JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023


The Gender Wage Gap DEBUNKED


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14 minutes

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2,932

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14

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In this episode, we talk about the Red Pill and what it means to be a feminist and how it relates to the modern world. We also discuss the difference between being a woman and a man in the modern age and the differences between being rich and poor.

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00:00:00.000 want to work 80 hour a week so when you hear girls saying oh the one percent like the one percent 1.00
00:00:05.280 they'll complain about the one percent while using the products that they benefit from
00:00:10.060 so amazon if amazon disappeared tomorrow we'd be tripping that'd be terrible we would be tripping
00:00:16.380 but we'll we'll constantly complain about the people running those companies while not wanting
00:00:21.420 to do it ourselves you know entitled this sounds and we're all complaining about the gap and wealth
00:00:27.040 but none of us want to step up and do it yeah do you know what that links to what's it it links to
00:00:32.580 because i was having a conversation with um a feminist one time it's jealousy like no not even 1.00
00:00:37.380 that yeah it's like um there's no con there's no concept of like what hard work is you know i mean
00:00:44.740 like like hard work gets just lost on people right so it's one of those things where like
00:00:49.500 people see the end result and they weren't like like what i said you weren't with me shooting in
00:00:54.380 the gym right yeah you weren't with me shooting in the gym you weren't there so you don't know
00:00:58.680 how much work i put into this you just see the end product and see me living the life of a
00:01:02.540 billionaire or a multi-millionaire and obviously now because i have this these resources it's easier to
00:01:07.720 live all right so you see me now but has anyone seen mark zuckerberg's room when he was back at uni
00:01:14.560 before facebook has anyone seen where google was created in the back of a garage somewhere has anyone
00:01:19.160 yeah well didn't doesn't elon musk like sleep at his job a lot yeah sleeps at tesla yeah and he
00:01:27.320 bought he bought like 40 40 000 little cubic house yeah near his near his work just to like have like a
00:01:34.820 place like shower and stuff yeah which is crazy and so he has all this money but he doesn't even
00:01:40.700 he's just working yeah exactly that's the thing when you chase something so much you just miss on
00:01:45.480 a few things that you would not realize you have missed on them until you reach that point when
00:01:50.220 you're like okay now what it won't come back because we know like we won't we won't go back
00:01:56.080 to the youth we won't go back to what we miss on well life's about trade-offs yeah i mean because i i go
00:02:01.020 to so my parents we have um private banking events and it's basically like you have to have a certain
00:02:07.680 amount of money to go to these events so like typically they'll invite um like a speaker and usually
00:02:12.960 it's like a political guy either from the right or the left like they usually alternate and when
00:02:17.340 i'm in the room i'm i'm the youngest one like by far okay and my parents are even the youngest younger
00:02:23.460 ones everyone there is like 60 70 and i had this thought when i was in the room like they have all
00:02:29.540 the money in the world but they probably if they could would trade places with me because i have a
00:02:35.240 youth and they can't buy that yeah one thing would you rather be old and rich or young and broke
00:02:40.620 i think most people would pick young and broke so you can build it
00:02:43.320 so then okay another red pill fact we did feminism is okay so another red pill fact we did feminism is 1.00
00:03:08.460 okay so another red pill fact is that women initiate divorce 70 to 80 percent of the time 1.00
00:03:14.420 yeah so and if you're college educated it's 90 so you're you guys's chance of being divorced is 10
00:03:24.000 if you get divorced or being divorced like they they serve you if you divorce you'll you'll be the
00:03:29.920 one that leaves oh wow these guys don't care about your degree but girls care about the guys 1.00
00:03:35.260 yeah it's weird that's interesting it's not weird because again the more the more educated you get
00:03:41.400 the smaller and smaller people that you you have to pick from and so it's likely it's more likely
00:03:47.620 that you picked a guy that maybe wasn't your first choice okay if i'm if i'm to elaborate why i don't
00:03:55.000 think it's weird men and women look for different traits yeah men are looking for a woman that's
00:04:00.420 submissive um cooperative and brings peace whereas women are looking at hypergamy what can this man
00:04:07.640 bring me yeah in simple terms men are looking at a woman's past and women are looking at a man's future
00:04:16.980 yeah because the reason the reason i say it's weird is because it's like i get that in and i get that
00:04:22.560 on a macro scale because having a degree and having a master was more likely to push you into
00:04:26.940 that world but like bro we went to school in the same place we went to school like if you're both
00:04:33.000 at uni you both we went to school in the same place went to uni at the same time we both were both
00:04:36.900 finished in the same year how are you looking at me differently than i look at you in that respect
00:04:42.660 especially when because when it comes to money right when i see when i see like money being involved
00:04:46.500 like yeah fine you could be like i don't agree with hypergamy but like if he's really rich and you're not
00:04:52.300 like i get it like cool blah blah blah but like you guys are literally literally in this exact same
00:04:57.360 place but they're not the same yeah because girls want a guy that we can look up to yeah so it doesn't 1.00
00:05:03.620 mean that if you marry a guy that's making less than you that you automatically are going to get
00:05:08.100 divorced but you have to look up to him in some way yeah so okay i'll give you an example say i make
00:05:13.840 more money than a guy's content creator if i married an engineer i would always look up to him
00:05:18.420 because i know that he's smarter than me i mean don't get me wrong this is fun it takes a lot
00:05:22.740 of hard work but i wouldn't say that the iq of content creators is that high above the rest of the
00:05:29.620 population sorry guys just i think we're good at talking oh my gosh we're communicators
00:05:38.040 we fit in the community yeah don't get me wrong i love it i love you guys don't sorry but but or it
00:05:47.740 might be muscles like he's better looking than her but like girls have to look up to the guy in some
00:05:51.980 way no girl is gonna date a guy that's worse than her in every way and think wow i gotta catch
00:05:58.200 they won't even date a guy who's literally the same as you in every way and not he has to he has to be
00:06:03.380 above her in some way but what would you say oh well that's true then because i was like what would
00:06:07.540 you say about girls i've heard a lot of girls that they'll date guys who just mooch off of them 0.99
00:06:12.100 and like she has the place she's taking care of bills and he's like the one mooching off of her 0.80
00:06:17.060 usually um what's the phrase a pookie or ray ray yeah it's usually a good looking guy a good looking
00:06:23.700 guy who's smooth yeah he may not be going anywhere he's got the d he's six foot he's chiseled but he
00:06:31.620 lives in the hood and he's not trying to get out yeah that's that's the good genes that's like the
00:06:36.460 alpha side because there's there's two parts of hypergamy that they talk about and it's um alpha
00:06:42.880 alpha fox and beta bucks and so okay i'm sure so out of the guys that you guys have like slept with
00:06:51.080 dated whatever i'm sure you can think of a guy where immediately like you wanted to sleep with
00:06:56.040 him like right off the bat like oh my god he's so fine versus the other guy who he kind of had to be
00:07:01.200 your friend first kind of had to like kind of had to like weasel his way in there and then over time
00:07:06.720 you're like you know what she's laughing right i think i've heard like some of my friends and people
00:07:16.300 or acquaintances i know have like yeah it took them some time like oh it took me some time to
00:07:20.560 warm up to him but yeah it's good now or like the ones like oh he's fine i would i would have his
00:07:27.220 babies or something like that you know yeah and so that's that's like the two ways that girls look at 1.00
00:07:32.880 guys so they call it alpha fox which that means he has good genes basically okay um maybe i think
00:07:40.620 you guys let me know in the chat would you say social status is included in alpha fox
00:07:44.880 because i don't know i think it may be um like game i would say maybe it's been there
00:07:50.380 but and then beta bucks is someone you see as a long-term provider and there's different mating
00:07:55.200 strategies that women have so one is they want someone to continue um legacy basically so he won't 1.00
00:08:02.100 cheat on you publicly he won't embarrass the family like that sort of thing so pookie and ray rays don't 0.62
00:08:06.500 have that no legacy with them but what they might have is good genes they might have um
00:08:12.820 social status which is like that's why a guy with a blue check mark but he might not even be cute or
00:08:19.560 whatever but like if he's got a blue check mark like girls are coming yeah yeah yeah and then there's
00:08:26.220 there's long-term security which is like either they think he might not maybe have a lot of money
00:08:32.660 but they know he would stick around and take care of the kid or he he's provider he has that money
00:08:37.920 okay so oftentimes girls will marry the beta guy that they're really not as attracted to but they
00:08:45.140 know he's the better father for their kids have a couple kids with them and cheat with the alpha guy
00:08:49.620 or get the beta if they can really fulfill their mating strategy they will marry the beta guy and get 0.99
00:08:56.440 pregnant by the alpha guy and have the beta guy raise the kids oh god wouldn't that be like a part 1.00
00:09:02.600 of in a sense of good guys finish last yes yeah okay and that's part of the red pill for men is
00:09:08.400 realizing that the nice guys don't finish last because in society they've always been told that
00:09:15.240 be nice you know get a job be be a provider type of guy and you will get the best results and so it's
00:09:22.020 like these guys do that and then they're like where are my bitches where where the hose at i'm here 1.00
00:09:28.580 yeah but then we look but then you look at the guys you know the bad guys and you know the bad
00:09:33.060 boys and the rude boys and rappers and athletes and it's that but they're getting all the girls 0.99
00:09:37.340 this is a question to the guys oh was there an age where you made the change and do you remember that
00:09:44.060 do you remember what age you were when you finally made that change what kind of change
00:09:48.880 because maybe it was just me i used to be this huge sweet boy some people could call me a simp if
00:09:54.620 you look back at it but there's usually a point in a lot of men's life i've seen it with a lot of
00:09:58.880 my friends there's an age there's a time right where the change happens it might be for a little
00:10:04.760 bit you might go back to being a sweet boy but like a lot of people i know go through like the
00:10:09.320 wall but it's different for guys it's the switch because it goes from like i'm gonna i'm gonna take
00:10:14.440 on dates i'm gonna buy your frowns every day so you know what yeah yeah tell you what i want i want
00:10:20.420 it now you know what you know okay it's kind of like okay if a guy says hey babe can you please be
00:10:25.360 quieter shut the fuck up which one are you more attracted to because in my head if someone's telling 0.83
00:10:32.780 me to shut the fuck up i'm gonna cuss him out too like we're just gonna have a battle like i can't 0.99
00:10:37.440 but it depends on if you're attracted to him or not even if someone that you're not attracted to
00:10:42.480 tells you to shut the fuck up you'll bark up i'm gonna be honest i feel like you're capping 0.99
00:10:47.880 i think if you're not attracted to the guy and he tells you shut the fuck up you'll bark up 0.85
00:10:51.780 but if you're attracted to him like if he's unattractive or attractive i'm gonna i i will argue
00:10:59.440 back i will say something back i'm not just gonna be like okay i'm not gonna do that i can't like i
00:11:05.440 can't do that michael jordan says it to you in his raspy ass little voice like yo babe shut the fuck up 0.99
00:11:10.680 i just no i can't i can't there are some women that are like oh i love it when he tells me to shut the 1.00
00:11:20.820 fuck up i love it i can't do that but it's it's a guy it's basically like we don't like guys that 0.85
00:11:26.240 kicker kiss her ass that's why you see that's why you see okay will and jada why doesn't she 0.99
00:11:31.240 respect him because because he's been putting her on a pedestal like you see him at the red
00:11:36.120 corporate event that's about him and he's he's going like this to her oh yeah yeah like we hate
00:11:42.320 that because it's like i feel like girls know on some level that none of us are shit like we all
00:11:47.780 ain't shit so if you're treating us like we're the shit we're like what's wrong with you
00:11:50.540 like why are you because it's true but guy buys you flowers and takes you on an extravagant first
00:11:56.940 day you're like why what what i don't like that but you like it but in the back of your head you're
00:12:04.020 like why like like why oh why okay why is he doing that yeah okay yeah yeah yeah
00:12:10.100 what was your question again oh do you guys remember or did did you guys ever go through a
00:12:19.560 point in your life where a change happened right that like someone might hurt you or you started
00:12:26.340 to see the world in a different light and you're no longer the nice guy who takes people out as much
00:12:30.960 as you did you're now the guy who just plays the field as much as you can even you know it might be
00:12:36.800 for a little bit yeah no i think i think i may have gone through that change i think it happens
00:12:42.180 yeah but it was heartbreak it weren't of course same but that's what i think it is for most guys
00:12:48.620 it's heartbreak it's never an age for me it was the other way around oh you broke a heart no no no
00:12:53.700 for me it was for me it was um i was really like i was i didn't care about it what anyone thought
00:13:02.000 like if like if i had a girlfriend i don't care what you think i was kind of like that but then i kind
00:13:07.860 of switched okay i became more caring and more you know may i ask what changed and why i think it
00:13:15.360 was the circle that i kept to get me i had a lot of female friends back then and there was always
00:13:20.540 you know give you advice that you know relationship advice so you know make your girl feel welcomed and
00:13:25.320 make her feel nice and stuff like that and it was like all that advice turns you into a simp
00:13:30.120 kind of thing and then you start doing too much and then when you start doing too much
00:13:34.720 the girls kind of switch so it's like like before they used to like me when i was a waste man or
00:13:41.740 not a waste man but a dickhead yeah like you get me i used to talk to you anyhow and you'd like that 0.67
00:13:46.700 and when i'm actually being respectful and nice and you know opening the door and doing all these
00:13:52.780 gentlemen things yeah you're trying to take my weakness or my kindness for weakness kind of thing
00:13:58.020 so it's like that's for me that's to say it happened the opposite and then kind of switched
00:14:02.780 back when the red pill kind of thing came along that's when i was like okay now i realize and it's
00:14:07.620 kind of gone back but i was kind of doing it doing i was kind of red pill subconsciously
00:14:13.240 without even knowing when you were at red turn blue went back to red
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