JustPearlyThings - May 01, 2023


The fatter the girl, the poorer the man


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10 minutes

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2,527

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263

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Misogyny

43

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In this episode, the guys discuss the issue of fat shaming and fat shaming in the media and society. They discuss the difference between fat chicks and fat gals and give their opinion on the matter. The guys also discuss how fat chicks get more attention than fat girls and why this is a problem.

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00:00:00.000 Yeah, actually, because I was thinking about this, you know, if I go to an NBA game, are you guys football here?
00:00:06.900 You guys, you guys don't go there and expect to see average soccer football players, right?
00:00:17.360 You don't go there like you'd be pissed if you go to this, if this, I keep saying soccer, this football game and you just get there and there's average football players.
00:00:27.120 Why then are we putting average and below average looking women on the cover of magazines and modeling? 1.00
00:00:34.740 I'm supposed to be inspired when I see it.
00:00:38.180 I'm supposed to put that woman on my fridge and want to eat less because I want to look like her. 1.00
00:00:43.020 And nowadays, they put a fat chick on the cover. 1.00
00:00:46.000 Why?
00:00:46.620 You want to create acceptance for everyone, but it's not like that.
00:00:48.600 It's not like that at all.
00:00:49.460 And this is the problem as well.
00:00:50.920 When it comes to people trying to even get in shape and be healthy, people have got this expectation because of what it is.
00:00:55.500 It's like you said before about being fast and instant.
00:00:58.300 People expect to get results instantly because that's what people are preaching.
00:01:01.860 Six weeks, 12 weeks, you lose weight, you do this, you take a magic pill.
00:01:04.720 And people are like, fuck this, I want to just do this surgery or do the steroids and get a result faster.
00:01:10.560 But they haven't faced other things.
00:01:13.040 They haven't built themselves up character.
00:01:14.580 They haven't built the discipline.
00:01:15.540 They haven't built themselves up the mindset work and stuff like that.
00:01:18.480 So once they've kind of cheek-holded away, they've got all these issues and stuff like that.
00:01:23.100 So I think really and truthfully, this whole acceptance thing is not like it is.
00:01:27.740 You probably see the stats, probably like 1% of people are in really good shape.
00:01:30.900 The rest ain't.
00:01:31.520 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:01:31.960 That's what it is.
00:01:32.880 I think it's mean, actually.
00:01:34.620 I think it's mean.
00:01:35.580 I think the people that push it are liars.
00:01:37.480 I think they're big liars.
00:01:39.140 And I think they're the mean ones.
00:01:40.660 They think I'm the mean one because, you know, I call women whales sometimes, only if they are. 0.99
00:01:47.560 And, you know, but I'm like, you know what, at least I'm honest.
00:01:53.980 Where you guys are saying you look beautiful, you're a queen, you're this.
00:01:58.000 I'm like, you guys are just big liars.
00:02:00.500 But do you know what?
00:02:01.120 I've got friends here, I think my friends, that they'll say that they get more, they don't get attention.
00:02:06.260 And when they're all out of shape, they'll get more attention from guys.
00:02:08.540 Guys move to girls, something like that, because they think it's going to be easier.
00:02:12.500 Because they're insecure.
00:02:13.660 Yeah, because it's easier for you to think if the girl's big, she's not getting, you know, you've got to move.
00:02:18.680 But you know what, again, it comes down to society trying to make things equal.
00:02:22.980 But again, things are not equal and they're trying to make, yeah, put that big girls and small girls modeling and stuff and make it equal and stuff like that.
00:02:30.520 Everything's just equal.
00:02:31.540 But again, things are not equal.
00:02:33.400 100%.
00:02:33.720 Things are generally not fair, you know what I'm saying?
00:02:35.500 And like Pearl said, people are not being honest.
00:02:39.160 I mean, I wouldn't say it's right to call someone a whale, but again, it's not necessarily.
00:02:43.780 You're right.
00:02:44.100 You're right.
00:02:44.580 Honestly, I should apologize to the whales in the sea for comparing a beautiful, majestic creature to a fat chick. 1.00
00:02:50.300 Like, honestly.
00:02:51.260 But again, yeah, with everything, it's not necessarily what you say as well as how you say it.
00:02:58.540 But yeah, it's being a bit tactical.
00:03:00.920 I say it very nicely.
00:03:02.540 But there's girls. 0.99
00:03:04.660 I would say, yeah, my point of that, the whole oversized thing for me, there's girls who's just big boned. 1.00
00:03:11.220 They're not actually fat women. 1.00
00:03:12.600 Do you understand?
00:03:13.140 We all have the same.
00:03:14.240 Do you understand?
00:03:14.920 Yeah, but I feel they believe that too much though.
00:03:17.440 We do.
00:03:18.060 Our bones aren't like swollen.
00:03:19.560 No, your bones are not like next girl's bones. 0.94
00:03:21.700 I can just look at a girl and tell her size is what her bones ain't the same as her bones. 1.00
00:03:25.640 You understand?
00:03:27.360 Straight away.
00:03:28.140 I feel like that's an excuse.
00:03:29.480 That's what I'm saying.
00:03:30.180 A lot of people use that excuse to lose.
00:03:32.180 I'm not trying to give an excuse for them.
00:03:33.200 A lot of people use that excuse for them.
00:03:34.300 And I agree with what you're saying, but I've got a friend who likes fat gal. 0.99
00:03:38.280 Yeah, yeah.
00:03:38.980 Big gal, meaty gal, floppy gal. 0.90
00:03:40.120 Same, same, same, same, same.
00:03:41.860 It's your preference.
00:03:42.720 Let me ask you.
00:03:43.340 It's your preference.
00:03:43.940 I have a question.
00:03:44.820 How much does he make?
00:03:46.200 Who?
00:03:46.600 Your friend that likes fat chicks. 0.91
00:03:47.900 I don't know what he makes.
00:03:49.160 I don't watch man's money land.
00:03:50.280 I don't watch no one's money.
00:03:51.220 I don't watch no one's pees.
00:03:53.280 You don't watch no one's pees.
00:03:54.440 No, I don't watch pees.
00:03:55.280 No, okay, okay, okay.
00:03:56.000 Because that's what they say.
00:03:57.060 Like a fat chick on a guy's arm is just like one way to show that he's broke. 1.00
00:04:00.420 Is it?
00:04:01.160 No.
00:04:02.380 Okay, look at the men with money, status, and power.
00:04:06.300 Who did they pick?
00:04:07.200 They got whales on their arm.
00:04:08.440 Yeah, young.
00:04:09.840 Yeah, who's Leonardo dating?
00:04:11.340 I don't see one fat chick, so it's like if men really like fat chicks. 0.84
00:04:13.880 Wait, do you know what?
00:04:15.080 Society's fucked us up, you know?
00:04:16.240 Yeah, but I fit a different name.
00:04:17.500 No, no, big man ting.
00:04:18.500 You know what I'm saying at here?
00:04:19.660 It's because, once again, we've gone back into the media chat.
00:04:22.860 Do you feel me?
00:04:23.600 Like if we go away from that, there's a girl out there who eat food, fam. 1.00
00:04:27.320 Just like man them. 0.90
00:04:28.340 You know what I mean?
00:04:28.620 Some girl put on weight more than others. 1.00
00:04:30.740 Some certain girl, and yeah, I agree with you to where you're saying it's a fitness thing
00:04:34.760 and they're not pushing themselves.
00:04:36.040 They're being lazy, getting diabetes.
00:04:37.940 All these bad things happen to you when you put on your overweight and you're obese.
00:04:41.620 But there's some girl there who can still do the sprinting thing. 1.00
00:04:44.420 They're quite big.
00:04:45.320 And some girl, they're fake. 0.85
00:04:46.880 Don't do that.
00:04:47.660 I'm just showing you that there's a skinny girl who are dead in bed and you've got a 1.00
00:04:53.980 big ting who will fuck you good. 0.99
00:04:55.980 Do you understand?
00:04:56.700 So just beat the ting, bro.
00:04:58.400 But that's different, though.
00:04:59.280 This is the programming.
00:05:00.520 That's what you're saying.
00:05:01.120 That is a programming story.
00:05:01.960 This is it, because they convince you that if the girl's big, if the girl's big, she has
00:05:06.740 something else to offer.
00:05:07.200 Well, there you go.
00:05:07.780 This is what I'm trying to go for.
00:05:08.440 But this is what I'm saying.
00:05:09.200 Yeah, this is what they convince.
00:05:10.140 They convince the men so the fat chicks can compete that they're nicer, they're better. 1.00
00:05:15.060 But it's like, you know, think about it.
00:05:16.540 If you're sleeping with a fat girl, she's not going to have the same energy. 1.00
00:05:20.080 Come on, think about it.
00:05:20.760 It depends on the person.
00:05:22.820 That's what I'm saying.
00:05:23.460 I'm telling you, no.
00:05:24.540 You said a good point, Ian, which is health.
00:05:27.180 Yeah, I agree with that.
00:05:28.680 That is a great point.
00:05:29.960 Yeah, Ian, to me, that's where it's at.
00:05:32.100 I agree with you, bro.
00:05:33.040 Character is one thing.
00:05:33.600 Big people, small, they're going to have good characters.
00:05:36.200 And arguably, some big people are going to be capable, but health is the bottom line.
00:05:42.040 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:05:42.760 You know, my dad, I was dating a bigger guy once, you know.
00:05:45.720 And my dad was like, you got to cut that off.
00:05:47.800 And I was like, why, dad?
00:05:48.780 And he was like, yeah, because of his weight.
00:05:51.140 And I was like, well, isn't that a bit mean?
00:05:52.680 And he said, no, otherwise you're going to have to take care of him someday.
00:05:55.440 And I didn't really think about it.
00:05:56.720 I was like, from a practical point of view, if you date a bigger person, you are going to have to take care of them someday.
00:06:01.480 You can see where you get your views from.
00:06:05.500 But is that fair, though?
00:06:08.120 It's not fair, but it's nice.
00:06:09.360 It's not fair, but, yeah.
00:06:10.900 I know that ain't the case.
00:06:12.820 Because if you've been your man for six years, he puts away.
00:06:14.580 Is he gone?
00:06:15.420 Yes or no?
00:06:15.820 Well, no.
00:06:16.500 You've got to talk about your mic.
00:06:17.860 Sorry.
00:06:18.380 Your man's gone.
00:06:18.780 Your man's gone for six years, Bia. 1.00
00:06:20.380 I mean, you've been here for six years.
00:06:21.280 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:06:21.720 He puts on bare weight.
00:06:22.760 Is he going?
00:06:23.500 No.
00:06:23.920 Right.
00:06:24.220 So there you go, then.
00:06:25.020 So we're not getting sucked in.
00:06:26.160 But that's not.
00:06:26.640 No, no, no, no.
00:06:27.760 No, but that's different, though.
00:06:29.660 It's not.
00:06:30.000 It's the same thing.
00:06:30.640 He's overweight.
00:06:31.300 He's obese.
00:06:31.800 But do you know, a lot of relationships people put on weight, you know?
00:06:34.820 That's what I was going to say.
00:06:35.700 And that's what I'm trying to say to you.
00:06:37.000 So we're going back on ourselves.
00:06:38.320 He has put on weight, though.
00:06:39.300 And I've stayed with him through it.
00:06:40.360 Right.
00:06:40.600 And he lost it because he wanted to work it all.
00:06:48.780 I don't know where you got that from.
00:06:50.140 There is big-boned girls. 1.00
00:06:50.780 There is big-boned girls. 1.00
00:06:51.980 What?
00:06:52.120 And they're big-boned girls out here? 1.00
00:06:53.960 What was my name trying to say?
00:06:55.120 I feel a lot of girls that are big-boned feel that because they're big-boned, 1.00
00:06:58.420 they can't lose weight, so they won't put in the actual effort.
00:07:00.560 No, see what you're saying with the whole effort and losing weight?
00:07:02.940 I agree with you 100%.
00:07:04.080 There shouldn't be obese settings.
00:07:06.760 You feel me?
00:07:07.380 Because that means you're lazy.
00:07:08.420 You've let food overtake your body.
00:07:10.660 That's a madness.
00:07:11.700 Do you understand?
00:07:12.140 But when your bones are big, like you're grown that way,
00:07:14.820 and you're built like that, that's the support of life, isn't it?
00:07:17.460 I think it's programming,
00:07:19.280 and I think it's a way of women telling men you can't have standards. 0.55
00:07:23.740 Because every time a man has a standard, 0.98
00:07:25.620 women just really break it down, to be honest. 1.00
00:07:27.980 So it's like if a man wants a woman that's not a whore, 1.00
00:07:31.360 then they're slut-shaming.
00:07:32.540 If a man wants a woman that's skinny, then they're fat-shaming. 0.99
00:07:35.980 And I think the big-boned thing is just a way for fat chicks to compete 1.00
00:07:40.580 because they could say, oh, I'm still healthy.
00:07:42.640 I'm just big-boned.
00:07:43.640 But if we look at the pictures, look at the picture of a beach from 100 years ago.
00:07:49.220 There was no big-boned women. 1.00
00:07:51.120 What, did they magically get born?
00:07:53.040 Yeah, but they were-
00:07:53.560 No, we got fatter.
00:07:55.860 All right, cool.
00:07:56.460 Boom.
00:07:56.760 I can break down a big, big, big example.
00:07:59.080 Back in the day, there was no girls, like, not trying to put it as a race thing, 1.00
00:08:03.580 but it kind of slightly is in my time.
00:08:06.660 White girls never had bums. 1.00
00:08:08.460 None of them.
00:08:09.340 They were dead out.
00:08:10.020 Like, man would see certain girls and no bums. 1.00
00:08:11.520 Marilyn Monroe.
00:08:12.300 None of them never had bums.
00:08:12.880 Marilyn Monroe.
00:08:13.500 But now, in this day and age-
00:08:14.840 What are we talking about?
00:08:14.940 Marilyn Monroe.
00:08:16.400 But she was, like, the picture of beauty.
00:08:18.060 From her body, yeah.
00:08:18.740 One of the blue moon.
00:08:19.900 One of the blue moon, yeah?
00:08:21.180 But you said none.
00:08:22.040 No, back in the day, there was none in my end.
00:08:23.800 In Lucian, it was done out.
00:08:25.000 There was no girls with bums. 1.00
00:08:26.100 I'll be real with you.
00:08:27.200 I've been there on the streets, know what time it is.
00:08:29.460 Now, in this day and age, all the gallim have got batty. 1.00
00:08:32.640 Yeah, because it's gender, isn't it? 0.98
00:08:33.760 It's popular to have arse, you know what I'm saying? 0.98
00:08:35.540 But what happened to-
00:08:36.280 But do you know what?
00:08:36.680 The big thing as well, slim thick and fat thick as well.
00:08:38.880 A lot of girls that are big, they think they actually are thick, 1.00
00:08:41.780 but they're not thick.
00:08:42.340 No, it's a fat thing, but I know what you're talking about.
00:08:45.820 But the point I'm trying to make is, back then, it wasn't in.
00:08:49.180 There was nothing there, bro.
00:08:50.580 Do you understand?
00:08:51.100 Because there's so many, like, body trends now.
00:08:53.440 Yeah, exactly.
00:08:54.520 But it's coming, like, as the generations are going on,
00:08:56.700 everyone's developing.
00:08:57.640 Even the younger kids are looking older.
00:09:00.040 You see it?
00:09:00.640 People are looking different now.
00:09:02.680 We can't-
00:09:03.400 I can't go down the road.
00:09:04.580 My daughter's 14, bro.
00:09:05.460 I can't go down the road, and I ain't going to have a man go. 0.90
00:09:09.060 And I'm like, what?
00:09:09.940 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:09:10.420 But that's because the development now.
00:09:12.260 Everything's changing, bro.
00:09:13.380 We see it.
00:09:14.020 These young girls look like big girls. 0.94
00:09:16.200 There's a difference between that and being overweight
00:09:18.520 and actually not being healthy, which is actually dangerous.
00:09:20.700 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:09:21.100 I know.
00:09:21.400 I heard that.
00:09:21.880 I'm just saying, I'll show my girl while I go on with the set-up.
00:09:24.840 Yeah, that's true.
00:09:25.380 It's changed.
00:09:26.360 Yeah.
00:09:26.800 Do you understand?
00:09:27.400 So when I'm talking about big boned and all these stuff,
00:09:30.780 certain things weren't in back then.
00:09:32.240 Obviously, man will go for a go of a big body 1.00
00:09:34.180 because it's in.
00:09:35.720 People like to see big bums.
00:09:37.420 It's all on social.
00:09:38.660 You see a girl with big bums shaking, you're like that. 1.00
00:09:40.800 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:41.540 For no reason.
00:09:42.060 But I think when we look at the models in Hollywood,
00:09:44.540 I don't really see a huge change in the picture of beauty in society.
00:09:49.420 Like maybe a little bit too much, like plastic certs slightly.
00:09:52.980 But when you look at the most beautiful women from 50 years ago to now,
00:09:57.640 no matter what race, they're always thin. 1.00
00:10:01.020 And even in Hollywood now, the most successful,
00:10:03.620 sought-after beautiful women are always thin. 1.00
00:10:05.580 They might be thin with a bud.
00:10:06.580 It must be the films I watched then.
00:10:08.240 Because when I was watching stuff,
00:10:10.800 enough black girls had body. 1.00
00:10:12.400 Do you understand?
00:10:12.900 They got bum, bum, breasts, all of that was there. 0.98
00:10:14.700 But that's probably natural.
00:10:16.500 You reckon it's a natural thing?
00:10:17.640 It's a black thing then, you're saying?
00:10:18.700 Yes.
00:10:19.020 It looks like genetics is a big part.
00:10:20.120 Probably.
00:10:21.240 Might be then.
00:10:21.920 Because now these days,
00:10:23.140 there's a lot of white girls, 1.00
00:10:24.520 different race with bums. 0.92
00:10:26.180 But that's not natural, I don't think.
00:10:27.960 You don't think that's natural?
00:10:28.700 No, but some girls think they're working out as well 1.00
00:10:31.560 because of their trend, like you said.
00:10:32.860 Yeah, they're working out.
00:10:34.440 It's not natural.
00:10:34.980 They have to do squats and stuff like that. 0.77
00:10:36.600 There's a lot there, yeah.
00:10:37.520 I hear you still.
00:10:38.280 It could be genetics.
00:10:39.260 We don't know, innit?
00:10:40.020 We're just going to go off of what we need.
00:10:41.320 As many of you know,
00:10:42.240 I was just banned on TikTok.
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