JustPearlyThings - Spiritual Girl LIES To Pearl And Gets CALLED OUT

00:00:00.000 i was going to say both but i do think it is women because i feel like i do think it's women 0.82

00:00:06.060 because i feel like with us it's true we use our looks we use like obviously in terms of the way

00:00:11.280 we look um when a guy approaches us and then all of that we could be come across very seductive

00:00:17.260 at times i think i think it's women who breathed like that into the mic 0.90

00:00:22.080 i think i think it's just like well if i talk to guy friends and they're like oh yeah i met this

00:00:37.160 girl and you know yeah she came back to mind and yeah we banged or whatever it's very sort of

00:00:41.480 perfunctory and it's like right yeah we did that with women and then when i deal with women it's

00:00:45.700 very sort of like they go into this hole and then he took me against the wall it's just even when i

00:00:52.140 did when i've dealt with women that i maybe i've dated and stuff like that like that there's just

00:00:56.080 so much more to it this is whole like sexual like fantasy and this kind of imagination and everything

00:01:01.160 and he didn't just say good night babe he sent me a smiley emoji with hot eyes

00:01:05.620 it's got to be the aubergine hasn't it the aubergine oh yeah oh yeah because shops like i still think 0.97

00:01:14.820 it's men because i feel like everything we've just described is like a woman uses sex to get 0.93

00:01:21.620 the emotional connection to get the spiritual connection when we are in our bag we're so

00:01:25.620 sensual because we're trying to get to that place and i kind of rate men for being able to be like

00:01:30.240 this is sex i'm gonna do it here it is love it all right cool move on whereas women it's always like 1.00

00:01:35.340 i'm doing this for this and that and this and then it's not like about the sex yeah but no just out 0.71

00:01:39.960 of interest do you genuinely think that or do you not think that the women are actually getting off on 0.82

00:01:43.780 that as well i think women are sexier than men right but i think men are more sexual than women

00:01:49.700 like if it was like a man's going to give me like the spiritual and emotional connection i thought i 0.90

00:01:54.400 would get if i was having badass sex with him then i would probably just do have that conversation what 0.83

00:01:58.980 is what is the spiritual and emotional connection that's when you're like looking at him and it's 0.54

00:02:03.060 like this is it we are so connected we are like you know you just look at a guy and you're like so

00:02:11.500 connected it's like it's like bring adding more meaning to everything because you're having this

00:02:16.080 great time and it's like yeah so if you were to tell a guy he says i want to make a spiritual and

00:02:21.960 emotional connection how would you do that um if he just like wanted to see he sat me down and he was

00:02:27.440 like i'm just like so fucking into you i think you're great and i think we're going to have this 0.95

00:02:31.820 amazing life together and he just again the fantasy thing he he leaned into all the fantasies of this 0.98

00:02:36.560 wonderful life i want to live then i'd probably like just like do women do women do women do 1.00

00:02:43.560 women i'm not saying i don't have a question do women typically like the men that like them or

00:02:48.560 that don't like them um typically don't i would say okay so aren't you giving them the wrong advice

00:02:54.480 then giving who what the guys when i asked you how to give you a spiritual and emotional connection

00:02:59.940 for me oh for you for me i don't know about anyone else but for for me there's going to be a lot

00:03:06.220 of boxes he needs to tick in the first place and then there's going to be the life and the

00:03:10.300 fantasy and and the experience i want i think i think like with a lot of women's advice it's 0.59

00:03:15.300 probably you would want that but you would want that from a dude that you're already attracted to

00:03:19.600 oh hell yeah yeah don't like chat me up on tinder and be like i'm gonna get into your mind

00:03:23.820 so if it's like chris hemsworth or whoever right and or whoever you like and he's coming out with

00:03:31.220 that's the problem that's that's the problem with female that's the problem with female dating advice 1.00

00:03:44.140 though sometimes when it's aimed at guys because women will say well we want a guy who's this we

00:03:48.460 want a guy who's honorable who's noble who does these things he's chivalrous blah blah blah and

00:03:52.220 guys think right i've just got to do those things but actually it's about so much more than that

00:03:55.980 because women wants it from the guy they're already attracted to and i still want to have sex 0.90

00:03:59.980 sorry and i still want to have sex yeah well we want men that are good in bed yeah yeah and know 0.99

00:04:05.320 how to like treat as well oh shit but would i use it as much if i felt like i could connect with you 0.99

00:04:11.360 on a different basis i don't think men are capable of connecting the same way women can so i don't 0.99

00:04:15.240 know if i would well i feel like i'm more basic than that i actually think i feel like i actually 0.85

00:04:20.360 think i think men connect better than women fuck yeah they're more straight way i think i think men

00:04:28.120 are women are a lot more heartless where men actually have hearts absolutely 0.99

00:04:32.940 because i think men get upset because you can break their heart and sometimes i think men can take

00:04:41.440 things like really to their heart after they've broken yours yeah but women can just forget about 1.00

00:04:47.320 it but if you ever like let someone down and they're absolutely heartbroken and they really take

00:04:52.360 it in don't they when they're heartbroken what do they do when they take it in what is the

00:04:57.700 characteristics of a man that's taking something to heart yeah so tell me did you know when you've

00:05:02.180 just like you know you're not bothered with them and that you've they've taken you out on a date and

00:05:07.240 you just they are no i can't be bothered with him he's not my sort of type of guy and he's

00:05:11.720 absolutely wounded because they take it to heart you could tell you're speaking from personal

00:05:16.360 experience here and say some poor bloke who's watching this now going no

00:05:19.380 i'll tell you why i think i think women are more heartless because the amount of women that i've met 1.00

00:05:31.120 that left their the father of their children because they outgrew them is just like ridiculous 0.69

00:05:37.360 i've met so many women that have that have left the father of their kids broken up their entire 1.00

00:05:42.340 family because they outgrew their husbands yes but ultimately i feel like the fact that they outgrew

00:05:48.240 them they the man was probably more heartless than them in the relationship where they thought that

00:05:53.060 they had to leave i think i know i think i think when women want to do something they make up any 0.97

00:05:57.260 excuse they can to do it yeah and i think and i think typically the women are not innocent 1.00

00:06:02.880 but having outgrown somebody i feel like things like i mean the fact that there's the term outgrow

00:06:12.560 is that they're still quite juvenile in some aspects but and in that in in and in that i feel like men

00:06:18.360 can just be really callous sometimes and just really not kind of like elevated on their levels of

00:06:24.000 like caring and just can i have an example um so i feel like women are more obviously women are 1.00

00:06:32.980 more emotional and women are more kind of like um mature yeah mature no i disagree i just i'm just

00:06:40.140 i'm just gonna say emotionally mature i disagree i think women are more emotionally immature you think 0.99

00:06:45.700 that i think we have all this propaganda we are more like sensitive i'm not gonna say women i think

00:06:51.280 women stop aging like mentally when they when they hit their like um attention peak so if women like 1.00

00:06:57.300 become pretty at 16 i think they they just stay 16 forever i think most women mentally are in high 0.96

00:07:02.760 school i've just got pretty i mean you know potato patah but you know i feel like yeah in that aspect

00:07:11.620 from the point i'm trying to make it's like if you're with a guy and he's emotionally immature

00:07:15.840 so he might do things that are very juvenile like you'd be like oh i'm looking after the kids like

00:07:20.420 i'm going out with the boys and you're like but what about the kids like oh you know you saw it out

00:07:24.280 and when i get back oh you know them ones when you're like oh i'm going out on friday he's like

00:07:27.520 i'm going out on friday and then you're like oh who's gonna look at the kids you get a babysitter

00:07:31.340 okay wait wait wait so the the big issue is that he wants to go out with the boys

00:07:35.840 not that he wants you ask for one example you ask for an example i'm giving an example because that's i find

00:07:39.900 that with a lot of relationships women will say to me 1.00

00:07:41.840 like the man will expect me to get a babysitter it's like the kids are my job like it's on me

00:07:48.260 as opposed to it's an equal thing like oh we've both booked the same day how are we going to sort

00:07:53.080 this out okay because because you're the mom it should be on you no no no no you both had those

00:07:59.040 kids together and actually i did more i carried them for nine months i breastfed them they came out

00:08:07.520 but the men typically pay more so even in 50 50 relationships they still pay more typically

00:08:13.940 i've been a breadwinner in many relationships so that's alleged yeah but i'm not i'm not talking

00:08:18.380 about you but i'm saying i disagree but i can only speak of myself i can only speak of myself right but

00:08:23.320 we're talking about like if you are in a single mother home you're at every statistical disadvantage

00:08:28.140 ever right no you are you're more likely i could be a millionaire but i just i just have my kids by

00:08:34.420 myself no no i mean well it doesn't even matter like money doesn't replace a father i think we've

00:08:39.480 seen that with kim kardashian when you see the clips of the kids now and they're kind of going crazy

00:08:44.180 but you're but you're attributing it to the fact oh the guy must have done something wrong and it's

00:08:48.180 blah blah blah but that's what people that's what women will often say when these conversations come 1.00

00:08:52.080 up but is it that or is it the woman's just got a bit bored yeah it's like oh we're a few years in

00:08:56.680 yeah i'm just playing devil's advocate i'm just saying the sex has got a bit boring you know the 0.94

00:09:01.240 grass is maybe greener on the other side the personal trainer from bloody you know virgin active or 0.59

00:09:05.940 whatever is pretty hard yeah you know the grass is the grass is greener right and that seems to me

00:09:11.160 to be what happens more often than not

00:09:13.140 you

JustPearlyThings - November 11, 2023

Spiritual Girl LIES To Pearl And Gets CALLED OUT

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