JustPearlyThings - March 23, 2023


The Truth About Narcissists

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Aunty Jenny Got Tired Of Her BS @CoachGregAdams Thoughts On Love

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

156.32

Word count

1,517

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

23

sentences flagged

Toxicity

6

sentences flagged

Hate speech

11

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Summary

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Narcissism is a mental health disorder. There are 9 narcissistic characteristic traits to show that you are a narcissist, according to the DSM 5 diagnostic manual of mental health disorders, which include: inflated sense of self-esteem, a grandiose sense of superiority, a sense of entitlement, a lack of attachment and intimacy, little to no empathy, can't handle criticism, lack of emotional intelligence, a narcissistic personality disorder, and lack of empathy.

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
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Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
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00:00:00.000 this down because a lot of women say that they were they were with narcissistic men i want to
00:00:05.040 hear a lot of women say they're with narcissistic men right a lot of women say oh do you know what
00:00:10.880 my ex wasn't we've heard it on the show right oh always my ex was a narcissist i've never heard a
00:00:16.240 guy say his ex was a narcissist that's a funny thing do you know why i'll tell you why because
00:00:21.100 what we're going to do have you heard of the diagnostic statistical manual of mental health
00:00:26.080 disorders okay go ahead the dsm five it is the it is the the bible of psychiatry and psychology
00:00:34.740 and so narcissism is actually a mental health disorder right but in the diagnostic statistical
00:00:43.440 manual of mental health disorders there are nine narcissistic characteristic traits to show that
00:00:49.320 you are a narcissist okay number one an inflated sense of self-esteem a grandiose sense of self
00:00:58.120 importance or superiority okay does that sound like i'm a ton thank you does that sound like the man or 0.98
00:01:08.580 a woman okay someone who is craving admiration you go girl you go girl exploitative relationships i.e manipulation
00:01:23.860 little to no empathy
00:01:28.340 okay identity is easily disturbed meaning they cannot handle criticism
00:01:33.940 i mean
00:01:38.020 let's talk about the show you can't handle criticism on the show i mean
00:01:43.620 women modern women the lack of attachment and intimacy 1.00
00:01:48.740 modern women feelings of depression or emptiness when they are not validated oh yeah that's that's 0.90
00:01:57.620 women that's right yeah i i think that's just women in general a sense of entitlement 1.00
00:02:02.980 modern women can feel like others are envious of them 1.00
00:02:08.500 or others are or they may and may be envious of others you're so insecure right so this is what i'm
00:02:15.940 trying to understand right like women use the term narcissism all the time so if listen everybody can go 1.00
00:02:21.220 and research what narcissism is um and the traits of narcissism i don't understand what i do because
00:02:27.620 projection is a thing these women are projecting their own narcissistic traits onto other men and 1.00
00:02:33.380 saying that the men are narcissistic
00:02:37.540 yeah i think so well that's the thing like you are what you attract so if you if you dated three 1.00
00:02:41.620 narcissists you might be well i'll give you one 0.99
00:02:45.220 i'll give you we're attracted to the dark triad traits and shit you know what i'll give y'all one 0.99
00:02:49.940 narcissist but they all were all of them all every single last one of them i'll give i'll give you 0.96
00:02:56.900 one i won't give you two because narcissists are supposed to be like what two percent two to like
00:03:03.060 ten percent of the population that's not a big percentage but every woman that comes on the show 1.00
00:03:07.700 or speaks on a podcast says that their man was a narcissist well my question is well why do you attract
00:03:12.340 narcissists no but if you read the the i'm giving i just give too much if you read the criteria of a narcissist
00:03:19.700 though do you does that man fit all those nine criteria i can't think of a single i don't i know
00:03:26.180 a man that fits that criteria oh there's one i'll read him again there's one guy i could think of maybe
00:03:34.980 that inflated sense of self-esteem okay grandiose grandiose self-importance and superiority
00:03:41.860 yeah yeah okay craving admiration yeah exploitative relationships i.e manipulation yeah little to
00:03:52.100 no empathy yes can't handle criticism yes lack of attachment and intimacy
00:04:02.580 yes yeah i i will say i could think of more of these for women but i'm thinking of one person 1.00
00:04:07.700 are you thinking of one person okay sense of entitlement
00:04:13.060 no no i would say no would you say that the shows that we've been doing for the past eight months
00:04:17.300 eight nine months oh it's mostly women it's mostly right you you just asked if i could think of any 0.55
00:04:21.060 guy i'm like i could think of one but the thing is it's mostly in my experience it's mostly the women 1.00
00:04:25.780 that are having these traits absolutely no it's absolutely women more than men so would you say that 0.97
00:04:30.580 women are more narcissistic than men i think social media proves that like what is more narcissistic 0.99
00:04:38.820 than social media it's very true that's the thing like i feel like i feel like social media can breed 0.93
00:04:46.100 narcissism and i think women who's more addicted to social media women well that we're talking about
00:04:51.620 the fallout of feminism so okay one of the fallouts of feminism that i can see in the next 10 to 15 1.00
00:04:58.500 years is that women 0.99
00:05:03.060 are going to be very lonely and depressed and one of the things blessing if you cue the second video
00:05:10.420 is that women are going to end up doing this 1.00
00:05:13.220 second video please blessing yeah he's going to queue up um yeah women are going to end up doing
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00:05:37.860 i do but the feminists the ultra feminist super saiyan feminists the ones that are like the ultras 1.00
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00:06:02.660 the fallout of feminism is please bless him let's see what this woman has to say 1.00
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00:08:15.060 women are celebrating silicone i don't i don't understand why you would put that on the internet
00:08:19.220 i'm i put a lot on the internet i understand putting some things you know i understand i tell
00:08:24.180 i'll tell funny stories on the internet but you i just don't you i don't want to hear about that i
00:08:32.740 don't want to know you no the fallout of feminism is because women have been told for so long that they 1.00
00:08:39.780 no longer need a man they are seeking certain things sexually from silicone toys and this woman 0.84
00:08:48.820 is celebrating a silicone toy now i don't have a problem as a man with being replaced by a silicone
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