The Rise Of Single And Childless Women
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In this episode, we have special guest, Jaron jonathan on the show. Jaron is a social media influencer, entrepreneur, and entrepreneur who has been in the business for a long time.
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on top of that their higher body count is linked to depression for women
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and women married in their mid-20s where they haven't lived with a guy before
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wait wait wait yes in their mid-20s who haven't lived with anyone so the lowest for divorce yeah
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wow that's one that actually surprises me yeah you think that you think it'd be higher when
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i thought it would be higher because i thought it would be one of those things where like
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again grass is greener and if you haven't lived with a guy and you live with a guy and all of a
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sudden you now realize that living with a guy obviously has a downfall but messy creatures
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yeah but i think you also if a girl's lived with a guy she's probably lived with other guys
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so it's more than more to compare it to but that's that's the problem with women when we when we sleep
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with more people we we compare them and that's why you you see girls when they're younger they're like
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oh i just hope he's cute and by the time they're 36 six feet six inches six figures
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and when they're when they're 18 they're like oh i just hope he's cute enough
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and it's true because when i get when i get people on my show the i've just noticed
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it assuming they're not in the super like i know the girls that they bring on like fresh and fit and
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stuff or have a lot of standards but i've just noticed if they're younger they just the list is
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shorter yeah i think that's because they haven't explored much yet as well you don't know what's
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out there yeah i don't know what's out there but we're we're we compare that's why social media affects
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us so much and so we we compare the guys too because there's a little theory that i've been
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thinking of right and it's like wow because um you know it goes back to the whole guys illogical
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girls uh the thing with emotion so guys for the most part well not for the most part a lot of guys
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will have the quote unquote whole phase right that's just the thing that that that kind of
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happens right you go the whole phase is well for a lot of guys that i know is when you go from
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not as attractive to the populace to an increase in attractiveness and now you want to venture in
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how far you can go with this increased attractiveness in the field so you kind of just keep going right
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you kind of just keep going you trying to see oh can i push even more oh can i talk to disco
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are you in a club oh am i hot enough to talk to her do i have enough games to talk to her oh yes okay
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cool going back to mine okay cool and it's like it really is a game yeah one thing i will say is
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not a lot of guys do that yeah that more than you think no it's less than you think really well one
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one in three men under 30 are virgin oh yeah with that yeah and most guys are invisible with that yeah
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so you might find the people in your circle are doing that maybe and the people around you are able
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to do that but a lot of guys can't do what you're saying i should say you're a basketball player as well
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yeah i'm in the i'm in the fields but but that's also that's also wasn't the field
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but that's also because men their their smv goes up later in life as i showed you guys with the graph
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so when you see guys get like a midlife crisis have you ever have you ever heard of that term
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midlife crisis yeah that's men thinking oh shit this is what it's like to get female attention
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let me let me go buy the sports car let me go because we get that from from the job i mean i
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don't know how old you guys were the first time guys started hitting on you but i remember being
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like 15 and i was like wait what this is like a whole different world and and and but that that
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doesn't happen to guys and that's so normal to us and so when it happens for guys later they kind of
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as he said you go wild because you have to ask the guys the same question when was the first time
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see i'm 26 now so it was about 24 i mean it doesn't it doesn't happen that much it doesn't
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get hit on by a girl like because the thing is yeah the thing is with girls girls like if they hit on
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you they're not going to directly hit on you no way jonathan it's not like how i would come up to
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you and be like oh yo what's your number do you get me like it's not going to be direct it'll
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she'll kind of like give you a leeway for you to hit on her
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it was one of those ones where um they were like i move to guys all the time yeah and i was like okay
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cool how many times have you all your friends walked up to the guy and started the conversation
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and kept it going um well um i don't actually do that but i have moved to guys before it's like
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so moving to guys for girls is like it's showing them that you're there that you're there i'm
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available for you to me for you to me i have a question for the women when did you realize
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like dudes starting to hit on you mine was probably maybe like 16 17 i had to get a glow up a little bit
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so you know yeah i would say 17 as well 17 18 like 15 16 okay guys 24 25 for me it was like 18 19 it
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wasn't until i got into like my first and second year of college yeah yeah i was a tomboy all
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throughout my life yeah well i'm trying to think that was when creepy guys started to hit on me in 15
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and it wasn't guys i liked it it was what we call in the uk nonsense
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um so then the next and people will argue whether or not this is red pill but the next red pill moment
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that i had was that the pay gap doesn't exist it doesn't exist yeah okay so yeah so and that women
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arguably have more power in society than men we talked about this last time so i think when you put
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the statistics up i was like well when you put it like that that is very true so yeah i don't think
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um there is a pay gap yeah it's really weird it's like some of the stuff they leave out it's just like
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how can you leave that out and have a genuine honest conversation i think they do it to get money out of
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it like feminists i think they they use the pay gap to get money there's no way they can be
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putting that stat on such a big platform like if i even say one stat that's a little off i get comment
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after comment after comment telling me where i went wrong so i don't know how i don't know how and yeah
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usually they don't really talk about the why i said they don't really talk about the why maybe it is
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because of the money um i think i remember watching uh jordan peterson
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and um and he was talking to a woman about it and she was she wanted him to acknowledge that it's there
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uh it was channel four oh oh yeah that's the that's the one we watched jess the first one
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the second one the kathy newman kathy newman and i think it was a thing of what you're trying to say
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yeah yeah yeah yeah that's the one yeah yeah so i think it's the thing of they want people to just
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be like oh it's there and that's the problem it's there like i've but then obviously he jordan
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peterson was talking about you have to talk about why if there's always a why do you understand so
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nothing happens because it just happens yeah like you have to understand why and the math behind
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yeah because they because basically like they don't take into account when they when they do the pay gap
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all they did was divide how much how many women there are based on how much the average they just
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took the average of how much women make and the average of how much men make put them together and
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said oh there's a gap it must be discrimination but what they didn't talk about was
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who works longer hours what jobs do they pick are their personality traits that that
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increase that make it harder for women to make more money and so one of those is the trade agreeableness
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so it women 60 of women have never asked for a raise and they'll quit their job before they ask for a
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raise so the trade agreeableness is basically like your ability i think jordan peterson says it means
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you're kind caring compassion and polite and those people work better with people but they don't ask
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for raises and they don't take control of situations as well it's kind of like i always say on a
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basketball team the bitchiest girl is always the captain because she's always the one that's going
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to take charge yeah and that's and that's a really good trait to make money yeah and and men tend to do
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that more on a law of averages okay so between that they work longer hours they pick harder jobs of
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course they're going to make more money and it's funny because you see women complaining about the
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pay gap but they never talk about the gap um and between women make more money in modeling
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where's the equality i work in construction i'm a quantity surveyor i'm i'm also studying
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and when i tell you in a class full of like a hundred people i can assure you there's about
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eight girls in the entire class right and i think that's pushing it and maybe like nine maybe six
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but like there's not many and what i do makes a lot of money yeah and it's like okay if i know that
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right and these girls who are in this room know that and it's the thing when everyone knows that
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once you get qualified from this and once i get charted my pay raise basically doubles if i want to
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go other places right because i'm basically i've become a specialist but it's like if you're not
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putting the work to become that specialist to become that person that is sought after value wise
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monetarily wise then how can you say that you deserve the money because it's like i if i put in
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six extra hours in a week than you do how many more hours does that add up to in a month
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how many more hours does that add up to in six months yeah and in two years we'll never catch up
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never catch up and there's also the problem where they can't keep women over a certain age
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jordan peterson talks about how there were lawyers in canada like high paying professional lawyers
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and over it was like 30 to 35 they couldn't pay these women to stay because they said okay i have
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more money than i know what to do with i want to go spend time with my family they can't pay to keep
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them and that goes into the personal choices females females really in that they want to be around
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family and if they can you know take time off to be to have a family and it's not the weirdest thing
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about the the the um wage gap thing they don't even take into account i was worked yeah like we can
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be in the same job but i have a 40 hour a week contract and you have a 30 hour a week contract and they
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won't even take into account the 10 hours contracted difference between you guys they would just say
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that oh you made more money than i made more money than you and you're in the same position how dare i
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it's like um you work four days a week i work five
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of course i'm gonna get paid more than you why would i not pay more than you and once you start to see
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this you start to realize that everything in society is female centric because women make 70 to 80
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percent of consumer buying decisions so every scene everything we see in the media is geared towards
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women so think about it do do men want to see fat chicks on the cover of magazines sports magazines
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yeah do they want do they want to see ashley graham or is that smash or pass ashley graham
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playboys moving mad what did they do in the last in the last uh playboy i don't know
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i think it was i think it was i think it was a sports illustration when they had the old woman
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because the sports illustration one is one but like this was like playboy's last attempt to like
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be back in like the mainstream and i think they got i think it was james charles
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the gay youtuber guy the makeup the makeup guy he was like the first boy on yeah cover girl
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oh i think i see i think i remember because the thing is let's not get it twisted i rate james
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charles right person as a human being is what he does but like there's a time and a place
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to put certain things right and that just just isn't it oh because misogynistic it's like
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i'm not putting a sweaty dwayne the rock johnson with his shirt ripped off on the front of a
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cooking book because he's just does shouldn't be there like yeah like sure he you can put him
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there but doesn't mean you should that makes sense men are 23 times more likely to die in the workplace
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than women but you never see any marches about this wow people people men get four times
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the amount of jail for the same four times the amount of sentencing for the same crime than women
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i can see that amber heard still out here yeah she will amber had walked i mean she's broke now but
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she's not in jail yeah that's it the um australia uh uh they might do it for perjury crazy oh really
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yeah because you know how she lied about her dogs yeah in australia i think after the whole thing went
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down with the trial i think they're gonna actually bring her up in the line to the police about
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bringing her dogs in yeah i mean they should i hope so i hope they do but and even even the me too
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movement was that fair believe all women was that fair and imagine imagine if the the slogan was believe
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all men imagine no but just just just just laughing here like whenever i flip something it's never
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okay like i'll have girls on this show come on and say yeah like i hit him but like i've had girls admit
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to abuse on this show and i always think if he came in and admitted to abuse
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but women admit to it all the time even even cheating if a man's a cheater everyone tears him
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down on social media if a woman cheats admits look at the comment section on tick tock it'll always
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someone has an excuse for well maybe she wasn't happy maybe this maybe like but for men did you see
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that video of those two girls who um it's an american podcast and they basically said if you cheat on your
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wife you're a bad father it's like huh because you're not respecting her mother the mother of
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your child it has nothing to do nothing to do yeah the child or being a parent yeah does that mean i'm
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a shitty husband maybe but but that doesn't mean you're bad father by any means by any means yeah i
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could be there every single day but just because i cheat on you doesn't mean i cheat on a kid as many
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of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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