The RIDICULOUS Standards Women Have
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Summary
In this episode, we are joined by a very special guest who has been out with both females and males and has been in relationships with both sexes. We discuss what it's like being in a relationship with a woman and a man and how to deal with the pressures of being a woman in the modern dating world.
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okay so my first question would you date a bus driver no no if you're on the bus
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ah that's it's just so surface level to ask that though isn't it no there's bus drivers that are
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trying to take women on like like you guys on dates and they want to know if you would you know
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you would date them how much do bus drivers earn um there's probably like levels though isn't there
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like i mean i'm just gonna look it up bus driver's salary london ah 15 pounds an hour so like i mean
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so yes no i'm gonna say no now but it come back to me okay so no no i think i very much agree with
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with what she said like if you're passionate in what you do a lot of people earn way less than 15
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pounds an hour you're you're grafting and at the end of the day you might be able to change that later
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on down the line so yeah if i get along with you well you're presenting yourself or you're treating
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me well 100 yeah yeah no i would i i used to before i went out with with my my now partner who's who's a
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man i went out with two females and if if i said that i obviously when it was when i was with a woman
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obviously you know like we was 50 50 in and things like that so if i would do that with a woman then
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kind of sort of not i'm saying like i don't like being treated by a man but for me personally as
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someone who's been out with both females and males how can i hold a man to a higher standard of having
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to look after me when my previous partner who was a female didn't have to earn as much it would be for
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me personally stupid to say well yeah my man's got an x amount because i never asked that of my female
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partner so what i'd have to ask out of my male partner are your standards exactly the same when you
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look at men and women yeah i think so i think so i think so i never saw myself with a man so um
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so i think it took me by surprise so i think it's it's it's not you never so you were always like
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a lesbian before and then you found this guy and he was an exception yeah yeah yeah i don't think
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it was an exception because now i like obviously apart from i'm so sorry babe you are the only man i
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find attractive but like that obviously i'm like it's i wouldn't rule out ever like be just be like
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he's the only man ever do you know what i mean if that makes sense um but um yeah but i can't hold one in
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a certain respect without holding the other in the same respect so if i said to my female partner
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like you know yeah it's fine for you to earn the same as me and put 50 50 in then how can i not be
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like that with my man but that's just that's just i think a personal thing of going through that
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experience you know it's interesting because i've had other girls that were bi on the show and they
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actually said they had like higher standards for the guys than they do for the women i just i'm just
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realistic like i'm just logical like i think it's just logic that you know if you're going to go out with
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both then you can't have different standards can you because at the end of the day you're asking
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for the same thing which is love in in the same capacity that i would ask love from a woman is the
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same capacity that i would ask love from a man so how can i ask for different materialistic things
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if what i'm asking for is the same is the relationship dynamic the same when you go for men and women
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for me personally like the the females i went out with were kind of tomboyish so um i'd say that the
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dynamics were more similar than i expected okay um i i've always just been attracted to kind of like
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the leader of the group whoever that is whatever color ethnicity religion uh sex do you know what
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i mean i've always just been attracted to someone but not a leader as it makes the most money more as
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in character you know the the kind of brightest the brightest star in the room the the the brightest
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character so for me that's that's the most important thing rather than job okay uh would you date a bus
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driver yeah i date a bus driver is there any profession you wouldn't date um like adult stuff
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you know like of stuff oh no no or any any that type of stuff and anything that's like when they have
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to dress promiscuously or anything like this okay so no like uh do you guys have hooters here no okay
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hooters is like a booty shorts chain in the u.s where it's like it's like a weight like they're waitresses
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but they dress they wear like the orange stuff yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah that's hooters yeah bring
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it to the uk not degeneracy um okay um do you so outside of um just like promiscuous is there any
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other industry you wouldn't date um do you know what like you know if someone like worked in a zoo as
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well because i don't like i don't like the thought of like some animals in captivity against their will and
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stuff i think that's a bit mad okay and if they were like pro that i'll be like okay morally i might
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say a bit bad wow that's like a very random i don't know i just i just i didn't really think about
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answering the question yeah um okay uh what about you would you date a bus driver i would as she said
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he's passionate and he's a family man and he respects his mom absolutely i it's fine because i think the
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goal is to find a respectful man that can treat you well um other than a job we could fix that later on
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it's fine if you haven't no no no no no fixing it it's like he's a bus driver the rest of his life
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that's fine that's fine are you does that switch your answer bus driver the rest of his life no it
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doesn't no no you slow date him yeah okay uh what about you um if he had plans to leave the bus driver
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job then i would date him but if he's planning to stay there for the rest of his life unfortunately i
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couldn't date him because i feel like 15 pounds an hour for the rest of your life isn't really good
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plus the long hours and um i'm gonna be completely honest with you like ask me if i would date uh
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bus drivers like ask him a man would you date like a porn star like in society ways it's a little bit
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like you know is the equivalent of a porn i mean obviously like is a more like we need bus drivers
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yes it's actually a very needed role yeah yeah but like to to equate a bus driver to the like to bottom
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like 10 percent of females yeah but we need porn as well men need porn so that's how i said you might
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have survived for most of history without corn say corn sorry corn yeah for me personally i'm not gonna
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sit here and lie and be like oh my gosh i would personally i just feel like if he had plans to leave
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it then yeah because it's just like 15 pounds an hour for the rest of your life isn't really it i'm not
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well my boyfriend's a rapper so i'll say a musician how successful is the musician though um they're
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both average bus driver average musician so however successful i could look up the average
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musician i feel like musician would be more fun i feel like bus drivers like i might get in the
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music video i might have like a say but if a bus driver's like you're just taking the same route
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all the time i can't really come with you either um but if it's an average musician then yeah if it's
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like a big musician and i don't really know because they're a bit here and there you know
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what about you i'm guessing we're talking about people at the start of their music career that are like
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you know the guys are like yeah i want to be a i'm an aspiring rapper and they're like starting out
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and it's like they're gonna stay that way could be a country singer i don't know okay but but they're
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gonna stay at average right that's the question forever i think i'm in this case i think actually
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rather the bus driver because at least nobody's seeing him all the time all over the place
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yeah probably yeah i think i'm gonna say bus driver because i understand the industry
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and i'm just yeah i'm way too jealous of a person to even get with someone who
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who does music is around women all the time etc it's a lot to take on so yeah bus driver
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i'm gonna have to say musician otherwise i'm gonna get some really bad texas after this show
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i'll say um a musician you know if it's like an average musician there's like like not saying that
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people do wedding ones are like um average but i mean it gives you more freedom because i want to just
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do my stuff and go on holidays and this and that if they're a bus driver they go ask how are you
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going to fund the holidays if me can't oh yeah you yeah i'm sorry i'm forgetting that you're a guy
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answering it um depending are they making the same by the way the average musician and average bus driver
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is it the same income salary salary average salary of a musician let's see london i got you
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just feel like with musicians you don't even make money in the beginning it's 44 000 pounds a year
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but if it's like kind of the same salary then i think this one says 29 000 that sounds more right
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yeah i think if it's the same salary i wouldn't mind i think with a musician i would have more quality time
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than the bus driver um but i don't mind a bus driver either just at least with the musician i think i
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will have more quality time in this case i will actually date the bus driver only because i like
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peace and i feel like musicians let's be real we know what they're about they're out with girl you
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know they're cheating all the time um the more money a man makes the more likely he is to cheat and me i i
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i'm too emotional for all of that like i like my mental um health to be steady so yeah it would have to
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be the bus driver but i still wouldn't be as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are
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