JustPearlyThings - April 01, 2023


The Number 1 Issue Facing Modern Women Today


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Length

10 minutes

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198.80768

Word count

2,012

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

21

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Hate speech

8

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In this episode we talk about the dangers of walking alone at night in the UK and the issues facing women in the modern world. We also talk about promiscuity and how it affects the way we see women in our society.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 night um do you think men can walk home alone at night no i speak for them as well i mean
00:00:06.600 there's an age bracket the way that london is right now yeah no definitely not um but i feel
00:00:13.200 like there's just more risk when you're a woman i mean so if i get attacked and a man gets attacked 0.89
00:00:18.740 who's more likely to get help from other men the woman the woman yeah because someone might come
00:00:24.740 across and not even know who to help if it's two men but with the woman like i feel like people
00:00:28.560 will automatically go to yeah have you seen those videos of the woman hitting the man and the man
00:00:33.200 hitting the woman yeah and it's like they always help the woman and the man they're like good luck
00:00:37.080 yeah yeah i don't know personally i just don't feel safe on the streets um i get ubers literally
00:00:45.020 everywhere or you know someone will pick me up or i'm terrified to walk alone by myself just even
00:00:52.320 coming here tonight i was terrified why is that is that because you got like hollered out on the
00:00:58.340 road tonight like hi darling not even that i can handle that but i've actually been followed home
00:01:03.880 like i've been followed home like you know i've had someone trying to rob me i've had someone try and
00:01:10.760 touch me inappropriately you know and it's it's a lot to deal with and what area is that sorry to say
00:01:17.760 um well i'm from east london so wow yeah just okay i don't know um anyone else number one issue
00:01:26.760 facing women i don't know if it's number one but i do want to bring it up again i think promiscuity
00:01:33.600 is um tainting us especially like now like you know you're a similar age to me like we've been on
00:01:42.520 social media i don't know about you but like i think i got snapped out when i was like 13 yeah so it's
00:01:46.780 like i know like before you had like page three and things like that but like i just feel like
00:01:53.560 things have changed and like now you'll see like 10 year old kids who are like like they'll just see
00:01:58.500 these like only fans models or whatever like and it's just so like they don't even blink like it's
00:02:04.960 just so like everyone's just used to it and tiktok as well even like tiktok you have like 14 year
00:02:09.960 olds looking like they're 18 like you know moving their waist around it's like like it's really scary 0.97
00:02:14.940 i've seen it it's really scary and i just don't think it's going to do anyone any help in the long
00:02:19.160 run men or women like it's it's tainting everyone's view of everything in my opinion i think the number 0.94
00:02:25.680 one thing for women right now is body image yeah yeah definitely body image whether it's 1.00
00:02:32.740 having your waist your bum your tits your lips botox is definitely body image weave or whatever 0.99
00:02:41.620 like yeah i feel it for you women because like if you don't look a certain way you're not doing it 1.00
00:02:49.500 do you know what i'm saying if women were worried about body image then why are 60 percent of women 1.00
00:02:53.320 overweight in the uk it's worse it's worse in america it's like 80 percent
00:02:57.440 but don't you think i feel like sometimes um like even when you feel overeating even if you feel
00:03:04.500 like you want to look a type of way so even if you feel like you want to look a type of way like
00:03:09.420 you might just eat it away yeah then you gain weight then you gain weight by eating less i guess
00:03:16.220 but people are emotional eaters yeah that's still a choice it's still a choice yeah true yeah but also i
00:03:21.960 feel like a lot of women get into relationships or they get very comfortable and they just start 1.00
00:03:27.440 to put on weight like just naturally i don't know yeah yeah comfortable yeah and i don't know
00:03:33.100 they call it like relationship weight um but then you just take it too far and then you really let
00:03:38.380 yourself go like i've got to get in the gym but my point is i always hear women say that like they 1.00
00:03:43.500 care so much about beauty standards but it's like if you cared about beauty standards then
00:03:47.300 why aren't you 120 pounds i would say another problem would be a lot of females are emotionally 1.00
00:03:52.600 unstable that would be another issue literally to put all of that in a box yeah but some people
00:03:58.880 when they say they care about their body image they're not actually talking about their weight
00:04:02.160 they might just be talking about here how their lips look how their eyes look so they're not
00:04:05.740 focusing on their body just think about this bit who has worse beauty standards men or women 0.51
00:04:09.860 what do you mean like looking for or yeah who is who has harder beauty standards to meet men or women
00:04:18.940 how so when women only swipe right five percent of the time on dating apps and they also find 80 1.00
00:04:26.560 percent of men is unattractive i think men have it harder because the chances of a man an individual
00:04:32.140 man versus an individual woman have been found attractive by the majority is a lot lower for a man
00:04:37.680 so like maybe like they see the maybe like women we see you know someone on i don't know like a 0.86
00:04:46.900 magazine or something we think oh i don't look like her like sure that's a body standard that we feel
00:04:51.240 like we have to live up to but that's just how we feel that's not the reality the reality is we don't
00:04:56.580 have to live live up to anything really the majority of like girls can find someone to partner up with 1.00
00:05:04.160 them sleep with them whatever it may be whereas guys sure there might not be a very obvious in
00:05:08.660 your face you must look like this but us girls as the judge of men um they've got way more to live 1.00
00:05:16.640 up to like the average guy like most of us probably wouldn't find it i don't really agree with that i
00:05:22.200 feel like imagine if only two women in this room were found attractive by men by the majority of men 0.96
00:05:27.740 that'd be sad too so how how can you say we have worse beauty standards
00:05:34.780 like it's not it's not that it's not even girls saying they're okay like they deem 80 of men as
00:05:42.080 unattractive not just oh he's okay he's kind of he's medium ugly 0.96
00:05:45.560 i don't think looks are looked at that much when it comes to men i'll be honest with you
00:05:53.180 i think women look at status they look at financial status they look at where is this man 0.69
00:05:59.920 at in his life also yeah i mean obviously you have to be attracted to the person that you're dating
00:06:05.960 but most of the time personally me and like people that i know the women in my life they have never
00:06:12.600 really looked at a guy and gone oh he's got a really pretty face they're like he's a man he's a
00:06:17.640 man he's gonna be tall yeah he's gonna be taller than you at least a woman i've dated men who are
00:06:24.780 shorter than me and i'm a tall woman yeah but you're not you're not the majority and we're talking
00:06:29.560 about women in general women filter out men under six foot on dating apps 80 of the time
00:06:34.600 and the saddest thing is they're normally like five foot five and they're taking all the tall men
00:06:39.860 six foot two babes yeah but people's motives people's motives on dating apps are also very 0.97
00:06:45.920 questionable and women most of women do go on there as well just to get a bit of an ego boost 1.00
00:06:51.400 or have a free meal whatever like and i i think that would be true if that's not the number one way
00:06:57.980 that people were meeting today so you know if the outcomes weren't relationships that's the number one
00:07:04.020 way then i would agree with you but i don't know i just don't think that there that we really like
00:07:12.160 look too deep into men's appearance that much yes we like height i think we do look at the height
00:07:17.680 but i don't think we look at oh is his face perfect oh he's got a double chin you know women look at
00:07:23.920 stuff like that we look at things oh my face looks fat like oh i need to get a nose job we look at it
00:07:29.660 not men so it's like it's like how are we gonna like men don't care yeah but it's this ideology that
00:07:36.680 men like that typical like barbie skinny small waist petite girl and i guess society has kind of told
00:07:44.500 us that and we've sort of believed it and the media also tell us that as well so over the years we've
00:07:50.080 just kind of we've been brainwashed we we think that that's what we look like did you guys not listen
00:07:53.880 to the ass song in high school yeah i feel like the skinny trend is coming in now look at the
00:08:05.640 kardashians look at kylie jenner she's got rid of her bbl you know kim's gone super skinny yeah but 1.00
00:08:10.860 none of them are wives yeah like yeah they make money but they're not wives that's true it's not 1.00
00:08:17.620 it's like women are changing for women they're not even doing it for men if you ask men what they want
00:08:21.560 they don't want lip filler they don't want your forehead not to move they don't want to pound of
00:08:25.460 makeup they just want like natural light okay can i ask you can i can i ask you a question okay i hear
00:08:33.760 what you're saying but answer me this if they don't want the girls with the lip fillers and the big 1.00
00:08:38.620 bums and the skinny little waist why is it when you go down a guy's following on instagram every single
00:08:45.800 girl he is following looks like that girl do men look at instagram for wives candy no
00:08:51.540 why candy no it's no good for them they just what they all want a piece of it it's like if you look
00:08:57.200 at their cornstar search is it is it going to be the wife material okay they don't want to imagine 0.99
00:09:02.940 but they but if they're looking at people if they're looking at women like that then they 1.00
00:09:07.260 somewhat find those women attractive no yeah for the night yeah candy's like sweet i always say it's
00:09:14.480 like sweets because it is like you know it's no good for you but you just want some really
00:09:18.100 why isn't that scary for when you get into a relationship and you think oh he's gonna cheat
00:09:21.780 then if he doesn't want a piece of it and it's like it depends what kind of man you're going
00:09:25.720 i don't know people are so fussy about picking up men just have a lower attraction floor than us
00:09:30.280 so it's kind of like for i've had guys explain this where they're like if you're just above
00:09:34.360 their like minimum dating floor it's kind of all the same to them i mean obviously there's some girl
00:09:39.840 like the hotter you are the more you get away with in a way that's what they say they're kind of like
00:09:43.560 the richer they are for a lot of women the more they get away with in a way but no men are not
00:09:48.720 nearly as picky they're kind of like a good enough as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok
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