Society Never Tells Women THIS
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about the dangers of abortion, the side effects of birth control, and how to deal with toxic relationships and toxic partners. We also discuss the impact of the term "toxic relationships" and how toxic partners can have on a woman's fertility.
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but also what i would say is like once a woman like when a woman actually falls pregnant
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it's a very very very difficult decision to make whether to keep it or to get rid of it
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like you grow pregnant how do you fall pregnant
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yeah it's true because you get an emotional attachment to that baby
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yeah it's an actual baby i mean you might tell yourself oh i don't want a baby and then you
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fall pregnant and you're like oh shit like what have i done yeah what have i done like i actually
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want to keep this baby now or i'm gonna that's what i feel like a lot of people do you guys don't think
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about the consequences of your actions you're always relying on i feel like this generation
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lacks so much awareness yeah are you present are you aware of like what you're doing and the
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consequences i would say mostly yeah this generation i would say mostly women yeah so
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we go back to what you said yeah i would say women use abortion as a form i would say we
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use it as a form of birth control which is not good which is not good by the way i mean i know
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people might have different um views but i say that's not good that's horrible yeah i think if
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you don't want to get pregnant then you need to like take the precautions to not get pregnant
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obviously if you need to have an abortion then like you get an abortion because there's women
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out there that can't have children and then if you get a lot of abortions that can actually stop
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you from having kids in the future that is very true that is very true because i took the pill so
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many times i now suffer from polycystic ovarian syndrome so it's hard for me to actually get
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pregnant um unfortunately i haven't seen my period for four years but recently i got my period
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through some prophet that prayed for me and yeah i'm delivered guys miracle wait so from like from
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what did you get it from the pill like um like do you mean the morning after pill or the the morning
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after pill yeah i took that too many times and i also went on the pill how many times did you take
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it oh i think like six seven times six seven times within the span of how long um within oh maybe like
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six seven in a month wow yeah and did you know that was a possible side effect no i didn't
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and how did you find out that you had that this was actually well what the polycystic ovarian
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syndrome when i was in a relationship with my toxic ex because i noticed that he would obviously
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inside of me and then i would notice that i wasn't like getting pregnant and i was gaining so much weight
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really quickly and um i started growing excess excess hair in certain places so those are all
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the side effects of getting um polycystic ovarian syndromes and then i went to the doctors found
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out i had it and yeah that's what happened what was that like for you it was scary because i love kids
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i'm i am a child myself you know like i love laughs i love playing i love to just be me everywhere so
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kids was a big factor for me but i knew that in due time things will work out in my favor and i will
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get the kids that i want it's not impossible not to have kids but it's harder 10 times harder do you
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wish they told you about that um before you before i took yes thousand percent yes um thousand percent
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because i feel like a lot of girls really don't know about the side effects they don't discuss them
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the doctors don't tell you i've never really been on it because when i heard about birth control i was
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like you're gonna stop me from getting pregnant yeah education i want education in that aspect
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when it comes to contraception methods it's not that good the teacher a little bit at school but
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not completely like the full real deal but even when you go and like get it prescribed the doctor
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don't really tell you nothing and you know what there's so many women that go on contraception and
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then they can't they struggle to get pregnant afterwards they're like oh your fertility goes back
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to normal straight away and it doesn't and some people are trying for a baby and three years down the line
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they still can't have a child because they've been everyone's body is different as well everyone's
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body works differently yeah yeah yeah it's hard do you guys believe that the label toxic is overused
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in relationships today yes yeah i mean look at me like what 10 minutes ago i was like yeah
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when you've been like come on now like really and then hearing them stories that you know there's
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different like i said there's different um heights of toxic levels of toxicness and again it's what you
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perceive the word toxic to mean so i do think that toxic relationships and like just with anyone
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like friends yeah partners and stuff it's like really like promoted on social media it is it is
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like the toxic relationship lifestyles like toxic love like everyone yeah like with kushan and and
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what's his name blue face yeah yeah yeah that's why i don't understand why they get so much attention
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for that and it's like so unhealthy they're probably so both so depressed and unhappy i feel like to be
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toxic you have to have a very strong head yeah like for them to be toxic they know what they're doing
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it's like they don't it's not like they don't know what they're doing it's like it's like it's
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calculated yeah they're doing it on purpose but what i've seen that's what it looks like yeah i mean to be
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honest i feel like with toxic relationships you get that adrenaline rush from like when things are
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good and then when it goes like really bad you just think about the good times which is why you stay
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with that you're making excuses for yourself to stay yeah and obviously it's so up and down like
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once it goes down you're like oh my god i can't wait for it to like go back up again like and
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everything to be good because you guys go through like really good you cling on to that little bit of
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hope almost yeah that good part or sometimes you're just used to it this is your comfort zone now
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yeah the cons will eventually outweigh the posed i mean that's when you know how do you get used to
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it no but some people are growing up in even like a toxic household like with toxic families
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like also like how someone's been raised has a big impact on like the type of men they go for women
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also like drama yeah they do they do they love it i mean why don't women watch sports that's camaraderie we
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like the kardashians watch me in a year's time i'm going to be sitting with kim kardashian
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she's going to be me and her i'm going to be telling me now manifestation
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i'm going to be over each other working on you know skims x i've got a kovaland dropping soon as
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well joining my music so mad madness i told you i'm such a east dennis fan so i can't you know what
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no but it's then there's christmas specials yeah they're drama every day every day i used to do
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yeah i used to do that i used to send us every single day but then the the storylines is just
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too dark for me like it's so negative up to a point you might be able to handle it but like it got to a
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point where i could not i could not anymore but that is toxic actually question what is
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toxicness and where does it come from i think something that's not good for you but you want
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it you go for it anyway but something that's genuinely like bad for your your mental health
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and you do it anyway a long duration as well where does it stem from though
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where does it stem from i think well toxic relationships stem from lack of boundaries i'm
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talking about toxic not toxic relationship there's two different that's like toxic itself what does
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it stem from toxic it's something harmful something dangerous people use that for food
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it's like poison wouldn't you say yeah because that's what it can lead to it can like damage and
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it's harmful to your mental health and then it can generally lead to other things the environment have
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have you guys ever been labeled a toxic ex like would your exes say that you're toxic yes yes yeah
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no haven't no no but i would say i could be toxic if i choose to be toxic oh yeah yeah exactly that
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that's the energy yeah yeah i agree with that i agree with that that's why i said for you to be toxic
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you have to have a strong head and people know what they do when they be toxic it's not like no
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it's like a mind game 100 i agree what do you think have you ever been labeled a toxic ex would your
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exes say you're toxic they would they would say i'm toxic only because i'm not as lit as me that is
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why i don't know if i'm toxic because um because um we're not going to talk about the whole liking
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and following that thing because i was in the past that was 10 minutes ago but yeah i don't think i
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would be called toxic how how do you guys how do you guys think past relationships shape future
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relationships you know the difference between lust and love oh my goodness you know the difference
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that is i feel like if you're able to reflect if you're able to reflect and not carry on the patterns
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that you had in as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily
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