STD Fridays: Trich and Ureaplasma (Call-in Show) | Pearl Daily
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2 hours and 21 minutes
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127
Summary
A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage for men and why it s a terrible deal for them. Do we need men? Most answered very quickly, no, because men are useless. Most young men are single, most young women are not.
Transcript
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Most young men are single, most young women are not.
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Young men have fallen faster than any demographic in America over the last 40 years.
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It's a different world now, like we don't need men the way that they used to.
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Men and women are drifting further apart, and society is crumbling because of it.
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A fascinating debate has broken out about the value of marriage.
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You've kind of got the trad con versus red pill thing.
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This men's rights crowd that sometimes just goes too far the other way.
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You need to stop acting like grown boys and infants and actually become men.
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It's a machine designed to extract resources from you.
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Now many of the red-pilled have taken the position that it's bad for men to get married.
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It's Hannah Pearl Davis, or just pearly things.
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One of the most controversial faces in all of the internet.
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She goes on to say that marriage is a terrible deal for men.
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Because if me and you were in a business contract, you would never sign a contract where I am paid to leave.
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74% or something of divorces are initiated by women.
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Men have everything to lose, primarily their own children.
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Men get killed by the courts and by divorce laws.
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I had no idea that courts of family law were courts of equity, not courts of law.
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Because in family court, you don't need evidence to accuse someone of abuse.
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When you guys say get married young, a lot of these men don't know what they're signing up for,
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and you're not going to be there when their entire life falls apart.
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I didn't meet my son until he was 15 months old.
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You're literally just thrown out onto the street.
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We absolutely reinforce bad behavior from women.
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Wives are taught to leave their husbands, and then daughters grow up without their fathers.
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Every problem in society comes from single mother homes.
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A lot of women will just chase this negative rabbit hole of happiness, endless happiness.
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Feminism's biggest failure is it lies to women.
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We tell women to date as many guys as possible.
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You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.
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I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.
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Like, if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,
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naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.
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Like, women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.
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The most important thing is the children, and the problem is we have a modern society
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where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's
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This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?
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Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?
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I have no friends, no white, and no social life.
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I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide, and they didn't do anything wrong.
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How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?
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The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.
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The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose, or alcohol, three times higher among
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Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it.
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Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man naked.
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Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man.
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If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.
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So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?
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I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.
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I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.
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She says stupid stuff, but Pearl is right about this.
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Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairy tale ending because men don't want
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The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.
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We're going to population decline and our economy goes into decline.
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This is an existential crisis failing young men.
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Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.
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And if you guys didn't know already, that is the trailer for our divorce documentary.
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I want to say thank you to the donations last show.
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So the first thing I wanted to say was thank you guys for bringing your time and attention
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You can bring your time and attention anywhere.
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I don't have a beer, but I think soon I'm going to start bringing a beer on Fridays because
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It is STD Friday where we at Pearl Daily have the conversation that nobody wants to have.
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The conversations about STDs in the current dating market.
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We've gone over HIV, herpes, chlamydia, syphilis, HPV.
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And now we're going to go over TRIC and uroplasma.
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Because in the current dating market, women are sexually liberated and believe that they
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The average 25-year-old girl has way more sex than the average 25-year-old guy today.
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These women are sleeping with a small percentage of guys.
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And if one of those guys has a disease, it usually means that all of them have it.
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Wear a condom and stay away from hypersexual and promiscuous women.
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Usually, if a woman looks like she's the type of girl that has herpes or gonorrhea,
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you can't really know because all these hoes have it.
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TRIC is an infection caused by a parasite called Trichomonas vaginalis.
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It's transmitted through the vaginal, anal, or oral sex and can be spread via shared sex
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The symptoms for women include itching, burning, redness, unusual vaginal discharge, and discomfort
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Symptoms for men include men being asymptomatic or burning in the genital area after urination
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It's estimated that over 2 million people in the United States have TRIC at a given time.
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If including the undiagnosed, that number could go up to 3.7 million.
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2% of the women in the United States currently have TRIC, while 0.5% of men do.
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Treatment plans usually include a single dose of an antibiotic.
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Trichomoniasis, these little critters here that we see swimming across the slide when
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It's literally a protozoan parasite that loves living in the lower genital tract.
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It likes to live in the vagina or the front hole.
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It also likes to live in the penis, not so much the rectum though.
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TRIC is super common, but only about 30% of people have symptoms.
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So even if nothing is going on downstairs, you may still want to get checked out.
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In a penis, symptoms can be itching, burning while peeing, general discomfort, or even a
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If you have female anatomy and have symptoms, you'll probably have a clear yellow to green
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discharge, sometimes with an odor, sometimes not.
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Some people refer to it as a little bit fishy, similar to BV.
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Also, you may notice irritation and redness of your genitals and pain during sex.
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If you're suspicious you have it or you want to be screened for it, testing is super easy.
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You can either get a swab of your genitals or pee in a cup and treating it as as simple
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And once you've taken the entire course of medication, the trick goes away completely.
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It is a temporary infection, not a forever disease.
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Yeah, so in my research on these, I don't think the, like, you know, I'm not one to pick
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Obviously you want none of them, but like, you know what I mean?
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If I had, out of the ones we've covered, if I had to get one, I think these are the ones
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Now, obviously you want none, but like if there was a gun to my head.
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Yeah, maybe you could call it and tell me if you had to have an STD, which one would you
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Story, then you know that I got diagnosed with, um, shit, what's it called?
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Um, it's an STI, um, sexual transmitted infection.
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You can also catch it from like moist places, like pools, things like that, they say, but
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I'm pretty sure that I got this three years ago or like in 2020 during my relapse.
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And that's why I've been so fucking sick this whole time.
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Um, if you guys ever had, um, an infection or something like that, can that make you totally
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Like the last couple of years, I've totally changed.
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I thought there was mold in the house and now come to find out this.
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So until the infections cleared up, like, could it make me act a certain way or whatever?
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I feel like long-term methadone causes some other health issues and infections.
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Hey, I work in sexual health and I can definitely speak to TRIC in public restrooms.
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So TRIC is a protozoan parasite that likes to swim around in warm, moist places.
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It is passed around through schmizual activity and that is why it's considered an STI.
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TRIC's not going to hurt you in a serious way, but it does make your underbits mighty uncomfortable,
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For people with penises, it's much less uncomfortable and often they don't have any symptoms.
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Although it is true that theoretically TRIC can be passed in a non-schmectual way, like
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through wet towels and moist toilet seats, like not dry ones, but moist ones.
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I work in a schmectual health clinic and I sit on the same toilet seat as my patients who
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are coming in to be treated for things like TRIC, like chlamydia, like gonorrhea.
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However, that's how not worried I am about this.
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Every patient I have ever seen and diagnosed with TRIC could trace it back to a specific
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Go out there, use public restrooms, don't hold your pee in until you get home.
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Um, I don't know who believes that you could get a sexual STD from like a, um, a public restroom.
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A lot of women that have recurrent yeast and BV infections or supposedly have recurrent
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yeast and BV infections are misdiagnosed when they actually have TRIC.
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TRIC is short for trichomoniasis and it is an STI and it's parasitic.
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When I go into the doctors, I, I don't know if this is like standard.
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I assume so because it's happened to me with every single doctor, but I am immediately tested
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with my urine for chlamydia, gonorrhea, and TRIC.
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In this stage of my life with all the problems that I'm getting, I am negative for all three
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However, if you are having all of the symptoms of like...
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That, yeah, they don't normally test you for uroplasma or TRIC.
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So if you do get tested, guys, I have heard there are free STD clinics.
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It is expensive, but you know, ladies, for the men, I mean, who cares, right?
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I know you guys could get some stuff, but like if I was a guy, I'd just get tested once
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But you know, being a girl, three to six months in a relationship outside of a relation, I
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If you're poorer, I mean, twice a year is probably fine.
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I mean, it doesn't seem like any of the STDs are going to make you infertile for, it's usually
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Maybe if you sleep with someone really sketchy, as we do, you know, maybe then you do it quarterly
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or if you're a really big whore, you know, you're sleeping with like a couple guys at
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Obviously, the women that want to be whores are gonna.
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If you're a big whore, I would really recommend quarterly.
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If you're fat, I mean, you shouldn't be having sex.
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Like, if you're fat, I don't like, why are you even going on dates?
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If you're going to go on dates as a fat chick, what I would do is I would tell you to go sleep
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with a guy that's in shape and understand, right?
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Otherwise, you're going to get kind of weird over time.
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If you're listening, you're probably a whore anyways.
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So, if you got to have sex with somebody, this is what I would do strategically.
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I would go find a guy that's in pretty decent shape and eats well, right?
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But just know you are going to be the girl that is in the background.
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Like, he's not going to take you out in public and you just got to be okay with that.
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Like, maybe sleep with a personal trainer or like a biker.
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And then you can learn from him for like six months while you get ready for your husband.
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Because, honestly, if you're fat, like, there's just, why are you going on dates?
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I mean, but then you're just going to marry, you're just going to marry a fat guy.
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And you guys are just going to be fat together.
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And then you're going to have these fat, you're going to pass on.
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It's almost selfish for fat people to have children.
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Like, I mean, honestly, because if you can't stop eating, like, why do you deserve to reproduce?
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Like, it's like, and I've always felt like when I was younger, I literally, I felt like this when I was in my early 20s.
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So I'm not even saying this in a judgmental way.
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But I always felt like I needed to figure out that problem of mine before I brought anybody else into this bullshit.
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Because I'm like, yeah, I'm going to, let me get this straight.
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I'm going to raise a daughter and make her fat too.
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Yeah, as a fat person, I would just focus on losing weight.
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And just know, as a woman, if you're in a situationship, you're probably too fat.
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And if your friends say that you're not fat, you are.
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I mean, unless, if your dress size is a six or smaller, you might be fat at a six with the weight.
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Yeah, so that would be really my recommendation is to lose weight, go to the gym, get your steps in.
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Um, I don't think this is the same thing as a eugenics mentality.
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Um, because I'm not against dumb people existing.
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I mean, I think that's like the eugenics mindset.
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I'm really, I'm not against dumb people existing.
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I'm not against, like, I want all races to reproduce.
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Um, I'm not into the, like, bloodlines, you know.
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But I just think if you're fat, like, okay, you're basically saying, well, you're communicating to me if you're fat.
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Okay, you're communicating that I am so, um, I am so weak as a person that I just cannot put the donut down.
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There was a point where I couldn't put the donut down either.
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Um, but you're, you're basically saying, and you're saying, I, let me bring a child up and I'm going to teach them my terrible habits.
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And then they're going to have the same life I had.
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Which is going to be having to have sex with ugly people or nobody at all.
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Or as a woman being the side chick, you're going to be like third in the rotation.
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And ladies, if you are in that situation shit box with the hot guy, you got to make it very clear that you understand your position.
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If you want to hang out with him more than like twice a month.
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Cause really you can see where you're at in the rotation based on how often the guy sees you.
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Um, now I will tell you, some men just do have the time.
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Like some men have the time to juggle like five women and they're just on demon mode.
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They like, so I'm not talking about the exception.
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Like the men that like the men that really just, I mean, they just have no, their only hobby is women.
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He could convince you he's going to marry you and have a second family.
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I mean, that happens, but let's take, let's just take a normal guy with a job.
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I mean, at most there's going to be a rotation.
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They tend to want three side chicks is like they're, they up to five.
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They tend to say that's too much work, but they like five just on tap.
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So there's like the main, and this is the girl you might go on public dates.
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I don't know, but you're, you're like in the girlfriend slot, whether he calls you that or not.
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So, um, so girl number one, I would say two to four times a week, depending on the guy's level of time.
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And if the other girls are in the picture, girl number two is like once a week, once every 10 days.
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So as a fat chick, you're going to be in one to two times a month, right?
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And you have to assure him because he's going to be worried that if he spends too much time with you,
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because he knows where you're at in the rotation, you're at the bottom, bitch.
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So you're going to have to like, accept that, right?
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You're going to have to like, and you have to assure him that you're not going to crash out
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Now, maybe you could aim for something serious in a year, but at least this way, you know,
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You can exit the market, the dating marketplace.
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And when you want to get laid, you can go to this hot guy, ask him for some nutrition tips,
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You know, maybe you could fall in love in a year.
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And if you lose some weight, a lot of women are like 30 pounds away from commitment, truly.
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But you gotta, you have to prove you're not crazy because this is like the, the calculation
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men are doing is how crazy is she versus what do I get out of this and what do I have to
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So as a fat chick, you got to make your price real cheap.
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Um, now I would say, because you're the fat chick, you're going to want to, you're going
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to want to use protection because he's definitely sleeping with someone hotter than you.
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Look at, I've had in-depth conversations with, I had a friend in London and he, I mean,
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Um, and the third one usually comes and goes, like maybe they'll get into a relationship,
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but the two, like they're always going on dates and taking applications and the spots are
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So just as the fat chick, you're going to have to know your slot is at the bottom.
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I mean, if you need to like get, if you need sex somehow, you can find some, maybe an ex
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You got to like, you got to get to the gym, get on the treadmill and eat less.
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If you're here on a Friday and not on a date, not necessarily.
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If you don't want to be on a date, like why not?
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But if you're fat, I mean, don't watch me get on the treadmill and watch me.
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The changing of discharge, the odor, the itching, the burning, the painful intercourse,
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All of those are pretty, like they fit into a lot of diagnoses.
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And if you haven't been tested for TRIC, I would definitely recommend to do so.
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And I know the thought of like a parasitic STI is terrifying because I feel the same,
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but it's actually like a lot more common than you think it is.
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And I've read research kind of varying with how many cases there are per year,
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You could just ask him like, and men love helping you with things.
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I know I'm not, I shouldn't react to this video, but I just have a lot to say about this.
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And by the way, this was not a strategy that I personally implored.
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This was not a strategy I did, but I was thinking about it and I'm like,
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Like if you want a man to fall in love with you, just act really stupid, right?
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You just got to act like men do not like women that know it all.
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like that sometimes I, I, that's, that's a problem I've had, I'll say, but you know,
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Even if it's, even if it's something you already know how to do, like, let's say you want to
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Let's say you grew up knowing how to fish, right?
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But if you go up to a guy and pretend you don't know how to fish and just act really dumb and
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give him all the credit for teaching you how to fish, he'll be in love in six months.
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So if I, if I was fat all over again, I think I would have saved a lot of time.
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This, again, this was not something I did, but that's something like that, that would be
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You give him sex, ask him, Hey, could you just help me with this stuff?
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You know, they got to eat anyway, they got to eat anyway.
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I was like, I went through all this work of learning this on my own.
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It's this how women feel when we expose their game.
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No, because if you already know about the subject, if you already know about the subject he's
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teaching you, he'll think you're a quick learner.
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He'll think you're, he'll think you're learning so fast.
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You're like, yeah, baby, you just, you're such a good teacher.
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I mean, you got, you ladies know, you know, you rub the arm and just say, thanks so much
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And I mean, these days men are better cooks than women.
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Because look, as a fat chick, you're going to get past, you're going to get smashed and
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So you got to, you got to get rid of the ego and just know your place in this.
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And that's, that's what I really want to say is like, when I look back at pictures, I'm
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And all the people that like, I show that picture to, and they're like, you weren't that
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And I'm like, that's because you're kind of fat.
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But I was just thinking, I think that if I implored that strategy, at least the dating
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a trend, you know, I'm not saying I wish I did because I'm okay with my life outcomes
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All I'm saying is like, that would have been that I think that would have been a good strategy.
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I'm going to go back to the, I'm going to go, it doesn't even have to be a trainer,
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but just a guy that's like in shape, you know, he knows a little bit about nutrition, maybe
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Just about like three to 3.7 million of men and women that have this STI.
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It's just that it's also not super symptomatic.
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Like over 70% of people have no symptoms, which makes it really easy to spread.
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But the number one indicator is a strawberry cervix.
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And I don't think I'm going to be allowed to put a picture of this, but it'll literally
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And it has like little red dots all over it, which is why it's also so important to get
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your pap smear, because that's kind of the only way that someone's going to be looking
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Thank you for the, thank you for the sign up for the membership.
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Like, honestly, honestly, that would be my recommendation is to, um, women can in fact
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sleep their way into relationships, men, the worst advice I bait is always give.
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And like the conservatives, but I'm like, guys, do you not see the things women are
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getting for having sex and I, I'm not trying to apply morality to this because some of it
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I do like on a base level, find a little bit repulsive, but if we just want to talk about
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what works, like sleeping with the boss definitely works.
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Have we not covered enough stories to be like, yeah, that works.
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I mean, if we want to say like, you don't think a girl would lose weight sleeping with a
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Um, yeah, I mean, some of it repulses me, but I'm just, I'm a strategist here.
00:30:07.540
You know, it's not about, uh, this isn't a, um, this isn't like a religious show.
00:30:12.740
So I just like to stick to what works, not what, like, I think is the most moral way to
00:30:23.820
But yeah, like you can tell a woman wants to get married when she has a slut face.
00:30:36.060
And then six months to a year later, one of the guys bites the bait.
00:30:41.100
Cause women never know their league till they give up sex.
00:30:46.320
And so I know this is uncomfortable to hear, but I'm just being honest guys.
00:30:52.500
I always knew a woman was like ready to get married when she started having a slut phase.
00:31:08.240
Um, but she got married by like, or she was with the guy she married by like 20.
00:31:29.540
And at the time I thought, what a whore, but she was done by like 22.
00:32:02.940
And you know, I'm not, I'm saying that's kind of disgusting.
00:32:06.140
And like, it kind of, you know, like my, my stomach turns too, but I'm like.
00:32:14.020
You know, cause then, you know, she kind of, she started high and then the guys, some guys
00:32:19.800
would pump and dump and she's like, all right, that was not my league, but she was a smart
00:32:27.980
She just was like, all right, here's, this is what I can get.
00:32:33.500
You got to have a little sympathy for women, women.
00:32:36.000
We never know to where we're at until we ask for the commitment.
00:32:45.680
Women, there's no way men can really find out nowadays.
00:32:52.400
Men don't really do background checks on women.
00:32:55.800
I mean, they just, they don't want to, do you know what I mean?
00:32:59.780
Like they don't, can you guys please stop gaslighting me?
00:33:13.320
I'm not trying to, I am not attempting to say that's what she should do, but it's a strategy
00:33:24.180
Didn't, she didn't catch anything as far as I knew.
00:33:29.400
So anyways, like, um, she didn't catch anything.
00:33:32.320
Like a lot of women catch uroplasma, which is another STD caused by bacteria.
00:33:36.980
Uroplasma is resistant to antibiotics like penicillin.
00:33:40.420
Uroplasma can be transmitted through sexual activity and can be transmitted from mother to
00:33:47.000
Uroplasma is quite common with 40 to 80% of sexually active people carrying uroplasma
00:33:53.160
So uroplasma, it, I think most people do end up getting this because it's really not
00:34:00.900
tested for, and I think it's because it's not that bad, but it does harm fertility, but
00:34:06.800
it's not like chlamydia where chlamydia will make you infertile.
00:34:10.960
I know you're like, um, I know you guys, you guys are like, oh, Pearl, like that's wrong.
00:34:25.340
Like me saying that's immoral is going to do anything.
00:34:34.560
So to be honest, the numbers game, I would even argue is a better strategy for young
00:34:40.620
women because men will, you can kind of get away with more when you're younger because
00:34:50.260
And when you're younger, like the younger women can try the guys, their age, the guy's
00:34:56.380
But, uh, you know, but I would just, you know, anyways, they got, that's so wrong.
00:35:11.780
So your plasma is usually harmless, but symptoms include bacterial vaginosis, um, pelvic inflammatory
00:35:19.920
That's what it seems like from what I've seen, PID, it seems to come when you do not treat
00:35:30.580
So in men, it's inflammation of the urethra, um, treatment includes oral regimen.
00:35:47.260
Um, UTI symptoms for three weeks, probably closer to a month.
00:35:53.220
It really flipped you guys in the, you're like, Oh, I would smell it.
00:35:56.000
I could tell you guys would not be able to tell.
00:36:01.540
And I'll tell you what, at the time, at the time I was watching this girl and I, at the
00:36:06.500
time was like, I had, I was a virgin at that point when I was watching this girl do this.
00:36:12.780
And I thought, I thought to myself, Oh, that'll never work.
00:36:19.500
She had no consequences and it did in fact work.
00:36:23.940
So I just, I just got to be honest with what I've seen.
00:36:28.820
I thought it was an IC flare, which it could be an IC flare still.
00:36:40.840
Recurrent urinary tract infections or UTIs can be frustrating, especially when routine tests
00:36:47.000
One possible cause is a tiny microorganism called urea plasma.
00:36:50.540
Unlike typical bacteria, ureplasma often goes undetected in standard urine tests, but can
00:36:55.560
still cause symptoms like frequent urination, discomfort, or lingering feeling of incomplete
00:37:01.440
This is why it's important to consider ureplasma in cases of unexplained recurrent UTIs.
00:37:05.840
The good news is that it can be identified with specific tests and treated effectively
00:37:14.360
Let me know in the comments and follow to improve your health IQ.
00:37:24.280
So a lot of you guys are saying, some of the chat saying that I'm jaded and I'm bitter.
00:37:30.880
I just don't, people that know me, I just don't think that's like an, do you know what
00:37:37.640
Like there are, there are adjectives that you guys insult me with that I do.
00:37:42.360
In fact, that I do in fact think, describe me bitter.
00:37:48.420
I'm sorry, I just don't, that just really is not one of them.
00:37:55.980
I mean, I, I don't mind like the, the feedback.
00:38:01.760
But, um, please say shout out to Juan from Mundo Nuevo Veracruz, the name of my little town
00:38:12.760
I, I do think that there are adjectives that do describe me that are negative that I would
00:38:27.280
Uh, bitter, I, do you know what, my life is going too well to be bitter.
00:38:49.800
Uh, things are going good, you know, I understand, like, I understand I could be more trad, like
00:39:15.600
I, I get this a lot, the bitter, and I'm like, am I bitter?
00:39:34.860
You know, I mean, if you said, was I bitter when I was demonetized, I was pretty bitter
00:39:42.580
I'll, yeah, I would actually agree with you there.
00:39:44.680
Um, but yeah, you know, I, I mean, you don't see me getting married.
00:39:58.200
I get the criticism because, you know, I did, I did, um, talk a lot about marriage and that
00:40:09.700
It might not happen as, as soon as I initially hoped, but I don't really see it not happening
00:40:20.260
Um, I will tell you being famous, being famous caused a lot.
00:40:31.120
It costs a lot of things that I would say sort of delayed that, you know, not a lot of
00:40:36.100
people understand what it's like to date as a famous person right around the time.
00:40:44.640
Um, I was terrified to be honest, uh, you know, maybe sometimes I'm like, I don't like
00:40:55.240
telling too many stories because my enemies, they always like to like take them out of context
00:41:02.140
But I'll tell you what, it comes with a different set of problems that just normal people don't
00:41:21.540
Um, that's all I'm going to say about it because the more personal info I give out, it's just
00:41:26.760
the more, the more people just, they use it against me and it just never ends.
00:41:35.400
Like, it'd be one thing if I was like 300 pounds, but I'm like, guys, like, it'll have
00:41:58.680
But yeah, it's like, you know, and that's always the feedback I get.
00:42:06.300
They're like, you're not the best person to give this message.
00:42:14.960
It's not like these married women want to do it.
00:42:24.180
I think that's what I should do like these other influencers.
00:42:30.180
Should I, should I, that's what I was wondering.
00:42:32.200
I'm like, when it does happen, should I use it?
00:42:41.160
When I do have kids, should I have them on stream?
00:42:54.180
I'm thinking on stream at this point, the ladies, you know, anyways, um, I'm going to
00:43:08.240
We're talking about your plasma and fricking women.
00:43:10.600
It's like, we bring it, we make it about ourselves.
00:43:19.220
I saw this girl post that she had had BV infection after BV infection.
00:43:26.420
And that has been my year for the last year and a half.
00:43:43.420
Girl said she went to her doctor and asked to get a urea plasma.
00:43:47.400
I can't say a test because she saw another TikTok saying that that's often what calls
00:43:59.240
Guess who went to the doctor, got a test and has your, your plasma.
00:44:03.940
Yeah, your plasma, a lot of people have because, um, they don't test for that.
00:44:11.360
So my partner and I have to take medicine together.
00:44:15.860
And then hopefully I'm fixed after this year long fucking battle.
00:44:21.600
Why after coming in multiple times, no one said to me like, Hey, maybe you have this.
00:44:25.660
And honestly, they were pissed when I was like, I heard about this from TikTok, but like,
00:44:33.620
Yeah, I will say women, if you're watching, you gotta make your health, your responsibility.
00:44:41.440
These doctors are often not on your side because they make money off of you.
00:44:48.120
They're not going to be like, look, you ladies are whores.
00:44:51.240
And you guys are such whores that we can't even test for all the STDs that you can get
00:44:57.100
Like there's a million STDs because you guys are whores and okay, we could, we could run
00:45:02.160
these tests, but it's going to cost you like 500 bucks a visit.
00:45:06.540
So we're just going to only test you for the ones that are really damaging, like chlamydia,
00:45:14.060
It's like, you know, you guys can't really do anything once you have it.
00:45:38.340
I don't even see the point of going to like a gyno, um, other than for your pap, but like
00:45:43.240
all the testing, you can get it cheaper at quest, um, depending on your insurance.
00:45:47.260
Um, yeah, it's your, I would just have a notepad in your phone to have all your like doctor
00:45:55.980
You can use, I honestly, at this rate, grok is better than the doctors these days.
00:46:01.360
The girls, I get chronic UTIs, which personally is something I haven't dealt with, which is
00:46:07.200
If whatever you have isn't common, you're in trouble.
00:46:09.700
Well, not, not necessarily, um, but we'll keep going into the more STDs.
00:46:17.560
So much, but so many of my friends have figured out what the root cause is after literally
00:46:22.720
years of chronic UTIs and doing all of the right things, maybe taking the supplements
00:46:27.520
to prevent it, taking the treatment to get them to go away.
00:46:31.460
And then finally, like both of my friends have dealt with this for five years.
00:46:35.340
They were both diagnosed with urea plasma, which is a bacteria that can colonize.
00:46:42.160
And sometimes it can have no symptoms, but if it leads to overgrowth, whether you have
00:46:45.880
a weakened immune system or something sets it off, can lead to an overgrowth.
00:46:49.880
And it leads to a lot of symptoms that are similar to UTIs, like the burning.
00:46:54.720
I'd like to say, it's just a sneaky bacteria that is hard to catch.
00:46:58.040
For some reason, a lot of doctors don't test for it because a standard UTI test like will
00:47:05.800
The treatment for it is still a little like wishwashy from the research that I've done, but
00:47:09.560
some doctors will say, okay, we just need to do one week of
00:47:11.980
doxy, but there's others will say you need to do a month of doxy.
00:47:15.480
Others will say, yeah, it depends because this, this ST, I don't know if it's STD or STI.
00:47:24.260
So this one, it's not as harmful, but it can take longer to treat from what I saw.
00:47:31.760
This is the best of what I found with the available information that's online.
00:47:35.580
So doctors do know more about this stuff, but a lot of times you do have to ask to be tested.
00:47:43.160
Also different variants of this bacteria can lead to infertility.
00:47:46.540
So it is something that should be treated if you are dealing with it and have symptoms.
00:47:51.840
The kind of course that seems to be the most effective is one month of doxy.
00:47:56.000
And that last week of that month, you do a Z-Pak.
00:47:59.100
All that to say, like, be mindful of antibiotics that you were taking and treatment of how you
00:48:04.840
should go about fixing your microbiome after this.
00:48:06.840
Another reason it's hard to treat is because technically it can be passed between partners.
00:48:11.000
So a lot of times the women will treat it for themselves, but if they're in a relationship,
00:48:15.080
their partner might have it and just be continuously passing it back to them.
00:48:21.380
I think there's like a lot of stigma that comes with UTIs.
00:48:25.220
If you have dealt with this bacteria and eradicated it or just deal with chronic UTIs, I just feel
00:48:30.500
like a conversation needs to be had about it so that more information is out there.
00:48:37.800
Also do another video on just like more common reasons why people get UTIs, whether it's imbalances
00:48:42.680
in the vaginal microbiome or whatever it may be.
00:48:45.180
But I just wanted to put it out there that urea plasma is a thing.
00:48:51.140
Doctors should ask you if you want to be tested for it.
00:49:27.460
And when having these shows, I am not trying to scare people.
00:49:35.660
So I've interviewed people that have given herpes before.
00:49:44.140
Remember, hooking up with somebody one time that has herpes, you are actually probably
00:49:49.940
not going to get it because they shed about 20% of the year.
00:49:56.760
Everybody I've spoken to that has spread herpes, it's kind of uncomfortable.
00:50:01.540
But I've talked to two guys that had sex with a lot of women.
00:50:14.860
So I'm just more curious about how they went about stuff.
00:50:17.620
They said, like one of them said out of a hundred, five said that they got something and that
00:50:26.920
Um, they said that like the people that say they, they didn't know right away, they think they were lying.
00:50:33.020
But like the, the herp, so you're not, your odds of hooking up with somebody one time and getting something with a condom just are not overly high because they even said their long-term partners that got it, it still took between three to a year, three months to a year for them to get it.
00:50:56.540
Cause remember they shed like 20% of the time, it also depends when they were infected with
00:51:01.980
it because if they were infected more recently, they're more likely to transmit it.
00:51:06.000
This applies to like other STDs as well, but we'll, I, yeah, women lead in all STDs.
00:51:13.020
Well, I haven't found a woman to be honest about spreading it.
00:51:15.820
Of course I find men that'll be honest, but if you, if, if any ladies are in the chat that have the herp and you're spreading it out there, I'm not, I'm not here to judge you, but I'd like to ask you a couple of questions, you know, do a friend.
00:51:29.700
If the, you know, they get chronic UTIs and have not figured out why.
00:51:36.020
I just, these are, so I asked Grok these questions, um, cause these are kind of the things that I would think about when it comes to STDs.
00:51:46.540
You want to know how, like, what is this, what is this bullshit going to do to me if I get it?
00:51:52.280
You want to know how likely you are to get it if you sleep with somebody.
00:51:56.640
So how long would it take to go from infertile, to go infertile from uroplasma or TREC?
00:52:03.660
Infertility from these infections results from complications like PID in women or epidemic, epidemitis in men, which can cause reproductive structures over time.
00:52:16.660
So that's what I've found in all these STD shows.
00:52:19.460
It seems like PID comes after, like if it's not treated, the timeline depends on factors like the severity of the infection, whether it's symptomatic or if it's left untreated.
00:52:31.120
Uroplasma, um, infertility is not an immediate, immediate outcome.
00:52:35.720
Uroplasma can cause chronic inflammation in the reproductive tract, potentially leading to complications like PID or tubal scarring in women or reduced sperm quality in men.
00:52:47.460
This can take months to years of an untreated infection, particularly if the infection ascends to the upper reproduction, upper reproductive tract.
00:52:56.920
For example, PID related tubal damage might develop over six to 12 months or, uh, or longer in chronic untreated cases.
00:53:05.020
So if it's a woman, if you're sexually active, that's the, I I've heard six to 12 months is the, um, number I've heard.
00:53:15.200
So if you want to be super safe, you go every three months, less safe every six months.
00:53:21.740
Uh, most people with uroplasma are asymptomatic and progress to infertile.
00:53:26.320
Infertility requires persistent infection without treatment, regular screening and early antibiotic, uh, treatment typically prevents this.
00:53:34.540
TRIC, um, is similar to uroplasma and fertility from TRIC is rare and would require chronic untreated infection leading to complications like PID or epidemitis.
00:53:45.060
This can take several months or years of untreated infection.
00:53:49.180
Depending on the individual's immediate immune response, um, TRIC is most likely to cause symptoms prompting earlier treatment.
00:53:59.120
So I asked how common is infertility from these, um, this stuff.
00:54:03.820
Infertility from uroplasma is uncommon, but it's possible if uroplasma leads to PID, which occurs in a small subset of cases.
00:54:11.920
PID has a 10 to 15% chance of causing infertility per episode, but uroplasma is not a leading cause of PID compared to bacteria like chlamydia or gonorrhea.
00:54:21.420
Um, studies show that uroplasma is present in 20 to 40% of infertile women going under, undergoing ART, but direct causation is unclear.
00:54:32.500
Since it's also common in fertile individuals, men, uroplasma may reduce sperm motility or quality in 10 to 40% of infertile men, but permanent infertility is rare.
00:54:45.140
Unless there's severe untreated, um, epidemiasis or prosthesis.
00:54:50.660
Most cases are reversible with treatment overall infertility or infertility directly attributed to uroplasma is rare.
00:54:58.660
Less than 5% of cases as many infections are asymptomatic and resolve with treatment or don't progress with complications.
00:55:06.300
TRIC. Um, infertility is rare. Um, and it's saying it's 1 to 2% of cases. So it's very low. Um, it's even rarer in men. Um, infertility from TRIC is very rare.
00:55:18.940
So I was thinking, I was like, if I had to pick an STD, I think I'd pick TRIC. Now, obviously you want none of them, but I'm like, if I had, if gunned in my head, I had to catch something.
00:55:27.900
I think I would take TRIC. Um, your likelihood of catching these STDs from a, from protected sex and unprotected sex. So, uh, if someone has uroplasma, you'll get it 10 to 30% of the time from unprotected sex, um, for men transmission may be slightly lower, but still significant, um, depending on the bacterial load from protected sex, um, condoms reduce the risk of
00:55:57.880
transmission by 80 to 90% when used correctly. So basically, and that's kind of what I've seen. It's a less than 5% chance for most STDs. If you're using a condom, you're like most likely not going to get it. That's, that's what I've seen. I mean, I look at, I'm just saying gun to my head. If I had to pick, you're saying, oh, picking an STD is crazy. Well, I'm just like, if I had to, um, trick is highly contagious.
00:56:27.860
And with transmission rates are at 20 to 50% per unprotected sexual act. Uh, women are more likely to contract it from a male partner up to 50% per acts, the act than men from a female infected partner, protected sex. They reduce the transmission by 80 to 95% when used correctly. Um, so it's, it's around five to 10% if you use a condom correctly.
00:56:54.860
Correctly. So that's the, yeah. So infertility, it's uncommon. I'm like, these aren't so bad. Um, these aren't so bad. So we're going to do a call in, um, that would suck double bagging and still get an STD. One of the guys I interviewed that got herpes, got it with a condom.
00:57:16.860
It with a condom. Tough luck, right? I'm actually going to send, I'll see if that guy will call in. Um, um,
00:57:30.300
I'm going to send it to him. Cause if you've had, if you've had, um, other STDs, you can call in too, but it per preferably trick or uroplasma.
00:57:42.300
That's my preference. That's my preference. So if you've had some STDs, I'd love to, I, this is kind of what I want to know. I want to know, did you know you had it? Who'd you get it from? The more information you could tell me about the girls you got it from, like, did they look like someone that had an STD?
00:58:05.300
Um, but guys, please figure out your technology. Um, when you get on, tell me your story, what STD you caught. We're going to try to stick to the one today, but I understand beggars can't be choosers with STDs. I would, I would turn your cameras off. Um, because I don't, I don't know if you want to be on camera admitting you have an STD. If you don't care, then.
00:58:35.300
put it on, but, um, yeah, put a, put a one in the chat. If you've had one of these STDs, trick or uroplasma, put a one in the chat.
00:59:01.760
I'm good. So the thing about trick in uroplasma is the biggest symptom is the smell. And guys, especially when you're young and in college and you're running through girls, most of us have gotten hot and heavy with a girl. And there's a smell.
00:59:22.400
And I'm not going to lie. I wouldn't even go in there. I know some guys would, would dive in there still, but I've had, it smells like tuna fish or something. Yo, I would back up off.
00:59:35.800
Come on now, guys, put a one in the chat. If you've ever been with a girl and it smells kind of funny in there. And what did you do? Did you, did you back off or did you keep going?
00:59:47.500
Because for me, it smells like tuna fish or it smells like old, uh, old sweat sock.
00:59:53.200
Wait, so what do you do? Like, okay. Because I'm guessing she's half naked, right? You guys are getting hot and heavy. How do you get out of that? That's so awkward. You just say, Oh, that's disgusting.
01:00:04.420
Like, how do you get out of that without her? Cause if you say that's disgusting, you might get an accusation. You know what I mean?
01:00:11.440
Like, what do you do? Yeah. I mean, I would just back out. I'd be like, Hey, I got to go. And then you just leave.
01:00:20.260
This is, no, you know, you, you pull the woman card. This is moving too fast for me.
01:00:28.740
No, I just, I don't do that. I, I just never do this on a first date.
01:00:34.880
I want to take this slow. I really care about you. So I don't think we should have sex on the first date.
01:00:41.440
Yeah. You know what? The best strategies are just the strategies women do.
01:00:49.740
You know what I mean? Like women sleep for a job. Like they, they have sex with someone for a job.
01:00:55.080
I feel like men, there's a lot of old bitter bosses. You might as well start doing it too. Start fucking the boss.
01:01:00.280
I mean, that definitely works. You know, I bet there's some, I bet there's some high level
01:01:08.940
executive at Fox. You could slide into her DMs, Doug MPA and get on Fox news.
01:01:14.040
Hey, I'm going to put a, uh, uh, a video in the chat. I think this is it.
01:01:23.840
Where this, this waxing technician won't do a woman's wax. Cause she has a smell.
01:02:03.300
I'm trying to get my wax. I have vacation. My flight leaves tonight.
01:02:07.400
My flight leaves tonight and I need my wax done.
01:02:09.020
And now you're telling me that you can't do my wax because of a phone key issue.
01:02:15.520
It's crazy because I've gone to other places. I've gone to European Wax Center and they don't have an issue.
01:02:20.380
The phone's going off. This is, this is so unprofessional.
01:02:25.840
However, that is beyond, I'm not, I don't know what maybe European Wax Center is a little bit more equipped than we are.
01:02:33.880
I'm, I'm actually a PMA, but there's wax and that is not just an odor. That's, that's actually an infection.
01:02:42.480
And I don't feel comfortable touching you in that area.
01:02:45.520
I told you I just went to the gym. I just went to the gym.
01:02:48.180
I mean, that's not the gym. That's not the gym, ma'am. I go to the gym. That's not the gym.
01:02:52.440
Oh, she said, I go to the gym. That's not the gym.
01:02:56.740
This is a very uncomfortable conversation for me. I'm not your primary care.
01:03:35.760
It's too late for me to book last minute anywhere else.
01:04:07.220
She had her medication listed and I had herpes medication on it.
01:04:13.080
And I was like, how did this get on the internet?
01:04:39.040
Because I think she was like, this is all the medication I was on before I went on, like, that diet.
01:06:00.000
Can you imagine being the actress for this video?
01:06:06.040
Each outbreak felt like it took days out of my life.
01:06:09.540
So I talked to my doctor and found out about Valtrex.
01:06:12.540
Just one pill a day helps reduce the number of outbreaks.
01:06:15.160
In fact, I've been outbreak free for almost a year.
01:06:20.820
In a one-year clinical study among people with genital herpes who took Valtrex,
01:06:46.680
I don't think you could pay me to do that commercial.
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The only way, guys, if you want to figure out if someone has herpes, you got to say that the only way you'll get a woman to admit it is to say you have herpes first.
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That's what I got, because I was asking the guys that like, like, that they don't say it.
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And they said like, and I was like, okay, would you say it in this situation?
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I have genital herpes, and I try to be careful.
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One study found that up to 70% of people who had genital herpes got it from their partner when they had no signs or symptoms of an outbreak.
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And it doesn't matter how few outbreaks you get.
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Now I take once daily Valtrex to reduce my risk of passing it on.
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Valtrex is the only medicine proven to reduce the risk of spreading genital herpes.
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Always use safer sex practices with daily therapy, which also includes avoiding sexual contact when you get or think you're getting an outbreak.
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People, I'm telling you, people just spread it.
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When they're in that situation, they're not going to tell the person.
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The best one, there's this one and there's a guy on a motorcycle and he's riding along this coastline and he's like, I love the open road and feel it in control.
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So when I got genital herpes, I decided to not let it get me down.
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That's when they first, believe it or not, for early Pearl, there was a time where there were no prescription drug commercials on TV.
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And then they just went nuts in the early 2000s.
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I asked, how did her medication list get on the Internet?
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I would say, if you're right, if I had to choose a gun to my head, if it was one to get, it would be one of these two.
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Because both of them can be cured with one pill, you know, with a little bit of treatment.
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I think I'd pick trick because you're a plasma.
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But the trick, because it says you're not going to be infertile from it, most likely.
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So if you do spread it, you'll probably spread it to somebody and they might think you're a whore.
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It like, you know, if you don't get tested right away and what I think these are the ones I'd pick, though, gun to my head.
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If you mess around with enough with with enough women, it's going to happen.
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You just have to make sure that you don't get one that you can't get rid of, because that's the key.
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You know, if you and especially as guys, you're going to get older, you're going to get access to more women, you're going to get access to more beautiful women.
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You just kind of make sure to use condoms, man.
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And if there's any if you have any kind of weird anything down there, get tested like like Pearl said, get tested multiple times a year.
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You know how many guys I know don't go to the doctor, Pearl?
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Guys with health insurance and resources, don't go to the doctor.
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I don't go to the doctor because it takes like I don't know what it is in Illinois, but it takes you like three months to get into a general doctor.
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So the best place to go is they have urgent cares that have primary care, too.
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I just feel like I like I feel like Grok is like better than the doctors.
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Grok has taught me more about nutrition than any doctor.
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As long as I go to Grok and I get the most detailed explanations about each one, I'm like, wow, that's so interesting.
01:12:47.240
Audio is connected, but this person is on mute.
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Yeah, I hooked up with this blonde thing that was, she was hanging around all the bands
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Yeah, everyone was rooting her and she was spreading the herb.
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But I had a, she came out of my place for, you know, let's just call it an interlude.
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But, you know, we got hot and heavy and naked and, like, as soon as she took her knickers
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Did somebody just open a can of tuna in the kitchen?
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And when, when I caught a whiff of that smell, I was just like, I was, yeah, there was nothing
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And did you, how did you, how did you get out of it?
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It always, it's always a negotiation with women.
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And, and Doug was right about, they won't admit to it unless, you know, you say that
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I was, I have a clean skin, you know, I don't use condoms.
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I've just been like super lucky, but yeah, it's like, it came up, you know, do you, she's
01:14:36.480
like, do you, she, like all women, she accused me of having herpes and that, that's how, like,
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I think it took about 30 minutes or 40 minutes and she eventually admitted to it.
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So yeah, you just gotta, you just gotta say, you just gotta say you have it and then be
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I was just young, dumb and full of calm and ready to spread it.
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So there was, there was no shortage of women to step up and, you know, say hello.
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Um, and the attorney, Andrew says the Grokster is in.
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I called your show and I don't have STDs, but no, I thought no one's going to call.
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How many friends admitted that they have an STD or other women you've dated over time?
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Yeah, he was busy spreading that with every woman that he could.
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And there was always like in our friends group, there was always this explosion of, you know,
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Theo gave another girl her, uh, the, the warts.
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So it was like, you had to keep a list of who he went to because you didn't want to
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What did, isn't it kind of awkward when you know they have it because you're not going
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to like say anything, you know, but like, you might, if you know him personally, but
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half the time you don't know the women, like you're not that you're not babysitting 24 seven,
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It's like the unspoken thing, like a large group of, a large group of friends.
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We all know, but no one will talk about it, but everyone knows.
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And they know that they, we know it's one of those things.
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Well, um, is there no treatment for the genital warts?
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I vaguely remember him talking about it, but you know, it's just kind of, you know,
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Uh, it's similar to getting your, your moles removed.
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You know, you go to the, one of those skin doctors,
01:17:35.100
I remember my mate, Theo, when, when, when, when he had his, um, thing, he had to get
01:17:40.820
them removed, you know, once a year or something.
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I'm just making that a bit up, but you know, he'd always be tender.
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How many women do you think he's spread it to over the years?
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Uh, I, he's probably still doing it to this day.
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I've lost touch with him because, um, he, we were in business together.
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He sold his share of the business and he moved to Hong Kong with his, with the proceeds.
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So he's probably starting up a new, uh, warts franchise in Hong Kong.
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Uh, no, that's the thing people don't understand people always have this like repulsion where
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they're like, oh, well they should, they should be required to tell you.
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I'm like, look at, if you've talked to one of these guys, the way they see it is their
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If they do that, they are not, I promise to God, they are just going to keep spreading
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One of the guys said, he literally said to me, yeah, if they want to use a condom, I just
01:18:45.500
Um, and he literally has to like, I'm like, I'm like, when you interview and you talk to
01:18:52.120
these guys, I'm like, yeah, just wear a condom ladies, because you're never, and you're never
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Like, I, I don't think like, would you say the guy, you know, you'd be able to guess or
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He hadn't really nothing going from, aside from the fact that he was good looking and
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We don't care about what, what, what we're transferring to the other human that we may
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It's just, that's selfish human thought that we need to procreate.
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Did he ever have a girl come back and like get mad at him or anything?
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We knew every time, every time Theo got a new girlfriend, we, we, we, we weren't taking
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bets, but we were all calculating in our heads how long it would take before you'd hear screaming
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I mean, we're talking, we're a lot, we were long-term friends.
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You know, and you know, yeah, yeah, it was, it was, it, I'm sure it was, it'd be the
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same with somebody with herpes, you know, it's just like, you know, what, you know, what,
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You could have just driven around me, but you know, that's the same thing.
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And it's like, but when you're their friend, it's like, what are you going to, you're going
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to tell every single person they date, you know?
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Because every time a new girl comes into their relationship, you know, he's like, don't
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say anything, but we'll end up in a punch up, you know?
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So no one, no one in extended group of friendship would ever tell the new girl, we'd just be looking
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at her all in the know, and we'd all be sitting around drinking in a big party, and we'd all
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be looking at his new prospective girlfriend going, there's the next victim, how long before
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I think he had one girlfriend for about three years.
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Once you've got it, you know, what are you going to do?
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So, you know, you're just going to keep banging away and keep trying to build a life, you know?
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Yeah, I would just stay, I would just stay, because now you've got to go back and date
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Fuck that, we're going to make this work, baby.
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I mean, you think about it this way, it's like he's got the ultimate tramp stamp that
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It's just like, I've given you my disease, now you're part of my cult.
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The women, they'll tell the truth until there's a negative reaction, and then they'll lie.
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It's like body count, you know, women are honest when they're younger, and then a guy
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Yeah, there are herpes dating apps, but do you know what?
01:22:15.300
I don't understand this whole body count thing.
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I mean, theoretically, you know, it's not a car.
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You know, the body count, you know, body count tells you that somebody's experienced at sex.
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You know, it doesn't mean that they're a hoe, it just means they're good at what they do.
01:22:43.540
So the feedback I got, because I did ask one of the guys why he didn't do that, and he said
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that he kept catching other stuff when he would go for the girls with herpes.
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He said, yeah, like at first I would just find out who else had it, and I would like go and
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But then I would start getting like gonorrhea, like I'd get all these other STDs, and I'm
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We always use a joke with our mate Theo, you know, are you going to get the whole collection?
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You've got the warts now, are you going to get the herpes and the gonorrhea and the crabs?
01:23:24.540
But you know, yeah, he told everyone, because that's another thing I remember him saying.
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He said, don't lay in my bed, because it might be contagious.
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You know, if you guys, you know, hooking up with some girl, don't take her back to my
01:23:47.240
Maybe he just didn't want anyone else in his bed.
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I find the people that get it, it's either they're like naive.
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Well, I remember the, the girl that he got it off, she was in high school.
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I think she was about 15, but she was banging some 40 year old guy that lived in the, in
01:24:21.980
So she got, got off a guy like where, where I grew up, the North shore of Sydney.
01:24:26.800
It was like, I think it was known as the, like the orgy capital of, you know, my area
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in the eighties, you know, like my, my parents used to do, um, some pretty exciting things.
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Um, Doug MPA, is there anyone else on the line or no?
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I think, I think that no one wants to touch this one.
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So I, that one video I showed, I guess an infection can get so bad that it smells when
01:25:01.260
Now I've never smelled that smell, but so I wondered if, does it start where a woman has
01:25:11.040
And then it gets so bad that it smells all the time.
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Let me see if one of the other people that messaged me, their STD stories wants to come
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So, um, but yeah, I knew that whole, um, the smell thing.
01:26:21.780
I mean, all of us have had that one girl were, it's an overpowering smell.
01:26:38.520
But when I was on, when I did the panel show, sometimes a girl would come in and they
01:26:44.600
And after they left, like some of my staff would tell me that the bathroom smelled like
01:26:49.200
terrible, like not from like poop, but like from like some dish.
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I don't know, I was like, I didn't think it would be that strong road could linger, but
01:27:00.380
Did you ever have any women on your panel show where they sat on the couch and then they got
01:27:06.980
I don't, I don't have a strong sense of smell, but I, I, other people said they did smell
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that, but I personally, I just don't have a strong sense of smell.
01:27:17.860
So I wouldn't, and everyone's sweating anyways.
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Cause in London, we didn't have air conditioning.
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So that's unusual for a woman to not have a strong sense of smell, Pearl.
01:27:35.620
My, um, my sister had a friend and, um, uh, a BDW and there are some black families who
01:27:47.180
try to say that, like showering every day, isn't a good thing.
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So her family, they would only shower like every three or four days and they would get
01:27:57.600
up and they would, their mom told them to put lotion all over their body.
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Like, so they put on deodorant, but they'd only shower every three, four days and they'd
01:28:06.900
get up in the morning and they put lotion all over and she would come over to our house
01:28:11.540
and she would sit on like the couch or like a chair cushion.
01:28:15.540
And when she got up, it just smelled like old pussy where my mom was like, she can't
01:28:25.620
I heard, I did hear of, um, like some of, I remember there were times where my staff would
01:28:32.200
like complain or like someone would say something to me that one of the girls smelled, but I
01:28:36.320
couldn't, I couldn't smell it myself personally.
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We had some other calls and so Dean, we're going to let you go and bring on some other
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You guys, you guys have got a great community there, by the way.
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01:29:24.140
Um, it was like, okay, so beautiful girl, the most beautiful girl I've ever seen.
01:29:37.580
I check all the boxes and she looked like a Barbie doll.
01:29:42.160
And well, we get down to business, we get down to business.
01:29:48.780
And it was like, okay, before I even get into that, to the details, it was like halitosis
01:29:56.620
of the, uh, down there, but like of the vagina, it was bad.
01:30:02.460
Like I've never smelled, I've never smelled anything that bad before.
01:30:06.820
And she was literally, and I know the ranking of women, like one through 10, there's very,
01:30:13.320
there's tens or like, you know, one, 1% nines or like 2%.
01:30:18.200
So it was like an 8.7, almost a nine as far as looks.
01:30:23.740
And I, I was inebriated and I, I had a cold, but I could still smell something and it was
01:30:34.580
so bad and I was like, Hey, uh, so my excuse was let's jump in the shower.
01:30:50.600
And I, I mean, I, I tried and then it was just so bad anyways, afterwards.
01:31:02.120
I, I penetrated a little bit, but I stopped immediately.
01:31:05.500
So then I just said, I was like, Hey, I worked out a lot.
01:31:16.860
And so then anyway, after that, I was like, okay, I waited a week, went to the doctor and
01:31:24.240
I felt the sensation and, uh, it was like, we, it wasn't like crazy.
01:31:30.540
I wasn't getting any, like, this was like in college and, uh, long story short, it was
01:31:38.820
like, uh, a media or something, but, um, it turns out that that same girl that had hooked
01:31:47.920
up that I had hooked up with, she hooked up with some other acquaintances of mine and they
01:31:53.180
got something way worse that they didn't tell me what it was.
01:31:57.280
So like for, for chlamydia, it was just like, yeah, just take this, uh, antibiotic and you're
01:32:05.940
But my, the, the people that hooked up with her afterwards, they got like something way
01:32:18.840
Like his, his testicles swelled up and he had to get them drained.
01:32:25.500
What STD would make your testicles swell up and you would have to get them drained.
01:32:36.500
That doesn't sound like herpes because that was my first thing.
01:32:38.980
No, I think honestly, I think it was, it's just, it boggles my mind, Pearl, how, how beautiful
01:33:04.500
It says, was it right after you, cause it says that if, um, all right, several STDs
01:33:12.780
can, or infection can cause testicular swelling often due to inflammation or infection in the
01:33:22.980
Epididimidus, which is caused by STDs like conorrhea or chlamydia.
01:33:32.800
He said, I think he said he got gonorrhea and what was the other one?
01:33:41.420
It says orchitis too is another one that it could have been.
01:33:50.940
And then, so the, the thing was, is that she, she developed a reputation and we used to
01:33:57.860
call her stank, unfortunately, and be like, Oh dude, stank's right there, dude.
01:34:02.800
And, and everybody, and then there were, there were like, since they were like, I don't care.
01:34:14.880
But even today, man, like even today, Pearl, I, I, I make girls like some of them go like,
01:34:24.360
I literally tell them you need to go get an STD test before we do anything.
01:34:34.320
I mean, I'm not, I'm not hooking up all the time, but if I do find a girl that I'm interested
01:34:45.760
Um, I would say, uh, I would say about one, two, three, four, like eight.
01:35:08.400
So before, what was the, two of them didn't and two of them ghosted me because they didn't
01:35:14.580
So what was the age and demographics of the women of the eight?
01:35:20.900
Um, the age were, they were, they were in their mid to like eight.
01:35:31.880
Um, I recently, well, going back to what your question, demographic, as far as like.
01:35:48.680
And did you see any patterns with like, which ones came back clean?
01:35:52.620
Like did the older, younger, certain race, which ones didn't?
01:36:04.000
I just, I know how you think about it, but yeah, they did.
01:36:06.760
And then, um, recently because I've just been growing, I have two companies, so I'm like
01:36:13.320
just in the, on the grind and I have a, you know, I have a child as well.
01:36:18.120
So I don't really put myself out there, but there was one girl I was interested in and
01:36:24.240
And she was like, she kind of got thrown off by it, but I was like, yeah, that's the
01:36:30.960
And she was like my age and she had never been asked that before.
01:36:38.320
I mean, that's the only way I'll ever do it these days.
01:36:52.780
And it's just like, just the stories that I hear, it's like, I don't know what it is,
01:36:56.560
but girls will just come and start telling me stuff and you know, they'll just, they'll
01:37:03.120
get drunk and they'll just be like, yeah, so I was with this guy.
01:37:06.300
And, and then after like the stories I hear just through asmosis, I'm like, whoa, Jesus
01:37:18.960
Like I really, I mean, like I said, I'm busy growing these companies.
01:37:22.760
Um, but, um, I think if I were to get back in the game, I would still be very cautious.
01:37:36.080
I'm in, um, specifically, I'll just tell you I'm in Austin.
01:37:39.500
I was just curious if the, like what area you were dating in.
01:37:45.220
Austin's like a, it's the feminist capital of the world.
01:37:50.960
I'm from fricking the capital of Washington state.
01:37:59.160
And like, I mean, Austin's bad, but nah, man, let me tell you, Washington, Western Washington's
01:38:06.160
Oh, it's like, you know, there's a lot of boss babes here too.
01:38:09.340
And so, because there's, you know, it's a, it's a tech boom town.
01:38:16.140
And so you'll get a lot of boss babes that are like, you know, they act like dudes, right?
01:38:22.260
They watch those, all those shows that, you know, desperate housewives, sex, and all those
01:38:30.040
Those, they still watch them, even if, even if they're reruns and they go and act like
01:38:35.740
Well, RT, I can tell you the difference between, uh, uh, Western Washington women and then Austin
01:38:44.100
So the biggest problem with Austin women is that, um, there's enough masculinity, uh, in
01:38:50.360
Texas, they, first off, Austin women are most likely to have their fathers in their lives.
01:38:57.520
Cause I think my hometown is, is, um, literally the single mother capital of the United States.
01:39:04.660
Um, and, um, so they have their fathers in their lives, uncles, and then there's the, the
01:39:10.880
cowboy culture, shooting guns, pickup trucks, or whatever.
01:39:13.700
So these are women who want a masculine man, but didn't want that masculine man to be feminist
01:39:26.080
You see them with the cowboy hats and the big trucks and, you know, they love men in uniform.
01:39:32.220
They love, you know, fighters and boxers and literally masculine men, but then they expect
01:39:40.120
Yeah, I just had, I mean, I just had a new disagreement with somebody just now, like about
01:39:45.620
I mean, I was literally, I, you know, I have a very particular personality.
01:39:52.380
Others would call me toxic masculine, but I'm really not toxic.
01:39:59.380
And so I go into the room and she's like, you, I just can't with you.
01:40:11.380
You need me to be more submissive and quiet and basically not be myself.
01:40:16.720
And this woman who I'm referring to is a boss woman, very successful.
01:40:22.580
And, uh, yeah, I'm just not going to conform to that.
01:40:26.220
And it becomes a vicious cycle with these boss women here, especially what I'm looking at.
01:40:31.980
They go from one guy and then they go to a soft guy and then they, they dry up quicker
01:40:36.380
than a Sahara desert down there after two years.
01:40:38.800
And then they go to another soft guy and then they hook up with the bad boys and then they
01:40:46.220
So they say a lot of women want a man like their fathers and like a lot of Texas, uh, Texas
01:40:54.320
guys over, over 50, we're still a masculine generation.
01:40:59.140
But then these women had some aunt or their mothers fill their head with some garbage and
01:41:07.080
they just, and, and Austin has some beautiful women, man, has some beautiful women.
01:41:12.860
And these women, so the first four months with one of these girls is great.
01:41:17.860
Then she starts talking and starts to trying to, to write, what would you say?
01:41:23.300
Four or five months before the themidism comes out?
01:41:27.440
Uh, no, I would say, honestly, let me say, I would say the first, if she's really into
01:41:33.640
you the first two months, how long do you wait until asking them for an STD test?
01:41:45.220
I have to see if they're worth even talking to beyond like a coffee date.
01:41:52.520
If they start complaining, like, can we go somewhere else?
01:41:58.460
I'm not going to like, what do you expect me to go and roll out a red carpet?
01:42:02.640
So beyond that, if there's some rapport and there's some depth beyond what the surface
01:42:07.400
level of her personality is that I can see myself talking to, they can mesh well, they
01:42:15.960
Then I'll say, then we'll go on like the second or third date.
01:42:19.620
I would say like third, fourth date, maybe then it, you know, I'm like, okay, filling
01:42:25.440
And I'll just straight up tell her, I was like, Hey, you need to get an STD test.
01:42:28.940
Like I'll play, I have that personality that I'm able to get away with it.
01:42:37.020
So when I just, I'm like, Hey, by the way, you need to go get an STD test.
01:42:50.080
So the ones that it came back positive, what did they have that they told you?
01:42:58.380
And then they are like, yeah, they, they ghosted me.
01:43:07.480
But like, I mean, I'm just thinking like, couldn't you just treat it and get tested again and say
01:43:14.200
you didn't go like, if it's, if it's not like, um, if it's not like herpes or something,
01:43:22.680
I mean, cause I see one of the girls I saw again at the gym and she did not look at me
01:43:33.700
And I was just like, I don't care, dude, like get out of here.
01:43:41.400
You could lie to me and say, Oh, you know, I just found somebody else.
01:43:45.040
But we have, we have a woman in the chat asking you RT.
01:43:55.960
Cause the women can't come back positive for the STD test.
01:44:02.920
Not only that, not only that, because woman in the chat, I have time.
01:44:19.680
I'm building my, myself mentally, emotionally, financially.
01:44:29.360
And this is for her to ask herself, why would I go into a game where the odds are completely
01:44:42.260
And, uh, the ROI, if it's not a child, the ROI is not good enough.
01:44:51.940
It's like, why would I get in a game like that?
01:44:53.560
I honestly, the way I'm probably going to meet somebody guys is that they're like a 6.9
01:45:00.020
to a 7.4 in a, in the most random place who doesn't have a dating app and maybe barely
01:45:09.960
That's probably how I'm going to meet like the next girl I'm going to do.
01:45:22.960
You sure you, you want your camera on for this conversation?
01:45:40.820
Well, well, you know, like I actually did, um, I dated, um, a chick and we ended up, uh,
01:45:49.860
sleeping together and, you know, she, um, actually like we were in a relationship or whatever.
01:45:57.000
I knew we were like three months in and, um, like I had like red stuff, like under my armpits
01:46:07.600
And, um, I was like, you know, like, what is this?
01:46:13.380
Um, and I seen she had it, but I, I thought it was like shaving bumps or something like that.
01:46:16.800
So I went to the doctor, got checked out and they were like, um, yeah, like these are crabs and shit.
01:46:23.100
And, um, yeah, I was like, so then I came back to her.
01:46:26.400
I was like, yo, you got, you got, you got fucking crabs.
01:46:33.100
I got, and this is a white chick, you know what I mean?
01:46:34.660
And, um, this is my ex, uh, this is my ex actually.
01:46:38.200
And, um, but, um, yeah, she was like, she didn't know she had crabs and shit.
01:46:44.140
But, um, I mean, uh, you know, they gave me some treatment and luckily it was like that, you know what I mean?
01:46:52.300
But we haven't done, we haven't, we haven't done crabs.
01:47:17.860
You touch down there and then you scratch your armpit and that's probably how it.
01:47:21.460
Probably something like, well, well, it's an insect, so it, so it could technically get you anywhere.
01:47:31.200
We were like sleeping on the same bed, you know what I mean?
01:47:35.440
So like we were chilling together for a while before we even slept together.
01:47:38.800
Did you notice that, um, anything was off when you were sleeping with her?
01:47:53.780
Like, did you see any symptoms before you caught it?
01:48:03.460
Well, like, like I said, I, I seen her red armpits, but I thought like that was like from
01:48:17.080
I eventually did have it in my armpits too, but you know what I mean?
01:48:20.040
Like I seen it in hers and I was like, um, you know, like I didn't think much of it.
01:48:25.660
I thought she, cause she shaved her armpits and shit.
01:48:27.580
I was like, well, maybe I was from shaving or something, you know?
01:48:32.680
So what did she say when you confronted her about it again?
01:48:40.480
So like, you know, I, I cures both and you know what I'm saying?
01:48:53.140
Um, but yeah, I mean, me and her stayed, you know, like, uh, like, like I said, by the
01:49:00.400
time we were, you know, living together and, you know, she fucking bought me a car and
01:49:05.320
So I was like, we ended up having a relationship for like 10 years and shit.
01:49:12.900
Oh, so you stayed with her only cause it was crabs.
01:49:17.040
Oh, would it have been a different story if she would have gave you like herpes or
01:49:23.460
Well, at that point, at that point, you already have it.
01:49:29.580
Like, I mean, if you have that, you know what I mean?
01:49:32.520
If you have that you're done, we were, we were, we were pretty, you know, open with each other
01:49:38.440
So like, if she had something, like, I think she would tell me and I mean, she wasn't, she
01:49:44.520
hadn't been like sexual actor for a while before, uh, you know, me and her were sexual actors.
01:49:49.200
So, um, you know, so I was like her second dude, you know, but I don't know.
01:50:05.040
Actually, you should do a show called, if you're going to lie about your body count, what
01:50:13.420
Cause you know, what, what, what number do you, you should multiply a woman's admitted
01:50:23.160
Let's, let's, no, no, no, no, let's, let's, do you guys consider oral a body?
01:50:30.760
Cause I think that's the, I don't think women consider oral a body.
01:50:36.300
And I think it's cause of women, one were manipulative and two, I don't think women bond
01:50:44.000
So do you, cause I don't think women, when they count their body count, they're not going
01:50:48.920
to count guys that nobody's going to know about.
01:50:54.140
So I, I know for a fact that every other woman doesn't consider oral a body, but black
01:51:03.440
women do cause black women treat a BJ like it's actual sex.
01:51:09.240
But it's, it's, it's sexual intercourse, you know, I mean, not necessarily intercourse,
01:51:14.100
but like it's sexual, you know what I'm saying?
01:51:18.240
To me, to me, if a girl does that, that is like, that's like, damn, like you, you went
01:51:29.520
Like you can still catch something if you're going down.
01:51:35.000
I told this girl the other day, I was like, she was like, yeah, you know, I've only had
01:51:39.700
this amount of guys and I, but I mainly do that oral, you know, cause you know, it was
01:51:47.200
And I said, well, I might as well be gay at that point because of all the guys that you've
01:51:51.900
been with, what the hell's the matter with you?
01:52:03.800
So if a girl says, oh yeah, I've only been with 10 guys.
01:52:10.680
If you're going to, if you're going to lie, what number are you going to lie with?
01:52:21.280
Well, I was just saying like, um, you know, back, this, this is kind of like, you know,
01:52:26.620
So it's not like how things are now, you know what I mean?
01:52:36.660
No, I was going to say, I know a girl that has a body count well over 50.
01:52:43.660
But she was telling another guy, I can count how many guys I've been with on two hands.
01:52:50.900
And I'm thinking like, wait, combining the two hands and then it being a double digit.
01:52:58.080
She was like, and I was overhearing this conversation.
01:53:00.860
And she said, eight, I know that woman has well over 50, 60, 70 bodies.
01:53:05.760
And I was, I was like, damn, if she's lying like that, I can't even imagine.
01:53:19.660
She was like, yeah, eight, nine, I think like being dead serious.
01:53:22.660
And I'm like, are you, I'm like looking, I'm like, what?
01:53:32.660
I know you had like eight in a month, but she, but I'm like, man, so.
01:53:37.660
Did she hook up with a lot of your friends or something?
01:53:39.660
No, I mean, the thing is, it's like girls get really comfortable with me because I'm
01:54:03.660
Um, I'm not going to go hang around a girl, have nothing in common with a girl.
01:54:08.660
Like, are we going to go shoot guns and go fishing?
01:54:11.660
I mean, maybe some will, but no, I mean, they just open up to me and then we stay in contact,
01:54:16.660
you know, and I post stuff and they, you know, they'll interact with me because I've never
01:54:21.660
really not been the same person from the beginning.
01:54:24.660
And I think because of that, and I've been real from the beginning, they just open up to
01:54:31.660
So that's how I get a lot of the insights and the scoop on all this stuff.
01:54:36.660
And the crazy thing is if that's what she told you, it's probably worse.
01:54:42.660
Cause like, yeah, even I feel like there's levels to female lying.
01:54:48.660
Like there's like more honest and then super honest.
01:54:51.660
So it's like, if that's the story she's telling you, it's probably worse than that.
01:54:57.660
I mean, I went to dinner with one of my acquaintances, I guess.
01:55:02.660
And I've known this girl for like 10 years and we used to hook up and everything.
01:55:06.660
And we go to dinner and she has like four or five drinks of our glasses of wine.
01:55:10.660
And, you know, she's like in her late thirties as well.
01:55:14.660
She was like, yeah, you know, just casually telling me, oh, I met this 32 year old.
01:55:19.660
And, you know, I don't really know about him, but I did hook up with them.
01:55:24.660
And then, but I still don't really know about it.
01:55:26.660
I don't really know like if I like him or not, but then, then I hooked up with him again.
01:55:33.660
To me, it's to me as a, I don't know how you guys think, but I don't understand.
01:55:41.660
I just don't understand how a girl just opens her legs.
01:55:45.660
And she's like, I really don't know about this guy, but I'm going to, I'm going to let him, I'm going to let him bang me.
01:55:51.660
But, you know, and then I'm going to let him bang me again.
01:55:53.660
But to me, it's like, how do you have to be like messed up?
01:55:58.660
There's some, there's some women that just don't think sex is a big deal.
01:56:03.660
Like they just don't like, I knew women like that growing up.
01:56:07.660
They just never like, there's like high, I'd say high anxiety.
01:56:12.660
Women tend to have lower body counts than low anxiety women.
01:56:16.660
And like, there's some women that just don't get like, they don't worry.
01:56:22.660
It's like sexual liberation is so prominent, especially with the boss babe chicks.
01:56:27.660
Like they're just like, they use justifications of energies and it just is what it is.
01:56:33.660
And, and another thing that they also say, Pearl, that is really prominent in the boss babe world is they say, well, you know, to each their own.
01:56:43.660
I mean, if that's what they want to do, that's what they want to do.
01:56:46.660
And when a girl says that to me, by the way, immediate red flag.
01:56:52.660
I'll bring up subjects indirectly and I'll be like, so what do you think about like, you know, feminism and like, and they'll say what, what they say.
01:56:59.660
But then I'll say, well, what about like sexual liberation?
01:57:03.660
If they say something to the effect of, you know, I mean, some girls, they can do whatever they want.
01:57:10.660
I'll tell you what, some girls, some girls are just like that.
01:57:14.660
Like they can, like, I'm telling you these girls, like they don't, it's like really weird.
01:57:19.660
And I remember like witnessing it when I was younger and just thinking, like, I don't understand how they can just not feel attached at all.
01:57:27.660
But that like, for whatever reason, I don't even think it's like feminism or brainwashing.
01:57:34.660
I think some girls are just like, kind of like that.
01:57:41.660
I mean, I think these women are acting like, here's the crazy thing.
01:57:50.660
Like I'm walking and I have, you know, I would say modestly speaking.
01:57:55.660
Like, you know, I'm not, you know, I'm not thirsty for women in other words.
01:58:01.660
So I see these girls and they're just like, they just, they act like dudes.
01:58:05.660
They flex like dudes, but then they act feminine.
01:58:10.660
And so like, they said, this guy is so Elton John.
01:58:26.660
They say like, Atlanta has like the third highest in HIV.
01:58:40.660
And, you know, like, they just, they don't care, man.
01:58:48.660
Clubbing, thotting, twerk, you know what I mean?
01:58:50.660
Atlanta is a home of the women where if you try to put on a rubber, they get mad at you.
01:58:54.660
And they're like, well, you, you think I'm dirty?
01:59:12.660
So I'm going to drop you guys off, but thanks for calling.
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Guys, make sure to like the video if you haven't already.
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Darren's coming up next and then I'm going to bring on SoCal Lowbrow 2.
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Keep hitting that super chat button because all super chats go towards the Demorza documentary.
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Either Darren or SoCal Lowbrow, whoever comes first.
02:00:03.660
I talked to you a couple of months ago or I don't know when.
02:00:11.660
Listen, let's get back to the topic about STDs, right?
02:00:24.660
You know, you had a great time and then you have to pay the price later.
02:00:36.660
Chamedia, gonorrhea, multiple times, it's great.
02:00:42.660
You use your, obviously your benefits and you get a big pill and a shot in the ass.
02:00:53.660
You know, I'm so tired over all these guys like that guy.
02:00:55.660
He's such a faker about what thirsty, how this, what the hell is this guy talking about?
02:01:13.660
Guys, I'm going to let you go, but I just want to hear him talk.
02:01:18.660
So your take is basically that anyone that doesn't want an STD is holier than them?
02:01:27.660
What I'm saying is that men want to be holier than thou.
02:01:40.660
How many times have you caught like anything more serious, like, um, herpes, like, or has
02:01:48.660
You know, uh, I got an HIV test and all that stuff.
02:01:52.660
And I really was thinking, man, I don't know if I'm gonna, I don't know if I have it.
02:01:58.660
I was like, I was sweating bullets, but, uh, that was okay.
02:02:02.660
How many times have you caught, um, gonorrhea or chlamydia?
02:02:17.660
As long as you treat it, as long as you treat it early.
02:02:26.660
But even if it was herpes, let's say that I do get herpes per in the future.
02:02:34.660
I mean, the women hooking up with you probably do.
02:02:37.660
I mean, but what I'm saying, it's not brain cancer.
02:02:43.660
You won't die, but it's just, I mean, I just think it's one of those things where the people
02:02:46.660
that don't have it, like you just don't want it, you know?
02:03:00.660
They have to laser my eye, you know, before last my vision, my eyes.
02:03:12.660
You're kind of, you're kind of, wait, wait, wait.
02:03:14.660
So you're kind of going at like the neuroticism.
02:03:19.660
Like a lot of people are neurotic about this kind of stuff.
02:03:28.660
No, what I'm getting at is that it's called life.
02:03:31.660
If we want to sit in a vat, like a, you know, in a glass house where nothing ever bad happens
02:03:38.660
You know, there's people out there that I want to live a healthy lifestyle.
02:03:51.660
In a hundred years, we're all going to be dust.
02:03:53.660
Anyway, whatever happens today in a hundred years, no one's going to remember.
02:03:58.660
I mean, unless you're Abraham Lincoln or something.
02:04:06.660
I think, I think there's some things that are like calculated risks, but I do understand
02:04:42.660
And then we can go back and forth about your thoughts on what he's saying, but I want to
02:04:47.660
get you guys' stories first and then we can go back and forth.
02:04:50.660
So if you wouldn't mind, what STD did you have or did you know someone that had, or what's
02:05:04.660
So if you know anything about that, I mean, this lady's been with like, I can't even hear
02:05:19.660
Um, this lady, you know, that's her profession.
02:05:25.660
She's probably with like 10 to 15 dudes a week.
02:05:29.660
Maybe even like ladies too, at the same time a week, you know, you never know who her
02:05:34.660
So with that being said, you know, about like every two months, she'll get, you know, blood
02:05:39.660
tests and this and that, you know, get checkups and stuff like that.
02:05:45.660
Like a pie, like 20 times, probably after like the fourth time I was with her.
02:05:50.660
Like I was like her, her, her, her little side friend, if you know what I'm saying?
02:05:54.660
So like after the fourth time I was with her, I wasn't wearing no Jimmy no more.
02:06:00.660
I didn't catch no SCD, never nothing like that.
02:06:03.660
And like her, she has caught like SCDs in the past because, you know, I asked her because
02:06:08.660
like, we were like getting pretty close and she's like, well, yeah.
02:06:11.660
Like in the past I have, but like, like I said, she gets tested every single two months.
02:06:17.660
And like a lot of those sex workers, that's what they do.
02:06:22.660
It's a very, very scary living too, because like some of them too, like how, like one boy
02:06:27.660
said, like in Georgia, like some of those sex workers, they don't even use condoms with
02:06:32.660
And some of them is strictly condom based only.
02:06:34.660
So with that being said, it's like, I mean, there's a lot of prude people out there and
02:06:39.660
there's a lot of people out there, like who look at sex, like nothing.
02:06:43.660
Like you can go to a bar and there could be some girl there who's banging out some
02:06:47.660
dude like any other, like every other week or so.
02:06:53.660
And you can say the same thing about like some dude doing that too.
02:06:58.660
So like, so when you come to the sex worker, you said you've been with her.
02:07:03.660
Oh, probably like close to like almost two years now.
02:07:11.660
Like what is she, like how often does she catch something?
02:07:18.660
No, no, she's never, like I said, she, she showed me her test.
02:07:25.660
And like, um, like the thing, like the industry is, it's crazy.
02:07:31.660
Like, I'm not going to give out like the website where I found her from.
02:07:35.660
But like, looks like, you know, like fetishes and like kink, you know what I'm saying?
02:07:39.660
Like, that's like the website where I found her from.
02:07:42.660
It wasn't like, like, um, I didn't find her like from like a listing, like page or nothing
02:07:48.660
Or like, this was like a free website that I found her from like a fetish website.
02:07:53.660
But I mean, what the thing about her was, and the thing about some of these sex workers,
02:08:02.660
So with that being said, everyone knows that anyone who's done heroin, you could possibly
02:08:12.660
And for her to admit that to me, I mean, some people don't tell you the truth about their
02:08:19.660
So, I mean, I mean, you get tested if you're like scared, you know what I'm saying?
02:08:23.660
I mean, I mean, like I'm saying a lot of these workers, they, they get tested.
02:08:27.660
So, I mean, they'll, they'll show you the test too.
02:08:30.660
But, and if they don't, then, you know, maybe that's not one you should like be with.
02:08:34.660
And like, you never know who you're like messing around with.
02:08:39.660
I probably been with like 60 people and I'm 46 years old.
02:08:45.660
Because of the goddamn internet and like POF, Tinder, and this shameless date because girls
02:08:51.660
like, you know, you're trying to make it with someone, but it just ain't happening, I guess.
02:08:56.660
So, but you never caught anything is like, I just want to clarify, you never caught anything.
02:09:11.660
Did she give you a number of times she's had it?
02:09:14.660
She told me like she had chlamydia at the time and she was passing around with both
02:09:22.660
Like they couldn't get a, like she, she, they had it for a while because she kept on going
02:09:27.660
back and forth with their partners, like different partners and shit.
02:09:33.660
That's the only thing I really know that she told me that she's had maybe syphilis before
02:09:49.660
So now you guys can go back and for, you had some thoughts you wanted to share about what
02:09:52.660
he said about the, um, about who cares about STDs?
02:10:05.660
I just put him in the, um, in the waiting room, but he left.
02:10:21.660
If you guys want to go now, it's you're totally fine.
02:10:23.660
My thoughts that dude, I mean, that's a scary person you meet in public.
02:10:27.660
Anyone who's saying that, like, he's doesn't care if he catch herpes or something like that.
02:10:32.660
And if he passes it to someone else, that's not a, that's not a good dude.
02:10:36.660
I think seriously needs to be like checked out, like mentally, because something's not
02:10:42.660
You, you don't want to be passing herpes around.
02:10:44.660
You don't want to be passing disease around, but like YouTube too, it's a crazy thing.
02:10:50.660
They'll even say like, some of these ladies can have a lot of play partners and like not catch
02:10:58.660
Like I've, I don't forget like which doctor was on YouTube, but like, I don't know, but
02:11:23.660
So if you guys wanted to, they had some things they wanted to say, and I wanted to hear you
02:11:29.660
guys' stories before we had like a back and forth.
02:11:32.660
So if you're okay, if you're okay with it, they wanted to have, they had some comments
02:11:45.660
Hey, locale, dude, you, you and your rod dog, it needs to stop, man.
02:11:55.660
I believe in every single God in the whole entire world.
02:12:06.660
Like, seriously, you don't want to be like catching herpes and passing that around and smiling
02:12:15.660
Did you have any thoughts you wanted to respond to that?
02:12:22.660
But if I were to catch herpes from a girl, then that's the way it is.
02:12:27.660
We live in this world, right, where we think so much of ourselves.
02:12:31.660
We're so narcissistic that, oh my God, this world...
02:12:35.660
We only have a finite moment in this world, guy.
02:12:41.660
All this red pill space, all of this about holy other and thou space.
02:13:05.660
When it's your turn, you'll be happy when you take that turnstile turn.
02:13:18.660
I know you had something you wanted to say earlier.
02:13:21.660
Because if you get one of those things that keep on giving, it can seriously affect your
02:13:38.660
affect your life. And I know what you're saying by, you know, you want to live your life, but
02:13:43.720
look, you can get in a car accident, but you still want to have car insurance, right?
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So you got to do preventative action to minimize risk. Life is about risk, but as you get older,
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you get critical thinking skills and resources and knowledge to be able to minimize risk.
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Well, that's the, see, that's the, that's the illogical fallacy of getting ordered or older.
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So you have to understand what I'm trying to explain to you. I'm 43 years old. I'm not old,
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but I am older. As you get older, as right, as you get older, you have to realize that you're
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basically lucking out every single day because a goddamn, you know, a piece of wood can fall in
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your head and kill you. You know, it happens all the time. Weird things happen. Guess what? Enjoy
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life. Let's stop this demeanor of this, that, and the third about, Hey, I want this. I want that
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for my life. You're never going to find it men. What I'm saying pro is, and I, and I love your
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podcast and I love everything about you, but men were too picky, man. Stop being so picky and enjoy
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life. Hey, guess what? If you, if you count your ducats all in a row for the rest of your life,
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right? There's people that do that all of their life and they never enjoy life. Hey,
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guess what? I'm great now. How old are you? 70. Did you ever enjoy life? No, I guess not.
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I'm dead now. That's the truth. Stop. We need to stop this. We need to stop it, man. For real.
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Cool. All right. You guys got any other thoughts on what he said?
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No, trust me. I'm enjoying my life, but I think the way you're going at it. I don't know, man. Like
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I'm saying that one, do save this. Be a little protective when you go at it, dude.
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No, it's not protective, man. Let me tell you, man. Life's a risk. Okay. Life is a risk.
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Walking on eggshells. You could walk across the street and die. Trust me. I get it, dude. I wrote
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about it. I live it every single day. Exactly. It could be a whale trying to attack you out of nowhere
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and smack a fucking mic out your hand. Right. Cool. So that's what I'm saying. You know,
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we need to, we need to stop caring so much about what women are doing and care about yourself and
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love yourself and have a good time. You know, like I'm going, I live in Los Angeles. I'm going to go
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out tonight. Right. So what if she has a hundred bodies or 200, but whom cares? Hey, guess what?
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Look, man, I'm trying to smash that. That's completely different. We're talking about sex here,
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but most of the time as men, we're talking about serious commitment, relationships, marriage,
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and who you're going to give your time, attention, and resources to. If you're talking about having
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sex with her, I was at fault. I was a submissive fool and the sex worker was my dom and I didn't
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care if she was over with a thousand dudes and 15 dudes in a week. I would have did everything for
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this woman, everything for this woman. Like, I mean, dude, I cleaned her goddamn house.
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Her 16 year old would piss the bed. I would clean her, her fucking bed sheets. Dude, you not even
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know the things I would do for this woman. I would. That is some kinky shit right there though.
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A 16 year old would piss the bed. I looked at her for who she was as a woman. That was the
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fucking part. No, no, no. I want to analyze you now. It's like the movie Analyze This
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with Bobby D. What the hell? You cleaned a 16 year old bed of a 16 year old's bed that peed?
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Okay. We're going to move on. We're going to move on. We're going to move on. I appreciate the
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spirited conversation from both of you. Thanks for calling in. All right. Thanks guys.
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That, that went somewhere. I didn't think it was going to go. No, I, no, I didn't set this
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up guys. I just, you know, I actually, I kind of understood what he's saying. He's just saying
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to live life. Um, yeah, but you know, they're just, look, man, you know, if some girl's underage
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and she's coming on and you don't do it guys, they're just certain, you know, if some girl
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is 16, 17, even 18, 19, just don't do it guys. Don't take the risk. The, that's one
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of many scenarios where you don't take that risk. It can affect you for the rest of your
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lives. Just like HIV and just like the herb. Yeah. So you can't take every single risk when
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it comes to intersectional dynamics between men and women. Oh, or we have a marriage.
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This guy, this one doctor I used to know, his, his friend who was a doctor, divorced his wife,
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took his friend for half of everything he had. Then his dumb ass married the same woman.
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And then she divorced him five years later and it's taken half of his stuff too. Yeah. I mean,
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I don't, I think he was more talking about neuroticism. Like a lot of guys are neurotic,
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like women. Cause it's kind of like a female trait. So if guys are always like worrying about
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what goes wrong, it's like, like, that's kind of like a female trait. It's like worrying.
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Um, that's kind of, that was kind of the general point I think, but yeah, don't catch herpes
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with these guys. Okay. Well, um, thanks guys again for tuning in to STD Friday. I actually
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have grown to kind of like these, uh, one of these days we're going to do a beer. Maybe
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you guys could order, like we could all order the same beer. We'll have like a pearl beer.
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And on Fridays we can all drink it together. Um, my final thoughts today, or if I had to
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pick an STD out of all the ones we've gone through, this one didn't seem so bad. So I'd
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take this one. Doug MPA, what are your final thoughts? My final thoughts would be guys,
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you know, if you start getting down with the girl and you smell something funny, pull up your pants
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and run. Cause odds are it's trick or it's you're a plasma and you know, you don't want
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to get that stuff. Even if she's hot, dude, you know, and, and the best excuse, like we
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said earlier before I say, Hey, you know what, you know, uh, I respect you so much that I don't
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want to sleep with you on the first date. I see something here. You know, I can't wait
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to see you next time and then just leave and don't ever call her or, you know, actually
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do you, Pearl, would you think that if a guy were about to sleep with a girl and he smelled
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old sweat sock, should he leave? And then should he text her about it and tell her or call her
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the next day and tell her? I wouldn't. I wouldn't. You don't want to cry. You don't want her to
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screenshot it. Oh yeah, that's true. Yeah. No, I wouldn't do that. Yeah. You guys, you guys
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gotta stop. That's my biggest downfall. You guys realize we tell each other everything.
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We screenshot everything. We've seen it all. Stop texting stuff that can be used against
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you. You gotta like, yeah, it's gonna be in the group chat. So anyways, guys, thanks
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so much for tuning in Doug MPA. I appreciate it. Um, my final thoughts is live life, but don't
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catch herpes like the video, subscribe to the channel and I'll see you next time. Bye bye.