JustPearlyThings - Society Never Tells Women THIS

00:00:00.000 but also what i would say is like once a woman like when a woman actually falls pregnant

00:00:04.400 it's a very very very difficult decision to make whether to keep it or to get rid of it

00:00:10.360 like you grow pregnant how do you fall pregnant

00:00:14.740 yeah it's true because you get an emotional attachment to that baby

00:00:25.080 yeah it's an actual baby i mean you might tell yourself oh i don't want a baby and then you 0.86

00:00:32.780 fall pregnant and you're like oh shit like what have i done yeah what have i done like i actually 0.90

00:00:37.580 want to keep this baby now or i'm gonna that's what i feel like a lot of people do you guys don't think 0.99

00:00:41.480 about the consequences of your actions you're always relying on i feel like this generation

00:00:45.000 lacks so much awareness yeah are you present are you aware of like what you're doing and the

00:00:51.580 consequences i would say mostly yeah this generation i would say mostly women yeah so 1.00

00:00:56.020 we go back to what you said yeah i would say women use abortion as a form i would say we

00:00:59.880 use it as a form of birth control which is not good which is not good by the way i mean i know

00:01:05.040 people might have different um views but i say that's not good that's horrible yeah i think if

00:01:11.180 you don't want to get pregnant then you need to like take the precautions to not get pregnant 0.99

00:01:15.680 obviously if you need to have an abortion then like you get an abortion because there's women 1.00

00:01:22.000 out there that can't have children and then if you get a lot of abortions that can actually stop 1.00

00:01:25.260 you from having kids in the future that is very true that is very true because i took the pill so

00:01:29.900 many times i now suffer from polycystic ovarian syndrome so it's hard for me to actually get

00:01:35.220 pregnant um unfortunately i haven't seen my period for four years but recently i got my period

00:01:40.480 through some prophet that prayed for me and yeah i'm delivered guys miracle wait so from like from

00:01:46.500 what did you get it from the pill like um like do you mean the morning after pill or the the morning

00:01:51.600 after pill yeah i took that too many times and i also went on the pill how many times did you take

00:01:57.320 it oh i think like six seven times six seven times within the span of how long um within oh maybe like

00:02:04.780 six seven in a month wow yeah and did you know that was a possible side effect no i didn't

00:02:12.560 and how did you find out that you had that this was actually well what the polycystic ovarian

00:02:17.280 syndrome when i was in a relationship with my toxic ex because i noticed that he would obviously

00:02:22.060 inside of me and then i would notice that i wasn't like getting pregnant and i was gaining so much weight

00:02:28.420 really quickly and um i started growing excess excess hair in certain places so those are all

00:02:35.540 the side effects of getting um polycystic ovarian syndromes and then i went to the doctors found

00:02:40.500 out i had it and yeah that's what happened what was that like for you it was scary because i love kids

00:02:47.240 i'm i am a child myself you know like i love laughs i love playing i love to just be me everywhere so

00:02:53.660 kids was a big factor for me but i knew that in due time things will work out in my favor and i will

00:03:00.240 get the kids that i want it's not impossible not to have kids but it's harder 10 times harder do you

00:03:06.000 wish they told you about that um before you before i took yes thousand percent yes um thousand percent

00:03:12.040 because i feel like a lot of girls really don't know about the side effects they don't discuss them

00:03:16.040 the doctors don't tell you i've never really been on it because when i heard about birth control i was

00:03:20.300 like you're gonna stop me from getting pregnant yeah education i want education in that aspect

00:03:26.540 when it comes to contraception methods it's not that good the teacher a little bit at school but

00:03:30.740 not completely like the full real deal but even when you go and like get it prescribed the doctor

00:03:35.420 don't really tell you nothing and you know what there's so many women that go on contraception and 1.00

00:03:39.660 then they can't they struggle to get pregnant afterwards they're like oh your fertility goes back

00:03:43.800 to normal straight away and it doesn't and some people are trying for a baby and three years down the line

00:03:48.700 they still can't have a child because they've been everyone's body is different as well everyone's

00:03:52.300 body works differently yeah yeah yeah it's hard do you guys believe that the label toxic is overused

00:03:59.500 in relationships today yes yeah i mean look at me like what 10 minutes ago i was like yeah

00:04:07.420 when you've been like come on now like really and then hearing them stories that you know there's

00:04:11.740 different like i said there's different um heights of toxic levels of toxicness and again it's what you

00:04:17.660 perceive the word toxic to mean so i do think that toxic relationships and like just with anyone

00:04:25.180 like friends yeah partners and stuff it's like really like promoted on social media it is it is

00:04:31.260 like the toxic relationship lifestyles like toxic love like everyone yeah like with kushan and and

00:04:37.340 what's his name blue face yeah yeah yeah that's why i don't understand why they get so much attention

00:04:42.860 for that and it's like so unhealthy they're probably so both so depressed and unhappy i feel like to be

00:04:47.980 toxic you have to have a very strong head yeah like for them to be toxic they know what they're doing

00:04:54.140 it's like they don't it's not like they don't know what they're doing it's like it's like it's

00:04:57.100 calculated yeah they're doing it on purpose but what i've seen that's what it looks like yeah i mean to be

00:05:03.020 honest i feel like with toxic relationships you get that adrenaline rush from like when things are

00:05:08.060 good and then when it goes like really bad you just think about the good times which is why you stay

00:05:12.460 with that you're making excuses for yourself to stay yeah and obviously it's so up and down like

00:05:18.300 once it goes down you're like oh my god i can't wait for it to like go back up again like and

00:05:21.660 everything to be good because you guys go through like really good you cling on to that little bit of

00:05:26.060 hope almost yeah that good part or sometimes you're just used to it this is your comfort zone now

00:05:31.340 yeah the cons will eventually outweigh the posed i mean that's when you know how do you get used to

00:05:38.540 it no but some people are growing up in even like a toxic household like with toxic families

00:05:44.220 like also like how someone's been raised has a big impact on like the type of men they go for women

00:05:49.420 also like drama yeah they do they do they love it i mean why don't women watch sports that's camaraderie we 1.00

00:05:55.740 like the kardashians watch me in a year's time i'm going to be sitting with kim kardashian

00:06:12.540 she's going to be me and her i'm going to be telling me now manifestation

00:06:17.020 i'm going to be over each other working on you know skims x i've got a kovaland dropping soon as

00:06:22.060 well joining my music so mad madness i told you i'm such a east dennis fan so i can't you know what

00:06:30.380 no but it's then there's christmas specials yeah they're drama every day every day i used to do

00:06:35.740 yeah i used to do that i used to send us every single day but then the the storylines is just

00:06:40.620 too dark for me like it's so negative up to a point you might be able to handle it but like it got to a

00:06:46.220 point where i could not i could not anymore but that is toxic actually question what is

00:06:52.300 toxicness and where does it come from i think something that's not good for you but you want

00:06:57.420 it you go for it anyway but something that's genuinely like bad for your your mental health

00:07:03.580 and you do it anyway a long duration as well where does it stem from though

00:07:08.460 where does it stem from i think well toxic relationships stem from lack of boundaries i'm

00:07:11.980 talking about toxic not toxic relationship there's two different that's like toxic itself what does

00:07:17.100 it stem from toxic it's something harmful something dangerous people use that for food

00:07:24.700 it's like poison wouldn't you say yeah because that's what it can lead to it can like damage and

00:07:29.340 it's harmful to your mental health and then it can generally lead to other things the environment have

00:07:33.740 have you guys ever been labeled a toxic ex like would your exes say that you're toxic yes yes yeah

00:07:41.020 no haven't no no but i would say i could be toxic if i choose to be toxic oh yeah yeah exactly that

00:07:51.740 that's the energy yeah yeah i agree with that i agree with that that's why i said for you to be toxic

00:07:57.340 you have to have a strong head and people know what they do when they be toxic it's not like no

00:08:01.740 it's like a mind game 100 i agree what do you think have you ever been labeled a toxic ex would your

00:08:08.300 exes say you're toxic they would they would say i'm toxic only because i'm not as lit as me that is

00:08:13.660 why i don't know if i'm toxic because um because um we're not going to talk about the whole liking

00:08:19.660 and following that thing because i was in the past that was 10 minutes ago but yeah i don't think i

00:08:24.780 would be called toxic how how do you guys how do you guys think past relationships shape future

00:08:31.260 relationships you know the difference between lust and love oh my goodness you know the difference

00:08:37.660 that is i feel like if you're able to reflect if you're able to reflect and not carry on the patterns

00:08:43.820 that you had in as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily

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JustPearlyThings - March 19, 2023

Society Never Tells Women THIS

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