okay but now you're just repeating what

00:57:10.100 i'm saying but it's to you that's what you want i don't want anything that's what men want no i don't

00:57:15.420 want anything i want you to be honest that's what i'm being what do you think okay what do you think

00:57:19.080 submissiveness looks like um like describe describe a woman's submissiveness uh whatever i don't know

00:57:26.600 like basically submitting to what it depends on what the man wants you want me to tell you what

00:57:30.660 submissiveness is from a woman power a woman's willingness to submit to a man that's where her 1.00

00:57:36.540 power comes from women can stop wars women can start wars from being submissive to the right man 1.00

00:57:42.100 right but you guys disassociated that with power you guys think that being like men is your power

00:57:48.560 when in reality being a feminine woman is your power the ability to submit to a strong leader is 0.99

00:57:54.440 your power men when a man loves a woman right he's willing to listen to her for example we spoke about

00:58:00.900 this the other day if i'm going if if i'm married right and i'm gonna go do business with another

00:58:06.680 married man somewhere somewhere along the dinner i'm gonna ask my wife or even prior to the dinner

00:58:11.920 i'm gonna tell my wife hey five minutes after we're done eating say hey let's go to the bathroom 1.00

00:58:18.080 ladies because i know how i know how much of his wife's opinion he's gonna take it's strategic right 0.84

00:58:25.640 it's strategic a man's gonna say yo he listens to his wife too much i don't need her around i don't

00:58:30.040 need her hearing what i'm saying or listening to what i'm being told so let me go ahead and talk to

00:58:34.160 him directly because a woman is very well uh capable of influencing her man we do consider a

00:58:40.900 woman's opinion but we don't consider combative women we don't consider disagreeable women he

00:58:45.620 always asked me like i said we work together we were sitting at the same table he always asked me

00:58:50.700 my opinion and actually he let me leave most times and see and probably because he probably because he

00:58:56.000 was bisexual men men men it could be no it's more than likely that's what it is because a woman 0.97

00:59:02.860 a feminine woman doesn't want to lead in a relationship i wasn't leading in the relationship 1.00

00:59:08.640 but in business i have my own mind he respected my mind so he did allow me to take lead because

00:59:13.800 women are terrible in business now you're you're running a business you think you're terrible at 1.00

00:59:18.700 um i'm terrible at a lot of things thank god i have men to help me did you yeah 0.97

00:59:24.140 i think did you see me set up any of this equipment what no no no what your name is christy

00:59:32.700 christy i think that you've just had very bad experiences with men and i've been miss pearl

00:59:38.360 but no no no no you've been in one relationship with a man but you've been with several men right

00:59:44.160 and i think it's a valid point i think it's a valid exactly i think it's a very valid point

00:59:49.220 what she asked you she asked you if it was such a bad relationship with the one that you were with

00:59:54.380 eight years what was it about you but you said he was a homosexual that's the only thing that's not

01:00:00.960 that's a big that's a big thing yeah that's yeah but that okay okay and her question was what about

01:00:08.660 the other five the other guy that i i've been on my own journey since i told you how he hindered me

01:00:13.900 no no because he hindered me he hindered me a lot in like because like he financially took over

01:00:20.900 like even though we were making all the money he financially took over i put myself in a bad

01:00:24.820 position allowing him to take care of the finances i left him with four hundred dollars in my bank

01:00:30.020 account and it had six or seven grand of bills each month i had to grind and when i was doing that i

01:00:35.520 was six i don't even spend that much yeah no i just and you know what hey christy and you know

01:00:42.880 what's crazy what's ironic that if you would have prioritized femininity if you would have started

01:00:48.380 operating in your divine femininity a man would have came and took care of all of that i don't 0.57

01:00:53.020 want a man to take care of it that's what i'm saying i don't want um i don't want to have to 0.99

01:00:56.560 provide oh no i don't want to have to bend mold or morph myself into being something you don't want

01:01:02.760 a man you don't want to i will submit to the right you don't want to i will submit to the right man

01:01:07.680 you don't want to submit you don't want to be led and you don't want to respect i do

01:01:11.940 which is why what pearl is saying is that you're going to make every guy pay for your ex's mistake 0.83

01:01:17.660 you're already doing it you're already understand it i know i'm listening very carefully to what

01:01:23.940 two years two years ago yeah yeah are you trying to put a time stamp on my healing journey

01:01:34.340 yeah i think we should start yeah actually no i want to answer this question no i i want to answer

01:01:41.540 this question yes yes because i've done i've done 150 shows uh plus i've interviewed probably roughly

01:01:50.680 a thousand people and i'm so fucking sick of hearing about healing but you need to heal 0.95

01:01:57.300 no no no no no no if you let me let me let me i need you to finish i need you to let me finish so

01:02:03.380 i'm tired of hearing about two things healing and trauma ladies it's time to take the l and get over 0.99

01:02:10.160 it it's time to yes yes yes i'm tired of hearing about the abusive ex i'm tired of hearing about the

01:02:18.220 toxic ex you know what our grandmothers our great grammar grandmothers took l's and moved on they 1.00

01:02:26.680 didn't cry for years but that's what i did i moved on i've got you had sex christy christy yo but you 0.97

01:02:35.340 i'm gonna give you six months six months there's your healing jumping from relationship relationship 0.96

01:02:42.080 within six months you're not really healing and you're the one that's actually taking

01:02:45.440 i'll give you eight five christy but after but after that relationship in two years you've had

01:02:51.720 six bodies five five bodies that's a lot of healing right there that's that's a lot of healing right

01:02:57.720 i would argue that i would argue that that's a lot of destruction how are you healing by allowing a

01:03:03.820 man five different men to enter your body in two years if you're supposed to be healing that doesn't

01:03:09.580 make sense i'm he like when i said healing journey is time for myself for time for me to figure out

01:03:15.320 what i wanted in life no i understand what he's saying 100 percent um you understand english but

01:03:21.020 you're not understanding what i'm saying what i'm saying if you were truly healing yourself and it

01:03:25.520 truly took you two years you wouldn't even allow another man to enter your body you're not understanding 0.94

01:03:30.380 how powerful that is no how much of what i'm saying is that i have needs just like you have needs you 0.99

01:03:36.400 which is why you have a girlfriend but you fuck other girls together so so physical needs that 0.97

01:03:41.860 need to be now let me ask and i chose my partners what has more value in your opinion a physical need 0.99

01:03:48.020 or the need to heal yourself both i've been in miami for seven days you guys not everyone thinks like

01:03:57.340 that do not think that women in all women in miami thinks like that no no no no that that's crazy

01:04:02.080 okay i want to go back to the self-improvement what do you think you could do to improve yourself

01:04:08.460 because thank you perfect yeah yeah she's perfect yeah uh yeah i would just say patience for me

01:04:13.820 patience yeah that's what i was gonna say too i can be pretty impatient yeah patience

01:04:17.900 um i would say i would stop procrastinating and by being more disciplined you just said

01:04:25.340 everything they said no yeah but when she came up to it i was like oh that was i was just gonna

01:04:29.460 procrastinate a lot okay so you said not all miami girls are like that so i want to actually go to

01:04:34.680 the next question you know what is the average body count for a woman that lives in miami you guys 0.98

01:04:40.800 think now i'm gonna i'm gonna let you i'm gonna start here and then go around the average body count yeah

01:04:46.960 the average let's let's say a 25 year old woman let's say 25 i would say five probably 1.00

01:04:53.960 in miami like in miami oh no i would say like you and me girls are 25 with 35 body counts so the average

01:05:01.700 15 20 15 20 okay nice yeah okay so not being nice but being honest a good 30 30 okay uh miami women 1.00

01:05:13.080 are born with 10 bodies and uh a 25 year old probably has around 30 to 40 bodies but yeah jesus

01:05:21.080 um that's on the that's on the on the nice side by the way i've had girls come on a podcast say they 1.00

01:05:27.980 fuck 200 guys in one year so that's crazy yeah they're not the average right i'd imagine that 0.76

01:05:33.780 but it is but it is more calm it is becoming more common so i'm i'm thinking like you meet a normal 0.99

01:05:38.920 25 year old chick in miami it's safe to assume she's fucked yeah 30 40 body 30 40 okay i would say 20 0.99

01:05:45.840 to 30 20 to 30. yeah i'm 26 but i don't have that many well i'm just gonna go i'll ever ask 0.99

01:05:54.460 but i mean maybe you guys probably know better than this they're starting young to be fair i just

01:05:59.940 got it so there's i have three and how many bodies do you have eight okay and how old are you 26 so

01:06:06.060 i have the same amount of bodies as someone who's younger than me well i would say that

01:06:10.300 my particular situation very open wow my particular situation i only the people i had sex with i was

01:06:16.320 and heading towards relationships with heading towards

01:06:20.620 okay a.k.a healing stage no no i'm not saying anything about healing so you had even you had

01:06:30.580 you had adults we understand you had a this is what i mean heading towards because when i talk to a guy

01:06:35.080 so i can say when you whoa what's your body count what's your body count well like he says when you talk

01:06:40.820 to somebody when you date somebody you date with the intentions to marry to do that yeah i would say i did

01:06:45.700 that when i dated a guy and if you took some l's i took some l's you took a lot of ll's how many

01:06:51.340 how many were you in a relationship with well i was actually i was actually in four relationships

01:06:55.540 um what's the longest one my longest relationship was two years okay oh well no i'm in my longest 0.99

01:07:01.260 relationship this one's three that pussy was getting a little warm this is three i almost forgot 1.00

01:07:05.500 about this i'm sorry babe i almost forgot about this relationship three okay and this is why the 0.99

01:07:10.600 father is important in the house i'm just curious the the whole you guys are saying your body

01:07:15.560 counts and stuff you realize you're gonna have like kids someday they're they could watch this

01:07:20.300 yeah yeah probably probably i'm like i'm just very i'm like very forthcoming all right i mean like you

01:07:26.720 guys said the average 25 year old yes probably does have they're starting young these kids are i'm a 0.89

01:07:32.040 high school cheerleading coach yeah they're 16 year olds i understand they're 12 fucking so yeah so 0.97

01:07:37.480 the average 25 year old now does have 25 but i i didn't start having sex until i was 18. same same 0.91

01:07:45.060 so it's like different and i and i will say i did have a like a stage where i broke up with a

01:07:50.500 boyfriend got too crazy but then i ended up back into a relationship and then that's when i started

01:07:54.700 right so um back to all right situationships i wait so where are we actually we're gonna that's

01:08:02.880 gonna be my next question everyone's at like 25 ish 30 or saying you said 50 what'd you say the

01:08:09.020 average i've just been in miami for like seven days so i wouldn't know but i mean if i were to guess

01:08:12.740 probably around 15 20 25 maybe yeah so let's talk about situationships all right um is a situationship

01:08:22.140 but a talking stage the same thing no no i think a situationship is when you're actually physically

01:08:27.700 you're doing stuff isn't it whereas the talking phase is with no strings attached is that a

01:08:33.080 situation yes yes yes yes from my understanding because i have a friend who says she's in a

01:08:38.180 situationship it's they don't know if they want to be together so they're together but they're not

01:08:44.340 together yeah yeah and then but they don't want to know if each other is sleeping with somebody else 0.78

01:08:51.420 yeah all right it's like an oblivious i just want to break down because i just hear all these

01:08:55.660 terms so we're going to go situations she's going to make another pyramid yeah no this is good this

01:09:00.200 is well yeah okay entanglement pearly's losing brain cells right now bro all right i believe it

01:09:07.320 i've never been in a situationship well well i we know what guys i'm actually gonna i'm actually

01:09:14.040 dating okay very nice to meet you guys i want everyone to be involved in this because i hear

01:09:28.460 all these i always ask women and and this is more very nice to meet you very nice to meet you 0.69

01:09:34.600 catholics right yeah damn ladies where'd you find this i just yeah so okay so we have so i always 1.00

01:09:48.040 when i start shows oftentimes i get very vague answers i say are you guys in a relationship are 0.98

01:09:55.020 you seeing someone and so we get situationship entanglement complicated dating seeing someone

01:10:03.260 let's define this someone is dating yeah right isn't that the same well

01:10:08.620 let's be honest but a situation is as well no situationship is like me and you are dating and 0.74

01:10:17.640 then you can control me but i can't control you but we're only fucking what is that what it is 0.99

01:10:23.100 i mean i just came out of that i saw that's like a situationship it's a whole mess 0.86

01:10:28.480 no situationship is what she's right that way

01:10:31.040 no when you say i'm seeing someone it's just like you're just meeting up with a guy

01:10:38.640 like you guys can't get your own issues together to say you're together okay okay so

01:10:44.000 to control the woman and the woman feels the need to control that without being anything 0.99

01:10:47.620 if i said i'm in a situationship what would you guys assume i'd assume you've seen some dudes but

01:10:54.180 it wasn't confirmed yet what the you know we're not together we're not boyfriend and girlfriend

01:10:57.860 you're probably you're having sex but it's not okay that's it you know so yeah so 0.73

01:11:02.100 so you're kind of seeing each other but it's not defined as anything you give each other the

01:11:06.320 situation because like she said there's some strings attached but it's like

01:11:11.840 okay so a situationship bucking but not defined uh no no no i would say a situationship is where

01:11:19.200 you give each other the boyfriend and girlfriend experience but there's no title okay so are they

01:11:23.520 sleeping with other people both of them usually they might they might be but okay so not always

01:11:29.200 i have a question in a sit in a typical situation ship in a typical situation ship is the girl sleeping

01:11:35.920 with someone else they might they might be they might raise your raise your hand if you think the

01:11:41.520 girl is sleeping with someone else yes this we're in miami okay raise your hand if the boy is sleeping

01:11:47.920 with someone else but they're like each other's favorites yes yeah okay so they don't they're each

01:11:53.920 other's mean they don't communicate they don't they're not going to talk about the others that's

01:11:57.760 important can i explain entanglement because this one's a good one okay so yeah you wanted to bring 0.90

01:12:01.600 up so if i said i'm in an entanglement does that mean i'm screwing a 19 year old like jada no no 1.00

01:12:08.960 an entanglement means when you are in a kind of like a relationship and then there's somebody else

01:12:15.920 that you're also interested in and you guys kind of play flirt and maybe you do something but it's like

01:12:21.920 it's an entanglement so it's like the feelings are here and over there and then so it's like we're

01:12:27.440 friends okay are we are we having are we wait it's when multiple people kind of have okay i need

01:12:33.280 to all right let's let's break this down so so if it's me if i'm in an entanglement am i sleeping

01:12:39.440 with somebody you could be am i or not i'm trying to define yes you could be yes okay so i'm sleeping

01:12:45.040 with one person but then i have feelings for another right okay that's an entanglement yeah like

01:12:49.920 say you're you're in a relationship with this guy okay troy mr troy here and then you meet him

01:12:57.120 and you kind of like him too and you guys flirt and maybe have sex you're still like okay so two guys

01:13:04.480 two guys at once or vice versa or vice versa yeah but feelings but feelings for both but what would you

01:13:12.240 say that he she could be she could also be sort of in the in the talking phase with him though couldn't

01:13:17.040 yes because she might be if i was the mate she might be like say you're dating multiple people 0.84

01:13:22.960 yeah but you're not being very forward coming with is it is it more like so is it more like a

01:13:29.680 situation is it more like a situation ship where it's like okay we're these two are the mains but

01:13:33.920 maybe we're sleeping around but it doesn't mean anything whereas this one it's a bit more like okay

01:13:37.600 she's the main but maybe i'm seeing her over here a bit and there's something a bit more serious here

01:13:42.240 as well all of your options basically yeah okay these sound really similar no to be honest this

01:13:48.880 sounds this situationship and entanglement kind of sounds the same to me no but situationship you're

01:13:55.040 not doing that with a bunch of people we just said we just said they were we just raised our hands and

01:14:00.320 they said i mean it's possible yeah yeah okay so situationships are to someone two people who don't

01:14:06.160 want to commit to each other for whatever reason but they're still getting together like right

01:14:09.760 girlfriend and girlfriend right entanglement they're dating someone and cheating basically

01:14:13.760 and they're just not being honest with each other okay so it's complicated complicated means they're

01:14:20.480 it's complicated it's easy we wouldn't be able to define it right i would say complicated would be like

01:14:26.400 you guys are both like you and him are just like having sex but you guys don't want to be together 0.76

01:14:31.760 okay what is weird like you make everybody all right all right all right but these but these all sound 0.99

01:14:36.960 exactly the same they're not because it's a bunch of bullshit yeah yeah he's got a point but isn't 0.92

01:14:43.360 isn't it's complicated the kind of thing you say when you don't really know what the deal is so you

01:14:48.400 know you'll be seeing somebody but you don't really know what their deal is you don't know if they

01:14:51.440 really like you so when somebody your friend asks you okay so what's are you seeing somebody you go

01:14:55.360 well it's complicated because you don't really know what she thinks what about what

01:14:58.640 it's an excuse for you to be able to do whatever you want all of these are an excuse okay okay

01:15:03.360 it's fine we're gonna we're gonna go through i just want to get these okay dating if i say i'm

01:15:08.160 dating someone is that my boyfriend yeah i think that's exclusive dating is like we're really because

01:15:14.160 when someone says they're dating i don't assume they have a boyfriend or a girlfriend

01:15:18.800 i would think they're like going on this is what i would think i would think they're like going on

01:15:23.040 dates like maybe maybe yeah yeah yeah that's what i would think would you disagree yes before

01:15:31.600 tonight did you know any of this uh not really no yeah i'm making it up i don't think men really know

01:15:36.960 this yeah but you some people some people will say you find out some some people will say dating around

01:15:43.120 though they'll say yeah i'm dating around and that will indicate you know there's three different

01:15:46.320 dating around is different than dating oh okay i think for men is different like i think for men

01:15:51.120 it's either we're taking her seriously or we're not yeah i would agree yeah that's really all that

01:15:55.600 comes down to here okay seeing someone that's like dating that's dating that's all right all right

01:16:02.160 i'm going to put entanglement complicated and situationship is the same thing and dating and

01:16:07.360 seeing someone is the same thing you can put dating as um you're dating multiple people and you're

01:16:11.520 going around you're looking for a partner and then seeing someone goes down with all of these

01:16:15.600 okay okay so let's let's talk about in miami all right in miami in miami if you want to get into

01:16:25.280 a real relationship what's the process like here you move yeah that's right yeah so if you okay yeah

01:16:35.920 i mean you have you have a boyfriend i left out yeah yeah okay but like uh how long are you in a

01:16:42.880 situationship until your boyfriend and girlfriend situationship and you're on a timeline sir

01:16:51.280 because you're not about to play no i'm not talking about you the average oh

01:16:56.720 you don't got friends you don't they don't tell you about their lives she's been in this

01:16:59.840 situation for like five years yeah that's terrible so i just i don't know i really don't know oh wow

01:17:04.640 i just can't get it together what do you mean but he doesn't want to commit right no yeah it's him

01:17:09.920 like he does the same thing sorry oh sorry um yeah like i it's like a pattern from what i've seen so

01:17:18.800 like they're together they're perfect they're enjoying each other and then like after two months

01:17:23.840 i don't want to commit anymore and then they don't talk for two months and then they start over again

01:17:27.840 but who do you think is the one that's initiating that because generally women are not going to sit 1.00

01:17:32.720 there and ask a guy to marry them i mean nowadays it's weird but you guys aren't worth committing

01:17:37.520 to i'm gonna be honest with you guys there's a lot of people in general it's different because

01:17:42.720 because we have so many options that we don't just want to stick to one well that's why i said you move

01:17:47.280 you leave my if you want but you should okay to stick okay so there are no men in miami that want to

01:17:53.840 start family oh yeah um there's no men or women that don't want to start family there's no men or

01:18:00.400 women it's like risky okay okay but let's go back to my question how long of a situationship talking

01:18:07.280 phase till let's let me ask the men how long of a situationship talking phase are you going to do

01:18:13.520 before dating a chick me personally i don't i don't do it i've had four relationships my whole life

01:18:20.240 and i'm 35 so i'm very intentional when i date but most guys i i see that they're not like that

01:18:27.440 and to be fair i just moved down here from maryland and the women in miami please don't come here guys 1.00

01:18:33.680 passport bros all day long do not come to miami even though even the ones that aren't from miami end

01:18:39.360 up just like the girls from miami i've seen it personally yes just not all of the girls majority

01:18:44.880 majority majority majority listen your lifestyle you go out all the time i see your stories listen

01:18:51.840 they all end up the same you can bring a girl from texas to miami give her five six months i swear to 1.00

01:18:57.600 god the amount of options that she has over here she's gone yeah she's gone yo yo i have girls that 1.00

01:19:03.200 come to my podcast we're here for the weekend i see them after they leave getting fucked i'm telling 0.99

01:19:11.120 you it happens all the time yeah all the time but that just goes back to standards nobody in miami 0.97

01:19:15.440 has standard because everybody that just well the women have standards don't they because they're 1.00

01:19:19.120 not the guy from public i agree well wait okay so so let's go back to the question oh six months

01:19:27.680 situationship till relationship one year three months it's like three months three months but

01:19:35.600 wouldn't that just be the talking phase no okay no okay okay how long from meeting

01:19:43.600 to relationship oh mate but it depends what your outcome is though because for me personally i'm not

01:19:48.320 you know i'm i'm sort of different to to what he's saying i mean i'm not really looking for something

01:19:52.960 serious because i'm jaded so for me i keep i keep that you know so i quite like the why are you jaded

01:19:59.840 man because i've been in big cities too long and i've seen i've seen how that you know all this stuff

01:20:03.920 operates and so you know i'm i'm kind of enjoying the decline you know so i'm i keep the talking

01:20:08.960 phase going for as long as possible because i don't necessarily want to define it have you you've

01:20:14.400 been you've been in relationships though i have been in relationships but even my say my ex-girlfriend

01:20:19.040 yeah i was with for about i mean in total we were together for three years okay but the first at least

01:20:23.600 a year of that was what you would call a situation really so you're very yeah very very did was she like

01:20:30.000 pushy about it at all she she was a bit yeah the re but the reason i liked her was because she was 0.99

01:20:35.600 less pushy about it than some of the others because you know when they get pushy you know what i was

01:20:39.120 trying to explain the other yeah yeah they're trying to when they're trying to force it it turns you

01:20:44.160 off yeah and she was actually she was sort of she was letting me be as well and so then slowly over

01:20:49.920 time we got closer together and then it became and i realized you know she was great and i wanted to be

01:20:54.320 with her so what happened um see i see i see that i see the sparkle in your eye a little bit when you

01:21:01.680 talk about her i like you you like yeah like she was the one that got away i mean that's yeah completely

01:21:07.440 and since then i'm like that's that no no no get the violin can we call her yeah can we call her i

01:21:13.360 don't think we should call you should call her i maybe um i don't know i don't think i can do it now

01:21:18.880 but um no i know i love that she married what happened to her i don't know now we're all invested

01:21:24.080 we need yeah yeah no no no so listen so listen that was the final nail in the coffin of my

01:21:29.440 sort of um relationships life really because i you know i did really fall for her i really loved her

01:21:35.040 but in the end my lifestyle the stuff that i wanted to do was incompatible with what she wanted to do

01:21:40.320 what you know the family stuff well she wanted to yeah she wanted to move to suburbia and settle down

01:21:45.120 and all that kind of thing and obviously she was pushing for that yeah i just felt that wasn't a

01:21:48.480 direction i was able to go in and i also knew because she was getting to her late 20s i also

01:21:53.440 knew it would be unfair for me to sort of kick because you know to keep stringing it along how

01:21:57.360 old are you at the i mean i was in my 40s you know so so she was she was she was younger than me

01:22:02.560 but you know she was coming up to her you know to 30s she's about to hit the wall well i mean yeah 0.99

01:22:07.520 yeah she's about to hit the wall let's be honest yeah she was she was like you know she was obviously

01:22:12.400 she had a time limit in terms of what she wanted to do and i thought if i keep this going it's gonna be

01:22:17.440 to her detriment you know so but it was tough and you know what's funny you still looked out for her

01:22:22.880 best interest when you didn't have well i did at the end because but what happened we split up and

01:22:27.200 there was we went back and forth a little bit we split up and then you know you know you split up

01:22:30.720 for a bit then you get back you know you you meet up again and things happen and stuff like that and

01:22:34.320 that was happening and then there was an opportunity at the end i think we could have fixed it again i

01:22:38.240 could have stayed with her for longer and i chose not to do that and that was a deliberate choice yeah

01:22:42.720 because i thought all that's going to happen it's going to be the same cycle i'm going to be with

01:22:47.280 her again for another six months it's going to be great and then this is going to happen again yeah

01:22:50.480 do you know what i mean so so to answer your question i say six months to a year uh real quick

01:22:55.920 i'm going to be honest i actually like when men sit here and take advantage of women in a sense here

01:23:01.200 in miami because i see that these women hold on because i see that these women take advantage of 1.00

01:23:07.680 normal men so when they go to the top 10 i actually love seeing them come back because i'm like you

01:23:13.200 deserve that you're 30 you know that's really how i feel to be honest yeah i'm not so do you guys agree

01:23:20.160 six months to a year of a talking fave no keep it going keep it keep it going as long as you can

01:23:24.640 as to a year let's say three to six three to six that's a long talking three six a whole year no

01:23:30.080 you're right you're right you're right you're right three six what do you what do you what do

01:23:34.560 you think is the average what do you what do you guys think is the average for guys yeah like like

01:23:39.200 some guys just just on the terms again because when you talk about talking phase because i don't

01:23:43.360 want to go dig all this up again but i think of talking phase is more like you know you guys are

01:23:46.560 messaging and stuff before you guys sleeping together okay so you are you are together yeah before you've

01:23:52.000 confirmed it's a full-on relationship i don't know probably the average about three months or

01:23:56.240 three months three six months i think guys usually keep it going as long as they can but i say on

01:24:00.240 average i say on average they probably hit about like eight to ten months but i think they try to

01:24:05.120 keep it as because we don't have as many options like they can move on and have four guys right now

01:24:11.440 but you're saying you think guys keep the talking phase or this i think it's going as long as i think

01:24:16.720 they try to keep it going as long as possible right like if i had three girls that i was in the 1.00

01:24:20.560 talking stage with i try to keep each one of them as much as possible yeah but as long but i think

01:24:25.920 i probably wouldn't because that's exhausting yeah it is but here's the thing because most guys don't

01:24:30.560 really get those options so so what would joy when you say the average guy then would try and lock the

01:24:34.640 girl down quicker because if he feels he hasn't got any options he'd be like more keen to make her his

01:24:39.120 girlfriend it depends on the age like i'm in my 30s i i'm more uh you know i'm more likely to get

01:24:44.240 settled now yeah and i was in my 20s and their 20s no i don't think guys are ready to settle down but i'm sort of

01:24:49.040 like i say i mean for me i've kind of come out the other side so i'm a bit more like now i'm trying

01:24:53.360 to keep my options open at the moment you know what i'm saying so did you have a lot of options

01:24:57.040 as you were like younger um like funnily enough i got more as i got into my 30s actually and i think

01:25:03.280 this is another conversation but i think guys you know 20s you're when you're a teenager as a guy you're 0.91

01:25:07.920 screwed you know you're fucking you've got no value 20s 20s less but you know and then you get into 0.99

01:25:13.040 your 30s and suddenly you've got a bit more value as a guy and you you get more options yeah so in my 30s i i 0.99

01:25:18.160 i had a lot of options around you know he's he's being right actually you know now that i'm in my

01:25:22.160 30s i feel the same way when i was in my 20s i thought i was doing good but now that i'm in my

01:25:25.600 30s i'm like what happened but i think what it is is women just naturally like older men they do

01:25:30.400 they like older guys you're probably a bit more established you might disagree you probably you

01:25:35.200 probably you probably have more like i feel like i could have actually what's the perfect age for you

01:25:40.800 guys to date for whatever like astrology it's four years older okay you want four years older what

01:25:46.640 about you probably yes i'm supposed to be i'll take a 30 year old 30 year old yeah uh for me it would be

01:25:53.200 maybe two to four years older than two to four five five five even i would say ten roughly five years

01:25:58.800 yeah yeah i would say i'm like five years of older i'm not i'm not against uh i really don't care

01:26:06.720 about i think i think i think what about you guys from yeah what about you colombian guys though in

01:26:11.840 colombia would you say that bigger age gaps are more more acceptable yeah i mean oh yeah and in our

01:26:18.000 culture that our parents actually tell us to date older not to never date and you date yeah you date

01:26:23.280 older and shit because what i've noticed from traveling because i'm actually going to colombia next 0.70

01:26:27.920 week i'm going to bogota which i've been there a few times before um good luck yeah yeah if i live 0.99

01:26:33.680 through it i'll listen you'll walk down that street and anybody will grab your hand hey i've been there

01:26:40.800 three times before it's okay where we stay is not is all right although we went to clean your hand

01:26:46.560 we actually went to santa fe as well which is the dodgiest red light area and we were okay there as well

01:26:50.720 but you know anyway i get it things happen there but the point is what we've noticed traveling is that some

01:26:56.400 cultures you know the age gap thing is less of a thing so latin america it seems to be less of a

01:27:00.320 thing and also in eastern europe so you go to ukraine or you go to russia before the war you get these

01:27:05.280 bigger age gap relationships i think it's in the west it's very you know looked down upon you know

01:27:10.720 particularly by you know the whole leonardo di caprio things oh my god oh yeah i think he's a savage

01:27:15.840 yeah yeah yeah i say good for you yeah yeah and that's very much a western idea isn't it that you

01:27:22.960 shouldn't be doing that yeah it's the women it is the women because think about it right because 1.00

01:27:28.240 think about it like this right like i want to date younger yeah and that's frowned upon but they want

01:27:32.720 to date older and it's okay right like there's no problem what would be that one if they own and by the

01:27:39.440 way i would never look down on a man like when i go to brickle and i see these millionaires with these hot

01:27:43.440 chicks these older men with hot chicks i never look down on them like i don't i don't look at

01:27:47.760 him like oh he's a predator oh my god i don't know i never look at it like that i'm like no good for 0.94

01:27:52.400 him he's in his prime she's in her prime yeah i don't i don't feel like like oh i mean i don't know 0.65

01:27:59.920 maybe this is just me and i'm speaking for myself maybe not i don't give a damn who you date as long 0.58

01:28:05.360 as you're not dating a whole child you know what i mean and that's really the problem so what about

01:28:10.880 what about an 18 year old girl with a 35 thank you i was gonna 35 year old yeah 18 what's wrong

01:28:19.600 i think that there's absolutely something wrong with that why because she's a she's a child

01:28:25.120 i'm sorry at 18 years old you can go to jail at 18 years just because you're legal does not mean that 0.99

01:28:32.640 either which way they don't say oh you're 18 you're still a baby they send your ass to prison 0.77

01:28:37.840 okay they do 18 is legal yeah i just don't really like i went to college when i was 17. 0.98

01:28:44.240 like i i feel like you know what you're doing yeah right like this idea that like you're like uh you're

01:28:50.880 somehow 17 18 yeah sure what's the difference i mean i i didn't i like 365 days yeah so what do you think

01:28:59.440 about a 35 year old woman dating like a 20 year old gross but then that's that's again no no no i 0.98

01:29:09.520 actually i don't know why is that so it was a joke it was to be funny but but no i i mean i think

01:29:17.440 there's something unnatural about it yeah i mean it seems like that's exactly how i feel but i'm saying

01:29:23.360 i think that's natural it seems like more than natural order that an older guy is going to date a

01:29:27.040 younger woman that dynamic seems more natural to me i mean you know i'm in my 40s i've dated

01:29:31.440 generally speaking i'm dating girls in their in their in their 20s and sometimes early 30s that's 1.00

01:29:36.080 generally speaking that's been the case but it goes back to what eric was saying earlier um i feel like

01:29:42.000 us women like um what's it called tag each other with that we're like oh she's dating a 45 year old 1.00

01:29:49.360 like what dirty asshole you know what i mean like who the hell is saying that like there's girls out 1.00

01:29:54.240 here that be saying that just because an 18 year old like she was saying is with a 30 you know what 1.00

01:29:57.680 i'm saying that girl is smart she's a girl right there but when the man do it it's okay and it's

01:30:03.360 like it's not it's not always okay building right now that gives the women that it's not always okay 0.98

01:30:08.160 though because if you're the older guy then you get the criticism from that's like the feminists or 1.00

01:30:12.160 those other people they're saying no you're being manipulative you're being a predator and all that

01:30:15.760 if you're dating a girl that is clearly doesn't like is immature it's clearly new to the world like

01:30:25.200 literally like you have to teach her everything if you're dating someone specifically because you feel

01:30:30.800 like you can control them better or mold them better there it goes there's wrong it but that's what i don't

01:30:36.720 think that's what but that's but that's no no i i think that's better though okay so that you agree

01:30:43.200 that i'll give you i'll even i'll even i'll even i'll even i'll even take one for the team i'll use

01:30:48.320 myself as an example i think at 21 right when i was 21 it's easier to mold into the guy that you want

01:30:56.240 like into his life why are you i i think in any relationship you are both going to mold yourself a

01:31:03.680 little bit thank you because in marriage probably a lot in marriage it's to become one flesh and i

01:31:10.160 think it's much easier when people choose to do that younger okay women especially okay but and i

01:31:16.480 think women were just more influenceable so we're like right but that's there's there's a danger in 0.99

01:31:22.960 that because a lot of women get pulled into really terrible relationships very early on and then have 1.00

01:31:28.880 those bad experiences and now they're used up they're going let's ask why let's ask why yeah women 1.00

01:31:36.400 suck at picking and really we should be 18 year old girl that's just coming yeah she's probably going 1.00

01:31:42.320 to suck at picking a woman that's 30 years old that's lived life that knows people that's not going to 0.99

01:31:47.120 get fooled easily is not damaged i don't call it damage you know what i call it i call it right no i 0.99

01:31:53.360 it's trash trash for you because you cannot control it you don't like anything that you're not going 0.99

01:31:59.040 to want to that you can't control and that's trash this is what i don't understand every heartbreak 1.00

01:32:03.440 you're a little more damaged thank you like this is that this is it and me i hope you don't think 0.97

01:32:08.320 you're not trash like i'm a man those rules don't apply to me you were born exactly there you go see 0.96

01:32:13.920 i was born trash literally okay it's like i mean you not everyone can be the hottest thing since sliced bread we all 0.94

01:32:20.800 get a little damaged yeah hey listen and i i i 100 agree with that but at 18 years old 0.57

01:32:27.760 right what exactly is wrong with a man and i'm not that and i don't want to there's nothing wrong

01:32:33.120 with it you're doing there's nothing wrong with it as long as it's being done with good intentions

01:32:38.160 but you've got that the issue here is is that there are many of these men are not doing it with

01:32:44.560 good intentions because they're not doing it for the reason because they want to women don't women 1.00

01:32:49.760 women don't want the men with good intentions thank you but you're making this as a 30 year old 0.99

01:32:54.960 woman i do i don't know but the problem is you didn't want those men when you were at your best

01:33:05.200 thank you and we never pick the nice guys when we are at our best so you're making this assumption

01:33:10.800 you're making this assumption that these older guys just want to control and you know manipulate

01:33:14.160 these women it's not really because of that it's because it's because basically men find young women

01:33:18.160 hot that's what it comes down to it's not like oh i want to be this predator and be manipulative

01:33:22.400 it's just what a guy's attracted to so there was okay cupid data right that showed the ages that

01:33:26.720 people are attracted to one another and for men it remained about 23. so the guys are getting older

01:33:32.160 you know for the guy's 23 he likes a 23 year old the guy gets to 45 he likes 23 year old 60 23 year

01:33:37.520 right so that's just a biological fact fertility fertility so the individual for me so but the 0.99

01:33:43.200 but so his intention might be well i just want to you know kind of see this girl and go out and party

01:33:47.920 and we're going to have sex a bit and whatever but a 23 year old girl is probably not going to want 1.00

01:33:52.160 much more than that either in miami is she do you know what i mean it's not like there's all these 0.80

01:33:56.320 innocent young 23 year old women in miami who oh god i just want to find a good man and this rich 1.00

01:34:00.720 this rich guy took me on his yard and fuck me no they'll say that but they don't mean it that's 1.00

01:34:04.560 that's what they're looking for as well right but that's what women have been programmed to do is to 1.00

01:34:08.800 find a husband as soon as possible well but they haven't now surely that's not but that's not true

01:34:13.600 yes whim okay do we have wait wait wait wait wait wait guys guys go wait wait wait wait do we have

01:34:20.400 more choice or less choice in 2023 and has the average age of first marriage gone up or down i'm not i

01:34:27.120 don't know the average age of first marriage is 30. it used to be like 21 22. so i'm saying it was

01:34:34.640 programmed in us to get married early that's what i'm saying no no i'm saying we were not programmed

01:34:39.760 to do that because if we were if we are programmed to do that now then we would do it but we do not

01:34:46.400 oh because we don't have to we're not in the position before the men had more power we had to 0.84

01:34:50.240 find what's the argument what is we have more power now what i'm saying is these 23 year olds don't

01:34:55.040 these 23 year olds don't don't want to get married that's what i'm saying are you saying that they're

01:34:58.880 but you're saying they've been programmed to but then but yeah like back in the day women started 1.00

01:35:02.560 as soon as they were like 12 years old they were already getting you're saying it's not true

01:35:06.080 i get it i get what you're saying but not in the united states so eventually eventually yeah

01:35:11.760 women have this dream of the white dress and the wedding i get that but they also go through what 1.00

01:35:16.080 rollo calls their party years which is where they're sort of 18 to i don't know 27 or whatever when

01:35:20.160 they want to go out and basically they want to run you know have a great time run wild yeah that's the

01:35:24.400 faith and so if you're saying these older dudes like you got leonardo dicaprio who's dating these

01:35:28.720 24 year olds and stuff it's not like these women are these you know naive young kind of things and 1.00

01:35:33.680 they're like nina abdahl was so naive they're getting they're getting what they want he's getting what

01:35:39.920 he wants i don't think in most cases anyone's really manipulating anybody it's just it's just you

01:35:44.080 know they're coming together if you're dealing with someone that is mature and that is it's clear but

01:35:49.680 that's not the case a lot of the time a lot of the time men are going for these naive girls that 0.99

01:35:55.280 really are just making terrible decisions wait wait wait wait so who are they going for who's who

01:36:01.280 going for like these men are who who are the men like i just want to know who are the men and who

01:36:05.360 are they whatever men that we're talking about the particular men that are that are that are only

01:36:09.920 dating younger women okay so they're only dating we we we talked about a survey earlier where i said

01:36:16.640 out of 5 000 men only 10 report having more than one sexual partner in a year she doesn't care about

01:36:23.600 that so me you don't know what i care about well okay okay okay okay again i i gave you the reasons

01:36:32.560 how we came to these conclusions it's not just one study it's multiple that were similar let's say

01:36:38.000 they're lying and it's 20 that's still 80 of men that are not around like that so why are we only

01:36:45.680 talking about the 10 20 there's very few men that even have the options to manipulate you yeah most men

01:36:53.360 get some and they're like good enough i'll take it 100 okay so okay also well again these are you're

01:37:01.200 going to get a higher quality of men yeah even just being in this room is going to be a higher

01:37:07.360 quality of men because the men at tesco aren't going to be at this pot oh sorry you guys don't have

01:37:11.680 tesco here but the men at the men at walgreens are not going to be on this podcast but then you know

01:37:18.640 the garbage collectors are not going to be here either so my point is there's a very few men that even

01:37:24.880 can do that so why are we pretending like most men going for younger women are trying to manipulate

01:37:30.480 them they're not also another point is here in miami i think you can become a bartender at the age of

01:37:35.440 like 16 17. well i'm telling you here in miami you can become a bartender it's illegal whatever it is

01:37:43.760 happening also at 18 you can buy cigarettes right right you can uh i i guess you can even buy a weapon a 0.90

01:37:49.840 a gun right you can you can do all this at 18 you can have sex with whoever you want whenever you 0.96

01:37:55.520 want but if you date an older guy oh my god listen i never said there's anything wrong with younger

01:38:03.280 women dating older that's not the message that i'm saying i'm saying that there's but if the intention

01:38:08.720 is there if the intention if the intention is to date her to marry her to teach her to mold her then fine

01:38:17.920 have at it but if your intention is not that then yeah it is a little creepy for men to go

01:38:22.960 for somebody younger that they have no intention on like yeah because in that case then just go for

01:38:28.800 the the 24 year old or the 25 year old or the 30 year old or whatever the but like the 18 year

01:38:34.560 old's hotter yeah that's fine okay all right well then there's that's their discipline thing there's

01:38:40.560 that discipline thing like what okay so i just i don't know honestly that person can drive past the 0.99

01:38:46.160 fucking mcdonald's and decide i'm gonna eat that shit because it tastes delicious but it's so 0.99

01:38:51.920 fucked up no but but it's like it's there but it's more like oh you're giving me an excuse but it's a 1.00

01:38:56.880 little bit it's a little bit different when they're it's a little different when they're offering it's 0.99

01:39:00.960 like free food to a homeless man these women are half naked out of high school you can't they're walking 1.00

01:39:06.480 around naked women you cannot expect women to have this huge accountability for every single 0.99

01:39:12.320 fucking thing that they do when men will not even have the own accountability for themselves 0.99

01:39:16.640 it sounds like you don't want them to have any accountability no because you're saying that even 0.99

01:39:19.600 a woman who's who's who's legally obeyed she has no accountability because she's so easily manipulated 1.00

01:39:24.560 by this other dude but i think that i i think that if you meet somebody and you and and you can

01:39:30.640 pretty much tell if they're naive or if they're smart enough to to make proper decisions for themselves

01:39:36.000 right so it's a matter of you're a smart guy you're intelligent when you have a conversation with

01:39:41.040 somebody you can tell if they're pretty much if they're mature or if they're not right so then you

01:39:45.840 should base your decision on that and not you're gonna base your decision on if she's hot or if she's 0.99

01:39:52.560 young enough and if that tight if that ass is tight enough or whatever the you make up in your mind 1.00

01:39:56.960 you're never gonna first think is this a kid that i'm talking to what where is she and the on the 0.98

01:40:02.320 maturity no i'll tell i'll tell you what men tend to be good people so they do tend to think about that

01:40:08.480 women tend to be bad people yeah yeah yeah yeah men men tend to be better yeah i mean i think there's 1.00

01:40:17.760 there's a couple of points here so firstly for me personally i do tend to date more mid-20s to be

01:40:21.840 honest i'm not really like you know hanging around 18 year olds as such although you know of course

01:40:25.920 oh my god no he said mid-20s then why is this because that's he's that type of that makes more

01:40:33.840 guys let's try finish okay so you know so yeah on that on that score i do i do take your point but i

01:40:38.720 mean having said that you know i've also invented women in their earlier 20s and so on and i mean i

01:40:42.320 think it's it's a little bit i mean most of these women that i meet they're they're not these 1.00

01:40:46.480 incredibly naive kind of stupid people you know they're actually generally speaking they're working 0.96

01:40:51.600 they're doing their they're got you know they're getting on with this their life and they they they 1.00

01:40:56.000 know what the they're doing you know because i wouldn't want to deal with somebody who didn't

01:40:59.200 but most of them but i'm not talking about them i'm talking about the ones that aren't yeah she's

01:41:03.520 talking about i'm talking about the girls that are obviously but my but my point is these these 0.95

01:41:08.800 girls nowadays are graduating high school with like ass pictures on instagram they look like like 1.00

01:41:14.640 these aren't these innocent 18 19 20 year olds that don't know what they're doing yeah i do 0.97

01:41:21.840 because i didn't do that and so and so you were guided and and no no i i know i know no no no

01:41:29.760 i know i know girls in the exact same situation wait let me finish i know chicks in the that were 1.00

01:41:36.000 raised the exact same way as i was and did completely different choices it's all down to what choices you

01:41:41.920 make i'm not into this excuses i was raised i know women from single parent homes that didn't do that 1.00

01:41:48.560 i know women from two parent homes that did i know rich and poor women that made both decisions i think 1.00

01:41:53.600 it's attention so and not do more things like that and that that's my point so i'm saying that most women 1.00

01:42:00.560 that graduate high school or in college now are not these innocent chicks that don't know what they 1.00

01:42:07.440 they are doing they they typically want to be whores yeah no what i'm saying what i'm saying is that 0.87

01:42:14.800 there's older men there's older men that literally only want to be with someone from the ages of 18 to

01:42:20.720 23 just because it is easy to manipulate and they aren't jaded and they don't have opinions i don't

01:42:25.840 think it's because it's easy to me but there are men that do that and what she's saying those men that

01:42:30.800 choose to do that and choose women just based on that because of how old they are that's what she's saying 0.99

01:42:35.680 is gross it's not gross for an older man to want a young woman that's very normal yeah the ones that

01:42:40.160 literally say i don't want anyone over the age of 23 or i only want yeah it is those that's where 0.64

01:42:45.360 it's gross and where you guys are kind of focusing on the wrong things you're like but that's like me

01:42:49.680 saying that women that want to date high status men that make good money are only doing it to manipulate

01:42:55.120 them like it's yeah well that's that's only going to lead you to one place right right but let's be honest

01:43:01.040 but the reason why women do it is because it gives you a chance at a better life right right the same 1.00

01:43:05.520 reason why men do it with women we want to go younger because we want to have kids with a healthy 0.97

01:43:10.160 beautiful young woman but it's not because you want to manipulate do you think that if a woman went 0.99

01:43:19.520 you know started dating a man only solely because he has money do you think that she's going to live

01:43:25.440 a fulfilled happy life she's not i i i think that that woman would have a better chance all the time 1.00

01:43:30.960 yes but that's what makes them happy and they were happier back then yeah yeah do you know that

01:43:38.400 okay okay okay okay okay do you want the opportunity answer do you want an answer i could give you the

01:43:44.240 answer get it you said how do we know that yes um and i would say by one rate we could look at as

01:43:50.720 antidepressants women on antidepressants and results you know we have the largest

01:43:56.720 single childless women ever 70 of women under 30 don't have kids typically would we agree that kids 0.96

01:44:03.760 make women happy yes in general would you would you agree that marriages are better when people stay 0.99

01:44:11.280 together in general yes okay so and we look at the outcomes from 100 years ago 200 years ago generally

01:44:19.120 antidepressants women were better yeah no i mean they didn't go ahead no the antidepressants and the 0.98

01:44:25.280 big pharma that was all recently so and everyone's been prescribed now guess what yeah and it's been

01:44:29.440 rising because women are getting but there's other things that contribute to depression you know that

01:44:34.160 right it's not just not having kids oh i'm sure famine i'm sure famine is the that they put is the 0.98

01:44:40.000 is the shit that they put in our food it's the it well i know and so okay so then how do we come to 0.98

01:44:46.160 conclusions you look at writings from the women at the time have any of you even read any writing of 0.99

01:44:53.040 a woman from 100 years ago no no see what about 200 years ago no no no no you know what's so funny in

01:45:00.800 the 1850s feminists actually um the mary walls i don't know how to say her last name but wall something 1.00

01:45:08.480 basically said that we're gonna have a hard time convincing women to work because they're so happy 0.99

01:45:15.440 this is from the feminists this is the liberators but that was a different time period like that was 0.89

01:45:19.680 where the family dynamic was really strong yes because women didn't have the choice to leave 0.99

01:45:24.800 thank you thank you yeah yeah and then what happened when they got the choice you left

01:45:31.600 but they but right and let me explain that there's a reason but why you can't if when a person is happy

01:45:37.600 and they're content and everything is going great why the so i want to i want to i want to point

01:45:42.560 something out and i want this is kind of my problem with modern mentality is your first gut reaction

01:45:47.840 this is really common happy who cares thank you who cares thank you is that like you're like you get

01:45:53.520 one i i i don't it's not about you thank you and this is the thing and this is this is the problem

01:46:01.440 our grandmothers great grandmothers understood it wasn't always about us and the kids are more

01:46:07.520 important than thank you thank you i will 100 percent give up happiness for my children thank you

01:46:17.920 you should love your you wait wait you should love your kids more than anybody in the world unless they're

01:46:25.040 gay unless they're gay and see this is like look this you're trying to divert from the point you said 0.87

01:46:35.440 you said that you're you're changing you're moving the goalpost we're talking about happiness you said 0.94

01:46:40.880 that it's about your happiness i'm saying that it's not it's about family and raising children that was

01:46:47.520 the first thing that you said she said that too but there was reasons for that they women at that 1.00

01:46:53.680 time didn't even have bank accounts they couldn't okay do you know do you wait wait wait they didn't

01:46:59.440 need them you were in control it's fine so okay when you're in control when the men wait wait okay do

01:47:05.360 you do you have any idea the history of that no you know this is the crazy this is crazy i know that you

01:47:10.000 don't because the reason the reason actually there was female property owners in the 1600s women 1.00

01:47:16.400 absolutely could have bank accounts they typically didn't because most people were married 85 of

01:47:23.920 people were married okay and so typically the only way a woman would have a bank account was if she 1.00

01:47:28.960 inherited money typically but there were always the first female millionaire was in the late 1800s 1.00

01:47:34.560 how did she do that without a bank account none of this this is all this is all this is all rewritten

01:47:41.040 history because they want you to think you're a victim there was it's literally the the all of

01:47:45.600 women's studies stuff was implemented and and they literally and they literally couldn't have bank 1.00

01:47:52.000 accounts unless their husband signed for it my life is perfectly fine and and you know what's happened

01:47:57.440 now women own all of the debt yes everybody has a debt no no it's majority women oh i believe it 1.00

01:48:05.120 women have a shopping issue exactly and i'm saying there were women that owned businesses there's always 1.00

01:48:11.520 been high iq women that have done really cool things in history joan of arc cleopatra like you can you 1.00

01:48:17.600 can name this stuff off but this idea that we like didn't have any choice back then i mean there was 0.87

01:48:23.920 there's many there was no there was look at there was female opera singers fucking up their husbands in 1.00

01:48:30.240 divorce court in the 1800s it just wasn't as common like like this idea that and this is the thing it's all

01:48:36.720 propaganda you guys have been like taught because all of the women's studies it was implemented by 0.96

01:48:41.600 the rockefellers and they implemented it in the early 1900s and what they'll do is they'll say the

01:48:46.640 women of those time periods were oppressed and they could not possibly you they weren't no but this is

01:48:53.040 no they weren't this is the thing they were not they were not oppressed they were they couldn't vote they

01:48:58.160 couldn't own land and but why but why couldn't they vote this is the thing you guys have no idea

01:49:03.680 it's a man's world no no but see wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong so because you don't know and i know

01:49:09.680 you don't know and the reason is because it came with the responsibility of being drafted thank you

01:49:16.320 and there was more women that were against women voting than were for it thank you all of the wives

01:49:21.920 and mothers came together came together he watches my show you know all of them all of the wives and

01:49:31.440 mothers came together they were called the anti-suffragettes the suffragettes were the women 0.81

01:49:35.600 that wanted to vote they were typically old spinster cat ladies the anti suffer and they and the anti-suffragettes 1.00

01:49:42.560 had posters that literally depicted them as old spinster cat ladies and they said this is going to be the

01:49:49.440 breakdown of the family guys don't do this if you let women vote they're going to spend too much 1.00

01:49:54.240 they're going to go to war world war one happened right after world war ii because all of the policies

01:50:00.720 everything now is passed for women all of the media is catered to women because we make 80 percent of 1.00

01:50:06.480 consumer buying decisions all of the policies are passed for women because we're the majority of voters 0.98

01:50:12.720 everything's catered to us but we don't do the majority of the work and i don't think that's fair

01:50:17.200 that's why i don't think women should vote because 45 of men do a job that runs the infrastructure most 1.00

01:50:22.880 women don't do that it's like seven percent of women live here why would we not have a say in 1.00

01:50:27.760 where we live well because i don't i believe i don't believe i don't believe in rights without

01:50:32.480 responsibilities so i think if you're gonna if you want the right to do whatever you want in a house

01:50:37.360 shouldn't you pay the bills i pay the bills correct but we have to look at this from a society point of

01:50:42.800 view if you're not helping protect the society if you're not paying taxes in the society if you do

01:50:49.760 right but i'm saying women at law if we took out women that were in debt if we took out women that 1.00

01:50:55.120 aren't in the military it most women would be gone anyway if we just said only net taxpayers could vote 1.00

01:51:01.280 and only women um that are in some sort of infrastructure job that could vote most women 1.00

01:51:05.920 wouldn't vote anyway but that's because most women are always or their main point in life is to find a 1.00

01:51:11.120 husband and to get married i don't think that should be no but i'm saying that's not right

01:51:16.160 so if that was true then under 30 70 of women wouldn't not have kids 45 of women so we have five 1.00

01:51:23.520 women here half of us will not have kids half of us will be single and childless for a lifetime

01:51:28.960 out of the other two one will divorce and one will stay married happy days guys yeah yeah this is this

01:51:34.800 is the future so you're this idea that women are so focused on a family and career or on a family 1.00

01:51:40.400 is not true i think there's two things going on here though i think i think the indoctrination

01:51:44.240 you're talking about whether it's indoctrination i think women young girls do dream about getting 0.93

01:51:47.920 married i think that's true but then i don't know what happens but they hit 18 19. well they do don't

01:51:54.000 they i want the dress you know all that but but but but then something happens they hit 18 19 and

01:51:59.200 suddenly it's like let's go to cancun let's party let's go to miami and they want to push it back

01:52:03.360 that because because you you kind of want both the best of both worlds so yeah that you that is

01:52:07.040 still the dream but also i want to have my fun while i'm young because you get to be 50 60 years

01:52:12.240 old and you leave your husband that's been with for 40 years because you didn't get to experience life

01:52:16.160 because you jumped into a marriage and having kids immediately but but 80 percent of matter of

01:52:20.880 divorces are initiated by women remember yes and it comes back to happiness back in the day it was 1.00

01:52:26.640 about vows and it was about your duty now it's all about happy i want to be happy this is my life

01:52:32.480 it's my life i only get one life yeah but listen when i when my kids were born i will it wasn't

01:52:37.280 about my happiness anymore it was about my responsibility that was it but your kids don't

01:52:42.720 live with you they live in another yeah but i'm still providing for them like i moved down here i'm

01:52:47.840 yeah but but a man doesn't have to be there every single day no they don't but they don't

01:52:54.880 this is where you guys get it wrong a man doesn't have to be present every single day to no

01:52:58.800 you're you're listen this is no no bro listen a man doesn't have yes and that's her duty that's

01:53:06.240 why she gets everything is paid for you want to talk about a man and a woman being in a household

01:53:10.560 and a women having fathers in the household you're not in the household yes and we've already talked

01:53:14.720 about it hold on hold on yo what are you guys guys let him let him finish guys let him i left

01:53:19.920 yeah i left yes yes well i love you you wanted more options you wanted no i left because i wanted

01:53:25.520 to come to a new city you know because you are you said this before i was already coming down here to

01:53:29.280 work with freshman fit oh do you know my life do you know my life guys guys guys i can't go when i

01:53:34.240 came to miami it wasn't for new options there's new options where i was at too when i hold let me finish

01:53:39.520 let me finish when i came to miami it was so yeah i'm telling the truth when i came to miami it was

01:53:44.080 to work with fresh and fit okay it had nothing to do with girls i didn't know any girls down here 1.00

01:53:50.000 now of course when i came to miami you know the girls were something i came with working with 0.99

01:53:54.160 fresh and fit that's all they do is get girls at fresh and fit and that was basically my job there

01:53:59.200 so what i'm saying is what back to your point i don't think a man has to be there every single day

01:54:03.840 now do i fly back every single month and spend time with them and make sure they're good and pay for

01:54:07.840 all their bills yes but i don't think i have to be there every single day to be a good father as a

01:54:12.080 matter of fact me and my daughter we write letters every single day we talk every single day we face

01:54:17.440 them every single day right and obviously my my goal is eventually to move back to maryland but yes i

01:54:23.520 don't think a man has to be present every single day are you still with the mother though no but you

01:54:29.200 didn't you didn't split with the mother in order to move to miami right no we were already splitting oh yeah

01:54:33.440 we were already splitting but to be honest because we were already splitting was what we the reason

01:54:38.480 why i said and i'm just gonna go to my yeah on your podcast you said that you um wanted to be with

01:54:44.880 other women and she was not about it and that is why you chose to leave because you weren't she 0.99

01:54:49.200 you wanted her to basically but you said that's why exactly so that's men wanting variety men wanting 0.89

01:54:55.280 different well men are always going to want variety though but a disciplined high value man

01:54:59.200 will not yeah well but it doesn't be i'll tell you i'll tell you what i had a very similar view to you

01:55:07.520 when i first like got into the space because my dad my dad's super successful he never cheated my dad's

01:55:12.800 like literally an angel doesn't drink no social media but what i realized is we're actually in a very

01:55:19.440 different time and the high value men of today are not the high value men of yesterday the men under 40

01:55:26.640 have so much more options and temptation that my dad just never would have had so but because my dad my

01:55:33.440 dad wait wait let me finish chica all right like so my my dad's generation like my dad goes to work

01:55:41.360 comes home you know i mean he's just like a you'd have to meet him but he's like a

01:55:45.600 really really great really great dad and he actually went to india all the time for like

01:55:52.480 two three weeks at a time and i actually agree yeah i'm positive yeah yeah it's possible it's

01:56:01.920 possible that's what people say but it's not really his type i don't know like um but anyways so but what

01:56:09.920 you realize is the the men of today they have so much more temptation they have so so it's like

01:56:15.440 why it's broken down the family dynamic because what both sides but that's but that's only that's

01:56:20.400 high value men are only 10 of men remember only 10 of men can do this most women are breaking up the 1.00

01:56:26.640 family dynamic and you know okay because think about it if you're already settling for a guy

01:56:32.640 who's not even a high value man and then he starts cheating on you in line okay what is why

01:56:37.280 what is settling like for me settling is like um a woman who like is with a man but like there's

01:56:43.520 women all the time they're like oh yeah he he's a i don't really like the way he talks to me i don't 0.59

01:56:47.280 like the way he treats me but he's got money she's settling because he's got money okay that's what

01:56:52.000 right because when you say you're settling for a high value man a high value man is only 10 of men

01:56:57.040 yeah there's most of us most women are not gonna get uh you shouldn't even bother talking to them 1.00

01:57:01.920 because they're not going to commit to you okay because most women are average most people are average 1.00

01:57:06.320 so i don't think there's any world where you can settle for a high value man i think he would be

01:57:10.960 settling for you no no not settling for a high value man settling for a man just a normal well

01:57:15.840 yeah and and i think you know settling for money that's pretty good deal for most of history i don't

01:57:20.960 think so most women now i'm not i'm not saying that's what you should pick for i actually i don't

01:57:26.080 even advocate that's what you should pick for i think character is much more important but but but

01:57:31.760 work ethic is part of that which equates to resources that's why i say that i'm okay with a man that

01:57:37.280 doesn't make as much money as me but as long as he has a dream and focus and discipline no but that

01:57:41.760 that just means he needs to make money later yeah i can help i can help him make money later you know

01:57:46.560 but that's the that's the this is but this is the problem you can't change a guy like so you can help

01:57:51.840 me you can you can no but i'm sorry so a lot of times women depends on women have this inflated and

01:57:57.920 i'll tell you i grew up around a lot of guys that make that are very well off all of my brothers make

01:58:03.280 six figures plus they're very very high like very wealthy neighborhood right and i'll tell you i'll

01:58:09.760 tell you what those guys were going to be successful with or without a woman if a guy can't do it on his 0.74

01:58:16.080 own he's probably not going to do it there's no build a man there's no you can help a guy sure you

01:58:21.680 can make his life easier but i just don't see women i would say well i did it most cases women make 1.00

01:58:26.880 the guys life more difficult to be honest because it makes it more complicated you've got less time you've

01:58:31.040 got to you know you've got to spend a lot of time with her you're you're less focused on your

01:58:35.120 project yeah and i are there exceptions to this rule yeah yes but but most of those men were going

01:58:43.680 to be successful anyway yeah see my my ex the one i was with for eight years he was 32 years old

01:58:49.760 renting one half of how did you how did you make money how do i like now how did you did you make

01:58:54.480 money oh real estate really so you and him did real estate yeah i actually got into real estate first and

01:58:59.760 then i brought him into it and then we started doing it together okay so what you would like

01:59:03.440 buy homes and flip them okay okay but it sounds like you were the one kind of leading this

01:59:09.520 okay so he was right right so he was helping you no no no i was helping him because i got him into it

01:59:15.520 right but but who owned the properties we both did equally 50 50 parking okay it just sounds like you

01:59:21.440 were leading this thing which is which is fine i'm not saying that's bad but i'm saying but i'm

01:59:27.040 saying it was your career it really wasn't his yeah yeah that's that's my point but i helped him

01:59:31.760 make money and he got into it and it's so it was a man that was 32 and later in life got money because

01:59:36.800 he was with the right woman who supported him that's what i'm saying so like you said there are

01:59:40.000 exceptions to the rule right but they're not the rule yeah yeah yeah so yeah it does happen with the

01:59:45.680 right well you had a very specific school so and it sounds like he's done well in terms of you know what

01:59:50.000 he's learned from you in terms of the career stuff um but as i say i mean my experience hasn't been like

01:59:55.920 that really you know i think a lot of the time the guy needs to be focused on his his goals and

02:00:00.800 push forward with those and often the woman can actually get detriment to that yeah no in most 0.99

02:00:05.040 cases i agree with you for sure yeah and also man um i guess the only thing i'd like to say is that

02:00:11.760 you know for the women like her well you're married actually so i don't know why you agree with her 0.99

02:00:16.080 um i agree with her because those are my views as well you can be married yeah she'll be divorced 0.99

02:00:21.760 just give her five years that's what i'm saying no no offense well i'm not worried about you

02:00:28.320 i'm 26. so okay so like if everyone everyone but you know what's funny if most men i know in

02:00:34.800 seven to 15 years why get married at all why have kids at all if most of them that's actually that's

02:00:40.480 seven to 15 years that's actually the conclusion that a lot of men are well that's the conclusion

02:00:45.600 that i come up to no exactly you're right why so why bother why get married yeah well my point is

02:00:51.120 the stats yeah the stats are not in your on your favor so yeah even what even saying she's gonna be

02:00:56.480 divorced it's like well like what you said you're on the only way please don't get triggered please don't

02:01:01.920 get triggered wait just wait just wait just wait i know i know i just i see the anger coming out i feel

02:01:06.640 it oh no i'm well wait wait i'm just going to tell you why i think this okay because most marriages

02:01:11.280 ended divorce anyway if you would like to marry so so so it's so wait wait jesus so and like and even

02:01:19.280 even you're on only fans i'm like i can't imagine the marriage rates are amazing on only fans so it's

02:01:24.800 like just statistically okay you're probably going to be divorced yeah so just like i said statistically

02:01:30.240 most of us will not have a happy ending so remember when i said in the beginning of this i said

02:01:35.120 the reason why people get divorced is because they have the i'm gonna go out and find someone

02:01:39.920 else i don't have a reason to leave the relationship that i'm with i get treated well

02:01:44.480 there's respect there's partnership we have the same views we have the same goals trust where the

02:01:49.920 there's so okay where the hell else i already have okay so a couple questions couple questions how

02:01:56.080 long have you been married 10 years i honestly this is like a lot of a disclosure okay but 10 years yes

02:02:03.280 okay so that sounds amazing i really hope it works out for you but i know a lot of people that were

02:02:09.120 happily married at 10 years 15 years and said all the same things and then at 20 years 25 forever is

02:02:16.320 a long time that's all i'm saying so but i wish you i wish you well you know back to what she said

02:02:21.600 what's the point then because you're advocating for family yeah who might i i advocate for the okay

02:02:27.280 okay okay i'll give you oh so what's okay what's sorry repeat the question repeat what was the

02:02:34.320 question what you said you're avid you advocate for yes yes correct well so do i i have the same views

02:02:41.280 sort of as far as that i have a caveat what's your comment we got to change the laws first of what i

02:02:48.160 men will not return to marriage until we make it less risky for them in family court yeah so uh you could i

02:02:54.720 it doesn't really matter what i say i i can only even the laws doesn't matter because at the end of

02:02:59.200 the day a man's going to want something different after 15 years of being with the same woman he's

02:03:02.880 going to want something different so even if the laws are different there's no no wrong wrong because

02:03:08.320 again okay wrong wrong wrong no offense wrong i'll tell you i'll tell you why it's wrong men used to

02:03:13.520 get married after three months they that was the average it takes a man three years on average to marry

02:03:18.640 a chick it used to take them three months so men will get married when the risks are lower the value 0.96

02:03:25.120 different though and you know this is this is this is all of history and this is before a thousand

02:03:30.160 years ago they did arranged marriages so they like and that's just terrible bet no it wasn't it wasn't

02:03:36.800 a question because we you know i think that me and you are kind of aligned so if you're in a

02:03:42.960 relationship where there's trust and you feel like um you know there's nothing that's gonna break you

02:03:48.800 guys up would you um open your relationship like say for like one day one okay spontaneous night and

02:04:01.040 you know you're in cancun you find a girl whatever i would i would if i'm in control of the situation and

02:04:07.440 it's something and it's something that i want to do right but as far as like as long as it works

02:04:12.640 and you can't control that situation it's not for you it's for your man it's for us

02:04:17.680 we're her both it's it's for your man this is the problem this is the problem all right now he's

02:04:25.200 the problem is that women want to the problem is that women want to say yes baby you can go ahead 0.97

02:04:30.640 and have that girl but i gotta pick her yeah yeah i gotta talk to her yeah i gotta do this you can't do

02:04:36.640 this you can't kiss her i'm gonna show you something and this might change your life this

02:04:41.520 might it's right okay and or you'll go on today i could give you so much wisdom she won't change your

02:04:49.520 life forever okay there's a natural order of the world okay god men women child so i know terrible 0.71

02:05:00.480 handwriting okay but but okay and the problem is the relationships really only work when men

02:05:07.760 follow god the women follow men the child follows the woman that's good that's solid but when you 0.99

02:05:14.560 try to control things you're saying that you're equal to a man so now i'm not really advocating for

02:05:20.880 the open relationships i don't know i yeah okay but but the point is when you try to control things

02:05:27.600 you're really going more towards an egalitarian model and so relationships don't work when women 1.00

02:05:33.840 try to control men um i don't this this was savior marriage and and and and i could and this is based

02:05:40.880 off of hundreds of years of history i don't want to control my man i want my man to lead me well to be

02:05:45.920 strong well but i'm just saying in the in when when i'm opening because think about it i'm not you have

02:05:51.200 to be the one to decide i'm not i'm not the one going out searching for a woman i'm a straight okay

02:05:55.360 okay but so if i'm doing it it's something i'm doing for him out of love so to make me feel secure

02:06:01.040 and make me feel to make it to where we're both happy then i need to have some sort of control

02:06:07.280 in picking it because i need one i need to make sure i'm well but the the thing is you would you

02:06:12.160 would want to wait wait wait you would want to be with a guy that one i wouldn't really recommend

02:06:17.840 that situation anyway but yeah but but but you would want to be with a guy that you would trust

02:06:24.000 enough to give up all control yes relationships do not work unless you are with the man that you can

02:06:32.400 give up control i'll give up control in the relationship but if we're bringing someone in

02:06:36.000 i need some sort of okay the reason why i bring it up is because a lot of men tend to wander after

02:06:42.560 a certain amount of years so so let's talk about why they wander because women no that's not well 1.00

02:06:50.880 partially but now so so i i interview divorce lawyers i know so much look at this i'm like a

02:06:56.880 genius i interview divorce lawyers and that deal with a lot of infidelity and do you know and this

02:07:03.680 is coming from a divorce lawyer so third party right and do you know what the most common reason

02:07:08.880 that men cheat do you know why they cheat tell me why women don't want to have sex women will starve 1.00

02:07:16.880 men for sex and relationship and so yeah so you know and i talk to divorce lawyers that tell me

02:07:23.520 stories of two years three years four years no sex what do they expect the guy to do now most and then

02:07:30.480 we go into the infidelity stats most infidelity is a one-time thing so why could we not work out a

02:07:37.440 one-time thing oh yeah no only 10 of men can cheat like that yeah definitely my friend you can get

02:07:42.880 over infidelity you can work through infidelity but my my point only my my point only is one i

02:07:51.360 wouldn't recommend picking a guy that would do that you know but if nothing nothing nothing no it's not

02:07:58.240 this is just the stats don't back you up but not not not that actually get variety um but my point is

02:08:06.080 relationships don't work unless you can relinquish control i think you have control issues just

02:08:11.040 from reading you yeah so in this play scenario whatever it would only work if he picked everything

02:08:17.520 yeah no that's not important the thing about variety because most men can't get variety so it's 0.96

02:08:24.880 kind of almost a moving point is that what you're saying well that's i have two points here i have my

02:08:29.120 first point is that yes most men can't get variety anyways yeah um my sec actually three points my second

02:08:36.720 point is most cheating is a one-time thing yeah and my third point is if you're going to do a situation

02:08:44.080 relationships do not work unless you give up control and hopefully you would pick a man that

02:08:49.760 cares enough about you to put you in the best situation possible i would recommend that you

02:08:56.080 know what i mean i don't i don't say i have a question though you give up all control you basically

02:09:02.560 turn into his whatever he wants in life but he still leaves you in 7 to 15 why do it in the first

02:09:07.760 place okay okay okay okay okay okay okay okay so this is where kids so let me let me and let me okay

02:09:14.160 okay okay okay let me let me let me let me let me let me let me let me i'll tell you what happens if

02:09:20.000 he leaves you oh so okay okay no okay i'm answering i'm answering your question i'm answering your question

02:09:27.760 okay so you asked me what happens if the guy leaves you too often we have been sold this lie and it's

02:09:33.840 typically from our mothers and our grandmothers that's typically the generation that was fed a

02:09:38.940 ton of propaganda saying that men will leave you high and dry if you give up control and you always

02:09:44.480 need to have a backup plan that is no it's not it's not it was not it was not so in the 60s and

02:09:51.820 the 70s that was a very heavy wave of propaganda very heavy and women just repeat things they 1.00

02:09:58.880 really do no the women that i hear from are people that are living their lives so okay okay so the 0.99

02:10:06.280 stats do not back that up women actually divorced more women actually wait wait can you can you

02:10:12.620 listen before you you okay women have always left more always even in the 1800s women always left 0.72

02:10:19.260 more so this idea that the men are going to leave you high and dry it's the exception it's not the

02:10:24.500 rule so um yeah i think that's false no it's not well i think that men would generally stick around

02:10:35.000 even if they have a cheaper to keep her right of course it's going to be a lot easier but who stays 0.95

02:10:40.400 in a relationship for no love you leave then for them to be the ones to be like no because then now

02:10:46.480 they assume all the responsibility yeah and then it's not black and then they lose that that the 0.86

02:10:50.620 the sex at home the one that that partner that's always there they lose that they don't want to

02:10:54.660 lose that it's until a woman finally gains respect for herself and she's like i don't have to deal 0.81

02:10:59.220 with this i don't have to be in a relationship i'll tell you what i see more often i think women find

02:11:03.540 things to complain about and i see this not only in relationships i also see it in society women are 1.00

02:11:10.560 typically the human resources department women are typically the ones if you see any protest it's 1.00

02:11:16.280 typically done by women women love to complain and what a lot of people don't realize is their 1.00

02:11:22.840 horror stories from their mothers and their grandmothers were not true and all the stories

02:11:27.620 they've heard from their parents and their moms is really um just propaganda but on a smaller scale

02:11:35.200 and i'll tell you why i believe this because women men use violence and women use social violence

02:11:41.960 and this is something we and this is why you'll see all these me too cases this is why you'll see

02:11:47.940 all of this stuff in society and most of the time women do not ask their dad for their side of the

02:11:54.460 story and if they did they would get a very different picture i asked my dad i mean listen the reality

02:12:04.300 is that i asked my dad yeah me too yeah and whether you know the reality the reality is that fathers are

02:12:11.140 less likely to talk bad about their mothers oh that's the that's the that's that's that's the truth 0.74

02:12:16.860 number one and also men attack each other with violence women attack reputation that's how they do 1.00

02:12:23.020 what my dad told me before he passed away a lonely fucking man he apologized to me he apologized to my 0.99

02:12:32.940 mother he literally sat there and went through every horrible horrendous thing that he did to hurt us 0.97

02:12:39.880 as a family because he wasn't there and this was something that was same beliefs the man is the

02:12:46.780 leader the man this the man that but he also stepped out whenever he wanted to he did whatever he wanted

02:12:52.400 to and ultimately it hurt his family okay so it hurt his family because your mom was complaining about it

02:12:59.300 i'm sorry my mother was too afraid to complain about anything wait did they stay married not my well

02:13:05.700 yes they did stay married but my my mom came to the united states and he was just back and forth in

02:13:10.960 colombia okay and so so she basically so he left he left my mom to raise us by by what was he what was

02:13:20.240 provide provide wait wait wait wait what was he what was he doing he wasn't working he was working

02:13:26.400 okay so was your mom like saying was your mom was your mom's okay so was your mom staying at home with

02:13:32.160 you guys no she was also working okay so they both worked and then he would go to us okay and then how

02:13:38.620 did you know he cheated cheated yeah you said he stepped out how did you know did you not know that

02:13:43.580 till his deathbed or did you know no no she definitely told me but it was the truth it wasn't like

02:13:48.140 it was lying yeah so and this is another thing to make your point i don't agree with her there was

02:13:53.660 no yeah for my mom to tell me that i was a child i don't i i don't think that what she did was right

02:13:59.520 and i can say that to her face now right right but yeah but it fucked you up mentally listen but i i knew 0.87

02:14:05.900 who my father was it's not like he was some you just said he told you what that at his on his deathbed

02:14:10.580 how do you know who he was he told you when he was about to die he apologized for those things when he

02:14:15.900 was about so i have i have a question your mom was perfect in all of this no absolutely exactly but

02:14:21.320 that's my neither i know i know okay we can we can say that that's not normally what happens what

02:14:29.040 normally happens is the the women are much more willing to talk about the sins of the man than the 1.00

02:14:34.780 man is to talk about the sins of the women i don't know your weight wait i don't know your personal 1.00

02:14:40.080 situation you could be an exception but when you do a thousand interviews you see patterns

02:14:45.600 so what's the pattern that women are doing that is ruining the the relationships and marriages oh okay 1.00

02:14:50.880 yeah so i'll tell you what happened so i'll give you i'll give you a like a timeline here 1920s we got

02:14:56.780 the right to vote so after that women had the most power in society when it comes to policies and women 1.00

02:15:03.160 what they first did was they expanded the definition of things and this is also what the devil does the

02:15:07.420 devil confuses you i argue the women most women have we all have the devil in us a little bit 1.00

02:15:12.120 and and no women especially but but so what they did was they really passed a lot of policies that

02:15:20.080 discriminated against men in family court um even more so so for example um how are all these men

02:15:25.960 getting convicted of rape right because it used to be forced sex that was the definition of rape

02:15:31.320 now now yeah forced i mean they had a i'm just i'm paraphrasing but now it's sex without consent

02:15:39.360 well what does that mean it's subjective so women then they passed more government handouts free and 1.00

02:15:45.960 we want to be on the benefits and we had a bunch of single mothers on benefits um and then there was 0.93

02:15:51.400 a bunch of policies passed to appease the women that paid the women to leave and what did we choose 0.91

02:15:56.540 to do we left i don't think it was paying them to leave it was giving them other options so so it

02:16:02.340 so it absolutely does pay them to leave because most alimony payments are given to women child support 0.98

02:16:09.000 is given to women women absolutely weaponize their children to get money oh yeah and they also take 1.00

02:16:15.880 half of men's assets because they were doing they because they weren't earning and they were sitting in

02:16:21.300 the house doing whatever that's not that's not true so so most of the time no women have been

02:16:28.280 working no women have been working no because they're raising the children you can't so children 1.00

02:16:34.320 in like like you someone has to be home while she's sitting at home she's not making money

02:16:38.840 she's literally uh living off whatever you're getting or whatever you're giving to her so she

02:16:44.480 deserves money at the end of it like just because like if she had kept a job and didn't have 1.00

02:16:49.260 she had kept a job right and didn't have kids and you guys chose to not have kids she would have 1.00

02:16:54.120 had money money to be able to live on after if the relationship okay okay but why but but you got

02:17:02.260 to spend time with your children the children so so right right right well the women want kids too 1.00

02:17:10.080 so let's like let's like my sister my sister let's not she was married no no i'm not i don't have kids

02:17:16.420 um my little sister she got she was in a relationship she got married he wanted kids

02:17:21.280 and then as soon as the kids came he didn't help with her and all she could think was all she kept

02:17:25.620 saying is that did he did did he pay for the house yes okay so why is she crying because he wasn't there

02:17:32.940 to help with the kids okay but he was working yeah no it's not a man's role in the house is to help with

02:17:40.800 the partner it's not a woman's a woman's role isn't to take care of the um and he can take care 0.87

02:17:46.120 of his kids as well i think that's why homes now are so um broken because women do not see the 0.87

02:17:53.220 importance of taking care of a home and that's why now kids are just as crazy as ever women are as 1.00

02:17:59.580 crazy as ever men you know they're crazy too because nobody can seem to seem to see the importance 0.94

02:18:05.140 of taking care of the home who's raising those kids those the social media single single moms and 1.00

02:18:11.560 then like my mom's a single mom and i mean she did she did pretty okay but i mean i'm okay but it's

02:18:17.580 just like you the fact that you guys don't see the issue or in a home you would rather go to work you

02:18:23.720 would rather party you would rather do this than be home and taking care of your kids and partying has

02:18:28.680 nothing to do with it it's i'm talking about a majority i'm not talking about you i'm talking about

02:18:32.720 majority of women would rather choose themselves their happiness their career because they're a 1.00

02:18:37.600 human being but then they never know when they're gonna die they should choose themselves over

02:18:41.800 everything always it's then that's called selfishness it's called being selfish when you choose to when

02:18:48.720 you choose to become a mother and when you choose to become a father yourself does not matter yourself

02:18:54.920 is my happiness my happiness is my kids my family my home that's what it is yeah you guys are

02:19:01.380 preaching not preaching you are telling women oh focus on yourself body autonomy yada yada yada

02:19:07.080 and homes are broken because of that because of that programming if you focus on yourself first

02:19:13.460 you won't get into a broken home i will never have a broken home let's go back i'm gonna i'm gonna give

02:19:18.340 you some information i think on the path you're on and i i'm gonna tell you it's funny it's funny thing

02:19:24.980 happens when you interview so many people i can like see everybody but i i meet you all like in

02:19:30.980 different bodies like i i've met someone with your temperament your temperament but i meet you guys

02:19:36.140 all at different stages of life so i'll interview one girl that's kind of like you but 40 one girl

02:19:40.960 that's 60 so i kind of see what happens and that mindset right there no women it only works this is 1.00

02:19:48.180 the family right and when women focus on themselves they can't focus on the men and it doesn't work 1.00

02:19:54.700 it'll never work so when you say focus on yourself for a little while i think it should

02:19:59.900 no genuinely you know what's crazy you can tell somebody you can tell somebody look at i because

02:20:06.280 you know i i never i was catholic i was you know i'm just i'm giving you the information

02:20:12.340 so yeah so you know so you can either pick family or me but you you can't right now i'm choosing me

02:20:19.020 which is later in life i will look at i which is you know i'm not gonna lie so there's gonna be

02:20:25.640 one of us all right so i'm gonna bet on everybody on this table on your life yes

02:20:31.720 yes um i don't think you'll have kids i don't think you want them yeah and i actually don't think

02:20:39.700 women like you should be forced to have children i really don't i everyone's everyone says everyone 1.00

02:20:44.220 should have a family i think some women should not yeah yeah no i think honestly but if you do want 1.00

02:20:51.360 one you actually seem you actually seem like a nice person so i'm gonna i'm gonna try to help you so

02:20:58.200 if you do want one you should try this model it works better officially asap well there's no asap

02:21:05.760 men are getting women at 50 60 70 years old they're still getting married they're still 0.97

02:21:11.260 having sex so then there is no time though men can have kids at 50 i can adopt at any age i can

02:21:17.620 save my eggs at any age and have someone else say adoption so i'm gonna i'm gonna get that easy

02:21:23.080 yeah i'm gonna i'm just bro i don't want kids i'm being honest i don't yeah it's almost as if you

02:21:28.000 can tell somebody hey if you do this this is gonna happen and they can come up with an excuse

02:21:32.720 you know what self was bringing children into a world where you're not ready when you're a child

02:21:36.680 yourself and you i'm not 35 i'm 29 no i'm not ready obviously if i'm making it guys do you know

02:21:45.260 what's you know what's funny i actually i see nothing wrong with that because i think it's 0.98

02:21:49.760 actually worse for her to bring kids in the world actually i swear to god you selfish mothers ruin 1.00

02:21:57.080 everything nobody's saying to go out and have kids if you're not ready what we're saying is that

02:22:02.240 because women are so focused on themselves that homes are being are destroyed like a good family 1.00

02:22:07.580 there's no such thing as that because of women going out and saying focus on yourself do whatever 1.00

02:22:12.340 you want have sex whatever you want and you got kids out here listening to that you guys do not see 0.75

02:22:17.340 the the traumatic problem with that you have 17 16 year old what i was saying is it yeah it's just 0.87

02:22:23.920 it's now so now the marriage age is 30 that means in 10 20 years 30 40 oh yeah ireland it's 35

02:22:30.980 angland is 30. if a woman finds herself and has her own path in life before she gets married

02:22:38.600 she's gonna make a better choice and she's let's let me let me okay okay actually okay so i have a

02:22:44.900 well i won't lie to you i i have a hard time taking this advice sir you're in the only fans yeah yeah

02:22:51.480 sorry um no fans the worst part is and i'll probably end up having the most long lasting

02:22:58.180 relationship i don't know i'm sorry listen i'm and you guys can circle back around you're married

02:23:02.440 you're married and you're pushing her agenda which makes no no i have kids and you're pushing her 0.99

02:23:07.460 agenda you know what i'm because because i can see that she clearly doesn't want because you're 0.65

02:23:11.640 miserable with the with the lives she is she has she's married and she has a kid no no she's so hot 1.00

02:23:17.100 she'll get miserable once she gets ugly okay anyways you're hot that's what i got from that 1.00

02:23:23.700 right well thank you guys that's anyway that was not what i'm what i'm agreeing with with her is if

02:23:29.180 she's saying she doesn't want kids if she's saying she's not ready to have kids then that's a 1.00

02:23:32.800 responsible adult it's a responsible person saying all right i want to i want to actually go back to

02:23:37.940 you so you you said um that women will like make better decisions later what it can i get one example

02:23:44.980 of a woman that took that path in life um i i'm i'm just speaking from my no no but but i'll tell

02:23:52.480 you the funny thing i'm going to tell you one thing when you start studying history you start

02:23:56.340 realizing that nothing is new and people of the same life paths just repeat it over and over again

02:24:02.000 and i've seen your life path before look at i'm like a predictor

02:24:05.580 um how many cats do i have about four girl i'm already you actually yeah so so what what women 1.00

02:24:14.540 do you know that i've like i'll give you an example genie may right this is someone that i can kind of

02:24:20.020 think you guys know this chick genie no none of you really the girl she just got a kid with g

02:24:25.100 oh yeah yeah yeah this chick you know and she thought oh i'm gonna wait till 45 or whatever to have a 0.96

02:24:32.260 kid and then she found her dream guy and she got married and you know what happened she said she 0.99

02:24:38.020 had too many bad habits and anger issues to change and then he did and then he divorced her ass which 0.99

02:24:43.800 is very rare for a guy oh and by the way she was masculine and she admitted it she said i was very 0.99

02:24:50.980 masculine and he didn't like that well if you leave it to too long you get too set in your ways that's the

02:24:56.360 other problem you know so you're making the argument oh well you know you find yourself and you build

02:25:00.000 yourself up to a woman and all that kind of stuff but the reality is that then you come out the other 0.96

02:25:03.240 side you're like actually that you know your requirements get higher because you know you've

02:25:07.060 built up so much autonomy and you don't want to let anyone else in so it's you know i just i am not

02:25:13.760 saying i hope that like these choices i i hope i wish the best you know i just you actually seem like

02:25:19.640 you you could be an okay mother if you if you get less crazy maybe but you know if you want to ever

02:25:27.220 take that path i'm gonna do this is the one whenever whenever i start dating with intent

02:25:32.880 i will find the right guy and it will be dating with intent

02:25:36.080 i'm not dating with intent right now i'm not i'm not no i just not i know i just want to do my own

02:25:43.500 thing after eight years i want time to myself just like you you said you said you're dating

02:25:48.320 you're really emotional i'm not jaded i am extremely emotional to take time and casually no i get it i get

02:25:53.640 it i was 27 years old and only had sex with three people do you know how sad that is look at you

02:25:58.080 emotional damage

02:26:00.740 no i get it i get it i get what you're saying but i think i think people need to make a choice and i

02:26:07.080 think people don't make a choice enough in this day and age because on the one hand like you're saying

02:26:10.840 you know we've got all of this stuff being blasted at us you go girl you know instagram you know do all

02:26:15.900 this all this cool stuff go to the party don't you don't need no man and then but then also you've got

02:26:20.620 this competing you you perhaps haven't but many women have this competing drive which is but actually 1.00

02:26:24.680 i do kind of want to get married i do want a family and stuff like that and the problem is that people

02:26:29.020 then it's like you kind of got to choose you know what i'm saying and probably women have to choose 1.00

02:26:33.560 younger than they're actually doing currently yeah that it's better well and the body count thing do

02:26:38.100 you have any idea it's it's a bit sad so here's the the body count stats i'm going to show you guys

02:26:44.180 i'm so i'm so awesome with my my charts yeah so these are the men okay so once you've slept with

02:26:52.560 um one man and you get married to a virgin or whatever 80 chance you're happy two guys 0.60

02:26:59.540 50 chance you're in happy marriage three guys it's like roughly i can't remember if it's 40 but let's

02:27:07.480 just go there 30 chance four guys 25 chance so after five bodies you're pretty much you're on this

02:27:17.400 is why when i say most of us will not make it because most women are done okay well what i'm 0.75

02:27:23.860 saying is if marriage if marriage ends in seven to ten seven to fifteen years so why even do it in the 0.94

02:27:30.340 first place why would a woman get married to be to have a kid or two and be left in seven to ten 1.00

02:27:37.480 years whether on your own volition or the man's volition so why do it in so okay i'll i'll give

02:27:42.520 you one women have everything to gain because a lot of women do it to take men's money i got my own 1.00

02:27:47.840 money but if you're a good person you won't do that yeah um i would say that nothing worth having

02:27:54.120 is going to come without risk yeah and if you live your life in fear um especially because women 0.98

02:28:00.580 don't have as much to be afraid of the men have actually real things i'd have opposite advice for

02:28:04.640 men but i would say for women it's like um things can always go wrong you can get your heart broke

02:28:11.540 but people i you know i feel like it's better to try than to just give up um i i but honestly i i want

02:28:18.800 to be in love i'll probably be married to um eventually i don't but i just don't know i will

02:28:24.500 be for sure i mean i had an eight-year relationship how many people do you know of our age that have

02:28:28.280 that long of a relationship so so i'm gonna tell you what so it's not that you're not attractive

02:28:34.460 it's not that you could not be married but what i don't see and the the one trait that i again it's

02:28:41.060 just from interviewing people just my opinion i could be wrong the one trait that i have a hard

02:28:45.720 time that seems to have a hard time staying married is women without humility i don't think 1.00

02:28:50.840 you have a ton of humility you can work on it i do i do have humility i i think you said you're

02:28:56.200 confident i think you said you're perfect i'm talking about that perfect i'm in the relationship

02:29:01.340 i never so and the reason and the reason the reason i don't see this is because they typically

02:29:07.920 cannot admit when they do something wrong i didn't do anything wrong honestly if i had his phone

02:29:12.440 number i could you've been in a relationship for 10 years have you ever had to admit you were wrong

02:29:17.320 all the time yeah and would you wouldn't it be a lot harder if you could never like what was like

02:29:22.080 what like what specifically like were you things that i said that i could improve on i mean oh just

02:29:27.060 that so you guys you said earlier that you guys don't don't do therapy and stuff like that because

02:29:32.060 we just like this is just being truthful we have been doing couples therapy ongoing for a long time

02:29:40.220 because we both have things that we can improve on as people and because red flag

02:29:43.980 no that's that's that's called that that's called having um being a responsible adult again

02:29:53.220 and is it helping because absolutely one thousand percent they're still together because there was

02:29:57.180 there was a time when when we talked to each other it was not it was just an argument and it's

02:30:02.120 and you're right women do find things to argue about i am a i am the human resource person in my home

02:30:08.880 for sure one thousand percent i can admit that but because i can admit these things is why i'm positive

02:30:13.700 that my relationship is going to last because i want it to not only does he want it to but i want it

02:30:20.040 to and i do believe in duty i do believe in being an only fans model that does not make it

02:30:25.520 listen okay well maybe maybe maybe i'll be the exception to the rule i don't know 0.96

02:30:30.540 i'm saying that there's a lot of times where we both have to admit to each other hey i fucked up 0.94

02:30:36.460 and there's a lot of times where i have to be like i'm sorry i i overreacted like that was that was

02:30:42.100 that was dumb and there's a lot of times where he does it you know what i mean he probably does 0.55

02:30:46.640 it way more than i do you know what i mean like but that's just that's the way that it is 0.98

02:30:51.960 you do not take it even even the only offense but the only fans model only the even the raggedy

02:30:59.300 ass only fans model me and my ex so so so me my ex and i we didn't really fight ever that's why i'm

02:31:06.660 saying they're raggedy saying what i did wrong because we didn't really fight we were really best

02:31:10.520 friends okay and i'm gonna i'm gonna tell you what a lot of times women in your position the men 1.00

02:31:15.020 feel like they can't tell them yes thank you and that's i mean no but the thing is the thing is

02:31:21.220 with with with all due respect you seem like a lovely woman you're very attractive you're you

02:31:24.900 know you've got a good heart but you you you like they said you are quite combative yes and that is

02:31:29.340 maybe that that that that could be if that that well that could be a flaw because if i if i was

02:31:33.980 dealing well you're you're quite sort of i don't know man you're quite sort of opinionated you're

02:31:37.740 quite sort of brusque you're quite sort of oh this is what i think this is what i think and to be

02:31:40.860 honest you know for me personally being assertive she gets kicked out well men want women to be 1.00

02:31:47.960 easy to deal with in all ways well i'm a whole person right we want you to be tender we want

02:31:54.280 you to be tender i think men want women i think men want women to be feminine and they want women 0.84

02:31:58.920 to be very feminine and they want women to be and ultimately for a relationship you want somebody

02:32:02.700 who's very easy to be with and maybe you are very easy to be peaceful peaceful but i've had people

02:32:08.780 tell me men that i've been with and friends yeah that i bring them peace like i literally had a

02:32:14.440 guy get in the car as soon as i got in the car he's like he's like as soon as you can just feel 0.98

02:32:18.060 the vibe he wanted to fuck he wanted to fuck oh as soon as you okay okay okay so so you know 0.99

02:32:25.580 you could either take this or leave it she won't take it i just look yeah you could take it or 1.00

02:32:30.580 take it this is just my two cents if you want to be married someday from my research you know

02:32:37.160 this is what yeah yeah i was gonna do that yeah here can i take a picture of that yeah yeah yeah

02:32:42.340 some people would argue government goes in there but that's anti-capital yeah so pearl do you feel

02:32:48.960 like you will be married at some point i do feel like i'll be married at some point okay um i probably

02:32:55.860 should have started earlier hindsight 2020 but yeah i do think i'll get married okay um you feel

02:33:01.340 like your your pool of men that are gonna be good for you is gonna is getting smaller and smaller

02:33:08.820 because you're getting older well um is my pool of men getting smaller and smaller probably yeah

02:33:16.620 so yeah i would say i probably had more options five years ago everyone looks hotter younger

02:33:21.720 you know yeah so one question for you bro which one of these ladies has a higher chance of being 1.00

02:33:27.180 happier long term her or her she's already happy long term or all of us yeah well no because you

02:33:34.640 guys you definitely definitely you ladies definitely have a higher risk you definitely you're going to 0.66

02:33:39.400 be married divorced with multiple kids and you're not going to have many very many skill set and you're

02:33:43.620 not going to have much to do in your life you're always going to be looking for someone else to take

02:33:46.900 care of you and then you're going to find once you have that first guy leave you with kids she has 1.00

02:33:50.900 multiple businesses find other guys to take care of you and your kids that's what's going to happen 0.99

02:33:55.500 for you this is why the guy this is why this is why the guy went from women to men i'll tell you

02:34:01.000 what i think if i had to bet i'll tell you what i think you know this is just my opinion you know

02:34:05.780 if i had to place bets dies alone um everybody dies alone literally yeah yeah i don't disagree

02:34:12.440 with that i would say yeah yeah yeah i think they know what she's saying i think i'll get married i'd

02:34:21.140 say it's 50 50 if i get divorced i hope not but you know um if i had to bet you guys said your body

02:34:28.280 counts so statistically you're done she might make i'd say she's got the best chance but she's

02:34:36.560 how old are you you 20 i'd say i'd say you'll divorce at 37. she's young well she's young and

02:34:42.740 untainted so you're 34 yeah you got married at 20 34 go ahead sorry i didn't say nothing he was

02:34:49.420 saying you're you're untainted so you've still got a chance to take it i think they'll both get

02:34:54.020 married though that's what i would predict surprising in miami i guessed this many

02:34:58.300 it's rare these girls in miami are not really on that kind of or long-term relate they might not

02:35:05.580 get married actually it might just be long-term relation it's we're in a post-marriage world

02:35:09.380 so anyways thank you guys for staying so long this was i know you guys are troopers you guys can i

02:35:16.320 do girls a quick question is it true that colombian girls are the most unfaithful in the world 1.00

02:35:20.740 i think i think i think cubans might give them a run for their money say cubans really okay okay

02:35:34.040 listen us colombians we're also raised with god right yeah we it it is true we're we're raised i

02:35:41.740 don't know about god but we're definitely raised to be like very into the man we're with like if we

02:35:46.820 decided you it's like forever that's cat because the man decides but okay okay but what i'm saying

02:35:52.860 is that it's it's very hard for a colombian woman to leave yeah situation that they're happy hard 1.00

02:35:59.600 it's just not but is it hard for her to fuck around yeah huh is it hard for her to fuck around behind 1.00

02:36:03.860 his back probably not but i don't think that's like that with anybody i don't think that's a 1.00

02:36:07.780 colombian thing i think that's like no i've heard that i've heard that i think that men make up a

02:36:13.600 decision of what they want but you guys and also i another thing that you also have to know in

02:36:18.560 colombia there's it's permiscuity and like it's like an open air brothel over there like literally 1.00

02:36:26.040 you can get sex on the street so fucking easy and like it's literally like if i can bring my flight 0.98

02:36:31.180 forward it's literally like going to mcdonald's and ordering french fries over there like it's 0.98

02:36:36.700 simple so guys if you want to join us in colombia next week

02:36:39.700 oh yeah oh yeah troy has some content coming out on the network he's gonna be doing traveling

02:36:49.100 um traveling interviews absolutely so what i'm gonna be doing is actually doing some interviews

02:36:53.780 in colombia next week so we're gonna talk to some colombian girls and get their opinions on the street 0.95

02:36:57.700 but listen don't get it twisted these women are not like they're they're not all whores and they're 1.00

02:37:04.580 just like no like a lot of them have like extremely high like what you guys call delusional 0.98

02:37:10.800 like i'm talking about we'll sit there and pretend to be perfect and then turn on you

02:37:17.980 with the quickness no but that was the point i'm making because so my friend who travels a lot he has

02:37:23.780 said about colombia in particular that the women you know they can seem perfect they can seem so nice 0.92

02:37:27.980 on the surface but you know and infidelity happens you know they'll bite you for sure yeah 0.99

02:37:32.600 they'll bite you for sure so whenever guys are like oh passport bros okay fuck around and find out 0.99

02:37:37.780 you don't be over there pissed off that you married a uh you gotta be getting married the std rates 1.00

02:37:44.540 reflect that over there that's what i always want they always want to say like where are the women 1.00

02:37:49.040 the sluttiest i'm like just look up std yeah yeah i think south africa and brazil are the

02:37:53.460 number one brazil yeah they're brazil's top 10 i don't remember where i know i'm pretty sure south

02:38:00.900 africa is number one but you know why don't why don't we go around and say any final thoughts you

02:38:07.180 know and then where people can find you starting with troy and then go around okay troy francis

02:38:11.920 thanks for having me pearl it's been a great show um you can find me on youtube at real troy francis

02:38:16.280 and also on instagram and twitter um if anybody does want to come to colombia and test out this theory

02:38:20.300 about where the colombian girls are i don't know when this is going out but we're doing a boot camp 0.98

02:38:23.940 there 19th to the 22nd of october so if you're interested in coming along and joining us and

02:38:27.380 learning about dating and social skills in colombia in bogota drop me an email troy at real troy francis

02:38:32.680 dot com cool thank you um as always i love hearing other people opinions i love seeing what other people

02:38:42.400 heads um are at i'm actually a huge fan of pearl i can't even believe i'm sitting at this table

02:38:48.420 um you can find me on instagram ashley deshawn underscore so yeah okay thank you very much

02:38:56.880 um you guys can find me at rebecca j live on instagram um i guess uh definitely only fans link is in my bio

02:39:06.640 uh-huh okay um anyways uh live live go ahead go to the link in my bio and find out put it on your

02:39:20.360 story too let everybody know um yeah live and let live man that's it live and let live stupider words

02:39:28.280 i've never been listen you're still talking so that's up for debate um you can find me on ig at

02:39:36.160 christy love period 13 um a pet's home away from home underscore and christy love designs wait so do

02:39:43.940 you help find foster homes oh my god bro i do i do everything listen listen don't do that the more

02:39:52.700 cash she gets the lower her chances are okay uh i want to thank pro thank you so much for having all

02:39:59.820 of us i think uh we all know each other here which is pretty crazy um you can find me at eric

02:40:05.240 unfiltered on instagram and then check out the podcast too unfiltered podcast actually all of these

02:40:10.820 ladies have been on this part on our podcast so shout out to you guys and thanks again pearl

02:40:14.760 appreciate it um you can find me on instagram at iamfannylu and also in unfiltered podcast as well

02:40:21.400 thank you guys all for coming thank you for your patience i know this is a long one

02:40:26.840 yeah um all right guys make sure you like the video on your way out subscribe to the channel

02:40:31.680 let me know who on the panel is gonna die alone who's gonna get who's gonna who's gonna

02:40:38.420 i don't know pearl i think it might be you

02:40:41.700 yeah yeah someone's gotta do it right like the video subscribe we'll talk to you next time

02:40:58.360 bye

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JustPearlyThings - October 30, 2023

Society Has MANIPULATED Women's Divorces w⧸ @RealTroyFrancis @Theunfilterdpodcast PREGAME ｜ EP 154

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