JustPearlyThings - March 21, 2023


The TYPE Of Woman EVERY Man NEEDS


Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

180.80357

Word count

1,593

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the benefits of being a stay-at-home wife vs. being a working wife and the stigma that surrounds the topic. We also discuss the difference between the former and the latter and the benefits that come with the former.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 um could you guys respect a man that you make more money than starting here and then go around
00:00:10.080 oh can we sell that and when and just just uh just okay and just to give a little preface
00:00:16.320 that means if he says quit quit your job tomorrow i have a plan that you'd listen go ahead
00:00:22.960 um i wouldn't respect a man that i make more money than um but if i had a man that
00:00:33.280 makes more money than me and is you know well put together um i can see that i can trust his
00:00:40.480 judgment and i know that you know he's got good morals he's um he's got good faith yes if he says
00:00:47.680 stop working that's what i want i want to sit at home i want to paint my toes i want to look cute
00:00:53.520 i want to you know drive a nice car and um have maids and all of that and if he's going to provide 0.94
00:01:00.160 that for me and all i've got to do is pop a couple of utes out see at home why not
00:01:08.960 i don't think that's the typical stay-at-home mom's experience
00:01:12.000 it's a lot of work a lot of work are you a stay-at-home mom yeah i am i am now is that what
00:01:19.440 your life is like no i wish no i'm talking about you know the the dream the dream yeah the ideal um
00:01:30.400 but if we're talking about you could still be a stay-at-home wife on a more normal salary it just 1.00
00:01:36.240 means cutting off like going down if he can if he can pay our rent and put food on the table
00:01:42.720 and do everything that you know i would be working to provide half of absolutely fine i can do without
00:01:49.680 the maid i can do without you know all of that let me just focus on our home you bring the money in
00:01:56.640 and i'll make our home a home and that way i will be more happy because to be honest you know i am a
00:02:01.200 working woman and i've got a child it's stressful you know that morning rush to get that little
00:02:08.160 four-year-old ready and she don't understand why i'm rushing and she's you know money money 1.00
00:02:12.800 money and i've got a rush i get in the car drop her off i've done a whole shift before i've gone to
00:02:17.920 work and then i've got to deal with people that i work with and then you know hard stop five o'clock
00:02:24.080 i need to stop this meeting i need to rush out so you know to my colleagues you know i might look
00:02:28.800 like you know oh don't put any meetings in her diary after five o'clock because you know she's a 0.95
00:02:32.560 single mum and there's that stigma that you've got deal with so the short answer yeah okay um i
00:02:40.000 think i could i think in reality that i would have to i don't think it would be easy to but i would work
00:02:50.880 at it because i don't like especially with the way it is to live now i would not leave an opportunity to
00:02:59.200 make more money um because my man doesn't but i will always strive to respect him um and leave him
00:03:09.760 to do the providing so essentially if i bought more money into the house that's just more spending money
00:03:16.960 in my opinion i would allow him like i would leave him to his role basically yeah let me ask you this
00:03:24.160 what is it like being a stay-at-home mom well do you know what it's it's fine it's good because
00:03:34.080 to me i like raising my children is my priority and looking after my home is my priority everything
00:03:42.640 else is extra but as long as i can give myself the space to do the extra i'm i'm happier that way
00:03:52.960 if my whole life was just at home with the kids and maintaining my house i don't know how happy i would
00:04:01.040 be only because i had a lifestyle before getting married that i i liked and so i think here i have
00:04:08.480 the best of both worlds but i think and actually i i'm confused are you not a stay-at-home mom i just
00:04:15.040 i am a stay-at-home mom but i i i do bits on the side so okay i yeah so um i'm i'm a step-mom coach
00:04:23.360 yeah but my house doesn't depend on the money i make all the money i make it's fun money so you
00:04:28.240 work from home yes i'm i'm yeah i'm always at home yeah unless i come out to to do a speaking gig or
00:04:35.840 something like that yeah so yeah i i would strive to respect but he will always be the provider and
00:04:42.480 i'm okay with that whatever that looks like okay and just like you said also to her you know how you
00:04:48.640 were saying um you can have a man on like a normal wage and still be a stay-at-home mom he doesn't have 1.00
00:04:55.440 to be earning thousands that is very true like i essentially what we say in our culture is cut your
00:05:01.600 coat according to your size whatever my husband makes our life i will maintain our life according
00:05:07.920 to what he makes and as long as our necessities are are met there's really there shouldn't be a
00:05:13.360 complaint i like you yeah thank you i like you too um okay so could you respect a man that you make more
00:05:23.440 than yes the answer is yes however i want to see him being ambitious he has to have a plan he has
00:05:31.600 to be someone that gets up no no that's not that's not the guy you're dating no that's like that's like
00:05:38.000 the women trying to change men no he's he's making let's say what's whatever the average salary is 1.00
00:05:43.600 here 35 000 pounds a year he will always he will always be making 35 000 a year okay this isn't build a
00:05:50.640 man but what kind of person is he the kind of guy that wakes up and plays video games and just he
00:05:54.800 goes he's the kind of he's he goes to work okay and makes 35 000 a year and then comes home sometimes
00:06:01.280 he plays video games sometimes he doesn't the same way you know it's like they we can complain
00:06:06.160 about the video games but how many girls are on social media for hours we're just as bad no you 1.00
00:06:11.920 know what you're right i think i could because i've been in that situation and i've been very happy with
00:06:20.880 that okay why aren't you with him he's in australia oh so this was recent yeah okay i don't know
00:06:28.960 what he makes it's none of my business but i know he's not like the richest guy in the world but he's
00:06:33.520 lovely and he actually made me feel safe in every way so how do you know that you earn more than him
00:06:38.160 i don't but if i did i'd be okay with it because he was that wonderful okay okay so yeah sounds like
00:06:46.320 you need to go back to australia finish your healing man well uh that was the plan not for him
00:06:53.520 though but i would like to see him again 100 do you think you're healed enough though um wait i'm
00:07:00.640 confused so when was the okay so wasn't the the old guy eight months ago yeah that was in june okay and
00:07:07.920 then when did the the australia guy come in literally this month oh oh and he left to australia
00:07:14.240 no i was in australia she went away to australia for six weeks see this is why when men it's like 0.99
00:07:20.640 everything the guys say so this is why when guys say like you're healing they just think you're i mean
00:07:26.400 they don't have the thing yeah you're just sleeping with other dudes um no because it wasn't quite like
00:07:32.560 that it took me a long time to even go on a date with someone like it wasn't until i went to
00:07:38.000 australia i even considered that i was just completely right but you told me you were healing
00:07:43.200 earlier in australia yeah and now you're telling me you met the guy in australia it's no it's no hate
00:07:47.760 to you i'm just no it's fine i'm just observing he's a healer that if i'm honest because i said that to
00:07:55.040 him because he was going through his own thing which i won't discuss on here that's his business
00:07:59.520 and i was going through mine and i said to him for whatever reason i walked into your life and
00:08:04.560 you walked into mine because it was an accident you know i was walking down the street oh you met him
00:08:08.960 on the street what happened was i just come back from the gym i was in a bad mood i smell i was covered
00:08:14.240 in sweat i was spotty i was like you know on my period so i was like bloated and i did not look
00:08:19.120 appealing at all and this stunning man walks towards me and when i fancy someone i guess as many of you
00:08:25.120 you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if
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