The Panel Was Asked The Weirdest Question
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Summary
In this episode we talk about emotions and how to deal with them in our society. We discuss the importance of emotional expression and how it can help us deal with our emotions in a healthy way. We also talk about emotional expression in relationships and what it means to be a masculine man.
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what percent what percent of women are really like learning how like let's just
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say cook because that like that's something that men tend to like yeah
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yeah you want a girl who can make you a home cooked meal what percent of women are saying you
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know what I'm gonna really learn how to like cook how to I'm gonna spend time
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with married couples to see what that girl's doing right I think every girl
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can be submissive to the right guy I think a girl could learn to cook if she's
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no I think there's some that are too far gone but yeah some are too far gone but
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if a girl's not really feeding the guy she'll be submissive with lunch you want to
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do stuff for him like cook yeah you know do like his laundry no and I hear this all
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the time from girls it's like I gave him everything I did too much I did so much
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but it's kind of sad because it's like a lot of times when that happens like
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they'll make the men of the future pay for the mistakes of their past yeah so
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it's like like like oh I gave everything to him so I can't give everything to the
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next guy it's like well what did he do that tends to happen in a lot of
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relationships with people the girls being heartbroken from previous and they
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choose to bring that same energy into the new one and then not realize their
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trauma from the loss instead of learning from it yeah letting it go yeah but again
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this is just in society these people don't want to let things go yeah and come
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back neutral because a therapy man therapy plays a big part man everyone
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everyone everyone like I feel that society meets everyone feel they need a
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therapist Jones Angie to heal when that jump and a therapy is important don't get me
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wrong but I feel in certain situations you can heal alone and life can teach you
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certain things I'm saying that's what I'm saying and it comes back to like when he
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was talking about emotions yeah like I've been a I'll be real up it out there like I've been a
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person yeah all my life like man's just been angry for what reason I don't know
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man because my dad weren't around might be because how things were going back in
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the day or how I grew up with air I was in but I realized being not not saying I
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should just be upset and be crying all the time on and I but when I did cry from
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being the angry person I was it released so much negative it made me feel more like raw
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yeah I can breathe you know I'm saying and that's why I said men don't cry but
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they don't realize how much is boiling up inside but you leveled up though after
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that in it you learn from a situation that's the problem though that's what I
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know why I understand myself do I mean you've got to know yourself yeah Bush
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knows himself and see how where he's coming from what he's talking about is in
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a different realm do you get me but I get it because over the years you've had to
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teach yourself these things don't you think it's better men express their
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emotions to other men as opposed to something like I just don't think women
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are built from a specific person I was just saying in general in life but don't
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get upset and don't let it out you're gonna keep it in well and bottling it up
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turns into anger sometimes yeah well I'm not saying never cry but I just you know
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it's like when we think of our strong like the strongest most masculine men like
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the archetypes like rock like a rocky Balboa I've actually never seen the movie
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but I know he's like a masculine arc it was he crying in the movie we've been this is
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what the site is done so the programming is about like it's there to make you
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think that oh if he does that it means is we are if he does did but we all have
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emotions we have feelings I mean and there's gonna be a time in life where we
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were gonna shed a tear or to or talk about something very I think society's gone the
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other way though I think society is like encouraging men to cry more and be more
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emotion well no what I'm seeing no yeah I'm seeing man they're trying to push it they
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are pushing that most pushing that most agenda way too much I think it's probably what I'm what
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I'm seeing then and that's why that's why you know there's a whole agenda of men being soft
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and like way too soft and not having the work effort like a guy had like 20 30 years ago
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wait I know I can speak to my uncles and dad and they'll tell me like oh that people generation
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are lazy like they haven't got no work effort no drive like you can't even do this basic job
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you know what I'm saying too the grinding was more harder back then than now yeah
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yeah I mean it's this media it is it's always going to come back to social media yeah I mean
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because that is what it is but I personally see the youths they're not balling because they're
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always on crud but it just might be just the circle of what I see you know I mean I don't know I don't
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look into the statistics and the numbers they turn the upset into anger yeah I see more violence yeah
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then upset it is yeah I see more people crying because the kids are dead then then man balling
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and being more emotional and feminine is it so I don't I don't know maybe the area I grew up in or
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where I'm in is why I'm seeing these things because I really don't know the research side of it's gone
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feminine I haven't clocked that yet I think it's gone way too feminine man definitely way too much for
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I haven't seen that yeah so even the emotions of getting angry in years and it's still emotions
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you know and if it's disproportional and it's not that cool for you know then it's still it's still
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emotions and whether you're crying you know or whether you're screaming with happiness and joy
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you know it's and it's still emotions you know and it's that all I'm saying is just kind of have
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it in a balance and be able to manage the situation you know and over the years that's what I had to do
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yeah and I was keeping I always said that when I went and done anger management when I was at school
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I realized that why am I always angry I don't even want to be angry and I'm angry you get me but
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it's just I was always I can always snap because I was a loose screw like that I just didn't think
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what to piss me off but as the years have gone on and I've grown up to deal with my emotions so like
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if something upsets me I'll go into a room quietly and have my deal with my shit but then I'll come back
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because who you saw but you learn from that lesson yeah I feel a lot of guys get into a deep hole they
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don't learn from that no you know what I'm saying they cry and then it's like they get worse and
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they cry and they get worse and they feel their lives over and they think do you know what yeah
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that's depression that's that's what I'm trying to say but now you're in another place but that's
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what that's what's going on though yeah that's what's going on with mental health it's about it
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I think I'm not a guru guy or no fucking um what are they called again the the therapist people then
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but what I will say from my point of view with how I dealt with that situation because I was always
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on a vex team um the the crying helped me in a way where it made me understand that like what I'm
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crying about and why I'm crying and who I cry around do you get me that I don't cry around no any
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person but like I'm crying around my circle and crying with people who love me that's going to
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control the emotions yeah see what I'm saying so I've learned a way of how to do with it instead
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of just keeping it all bowled up because I can touch road and if that's bowled up blood it's peak
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yeah it's big but you know what I mean you've learned to control your emotions
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again you learn food for experience yeah that's what I'm saying and I hear what you man are saying
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when you're saying the crying too much can make can look a bit like my girl saying it's a weakling
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I don't think you're strong but that's because that brothers let it get on tops do you understand
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there's a level of barling and who you're crying around and what how you're carrying yourself do
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I mean you can cry and be on the floor but that's what you said you just said something very important
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you got to cry around certain people that you know that love you that's going to be have your
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best interest a lot of guys won't cry around and they'll laugh at you won't cry around yeah because
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exactly because they're going to look at that and think oh yeah they're used to manipulate you
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someone submitted a question for the guys um if a random woman accused your dad of grape
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that's a wild wild wild wild wild question to ask me because do you mean would he be okay the
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accusation yeah with the idea no like would he be mentally okay I don't know why he asked that
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I don't know it's a good question but again it's again it's controlling emotion again if you
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again it comes to knowing yourself if you know yourself I can speak for my dad he's very
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set to set in a way and he knows again if he knows he hasn't raped someone yes he's going to be
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okay great great great great great yeah yeah that's why I didn't want to say the words don't talk to
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you guys answer with your dad oh yeah I think I think it'll be okay as well I think because
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of my dad's traditional so I think it's like you have traditional beliefs core values you're strong
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minded you know I let some any random person what they're going to say affect you so I think it'll be
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different if it's someone like you know maybe mid-30s or younger or something that'll be different
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