Spiritual Girl LIES To Pearl And Gets CALLED OUT
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Summary
In this episode of the podcast, we discuss the difference between women and men when it comes to sex and sex appeal. We discuss the differences in terms of sex appeal, sex drive, sexual fantasies and what makes a good fuck. We also discuss how women are sexier than men and why women are more attracted to sex than men.
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i was going to say both but i do think it is women because i feel like i do think it's women
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because i feel like with us it's true we use our looks we use like obviously in terms of the way
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we look um when a guy approaches us and then all of that we could be come across very seductive
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at times i think i think it's women who breathed like that into the mic
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i think i think it's just like well if i talk to guy friends and they're like oh yeah i met this
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girl and you know yeah she came back to mind and yeah we banged or whatever it's very sort of
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perfunctory and it's like right yeah we did that with women and then when i deal with women it's
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very sort of like they go into this hole and then he took me against the wall it's just even when i
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did when i've dealt with women that i maybe i've dated and stuff like that like that there's just
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so much more to it this is whole like sexual like fantasy and this kind of imagination and everything
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and he didn't just say good night babe he sent me a smiley emoji with hot eyes
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it's got to be the aubergine hasn't it the aubergine oh yeah oh yeah because shops like i still think
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it's men because i feel like everything we've just described is like a woman uses sex to get
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the emotional connection to get the spiritual connection when we are in our bag we're so
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sensual because we're trying to get to that place and i kind of rate men for being able to be like
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this is sex i'm gonna do it here it is love it all right cool move on whereas women it's always like
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i'm doing this for this and that and this and then it's not like about the sex yeah but no just out
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of interest do you genuinely think that or do you not think that the women are actually getting off on
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that as well i think women are sexier than men right but i think men are more sexual than women
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like if it was like a man's going to give me like the spiritual and emotional connection i thought i
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would get if i was having badass sex with him then i would probably just do have that conversation what
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is what is the spiritual and emotional connection that's when you're like looking at him and it's
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like this is it we are so connected we are like you know you just look at a guy and you're like so
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connected it's like it's like bring adding more meaning to everything because you're having this
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great time and it's like yeah so if you were to tell a guy he says i want to make a spiritual and
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emotional connection how would you do that um if he just like wanted to see he sat me down and he was
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like i'm just like so fucking into you i think you're great and i think we're going to have this
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amazing life together and he just again the fantasy thing he he leaned into all the fantasies of this
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wonderful life i want to live then i'd probably like just like do women do women do women do
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women i'm not saying i don't have a question do women typically like the men that like them or
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that don't like them um typically don't i would say okay so aren't you giving them the wrong advice
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then giving who what the guys when i asked you how to give you a spiritual and emotional connection
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for me oh for you for me i don't know about anyone else but for for me there's going to be a lot
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of boxes he needs to tick in the first place and then there's going to be the life and the
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fantasy and and the experience i want i think i think like with a lot of women's advice it's
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probably you would want that but you would want that from a dude that you're already attracted to
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oh hell yeah yeah don't like chat me up on tinder and be like i'm gonna get into your mind
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so if it's like chris hemsworth or whoever right and or whoever you like and he's coming out with
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that's the problem that's that's the problem with female that's the problem with female dating advice
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though sometimes when it's aimed at guys because women will say well we want a guy who's this we
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want a guy who's honorable who's noble who does these things he's chivalrous blah blah blah and
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guys think right i've just got to do those things but actually it's about so much more than that
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because women wants it from the guy they're already attracted to and i still want to have sex
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sorry and i still want to have sex yeah well we want men that are good in bed yeah yeah and know
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how to like treat as well oh shit but would i use it as much if i felt like i could connect with you
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on a different basis i don't think men are capable of connecting the same way women can so i don't
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know if i would well i feel like i'm more basic than that i actually think i feel like i actually
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think i think men connect better than women fuck yeah they're more straight way i think i think men
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are women are a lot more heartless where men actually have hearts absolutely
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because i think men get upset because you can break their heart and sometimes i think men can take
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things like really to their heart after they've broken yours yeah but women can just forget about
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it but if you ever like let someone down and they're absolutely heartbroken and they really take
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it in don't they when they're heartbroken what do they do when they take it in what is the
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characteristics of a man that's taking something to heart yeah so tell me did you know when you've
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just like you know you're not bothered with them and that you've they've taken you out on a date and
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you just they are no i can't be bothered with him he's not my sort of type of guy and he's
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absolutely wounded because they take it to heart you could tell you're speaking from personal
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experience here and say some poor bloke who's watching this now going no
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i'll tell you why i think i think women are more heartless because the amount of women that i've met
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that left their the father of their children because they outgrew them is just like ridiculous
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i've met so many women that have that have left the father of their kids broken up their entire
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family because they outgrew their husbands yes but ultimately i feel like the fact that they outgrew
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them they the man was probably more heartless than them in the relationship where they thought that
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they had to leave i think i know i think i think when women want to do something they make up any
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excuse they can to do it yeah and i think and i think typically the women are not innocent
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but having outgrown somebody i feel like things like i mean the fact that there's the term outgrow
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is that they're still quite juvenile in some aspects but and in that in in and in that i feel like men
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can just be really callous sometimes and just really not kind of like elevated on their levels of
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like caring and just can i have an example um so i feel like women are more obviously women are
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more emotional and women are more kind of like um mature yeah mature no i disagree i just i'm just
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i'm just gonna say emotionally mature i disagree i think women are more emotionally immature you think
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that i think we have all this propaganda we are more like sensitive i'm not gonna say women i think
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women stop aging like mentally when they when they hit their like um attention peak so if women like
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become pretty at 16 i think they they just stay 16 forever i think most women mentally are in high
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school i've just got pretty i mean you know potato patah but you know i feel like yeah in that aspect
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from the point i'm trying to make it's like if you're with a guy and he's emotionally immature
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so he might do things that are very juvenile like you'd be like oh i'm looking after the kids like
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i'm going out with the boys and you're like but what about the kids like oh you know you saw it out
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and when i get back oh you know them ones when you're like oh i'm going out on friday he's like
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i'm going out on friday and then you're like oh who's gonna look at the kids you get a babysitter
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okay wait wait wait so the the big issue is that he wants to go out with the boys
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not that he wants you ask for one example you ask for an example i'm giving an example because that's i find
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that with a lot of relationships women will say to me
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like the man will expect me to get a babysitter it's like the kids are my job like it's on me
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as opposed to it's an equal thing like oh we've both booked the same day how are we going to sort
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this out okay because because you're the mom it should be on you no no no no you both had those
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kids together and actually i did more i carried them for nine months i breastfed them they came out
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but the men typically pay more so even in 50 50 relationships they still pay more typically
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i've been a breadwinner in many relationships so that's alleged yeah but i'm not i'm not talking
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about you but i'm saying i disagree but i can only speak of myself i can only speak of myself right but
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we're talking about like if you are in a single mother home you're at every statistical disadvantage
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ever right no you are you're more likely i could be a millionaire but i just i just have my kids by
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myself no no i mean well it doesn't even matter like money doesn't replace a father i think we've
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seen that with kim kardashian when you see the clips of the kids now and they're kind of going crazy
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but you're but you're attributing it to the fact oh the guy must have done something wrong and it's
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blah blah blah but that's what people that's what women will often say when these conversations come
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up but is it that or is it the woman's just got a bit bored yeah it's like oh we're a few years in
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yeah i'm just playing devil's advocate i'm just saying the sex has got a bit boring you know the
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grass is maybe greener on the other side the personal trainer from bloody you know virgin active or
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whatever is pretty hard yeah you know the grass is the grass is greener right and that seems to me