JustPearlyThings - July 29, 2023


The DELUSION Of This Modern Woman Is Amazing


Episode Stats

Length

13 minutes

Words per Minute

207.56363

Word Count

2,854

Sentence Count

345

Misogynist Sentences

20

Hate Speech Sentences

9


Summary

In this episode, we talk about virginity and how important it is in today's society. Are you a virgin? Have you ever lost your virginity to someone else? How many times have you had sex with other people? What does it mean to be a virgin and why does it matter to you? Do you think losing your virginity is more important than your body count?


Transcript

00:00:00.400 Today's topic, we are talking about virginity.
00:00:03.200 It seems like that's, you know, disappeared nowadays when it comes to women.
00:00:09.320 However, we are going to get these young ladies' opinions on it.
00:00:13.840 So to start, guys, I actually want to start with what do you think the average body count
00:00:21.040 is for, let's say, a 22-year-old in today's day and age?
00:00:27.000 Um, maybe like between 10 and 20.
00:00:32.000 Wow, 10 and 20?
00:00:33.000 I think so, yeah.
00:00:35.000 Wow, okay.
00:00:36.000 What do you think?
00:00:37.000 I'd say about seven.
00:00:38.000 Seven?
00:00:39.000 I reckon 10 is 20 as well.
00:00:41.000 10 to 20 for a 22-year-old.
00:00:44.000 Well, it depends on relationships as well because if you've been in a long-term relationship,
00:00:48.000 then it's going to be lower than someone else who's always been single.
00:00:51.000 Do you guys know your friends' body counts?
00:00:53.000 Do they tell you?
00:00:54.000 I feel like you have, but I actually can't remember.
00:00:56.000 I don't think it's a big thing that matters.
00:00:59.000 I feel like you should just...
00:01:00.000 I'm just curious.
00:01:01.000 Yeah, yeah, of course.
00:01:02.000 Do you know, like, your close friends, like, do they tell you how many people they've slept
00:01:06.000 with or is...
00:01:07.000 I don't think body count matters.
00:01:09.000 Uh, I don't even know what yours is, do I?
00:01:12.000 I think when you're younger, it's something that you probably talk about more, but as you
00:01:17.000 get older, you're an adult.
00:01:18.000 How old are you?
00:01:19.000 20, like, that's 20?
00:01:20.000 24.
00:01:21.000 Yeah, 24.
00:01:22.000 You're still young.
00:01:23.000 Oh, I feel old though.
00:01:25.000 Um, but so, in general, people don't know.
00:01:28.000 Not really.
00:01:29.000 No, I don't think it's a thing that people really talk about nowadays.
00:01:32.000 It's a personal thing, isn't it?
00:01:33.000 So, how did you guys guess the average?
00:01:35.000 Is that, like, based off of you guys's?
00:01:36.000 Yeah.
00:01:37.000 Oh, okay.
00:01:38.000 No, it's just a random guess.
00:01:40.000 Okay, you said body count doesn't matter.
00:01:43.000 Why?
00:01:44.000 I just feel like if you want to, if you want to fuck, fuck.
00:01:47.000 Mm-hmm.
00:01:48.000 But, personally, I feel like being in a relationship and losing your virginity is so much more better.
00:01:54.000 Mm-hmm.
00:01:55.000 Because...
00:01:56.000 Why is it better if it doesn't matter, if body count...
00:01:59.000 Wouldn't it just be the same?
00:02:00.000 Because body count doesn't matter?
00:02:01.000 I think the first time you want it to be special, because it's the unknown, and it's such, like, a big thing, isn't it?
00:02:06.000 Mm-hmm.
00:02:07.000 When you haven't had sex before.
00:02:08.000 But I think, once you've had it, you realise...
00:02:10.000 Not that it doesn't mean anything.
00:02:11.000 I don't mean anything like that, but...
00:02:14.000 It's common.
00:02:15.000 Everyone does it.
00:02:16.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:02:17.000 Was losing you guys' virginity special, or no?
00:02:20.000 I was drunk.
00:02:21.000 You were drunk?
00:02:22.000 Always!
00:02:26.000 Special?
00:02:27.000 Was it special first time?
00:02:28.000 Who said I lost it?
00:02:29.000 Oh!
00:02:30.000 You know, are you a virgin?
00:02:33.000 Shut up, Courtney!
00:02:36.000 I mean, I definitely am at this point, but...
00:02:39.000 Because it's been so long, you're like a reborn-again virgin.
00:02:42.000 Oh, yeah, yeah.
00:02:43.000 100% celibate.
00:02:44.000 But not a real virgin.
00:02:46.000 No, I'm not a real virgin.
00:02:48.000 Okay.
00:02:49.000 But why don't you think it matters?
00:02:51.000 I just don't feel like it matters.
00:02:53.000 Everyone has different sexual desires.
00:02:55.000 Everyone's more sexual than other people.
00:02:58.000 And if you're horny, go and do it.
00:03:02.000 I think it doesn't matter to men, but it matters to women.
00:03:04.000 Yeah.
00:03:05.000 Yeah.
00:03:06.000 Really?
00:03:07.000 Yeah.
00:03:08.000 What do you mean?
00:03:09.000 I don't think men's body count matters.
00:03:11.000 Men's does it, but women's does.
00:03:12.000 Yeah.
00:03:13.000 So, if a man came up to you and was like, yeah, I've slept with like 247 girls, you wouldn't
00:03:19.000 feel anything at all.
00:03:21.000 You'd just be like, it's calm as if you slept with five.
00:03:24.000 All right.
00:03:25.000 This is how I would think about it.
00:03:26.000 240 if he told me that.
00:03:28.000 I'd be like, well, I'm probably not special enough to make this man slow down.
00:03:33.000 So, I'd probably pass.
00:03:34.000 So, it does affect you?
00:03:36.000 No, no, no.
00:03:37.000 It does affect you?
00:03:38.000 No, wait, wait.
00:03:39.000 Let me finish.
00:03:40.000 But it's not the same because I'm not repulsed by it.
00:03:41.000 I'm not disgusted by it.
00:03:42.000 Like, I don't really care.
00:03:43.000 Like, I don't really care what a guy's past is, but I just think of like on a balance of probabilities
00:03:47.000 if a dude slept with 200 bitches, well, I'm going to be the special one that makes him
00:03:52.000 Get out of me.
00:03:53.000 It's not that.
00:03:54.000 It's not that.
00:03:55.000 If he loves you, then of course you're going to be the special one.
00:03:57.000 Yeah.
00:03:58.000 And you know, that's great.
00:03:59.000 I just think like the odds aren't in my favor.
00:04:01.000 Yeah, but it's not that.
00:04:02.000 Like 200 and me, you know?
00:04:03.000 It's not that.
00:04:04.000 It's not that.
00:04:05.000 It's not that.
00:04:06.000 Yeah.
00:04:07.000 Let's say you fuck like 240 skits hoes in his past.
00:04:11.000 You come along, you're a good girl.
00:04:13.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:04:14.000 You're telling me 200.
00:04:15.000 You make his day better.
00:04:17.000 He comes home to you.
00:04:18.000 Yeah.
00:04:19.000 He's like, oh, I'm waiting for Poe at home.
00:04:20.000 He's not going to care.
00:04:21.000 He's going to want you.
00:04:22.000 It's just experience.
00:04:23.000 That's true.
00:04:24.000 That's true.
00:04:25.000 You know, miracles happen, but you know?
00:04:28.000 No, I would just think like out of 200 girls, there had to be some good girls in there.
00:04:33.000 And he's probably just doesn't want to settle down.
00:04:35.000 That's how I would look at it.
00:04:36.000 But it's not like men, because men are repulsed by it.
00:04:38.000 Like, do you want a girl that slept with 200 dudes?
00:04:41.000 I mean, like, you know, I agree.
00:04:43.000 I agree with you.
00:04:44.000 I feel like it actually doesn't matter when they're with you.
00:04:46.000 It's like whatever happens in the future.
00:04:48.000 Like, but at the same time.
00:04:50.000 Wifey, 200 bodies.
00:04:51.000 If my wife told me, it's like, yeah.
00:04:53.000 These two guys hit first and now she's on your arm.
00:04:56.000 I would be like, no, fuck that.
00:04:58.000 I'm not going to lie.
00:04:59.000 Right, right.
00:05:00.000 I'd be like that.
00:05:01.000 But it's not good.
00:05:02.000 It doesn't mean it's good to be like that.
00:05:03.000 But it's just, I think the society we live in, you know, it's not, it's not, it's not good
00:05:09.000 to have a big number, I presume.
00:05:11.000 So.
00:05:12.000 I think that's sad, though, that it's like that society now.
00:05:14.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:05:15.000 Why should numbers matter?
00:05:16.000 Why should you care about what people think all the time?
00:05:19.000 And that evolves around everything in the world we live in.
00:05:21.000 I think your past behavior dictates your future behavior.
00:05:25.000 So it's like if you're sleeping around for 10 years, what are the chances that you stop?
00:05:29.000 And it's the same thing with like the guy that slept with 200.
00:05:32.000 I would think, well, what are the odds he stops?
00:05:34.000 True.
00:05:35.000 But, but isn't that like, you know.
00:05:37.000 I could help, you know.
00:05:38.000 Yeah.
00:05:40.000 Okay.
00:05:41.000 What, what do you think the average body count is for a 22 year old?
00:05:45.000 Uh, uh, now.
00:05:49.000 Yeah.
00:05:50.000 Now, I would say at least about 15 to 17.
00:05:55.000 I'll go about that.
00:05:56.000 15 to 17.
00:05:57.000 I'd say if you're about 22, you probably step to about just under 20 people.
00:06:01.000 Maybe.
00:06:02.000 Unless you haven't been in a relationship that's like three, four years.
00:06:05.000 Mm-hmm.
00:06:06.000 Um, and you've been single and you've just been kind of dating.
00:06:10.000 I think so.
00:06:11.000 I think so.
00:06:12.000 But you know, it's, it depends.
00:06:14.000 It depends on the person.
00:06:15.000 Okay.
00:06:16.000 What do you think?
00:06:17.000 If the guy's a nerd, he's probably slept with like, what?
00:06:20.000 10 people in his life.
00:06:21.000 Like 22, did you say?
00:06:22.000 Yeah.
00:06:23.000 Yeah.
00:06:24.000 22.
00:06:25.000 A girl.
00:06:26.000 Sorry.
00:06:27.000 A girl.
00:06:28.000 Yeah.
00:06:29.000 That's the relationship she's been in.
00:06:30.000 Mm-hmm.
00:06:31.000 Like let's say she's been in a, like, pre-relationship.
00:06:32.000 Mm-hmm.
00:06:33.000 I would assume my body counts three.
00:06:34.000 Mm-hmm.
00:06:35.000 It depends on the girl.
00:06:36.000 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:06:37.000 Move the mic close to you, yeah?
00:06:38.000 The mic.
00:06:39.000 Move it closer.
00:06:40.000 Can you not hear me, bro?
00:06:41.000 Yeah, we can't hear you properly.
00:06:42.000 Oh, cool.
00:06:43.000 Let's say, let's say the girl's like, serious.
00:06:45.000 Sorry, sorry, bro.
00:06:46.000 Sorry, bro.
00:06:47.000 Oh, I'm spooking, bro.
00:06:48.000 He's talking, bro.
00:06:49.000 Move it up.
00:06:50.000 Move it up, bro.
00:06:51.000 Yeah, there you go.
00:06:52.000 There we go.
00:06:53.000 There we go.
00:06:54.000 Anyway, if the girl's like, serious about her relationships.
00:06:57.000 Mm-hmm.
00:06:58.000 And she lost it to a guy that she's in a relationship with.
00:07:00.000 Don't understand, like, if she's had, like, three relationships, four relationships.
00:07:03.000 I would assume, like, three, four.
00:07:05.000 Mm-hmm.
00:07:06.000 But most girls, they get into a relationship.
00:07:07.000 Yeah, I'd say the average chick.
00:07:08.000 The average chick?
00:07:09.000 Yeah, 22.
00:07:10.000 I would say five.
00:07:13.000 Five.
00:07:14.000 That's low.
00:07:15.000 The average girl, five.
00:07:16.000 That's low.
00:07:17.000 At 22, bro.
00:07:18.000 That's low.
00:07:19.000 That's low.
00:07:20.000 That's low.
00:07:21.000 You think that's low?
00:07:22.000 Yeah, man.
00:07:23.000 With the life that we live in now, though, Birkin, just think about that.
00:07:25.000 That's not normal.
00:07:26.000 That's not realistic.
00:07:27.000 A lot of girls lose their virginity.
00:07:28.000 It's not realistic.
00:07:29.000 I'm saying five.
00:07:30.000 That's what I'm saying, five.
00:07:31.000 Do you understand?
00:07:32.000 Is that from personal, like, experience, though?
00:07:34.000 Or just what you live?
00:07:35.000 I'm saying the average should be five, and it is five.
00:07:38.000 Do you understand?
00:07:39.000 Because you're the boss, man.
00:07:41.000 Okay, what about you?
00:07:43.000 You said at 22?
00:07:44.000 Yeah, 22.
00:07:45.000 I think at least 20-plus.
00:07:46.000 I think once a girl hits the club, her number skyrockets.
00:07:49.000 Okay, so question for the girls.
00:07:53.000 Have you ever lied about your body count?
00:07:56.000 No, actually.
00:07:58.000 Never?
00:07:59.000 I don't think.
00:08:00.000 You've always told the truth.
00:08:01.000 Yeah.
00:08:02.000 Has a guy ever asked you?
00:08:03.000 Um, I think it's come up in conversation, but no one that I'm actually seeing.
00:08:07.000 No, actually, that's a lie.
00:08:08.000 Yeah, they have asked me.
00:08:09.000 Mm-hmm.
00:08:10.000 But it's not like, it wouldn't be the first question.
00:08:12.000 Okay.
00:08:13.000 Maybe like a couple months in.
00:08:14.000 And did you tell, and you told them the truth?
00:08:15.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:08:16.000 Okay.
00:08:17.000 What about you?
00:08:18.000 Yes.
00:08:19.000 You have lied?
00:08:20.000 Yeah.
00:08:21.000 What did you tell them it was?
00:08:22.000 We did not speak on that.
00:08:23.000 We did not speak on that.
00:08:25.000 But, um, let's just say I said it was five.
00:08:29.000 But, so if body count doesn't matter, why'd you lie?
00:08:32.000 Because, at the time, my ex was quite judgy and I thought he would break up with me if
00:08:39.000 he found out how many people.
00:08:41.000 Right.
00:08:42.000 Did he believe you?
00:08:43.000 No, I told him at the end.
00:08:44.000 Oh, you told him at the end.
00:08:45.000 Oh, you told him at the end.
00:08:46.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:08:47.000 Did he stay with you or no?
00:08:48.000 Yeah.
00:08:49.000 Okay, so he did accept it.
00:08:50.000 Yeah.
00:08:51.000 Yeah, I felt disappointed.
00:08:52.000 He was disappointed.
00:08:53.000 Yeah.
00:08:55.000 Well.
00:08:56.000 It is what it is.
00:08:58.000 Okay, what about you?
00:09:00.000 So, back in the day, I did actually used to lie, I can't lie, but now I'm very open
00:09:05.000 about it.
00:09:06.000 I don't care what people think about me.
00:09:08.000 I'm very expressive, but I have lied in the past about my body count.
00:09:12.000 I'm not ashamed about it.
00:09:13.000 What did you say it was?
00:09:15.000 Like 10, 20.
00:09:16.000 10, 20?
00:09:17.000 Yeah.
00:09:18.000 And will you say what it is?
00:09:20.000 You seem open to saying it if you want.
00:09:22.000 Yeah, I'll say it's probably over a hundred.
00:09:24.000 You're saying over a hundred, dude?
00:09:26.000 No way.
00:09:27.000 So it's what?
00:09:28.000 Maybe or 80, I don't know.
00:09:29.000 Wow.
00:09:30.000 Good it, girl.
00:09:31.000 I don't care.
00:09:32.000 I'm just wondering, how do you go through that and like, how?
00:09:35.000 How do you meet a hundred men you want to sleep with?
00:09:39.000 I just enjoy life.
00:09:40.000 Like, I go through a lot of experiences, I go on holiday, I do all these things and
00:09:45.000 I'm just thinking, why should I care about what people think?
00:09:48.000 You're just jealous.
00:09:49.000 You're living.
00:09:50.000 Because, yeah, you're not living my life.
00:09:53.000 Don't live again.
00:09:54.000 Because it ruins your future, you know?
00:09:56.000 You're here for a fun time, not a long time.
00:09:58.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:09:59.000 We all die at some point in our life.
00:10:01.000 Yeah, but that's not a way to think about it, bro.
00:10:03.000 What?
00:10:04.000 I'll be real.
00:10:05.000 If you're horny, go for it.
00:10:06.000 Like, a hundred plus, like, let's say you meet a girl with a hundred plus.
00:10:09.000 That wouldn't bother me.
00:10:10.000 Would you judge me?
00:10:11.000 That wouldn't bother you?
00:10:12.000 No.
00:10:13.000 A hundred plus is like, a stretch and I can't like, do you understand?
00:10:16.000 No, I think if she wants to have fun, she can have fun and do what she wants to do.
00:10:20.000 Okay, her man can do it.
00:10:21.000 Have you ever caught an STD from that?
00:10:23.000 I've once, yeah.
00:10:24.000 But that's normal, like, you would, out of all them people.
00:10:27.000 Yeah, I'd imagine.
00:10:28.000 And I own that, I'm not going to lie.
00:10:30.000 Right.
00:10:31.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:10:32.000 What's the point?
00:10:33.000 I'm going to be honest, of course.
00:10:34.000 No, I appreciate you being honest, but I'm just thinking, like, that's a hundred.
00:10:38.000 How?
00:10:39.000 But there's so many people out there that have got that body count, but they won't own
00:10:43.000 up to it.
00:10:44.000 I know plenty of people out there.
00:10:46.000 Really?
00:10:47.000 With that amount.
00:10:48.000 How common do you think it is?
00:10:49.000 What percent of girls have slept with that many people?
00:10:51.000 Probably over 60 to 70, I reckon.
00:10:55.000 There's a lot out there, but they just won't own up to it.
00:11:00.000 You're just experienced.
00:11:01.000 That's even better.
00:11:02.000 Exactly.
00:11:03.000 I don't care what people think.
00:11:05.000 And that's why I'm in the place I am now, because I don't care.
00:11:08.000 But don't you think that you should care about what the man you want thinks?
00:11:11.000 Yeah, but I'm not in that right head space right now to care what that man thinks, because
00:11:16.000 I'm enjoying my life.
00:11:18.000 So you're focused on yourself?
00:11:19.000 Yeah, very focused.
00:11:20.000 So when do you think you'll be ready to focus on the man?
00:11:23.000 Maybe when I'm like 30.
00:11:25.000 How old are you now?
00:11:26.000 I'm 24 now.
00:11:27.000 So that's six years.
00:11:28.000 That's six years for me to enjoy my life.
00:11:30.000 You gotta understand, the way you're living now, I'm not judging you.
00:11:32.000 I'm not judging you.
00:11:33.000 No, of course.
00:11:34.000 You're living your life.
00:11:35.000 He's definitely judging you.
00:11:36.000 Not judging you.
00:11:37.000 A lot of people judge me every day.
00:11:38.000 You said like 100 plus on average, right?
00:11:41.000 Mm-hmm.
00:11:42.000 All right.
00:11:43.000 So you tell me in six years, what would that be?
00:11:45.000 Yeah, but what...
00:11:46.000 Yeah, but...
00:11:47.000 When did you lose your virginity?
00:11:48.000 I'm just like calculating this per year.
00:11:49.000 I think 16.
00:11:50.000 So 16, you said you're 24?
00:11:52.000 But it sounds really bad me saying that.
00:11:54.000 That's just average.
00:11:55.000 I'm not saying it was literally over 100, but like there has been a lot of, yeah, it's
00:12:00.000 been an estimate and I have had a lot of experiences and I will never regret how I am as a person
00:12:06.000 and how open I am about it as well.
00:12:08.000 You shouldn't...
00:12:09.000 What's the most people you've slept with in like a week?
00:12:12.000 Probably only three or four, I think.
00:12:15.000 What do you mean only three?
00:12:16.000 That's fine.
00:12:17.000 But if you're on a day...
00:12:18.000 Sorry, I'm sorry.
00:12:19.000 I don't mean...
00:12:20.000 I just...
00:12:21.000 This is so crazy to me.
00:12:22.000 And I know people probably looking at me online and thinking, oh, what a slag.
00:12:26.000 But people do this as a living as well.
00:12:29.000 You've got to remember that, like, just enjoy your life and be who you are as a person.
00:12:35.000 And if you like having sex all the time, then go and do it and be open about what you do.
00:12:39.000 Would it bother you if like the consequence of that would be not being able to get married later?
00:12:44.000 Yes, I know.
00:12:46.000 Because I do want to be married one day.
00:12:48.000 I want to have children.
00:12:49.000 I want to have my own family.
00:12:50.000 So you have to think about what the man wants.
00:12:52.000 What I was speaking about earlier.
00:12:53.000 Yeah, but I'm a very selfish person.
00:12:54.000 I want to enjoy my own life.
00:12:56.000 And I don't think about things in the future.
00:12:58.000 I just think about the moment I'm in right now.
00:13:01.000 But I understand where you're coming from in that concept.
00:13:03.000 I understand that.
00:13:04.000 But I think that the goal for every woman is to get married and have children and create a family one day, right?
00:13:08.000 Yeah.
00:13:09.000 So I understand that you're living your life, you're enjoying yourself 100%.
00:13:12.000 I agree with that.
00:13:13.000 You should 100% do that.
00:13:14.000 But I also think that you should think about what the man that you want is going to think about a woman that has such a high body.
00:13:20.000 But what if he was the same as me though?
00:13:22.000 It's not the same.
00:13:23.000 Like we just spoke about that earlier about a man having 200 men and women aren't the same.
00:13:28.000 Like men care about that stuff.
00:13:30.000 Women don't.
00:13:31.000 I really don't care about my ni ์‹œered for 2 and 4 times.
00:13:34.000 Yeah.
00:13:35.000 Oh no.
00:13:36.000 It's the opposite.
00:13:37.000 It's the opposite way.
00:13:38.000 It's the opposite way.
00:13:39.000 And like the other day, we have like a little kid at home.
00:13:40.000 Totally?
00:13:41.000 Everything in that space has to honor and meet up really someone else, she's like,
00:13:42.000 So we can tell her that village of the males being better and looks a little bit.