JustPearlyThings - July 27, 2023


Son Husbandry Is WOMEN'S FAULT

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Drake
Modern Women Don't Understand The Concept Of MARRIAGE Modern Man Claimed to be FAITHFUL

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

198.46

Word count

1,963

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Harmful content

Misogyny

30

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Toxicity

13

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Hate speech

25

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the complicated topic of who is to blame for the problems in our marriages and relationships? Is it the men or the women who are the problem, or is it the women that are to blame?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 it's because of women women are the problem in most marriages not all but 0.99
00:00:04.380 most we leave who's whose fault is it the quitter or the person that stays oh 0.95
00:00:10.320 it's like it's a joint thing it's a joint right but if me and you make an
00:00:13.380 agreement right we say hey we're gonna be together for life okay and you leave
00:00:17.280 and I stay whose fault is it I guess if I'm not abusive if I'm not a view
00:00:22.800 because that's all the first thing is like girls would be like oh men are
00:00:25.120 abusive and cheaters okay let's take those off the tables if it's neither of
00:00:30.520 those thing things and I stay and you quit whose fault is it well there's so much
00:00:35.920 nuance to it because everyone because it's like especially like you know have
00:00:39.180 you heard of the thing of like like oh what's the thing when it's like men
00:00:44.060 purposely don't do house chores because they know the woman's gonna do it do do 1.00
00:00:48.620 women purposely fix things around the house and mow the lawn because women 1.00
00:00:54.580 will always whine about doing house chores but they don't talk about men
00:00:57.080 usually fix things around the house mow the lawn what they don't do that stuff
00:01:00.820 they're just like sons like grown sons basically do you know what I mean like
00:01:04.720 men if men are grown son husbands it's the fault of women because what would you 1.00
00:01:11.260 agree with the statement men will do anything to get laid yes so if women are 0.97
00:01:15.280 accepting grown sons son husbands whose fault is that yeah it makes it kind of
00:01:20.860 peak for the rest of us because then it's like if you have a certain standard then
00:01:23.560 you're high maintenance but it's like no this is just but I feel like also as
00:01:28.360 much as the woman you know because we what if the woman tries to change the son 0.57
00:01:33.020 husbands and you know tries to you know better them but then they still have a 1.00
00:01:37.500 choice yeah like why are you trying to change men is that usually productive no
00:01:41.740 you know that you know that you don't feel like I can change him typically a good
00:01:46.940 strategy to get you know a good-looking guy that doesn't do much is it a good
00:01:50.960 strategy to try to change him no but maybe like highlighting a few things would
00:01:55.360 give them a better viewpoint on what to work on because you can maybe you can't 0.99
00:02:01.480 just go around being a dick okay do you have women friends that are lazy that are 1.00
00:02:06.160 just bums you know any did they ever magically one day not become a bum no 1.00
00:02:10.720 have they always have they gotten better or worse over time or the same I don't 0.99
00:02:14.920 have female well I used to be a bum you used to be a bum I used to be a complete 0.73
00:02:18.760 bum I never used to clean I used to do anything but as weird as it may sound I
00:02:24.220 had like a spiritual awakening and that opened my eye to more things and was it
00:02:28.720 because of someone else or because of you because of me so is it smart to go after
00:02:33.160 guys that are bums no I'm trying to make yeah I think yeah I think everything's 1.00
00:02:49.540 women's fault I'm a woman yeah yeah yeah but I'm smart I think we can look at 0.88
00:02:57.940 things as at a society level and not necessarily an individual level right I'm
00:03:02.500 not saying well your relationships in your lives or your own fault personally
00:03:06.260 just like mine mine as well right but as a society again men will do anything to
00:03:11.740 get laid yes if they act a certain way it's the fault of women and I've also 1.00
00:03:17.500 interviewed men they they act like bad guys because we prefer them when we're
00:03:22.060 younger yeah and so whose fault is it if the men act bad if we're picking the bad
00:03:28.120 men it's a tea I feel like it's a two-sided thing because like women are 1.00
00:03:31.800 feeding into men's thing whether men feed into women's and so it's just like
00:03:35.000 this who started it we couldn't know what what comes first sex or 0.98
00:03:45.880 relationships and nowadays sex okay who picked who is in control of sex men or
00:03:51.040 women women women women a thousand percent yes so so so who started it but 0.85
00:03:58.180 sometimes but I would say sometimes like the way men come towards women it can be
00:04:02.020 like a lot of women would just be like I'm just gonna do it yeah cuz a lot of 1.00
00:04:07.560 women don't even half the time so it's so whose choice is that it's our assuming 1.00
00:04:12.700 assuming there's no assault right assuming there's none of that whose fault it's us
00:04:18.800 if you think about what we're trying to be nice to guys but it's like indeed
00:04:22.280 like there's a guy at tusco down the street you could just be but you know
00:04:27.140 like you know what like men I feel like we already know how they would react mm-hmm
00:04:32.180 do you get it we already know their intentions like the way they would talk
00:04:35.540 to us what what they would do for us so for us to react a certain way it's it's
00:04:40.100 it's really and truly like up to us to spread them cheeks or not but now that
00:04:46.920 women have it like standards like they even have you seen all the videos on 1.00
00:04:50.100 tiktok like as soon as you start to have standards for yourself the amount of men 0.65
00:04:52.980 is like I'll tell you oh I'll tell you why I'll tell you why it's because you're
00:04:57.160 no longer as valuable as you were before in what sense so again what do men value
00:05:02.300 purity youth looks main main three things roughly I mean there's rough 1.00
00:05:09.920 overview right like what what did every king have hot young virgins and so so 1.00
00:05:18.740 what girls will do is they'll have sex with all the bad guys love sex with like 1.00
00:05:22.420 10 15 bad guys whatever it is and then they'll ask for the same price as they 0.99
00:05:26.960 demanded it when they were 10 years younger in a virgin and now they have
00:05:31.160 less options because the guys don't want to pay that much you're a used car and
00:05:34.280 used but don't you think you should just like be able to have fun in your
00:05:38.600 younger years um it depends what outcomes you want well if you're just like
00:05:43.220 exploring no I'm saying like what like do you want to be married with kids or do
00:05:46.680 you want to be by yourself or do you want to be with a woman so if you want to be
00:05:51.400 married with kids is it is it good to have a lot of exes that you've slept with is 1.00
00:05:55.300 that good for a marriage I mean what about the like to contradict that a little bit
00:05:59.800 it's like when men be like oh I want a freak girl but then you can't be a freak without
00:06:04.160 I haven't slept because then if you're pure then you're might be classed as like 1.00
00:06:07.580 boring what do they want the freak girl for hunky-punky yeah so do they do men 0.84
00:06:14.180 typically wife freak girls typically no no no yeah so they do want the it's it's 1.00
00:06:22.460 not sad because it's based on choices there's no problem if you want to
00:06:25.760 market yourself yeah if you want to market yourself as the freak girl and
00:06:29.760 that's the type of men you want to attract that's fine you'll probably get
00:06:32.840 access to higher value men than the normal girl if that's your mating 1.00
00:06:36.800 strategy you want to just give it up and see if you can get one of them to stay
00:06:39.740 that's a strategy okay try it but do you think do you think you can blame a woman 1.00
00:06:45.740 if she doesn't like know any better um it's not about blame it's about outcomes
00:06:51.740 you know I mean it's like you could say I was young but that doesn't take away the
00:06:56.120 fact that you slept with 20 dudes yeah you know you could say we can have some
00:07:00.080 empathy and understanding but it doesn't change the outcome of the situation which
00:07:04.520 is men are gonna look at you different if you've done certain things and they
00:07:07.640 find out now most girls will lie and some girls get away with it but you can't 1.00
00:07:11.900 lie to yourself like girls talk too much they'll slip up about 1.00
00:07:16.040 what if a woman like I was like I want my future husband to only upset with three women that's 1.00
00:07:30.800 gonna be like do you think that's do you think that's common no do you think it's
00:07:34.800 common for women to want that from men maybe do you think that women are that want to sleep with 1.00
00:07:42.600 say Drake are worried about his body count no no that if they were gonna date amber rose they
00:07:50.340 would be worried about her past no but these are public no no even even you don't think I'm a high
00:07:56.400 value man that's like making six figures he's got his own business would be worried about amber
00:08:01.620 rose's reputation dating her no probably not but she's based the whole brand around sex you you 1.00
00:08:08.580 think there was you have like slot on her full yeah I'm saying you don't think there's you don't
00:08:12.780 think he would have any qualms about having her as a mother of his kids that would be tough for a wife 1.00
00:08:19.680 maybe but she has kids which is which is that's that's the strategy the whores kind of use as they 1.00
00:08:26.460 get they get the kid off of the guy that makes a lot of money and they don't want to be a wife 1.00
00:08:30.120 they just want to be side chick that's fine I mean do that fine we've had side chicks for all
00:08:35.160 of history I feel like that's why she goes for like rappers and yeah she's trying to get the good 0.89
00:08:39.780 she's she even said it herself yeah did she say that she did oh I think no because I just the side
00:08:45.780 chick life I don't know I would I would just wait it's like want more for yourself type vibe like it's 1.00
00:08:50.700 just kind of I mean if that's what you want to do but you can you can want more but can you get it and
00:08:55.120 at this point is she gonna get a guy that's making good money and is successful that wants to take her
00:09:00.340 seriously that does on the low maybe on the low but as a side chick right she's not gonna be the main 1.00
00:09:06.280 I have a question yeah so if a woman that has this like history of like crazy sex whatever experiences 1.00
00:09:13.380 and now she's like you know what I want to change I want like a real guy I'm ready to be this woman that
00:09:20.120 he wants me to be hmm what do you think is the like do I think it's possible do you think it's
00:09:26.960 possible I think it's possible but it's not probable and it depends when did she do it because the more
00:09:32.160 time you like were you doing that for five years it's gonna take you probably five years to turn it
00:09:37.580 off at least hope were you doing it for 10 if if I ate dessert every day for 10 years it wouldn't
00:09:44.480 be hard to quit very yeah and it's the same thing with that so guys kind of look at okay how long did
00:09:49.880 you do it for when did you do it and how bad was it