JustPearlyThings - April 30, 2023


The Panel Was Asked The Weirdest Question


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

218.30592

Word Count

1,951

Sentence Count

1

Misogynist Sentences

6

Hate Speech Sentences

6


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 what percent what percent of women are really like learning how like let's just
00:00:03.480 say cook because that like that's something that men tend to like yeah
00:00:06.960 yeah you want a girl who can make you a home cooked meal what percent of women are saying you
00:00:10.680 know what I'm gonna really learn how to like cook how to I'm gonna spend time
00:00:15.720 with married couples to see what that girl's doing right I think every girl
00:00:20.340 can be submissive to the right guy I think a girl could learn to cook if she's
00:00:23.880 in love with the guy yeah I think so too
00:00:27.000 no I think there's some that are too far gone but yeah some are too far gone but
00:00:33.360 if a girl's not really feeding the guy she'll be submissive with lunch you want to
00:00:36.420 do stuff for him like cook yeah you know do like his laundry no and I hear this all
00:00:40.740 the time from girls it's like I gave him everything I did too much I did so much
00:00:44.400 but it's kind of sad because it's like a lot of times when that happens like
00:00:48.220 they'll make the men of the future pay for the mistakes of their past yeah so
00:00:51.540 it's like like like oh I gave everything to him so I can't give everything to the
00:00:55.000 next guy it's like well what did he do that tends to happen in a lot of
00:00:58.900 relationships with people the girls being heartbroken from previous and they
00:01:04.260 choose to bring that same energy into the new one and then not realize their
00:01:08.320 trauma from the loss instead of learning from it yeah letting it go yeah but again
00:01:13.580 this is just in society these people don't want to let things go yeah and come
00:01:17.560 back neutral because a therapy man therapy plays a big part man everyone
00:01:21.460 everyone everyone like I feel that society meets everyone feel they need a
00:01:24.820 therapist Jones Angie to heal when that jump and a therapy is important don't get me
00:01:29.500 wrong but I feel in certain situations you can heal alone and life can teach you
00:01:34.040 certain things I'm saying that's what I'm saying and it comes back to like when he
00:01:37.840 was talking about emotions yeah like I've been a I'll be real up it out there like I've been a
00:01:42.580 person yeah all my life like man's just been angry for what reason I don't know
00:01:47.260 man because my dad weren't around might be because how things were going back in
00:01:51.580 the day or how I grew up with air I was in but I realized being not not saying I
00:01:56.980 should just be upset and be crying all the time on and I but when I did cry from
00:02:02.080 being the angry person I was it released so much negative it made me feel more like raw
00:02:09.160 yeah I can breathe you know I'm saying and that's why I said men don't cry but
00:02:14.380 they don't realize how much is boiling up inside but you leveled up though after
00:02:17.540 that in it you learn from a situation that's the problem though that's what I
00:02:20.860 know why I understand myself do I mean you've got to know yourself yeah Bush
00:02:25.060 knows himself and see how where he's coming from what he's talking about is in
00:02:28.480 a different realm do you get me but I get it because over the years you've had to
00:02:32.920 teach yourself these things don't you think it's better men express their
00:02:48.360 emotions to other men as opposed to something like I just don't think women
00:02:52.560 are built from a specific person I was just saying in general in life but don't
00:02:57.780 get upset and don't let it out you're gonna keep it in well and bottling it up
00:03:02.040 turns into anger sometimes yeah well I'm not saying never cry but I just you know
00:03:07.440 it's like when we think of our strong like the strongest most masculine men like
00:03:11.700 the archetypes like rock like a rocky Balboa I've actually never seen the movie
00:03:16.020 but I know he's like a masculine arc it was he crying in the movie we've been this is
00:03:21.000 what the site is done so the programming is about like it's there to make you
00:03:25.880 think that oh if he does that it means is we are if he does did but we all have
00:03:29.620 emotions we have feelings I mean and there's gonna be a time in life where we
00:03:32.940 were gonna shed a tear or to or talk about something very I think society's gone the
00:03:37.500 other way though I think society is like encouraging men to cry more and be more
00:03:41.520 emotion well no what I'm seeing no yeah I'm seeing man they're trying to push it they
00:03:45.840 are pushing that most pushing that most agenda way too much I think it's probably what I'm what
00:03:50.220 I'm seeing then and that's why that's why you know there's a whole agenda of men being soft
00:03:53.820 and like way too soft and not having the work effort like a guy had like 20 30 years ago
00:03:59.100 wait I know I can speak to my uncles and dad and they'll tell me like oh that people generation
00:04:04.020 are lazy like they haven't got no work effort no drive like you can't even do this basic job
00:04:09.260 you know what I'm saying too the grinding was more harder back then than now yeah
00:04:12.860 yeah I mean it's this media it is it's always going to come back to social media yeah I mean
00:04:17.420 because that is what it is but I personally see the youths they're not balling because they're
00:04:21.740 always on crud but it just might be just the circle of what I see you know I mean I don't know I don't
00:04:27.020 look into the statistics and the numbers they turn the upset into anger yeah I see more violence yeah
00:04:34.140 then upset it is yeah I see more people crying because the kids are dead then then man balling
00:04:39.900 and being more emotional and feminine is it so I don't I don't know maybe the area I grew up in or
00:04:45.020 where I'm in is why I'm seeing these things because I really don't know the research side of it's gone
00:04:49.980 feminine I haven't clocked that yet I think it's gone way too feminine man definitely way too much for
00:04:54.380 I haven't seen that yeah so even the emotions of getting angry in years and it's still emotions
00:05:01.340 you know and if it's disproportional and it's not that cool for you know then it's still it's still
00:05:07.420 emotions and whether you're crying you know or whether you're screaming with happiness and joy
00:05:12.220 you know it's and it's still emotions you know and it's that all I'm saying is just kind of have
00:05:17.100 it in a balance and be able to manage the situation you know and over the years that's what I had to do
00:05:21.260 yeah and I was keeping I always said that when I went and done anger management when I was at school
00:05:26.460 I realized that why am I always angry I don't even want to be angry and I'm angry you get me but
00:05:31.740 it's just I was always I can always snap because I was a loose screw like that I just didn't think
00:05:36.300 what to piss me off but as the years have gone on and I've grown up to deal with my emotions so like
00:05:41.260 if something upsets me I'll go into a room quietly and have my deal with my shit but then I'll come back
00:05:47.020 because who you saw but you learn from that lesson yeah I feel a lot of guys get into a deep hole they
00:05:54.220 don't learn from that no you know what I'm saying they cry and then it's like they get worse and
00:05:57.660 they cry and they get worse and they feel their lives over and they think do you know what yeah
00:06:00.700 that's depression that's that's what I'm trying to say but now you're in another place but that's
00:06:04.700 what that's what's going on though yeah that's what's going on with mental health it's about it
00:06:08.060 I think I'm not a guru guy or no fucking um what are they called again the the therapist people then
00:06:14.380 but what I will say from my point of view with how I dealt with that situation because I was always
00:06:19.980 on a vex team um the the crying helped me in a way where it made me understand that like what I'm
00:06:26.700 crying about and why I'm crying and who I cry around do you get me that I don't cry around no any
00:06:31.980 person but like I'm crying around my circle and crying with people who love me that's going to
00:06:36.220 control the emotions yeah see what I'm saying so I've learned a way of how to do with it instead
00:06:40.540 of just keeping it all bowled up because I can touch road and if that's bowled up blood it's peak
00:06:45.020 yeah it's big but you know what I mean you've learned to control your emotions
00:06:48.860 again you learn food for experience yeah that's what I'm saying and I hear what you man are saying
00:06:53.020 when you're saying the crying too much can make can look a bit like my girl saying it's a weakling
00:06:57.340 I don't think you're strong but that's because that brothers let it get on tops do you understand
00:07:02.060 there's a level of barling and who you're crying around and what how you're carrying yourself do
00:07:07.020 I mean you can cry and be on the floor but that's what you said you just said something very important
00:07:10.700 you got to cry around certain people that you know that love you that's going to be have your
00:07:13.660 best interest a lot of guys won't cry around and they'll laugh at you won't cry around yeah because
00:07:18.860 exactly because they're going to look at that and think oh yeah they're used to manipulate you
00:07:22.700 someone submitted a question for the guys um if a random woman accused your dad of grape
00:07:29.180 would he be okay mine would definitely
00:07:37.340 that's a wild wild wild wild wild question to ask me because do you mean would he be okay the
00:07:43.180 accusation yeah with the idea no like would he be mentally okay I don't know why he asked that
00:07:46.860 I don't know it's a good question but again it's again it's controlling emotion again if you
00:07:52.220 again it comes to knowing yourself if you know yourself I can speak for my dad he's very
00:07:57.820 set to set in a way and he knows again if he knows he hasn't raped someone yes he's going to be
00:08:03.180 okay great great great great great yeah yeah that's why I didn't want to say the words don't talk to
00:08:18.300 you guys answer with your dad oh yeah I think I think it'll be okay as well I think because
00:08:21.740 of my dad's traditional so I think it's like you have traditional beliefs core values you're strong
00:08:25.740 minded you know I let some any random person what they're going to say affect you so I think it'll be
00:08:30.460 different if it's someone like you know maybe mid-30s or younger or something that'll be different
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