JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023


The Root Cause of Red Pill Rage


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12 minutes

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2,324

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In this episode, we talk about the Red Pill and why women only care about a guy's money. We also talk about why women can't love the way that men love and why men need to learn to be more masculine.

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00:00:00.000 So the first thing when I'm listening to the red pill you learn about is hypergamy.
00:00:05.520 And at first, it really sounds like a girl only cares about a guy's money,
00:00:11.020 but there's more to it. They call it money, muscles, and game. So if a guy wants to improve
00:00:16.220 his status basically and be more attractive to women, he either needs to get muscles, 0.88
00:00:19.980 he needs to make money, or he needs to learn game. And that's how he increases his value in
00:00:25.120 the market. Is there anything as a guy you think I missed?
00:00:33.200 No, because money is definitely one of them. My father literally gave me that talk,
00:00:38.000 and that was a weird talk to have with your father, but it's a talk that you should definitely
00:00:40.940 have with your future sons at some point. Don't chase these women. Chase the bag and 1.00
00:00:46.860 the women will come. That's facts.
00:00:49.480 Wow.
00:00:50.200 Me personally, I think you need at least two. You need at least two of those things.
00:00:56.120 Because money obviously will pay your bills, but if you've got game and muscles,
00:01:02.360 but you ain't got no money yet, you can use game and muscle to get money. But I'm trying
00:01:06.800 to think, is there like a fourth one? Because I feel like it's one of those ones where
00:01:10.660 once you think about it in more depth, there is definitely...
00:01:15.420 Well, there's work ethic too, but that goes into money.
00:01:17.780 That goes into money.
00:01:18.420 Work ethic. You know, ambition. When girls say ambition, it just means he can provide 1.00
00:01:22.700 for her later.
00:01:23.700 Yeah.
00:01:24.700 There's money. So I think you've got it.
00:01:26.700 I think that three is like, yeah, I think they all kind of synonyms of those three.
00:01:29.760 Well, and it goes back into that men have a duty of performance. So men are expendable
00:01:35.940 and success object and objectified worse than women. Because men are the ones that are expendable 0.99
00:01:43.140 as in, if there's a war, who's fighting? Who does all the hard jobs?
00:01:47.760 See, this is why I mess with you, Poe.
00:01:50.760 What?
00:01:51.760 This is why I mess with you, Poe.
00:01:53.760 It's true.
00:01:54.760 And at first, when I heard this, I kind of was like, ah, that doesn't sound nice. But
00:02:00.960 there's just a percentage of men that, one, are invisible to women. Like, we just do not
00:02:05.840 see unless they are successful.
00:02:07.760 Yeah.
00:02:08.760 And part of the red pill is that women can't love the way that men love. So we will never 0.99
00:02:17.760 understand what it's like for a man to love. Because a man can love a girl that is just
00:02:21.980 like dead broke, doesn't really do much. And I guess men can love multiple women at a time.
00:02:31.580 So maybe an ex-girlfriend that he's had, he still loves her in a certain way, where girls
00:02:35.560 can only love one guy at a time. And a girl, um, and if, if a guy becomes a bum, like she 0.99
00:02:44.560 marries a guy and he, he just starts doing nothing, becomes an absolute bum. Like most 1.00
00:02:48.540 women will leave. 1.00
00:02:49.560 Yeah.
00:02:50.560 Is that considered a gold digger?
00:02:52.560 It's not, I wouldn't say it's necessarily a gold digger because it's not, it's not about
00:02:58.560 money. Like even rich guys get cheated on. It's about, it's, yeah.
00:03:04.560 It's partially power. It's about like, like if I married a guy, okay. And he was a hardworking,
00:03:10.560 ambitious, driven man, right? That's what we're attracted to. So if tomorrow he stops
00:03:15.960 doing those things, I'm not going to be attracted to him anymore. Where a girl could just do 1.00
00:03:20.760 nothing. And like the guy is in love with like who she is.
00:03:23.560 Yeah.
00:03:24.560 Yeah.
00:03:25.560 So, um, a lot of times when guys find the red pill, they get angry because we just cannot
00:03:30.560 love the way that they love. And so if guys can't measure up to women's standards, then
00:03:35.560 they, they just start to get angry because they realize they're going to end up alone.
00:03:38.960 And that's where you get like the red pill rage.
00:03:40.560 Yeah. And it's, and it's hard because when you start looking into that red pill content,
00:03:45.560 like, especially for me personally, when I did start looking into red pill content, it
00:03:50.560 was like, you start having like epiphanies and it's like, wow. Okay. I didn't realize that
00:03:55.560 before. Oh, okay. I was, you know, just chilling with girls. And in my head, I was thinking,
00:04:00.560 uh, that I would have, you know, I'll do that. But it's like, I'm thinking, is that bad thoughts
00:04:06.560 and whatnot? And it's like, it's that red pill told you, no, don't suppress that. That's
00:04:11.560 your masculinity side in it. That's just your masculine side and whatnot. And the best thing
00:04:16.560 to do is just remove yourself from that situation kind of thing and work on yourself and stuff
00:04:21.560 like that. Because I think before the red pill, a lot of guys do like putting effort into girls
00:04:28.560 because we, we love women. You get me? We love women. We want to be around women. You
00:04:33.560 know, women bring peace sometimes. And, um, and you know, you want to be around female 0.99
00:04:39.560 energy, but I think with, with the feminism movement and all the things that they've portrayed 0.51
00:04:46.560 and whatnot, it's like, we love them to a sense of removing our own masculinity and stuff like
00:04:52.560 that. So when I started getting into the red pill, that's what I started understanding. Okay. You
00:04:56.560 know, I get it now. Would you say that's because innately we are taught that masculinity is kind
00:05:01.560 of bad. I think in this day and age we are. Yeah. Cause think about it. Toxic masculinity
00:05:06.560 is a thing that is widely said, but if you use the words toxic femininity, you're all of a 0.94
00:05:11.560 sudden a bad guy, all of a sudden you're, you're just weird guy. But if men, if masculinity
00:05:16.560 has toxic traits, then how can femininity not have toxic traits? You know, I, I hear toxic 1.00
00:05:20.560 femininity, but it's by feminists, by girls that are like calling girls more traditional toxic, 1.00
00:05:26.560 which is, is the crazy thing. The phrase doesn't tell the same way when it goes the other way.
00:05:31.560 No, no. It's like, they just use the toxic to when it benefits them, basically.
00:05:37.560 Do you think it's too late for women to be traditional?
00:05:40.560 I think after the development of birth, I don't, I don't think it was feminism
00:05:45.560 necessarily. I think it was more the development of birth control and the lack of consequences
00:05:49.560 for women. Okay. So when before women valued a guy that was a provider more because I want
00:06:00.560 to say Rolo tomorrow, I would like to give Rolo credits. A lot of these ideas are from Rolo,
00:06:05.560 but basically when the birth control pill came out, it gave women the ability to sleep with 0.94
00:06:10.560 the guys that had the genes that they wanted with no consequence and then still marry the
00:06:15.560 provider guy later. Yeah. And before that girls couldn't have access to those guys because the, 1.00
00:06:22.560 the consequence was too high. They might get pregnant and he might leave, but now we have the pill.
00:06:28.560 And so it gets rid of the consequence. And then on top of that, if even we can get married to the
00:06:35.560 provider guy that we're not attracted to, maybe have a couple of kids by him and then get child support,
00:06:40.560 divorce him, take half his stuff and we're chilling. And so it's like, we're taking away the consequences
00:06:46.560 for women in society. And so why would women be better if there's no incentive to be better? 1.00
00:06:52.560 And simps will still date the girl that's been like ran through about everybody.
00:06:57.560 Have you heard the statistic about, I forgot where it was, but it said basically out of all children
00:07:05.560 tested for DNA by the mother and father, about 33% of those kids aren't the dads.
00:07:11.560 Yeah. That's crazy. Yeah.
00:07:14.560 That's crazy. One in three.
00:07:16.560 Raising kids are not theirs. One in three. 0.77
00:07:18.560 Yeah. Because the girl, it's a mating strategy. So the girl got the genes from the guy she wanted and the 1.00
00:07:23.560 resources from the guy she, that she wasn't as attracted to.
00:07:26.560 It's wild. That's wild. There's a lot of statistics that you read.
00:07:30.560 I think that's, I think that's a guy's worst nightmare.
00:07:32.560 Yeah. Raising a kid that's not his and he thought that's his.
00:07:35.560 And there's no, there's no legal ramification for it either. I think if you trap a guy and you know that that's not his kid or there's a possibility it's not his kid.
00:07:43.560 Yeah. And you let him spend that money. I think one, you should pay him double what you took. And two, you should, you should go to jail for the amount of time he spent doing that.
00:07:51.560 Yeah. That's what I would do. But I think in that, in this day and age, that kind of bill.
00:07:56.560 It wouldn't pass. Oh no, not at all.
00:07:58.560 This is just if I ever ran for, vote for Pearl. I'm not running for anything, but if I ever do.
00:08:05.560 Vote for Pearl. 1.00
00:08:08.560 So, and another interesting stat I found out, one out of three men report no sex in the last year, under the age of 29 report no sex in the last year or that they're virgins.
00:08:21.560 And so that goes back. That is true.
00:08:23.560 Uh, well, I can't, I can't speak for me, but you know, the stat says it, but I believe it's true.
00:08:28.560 It's one of those things where like, again, you can't see it. Once you see it, you can't unsee it type of thing.
00:08:34.560 Like you said, like you said earlier, when you were saying how the, the funny guy, the sports guy that all those guys are seeing and there's all those guys in the middle.
00:08:43.560 Right.
00:08:44.560 Think back to, uh, when you were like in secondary school time, who was, who was pressing, pressing things?
00:08:51.560 Yeah.
00:08:52.560 Right. It was the popular ones. The need, the, the nerdy guys, the guys who were inside didn't talk to girls until later on in their life.
00:08:58.560 Mm hmm. All right. And then by the time they got to the stage of talking to girls, their pool is really low because one, they're unattractive physically because like, let's be, let's be honest.
00:09:08.560 Most people who do math and science and those like indoors things aren't the most attractive people. Right.
00:09:13.560 So Adam, the, the low on the totem pole and looks B, they're probably socially awkward to some extent because they haven't been around that many people because they have been indoors grinding on whatever they're doing.
00:09:25.560 All right. And that, all of that adds up into them. Just like never speaking to a female that's either not in the same field as them or like not in the same like hobby group as them.
00:09:36.560 Like where else is he going to find a female if they're not in like the, in at work or at the places that he likes to go to? Because what girl's going to a, let's say he's a really nerd. What girl, what, what eight out of 10, nine out of 10 is going to like a comic book store or like, or like Comic Con or one of those like laughing conventions. Not many.
00:09:52.560 Right. But that's what makes it hard, isn't it? That's what makes it hard for those guys. And those guys do, I feel like, yeah, they do build up the majority of men.
00:10:01.560 And those like one in a million kind of guys are the ones that girls are usually chasing. 0.64
00:10:08.560 And another, and this isn't just now, it's actually historically 8,000 years ago. Guess how many women reproduced for every one man? 1.00
00:10:19.560 Guess how, so, so for every girl that reproduced, like for every one guy that reproduced, guess how many girls reproduced for him?
00:10:28.560 I don't even want to know.
00:10:29.560 I don't even want to know.
00:10:30.560 I don't even know.
00:10:31.560 Okay.
00:10:32.560 10, 10 to one. Okay. What do you think?
00:10:33.560 Probably like eight.
00:10:34.560 Eight.
00:10:35.560 Can I say 10?
00:10:36.560 10.
00:10:37.560 Yeah. Same.
00:10:38.560 I'm thinking a little bit higher because you have to take into account like the death rate,
00:10:43.560 you have to take into account.
00:10:44.560 Cause I do know, I do know, uh, Genghis Khan, like a lot of people that are living today.
00:10:53.560 Oh yeah.
00:10:58.560 I'm going to take, I'm going to take a shot in the dark and go one in 25.
00:11:02.560 You're closest.
00:11:03.560 What the?
00:11:04.560 Um, 17 women reproduced for every one man 8,000 years ago. 0.94
00:11:08.560 Yeah.
00:11:09.560 So this is.
00:11:12.560 17.
00:11:13.560 Genghis Khan did have a lot of kids.
00:11:15.560 Like a lot of people in Asia are descendants of Genghis Khan.
00:11:18.560 Wasn't that like partly to do with like mortality, partly to do with finding the best, quote unquote,
00:11:22.560 male to pass on the genes.
00:11:24.560 It's just a bunch of things added together.
00:11:26.560 Well, yeah.
00:11:27.560 I mean, I, I'd imagine when you have to protect women in order to reproduce with them, there's 1.00
00:11:34.560 only a small percentage of men that can do it.
00:11:36.560 And the ones that can, if I had to guess, I didn't actually see it, the numbers, so I
00:11:41.560 don't know how it divides, but I bet there was a small percentage that had like a stupid
00:11:45.560 amount of concubines.
00:11:46.560 Yeah.
00:11:47.560 Where maybe the rest, it was like less if I had to guess.
00:11:52.560 Yeah.
00:11:53.560 Wow.
00:11:54.560 I can see that.
00:11:55.560 I can see that.
00:11:56.560 Didn't Henry the F at eight was?
00:11:58.560 Yeah.
00:11:59.560 Something like that.
00:12:00.560 Yeah.
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