JustPearlyThings - Society NEEDS To Work On THIS

00:00:00.000 when somebody commits a crime do we blame the criminal or do we blame society

00:00:06.480 it depends on the gender 50 50. i think it's both

00:00:10.240 i think good men can become bad where usually when you see men that have turned bad i think

00:00:15.280 they always started out as good men but being around certain people in society can change them

00:00:20.880 and twist them for them so you guys think it's 50 50. i wouldn't say 50 50. yes i bet you felt

00:00:26.000 so if you steal something i don't believe it's not 50 50. if i go down the street and i steal

00:00:30.800 something is it my fault or society no it's your fault it's your fault it's nothing to do with

00:00:34.880 society like if we want to blame the system then that's the that's the that's the crux of no

00:00:40.800 accountability like like if you want to just blame well my childhood my upbringing i didn't have this

00:00:46.000 i didn't have that the same person grew up in the same circumstance as you and they made other choices

00:00:51.120 so we have to like that's not accountability if it's if it's always somebody else you know who

00:00:57.760 who caused it because you were raised a certain way i can show you the example of somebody raised

00:01:02.400 in a worse circumstances who made better choices than you so is it really society if if we can if i can

00:01:08.800 point to one person who made a better choice sorry if i make if i could point to one person who made

00:01:13.040 a better choice then like like you haven't your excuse is gone but there's a moral in there's a moral

00:01:19.920 story in that so for instance if you look at people like robin hood right robin hood was born into

00:01:26.080 a poor society right and what he chose to do was to rob from the rich and give to the poor right so was

00:01:33.520 he was he wrong so i have a question so if a guy cheats can he blame society no no absolutely not no he

00:01:40.480 has no no discipline with his tool why can't why can't why can't you just blame hookup culture by that

00:01:47.360 logic no just leave if you want to hook up yeah be single just leave just leave i don't understand

00:01:51.600 that yeah but it also why cheat just leave but i think it also depends on your on your end goal so

00:01:56.960 like i said with robin hood with the robin hood analogy he robbed from the rich gave to the poor

00:02:02.720 to try and change society wait so so women were they they they so this woman is getting a lot of his 0.57

00:02:08.400 tool and these poor women out here aren't getting enough d so he's giving charity d to the streets 0.95

00:02:14.960 i'm talking about because that's essentially what your example is no i'm just talking about morally

00:02:18.960 depends on that's why i said it depends i never said it's 50 50 i said it could also be the society

00:02:24.000 could also be the individual i'm just saying it depends i would say it would depend on what you

00:02:29.440 want from society so people like if you're trying to change society for instance look at andrew tate

00:02:33.600 he's trying to change society right but he's deemed as wrong that's why he's been jailed just

00:02:39.120 people don't like right because people don't like to hear the truth but he's done things wrong as well

00:02:42.560 if we're honest but he's done things right i will say there are moves he's made that people are on

00:02:49.280 on his side will say listen you you self-snitched like you you should have kept it quiet there's

00:02:54.240 moves that he needs to make we're not talking about that we're talking about whether he's

00:02:57.360 is that society's fault if you self-snitch is he wrong and for what he's trying to do is if you

00:03:03.520 self-snitch you have to learn how to move we we're in the world we're in and i'm not saying he's right

00:03:08.240 or wrong what i'm saying is but that's what we're talking about but i'm saying is but he has to also

00:03:12.560 does andrew tate have to take accountability if he self-snitches well but if you if you you can

00:03:16.480 you can sing about something in a song or talk about something on social media without it technically

00:03:20.800 being self-snitching they have to bring evidence that you did those exactly they have no evidence against him

00:03:25.280 so i agree with you they have no evidence so they need to let that go their feelings are hurt so

00:03:29.600 that's why i said society because society could deem somebody wrong because they're the ones in the

00:03:33.840 wrong so if i have power my original question was about the about the stealer so if i go down and

00:03:38.880 steal is it my fault or society it's your fault your fault but let's just think if you're if you're

00:03:42.800 raised in poverty you have no money you're in a circumstance where you have no food and you're

00:03:47.120 raising us and you're living let's say you're a kid and you have no money you have no food you're

00:03:52.000 dependent on parents who are on drugs and and your your baby sister needs to eat your mother's on 0.95

00:03:58.000 crack like there are nuances in this where you have to blame a portion of society that this child has

00:04:04.640 failed because we've let them slip through the system i disagree but how would that child eat

00:04:10.240 how do they eat tell me the solutions if their parents are on crack their baby sister their little

00:04:15.520 brothers and sisters are hungry they can't get a job they're 13 i personally know of people like this

00:04:21.040 kids in homeless shelters this is their situation maggie understood but wrong is still wrong there may

00:04:27.280 be reasons why this kid is stealing but we still have to be able to say wrong is wrong and as a

00:04:33.040 parent i mean you hear it even in parenting advice you know they tell you oh the child is not bad they

00:04:38.720 just made bad decisions where i grew up in an era where if you were a fool they called you a fool yeah

00:04:44.640 and i think we need to bring some of that back because it breeds this thing well it's not my fault

00:04:49.760 sometimes it just has to sit on you and you just have to realize i did that and it was wrong so is

00:04:54.560 that a moral question then like when you say wrong is wrong because who decides what is wrong and what

00:04:58.400 is right but then the question is well if you are let's say you're a teenager or young your mother's

00:05:03.280 on crack there's a recent story in the u.s where a mother left her two children her 14 year old ran away

00:05:09.040 her 12 year old and she has a three year old all three different baby daddies she left him alone in texas and 0.72

00:05:13.680 houston for two months through thanksgiving she told them if you tell anybody that i'm leaving that they're

00:05:19.520 going to take your little three-year-old brother away and you'll never see him again and threatened

00:05:24.640 her so she was scared to tell anybody what was going on her mother was missing for two months 0.99

00:05:30.080 or she was running the streets in another state she was left in the care she never enrolled these

00:05:34.880 children into school uh the oldest one so she used to have to lie to her father who was working in

00:05:41.200 another state because of course she got custody of all the kids okay so then she because she was 1.00

00:05:46.960 threatened because the mother said i'll never love you or see you you'll never see your siblings

00:05:50.400 again this child had to lie to her father and say can you please get groceries mom is working 1.00

00:05:55.600 he would call the mother say yeah i'm working can you please send groceries or food i'm struggling

00:06:00.160 but she couldn't tell the truth because she was scared if that instance if she didn't have food

00:06:04.240 didn't have the father who would who would send the groceries or food to the house and she had to go

00:06:08.880 steal are we going to say little 12 year old you are now accountable because your mother's for the

00:06:14.400 streets and abandoned you and your in your little sibling and now you need consequences i mean i

00:06:19.840 think there's you can have empathy for a situation but the whole idea is wrong is wrong exactly but

00:06:24.720 you're 12 and your mom leaves you with a three-year-old and you could say this is why i did that wrong

00:06:29.440 thing and like this is my reason for it but wrong is still wrong but it doesn't it doesn't become right

00:06:35.040 just because something happened exactly it doesn't matter well it's tough for me that one that's a tough

00:06:40.160 i think it's odd so suppose for instance if i got up and slapped you in your face right now am i wrong

00:06:45.520 yes sir yeah if you slap me back are you wrong yes no no no but remember you made the decision to

00:06:52.080 slap me no because once in self-defense all right if he just slaps you once and then he just stands

00:07:00.640 there and there's no defense needed he just slaps you it's still self-defense though right he's gonna

00:07:04.640 slap me again what if he's like once he might do it again what if he slaps you and it goes sits back

00:07:10.400 down and you know it's still assault right it's still assault he could stand up and do it again but

00:07:16.080 but what if he doesn't what if like he's held back are you are you should you be able to how would

00:07:20.880 he be how do we get here from our women held accountable society i'm like we've gone on the

00:07:26.560 path i think you've gone in a path i think i think you you take accountability these examples are a

00:07:33.200 little extreme let's drill it in your mind's like spaghetti it's all right yes everyone it's my

00:07:38.640 fault why is it that when a man cheat he cheats he's a cheater but when a woman cheats she's not

00:07:43.600 satisfied in the relationship because can we women cheat emotionally and men cheat

00:07:51.040 because there's a hole in the wall right that's why men cheat sounds like an excuse to me no no i'm

00:07:56.720 just saying listen it's it's a corn category right it's called glory holes you see men putting their

00:08:02.480 things in they don't care who's on the other side they're just trying to get their rocks off right

00:08:06.880 men can do that men don't care right women actually for a woman to cheat on a man she has to be 1.00

00:08:13.120 somewhat emotionally involved no the questions back or tied to that guy men can do it without having

00:08:19.680 any emotional connection whatsoever yeah no but the question was different though as many of you

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JustPearlyThings - March 31, 2023

Society NEEDS To Work On THIS

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