JustPearlyThings - The Shocking Truth About Feminism

00:00:00.000 i feel like it's a bit of a domino effect though that like it's gone so far the other way where

00:00:04.640 that is a new norm but if we start moving it back the other way more people will jump on that

00:00:09.040 does that make sense and that that will become eventually like the new norm again what getting

00:00:14.320 married again no for people just stick at it and stay together yeah i think if if women chose to 1.00

00:00:19.600 do that but we have to like you have to convince the women yeah right we've got a job to do but 0.99

00:00:24.320 but even even so it's like i don't think i don't think we can ever really go back to the way it

00:00:29.360 was until they get rid of no-fault divorce because what's marriage marriage isn't marriage today 1.00

00:00:34.000 like if you get married in the church it's not the same thing as it was because the average marriage

00:00:37.600 is eight years so like what what are you getting out of marriage you're not getting a lifelong

00:00:41.280 commitment if the if the women are leaving it's true and so it's like now like marriage is supposed 0.78

00:00:46.720 to be for sicker for poor and or for richer for poorer in sickness and in health for health for

00:00:51.440 better for worse now it's until i'm not happy well so it's it's not the same it's not the same thing

00:00:57.360 like how could it be the same thing it's just like it might as well just be a relationship

00:01:02.400 yeah but a lot of guys don't want to marry though as well a lot of guys are happy to be in relationships

00:01:05.680 and not married but do you think that's maybe because they're just they just think that the

00:01:08.960 dual estates are so high i think it's a financial thing as well like and i think like also like if

00:01:15.200 you've been grinding and then you've worked your way up to some sort of level success and you meet

00:01:19.360 someone on that journey and it's like okay cool um you know you don't want to like you you know

00:01:25.120 you because you you've got a 50 50 in a marriage and okay cool you don't have to but i feel a lot

00:01:30.240 of guys think about financially other things as well that kind of imply as well when you're married as

00:01:34.960 well yeah like what incentive like what do men get out of marriage today nothing but it's not about

00:01:40.320 money though is it it's not a lot of like marriage for women is kind of like a fantasy sucker yeah

00:01:49.440 like a cinderella yeah i hear you still so yes i mean it's i don't want to say it's unrealistic

00:01:56.560 because again it's to the individual but it's it's all of that for one day a lot of money

00:02:02.160 very terrible yeah it depends on the one day and really that money could be but if the relationship

00:02:06.560 if you are serious about the relationship that money probably could be better spent

00:02:09.520 being sent in the right place yeah finesse in the relationship

00:02:12.800 and i heard that depends on your budget i guess yeah that's right that's definitely very true

00:02:18.400 the guy could be rich so you could have the rich wedding yeah i've seen it all and then again that

00:02:23.040 more alludes to the whole fantasy type of thing because if the budget's massive you're going to go

00:02:28.000 big and do well i think crazy with it actually you a marriage is last shorter the more they spend

00:02:33.200 on them on the wedding yeah because again yeah that that would make sense because again

00:02:38.240 like if a lady's really in love with a man you understand the man's got a small budget for a

00:02:43.520 wedding but she's really in love with him she's going to go there and really maximize it because 0.95

00:02:46.880 it's not the money that's spent it's the happiness and the enjoyment but if a woman's with a guy and 0.98

00:02:51.840 he's got loads of money and they go big on the wedding it wasn't really about love good love

00:02:57.200 it was more about the fantasy yeah the fantasy and the whole dream and all of that kind of stuff

00:03:01.760 there so and again these these are fundamentals you can have it both so you can have the the big

00:03:07.840 wedding and that and love yes yeah you can could anything's possible you understand it's going to

00:03:14.560 be a very small percentage that's going to be happening with the end and we're breaking it down

00:03:19.280 but yes it's definitely definitely possible i feel like the chances are so small it would be like two

00:03:25.520 people who have come up together like yeah yeah yeah that's right yeah that would be a that would

00:03:31.760 be a good way of looking at it the intent yeah and even like back in the day men used to get

00:03:37.520 something out of marriage they get a virgin or at least a girl for like a low body count but

00:03:42.000 nowadays it's like what percent of women are virgins on their wedding night so they used to 0.99

00:03:45.760 get purity in youth and now the average age of first marriage is like 28 or no it's 31 in the uk

00:03:50.880 and so it's like they're not getting a young girl anymore they're not getting a virgin

00:03:54.000 anymore it's like what what do they get out of marriage do you think that now like because women 1.00

00:04:00.800 have more like their careers are different now so more like back in the day women weren't so 1.00

00:04:06.640 career orientated but now maybe women are a bit more career orientated so the money might come 1.00

00:04:12.800 equally from the woman and the man so it might not even be like that the man needs to get something

00:04:18.560 out of it it could be more equal i'm not saying that's good or bad and what's he getting out of it

00:04:22.640 then the same as what the women's getting out of that what the women gets protection and provisioning 1.00

00:04:30.480 yeah and they get that the fantasy day the dress and the walking down the island all that status

00:04:36.320 yeah guys not really you just get respect into that well i mean i do agree with you outside i found this

00:04:42.720 out today when i was talking to the like i forgot what his job title he wrote a really big book but but

00:04:48.160 basically like when women um the biggest factor that's played in women are like kind of the 1.00

00:04:52.640 breakdown of the family was in the 20s women started going um like that was when they start they used to 1.00

00:04:57.680 stay with their dads until they would get married so their dads would find them their husband basically

00:05:02.400 and then um like they never lived on their own but like that's when women started having kids less and 1.00

00:05:06.800 that's when like the age of first marriage started going up was when women started entering the workforce 1.00

00:05:11.120 yeah yeah yeah again and the feminist movement is to to my knowledge is like a big breakdown in 1.00

00:05:19.760 society families and then it's kind of changed the whole dynamics and now women are a lot more do it 1.00

00:05:25.680 themselves and more powerful and stuff like that and a lot of women are saying they don't need a guy 1.00

00:05:29.680 and stuff like that just change the whole polarities and again it's made men a lot more

00:05:34.560 weak or emotional and the whole thing's kind of and i've just found out the other day it came from

00:05:40.720 witchcraft too like a lot of the things that you hear girls say like goddess queen like that sort 1.00

00:05:45.440 of thing it's actually like originates from like some sort of i'm butchering it but it's some sort

00:05:50.720 of witchcraft yeah yeah i'm serious because it was like it was like it was like this girl that like

00:05:56.240 like she wanted to like put down men so a lot of a lot of the sorry i'm butchering it so much

00:06:01.600 because it's not off the top of my head but it's like a lot of like the trends that we see like

00:06:06.400 people think that feminism is about equality but it's really not it's about freedom at the expense of 1.00

00:06:10.320 men and it's like now that women have gotten the freedom to vote like what have we done with it 0.99

00:06:14.400 we we've built a society that puts down men yeah that's it women a lot of women don't respect men 0.99

00:06:20.800 nowadays and that's a you understand a big fundamental why certain people are going to

00:06:24.720 rip people's coats and all these type of things it's a lack of respect what what age group are we

00:06:29.680 talking about here because what you're saying could be for the other generation the older lot

00:06:36.240 now the younger lot it's not like that they're still trying to like i know i don't know but

00:06:41.520 personally how i see how i see the youngers moving these days they're patterning up girl easy i like

00:06:47.520 moving with that energy that they have the power you get it man they're moving like they can run things

00:06:55.120 no but see you're you're correct you're correct but it's a small percentage of men okay so so before 30

00:07:00.320 women women go for the 20 of men typically okay so it's like like basically like women go for the 1.00

00:07:05.760 20 of men and then they hit 30 and remember geriatric pregnancy starts at 35 and if a woman hits 30 and

00:07:11.120 she's single she has less than a 50 chance of having a kid because there's going to be more single 1.00

00:07:15.280 childless women than literally ever in history it's like unprecedented because if a woman hits if she's 1.00

00:07:19.600 still single at 30 that means that like she has to get to a point that she has to get the guy to like 1.00

00:07:24.240 marry her so we're going to see more single childless women and and the thing is um the the 1.00

00:07:30.560 issue is i forgot i forgot where i was going to end i forgot what was a question no i was just chatting

00:07:34.960 about that like i said uh the age group in it what age group are you oh oh and so so the men sorry i

00:07:40.960 forgot for a second i'll go on tangents but so that so the men in in the women in their 20s are dealing

00:07:46.400 with the top 20 of men maybe 30 of men then they get closer to 30 they start to go for the top maybe

00:07:51.520 like the next 20 or 30 of men right and and we get this data from dating apps too and and also like

00:07:58.800 i don't know just they do they do stuff to figure this out yeah and so the issue is that like those

00:08:04.720 men have all the leverage and and so those men get that treatment but women don't treat the average 0.98

00:08:09.840 men well the average guy that works at tesco the average guy that works like down the street the ones

00:08:13.840 what know how to pattern yeah they want to get dealt with differently this is why when she when you're

00:08:19.200 saying that the power is there and the women and it's harder for men yeah in my time or the time

00:08:25.360 i'm seeing that's not the case right you get me obviously different genre different set up you get

00:08:31.040 me yeah so it's obviously an age group thing it's it's more again it's personal it's what you do you're

00:08:37.680 out there you understand you know the comparison was like uh and again there's nothing wrong with

00:08:42.560 working in tesco to driving a bus or being a road sweeper there's absolutely nothing wrong with that

00:08:46.480 it's a society kind of looks down in it but fun of your your kind of your name brand we're going

00:08:52.080 to put the ends and so your experience is going to be different than the next man's experience at

00:08:56.160 that the intense it's hard for you to see it yeah in my side of it that's what that's where i'm

00:09:00.480 challenging that yeah that's what i was trying to work out but i hear you that's what i'm saying i

00:09:04.080 understand now yeah you're not you're in that i'm not in that side no and i think i honestly think

00:09:08.720 like women have subtle misandry that we just don't see every day and i you know i'm not even

00:09:13.360 going to say i've never said anything like anything like that you know like we hear

JustPearlyThings - August 15, 2023

The Shocking Truth About Feminism

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