The Panel Tried Complicating This Simple Question
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In this episode, we talk about what it means to be an independent woman in the 21st century and what it takes to be a good one. We discuss the benefits of women being more independent and how to deal with the pressures of being a woman in modern times.
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what do you think the average woman brings to the table in 2023 i would say less dependency
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there's less need to look after a woman financially now there's the two um in fact
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combined they're stronger together and i think that's the beautiful thing about modern times is
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that uh they're more powerful do you think that's a good unit do you think it's a good thing that
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women are more independent uh yes i think it takes some of the pressure of men i think men suffer
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quite a lot from expectation and burden sometimes financially and that keeps them maybe in jobs
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that they wouldn't be happy in perhaps who who what who's more likely to leave a woman that's
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independent or dependent no idea independent independent woman something i want to say
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it's the most interesting answer i've heard right now but actually this is a negative thing when it
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comes to a relationship because the fact that you can provide this you can give that doesn't mean
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that the man really want that you understand it's an interesting like answer to be looked after um
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no no no to to be independent the man will not feel that he's a man anymore if the woman is too
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independent and that's a problem nowadays because but i think that's who watches the kids if the woman's
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independent and works who watches the kids the man the nanny no the school the institution who's
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going to program them the grandparents the parents and the grandparents if a man watching the kids
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in a family tree in a family system you're not going to trust anybody besides family
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no a kid will be in the hands of the institutions where do they send them in the uk school and and
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and where they will go and you know the answer and school and clubs nurseries yeah nursery yeah
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what's better for a kid the parents watching them or the strangers watching them i mean i mean i'm
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going to come here as a teacher now i'm going to say that depends because some parents don't do
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shit with their kids and they literally just put them behind tv put them in behind an ipad and if they
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go to like an after-school club there's actually going to be professionals who actually do activities
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with the children so some i know i'm not allowed to say the words but is it the majority is it
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generally better for strangers to watch the kid or the parents no the parents logical generally
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but then we're talking about ideal parents and also again it depends location social things of
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course we will always be the parents but in general in general in general it should be fair i would
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have like the parents i want logical do you think do you think it's funny it's funny guys i'm just
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curious in general who's it better to watch the kids a stranger or the i'm just curious logically
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parents family anybody that's in the bloodline okay what do you think parents what do you think
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yeah i think that first of all i need to say that all the questions are pretty straightforward
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we can over complicate it as much as we want but it's like parents that's it
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it's funny and we'll say better women are better communicators come on like this is the most
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standard question you can't answer street questions um okay i don't even remember the original
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i like this i lose what do you what bring women to the table what is um i'm gonna ask the men after
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because i know it'll be quicker what does the average woman bring no no no no i didn't answer no i didn't
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answer please i didn't okay okay i'm gonna give you the chance but if you talk about your homeless
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exes i'm gonna go to the next one okay all right go ahead okay um i just think there is no table
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are we calling are we calling it are we are we calling a relationship table okay because
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okay next no i agree i agree i think a lot of women now are way more independent and we don't need the
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men to pay for everything anymore okay we and that's what we bring i think so do you think that's useful to
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men i think so i think that takes some pressure off men okay is that typically what men look for in
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wives no do we typically want men that don't provide for us no thank you guys oh you guys are so much
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better now but to be fair like i can't just talk about myself but i know myself and like i have quite
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a lot of big group of strong women around me okay we can take care of ourselves you can but yeah
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but this is but this is a lot like men do not want emotionally detached women that can take care
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of ourselves like it's it's this brainwashing they fed to us for like 15 years and it's really sad
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because we end up at the end of this single by ourselves with a bunch of cats you know if you hit
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30 you're not married you're honestly you know you know if you hit 30 and you're not married you're
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more likely to not have children than have them i mean there's more than a 50 chance you will never have
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a child never reproduce that's that's the end of what they've taught us because what we bring to
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the table is independence but why is reproducing so important exactly why is it still now that it
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has to happen it doesn't have to happen but 80 of women said they wanted it to happen before
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so and and women are more depressed like you know how lonely is when your looks go life is lonely
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like like if you're when your looks go and you don't get attention from men like you used to you don't
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get help from men like you used to people don't talk to you on the street like you used to it is
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lonely if you do not have a family around you and it's funny it's funny when women ask questions like
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why is reproduction so important meanwhile if you had to if we had to start listing all the things that
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men were good at and all the things that women were good at reproduction is the first thing that
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will come on women's mouth and also like if reproduction wasn't so important like how did you get here
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like it's just sometimes i know but i think it's a bit it's a bit much all this expectation talk about
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that i mean i just had surgery and i can't have children and i don't take i don't feel differently
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about myself i don't want people to look at me differently and i think it's it's almost offensive
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these days for everyone to expect that women must want kids or to be part of that but that's
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conflating the general topic with your personal circumstance because you didn't say why is
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reproduction so important to me you said why is reproduction so important because i do think
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it's important for the for the human race to continue without reproduction that is literally
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the end of the human race and right now and this is the thing like it's very easy for you to be stuck
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in your personal circumstance and not think about the the the knock-on effect that your your decisions
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have on the entire um population no i know i know but the point is right now the human race especially
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in the western world is is at a point where we're not replacing the people that are dying at an
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effective rate to keep society going eventually so if if we keep thinking like this it's literally
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going to be the end of western civilization so when people say all right this is important why is
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it so important it's really like yeah if you look at it from your point of view it might not be
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that important but on a general scale the fact that you live in society society runs because there
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are some men that really don't want to get up in the morning at 6 a.m that need to go and run the
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trains society runs because there's some men that really don't want to but they have to go and do the
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plumbing society runs because there's some men that really don't want to but they have to go on oil rigs
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in the high sea risk their lives and make sure that you have oil to run your gas and all of this
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stuff these things are not things that men want to do but we have to do them but the one thing that women
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claim is god's giving power to them which is reproduction which is what they know that they
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can do that men can't do that's the one thing you're still failing at doing so it's just funny
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because women only want to like make use of those arguments when it benefits them but when you make
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like pearl pointed out when it makes them look bad then automatically there are these reasons why
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it's not important or why we should all have a say and the truth of the matter is when women don't
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have kids we get depressed single childless women are on antidepressants at a higher rate than anyone
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else it's right after our looks go we get pretty sad because like our work because now we're not
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attractive to men anymore they don't even they're starting to not even want to sleep with us barely
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and then we're just by ourselves at christmas it's not a happy bright future it's pretty sad i'm pro kids
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and i think everyone i want to have a big family and i hate when people say like oh it's too expensive
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to have a child i'm like poor people have more kids than rich people yeah that's true so i i see
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this is the first thing that i hear so i always say like people that's what that's what i realized
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they train us they first tell us to go after a career and and we're women are so easy to propagate
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so we do and then they basically they tell us you can't afford to have kids which isn't even true i've
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talked to women that were stay-at-home moms on a single salary then they give us the social media to
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think we deserve a lifestyle and a man that we don't and it's just it's just crazy and also like
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that's why i always say like feminists and we as women we have to need we need to be critical because
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now they these people institutions they are uh promoting this they started promoting more and about
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feminism they're profiting on you and they're already starting to fulfill markets for single women
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in the future so they are doing a lot of stuff for potential clients for single women so these
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things that they're happening now they've been planned and they're you know yeah and half of us
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half of us will never get married and never have kids that's what they're predicting
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half of us and first of all like they're already on the planet more women than men yeah so that's why
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when i sit there i say like i will i will do everything to protect my relationship and my family
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when when i have it so i think that's some a message that has to be spread so women have critical
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thinking i know for some kind of uh you know um okay what what do women bring to the table in 2023
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let's see uh let's say uh image communication boundaries wow boundaries yeah we all got them
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right no i think it's just women yeah boundaries it's either it's either women say that or a woman
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teaches a man to say that but the average woman comes with boundaries what is the average woman
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average woman i'm asking i'm just asking 170 pounds what what high five four 170 pounds i don't know