JustPearlyThings - May 15, 2023


The SHOCKING Truth Women NEVER Admit


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Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

213.00716

Word count

1,904

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

20

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Hate speech

13

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the difference between taking the hard vs the easy way out in life and how it affects the way we see things in the world and in relationships. We also talk about the benefits of being a single mum and how much it costs a year to raise a family.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 for the girls okay would you rather how many how many kids do you guys i know some of you have kids
00:00:05.440 i have just one do you want more i do yeah okay how many do you want total maybe like three in
00:00:11.600 total three how many kids do you want how many kids do i want yeah um probably about four okay
00:00:17.280 four kids yeah better get moving girl i've got some already oh you have some okay so now you 0.92
00:00:24.320 want two more okay what about you um i always want each more than five okay um um i'd be happy with two
00:00:36.000 one boy one girl okay so how much do you guys think it costs a year to raise um the amount of kids you
00:00:42.720 want a lot especially if you're a single mom a lot okay um so so if you have two choices guy a
00:00:52.240 you have to work until you're 65 70 we're going to up it to 70 and you have to work 30 hours a week
00:00:59.760 while being a mom okay guy b takes care of everything but he steps out from time to time but you don't
00:01:06.080 ever have to work again and you're done i already work 40 hours a week yeah now you get to work zero
00:01:14.000 i've been in relationships where it's been 60 40 my ends and then we both be paying like 50 50 on the
00:01:18.960 bills and then i'll be cooking cleaning and doing the washing and i'll be doing like grocery shop as
00:01:24.880 well but i don't think i could do that again that was a lot um but and imagine looking after the kid
00:01:30.240 as well you would take which one i would probably say b the guy who paid for everything yeah yeah okay
00:01:36.400 she's honest i think most girls would take b yeah i i i would because i've been there and i saw
00:01:41.120 wait hold on i mean i'm just thinking like like so you're taking the easy way out
00:01:49.840 no i mean 40 years is a long time you're not gonna have the same energy you do at
00:01:55.520 the same time i do love what i do and i i love it with a passion regardless i did it without money so
00:02:00.480 i still want to you know some kind of control over me doing some kind of work you can still
00:02:05.120 what is it sorry what is it you do for a living um i direct model and dance okay yeah i do like
00:02:11.200 commercials like adverts on tv and stuff it's a i mean i'm not saying it's an easy job but it's a
00:02:17.200 fun job something that you look forward to going to yeah yeah so would you would you say out of the
00:02:22.400 two options that you presented that b would be the easier way out it would be yeah it is okay so we
00:02:28.640 need to keep that energy it is the easy well we look at only fans creators and say that we've taken
00:02:33.040 the easy way out no no no no no no no no i like consistency as he said i don't like hypocrites
00:02:39.920 so when he pulled me up he's right he's right when you were right you were right but if we're
00:02:43.920 gonna go and say that you're gonna go for plan b then please we can't have no no no i'm talking about
00:02:51.600 the bees in the room don't then say ah you took the easy way out because you've just confessed with
00:02:55.760 your own mouth if you had the opportunity between the hard and the easy way but i think in life most
00:03:00.720 people take the easy way yeah the majority it just depends if it just it just depends if it interferes
00:03:06.720 with your morals and values so it's like yeah the thing that surprised me as a man in in this day and
00:03:12.560 age is like knowing how many women have to work these days is when i was in situations where i was 1.00
00:03:18.240 able to say to women you don't have to work anymore i'm gonna look after you all of that the lack of uh 1.00
00:03:23.600 appreciation staggering staggering i'm talking like within a couple of months they're acting like
00:03:30.000 they've always been this yeah they they have like this memory you know you've had a men in black
00:03:34.720 where they've deleted memory it was like they'd never worked the day in their life so women get 1.00
00:03:38.640 comfortable fucking super quick and that that surprised me the more more than anything no i 0.95
00:03:43.200 believe exactly what you're saying i feel like the majority of females nowadays are taking the um plan b 1.00
00:03:47.840 that nowadays that's why guys aren't really taking them serious and i feel like that's that's just the
00:03:52.400 way it is yeah but then if you're if you're you as a man are going to a woman saying i can offer
00:03:56.240 you this and i can offer you that of course the woman's gonna be like you know what let me take 1.00
00:03:59.200 that offer yeah no but i feel like you've got to think of it like this you're going to a job interview
00:04:02.880 yeah you're going um you you i don't know you you've gone to starbucks for instance starbucks is
00:04:08.720 offering you a manager role first for 30 grand a year you go to another starbucks that starbucks is
00:04:14.400 offering you 40 grand a year for the same job which one you're going to pick no i get it but i'm just
00:04:19.680 saying from a guy's point of view just in this day and age i just feel like girls don't really put 0.83
00:04:25.040 in that effort girls don't really show that appreciation they just want want want same like 1.00
00:04:29.120 a a a a girl um not long ago where she's she's messaged me on instagram like oh like blah blah blah 0.94
00:04:36.640 spoke a few from spoke a little bit through instagram and then she's turned around oh yeah she's been
00:04:40.480 i'm like oh what are you doing this week she's telling me oh so where you taking me
00:04:43.520 what you've messaged me what do you mean where am i taking you like i don't do you know what i mean
00:04:49.040 instead of thinking instead of her saying oh like this week i'm free if you're free i will take you
00:04:54.560 somewhere let me cook you dinner something like that that's more appreciation that's what makes
00:05:00.960 the growth of a man to go towards a female i've not i've had like i've been fairly successful on the
00:05:06.000 old internet and i've been dating websites not once has a girl said let me come over and cook you 0.80
00:05:10.560 dinner never the onus is on the man and i've got no problem with that necessarily because i'm old
00:05:14.640 school and i don't mind taking you know but that would blow my mind if a woman said that i'd be like
00:05:19.040 wow maybe she is why you can you imagine that's what makes a guy more like that growth towards a
00:05:23.760 next time now you're gonna get women didn't you i'll cook you dinner i'm not as stupid as i look 0.94
00:05:31.760 what's your what's your what's your speciality cheese on toast no i'm playing i'm playing i'm
00:05:46.880 trying to get messed up but um women women need to come with the wifey skills man you know i mean as 1.00
00:05:52.640 as a guy coming from a caribbean household and everything my mom sort of taught me to be
00:05:57.120 independent so i can cook my own food i can yeah you know generally do skills which are associated
00:06:03.040 with women like sewing i can sew you know what i mean yeah that type of stuff so when um a woman 1.00
00:06:09.600 comes to the table she needs to be able to offer me if she wants the i the idea of um being in a 1.00
00:06:14.720 relationship to come into fruition she needs to be able to offer a lot of wifey skills stuff which 1.00
00:06:20.800 generally i know how to do that but i can't be bothered to chime in on this because i think women 1.00
00:06:25.120 don't realize like they're looking for this big moment to show their skills if you meet a guy
00:06:29.680 and you really like him the the thing that will trick him more than anything else is one day he
00:06:34.720 realizes fuck mate my life is way better with her in it she does this for me she does that for me like 1.00
00:06:39.760 i haven't asked her to do any of these things she's just trying to make me make my life better yeah
00:06:46.000 and this whole uh mentality that we've got these days with this exchange of what can you do for me
00:06:50.640 and men are just as bad i'm not saying that we're not but like when women do that you catch yourself 1.00
00:06:55.040 like okay yeah but you don't have to say you just have to show him absolutely yeah that stems from
00:07:00.160 what we were saying we both need to build each other i mean do you know what i noticed though
00:07:04.480 it's like the women that because i always hear this on the shows where it's like oh i gave him 1.00
00:07:08.560 everything or i did all this for him and i realized the girls that say this they're actually spiteful 1.00
00:07:13.280 and they keep score because the most giving women i know they don't keep score and they never talk 1.00
00:07:18.720 about what they did for a guy and so that's what i realized it's like it's actually a red flag when she's like
00:07:23.680 like oh i did all this because she views herself as the victim and like she did nothing wrong it was
00:07:29.360 all him yeah a million my my experience when women like women be like detectives they start digging up 1.00
00:07:36.160 old shit that they did for you two years ago that you've forgotten about and and that i think that 0.83
00:07:40.640 that's a really bad a point scoring like when you're in an argument and you start going back and
00:07:45.520 forward and it's like well you did this no you did that and what started and it's like i'm never getting
00:07:50.080 they're sorry so it that's why i don't like that women can't help it that we just store this like 1.00
00:07:56.960 in the back of our heads i got it because we're so like emotional yeah and in that emotion i personally
00:08:03.280 feel like when women are really upset with men like you guys uh you you want to vent and you want to
00:08:09.520 like take that out on us and i understand that but you're not we're not solving anything but that's
00:08:14.320 why i think like women having women friends that actually want you to win is so important like 1.00
00:08:19.600 they have to be married they can't be single and they have to be happily married because it's like
00:08:23.920 we don't we can't dump all our problems on the guys they don't want to hear about it that's why i was
00:08:27.920 saying earlier as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis
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