The TYPE Of Woman EVERY Man NEEDS
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the benefits of being a stay-at-home wife vs. being a working wife and the stigma that surrounds the topic. We also discuss the difference between the former and the latter and the benefits that come with the former.
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um could you guys respect a man that you make more money than starting here and then go around
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oh can we sell that and when and just just uh just okay and just to give a little preface
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that means if he says quit quit your job tomorrow i have a plan that you'd listen go ahead
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um i wouldn't respect a man that i make more money than um but if i had a man that
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makes more money than me and is you know well put together um i can see that i can trust his
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judgment and i know that you know he's got good morals he's um he's got good faith yes if he says
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stop working that's what i want i want to sit at home i want to paint my toes i want to look cute
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i want to you know drive a nice car and um have maids and all of that and if he's going to provide
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that for me and all i've got to do is pop a couple of utes out see at home why not
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i don't think that's the typical stay-at-home mom's experience
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it's a lot of work a lot of work are you a stay-at-home mom yeah i am i am now is that what
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your life is like no i wish no i'm talking about you know the the dream the dream yeah the ideal um
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but if we're talking about you could still be a stay-at-home wife on a more normal salary it just
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means cutting off like going down if he can if he can pay our rent and put food on the table
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and do everything that you know i would be working to provide half of absolutely fine i can do without
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the maid i can do without you know all of that let me just focus on our home you bring the money in
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and i'll make our home a home and that way i will be more happy because to be honest you know i am a
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working woman and i've got a child it's stressful you know that morning rush to get that little
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four-year-old ready and she don't understand why i'm rushing and she's you know money money
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money and i've got a rush i get in the car drop her off i've done a whole shift before i've gone to
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work and then i've got to deal with people that i work with and then you know hard stop five o'clock
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i need to stop this meeting i need to rush out so you know to my colleagues you know i might look
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like you know oh don't put any meetings in her diary after five o'clock because you know she's a
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single mum and there's that stigma that you've got deal with so the short answer yeah okay um i
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think i could i think in reality that i would have to i don't think it would be easy to but i would work
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at it because i don't like especially with the way it is to live now i would not leave an opportunity to
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make more money um because my man doesn't but i will always strive to respect him um and leave him
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to do the providing so essentially if i bought more money into the house that's just more spending money
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in my opinion i would allow him like i would leave him to his role basically yeah let me ask you this
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what is it like being a stay-at-home mom well do you know what it's it's fine it's good because
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to me i like raising my children is my priority and looking after my home is my priority everything
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else is extra but as long as i can give myself the space to do the extra i'm i'm happier that way
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if my whole life was just at home with the kids and maintaining my house i don't know how happy i would
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be only because i had a lifestyle before getting married that i i liked and so i think here i have
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the best of both worlds but i think and actually i i'm confused are you not a stay-at-home mom i just
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i am a stay-at-home mom but i i i do bits on the side so okay i yeah so um i'm i'm a step-mom coach
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yeah but my house doesn't depend on the money i make all the money i make it's fun money so you
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work from home yes i'm i'm yeah i'm always at home yeah unless i come out to to do a speaking gig or
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something like that yeah so yeah i i would strive to respect but he will always be the provider and
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i'm okay with that whatever that looks like okay and just like you said also to her you know how you
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were saying um you can have a man on like a normal wage and still be a stay-at-home mom he doesn't have
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to be earning thousands that is very true like i essentially what we say in our culture is cut your
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coat according to your size whatever my husband makes our life i will maintain our life according
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to what he makes and as long as our necessities are are met there's really there shouldn't be a
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complaint i like you yeah thank you i like you too um okay so could you respect a man that you make more
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than yes the answer is yes however i want to see him being ambitious he has to have a plan he has
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to be someone that gets up no no that's not that's not the guy you're dating no that's like that's like
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the women trying to change men no he's he's making let's say what's whatever the average salary is
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here 35 000 pounds a year he will always he will always be making 35 000 a year okay this isn't build a
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man but what kind of person is he the kind of guy that wakes up and plays video games and just he
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goes he's the kind of he's he goes to work okay and makes 35 000 a year and then comes home sometimes
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he plays video games sometimes he doesn't the same way you know it's like they we can complain
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about the video games but how many girls are on social media for hours we're just as bad no you
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know what you're right i think i could because i've been in that situation and i've been very happy with
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that okay why aren't you with him he's in australia oh so this was recent yeah okay i don't know
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what he makes it's none of my business but i know he's not like the richest guy in the world but he's
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lovely and he actually made me feel safe in every way so how do you know that you earn more than him
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i don't but if i did i'd be okay with it because he was that wonderful okay okay so yeah sounds like
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you need to go back to australia finish your healing man well uh that was the plan not for him
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though but i would like to see him again 100 do you think you're healed enough though um wait i'm
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confused so when was the okay so wasn't the the old guy eight months ago yeah that was in june okay and
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then when did the the australia guy come in literally this month oh oh and he left to australia
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no i was in australia she went away to australia for six weeks see this is why when men it's like
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everything the guys say so this is why when guys say like you're healing they just think you're i mean
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they don't have the thing yeah you're just sleeping with other dudes um no because it wasn't quite like
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that it took me a long time to even go on a date with someone like it wasn't until i went to
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australia i even considered that i was just completely right but you told me you were healing
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earlier in australia yeah and now you're telling me you met the guy in australia it's no it's no hate
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to you i'm just no it's fine i'm just observing he's a healer that if i'm honest because i said that to
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him because he was going through his own thing which i won't discuss on here that's his business
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and i was going through mine and i said to him for whatever reason i walked into your life and
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you walked into mine because it was an accident you know i was walking down the street oh you met him
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on the street what happened was i just come back from the gym i was in a bad mood i smell i was covered
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in sweat i was spotty i was like you know on my period so i was like bloated and i did not look
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appealing at all and this stunning man walks towards me and when i fancy someone i guess as many of you
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you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if
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