JustPearlyThings - The Rise Of Single And Childless Women

00:00:00.000 on top of that their higher body count is linked to depression for women 0.99

00:00:04.560 and women married in their mid-20s where they haven't lived with a guy before 0.96

00:00:10.640 is have the lowest rate of divorce

00:00:12.800 wait wait wait yes in their mid-20s who haven't lived with anyone so the lowest for divorce yeah

00:00:23.800 wow that's one that actually surprises me yeah you think that you think it'd be higher when

00:00:28.300 i thought it would be higher because i thought it would be one of those things where like

00:00:31.660 again grass is greener and if you haven't lived with a guy and you live with a guy and all of a

00:00:36.260 sudden you now realize that living with a guy obviously has a downfall but messy creatures

00:00:40.600 yeah but i think you also if a girl's lived with a guy she's probably lived with other guys

00:00:45.840 so it's more than more to compare it to but that's that's the problem with women when we when we sleep 1.00

00:00:51.280 with more people we we compare them and that's why you you see girls when they're younger they're like 1.00

00:00:58.000 oh i just hope he's cute and by the time they're 36 six feet six inches six figures

00:01:02.800 and when they're when they're 18 they're like oh i just hope he's cute enough

00:01:07.460 and it's true because when i get when i get people on my show the i've just noticed

00:01:12.440 it assuming they're not in the super like i know the girls that they bring on like fresh and fit and 1.00

00:01:19.820 stuff or have a lot of standards but i've just noticed if they're younger they just the list is

00:01:25.680 shorter yeah i think that's because they haven't explored much yet as well you don't know what's

00:01:30.060 out there yeah i don't know what's out there but we're we're we compare that's why social media affects

00:01:35.140 us so much and so we we compare the guys too because there's a little theory that i've been

00:01:41.400 thinking of right and it's like wow because um you know it goes back to the whole guys illogical

00:01:47.000 girls uh the thing with emotion so guys for the most part well not for the most part a lot of guys

00:01:52.980 will have the quote unquote whole phase right that's just the thing that that that kind of

00:01:57.320 happens right you go the whole phase is well for a lot of guys that i know is when you go from

00:02:04.220 not as attractive to the populace to an increase in attractiveness and now you want to venture in

00:02:13.180 how far you can go with this increased attractiveness in the field so you kind of just keep going right

00:02:19.120 you kind of just keep going you trying to see oh can i push even more oh can i talk to disco

00:02:24.580 are you in a club oh am i hot enough to talk to her do i have enough games to talk to her oh yes okay

00:02:30.060 cool going back to mine okay cool and it's like it really is a game yeah one thing i will say is

00:02:35.860 not a lot of guys do that yeah that more than you think no it's less than you think really well one

00:02:42.540 one in three men under 30 are virgin oh yeah with that yeah and most guys are invisible with that yeah

00:02:47.900 so you might find the people in your circle are doing that maybe and the people around you are able

00:02:52.540 to do that but a lot of guys can't do what you're saying i should say you're a basketball player as well

00:02:57.320 yeah i'm in the i'm in the fields but but that's also that's also wasn't the field

00:03:02.240 but that's also because men their their smv goes up later in life as i showed you guys with the graph

00:03:15.020 so when you see guys get like a midlife crisis have you ever have you ever heard of that term 0.87

00:03:20.520 midlife crisis yeah that's men thinking oh shit this is what it's like to get female attention 1.00

00:03:25.860 let me let me go buy the sports car let me go because we get that from from the job i mean i 0.99

00:03:32.060 don't know how old you guys were the first time guys started hitting on you but i remember being

00:03:36.180 like 15 and i was like wait what this is like a whole different world and and and but that that

00:03:44.320 doesn't happen to guys and that's so normal to us and so when it happens for guys later they kind of

00:03:51.160 as he said you go wild because you have to ask the guys the same question when was the first time

00:03:54.700 you ever got hit on by a girl yeah

00:04:00.900 see i'm 26 now so it was about 24 i mean it doesn't it doesn't happen that much it doesn't

00:04:09.200 get hit on by a girl like because the thing is yeah the thing is with girls girls like if they hit on 1.00

00:04:17.800 you they're not going to directly hit on you no way jonathan it's not like how i would come up to

00:04:23.260 you and be like oh yo what's your number do you get me like it's not going to be direct it'll

00:04:27.840 she'll kind of like give you a leeway for you to hit on her 1.00

00:04:32.300 it was one of those ones where um they were like i move to guys all the time yeah and i was like okay

00:04:40.140 cool how many times have you all your friends walked up to the guy and started the conversation

00:04:44.200 and kept it going um well um i don't actually do that but i have moved to guys before it's like

00:04:50.700 so moving to guys for girls is like it's showing them that you're there that you're there i'm

00:04:57.260 available for you to me for you to me i have a question for the women when did you realize 0.98

00:05:03.340 like dudes starting to hit on you mine was probably maybe like 16 17 i had to get a glow up a little bit

00:05:14.520 so you know yeah i would say 17 as well 17 18 like 15 16 okay guys 24 25 for me it was like 18 19 it

00:05:26.060 wasn't until i got into like my first and second year of college yeah yeah i was a tomboy all

00:05:31.240 throughout my life yeah well i'm trying to think that was when creepy guys started to hit on me in 15

00:05:38.400 and it wasn't guys i liked it it was what we call in the uk nonsense

00:05:43.360 um so then the next and people will argue whether or not this is red pill but the next red pill moment

00:05:55.040 that i had was that the pay gap doesn't exist it doesn't exist yeah okay so yeah so and that women 1.00

00:06:02.740 arguably have more power in society than men we talked about this last time so i think when you put

00:06:12.320 the statistics up i was like well when you put it like that that is very true so yeah i don't think

00:06:18.840 um there is a pay gap yeah it's really weird it's like some of the stuff they leave out it's just like

00:06:26.780 how can you leave that out and have a genuine honest conversation i think they do it to get money out of

00:06:31.180 it like feminists i think they they use the pay gap to get money there's no way they can be 1.00

00:06:36.380 putting that stat on such a big platform like if i even say one stat that's a little off i get comment

00:06:42.460 after comment after comment telling me where i went wrong so i don't know how i don't know how and yeah

00:06:48.640 usually they don't really talk about the why i said they don't really talk about the why maybe it is

00:06:52.900 because of the money um i think i remember watching uh jordan peterson

00:06:58.100 and um and he was talking to a woman about it and she was she wanted him to acknowledge that it's there

00:07:04.340 was it the blonde one or the brunette one 1.00

00:07:06.300 uh it was channel four oh oh yeah that's the that's the one we watched jess the first one

00:07:13.920 the second one the kathy newman kathy newman and i think it was a thing of what you're trying to say

00:07:20.300 yeah yeah yeah yeah that's the one yeah yeah so i think it's the thing of they want people to just

00:07:26.100 be like oh it's there and that's the problem it's there like i've but then obviously he jordan

00:07:32.700 peterson was talking about you have to talk about why if there's always a why do you understand so

00:07:37.280 nothing happens because it just happens yeah like you have to understand why and the math behind

00:07:43.380 yeah because they because basically like they don't take into account when they when they do the pay gap

00:07:47.880 all they did was divide how much how many women there are based on how much the average they just 1.00

00:07:53.820 took the average of how much women make and the average of how much men make put them together and

00:07:57.760 said oh there's a gap it must be discrimination but what they didn't talk about was

00:08:02.700 who works longer hours what jobs do they pick are their personality traits that that

00:08:08.440 increase that make it harder for women to make more money and so one of those is the trade agreeableness

00:08:14.240 so it women 60 of women have never asked for a raise and they'll quit their job before they ask for a 1.00

00:08:22.880 raise so the trade agreeableness is basically like your ability i think jordan peterson says it means

00:08:29.700 you're kind caring compassion and polite and those people work better with people but they don't ask

00:08:34.260 for raises and they don't take control of situations as well it's kind of like i always say on a

00:08:40.400 basketball team the bitchiest girl is always the captain because she's always the one that's going 1.00

00:08:47.420 to take charge yeah and that's and that's a really good trait to make money yeah and and men tend to do 0.88

00:08:54.660 that more on a law of averages okay so between that they work longer hours they pick harder jobs of

00:09:01.260 course they're going to make more money and it's funny because you see women complaining about the 1.00

00:09:07.140 pay gap but they never talk about the gap um and between women make more money in modeling 1.00

00:09:12.820 where's the equality i work in construction i'm a quantity surveyor i'm i'm also studying

00:09:20.660 and when i tell you in a class full of like a hundred people i can assure you there's about

00:09:26.280 eight girls in the entire class right and i think that's pushing it and maybe like nine maybe six

00:09:32.680 but like there's not many and what i do makes a lot of money yeah and it's like okay if i know that

00:09:40.860 right and these girls who are in this room know that and it's the thing when everyone knows that

00:09:45.300 once you get qualified from this and once i get charted my pay raise basically doubles if i want to

00:09:49.960 go other places right because i'm basically i've become a specialist but it's like if you're not

00:09:56.520 putting the work to become that specialist to become that person that is sought after value wise

00:10:01.220 monetarily wise then how can you say that you deserve the money because it's like i if i put in

00:10:07.540 six extra hours in a week than you do how many more hours does that add up to in a month

00:10:14.020 how many more hours does that add up to in six months yeah and in two years we'll never catch up

00:10:19.380 never catch up and there's also the problem where they can't keep women over a certain age 0.81

00:10:25.420 jordan peterson talks about how there were lawyers in canada like high paying professional lawyers

00:10:31.760 and over it was like 30 to 35 they couldn't pay these women to stay because they said okay i have

00:10:38.700 more money than i know what to do with i want to go spend time with my family they can't pay to keep

00:10:44.280 them and that goes into the personal choices females females really in that they want to be around 1.00

00:10:52.880 family and if they can you know take time off to be to have a family and it's not the weirdest thing

00:10:58.200 about the the the um wage gap thing they don't even take into account i was worked yeah like we can

00:11:06.900 be in the same job but i have a 40 hour a week contract and you have a 30 hour a week contract and they

00:11:12.100 won't even take into account the 10 hours contracted difference between you guys they would just say

00:11:16.520 that oh you made more money than i made more money than you and you're in the same position how dare i

00:11:21.020 it's like um you work four days a week i work five

00:11:24.120 of course i'm gonna get paid more than you why would i not pay more than you and once you start to see

00:11:31.160 this you start to realize that everything in society is female centric because women make 70 to 80 0.96

00:11:37.780 percent of consumer buying decisions so every scene everything we see in the media is geared towards 0.67

00:11:43.440 women so think about it do do men want to see fat chicks on the cover of magazines sports magazines 1.00

00:11:50.240 yeah do they want do they want to see ashley graham or is that smash or pass ashley graham

00:11:57.120 playboys moving mad what did they do in the last in the last uh playboy i don't know

00:12:02.240 i think it was i think it was i think it was a sports illustration when they had the old woman

00:12:07.760 because the sports illustration one is one but like this was like playboy's last attempt to like

00:12:12.260 be back in like the mainstream and i think they got i think it was james charles

00:12:16.420 the gay youtuber guy the makeup the makeup guy he was like the first boy on yeah cover girl 0.91

00:12:29.080 oh i think i see i think i remember because the thing is let's not get it twisted i rate james

00:12:34.200 charles right person as a human being is what he does but like there's a time and a place

00:12:38.400 to put certain things right and that just just isn't it oh because misogynistic it's like

00:12:43.940 i'm not putting a sweaty dwayne the rock johnson with his shirt ripped off on the front of a

00:12:48.980 cooking book because he's just does shouldn't be there like yeah like sure he you can put him

00:12:54.100 there but doesn't mean you should that makes sense men are 23 times more likely to die in the workplace

00:13:01.140 than women but you never see any marches about this wow people people men get four times

00:13:11.380 the amount of jail for the same four times the amount of sentencing for the same crime than women 1.00

00:13:18.260 i can see that amber heard still out here yeah she will amber had walked i mean she's broke now but

00:13:26.360 she's not in jail yeah that's it the um australia uh uh they might do it for perjury crazy oh really

00:13:34.340 yeah because you know how she lied about her dogs yeah in australia i think after the whole thing went

00:13:41.300 down with the trial i think they're gonna actually bring her up in the line to the police about

00:13:45.620 bringing her dogs in yeah i mean they should i hope so i hope they do but and even even the me too

00:13:52.100 movement was that fair believe all women was that fair and imagine imagine if the the slogan was believe

00:13:59.940 all men imagine no but just just just just laughing here like whenever i flip something it's never

00:14:09.700 okay like i'll have girls on this show come on and say yeah like i hit him but like i've had girls admit

00:14:16.020 to abuse on this show and i always think if he came in and admitted to abuse

00:14:20.740 but women admit to it all the time even even cheating if a man's a cheater everyone tears him 1.00

00:14:32.420 down on social media if a woman cheats admits look at the comment section on tick tock it'll always 0.97

00:14:37.860 someone has an excuse for well maybe she wasn't happy maybe this maybe like but for men did you see

00:14:44.180 that video of those two girls who um it's an american podcast and they basically said if you cheat on your

00:14:50.100 wife you're a bad father it's like huh because you're not respecting her mother the mother of

00:14:56.580 your child it has nothing to do nothing to do yeah the child or being a parent yeah does that mean i'm 0.97

00:15:02.020 a shitty husband maybe but but that doesn't mean you're bad father by any means by any means yeah i

00:15:09.940 could be there every single day but just because i cheat on you doesn't mean i cheat on a kid as many 0.99

00:15:13.700 of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this

00:15:20.020 platform if you want to help please consider sending a super thanks below every donation helps and it

00:15:27.140 helps make what we do possible

JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023

The Rise Of Single And Childless Women

Episode Stats

Summary

Transcript