JustPearlyThings - April 03, 2023


The DELUSION Every Woman Lives In


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Length

10 minutes

Words per minute

219.38792

Word count

2,282

Sentence count

12

Harmful content

Misogyny

50

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Hate speech

29

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Summary

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In this episode we discuss the lack of respect that is being shown to women and how to earn it. Do women deserve to be treated like queens? Do they deserve to have a king or a prince within a relationship? Is it even possible to be a queen if you don t have a partner? Do you have to work for it?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 How many modern women today that just call themselves a queen for existing yeah, and you give participation trophies just based off of you having 1.00
00:00:13.240 Which is which is completely trash right like and I think like you know
00:00:17.400 We have a society that panders to one gender so much 1.00
00:00:20.760 Of course it's easy to accept your participant your participation trophy for being a queen
00:00:25.620 but if you are if you are a queen and you were
00:00:30.000 Not doing unsavory things
00:00:32.000 During the night during the street time activity. I think you deserve less respect for me and to be considering you
00:00:39.100 Within a relationship. What would you define as a queen? 0.93
00:00:43.880 What do you mean by queen when you say that yeah, so like queen is earned
00:00:49.480 Right like if you think of like the concept of king and queen, you know
00:00:53.560 You know it is a history within that
00:00:56.240 I don't think a queen can be a queen without a king and
00:01:00.000 I think that it is necessary to have a king first
00:01:03.000 That's all
00:01:04.000 And within that when we live in a culture of many ish 1.00
00:01:09.000 I miss independent
00:01:12.000 All of this other all of these other things that continue to put men down and then you meet with the unrealistic
00:01:19.000 Standards of most what most modern women today 1.00
00:01:22.100 There just seems to be a complete like breakdown of society and the things that are
00:01:29.100 Important within that so I think a queen needs to have a king first and foremost
00:01:34.100 But it's also behavior
00:01:36.100 A king can make a queen but a queen can't make a king 1.00
00:01:38.100 Ever
00:01:39.100 And they always try it
00:01:41.100 Another thing that if no one not respect themselves or the people around them, they don't deserve no respect
00:01:45.100 And modern women don't deserve no respect for the way they carry themselves or where they dress 1.00
00:01:49.100 Where they they talk where they portray themselves on social media
00:01:53.100 They're lucky that people are talking to them let alone showing them a respect
00:01:57.100 It's almost like we're brainwashed
00:01:58.100 It's almost like we've been brainwashed to accept like the the nastiness of us of society
00:02:03.100 To say okay, you're doing your your net you're half naked
00:02:09.100 Therefore I like that and it's just so crazy and it's so backwards that even dudes like that like I I used to have guy friends in my life
00:02:16.100 That would feel like empowered if their girlfriend wanted to go out and be like half naked in the club 1.00
00:02:22.100 And to me, it's just like it's so crazy because that to me is not queen behavior. That's not marriageable material
00:02:26.100 What do you guys think? Do women? 0.83
00:02:29.100 I just think you have to earn it as a woman 1.00
00:02:34.100 That's my only view on it
00:02:35.100 Okay, what do you think?
00:02:36.100 I just think if you don't respect a woman like it has to be like a good reason behind it 1.00
00:02:42.100 And I also think sometimes if someone doesn't respect you, you don't really care
00:02:47.100 Like you know like if someone doesn't respect you their opinion don't maybe even hold weight
00:02:52.100 That's the problem with society. You should care. Yeah, you should care
00:02:55.100 Everybody's out there with all their boobies out and somebody's gonna say I don't like you because you're showing all your front
00:03:01.100 And you're gonna say I don't care what they say because their opinion don't matter
00:03:05.100 That's the problem with society because it doesn't care. People don't care what people think about them. You should care
00:03:11.100 If you're out there and you're acting hororish and you're looking on ladylike
00:03:15.100 And people are commenting and you're trying to get a certain kind of man and people are like slagging you off online
00:03:21.100 You should care. Turn it down. I'm tired of seeing boobies 1.00
00:03:24.100 Boobies and butts and fannies and everything's out there. I'm sick and tired of seeing it 0.90
00:03:28.100 You also get to choose who you follow and who you don't follow on social media too though
00:03:32.100 So I do think like, you know
00:03:34.100 It pops up. Titties and butts pop up on my mind all the time
00:03:36.100 Yeah, of course
00:03:37.100 Of course
00:03:38.100 And as far as I'm concerned, if you're out there and like you're saying about the question was about respect
00:03:43.100 How do you expect to get respect when you're at this showing it?
00:03:46.100 You might say oh I don't care, but sooner or later you're gonna come to that age where it's gonna hit you
00:03:51.100 And you're gonna care and no one ain't gonna give a shit because all your fannies and titties are out there 1.00
00:03:55.100 And I say, do you know what? See on that as well
00:03:57.100 It's mostly women that will push women to do OnlyFans and stuff like that as well 1.00
00:04:01.100 Like no girl go get that bag, go get this, but your man will be like, I don't want you to do that 0.99
00:04:06.100 That's why you don't listen to women 1.00
00:04:07.100 I 100% agree, 1 million percent
00:04:10.100 Like women will push you to be like, go queen, go do that 1.00
00:04:12.100 But at the end of the day, you are losing more respect for yourself by listening to a woman telling you to go out and do that thing 1.00
00:04:18.100 That they wouldn't even do themselves
00:04:20.100 You know what I mean? It's kind of just pushing your morals just a little bit back
00:04:24.100 You know what I mean? I can't say much more of myself
00:04:26.100 Why do women push other women to do sex work and promiscuous activity when the first thing that happens 1.00
00:04:33.100 When a woman's mad is she calls another girl a whore 1.00
00:04:35.100 A whore and a slut 1.00
00:04:36.100 Yeah, no, no
00:04:37.100 And we get so offended by that word as well
00:04:39.100 That's because y'all don't have women as friends 1.00
00:04:42.100 That's because y'all don't like each other
00:04:43.100 Exactly
00:04:44.100 Women don't like each other, y'all demeanous to each other, but then get put off on men 1.00
00:04:49.100 Old men say this or do that 1.00
00:04:52.100 Like we were talking to this one girl outside in between
00:04:55.100 The last show she was talking about getting something done on her body 0.92
00:04:59.100 And the girl body righteous, like it's already fine 0.97
00:05:02.100 I'm sitting here telling her like, baby, you ain't gotta do none of that
00:05:06.100 But it's not really, they're not doing it for me and they're doing it for other women 0.97
00:05:10.100 You know what I'm saying?
00:05:11.100 I don't really think it's for the women though, it's more for the men 1.00
00:05:14.100 Because it's the men that want it 0.56
00:05:15.100 No they don't
00:05:16.100 No
00:05:17.100 No, but like we are
00:05:18.100 No
00:05:19.100 You were talking about this society being brainwashed
00:05:22.100 Yeah
00:05:23.100 This society has been brainwashed to the point where they think that that is normal
00:05:26.100 And they think that is okay
00:05:27.100 But here's the thing
00:05:28.100 I actually agree with you, I think they do do it for the men
00:05:31.100 But it's like sexual tension, it's not relationship attention
00:05:34.100 So you can kind of do a cheat code, you can go get a BBL, get a nice body
00:05:37.100 And you do get more attention from men than if you're flat, right?
00:05:40.100 But here's the thing though
00:05:41.100 It's not the attention you want
00:05:43.100 No, no, but listen though, but it goes so deeper though because
00:05:46.100 I know who you're talking about
00:05:48.100 And she has a great body 0.99
00:05:50.100 Yeah
00:05:51.100 So you got to think about how far down deep that she is
00:05:54.100 Within watching the Instagram models
00:05:56.100 Within watching the Cosmopolitan magazines
00:05:59.100 She explained it
00:06:00.100 That her great body doesn't look good to a man 0.98
00:06:03.100 And now she wants to enhance it to look like Betty Boop 0.97
00:06:06.100 You know honestly, I think it's because we're lazy as women 1.00
00:06:08.100 We don't want to go to the gym
00:06:10.100 She's in great shape
00:06:13.100 She's in great shape
00:06:14.100 Can I just say something?
00:06:15.100 I'm just saying if you want to get better
00:06:17.100 Then you go to the gym
00:06:18.100 Go ahead
00:06:19.100 As a flat woman
00:06:20.100 Totally flat
00:06:21.100 As a totally flat woman
00:06:22.100 As a totally flat woman
00:06:24.100 You're right, there's a couple grand
00:06:26.100 Exactly
00:06:27.100 So as a flat woman 0.99
00:06:28.100 Hashtag body positivity
00:06:29.100 This is what you call body positivity
00:06:32.100 I'm not going to go and get no BBL
00:06:35.100 Or no implants to improve
00:06:36.100 And everybody
00:06:37.100 I'm as flat as a pancake
00:06:38.100 You know, turn me sideways
00:06:39.100 Like an ironing board
00:06:40.100 Always flat
00:06:41.100 So no, I wouldn't go and do it
00:06:43.100 And it's like think of your kids
00:06:45.100 And no man's going to
00:06:46.100 I think my man
00:06:47.100 If I had to go and say
00:06:48.100 Well my ass is flat 0.99
00:06:49.100 You know my ass is flat 0.50
00:06:50.100 And he'd think
00:06:51.100 Well it's been flat for the last 30 odd years
00:06:52.100 I've known you
00:06:53.100 Why would you want to get it done?
00:06:54.100 Because once the name's got it done
00:06:55.100 It looks great
00:06:56.100 He might say yeah it might look good on her
00:06:57.100 But I don't want that in my bed
00:06:58.100 But I think
00:06:59.100 Men want it 0.99
00:07:00.100 To look at
00:07:01.100 Yeah
00:07:02.100 To
00:07:03.100 Was it just to
00:07:04.100 To have for one night
00:07:05.100 To
00:07:06.100 Fantasise
00:07:07.100 Yeah, to skeet and retreat
00:07:08.100 No, we want it to be well done
00:07:11.100 But they will not marry it
00:07:12.100 They will not settle down
00:07:13.100 With somebody with a fake old lips
00:07:15.100 The eyebrows
00:07:16.100 And if they do it
00:07:17.100 Ain't going to last
00:07:18.100 I think the issue might be as well
00:07:19.100 That some girls 1.00
00:07:20.100 See how other girls get treated
00:07:22.100 When they get all these things done
00:07:23.100 So maybe
00:07:24.100 If they get flown out
00:07:25.100 Or good treatment
00:07:26.100 And then they think
00:07:27.100 They pooped off 0.93
00:07:28.100 When they're not getting anything
00:07:29.100 They think that they should
00:07:30.100 Do that
00:07:31.100 And then get the attention
00:07:32.100 The other girls get 0.99
00:07:33.100 When actually
00:07:34.100 They're getting that attention
00:07:35.100 Maybe because
00:07:36.100 The guy's
00:07:37.100 Kind of doing something transactional
00:07:38.100 With them in a way
00:07:39.100 Like if you're flying them out
00:07:40.100 You might expect something from them
00:07:41.100 And then other girls 0.99
00:07:42.100 Want to do that
00:07:43.100 To get the same treatment
00:07:44.100 Women need to be honest to women 0.99
00:07:46.100 Because I saw a girl 0.87
00:07:48.100 I interviewed a young lady
00:07:50.100 And I was
00:07:51.100 She had her butt down 1.00
00:07:53.100 And I had a feel
00:07:54.100 I had a good old feel of it
00:07:55.100 You know
00:07:56.100 And you wouldn't expect
00:07:57.100 And she had a hell of a cellulite 0.86
00:07:58.100 And she had a hell of a cellulite 0.86
00:08:01.100 I wanted to feel good
00:08:02.100 Did it feel good?
00:08:03.100 No
00:08:04.100 It didn't
00:08:05.100 It didn't
00:08:06.100 Did it jiggle?
00:08:07.100 I wanted to feel her breasts 1.00
00:08:08.100 Because her breasts were fantastic 0.99
00:08:09.100 Oh you was all over her 1.00
00:08:10.100 Is she here tonight?
00:08:12.100 No
00:08:13.100 She had the best breasts I've ever seen ever 0.84
00:08:15.100 Come on
00:08:16.100 But when you think about
00:08:17.100 Because the women are out there 1.00
00:08:18.100 They don't think about the pain
00:08:19.100 You know the stuff
00:08:20.100 When they get in their lips
00:08:21.100 It goes rock hard
00:08:22.100 They have to get it cut out
00:08:23.100 But I looked at her ass 1.00
00:08:24.100 And I thought
00:08:25.100 Have you had your bum done? 0.52
00:08:26.100 She said yeah
00:08:27.100 And I said can I have a feel
00:08:28.100 And I said you've got cellulite
00:08:30.100 And she said yeah
00:08:31.100 Because I had the fat reduced
00:08:32.100 Like taken out of here
00:08:33.100 And put in there
00:08:34.100 Now women are going to go around 1.00
00:08:35.100 They're going to go
00:08:36.100 And say yeah we've had our butt done
00:08:37.100 We've had our butt done
00:08:38.100 But it was a
00:08:39.100 It looked like an orange
00:08:40.100 You know it just looked like
00:08:41.100 An ordinary butt
00:08:43.100 It was nice peaty shaped
00:08:44.100 But it was all
00:08:45.100 It had all cellulite
00:08:46.100 And I'm sure that women 1.00
00:08:47.100 They're thinking about
00:08:48.100 Getting their butt done 0.89
00:08:49.100 They're not thinking
00:08:50.100 I'm going to get cellulite
00:08:51.100 Years ago you used to get like
00:08:52.100 Lip gloss that used to like
00:08:54.100 Sting your lips and make them swell a bit
00:08:55.100 Now you want to go
00:08:56.100 And get it injected why?
00:08:57.100 Can I comment on that right?
00:08:59.100 So it's this illusion
00:09:01.100 That is taking place
00:09:02.100 So women to your point 1.00
00:09:04.100 Want to do it because of
00:09:05.100 The reactions they see
00:09:06.100 They're getting from men 0.93
00:09:08.100 But at the end of the day
00:09:09.100 It's so much deeper than that
00:09:11.100 Because their mindset
00:09:12.100 Is so twisted and warped
00:09:13.100 And their value is placed in
00:09:15.100 This is what I bring to the table
00:09:17.100 And this is what I need to get
00:09:19.100 And so I can go get a quick fix
00:09:21.100 If I get my body done
00:09:22.100 I can go ahead and get
00:09:23.100 You know my boobs done 1.00
00:09:24.100 My booty done
00:09:25.100 And my lips done
00:09:26.100 And I'm going to be able
00:09:27.100 To pull this attention from a guy
00:09:29.100 Not knowing that
00:09:30.100 That is not lasting
00:09:31.100 That's not the attention that you want
00:09:32.100 He's not looking for a wife in that
00:09:34.100 And so by the time you're in that position
00:09:37.100 You have to maintain it
00:09:38.100 Right?
00:09:39.100 So you are looking at your competition
00:09:40.100 For the girl who influenced you
00:09:41.100 In the first place to get that done
00:09:43.100 Because now she has become your competition 0.53
00:09:45.100 Because your mindset
00:09:46.100 Delusionally
00:09:47.100 You wanted the attention that she got 1.00
00:09:49.100 But in turn of that
00:09:50.100 She's become your competition 0.73
00:09:51.100 And now you have to compete with her
00:09:52.100 And maintain it
00:09:53.100 And go get more injections
00:09:54.100 And get a little poke of Botox
00:09:55.100 Over and over
00:09:56.100 When instead of working on your character
00:09:58.100 And going and getting healing
00:09:59.100 And doing the internal work
00:10:01.100 That is going to long term
00:10:02.100 Make you wife material 1.00
00:10:04.100 You became an objective object for him
00:10:07.100 Well I think that the issue is
00:10:08.100 As many of you know
00:10:09.100 I was just banned on TikTok
00:10:11.100 And we are demonetized on a daily basis
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