The REASON Men Get SIDE-CHICKS
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Summary
Have you ever had a "side chick" in your life? Do you think a side chick should be promoted to a "main chick"? Should women compete with each other for a man's affections?
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Today's topic is, should modern women compete for a man?
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Now, I'll tell you why I was inspired by this this week.
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She had a man, but she knew he had a girlfriend, and she's a side chick.
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So, to start, have you guys ever had a side chick or been a side chick?
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No, not an official side chick, but I chuckled with multiple tings at the same time.
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So, when you guys hear side chick, because when I think of side chick, I think there's
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Because I don't think it's a side chick if you juggle multiple, wouldn't that be?
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Do you guys think, what's the difference between a side chick, a mistress, and a sneaky link?
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A side chick, a mistress, and a sneaky link, you said.
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A side chick is when you've got a girl, and then you've got another girl as well on the
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side that doesn't necessarily know about the, yeah, they don't know about each other.
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If you're married and you've got a side chick, it's a mistress.
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And it's, because when I think of a sneaky link, like, that is, they're not in a relationship.
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Yeah, that's just somebody you sneak around with late nights.
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Okay, so question for the guys that said yes to having a side chick.
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That's usually the reason for a side chick, because, you know, like, if you get into a
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relationship with a girl, she kind of gives you, like, a terms and conditions list, like,
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So you know what you can kind of get from your main girl, because, you know, in return,
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you're taking her out in public, whereas your side chick, she doesn't really care about
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being out in public, and she might do the things that your main girl might not.
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So that's kind of how she might have crept into, you know, being my side chick by doing
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Like, just accepting something and just being like, all right, cool.
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So then you were like, I need to find someone who gives me peace.
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And so why did you not promote the side chick to main?
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Because being a side chick, you can't really promote.
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I'll be putting them in the side chick friend zone, too.
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Once you're in there, you come in that gate, you leave in that gate.
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So you just won't ever respect them in that way.
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If it's a girl that you don't necessarily respect enough to be your actual wife, then that's
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It's like usually a Walmart version of your girlfriend.
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If your main girl leaves you and you splurge with your missus, the side chick is going to
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She gets demoted from side chick to sneaky link.
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So being on the other end of that, what was it like being a side chick?
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I think being a side chick, you still class yourself as even though you know you're side
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chick, you still like to think that you're their main girl or you're the person bringing
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You're never stepping out of that zone because you let yourself come into that zone.
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And I think a part of you still hopes that you might, they might promote you to their
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For me, it was, it was fine because I knew what I was getting into.
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I knew I was the side chick and I didn't want nothing else.
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But I think if you understand going in that you're not going to be upgraded and you're not
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emotionally attached to the person, like try not to get emotionally attached, then you
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I know you're fixing the camera, but I need you to pull the, yeah.
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It's called, um, side chicks have high self-esteem.
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And this is for all the women that think that side chicks have low self-esteem.
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I've heard that shit so many times in my life or when I talk about the women I've dated and
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shit and women say, I mean, that's that type of woman.
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I mean, you, you know, those women have low self-esteem to fuck with somebody like you and
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Let me explain this shit so y'all can finally get an understanding and understand that these
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First of all, a woman that is a quote unquote side chick, she doesn't go into this situation
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So, uh, I might as well latch on to somebody else shit or, uh, you know, uh, you know, I
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So I might as well deal with whoever will fuck with me.
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They attitude is like, well, shit, if he talking to me, if he giving me time and attention,
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if he willing to take me out, if he willing to spend money on me, somebody ain't handling
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And that might not be true, but this is how they think.
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He might like his chick, but when he get some of this pussy, you know what I'm saying?
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Or when, or when, when he get, when he get a dose of me, man, he ain't going home.
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He gonna, he gonna call her up like on Harlem nights.
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It's like, like, like, yeah, baby, I ain't coming home.
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So that's the, that's the mentality of a side chick.
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Not no, uh, ooh, I, I, I can't get a man of my own or, you know, all that kind of dumb
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If he barking up my tree, you know, he calling my phone all the fucking time.
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They damn near start feeling like, man, that can't be serious.
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You know, if he, if he coming at me this hard, they can't be straight, but never are these
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women all down and out feeling like they can't get another man or get a man of they
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Most of these women could, could deal with whoever they want to deal with, but not every
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And not only are, do a side chicks have high self-esteem, they're real good at math.
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Let me explain why side chicks are so good at math.
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I should have did the real numbers, but let's, let's just assume there's so many million men
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in the United States and so many million women.
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Now out of those millions of men, subtract the men that are married.
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Now, subtract the men that are under five foot five.
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Then subtract the men that are attractive or unattractive.
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Then subtract the people with disabilities, the males that are, you know, the disabled men.
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Then subtract the men that are, you know, either crazy or, you know, mentally disabled.
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So, now subtract all the men or males that are under, under 20, under, under 18, I should say.
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Now subtract the men that got jobs or, or, you know, the men that don't got jobs.
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Subtract the men who, subtract the men who, subtract the men who know how to talk to women.
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Then subtract the men who, uh, have an education, a high school diploma or a job.
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The point I'm trying to make is by the time you subtract all of these undesirable men, y'all have an extremely small pool.
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And then I ain't getting to the niggas in jail.
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So, y'all have the smallest pool of men to choose from.
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Men that you will actually want and be happy with are very, very limited in the United States.
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Really all over the world, but we're talking about here.
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So, now you're saying this woman that's a side chick, she got low self-esteem.
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I think she realized there is a limited amount of quality men.
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And if she's going to want one for herself, she's going to have to get out there and compete for him.
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And the women that say stupid shit, like, see, that's why I don't need no man.
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Because if you had high self-esteem, you wouldn't be afraid to get out here and compete.
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You wouldn't be afraid to get your hair done and your nails done and put on some clothes
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That's what the fuck I heard when you said, I just be by myself then.
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Because you don't think you got what it take to get a man.
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You don't think you got what it take to out-compete another woman.
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Somebody wasting my goddamn time blowing my phone up.
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