JustPearlyThings - July 26, 2023


The Panel Tried Complicating This Simple Question


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10 minutes

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195.20932

Word count

2,089

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

25

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Hate speech

10

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In this episode, we talk about what it means to be an independent woman in the 21st century and what it takes to be a good one. We discuss the benefits of women being more independent and how to deal with the pressures of being a woman in modern times.

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00:00:00.000 what do you think the average woman brings to the table in 2023 i would say less dependency 1.00
00:00:05.440 there's less need to look after a woman financially now there's the two um in fact 0.99
00:00:12.960 combined they're stronger together and i think that's the beautiful thing about modern times is
00:00:17.280 that uh they're more powerful do you think that's a good unit do you think it's a good thing that
00:00:22.880 women are more independent uh yes i think it takes some of the pressure of men i think men suffer
00:00:28.400 quite a lot from expectation and burden sometimes financially and that keeps them maybe in jobs
00:00:34.320 that they wouldn't be happy in perhaps who who what who's more likely to leave a woman that's
00:00:40.480 independent or dependent no idea independent independent woman something i want to say
00:00:48.720 it's the most interesting answer i've heard right now but actually this is a negative thing when it
00:00:52.960 comes to a relationship because the fact that you can provide this you can give that doesn't mean
00:00:58.960 that the man really want that you understand it's an interesting like answer to be looked after um
00:01:06.000 no no no to to be independent the man will not feel that he's a man anymore if the woman is too
00:01:13.520 independent and that's a problem nowadays because but i think that's who watches the kids if the woman's 1.00
00:01:20.880 independent and works who watches the kids the man the nanny no the school the institution who's
00:01:26.560 going to program them the grandparents the parents and the grandparents if a man watching the kids
00:01:31.680 in a family tree in a family system you're not going to trust anybody besides family
00:01:35.840 no a kid will be in the hands of the institutions where do they send them in the uk school and and
00:01:42.880 and where they will go and you know the answer and school and clubs nurseries yeah nursery yeah
00:01:51.840 what's better for a kid the parents watching them or the strangers watching them i mean i mean i'm
00:01:58.640 going to come here as a teacher now i'm going to say that depends because some parents don't do
00:02:02.400 shit with their kids and they literally just put them behind tv put them in behind an ipad and if they 0.85
00:02:06.560 go to like an after-school club there's actually going to be professionals who actually do activities
00:02:10.400 with the children so some i know i'm not allowed to say the words but is it the majority is it
00:02:17.360 generally better for strangers to watch the kid or the parents no the parents logical generally
00:02:25.040 but then we're talking about ideal parents and also again it depends location social things of
00:02:31.040 course we will always be the parents but in general in general in general it should be fair i would
00:02:37.360 have like the parents i want logical do you think do you think it's funny it's funny guys i'm just
00:02:42.560 curious in general who's it better to watch the kids a stranger or the i'm just curious logically
00:02:48.960 parents family anybody that's in the bloodline okay what do you think parents what do you think
00:02:54.080 yeah i think that first of all i need to say that all the questions are pretty straightforward
00:02:58.640 we can over complicate it as much as we want but it's like parents that's it
00:03:02.720 it's funny and we'll say better women are better communicators come on like this is the most 1.00
00:03:09.760 standard question you can't answer street questions um okay i don't even remember the original
00:03:17.760 i like this i lose what do you what bring women to the table what is um i'm gonna ask the men after
00:03:23.280 because i know it'll be quicker what does the average woman bring no no no no i didn't answer no i didn't
00:03:29.280 answer please i didn't okay okay i'm gonna give you the chance but if you talk about your homeless
00:03:33.600 exes i'm gonna go to the next one okay all right go ahead okay um i just think there is no table
00:03:40.880 are we calling are we calling it are we are we calling a relationship table okay because
00:03:46.560 okay next no i agree i agree i think a lot of women now are way more independent and we don't need the 1.00
00:03:51.680 men to pay for everything anymore okay we and that's what we bring i think so do you think that's useful to
00:03:57.600 men i think so i think that takes some pressure off men okay is that typically what men look for in
00:04:03.360 wives no do we typically want men that don't provide for us no thank you guys oh you guys are so much
00:04:12.320 better now but to be fair like i can't just talk about myself but i know myself and like i have quite
00:04:20.240 a lot of big group of strong women around me okay we can take care of ourselves you can but yeah 1.00
00:04:26.000 but this is but this is a lot like men do not want emotionally detached women that can take care
00:04:34.080 of ourselves like it's it's this brainwashing they fed to us for like 15 years and it's really sad
00:04:39.600 because we end up at the end of this single by ourselves with a bunch of cats you know if you hit
00:04:43.920 30 you're not married you're honestly you know you know if you hit 30 and you're not married you're
00:04:48.960 more likely to not have children than have them i mean there's more than a 50 chance you will never have
00:04:53.760 a child never reproduce that's that's the end of what they've taught us because what we bring to
00:04:58.400 the table is independence but why is reproducing so important exactly why is it still now that it
00:05:03.680 has to happen it doesn't have to happen but 80 of women said they wanted it to happen before 1.00
00:05:09.600 so and and women are more depressed like you know how lonely is when your looks go life is lonely 1.00
00:05:14.800 like like if you're when your looks go and you don't get attention from men like you used to you don't
00:05:19.280 get help from men like you used to people don't talk to you on the street like you used to it is
00:05:24.080 lonely if you do not have a family around you and it's funny it's funny when women ask questions like 0.99
00:05:29.040 why is reproduction so important meanwhile if you had to if we had to start listing all the things that
00:05:33.760 men were good at and all the things that women were good at reproduction is the first thing that 1.00
00:05:37.120 will come on women's mouth and also like if reproduction wasn't so important like how did you get here 1.00
00:05:43.840 like it's just sometimes i know but i think it's a bit it's a bit much all this expectation talk about
00:05:49.760 that i mean i just had surgery and i can't have children and i don't take i don't feel differently
00:05:55.360 about myself i don't want people to look at me differently and i think it's it's almost offensive
00:05:59.760 these days for everyone to expect that women must want kids or to be part of that but that's 1.00
00:06:04.800 conflating the general topic with your personal circumstance because you didn't say why is
00:06:09.280 reproduction so important to me you said why is reproduction so important because i do think
00:06:14.640 it's important for the for the human race to continue without reproduction that is literally
00:06:19.760 the end of the human race and right now and this is the thing like it's very easy for you to be stuck
00:06:26.640 in your personal circumstance and not think about the the the knock-on effect that your your decisions
00:06:31.920 have on the entire um population no i know i know but the point is right now the human race especially
00:06:38.560 in the western world is is at a point where we're not replacing the people that are dying at an
00:06:44.800 effective rate to keep society going eventually so if if we keep thinking like this it's literally
00:06:51.040 going to be the end of western civilization so when people say all right this is important why is
00:06:55.200 it so important it's really like yeah if you look at it from your point of view it might not be
00:06:59.440 that important but on a general scale the fact that you live in society society runs because there
00:07:04.960 are some men that really don't want to get up in the morning at 6 a.m that need to go and run the
00:07:10.320 trains society runs because there's some men that really don't want to but they have to go and do the
00:07:15.280 plumbing society runs because there's some men that really don't want to but they have to go on oil rigs
00:07:19.520 in the high sea risk their lives and make sure that you have oil to run your gas and all of this
00:07:25.920 stuff these things are not things that men want to do but we have to do them but the one thing that women
00:07:30.880 claim is god's giving power to them which is reproduction which is what they know that they
00:07:35.600 can do that men can't do that's the one thing you're still failing at doing so it's just funny
00:07:40.480 because women only want to like make use of those arguments when it benefits them but when you make 1.00
00:07:46.080 like pearl pointed out when it makes them look bad then automatically there are these reasons why
00:07:50.000 it's not important or why we should all have a say and the truth of the matter is when women don't 1.00
00:07:56.720 have kids we get depressed single childless women are on antidepressants at a higher rate than anyone 0.98
00:08:03.120 else it's right after our looks go we get pretty sad because like our work because now we're not
00:08:08.880 attractive to men anymore they don't even they're starting to not even want to sleep with us barely
00:08:14.080 and then we're just by ourselves at christmas it's not a happy bright future it's pretty sad i'm pro kids
00:08:19.760 and i think everyone i want to have a big family and i hate when people say like oh it's too expensive
00:08:26.560 to have a child i'm like poor people have more kids than rich people yeah that's true so i i see
00:08:31.920 this is the first thing that i hear so i always say like people that's what that's what i realized
00:08:37.440 they train us they first tell us to go after a career and and we're women are so easy to propagate 0.99
00:08:42.640 so we do and then they basically they tell us you can't afford to have kids which isn't even true i've
00:08:47.920 talked to women that were stay-at-home moms on a single salary then they give us the social media to
00:08:53.920 think we deserve a lifestyle and a man that we don't and it's just it's just crazy and also like
00:08:58.640 that's why i always say like feminists and we as women we have to need we need to be critical because 1.00
00:09:03.840 now they these people institutions they are uh promoting this they started promoting more and about
00:09:10.800 feminism they're profiting on you and they're already starting to fulfill markets for single women 1.00
00:09:17.120 in the future so they are doing a lot of stuff for potential clients for single women so these
00:09:22.960 things that they're happening now they've been planned and they're you know yeah and half of us
00:09:28.240 half of us will never get married and never have kids that's what they're predicting
00:09:32.480 half of us and first of all like they're already on the planet more women than men yeah so that's why 0.97
00:09:37.120 when i sit there i say like i will i will do everything to protect my relationship and my family
00:09:42.480 when when i have it so i think that's some a message that has to be spread so women have critical 1.00
00:09:48.400 thinking i know for some kind of uh you know um okay what what do women bring to the table in 2023 1.00
00:10:02.400 2023 women bring to the table 1.00
00:10:04.720 let's see uh let's say uh image communication boundaries wow boundaries yeah we all got them
00:10:19.600 right no i think it's just women yeah boundaries it's either it's either women say that or a woman 1.00
00:10:26.400 teaches a man to say that but the average woman comes with boundaries what is the average woman 1.00
00:10:32.640 average woman i'm asking i'm just asking 170 pounds what what high five four 170 pounds i don't know 0.97
00:10:40.080 what that is in kgs