JustPearlyThings - October 23, 2023


Steven Crowder's INSANE Red Pill


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Length

9 minutes

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170.0641

Word count

1,574

Sentence count

169

Harmful content

Misogyny

7

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Toxicity

7

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Hate speech

5

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Join us as we discuss Stephen Crowder and Candace Owens and how the whole thing went down and how it affected the conservative movement. We also discuss why it's so important to have a good relationship with your spouse and how important it is to take care of them.

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00:00:00.000 What do you know about Stephen Crowder?
00:00:03.040 I know that he was quite controversial.
00:00:07.060 He's like a strict Christian. 0.88
00:00:09.240 Is he strict?
00:00:10.020 Yeah.
00:00:10.280 I don't know.
00:00:11.120 Yeah.
00:00:11.540 And advocate for marriage.
00:00:14.400 Yeah.
00:00:14.900 Well, he was.
00:00:16.140 He was.
00:00:17.280 He was.
00:00:17.720 Oh, no.
00:00:18.060 What happened?
00:00:18.660 So Crowder really, I would say, did everything right.
00:00:23.980 He actually waited until he was married with his wife to have sex.
00:00:28.720 And that actually made like headlines back in the day.
00:00:31.360 Oh, my God.
00:00:32.100 Yeah.
00:00:32.480 And he he ends up doing the traditional conservative route and he gets married and he has two kids.
00:00:39.800 About six to eight months ago now.
00:00:44.140 His wife released ring footage accusing him of abuse.
00:00:48.360 Oh, no.
00:00:49.080 Basically, Crowder and the Daily Wire were fighting about a contract.
00:00:53.980 Crowder kind of pissed off some people at the Daily Wire.
00:00:56.940 OK.
00:00:57.220 So Crowder basically comes out and says that he's divorcing or him and his wife are getting
00:01:03.540 divorced and he's being blackmailed by the Daily Wire.
00:01:07.600 They deny this.
00:01:08.760 They say this is not true.
00:01:10.000 But two days later, Candace Owens releases ring footage from his private residence and says
00:01:17.060 that it has a video titled Stephen Crowder is a monster.
00:01:20.580 No way. 0.68
00:01:21.300 Yes.
00:01:21.920 Yes.
00:01:22.680 So I don't know if he was or he wasn't.
00:01:25.400 And then she says, this is preposterous.
00:01:27.400 I can't believe you accused me of this.
00:01:29.380 I'm only releasing this because you said that you're at you're playing the victim here.
00:01:35.600 You're you're acting like your wife is in the wrong divorcing you.
00:01:40.120 But she doesn't get to give her side of the story.
00:01:42.820 I'll let her give her side of the story on my platform.
00:01:46.200 Wow.
00:01:46.520 She releases ring footage accusing Crowder of abuse.
00:01:50.160 Sugar.
00:01:51.220 And the thing is, me, because I know these type of cases, I knew what she was dealing.
00:01:56.720 Whenever these chicks release ring footage to the public, it's like, why is why are you 1.00
00:02:02.000 why are you like you never know the reasoning behind the clip.
00:02:05.420 And months later, I find out, like, I have a source reach out to me and give me the full
00:02:13.020 context behind the clip.
00:02:14.780 In the clip, he basically says to his wife, you need to listen to me.
00:02:20.100 And he was kind of being bony and like whining at her about it. 1.00
00:02:23.160 And then she says he goes into the house and says, I'll fuck you up. 0.99
00:02:26.860 So that sounds like abuse. 0.99
00:02:28.420 I get the recorded version with the full footage in the house.
00:02:32.660 And right after he says, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, too far.
00:02:37.160 Wow.
00:02:37.900 So is that really the abusive?
00:02:40.300 And they left that bit out, obviously.
00:02:41.840 Yes.
00:02:42.420 Yes.
00:02:42.900 And the thing is, Candace never reported the new information.
00:02:47.280 And so all of conservative Twitter and it's like she ruined his reputation, accusing him of
00:02:53.480 abuse, all of this stuff.
00:02:55.060 And really, and then I get the affidavit later where she admits in court he was not abusive.
00:03:01.280 Candace Owens?
00:03:02.180 No, not Candace Owens.
00:03:03.180 The wife, sorry.
00:03:03.840 Yes.
00:03:04.080 The wife later admits in court he was not abusive.
00:03:07.320 Okay.
00:03:07.940 But the damage has been done.
00:03:09.060 The damage has been done.
00:03:10.340 That was the whole point.
00:03:10.760 And it was unfortunate because I love Candace Owens, but she was just so wrong in this. 1.00
00:03:16.700 And I don't know why the Daily Wire has an issue to retraction or at least reported on
00:03:21.640 the new information.
00:03:22.540 Um, but regardless, um, regardless.
00:03:27.420 So Crowder, before he was married, had a very different tune on the men that feared
00:03:33.160 marriage.
00:03:34.520 And right now there's a clip going viral of his changes in tune after this whole thing
00:03:41.100 was pulled up.
00:03:41.880 We've talked about this a lot.
00:03:42.800 The incels, right?
00:03:43.920 The involuntary celibates, the professionally outraged over alimony and child support payment
00:03:47.860 crowd.
00:03:48.320 Sorry, I'm not on board with you.
00:03:49.380 You know what?
00:03:50.400 You need to learn to be the person that your woman's going to want when wolves are at the 1.00
00:03:54.640 door.
00:03:54.800 Yeah.
00:04:10.120 And, and that's the thing, like they think we're celebrating and we're not, we're not
00:04:14.920 celebrating.
00:04:15.500 Like I would never celebrate this sort of thing, but it's like, you don't know until
00:04:20.380 you know, exactly.
00:04:22.840 I mean, that's it.
00:04:23.680 It's horrible for him to do that to fellow men, like just because he hasn't been through
00:04:27.760 it yet.
00:04:28.620 And then voila, uh, you know, he knows he's red pilled.
00:04:32.440 Have you seen this before?
00:04:35.660 Uh, the Steven Crowder thing?
00:04:36.920 Yeah.
00:04:37.260 Um, I actually did see the footage, but even then I was just like, you have to see the whole
00:04:42.280 thing.
00:04:42.820 Don't, do not just give us a clip of that because obviously, and we know the bigger picture,
00:04:47.620 why they're doing it, what's the plan.
00:04:49.880 But the average layman would be like, oh yeah, see, he said something in a, in a, you know,
00:04:54.300 questionable tone, but that's not good enough now.
00:04:56.620 You know, we need to see the full picture.
00:04:59.940 Well, and the other thing is he was assuming, he said, just be the person your wife needs
00:05:04.720 you to be.
00:05:05.380 Yeah.
00:05:05.660 Something like that.
00:05:06.280 Yeah.
00:05:06.540 He's assuming we're reasonable people.
00:05:08.340 Yeah.
00:05:08.680 Yeah.
00:05:09.140 Like we're not guys.
00:05:10.420 You know what I mean?
00:05:11.580 You know, I'm like, you're assuming the woman that they married is reasonable. 0.99
00:05:15.360 Yeah.
00:05:16.260 And so now you have this girl, she waited until she was married.
00:05:19.300 Mm-hmm.
00:05:19.740 She was a Christian.
00:05:21.320 Excellent.
00:05:21.720 She was thin.
00:05:22.660 She was beautiful.
00:05:23.740 Like.
00:05:25.280 Yeah.
00:05:25.720 But what else was he supposed to do?
00:05:28.600 He found the good woman that prayed.
00:05:30.480 And then.
00:05:32.760 So I was more asking though, have, you know, being in the work that you do, how do you see
00:05:38.740 men typically get red pills?
00:05:41.540 Oh, exactly like this.
00:05:44.660 Exactly like this.
00:05:45.520 A lot of times they would be like, you know, they're so in love with their wife and being
00:05:52.560 a husband and everything.
00:05:53.700 And then they just think guys are being bitter or being overreactive.
00:05:57.200 And then they go, they go through it and they're just like, suddenly they just realize everything
00:06:04.480 is against them.
00:06:05.720 Yeah.
00:06:06.360 And then they, you know, it's like a growing list.
00:06:08.640 It's like a growing club.
00:06:09.960 Yeah.
00:06:10.300 Of people who be like, you know, wow, I had no idea.
00:06:13.980 And they learned the lesson the hard way.
00:06:16.080 And it's sad.
00:06:17.020 It's very sad.
00:06:18.020 Because most of the time I always hear, well, they shouldn't sleep around and do all this
00:06:24.340 stuff.
00:06:25.440 But in my experience, and maybe you might have a different one, it is not the men that slept 0.96
00:06:31.920 around and were like complete whores and all that stuff that this happens to. 1.00
00:06:38.020 No. 0.98
00:06:38.260 It's actually mostly the men that want to do the right thing.
00:06:41.860 Absolutely.
00:06:42.700 My God.
00:06:43.160 I've spoken to more than like, I would say, I've spoken to so many men who have been a
00:06:48.520 good, devoted husband.
00:06:50.140 And this is not just me being biased.
00:06:53.200 I'm extremely objective about this, by the way.
00:06:55.500 And there are a lot of women who even go through difficulties. 0.60
00:06:58.660 We're not denying that whatsoever.
00:07:00.400 But it is so astronomically men who suffer.
00:07:04.700 And it's so sad because they are so innocent in terms of, yeah, you know, I want to be a
00:07:10.800 good father.
00:07:11.420 I want to be a good husband.
00:07:12.300 And they just get so just backhanded by their wife or their girlfriend or whatever.
00:07:18.760 And then and then the system.
00:07:22.100 Being that you're in law school and there's a lot of lawyers that actively like sign up
00:07:26.820 to do this, you know, how does this happen?
00:07:31.020 Like what's your experience and like what circumstances create these situations?
00:07:36.580 Money.
00:07:37.680 All about money.
00:07:38.380 Money.
00:07:38.900 Absolutely.
00:07:39.260 I think back when in the 80s or 90s, back then, that's when lawyers, law firms were actually
00:07:47.900 paying attention to the family court system.
00:07:50.820 Before then, they didn't really.
00:07:51.800 It wasn't really common for law firms to have a family court section where they're family
00:07:59.020 law.
00:07:59.340 Yeah, because it wasn't lucrative back then.
00:08:02.320 But now it's such big business that every single law firm has a, you know, not every
00:08:07.900 single one.
00:08:08.280 But mainly now it's the norm to have a family law section.
00:08:11.660 And because obviously the house, the house is the biggest asset.
00:08:15.620 And so if you get that sold, big money.
00:08:18.880 Guaranteed.
00:08:19.700 Guaranteed.
00:08:20.820 And that's why the men never get the house. 0.96
00:08:23.520 Yeah.
00:08:23.980 Never.
00:08:24.700 Yeah.
00:08:24.960 Very rare cases.
00:08:26.360 I've never heard of a guy getting the house.
00:08:28.180 Yeah.
00:08:28.500 I can't think of one.
00:08:30.440 And you know what's interesting?
00:08:31.380 They call them incels, but they have kids.
00:08:33.920 I know.
00:08:35.100 That's why I'm like, they're like these bitter incels.
00:08:37.260 I'm like, incels wouldn't even get in the door with these kids.
00:08:40.500 I know.
00:08:40.520 Yeah.
00:08:40.880 They're having loads of children and stuff.
00:08:43.200 Like, again, I find that the typical archetype of the men that I've interviewed is a guy that
00:08:48.440 has a normal job and really just wants to be a father and do the right thing.
00:08:52.980 Like, it's not these, it's not these guys that are getting all the ladies.
00:08:58.740 If anything, I would say, and I've talked to a couple men that were like, you know, high
00:09:04.580 end business owners, athletes or whatever that went through the same thing.
00:09:07.720 Yeah.
00:09:07.920 But I would say if I had to guess, those guys can keep the women a little bit better than 1.00
00:09:12.840 the average man.
00:09:13.800 Yeah.
00:09:14.200 If I had to guess.