The ISSUES with SEX POSITIVITY
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about how to be a better wife, cook better, and get the weight off and be healthy. We also talk about why women need to do the work to get better at being a good wife.
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when I heard lead attorney say if you're over 35 and I'm 47 start a YouTube
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channel because you do have life experience that people need to know I
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like to say I've been cooking since 1842 I was just raised that way but I've
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always had a weight problem like I tell Pearl I have whale tendencies so in my
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40s the weight problem started to turn into a health problem and I've been able
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to correct everything by just changing what I eat drink and snack and I use
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those substitutes and that's what my channel is about tell her how much weight
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you've lost so far down 80 pounds 80 pounds it is do look it look it sometimes
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in life they complain and call me ugly right and sometimes sometimes make
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changes absolutely you can definitely do it you can learn to cook you can get the
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weight off and be healthy I believe you can do anything I believe you can do
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almost anything yeah I was gonna say except right except you know I don't know
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if we can go to like the like Pluto yeah I don't think I'm signing up for that
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yeah but but I feel like any skill you can always improve at and get better at
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absolutely it's okay to start where you start yeah start people people you're
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gonna start so you gotta start somewhere you gotta start somewhere you just have
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to start full stop and you know it doesn't mean you'll get there right away
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sometimes it takes time you got to get knocked down a couple times but my issue
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with a lot of modern women is it's like we can't even admit where we're starting
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from that's true and how do you improve if you can't admit where I'm gonna I'm
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gonna tell you what happened to me this week okay okay I'm gonna tell you this
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is like a coffee thought in person this is where I film them by the way I got you
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okay so this week I had a I had a thing on tick-tock where I said a lot of you
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are shitty wives now now what did I say now this is by every metric now I'm just
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looking at the numbers here one out of four marriages is sexless now let's be
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honest whose part is that usually on are there a lot of men that don't want I'm
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not saying it doesn't happen right on top of that on top of that the majority of
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us are overweight 80% of women are overweight in the US on top of that we
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also are not loyal so so women file for divorce 70 to 80 percent of time 50% of
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the time it ends in divorce and what percent of modern women can really cook
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aren't addicted to social media now it's not to say we can't get better that's
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true but I just said as a collective are the wives in my in my age group right
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are we as good as the wives 20 30 years ago hell no and I was like traditional
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women don't get offended by this that is correct because traditional women agree
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with me that is like yeah you guys ain't shit well I wouldn't say it that way
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pearl but I do agree with you that we've got some work to do and I have to give you
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credit for acknowledging that and doing the work to get better whether it's
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learning how to cook or whether it's getting the weight off and being healthy
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we definitely need to improve it since we're talking about Kevin Samuels that's
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really one of the reasons why he started his channel because he would get the men
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ready you know he always used to say they need their 10 years to be heads down
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and eat you know what but then when they were ready the pool of women that they
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had to choose from was subpar so I'm glad we're here to talk about that and offer
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some help I agree I agree all right let me let me look at the oh I'm gonna put
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the chat here okay on my phone this is one day blessing is good we're gonna
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figure out how to get it on the screen but I don't you know we struggle stream
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okay so now also we have such a little a great little community here I just
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pearly things mm-hmm guys I am trying to get this email list going my goal is to get a
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thousand emails right now I'm at six hundred and thirty nine okay and the
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reason I want to do that is because I'd really like to post updates of where
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we're gonna be and get and send you guys meetup information now I can't just post
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meetups on the regular channel because I don't want to die I got a lot of people
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after me you know I mean you know I mean actually I'm gonna repent a different one
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okay email list you know I just I don't need the haters no one where I'm at so I
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need the fans to sign up so I can notify you guys where our meetups are gonna be
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how do you know the people that are signing up our fans because don't you have a
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London anti pearl girl I do have a London hate group but usually they don't watch my
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streams now it's not to say that they couldn't okay they'll usually just watch
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clips or like they're just not the type to be on the lives they might sign up but
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I know their names so I can just pull them off the list oh my goodness okay oh
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I know I know who you are London hate group yeah I'll tell you the London hate
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group is a variety of women that have come on the show mmm now I'd like to say
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there's also a lot of friends a lot of pals people that are big fans of the show so I
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don't want to sound all bad right but with every good comes the crazy right so
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these women have come on the shows and they tell me they say they'll say some
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madness I'll give you some madness that one girl said okay she said her body
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count now it was particularly a high and guess what number she said was it two
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digits it was it was yep it was pretty heavy in the two digits over 50 less than
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50 over 35 close lower 32 it was like 27 20 now mind you I asked this as a joke
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now I said all right guys we're talking about body count those subject I was like
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what's your body count haha and I was like just kidding you don't have to say
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it so I let her know you don't have to say it so why did she she's sex positive
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oh she's proud of that number she's proud of that number no dear so so she then
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threatened to sue me she then threatened said she didn't know what she was getting
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into and so what I did was my friend that invited her on the show there's a
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text from him to her saying this is a controversial show here's the channel
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why am I here so we had it and we had it in writing what she was do you know what
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I mean like getting into so I don't really understand what you didn't know so she
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started a hate group like this is like this is she was the beginning of like all
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the women mad because what will happen is they come on the show yeah they say
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some wild things yeah now had you met you I didn't make you sleep with 30 men I
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didn't make you do that mmm so why am I responsible for the words if you want to
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be honest about it you know honestly I think if she had gotten the rah-rah behind
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her after saying that she probably wouldn't have come for you but it was
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the backlash it wasn't that she said it it was the effect of what happened after
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she said she probably never had a consequence for it in her life she never
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heard the truth before yeah and instead of giving me a thank you thank you for
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shaming me pearl now I'm gonna give you another one Maggie okay roll number two
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girl number two mm-hmm she she is an Indian chick okay okay and she said her
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body count also on the show because another guy on the show was like he was
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trying to make a point he was like ladies what's your body count and everyone
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was like silent except her she said it and his point was that no one was gonna say
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it and she was like five and now I'm gonna I'm gonna be honest okay mm-hmm most
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guys they're like I've interviewed a lot of guys now this might be shocking but
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they're like under ten were okay okay so most guys when they say when they like
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would hear five and be like oh that's not so bad right according to the men that
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I've interviewed on the show right okay now she was part of the Indian community and
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in the Indian community she is a whore oh whore I was like for London I was like
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but whore so now she shunned she was mad at me yeah another one oh my gosh was a
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baby mother came on the show baby mama now she was talking about how she didn't
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let the dad have access to the children oh that's the worst and I asked if it was
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abusive she said no then and I was like okay well why why don't why don't now and
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she didn't want to talk about I didn't really press her on it okay and I should
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have but I didn't know as much about the legal system I was just kind of okay
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whatever a couple months later she's going to court I guess he found the stream
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she wants me to take it down oh you you are talking to the wrong woman you are
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taught you think I'm gonna help you oh dear I I was like don't play with don't play with me I'm
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gonna Google your old last name and find about and send him the stream myself
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don't play with me don't I didn't do that but if I'm pushed I will yeah okay kids
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lesson for today the internet is forever and pearl is not playing games and I'm
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not playing games and I know I will not remove any of the streams because we
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read them the rules ahead of time we tell them it's gonna be used for clicks we're
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gonna do this we're gonna do that here's the waiver sign it you know and it's
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like what so you know that's that is how the hate group started as many of you
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know I was just banned on tik-tok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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