00:00:00.000What made me think about this i'm like how would you find a good woman and i was thinking about this and i made a chart and i had like the body count of a woman on one hand and i had the looks of a woman on a one hand and so i was like a woman that's eight to ten with a high or a low body count good luck keeping her do you know what the list is going to be for a girl that that's like that hot with like like the competition is crazy and so it's like you could be dating a woman and if there's high competition for her drake could slide in your girl's dms
00:00:29.280hundred percent or maybe it's not drake it's the town whoever right and then i was thinking about it and i was like unless a guy sleeps with a lot of women how is he gonna know the difference between a woman that's been out with everybody and a girl that does it has it they never do they can't know they can't know unless they've been with a lot of girls and i'm like it's kind of unfortunate because it's like the only solution for the men seems to be to sleep around which i don't think is you know great for society but it's like it's women's fault because we're the ones doing the sleeping do you think that men
00:00:59.260should have more than one woman um i i think that it's silly to date certain men and expect monogamy so i think it's silly to date say jason derulo chris brad these are extreme examples but there's certain men that it's very silly to expect it because he's never been monogamous and they never will be i think monogamy in general is better for a society
00:01:23.020forget the higher i'm even talking on average men normal men on a day-to-day because obviously you said earlier on that there's more women on the earth
00:01:30.600well than men yeah so on average how we are naturally do you think that the average man should have one woman
00:01:37.940um i think that it's better for society if monogamy is better because you get like a growing um having a lot of sex
00:01:47.340sexless men like usually cause a slight society to collapse um so i think monogamy is better by and
00:01:53.660large but i think that a certain percentage of men are always going to be non-monogamous
00:01:57.100um and that's kind of the way it's been the last like two million years because 85 percent it's like
00:02:02.120the last i don't want to say the how long it's been like this because i don't remember off the top of my
00:02:06.760head but i know like historically they always it seems like all of society has been non-monogamous because
00:02:12.16017 men um reproduced for every uh one 17 women reproduced for every one man like 8 000 years
00:02:20.340ago and on top of that there's like two women have always reproduced for every one man but it's
00:02:24.140actually um our 40 percent of men have never reproduced or 40 percent of men i'm sorry i'm butchering this
00:02:29.820but but the 85 percent of um like 85 percent of society has generally been monogamous where the top 15
00:02:36.800percent of men have just been like slaying is it yeah well okay you do a lot of stats here yeah i know
00:02:43.160a lot of average men out here that's probably not on these stats doing the same thing and when i say
00:02:47.940a lot i'm talking if you're just talking average men in london obviously london i don't know about
00:02:52.380america and that average in what in sleeping with a lot of women no like average looks average money
00:02:59.120would you average looks average average job i'm i'm i can even give you examples of a few average men
00:03:06.000that are big in weight and just got no more jobs that are dealing with a lot of women across the board
00:03:11.560um well there's a couple things so i mean typically again like there's been studies on dating apps
00:03:17.380and in in person where women find 80 percent of men is ugly not okay not average they think ugly
00:03:24.200he is unattractive ugly would you say the top percentage of men are on these dating apps
00:03:29.240um yeah maybe yeah i don't know i don't i don't believe so
00:03:34.640but i think that i think that if you look at the numbers social media is the number one way
00:03:44.160people are meeting 100 so social media and dating apps and like when you look at so then the question
00:03:50.100is if that's where people are meeting what do the numbers look like in the dating apps well
00:03:53.920women only swipe right five percent of the time so that means on the number one way people are meeting
00:03:59.480we're sharing men 100 because it's always going to be free men because we're the hunters so we
00:04:03.960always say that again it's always going to be men because we're the hunters we're always going we're
00:04:09.800going to be the higher anyway do you get what i'm saying yeah but when you're saying that average
00:04:13.000men that get women they probably get women over the age of 30 because women tend to go for looks
00:04:18.200and so in their 20s i fully agree with that you know i agree with that because i feel like in the
00:04:22.760four single mothers you're 100 right but between 20 and 30 women are very selective in what they
00:04:27.560do and then when they get to the 30 you start wheeling off a lot of stats about yeah pregnancy
00:04:32.200geriatric yeah when they start realizing that then they go for the average they feel like they can
00:04:37.240come back to the average man or even go back to man that they was that was trying to get them
00:04:40.920when they were 18 19 and feel like they can go back to them but obviously with men it's a bit
00:04:45.320different because men yeah at 30 we start peaking we get better yeah so we start it's change there's a
00:04:52.120change you get what i'm saying yeah yeah and so that's why i say women pick non-monogamy in
00:04:56.120their 20s when they have the most leverage yeah and they they pick the 20 of men then in their 30s
00:05:01.720they we tend to pick um like the rest basically and so the issue is like when when when women cheat
00:05:08.360who do they typically cheat with you guys know anyone the exes correct correct so the issue that a lot
00:05:15.880of these guys are getting into and this is why guys don't like typically like a lot of guys will say
00:05:19.640i don't date women over 30 and it's not a looks thing it's that if she's 30 like how many
00:05:24.840relationships has she had is one of those guys better than me and does she want to be with him
00:05:29.560and the odds are he probably is because in her 20s she had more leverage than her 30 so what are the
00:05:33.640odds in her 30s she can get a better guy than in her 20s likely right and he was probably top 20 percent
00:05:40.360of looks i feel like slightly when they have that relationship from 20 to 30 there's there's always that
00:05:45.160one guy that can always come back in the background yeah i've talked i've spoken to women that have
00:05:51.000had like i don't know six years situationships on and off or between every relationship and that's
00:05:56.280like how they keep their like body count low or whatever it's like i say so they'll like go back
00:06:01.320to the lap and it kind of so it kind of makes sense you know keeping your body count 100 but you don't
00:06:07.880have to do that you can use a toy ain't that toxic because yeah no no yeah because like you're going
00:06:13.400back to past situations that may have not been good that's toxic yeah so then use the toy
00:06:17.800a new guy going forward to relive your trauma that's too much toxicity that you're going to bring to the
00:06:22.760new guy that you may meet and then your trauma yeah and like and anytime you mess up he's
00:06:29.080he's sitting there waiting there waiting sitting there waiting now you gotta get rid of all the exes you
00:06:35.160know everyone gotta come off yeah but they are usually usually the guys are the ones that are
00:06:41.000on standby they're waiting and you know why men will always be on there always and i know what they
00:06:46.840want i'm not saying that i'm fooled but and you know why it works they're always there you know why
00:06:51.480it works for women and men will always be there because men don't talk to men but i'm not gonna go
00:06:55.640to to ted and like yo ted i'm dealing with pale you know boom boom boom whereas then women always want
00:07:01.320to go to women about stuff yeah so yeah you lot in terms of you can always have your exes there
00:07:06.280because my man would just wait in the in the background in the shadows yeah cool when you're
00:07:10.840done we might come back and you get me i'm gonna say nothing but women we try to have that one in the
00:07:16.360background now she won't be the main one she want to go to the the main woman and tell her yo we've been
00:07:21.880together how long i've been in the background i've never had that i'm gonna read i'm gonna read this
00:07:27.480was a i think this is like a 50 i don't know the conversion but pearl listen all these discussions
00:07:31.960are pointless walk outside and you will see the majority of men don't leave their homes this
00:07:35.640phenomenon first started in japan we are just a few years behind i went to japan and all i see is
00:07:40.360women outside my main point is you cannot bring back most men outside of their rooms if you have to
00:07:45.080waste time arguing debating with modern women society will collapse just like japan
00:07:48.920women will say it's expensive to have kids tee hee hee children um but men are indoors with corn or
00:07:56.360what is what is what is he implying um i don't know to be honest i just read it um i mean i think in
00:08:05.240general people aren't leaving and especially like now they're gonna have ai and like i think there's
00:08:10.440just more people aren't going outside this is main point um but i was i was thinking about this the other
00:08:16.040today because i was like if i was a guy how would you pick a good because i've been interviewing
00:08:20.680men for this divorce documentary i'm doing so i interview the men that have been like stupid
00:08:25.400wrecked by divorced okay so they're um and typically this happens like it's this is kind of the story
00:08:33.480that i've heard like from guys typically he meets her and there's like an unplanned pregnancy
00:08:38.600and typically like they get married pretty quick and then um she'll go to a women's shelter like
00:08:45.800accuse him of abuse on some level when some like they'll even prove that she was lying because you
00:08:51.720get a free lawyer here if you accuse a guy of abuse um and basically they have their whole lives ruined
00:08:56.840they're on these really big child support payments like one guy lost his job like it's really really sad
00:09:01.960like i listened like they're and you can just tell they're like a shell of a dude who they used to be
00:09:06.360right and i'll speak to these men and i'm like okay so she and some the girls had red flags but some
00:09:12.360it's like she was from a two-parent home um she there's there's one that's in the news right now
00:09:18.440where they're both virgins on their wedding night um i'll see another that's like she um she came from
00:09:24.920a christian family she was from eastern europe and like all the like on paper and i'm like i don't know
00:09:29.240as a guy how you avoid that and so that's that's why i did this show is i was genuinely asking how do you
00:09:35.080like what what where are the good women and how do men pick them and right now i'll tell you what
00:09:41.400we've got um hold on i have the list um go on a coffee date before or after you sleep with her
00:09:49.320sleep with her as soon as possible um one month to a year ask her to make a coffee ask to cook on the
00:09:55.640spot take her on a coffee date date as many women as possible to tell the difference make sure you're
00:09:59.880not on birth control um what is her relationship what like with her dad um and i and i don't even
00:10:05.240say this to like harp on women right because like men have issues women have issues but i just think
00:10:09.560like with how much guys have to lose i'm like how i can't even think of how you avoid it well i would
00:10:14.840say like just don't don't sign a contract when you get married just get married and don't sign the
00:10:18.200contract i thought this too i thought exactly like you but no it doesn't matter because when you have a
00:10:25.400kid no that's true but i think if there was more purity in the world i think if the if men and
00:10:30.280women were both seeking more purity from each other like how how honest are you being right now you
00:10:34.760know how how gentle are you as a pure person do you want to harm people do you want to do you go out
00:10:39.560of your way to lie and get angry let's okay let's follow this let's say the guy says i'm going to be as
00:10:44.440pure as possible i'm going to have as little experience with women as possible how does he tell
00:10:49.160the difference between a woman with a high body count and a low body count if he has no experience with
00:10:53.240women there's no way not no there's there's no there really is no way right so i but if he has
00:10:59.960if he has no experience no factual ways no but i'm saying okay i would think you'd have to like
00:11:04.440kind of be with a lot of women to figure that out but if he doesn't want to if he follows the purity
00:11:08.760route i mean i think that men still have to date women i think men and women should to date men
00:11:14.760and a few men and women at least to see like see what see what people are out there to know the
00:11:18.920difference between different people and also yeah observing other people's relationships is important
00:11:23.080but i don't think you have to sleep with somebody to know if somebody is a is a wifey material you
00:11:29.560know i don't think you have to sleep with someone yeah i don't think you have to sleep being like
00:11:32.840intimate having intimate conversations having relationship you know having your traditional
00:11:36.920values play out in life roles you know cooking and cleaning and taking care of the house whatever
00:11:40.760i think those are things those are important things to do and that's how you'll know if that's
00:11:44.600a woman you actually want to marry one day but that's very pure right there is no like
00:11:48.840you know having the intercourse and making out right but i guess my question is like the average woman
00:11:54.520and like we could talk about like what we should do and and this is where like it's hard because i
00:11:59.480used to think like this i used to think like you but it's like i think we're like red pill and like
00:12:04.040trad cons tend to like talk past each other where it's like the average woman has slept with five to
00:12:08.120eight people like why would he wait for a woman that's no like so do you sense right i agree with this
00:12:14.120like if they should not a man should not wait for someone who slept with five nine women right and
00:12:18.200so how would he tell the difference between a virgin who's lying and a girl who's like actually
00:12:22.200a virgin unless he's carry themselves i mean like you may you won't know you will you will never
00:12:26.600know right i i agree with you you'll never know for sure but the but the way a woman carries
00:12:31.080herself really shows a lot about who she is and if she's gonna lie about something or not yeah and
00:12:36.200lie detector and what yeah that's a practical solution i like that and how she responds to difficult
00:12:43.400situations that's a good one yeah that's a really good one because that that'll be the test every
00:12:48.520time yeah go on a camping trip or travel with them or do something that's you know challenging or out
00:12:53.560of their comfort zone and this is the hard thing i keep thinking to these men i was in the docu like i
00:12:58.280did the documentary with and a lot of them did this stuff and that's why i'm genuinely like i think
00:13:03.720there's like there's no way you could know like genuinely you can never you can never know 100
00:13:08.920no for sure yeah but you can you can get you can engage because through conversation meaning
00:13:14.040he's having a conversation and i find out okay how much relationship you if you've been in a
00:13:18.360relationship 10 years one person yeah you could have done what you're doing in between but then i
00:13:22.600can gauge between this age and this okay you've had one person right then maybe you've been outside for
00:13:27.400the last two years do you get what i'm saying i think you can gauge it that you will never know exact
00:13:31.640number because she could be doing other things and religion and your religion and spirituality definitely
00:13:36.040pays a part in who you choose and how you act right because if you both have a similar religion
00:13:40.440or spirituality okay okay so so then why are the reputation of church women so bad yeah the church
00:13:46.200team is mad so let me start a lot of women go to church and they do terrible things yes right but i'm
00:13:52.120saying like the reputation of church women is is worse than the normal population yeah and so it's like
00:13:57.480just church right no but but it's like it's it's just crazy because it's like everything we tell them
00:14:02.040to look for it's like yeah because they go and commit sins and they can wash them away on the
00:14:06.760sunday you're right and i think men when both do that they both commit sins you know they both do
00:14:10.440that well it sounds like for women it's it's also pretty destructive because their chances of getting
00:14:15.160another guy is pretty low it sounds like huh it was decimating it totally destroys both of their lives
00:14:20.680it sounds like when it doesn't work out not only the man's life but also the woman's life because she
00:14:24.040doesn't have that many chances afterwards according to the statistics you've been sharing but you know i don't
00:14:28.360think this is a man issue though i feel like it's women that need to understand men more and understand
00:14:32.760what men want if they understand what men want they won't have the issue of finding another man it's
00:14:36.200actually quite simple isn't it i just i don't think women would leave if they didn't think they could
00:14:40.200do better like nobody nobody leaves to like be alone i'm not saying they can't like we're delusional you
00:14:46.280know but what's better because they might think that guy's better but well i mean a lot of times it's like
00:14:51.480the we have imaginations for example a man could do way more for you but it's about what you're accepting he
00:14:56.440couldn't give you everything you want to make sure you're the number one woman but if he goes out
00:14:59.880and he's got a couple gala cheating or whatever are you gonna accept that for being a happy wife
00:15:04.520of course not well no one would no a lot of people do exactly a lot of people do i'm saying i'm saying
00:15:09.960if he looks after your home he cares what do you mean he can look after yourself there's not a lot
00:15:17.000if he looks after the home he makes sure you're good everything at home is patterned you're the number
00:15:21.480one woman but yes he goes out sometimes and he's he goes on weekenders away let's say and he sleeps
00:15:27.480with women but when he comes back the house is patterned everything's looked after there's just
00:15:32.360something wrong with his values there's something wrong with his connection to god or religion or
00:15:36.680something there's something wrong with his values but what about her what about maybe she did something
00:15:41.160to make him cheat you don't know that too i agree i always feel like there's a reason people cheat always
00:15:46.840like men don't cheat for no reason and women don't cheat for no reason but like i just think we kind
00:15:50.440of get in this i think we get in this like like if a guy cheats he's like the worst like people always
00:15:56.120misconstrue my thought i don't think cheating is good but like it's like well demonize the men for cheating
00:16:01.240right but when women go into relationships with open social media accounts and we don't demonize them
00:16:07.240where they can still get attention from high value men exactly 100 and it's like we don't it's the same
00:16:12.440thing but yet like if a guy cheats it's the worst thing ever no i think it's both equally i feel like
00:16:16.680if a female cheats their demon is the worst thing ever and that man will never take her back so i
00:16:21.720think it's the opposite i think the women always take him back that's not true when you when you think
00:16:26.520about it like men marry single mothers all the time men take women back and in a way that's like i
00:16:31.400mean you're coming in with another man's kid but i hear what you're saying to a certain degree men yeah
00:16:37.240because obviously if you're letting someone inside your body you that man is going to look at you
00:16:40.920differently no no no forget the man looking at he's going to look at you differently i'm saying if you're
00:16:45.400opening your leg dead i don't think you're just going to open your legs to a man just just off the
00:16:50.680rip at night i do think i do think people should try to work out cheating though like i like i i think
00:16:56.520like it's about the kids it's not about you you should try to work it out