JustPearlyThings - October 07, 2023


The DANGER Of Young Men Marrying


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In this episode, we talk about why it is irresponsible to tell young men to get married today and why women should not get married either. Today's generation is living in a world where women can vote and men can't. Why is this a good or bad thing?

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00:00:00.000 What up guys, welcome to the Just, Pearly Things YouTube channel and welcome to my whiteboard series.
00:00:05.580 Before I start, don't forget to subscribe to the channel and bring that notification bell that way you're going to be notified of my daily videos.
00:00:12.180 And while you're at it guys, get yourself a women shouldn't vote t-shirt today. 0.94
00:00:15.800 All of the world's problems are really caused by women voting. 1.00
00:00:19.100 So today we are going to be talking about why it is irresponsible to tell young men to get married today.
00:00:25.760 Now I know what you're thinking, Pearl, but you grew up with nine siblings in a two-parent home.
00:00:31.520 Why would you ever say such an evil thing?
00:00:33.540 Well, before you get mad, let me just explain.
00:00:35.880 Back in the day, we had a woman and we had a man. 0.99
00:00:40.160 These two guys.
00:00:41.380 And the woman typically would get out of the marriage, she would get protection from the man. 0.91
00:00:47.400 If someone broke into your house, your guy would come and defend your honor and die doing it.
00:00:53.320 She would also get a guy to provide. 0.54
00:00:55.880 Now what does this mean?
00:00:57.160 Essentially, he would take care of the bills.
00:00:59.800 On top of that, he might fix stuff around the house.
00:01:03.280 That's like a traditional guy, right?
00:01:04.980 Your faucet breaks, he'll help you.
00:01:07.460 He takes care of the bills and protects you.
00:01:09.320 Now in exchange, he got kids.
00:01:11.620 150 years ago, it was maybe seven plus kids.
00:01:15.360 You know, pretty good, right?
00:01:16.780 Now, on top of that, he would get a virgin.
00:01:19.420 The guys are like, where can I find one of those in 2023?
00:01:23.760 He would get thin.
00:01:24.860 The average wife was 120 pounds. 1.00
00:01:28.260 So she was thin. 1.00
00:01:29.600 She was a virgin.
00:01:30.460 She'd give you seven kids. 1.00
00:01:31.720 She could cook and clean. 0.99
00:01:33.760 So essentially manage a household.
00:01:35.660 On top of that, she served her husband and she worked on the farm.
00:01:39.620 So this often came with, sometimes they would learn an instrument for when guests came over.
00:01:44.560 They would help milk the cows.
00:01:46.500 If you guys want to look into what life was like 150 years ago, Google a day in the life
00:01:51.620 of the Amish and ask yourself, could you do what those women do now? 1.00
00:01:56.460 So this was the exchange.
00:01:58.100 Now fast forward, it's 2023.
00:02:00.400 The average man does protect his family.
00:02:03.120 The average man is expected to protect the family unit. 0.84
00:02:07.680 And we have a bunch of institutions and systems that are run by men that protect women. 0.55
00:02:12.960 So me, if I am in danger, I can call the police.
00:02:16.060 If someone attacks me on the street, typically it's more likely that other men will defend
00:02:21.100 women than another man. 0.97
00:02:22.480 On top of that, the military, which protects the country, is run by men.
00:02:26.000 And all of the hard jobs are done by men. 0.92
00:02:28.780 So this means working on an oil rig, working in the factories, majority men. 0.99
00:02:33.180 On top of that, the average man does make more than the average woman.
00:02:36.960 And even when you look at more close to 50-50 relationships, the man still does the majority 0.97
00:02:42.680 of the bills.
00:02:44.000 Typically men, you know, while a man probably can't build a house nowadays, he typically 1.00
00:02:48.760 has more traditional skills than the average woman. 0.97
00:02:51.680 Now, to be fair, we're all kind of, we all know less, so not just the women, but okay.
00:02:56.880 So now, let's look at what the average woman provides. 1.00
00:02:59.960 The average woman will maybe give you two kids at most. 1.00
00:03:02.900 So, this has gone way down.
00:03:04.860 The average woman has slept with five to eight partners. 0.54
00:03:08.140 One out of three has had an abortion.
00:03:09.740 One out of three has an STD.
00:03:11.280 And 90% have been on birth control at some point in their lifetime.
00:03:15.180 No longer a virgin.
00:03:16.780 Okay.
00:03:17.300 The average woman is 170 pounds. 1.00
00:03:20.020 That is 50 pounds more.
00:03:22.160 And they don't even have seven children.
00:03:24.100 Gasp! 0.97
00:03:24.680 And the average woman is not known for cooking and cleaning. 1.00
00:03:27.900 There are studies that show that takeout is going up, and on top of that, more microwave
00:03:33.520 meals are more popular nowadays than cooking.
00:03:36.520 So, that is gone.
00:03:38.180 Okay.
00:03:38.560 So, you guys get the idea.
00:03:39.900 Women are worse than ever before, where men have to do practically what they've always 1.00
00:03:44.260 done.
00:03:44.780 All right.
00:03:45.280 So, let's, let's go.
00:03:46.680 Okay.
00:03:47.120 Now, let's talk about marriage.
00:03:48.800 Right now, what we have is a marriage system. 0.99
00:03:51.380 This is backed up by the state.
00:03:53.100 Now, you can have your opinions about whether or not marriage should be backed up by the state.
00:03:56.960 But right now, this is a legally enforced system.
00:04:00.160 And this system includes man and woman get married.
00:04:04.700 Woohoo.
00:04:05.420 They're in love.
00:04:06.320 What a day.
00:04:06.820 Then, step two is man and woman have kids.
00:04:11.400 Typically, about two.
00:04:12.680 So, let's do two baby children right there. 0.91
00:04:15.860 So, they have kids.
00:04:17.160 Fall in love.
00:04:18.100 They have their kids.
00:04:19.300 And now, the woman, for whatever reason, just isn't feeling it anymore. 0.74
00:04:23.440 She was feeling it yesterday.
00:04:24.800 She was feeling him the day before.
00:04:27.340 But now, she's not feeling it.
00:04:29.000 So, women initiate divorce 70 to 80% of the time. 1.00
00:04:32.440 And typically, when we look at the reasons for divorce, the men's reasons for divorce
00:04:36.440 are a bit more serious, like a drug problem, where women is just irreconcilable differences 1.00
00:04:41.560 and they weren't happy.
00:04:43.060 So, okay.
00:04:43.920 We got the woman, Lee. 1.00
00:04:46.140 We're gonna do breakup.
00:04:48.400 Oh, no.
00:04:49.400 The saddest.
00:04:50.380 The problem is, now the woman gets to use these kids to steal money from the man for 1.00
00:04:57.820 a lifetime.
00:04:59.060 For a lifetime.
00:05:00.380 So, for about 18 years, the woman says, give me money or you don't see your kids.
00:05:06.120 Now, what we have is other men, so the police, the government, putting a gun to this guy's
00:05:11.540 head and saying, give her money, otherwise you'd go to jail. 1.00
00:05:14.400 Now, how many people are in this marriage system? 1.00
00:05:17.760 We have divorce lawyers, family court, which is judges, the lawyers again, the women's shelters. 0.94
00:05:26.760 On top of that, politicians are given a cut, the taxes take a cut, etc.
00:05:32.740 So, this system only works if men sign up to get married.
00:05:37.980 And essentially, when we break down marriage, right, we have the men getting married and
00:05:44.200 then, so this is the marriage, then we have the divorce lawyers, the women's shelters, 0.95
00:05:52.040 the politicians, judges, that all make money off of women taking men's kids. 1.00
00:06:00.160 So, they all get a cut out of this.
00:06:01.640 So, women are literally paid to steal men's kids. 1.00
00:06:05.160 They are paid to accuse men of rape and abuse.
00:06:09.000 And there are government incentives for all of these things.
00:06:11.700 Now, we could go back and forth about what percent of men this happens to.
00:06:15.520 But it would be considered negligent to issue a product that destroyed someone's life 5%
00:06:22.180 of the time.
00:06:22.920 I would argue that it's much higher than that, being that every guy that I know seems to
00:06:27.560 know someone that's been falsely accused or can't see his kids.
00:06:30.700 But the media doesn't really care about men's issues, so you'll never hear about it.
00:06:34.540 So, a lot of times, men go through this process, right?
00:06:37.820 And you have to think about what these guys go through.
00:06:40.180 So, they lose all their money, they lose their kids, and a lot of times they're accused of
00:06:45.340 abuse and everybody thinks they're an abuser.
00:06:47.400 So, they come out of this very distraught.
00:06:49.920 The average age of divorce for a man is 46.
00:06:52.480 So, he's often spent 20 years building up his life just for this chick right here to
00:06:58.400 ruin it.
00:06:59.040 Now, a lot of times in this process, men do commit suicide.
00:07:02.820 This is a very taboo, very sad topic.
00:07:05.320 But men go through this, and they go crazy, and they kill themselves.
00:07:08.640 If you talk to any men's rights advocate, any person that has worked with men trying to
00:07:13.640 get them access to their children, a lot of men do kill themselves in the process.
00:07:17.580 So, again, I go back to a car analogy.
00:07:20.560 If we had a car that killed 5% of the people in it, we would recall that car.
00:07:25.600 But yet, we still tell men that they are not real men if they don't get married.
00:07:30.960 We say, marriage makes you a better person, therefore insinuating that you are a bad person
00:07:37.880 if you don't choose this system that pays women to divorce you, take your kids, and call 1.00
00:07:44.680 you an abuser. 0.84
00:07:45.420 So, now, what's the solution?
00:07:47.320 A lot of people say, Pearl, you're just a doomer.
00:07:50.940 Why would you tell men to not get married, you evil woman, blah, blah, blah. 1.00
00:07:56.960 What are the solutions here?
00:07:58.540 I grew up with nine siblings.
00:08:00.720 Pearl likes families, all right?
00:08:02.540 I think families are good.
00:08:03.940 But how do we get to a point where these people are together again?
00:08:08.580 Well, we have to weigh the risks and the rewards.
00:08:12.200 Now, regardless of what I say, men just naturally look at a situation and weigh the risks and
00:08:18.880 the rewards.
00:08:19.480 So, before, the reward used to be seven children, obedient wife, a thin wife, and she could not 1.00
00:08:27.000 legally leave you.
00:08:28.260 She was stuck.
00:08:29.420 And he also got purity.
00:08:30.900 I forgot purity.
00:08:31.400 So, that used to be the reward.
00:08:33.520 But now, he gets a born-again virgin that's fat.
00:08:36.520 I mean, he could at least get a thin wife. 0.99
00:08:39.040 And generally, the women stay thin for a lifetime. 1.00
00:08:42.380 Now, they do not.
00:08:43.360 And men look at the odds and they say, oh, shit.
00:08:45.960 They say, oh, no.
00:08:46.940 My grandpa got screwed over by my grandma.
00:08:49.420 Or they'll say, oh, my friend was falsely accused.
00:08:52.520 My friend, this happened to my friend.
00:08:54.240 My friend can't see his kids.
00:08:55.680 And they'll say, okay.
00:08:56.480 All of these risks, right?
00:08:58.240 So, the risks would be lose kids, wife leaves, stuff gone, world thinks I'm an abuser.
00:09:09.720 And the reward would be I get a fat whore that's maybe slept with, I don't know, three other 1.00
00:09:15.940 men, four other men, ten, twenty, whatever.
00:09:18.260 Guys, whatever number you're going to put.
00:09:20.660 Not a virgin.
00:09:21.680 So, fat whore. 1.00
00:09:22.920 No trad skills.
00:09:26.540 Controlling.
00:09:27.940 Nowadays, social media is her god.
00:09:30.920 So, narcissist a lot.
00:09:33.820 Yeah, so now, what do they get in return?
00:09:36.440 The men.
00:09:37.020 So, we say, hey, men, marry us, please.
00:09:39.580 And he says, okay, can you be thin?
00:09:41.600 We're like, no.
00:09:42.460 Can you be a virgin?
00:09:43.560 We're like, no.
00:09:44.040 He's like, okay, can you at least, at least just, like, cook every day?
00:09:47.980 Could I get that?
00:09:48.940 We're like, ah, well, there's an air fryer.
00:09:51.220 Cook for yourself.
00:09:52.100 I don't cook.
00:09:52.880 Okay, well, could I, could you just listen to me?
00:09:55.460 Could you obey me?
00:09:56.520 And we say, well, only when you're following the Lord.
00:09:59.340 That's what the child says.
00:10:00.360 Or they'll say, they'll say, no, I don't, I don't listen to my husband.
00:10:03.120 He can't control me.
00:10:04.320 Then he's like, could you at least listen to my problems?
00:10:06.820 And we're like, no, we just love to talk about ourselves.
00:10:08.720 And so the guys kind of look at this marketplace and they say, okay, this would be my reward
00:10:13.820 for being awesome.
00:10:15.500 And these are my risks.
00:10:17.280 So there's a couple solutions.
00:10:19.180 There's really only two ways moving forward.
00:10:21.480 You can A, shame men and tell them that they're not real men if they don't sign up for this.
00:10:26.720 You can tell men to roll the dice and just pick a good, pick a good woman that went to 1.00
00:10:31.640 church and pray to God she doesn't do this shit to you. 1.00
00:10:34.540 Even though I have spoken to many men that dated religious women.
00:10:38.580 Do you know any religious women that screwed over their guy? 1.00
00:10:41.080 Yeah.
00:10:41.380 Do you, do you see, okay, this is just a random room.
00:10:44.860 All right.
00:10:45.300 So the only solution going forward is to lower the risks.
00:10:49.660 So we changed the laws.
00:10:51.840 This means, um, I would argue that men should automatically get custody of children. 0.98
00:10:56.520 However, we could make the case that it's split 50, 50.
00:10:59.960 The men are actually willing to compromise unlike women. 1.00
00:11:02.920 So I, I bet you, you think that's reasonable.
00:11:05.360 At least 50, 50, get rid of ban child support, ban alimony.
00:11:10.600 If you can't afford your kids, then give them to him and really start to shame these women 1.00
00:11:15.080 that do this.
00:11:16.780 Get rid of no fault divorce, get rid of child support alimony.
00:11:20.800 And maybe the man can divorce you if you get fat.
00:11:24.380 There's nothing worse to a man than a fat wife. 1.00
00:11:26.700 And you're entitled to none of his stuff.
00:11:28.840 None.
00:11:29.140 You wanted to be a single, independent woman, go get a job like the rest of them. 0.99
00:11:33.120 Now, on the other hand, another way, another thing we can do is increase the reward.
00:11:38.060 Now, the men don't really trust us anymore.
00:11:40.320 And can you blame them?
00:11:41.460 With Amber Heard and all of these famous liars, I mean, I wouldn't trust us either.
00:11:46.400 One thing we can do is at least not get fat.
00:11:49.000 Ladies, we can at least stay in shape for a lifetime. 1.00
00:11:52.080 Now, the other thing is, we can encourage the younger women to remain virgins until their 1.00
00:11:57.620 wedding day.
00:11:58.120 I mean, this would be good, all right?
00:12:00.720 We could start to learn more traditional skills or at least listen to our boyfriend slash husband
00:12:07.200 and obey male authority. 1.00
00:12:09.120 Oh, I know.
00:12:10.140 Oh, you guys aren't going to like this one.
00:12:12.020 And in my opinion, until you start lowering the risk for men, all you are doing is creating 0.99
00:12:18.100 what I call the simping system.
00:12:20.800 This is simp.
00:12:23.300 Now, this is the marriage, divorce, and this is going to be taking men's money and giving 0.98
00:12:30.860 it to women. 0.97
00:12:32.920 And then you start over.
00:12:34.520 So, because, you know, some guys sign up for this more than once.
00:12:37.100 How crazy is that?
00:12:38.620 So, this is marriage, divorce, take the men's money and give it to the women. 1.00
00:12:43.260 Now, we have more than one simping system.
00:12:45.640 It's not just marriage.
00:12:47.240 Let's do taxes, where you take the men's money and you issue handouts and then give 1.00
00:12:54.640 it to the women. 0.96
00:12:55.980 Now, this is not the only simp system.
00:12:58.780 Also, corporations give women fake useless jobs. 1.00
00:13:04.920 This is when corporations give women fake jobs like human resources and really any job 1.00
00:13:10.920 that you hear the title and you're like, what the hell does that mean?
00:13:13.960 Like the head of diversity and inclusion.
00:13:16.140 So, you do nothing is what I hear.
00:13:18.020 You do nothing.
00:13:18.660 And they basically give women these fake jobs, which is funded for with the men's money they 0.79
00:13:24.240 make and given to the women.
00:13:26.640 And this is just an entire system of simping.
00:13:29.780 So, the corporations are simping with these fake jobs that make women feel so important. 1.00
00:13:34.400 Now, it doesn't just stop there.
00:13:35.920 The school system gives women these fake grades and fake accomplishments to think they're so 1.00
00:13:42.580 amazing and special.
00:13:43.700 And they take the men's money that funds the school system and gives it to what guys?
00:13:48.880 What is it?
00:13:49.560 Women. 0.81
00:13:50.160 Now, how do you have change in one of these systems?
00:13:53.360 Why would the lawyers, judges, politicians, and everybody change anything if men keep signing 1.00
00:13:59.360 up for a system where women are paid to destroy them? 1.00
00:14:02.680 I have your answer, folks.
00:14:04.340 Never.
00:14:04.880 This should be the number one issue that all politicians are talking about.
00:14:08.840 I want to know from Trump, DeSantis, Biden, everybody running for president this election.
00:14:14.180 What is your plan to stop this simp system?
00:14:18.740 Now, and I'll tell you what I tend to see.
00:14:20.720 This is just a tendency.
00:14:21.780 So, typically, the average age of first divorce for a man is 46.
00:14:26.160 So, what I see is men under the age of 46 tell men around the age of 21 or 22 just to
00:14:32.400 get married young.
00:14:33.720 Buckle up, boys.
00:14:34.700 Sign up for this mess.
00:14:36.000 And I would argue that is very naive.
00:14:38.380 And if a man chooses to get married, he should be very trepidatious and provide every possible 0.60
00:14:43.700 caution before signing up.
00:14:45.320 Because this system does profit off of making your life a living hell.
00:14:50.300 Don't shoot the messenger, guys.
00:14:52.060 Let me know what you think in the comments.
00:14:54.100 And let me know what policies you would like to see passed to stop this simp system epidemic.
00:14:59.380 Thank you.