JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023


The Room went Silent After Pearl said this

Topics
pink tax
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Drake Kevin Samuels Aziz Ansari Jess
What Women SHOULD BRING In A RELATIONSHIP Aunty Jenny Got Tired Of Her BS

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Length

13 minutes

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191.18

Word count

2,639

Sentence count

265

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

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Toxicity

15

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Hate speech

30

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about the dangers of having sex with your partner while on a date, why it's a bad idea, and why you should never do it in front of your partner. We also talk about a woman who accused Drake of using hot sauce in his condom and why he should be fired.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 endable in society. If there's a boat going down, who gets off first? The women and the children. 1.00
00:00:06.640 If there's a fire, you guys go first. If King Kong comes to break down the whole thing,
00:00:11.720 you have to escort you guys out first.
00:00:15.600 And it goes, so going off of feminism, so feminism encouraged women basically to sleep around, 1.00
00:00:23.920 right? Which we went over, that has negative consequences, to chase their career over a
00:00:28.920 family and prioritize that first, which single childless women over the age of 45 are the least 0.73
00:00:35.580 happy. And on top of that, they wanted abortion as a fail safe. So they pushed for abortion rights. 0.79
00:00:47.340 And abortion is the ultimate form of hypergamy. So it's basically saying that guy is not good
00:00:54.800 enough to be a father. Because if a girl's obsessed with a guy, she's carrying his kid. 0.99
00:00:58.940 He can't convince her to abort it.
00:01:00.320 How many of those cases where the guy has to pay... I can't even think of the word.
00:01:13.300 Child support.
00:01:14.260 How many other child support cases do you think is from a child that was born because the 0.95
00:01:18.560 mom wanted it and the dad didn't?
00:01:19.720 I mean, they'll steal condoms to get it. If they want to carry a dude's kid, a girl will 1.00
00:01:27.300 jump over hoops to carry it.
00:01:30.120 If she wants to carry it and she's already pregnant, she's holding it. 1.00
00:01:32.580 Yeah.
00:01:33.340 That's what happened to what... Did you hear about that thing with Drake? It was a while
00:01:37.440 back.
00:01:37.860 Yeah.
00:01:38.560 Where he put hot sauce in the condom.
00:01:39.860 Yeah. Because she was trying to keep it.
00:01:43.440 And he put hot sauce in the condom.
00:01:44.240 Women will say, well, he shouldn't be sleeping with women like that. And it's like, how... 1.00
00:01:50.320 Someone said it on the last podcast and I was sitting in the corner. I was like, how can
00:01:53.380 you say that? I'm like, obviously it's Drake and he's not going to be like, well, hey, are
00:01:58.480 you going to try to take my sperm out the condom and insert it in you after this? Drake's 0.98
00:02:04.100 going to do what he wants to do because he's in that position to do that.
00:02:08.500 Yeah. And it's like, nobody looked at the female like, why are you doing that? Like,
00:02:13.580 why is that? Like, not looking at her like, that's crazy that you actually went in the
00:02:20.000 bathroom and was like, I'm going to trap Drake because he's Drake.
00:02:24.400 Yeah. But it's the fact that she can actually go to like, and try to press charges on him.
00:02:29.580 Yeah.
00:02:30.140 That is the audacity for you to think through that, what exactly what you just explained
00:02:35.400 that she did. And then for her to even have the audacity to even go and press charges on 1.00
00:02:40.000 him. Like he's done something.
00:02:41.680 Like you did it. Do you guys hear about the Aziz Ansari story a while back?
00:02:48.760 Oh, the comedian who basically canceled because he had a bad date with a girl.
00:02:52.800 Yeah. Like she, he was pressuring her. He was like, he was pressuring her, but pressuring
00:02:59.160 isn't assault. Don't get me wrong. It's annoying. It is irritating. I'm sure every girl in this 1.00
00:03:06.220 room has been like, been in a situation where a guy just won't leave it alone, but we're not
00:03:10.520 going to put it on the men. Cause like you put yourself in that situation, you can leave.
00:03:14.500 Um, they gave each other oral sex, like at least three times each. And then she made 0.99
00:03:20.460 an anonymous like twit log.
00:03:22.680 Oh, she gave him, I thought, I thought he was like pushing her to do it.
00:03:26.780 And they both did it through each other. They were drinking wine.
00:03:28.760 That just makes it worse.
00:03:29.840 They went, they were, they were in, from my recollection, they were in a, she took on a
00:03:33.440 date. Um, he kind of rushed through the dinner because obviously I think his mind was somewhere
00:03:38.300 else and it was part of the whole forcing thing, right? Or rushing. So he was rushing through
00:03:42.320 the bottle of wine. He wanted to bring the bottle of wine home. They get, they get home,
00:03:45.080 they started drinking. She says that she's somewhat uncomfortable. Well, according to
00:03:49.340 her story, um, but then they start, uh, kissing and she gets more slightly more comfortable 0.98
00:03:56.880 with it to the point where they give each other oral sex, like three or four times each. 0.99
00:04:00.840 Right. So she gives it to him, he gives it to her. And then, uh, like a few weeks, months 0.99
00:04:06.620 passed and then she made like a Twitter, a Twitter post basically saying, oh, this guy, 0.99
00:04:11.080 like, oh, Aziz Ansari should be counseled because he forced me into giving him oral sex 0.99
00:04:15.140 three times. It's like, uh, first of all, no one forced you to do that. I think you just, 0.99
00:04:25.020 you just did it.
00:04:25.900 It's social pressure, sure, but you don't have to give into that. So you understand it,
00:04:29.800 man. Like it's weird.
00:04:32.540 But like we live in a, we live in a society where a girl can do an, like imagine if a 1.00
00:04:37.940 guy did that, she pressured, like basically she pressured me or she pressured me into sex. 1.00
00:04:46.040 Yeah. Cause I know a lot, I know, I'm not sure. Let me, let me not say with chats, but I know
00:04:52.160 there's a lot of guys, maybe both of you guys in this room who've had stories where you were
00:04:56.140 pressured by her. She put on you, big man. It wasn't you on her. He's laughing cause he
00:05:01.780 knows. The thing is he's laughing cause he knows. Like a lot of guys have gone through
00:05:06.020 that situation where low key, it wasn't me that insinuated this low key. Obviously I'm going to go with it
00:05:13.520 cause I'm a man and you know, being, being, but low key, you pushed it on me. But if I was to,
00:05:20.300 then the next day it'd be like, Oh my, I didn't actually want to have sense in you.
00:05:29.800 It's weird though. Like it's so, it's so weird. Cause once you see this, you can't unsee it.
00:05:34.580 That's the thing. And it's, it's every, it's literally everywhere in society. And it's crazy too,
00:05:42.880 because we're incentivized for bad behavior. So if we get, we're a single mom, like what we get
00:05:50.600 child support for 18 years. So, so we're paid to be single mothers. Like how, how, how insane is 0.74
00:06:00.180 that? If we, if we sleep with the, with the rapper and we get a kid off of him, we get a bag for 18
00:06:07.400 years. Yeah. What did, what did Kevin Samuel say about, um, future in his 10 wife? Was it Kevin
00:06:14.440 Samuel? It was like, everyone gets on future five and 10 kids, but no one gets on all the nine girls 0.90
00:06:20.960 after the first one. Right. Cause there's, there's always an excuse for women. Like if a, if a man's 1.00
00:06:26.220 sleeping around, we, we hear that all the time, Jess, Oh, he shouldn't be sleeping around. He should
00:06:30.180 wrap it. But when a girl gets pregnant, if I say, okay, that's your own fault. Um, you put yourself in 0.99
00:06:36.420 that situation. Um, there's a million firms of birth control. You could have tried. You also
00:06:40.540 could have an abortion worst case. So if you're a single mom, I don't feel bad for you because you
00:06:44.820 chose that. And if, if you picked the wrong guy, I don't feel bad for you either because you need
00:06:49.860 to learn to pick better. That's your own, that's your own five empathy for you. But like you made
00:06:53.860 your bed, but that's crazy. But when we, I say, well, whenever I show empathy to men, the first
00:07:01.180 reaction is, Oh, well he shouldn't sleep around. Yeah. But if I say that about women, it's, 1.00
00:07:08.140 it's like people, people freak out. I think, I think nowadays women expect to be cuddled for 1.00
00:07:13.980 their bad choices. Yeah. They expect other women to understand, you'll understand you're 1.00
00:07:18.780 a woman. So, so it's like, I think when, especially when a woman checks, especially, I think I've 0.99
00:07:24.400 watched a few episodes that you checked a couple of girls. When a woman checks a girl, it's like, 1.00
00:07:30.100 they kind of can't believe it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. How dare you talk to me? How can you tell,
00:07:34.320 how can you tell me about my bullshit? How dare you go against a sisterhood? How dare you? 1.00
00:07:38.080 Yeah. I mean, I've had girls blame their debt on the fact that we couldn't vote in the twenties. 1.00
00:07:44.720 I'm like, what the, you were there that episode. You were there, you were absolutely there that
00:07:49.380 episode. It was one of the first ones. Blame the debt on you. Yeah. Cause that's, that's the
00:07:56.260 other thing. Like single women spend way too much money. We own two thirds of consumer debt. 1.00
00:08:02.720 Even though we make $10,000 less per year than men. That's a pink tax. Have you looked at the 0.56
00:08:08.780 men and the female deodorant or razors or anything? It's not a pink seat. Like you're taking
00:08:12.940 accountability off of women. I'm saying in terms of business, cause back when I studied business, 1.00
00:08:18.320 it's literally called a pink tax. You can sell the same thing. I can sell the same razor and I can
00:08:23.140 charge a woman 10% more because she will buy it. Yeah. Yeah. Because they raise it's supply and 0.99
00:08:28.860 demand. Like women, women will buy it. That's the point. If we didn't buy it, they would lower the 1.00
00:08:33.360 prices. Like right. Is it right God? And no product placement. There's one deodorant that I think they
00:08:41.100 did a study on it and it's the men and the women ones the same thing, but the women's one is actually
00:08:45.820 in a different boat when more expensive. I forgot what I think it was right God or I think I forgot
00:08:51.660 where it was. And I think they just added like one difference in scent for the female, but maybe 0.92
00:08:57.560 sure. That makes sense if it was sure. But yeah, it's like, it's literally the same thing.
00:09:03.360 Sure for men. Yeah. Sure for men and sure. Yeah. It could have been that. It's literally
00:09:07.960 the same exact thing, except the men's one is cheaper. The women's one is like 15% more 0.96
00:09:12.400 just because they can't. Well, and it goes back to, so we need 2.5 million to retire and
00:09:18.880 feminism says like never settle. You're, you're a queen, no matter how fat you are, no matter 1.00
00:09:23.980 how old you are, you're still worth just as much as you were when you were young. And they're
00:09:29.160 predicting that women are going to be the largest growing homeless population.
00:09:32.480 Yeah. Because of poor, yeah, because you need 2.5 million to retire. So you can't do that
00:09:39.060 off of one income. You need two, unless you're in the top like 10% of female earners. So we're 0.74
00:09:46.740 basically, feminism is basically teaching girls how to be homeless. 1.00
00:09:50.320 They can all get together and be sister wives and not be homeless.
00:09:52.940 That's what you'll probably see is old roommates. Would you rather have old roommates or an old
00:09:58.660 husband?
00:09:59.520 Yeah. That's weird. That's a good question. That's a good question.
00:10:05.100 Yeah. We own two thirds of debt. You need to, you need 2.5 million to retire by 65, 70 to 80% of consumer
00:10:11.780 decisions are made by women. And that's why they call it the she economy. And they're saying to invest 1.00
00:10:18.180 in things like wine, cat food, dog food. No, because this is what single childless women 1.00
00:10:24.160 are getting. Buy a dog, die alone. Yeah. Where do you think he got that from? 1.00
00:10:28.760 It's real. 1.00
00:10:29.680 Buy a dog, die alone. 0.99
00:10:30.900 Because I think it's like...
00:10:32.820 And people might, you know, hate on Kevin Samuels for like being so like harsh, but it's
00:10:38.660 just a reality.
00:10:39.540 But I guess, yeah, the reality is cruel to accept.
00:10:43.380 Yeah.
00:10:43.680 You have to admit that.
00:10:44.820 That was cruel.
00:10:45.460 And I guess maybe social media has just made it so idealistic that we can't believe in reality
00:10:49.560 anymore. That even when we hear the statistics, we're just like, nah, that's bullshit. 1.00
00:10:53.480 No, I'll be fine. 0.99
00:10:54.540 Exactly.
00:10:55.160 Will you?
00:10:55.860 It's not even like... It's just, yeah, I would blame all of this on social media, actually,
00:11:01.320 because we reached a certain point of ideal life in social media that we just ignore the
00:11:07.280 reality, which is really bad.
00:11:10.560 And if you chase the career and you out-earn your husband, married women are twice as likely 1.00
00:11:15.300 to be divorced three years after their promotion to a CEO level compared to their male counterparts.
00:11:20.860 If you get, if you work too hard and get too successful, you leave because you're not
00:11:25.580 attracted to him because you out-earn him and you're the provider.
00:11:28.440 Yeah.
00:11:29.800 Wow.
00:11:31.020 Mind blown again?
00:11:32.900 What?
00:11:33.700 Mind blown again?
00:11:34.740 Yeah.
00:11:34.840 So for me, it's like, it goes back to my question of, do you think that women can actually 1.00
00:11:41.500 be like traditional again and like, or be on a level where they, you know, they're comfortable
00:11:47.120 with a guy that's, or settle?
00:11:49.740 I guess it all depends on balance though.
00:11:52.080 If you know how to balance your life, balance your career and balance maybe your family,
00:11:55.840 you'd be fine.
00:11:57.060 We're not saying that, oh, don't work and don't do anything.
00:12:00.260 Just stay home and depend on a guy completely. 0.86
00:12:02.260 But if you know how to balance between your career, like don't focus on your career only
00:12:05.880 and be like, I don't need anything.
00:12:07.140 I don't need anyone else.
00:12:08.340 I only need my career because deep down, you know that you need something else.
00:12:12.040 Right.
00:12:12.540 But because when you chase some, like, that's how indecisive we are.
00:12:16.260 I guess that's how human beings, how indecisive human beings are.
00:12:19.240 Because when you chase something deep down, you want the other thing because you just need
00:12:24.160 to know how to balance between both of things and you will be fine.
00:12:27.400 Don't chase something more than another.
00:12:28.880 I wish that was true.
00:12:31.300 That's what I'm saying.
00:12:31.980 The reality is cruel to accept.
00:12:33.620 Yeah, but you can't have everything.
00:12:35.960 And I think if we could, we wouldn't see over 50% of women over 30 being single and childless.
00:12:41.880 Yeah.
00:12:42.940 Yeah.
00:12:43.300 It goes back to the whole thing of like, how many times have you in life made a huge life
00:12:48.600 target for yourself and you hear it and you're like, yay.
00:12:53.760 And once you've hit.
00:12:55.480 Exactly.
00:12:56.020 Because, yeah.
00:12:57.340 You always need something at some point.
00:12:59.460 And you have to set another one for like the next year.
00:13:01.800 Yeah, exactly.
00:13:02.640 It's all about targets and objectives.
00:13:04.160 There is no actual end.
00:13:04.520 You keep just chasing something.
00:13:06.060 And when it ends, then what next?
00:13:07.760 Exactly.
00:13:08.220 I think a lot of people have it misconstrued when it comes to like guys in work.
00:13:11.780 Because it's like, oh, but he just grinds and he wants to go all the way to the top.
00:13:14.900 It's like, to be able to get to the top, you have to be a certain type of human being.
00:13:19.260 Oh, yeah.
00:13:19.820 I mean, my dad's in the top 1% of earners.
00:13:22.380 He worked 80 hours a week my whole life.
00:13:24.100 I don't know many people that could do that.
00:13:25.740 Do we not?
00:13:26.160 I don't know many men or women that could or want to do that.
00:13:28.560 I do not.
00:13:29.640 Dad, if you're watching.
00:13:30.780 I don't even want to do that.
00:13:32.760 I was just banned on TikTok.
00:13:35.640 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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