JustPearlyThings - April 12, 2023


The TRUTH about NICE GUYS


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Length

10 minutes

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181.99052

Word count

1,920

Sentence count

253

Harmful content

Misogyny

27

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Hate speech

13

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In this episode, we talk about nice guys and why women like nice guys. Do you like a nice guy if he's hot? Do you want to be nice to a nice girl? Are you attracted to nice guys if they're nice to you? What are your thoughts on nice guys?

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00:00:00.000 The first question I have is, do you think women like nice guys? 1.00
00:00:03.000 No.
00:00:08.000 I think they like them at a certain time.
00:00:11.000 Okay, okay.
00:00:12.000 At a certain time.
00:00:13.000 Okay.
00:00:14.000 I'll say that.
00:00:15.000 Okay.
00:00:16.000 Yeah, they definitely like it, just not every nice guy.
00:00:20.000 Okay, what do you mean by that?
00:00:22.000 I think you can not like everyone, so it's not sufficient to be nice with me.
00:00:31.000 You just need to match my vibes, my energy.
00:00:35.000 So, saying nice is not enough.
00:00:38.000 I can definitely match a nice guy, but it's not matching my energy.
00:00:43.000 Do you think women typically date the nice guys? 1.00
00:00:47.000 Yeah, why not?
00:00:49.000 Then why do they hate men so much?
00:00:51.000 I don't think they do.
00:00:53.000 I don't think they do.
00:00:54.000 You would think so?
00:00:55.000 I talk to girls all the time and it's always like, they always talk about their exes being toxic. 0.99
00:01:00.000 Yeah.
00:01:01.000 I mean, definitely, I think everyone at least had a toxic man before.
00:01:06.000 Oh, you think everybody's?
00:01:07.000 Yeah, definitely.
00:01:08.000 Do you think that men are toxic? 0.99
00:01:10.000 They could be.
00:01:11.000 Oh, they can be, okay.
00:01:12.000 Yeah, but it's not every man on the earth can be toxic.
00:01:17.000 Yeah, yeah, cool.
00:01:18.000 Go ahead.
00:01:19.000 Do I think women like nice guys? 1.00
00:01:20.000 Yeah.
00:01:21.000 Short answer, no.
00:01:23.000 But long answer, I think they like the idea of nice guys.
00:01:27.000 Okay.
00:01:28.000 So, you know, someone paying them all their attention.
00:01:31.000 You know, all the things that, you know, women naturally like anyway. 1.00
00:01:35.000 And I think it also depends if they find a guy attractive or if he's like a tyrant or a Chad, because if he's a tyrant or a Chad or he's her type, he can be as nice as he wants because that's one of the, you know, he's got a keepsake there.
00:01:48.000 So overall, no, but I think it varies.
00:01:49.000 It depends.
00:01:50.000 Okay.
00:01:51.000 Yeah.
00:01:52.000 I was pretty much going to say that.
00:01:54.000 She likes a nice guy if he ticks every other box.
00:01:58.000 Okay.
00:01:59.000 Right.
00:02:00.000 If he doesn't, then not.
00:02:01.000 So it's like she likes a nice guy if he's six, seven.
00:02:05.000 Yeah.
00:02:06.000 Exactly.
00:02:07.000 She likes a nice guy if he's rich.
00:02:08.000 Exactly.
00:02:09.000 She likes a nice guy if he's hot. 0.97
00:02:11.000 Yes.
00:02:12.000 Exactly.
00:02:13.000 I understand.
00:02:14.000 I actually realized that I didn't even let you guys introduce yourself.
00:02:16.000 How rude of me.
00:02:17.000 Why don't we go around?
00:02:18.000 Everyone say your name, your age, your relationship status, and where you are from starting with Auntie.
00:02:24.000 Auntie Jenny, 53.
00:02:27.000 In a really good relationship.
00:02:30.000 I'm real good.
00:02:31.000 She was real, real good.
00:02:34.000 Yo, I'm trying to be like that when I get 50.
00:02:37.000 Content with life.
00:02:38.000 She's doing better than most of the 25 year olds.
00:02:41.000 Oh, hey.
00:02:42.000 Better than me.
00:02:43.000 Yeah.
00:02:44.000 From that text I said, Auntie.
00:02:46.000 Auntie.
00:02:47.000 That one was a cool one.
00:02:50.000 I like that one.
00:02:51.000 That was nothing I showed you.
00:02:52.000 Look at you.
00:02:53.000 We saw the receipt.
00:02:55.000 We saw the receipt.
00:02:56.000 Don't scroll.
00:02:57.000 She said, don't scroll, don't see.
00:02:59.000 I wasn't about to.
00:03:01.000 I wasn't about to.
00:03:02.000 We know the rules.
00:03:03.000 We know.
00:03:04.000 What, you got secrets in your phone?
00:03:06.000 No, it's just that people seem to really think that when you get to a certain age that,
00:03:10.000 you know, you're just dead from the waist down.
00:03:12.000 Mmm.
00:03:13.000 But I'm as hot with my man now as when I met him 32 years ago.
00:03:17.000 That's brilliant, actually.
00:03:18.000 It is.
00:03:19.000 Trust me.
00:03:20.000 She is hot for her man.
00:03:22.000 Let me.
00:03:23.000 Earthquake sex.
00:03:24.000 Yeah.
00:03:25.000 That's what I want.
00:03:26.000 I aspire to have that.
00:03:27.000 My wedding night, earthquake sex.
00:03:29.000 You guys already know, I'm Jess for who is new in the chat.
00:03:35.000 Hi, I'm Jess.
00:03:36.000 I am 28 years old.
00:03:38.000 What else did you say?
00:03:40.000 Your name and where are you from?
00:03:42.000 I'm from California and my relationship is single.
00:03:46.000 Go ahead.
00:03:47.000 So my name is Alessandra.
00:03:48.000 I'm Italian and I'm 30.
00:03:52.000 I just turned 32 months ago and I'm single.
00:03:59.000 I'm KB.
00:04:00.000 I'm 35.
00:04:01.000 I'm from London and I'm in a relationship.
00:04:05.000 I'm Rolito.
00:04:06.000 I'm 35.
00:04:07.000 I'm from London as well.
00:04:10.000 And I have girls that are friends.
00:04:13.000 But I have no girlfriend.
00:04:14.000 Okay.
00:04:15.000 I got you.
00:04:16.000 Are they watching this?
00:04:17.000 I want to get the link so everybody can watch it.
00:04:18.000 Oh, yeah.
00:04:19.000 You want to get it for them?
00:04:20.000 Yeah.
00:04:21.000 Yeah.
00:04:22.000 Yeah.
00:04:23.000 Cool.
00:04:24.000 Cool.
00:04:25.000 I guess she can send it to you guys.
00:04:26.000 Okay.
00:04:27.000 So going back to what I was talking about earlier with the nice guys.
00:04:28.000 If women like nice guys, then why do felons have 30% more cancer? 1.00
00:04:31.000 Yeah.
00:04:32.000 Yeah.
00:04:33.000 Yeah.
00:04:34.000 Cool.
00:04:35.000 Cool.
00:04:36.000 I guess she can send it to you guys.
00:04:37.000 Okay.
00:04:38.000 So going back to what I was talking about earlier with the nice guys.
00:04:40.000 If women like nice guys, then why do felons have 30% more kids than non-felons? 1.00
00:04:45.000 Please say the question again.
00:04:49.000 If women like nice guys, then why do felons have 30% more kids over non-felons? 1.00
00:04:56.000 Felons are better in bed.
00:04:59.000 But wouldn't you say then women don't actually like nice guys because they like felons? 0.94
00:05:04.000 I don't think that.
00:05:05.000 I didn't think they like nice guys anyway, but if the felons have got more kids, they're
00:05:09.000 doing something right.
00:05:10.000 Would you consider a felon a bad person?
00:05:13.000 Yeah.
00:05:14.000 So I'm convicted.
00:05:15.000 Why?
00:05:16.000 Because you're breaking the law.
00:05:18.000 Okay.
00:05:19.000 I mean, if it's an unethical law, that's one thing, but I think most laws are pretty fair.
00:05:23.000 Okay.
00:05:24.000 So just for argument's sake, somebody disrespects you for no reason.
00:05:33.000 Uh-huh.
00:05:34.000 You hit them.
00:05:35.000 They fall down.
00:05:36.000 Good question.
00:05:37.000 I know where you're going with this.
00:05:38.000 And they hit their head on the floor.
00:05:39.000 Uh-huh.
00:05:40.000 And you get charged with GBH convicted.
00:05:42.000 Do you think that's the majority of felons?
00:05:45.000 Genuinely?
00:05:46.000 It's just the question.
00:05:48.000 You shouldn't have hit them.
00:05:49.000 I just know the...
00:05:50.000 Yeah.
00:05:51.000 I mean, I don't think you should just hit people just because you feel disrespected.
00:05:54.000 I mean, the other day, I was attacked.
00:05:55.000 I mean, man enough to...
00:05:56.000 Whale attacked.
00:05:57.000 Wow.
00:05:58.000 And, like, I didn't hit her.
00:06:00.000 She was, like, coming at me and barely mad. 0.84
00:06:02.000 I didn't hit...
00:06:03.000 Like, I just...
00:06:04.000 I'm not trying to go to jail.
00:06:05.000 I would have hit her. 0.62
00:06:06.000 I actually threw the mic.
00:06:07.000 I would have hit her. 0.62
00:06:08.000 Is that the whale one you're talking about?
00:06:09.000 Yeah, the whale.
00:06:10.000 She deserved to get slapped. 0.95
00:06:11.000 She knocked the mic out of your hand. 0.87
00:06:12.000 Oh, this was her?
00:06:13.000 Yeah, this was...
00:06:14.000 I was in a shortage doing interviews.
00:06:15.000 This girl, like...
00:06:16.000 She, like, didn't like the questions I was asking, and she wouldn't leave.
00:06:21.000 Like, she kept following me.
00:06:22.000 Right.
00:06:23.000 And then she was like, come at me, come at me. 1.00
00:06:25.000 And I'm like, get away from me.
00:06:28.000 And she ends up, like, hitting the mic out of my hand and, like, onto the ground. 0.98
00:06:32.000 Right.
00:06:33.000 And they went for the camera, didn't she?
00:06:35.000 I think there was something going for the camera.
00:06:37.000 Yeah, she did that, too.
00:06:38.000 But, I mean, like, the reason I said that was because I don't really believe in...
00:06:43.000 Like, I try to stay away from the exceptions.
00:06:45.000 Right.
00:06:46.000 And I'd say the rule is felons are...
00:06:48.000 Are bad people.
00:06:49.000 Yeah.
00:06:50.000 I mean, bad and good is subjective, but...
00:06:53.000 That's something...
00:06:54.000 They're more reckless.
00:06:55.000 They're more dangerous.
00:06:56.000 In general.
00:06:57.000 30% is high, though.
00:06:58.000 Seriously.
00:06:59.000 30% more kids.
00:07:00.000 Yeah.
00:07:01.000 Damn.
00:07:02.000 Honestly, they just don't really, like, think about what having a child means.
00:07:09.000 So, just, they have different point of view.
00:07:13.000 Like, me personally, like, I don't have any children, like, because I think it's very hard.
00:07:19.000 I mean, I give the right importance to be a parent.
00:07:24.000 So, maybe they don't.
00:07:26.000 That's just my...
00:07:28.000 Maybe these nice guys just know how to hold it down in their pants.
00:07:33.000 And the felons just go out there and give it a free fall.
00:07:36.000 So, maybe that's why they...
00:07:37.000 Because nice guys ain't gonna sleep with everybody.
00:07:39.000 Yeah.
00:07:40.000 But a bad boy is.
00:07:41.000 A bad boy is gonna take it as he gets it.
00:07:43.000 So, maybe that's why they got more children.
00:07:45.000 Okay.
00:07:46.000 Because the nice boys are just nice.
00:07:47.000 What about you guys?
00:07:48.000 You guys are actually dudes.
00:07:49.000 What do you...
00:07:50.000 What type of guys do you think...
00:07:51.000 What type of guys do you think women go for? 1.00
00:07:53.000 Well, I like what she was saying because...
00:07:55.000 Okay.
00:07:56.000 And I think part of this as well, especially this specifically, is that there's still that notion
00:08:02.000 that women don't like sex as much as men.
00:08:04.000 I think that's another thing as well.
00:08:06.000 Yeah.
00:08:07.000 And, you know, a felon, a bad boy, whatever, because of certain traits, characteristics,
00:08:12.000 whatever, it's probably gonna get women's natural urges, juices going for whatever reason. 1.00
00:08:18.000 And I think people tend to dismiss that a lot as well.
00:08:21.000 Like, there is that point as well.
00:08:23.000 And like he's mentioning with a nice guy, albeit his treatment of you is nice, when
00:08:28.000 it comes to, you know, when it comes down to it, he's not gonna be able to flick that
00:08:33.000 switch and turn into that raw animal, which even the nicest of women, the most meek of 1.00
00:08:38.000 women, you know, you want men to handle it in the bedroom, right? 1.00
00:08:41.000 Because you don't, well, you don't feel like he can protect you.
00:08:43.000 Exactly.
00:08:44.000 If he can't even stand up to you as a girl, how the fuck is he supposed to protect you? 0.98
00:08:48.000 Exactly.
00:08:49.000 If he can't stand up for himself to what?
00:08:50.000 A bitch? 1.00
00:08:51.000 You're afraid of a bitch? 1.00
00:08:52.000 A girl?
00:08:53.000 You can't tell your girlfriend now?
00:08:55.000 Who are you?
00:08:56.000 But just, just imagine, right?
00:08:58.000 A nice guy saying to a woman, trying to get her into bed. 0.98
00:09:03.000 And she turns him down.
00:09:04.000 The nice guy would be like, all right.
00:09:06.000 You turn that woman in a roughneck man and be like, what are you talking about? 0.81
00:09:10.000 What are you talking about?
00:09:11.000 Come on, just free up. 0.65
00:09:12.000 And the women are like, well, okay then. 0.99
00:09:13.000 Yeah.
00:09:14.000 Yeah.
00:09:15.000 But you know what I mean?
00:09:16.000 Because a nice guy would be like, all right then, she don't want to sleep with me. 0.99
00:09:18.000 That doesn't sound too consensual though.
00:09:21.000 Well, women just like confrontation. 1.00
00:09:23.000 What do you mean?
00:09:24.000 Sorry, say that again.
00:09:25.000 Well, she said that a bad guy would be like, would you mean no?
00:09:31.000 Come and give it to me.
00:09:33.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:09:34.000 Like, you turn around as a, ignore a woman and see how she behaves. 0.87
00:09:40.000 A nice guy would just take it.
00:09:42.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:09:43.000 A fellow would just like, I mean, you think you're all that.
00:09:46.000 And then the woman would turn around and be chasing you. 1.00
00:09:48.000 Well, the thing is that the bad boy would walk away.
00:09:50.000 The nice guy would take her out on another date in hopes that she would say, yeah.
00:09:53.000 And also what you're saying is that assertiveness as well.
00:09:56.000 It's, again, going off the confidence and assertiveness.
00:09:59.000 A nicer guy might, as you said, they're kind of asking, like, do you mind if we...
00:10:04.000 Can I have a kiss?
00:10:05.000 Yeah, like, no, just kiss her.
00:10:07.000 Yeah.
00:10:08.000 Yeah.
00:10:09.000 So at the end, it's kind of about confidence.
00:10:12.000 Mm-hmm.
00:10:13.000 So, but this doesn't mean that they know nice guys from my point of view.
00:10:18.000 Like, you can be confident and a nice guy.
00:10:22.000 So just about how confident are you?
00:10:26.000 Mm-hmm.
00:10:27.000 So another part of Red Pill, I have a question.
00:10:31.000 Do you guys think body count matters?
00:10:32.000 Body count matters.