JustPearlyThings - May 20, 2023


These Feminists Downplay Men’s Struggles

Topics
cheating
Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Chris Brown Lottie Tasha Lucy Jojo Valentine Hans
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Length

9 minutes

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203.92

Word count

1,996

Sentence count

332

Harmful content

Misogyny

40

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Toxicity

49

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Hate speech

37

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Summary

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In this episode, the lads discuss cheating, sex, men and women, sexless men and why women cheat on their boyfriends. Also, who's more loyal? Women or Men? (Chris Brown or Chris Brown)

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Okay, what's your name?
00:00:01.000 Lottie
00:00:01.800 Tasha
00:00:02.300 Lucy
00:00:02.800 Jojo
00:00:03.500 Teefee
00:00:04.300 Viola
00:00:05.200 Danica
00:00:05.900 Who cheats more men or women?
00:00:07.400 I'm gonna say men, just because I've heard more about it.
00:00:09.400 Women! 1.00
00:00:10.300 Maybe, because they're toxic. 1.00
00:00:12.200 I feel like it's more men that get caught, but women kind of get away with it. 1.00
00:00:15.600 Women. 0.81
00:00:16.700 Women? 1.00
00:00:17.200 It's about 50-50.
00:00:18.600 All men. Men are trash. 1.00
00:00:19.900 Men are trash? 1.00
00:00:20.700 Yeah. 1.00
00:00:21.200 You think women are whores then? 1.00
00:00:22.200 Yes, but they're driven by men. 1.00
00:00:24.900 It's men's fault that we're whores? 1.00
00:00:26.200 Yeah. 0.99
00:00:26.900 You can't make this up.
00:00:28.700 You can't make this up. 0.95
00:00:29.800 The men are holding a **** to our head and making us Tyrone. 0.96
00:00:32.800 Men cheat first and then women retaliate, that's what happens. 1.00
00:00:35.400 Oh, men, 100%.
00:00:36.500 100%
00:00:37.400 Men.
00:00:37.900 Men.
00:00:38.400 Definitely men.
00:00:39.400 Men.
00:00:39.900 Men.
00:00:40.400 Men, of course.
00:00:41.400 Men.
00:00:41.900 Men.
00:00:42.400 Men.
00:00:42.900 Men.
00:00:43.400 Men.
00:00:45.900 Why do you guys think that?
00:00:47.200 I literally had a guy try to cheat on his girl with me, so, like, and I obviously turned him down, but...
00:00:51.400 Yeah, someone on their staggy and my baio tried to cheat with a friend I was with, so, you know.
00:00:55.200 So, what if I told you that one in three men under 30 are sexless in the past year?
00:00:59.700 No.
00:01:00.700 You're not.
00:01:01.700 It's harder for guys to get six.
00:01:04.300 Okay.
00:01:05.300 Do you guys, do you guys like tall guys?
00:01:06.300 Yeah, I'm on six foot five.
00:01:07.300 Yeah, I'm cool though.
00:01:08.300 What percent of guys do you think are over six foot?
00:01:10.300 Well, not many.
00:01:11.300 Not many.
00:01:12.300 Half a cent.
00:01:13.300 20%, yeah.
00:01:14.300 I've been, I'm quite tall anyway, that's why I've gone for six foot five.
00:01:17.300 Only 15% of men are over six foot.
00:01:19.900 You're the lucky one, baby.
00:01:21.900 So, when you think about it, it's a really small percentage of guys that we want.
00:01:25.300 Because I'm two, I have to be picky.
00:01:27.300 That's the difference.
00:01:28.300 Did you know that one in three men under 30 are either virgins or haven't had sex in
00:01:32.800 the past year?
00:01:33.800 Go. 0.87
00:01:34.300 They're liars. 1.00
00:01:35.300 Yeah, you're liars. 1.00
00:01:36.300 You're a liar. 1.00
00:01:37.300 So, what are your requirements for a guy, if you were to date a guy? 1.00
00:01:40.300 Oh, you've got to be funny, like, and supportive.
00:01:43.300 Supportive.
00:01:44.300 What about physical requirements?
00:01:45.300 Oh, I'm not that fast.
00:01:46.300 Like, if you've got like a good heart, good person.
00:01:48.300 Yeah.
00:01:49.300 So, at 300 pounds, you're down?
00:01:51.300 No, okay.
00:01:52.300 300 pounds, maybe not.
00:01:53.300 I would go for someone that's like a four out of ten.
00:01:56.300 What about money?
00:01:57.300 How much money does he have to have?
00:01:58.300 Money?
00:01:59.300 Like, enough to like, not be like, every time I'm paying for everything.
00:02:02.300 Yeah.
00:02:03.300 But like, no, that's not an issue. 0.97
00:02:05.300 Like, listen, we fucking earn money. 0.96
00:02:07.300 Okay, cool. 0.99
00:02:08.300 So, if he's living on his mom's couch, you're down?
00:02:10.300 Well, he's a scrub. 0.97
00:02:13.300 What if he was an artist, and he made $20,000 or pounds a year?
00:02:18.300 Are you cool with that?
00:02:19.300 For life, he's never going to make more.
00:02:21.300 If he's treating me right, then, and if that's compared to a man who's on 100k, 0.99
00:02:25.300 and he's treating me like shit, then yeah, 20k. 0.99
00:02:27.300 Who's more loyal? 1.00
00:02:28.300 Men or women? 0.78
00:02:29.300 Women. 0.81
00:02:30.300 Women. 0.81
00:02:31.300 For sure, women. 1.00
00:02:32.300 Men.
00:02:33.300 I think women are more secretive. 1.00
00:02:35.300 They know what they're doing, Hans.
00:02:37.300 My experience, women. 0.94
00:02:38.300 No, I think men.
00:02:39.300 No.
00:02:40.300 Women are more... 1.00
00:02:41.300 No, I think men.
00:02:42.300 I think men.
00:02:43.300 Wait, more loyal?
00:02:44.300 Me, personally, I would never do anything.
00:02:45.300 I think men.
00:02:46.300 No, I would never do that.
00:02:47.300 No.
00:02:48.300 I think it was Chris Brown.
00:02:49.300 My body works.
00:02:50.300 No, women are definitely more loyal like that. 1.00
00:02:52.300 No, yeah, I agree.
00:02:53.300 Women. 0.81
00:02:54.300 You guys just said you'd fly out to see Chris Brown.
00:02:56.300 Yeah.
00:02:57.300 Yeah.
00:02:58.300 I've had the conversation.
00:02:59.300 The conversation's been had.
00:03:00.300 It's Chris Brown.
00:03:01.300 Did you know one in three men under 30 are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past
00:03:06.300 year?
00:03:07.300 Not mine.
00:03:08.300 Yeah, I'm not surprised.
00:03:09.300 Really?
00:03:10.300 Isn't that crazy?
00:03:11.300 I would believe it.
00:03:12.300 I get that.
00:03:13.300 I'm a man under 30 and I have had sex in the last year. 0.50
00:03:16.300 Go on, guy. 0.89
00:03:17.300 Go on.
00:03:18.300 Go on.
00:03:19.300 By that logic, wouldn't you think that women would cheat more because I don't think one 0.74
00:03:23.300 in three women are virgins. 0.70
00:03:24.300 Guys pay for what they want, which is abyss.
00:03:27.300 But they don't, they're not because they're virgins or they haven't had sex, you know,
00:03:31.300 so they're not doing it.
00:03:32.300 So do you think that men's cheating isn't as bad as women's cheating? 1.00
00:03:35.300 Because if a woman cheats, she's looking for a new relationship where a man, he's just 0.79
00:03:38.300 trying to.
00:03:39.300 It's both like torment.
00:03:41.300 What is it?
00:03:42.300 Tontimental?
00:03:43.300 I cannot pronounce that word.
00:03:44.300 It damages both like their other partners.
00:03:46.300 It's all about self-control.
00:03:47.300 One in three men under 30 are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
00:03:52.300 It's a very small percentage.
00:03:53.300 So I'll give you an example on dating apps.
00:03:55.300 Women only swipe right 5% of the time where men swipe right 50% of the time. 1.00
00:04:00.300 So women are much pickier than men. 1.00
00:04:02.300 I can believe that.
00:04:03.300 Yeah.
00:04:04.300 Yeah.
00:04:05.300 So it's a small percentage of men that are cheating.
00:04:06.300 That's why, like, why do you think women hate men? 0.99
00:04:08.300 Because we're the same one.
00:04:09.300 That is true.
00:04:10.300 But I need to find those men then clearly because.
00:04:13.300 I mean, like, look, there's a guy that's making 35,000 pounds, kind of a bum, you know, 1.00
00:04:19.300 doesn't really make a lot of money.
00:04:20.300 He lives with his mom, but he'd be faithful.
00:04:22.300 Stay-at-home son?
00:04:23.300 No, no, no.
00:04:24.300 Yeah, yeah, that's the thing.
00:04:25.300 Like, kind of everything, right?
00:04:26.300 We want Chris Browns.
00:04:27.300 Why is the public perception that men are dogs? 0.97
00:04:30.300 Men are dogs. 0.97
00:04:31.300 Like, they actually are. 1.00
00:04:32.300 Like, they lie. 0.92
00:04:33.300 I mean, we lie, but I feel like they just, they're bad liars.
00:04:36.300 Do you know what I'm saying?
00:04:37.300 Who do you think lies more, men or women?
00:04:39.300 Can I say both?
00:04:40.300 I might actually have to say women.
00:04:41.300 Women maybe do lie more. 1.00
00:04:43.300 I don't know about other stuff. 0.99
00:04:44.300 Well, why do you think the public perception is that men are dogs, liars, and cheats if 0.98
00:04:48.300 we both fit? 0.97
00:04:49.300 Like, because I agree with you.
00:04:50.300 Yeah.
00:04:51.300 I mean, that's just what's put out there. 0.99
00:04:52.300 Like, every, like, I feel like girls, like, are always like, men are trash. 1.00
00:04:55.300 Like, men are cheats. 1.00
00:04:56.300 Men are liars. 1.00
00:04:57.300 Like, but maybe sometimes it's women. 1.00
00:05:00.300 Like, why do you think it's hard for women to look in the mirror and say that? 1.00
00:05:04.300 Because women are delusional sometimes. 0.99
00:05:06.300 We don't want to know, we don't want to admit that we're wrong.
00:05:09.300 We'll never, we'll never admit we're wrong.
00:05:11.300 Ever.
00:05:12.300 Do you think women get caught cheating? 1.00
00:05:14.300 Not if they're smart about it.
00:05:15.300 Who gets away with cheating more, men or women?
00:05:17.300 Women. 0.81
00:05:18.300 Men.
00:05:19.300 Women, 100%. 0.95
00:05:20.300 Women get away with cheating more, 100%. 1.00
00:05:22.300 Do you think one in three women are either virgins or haven't had sex in the last year?
00:05:26.300 One in three.
00:05:27.300 Are we, like, are we counting, like, with themselves?
00:05:29.300 Or are we counting, like, yeah?
00:05:31.300 No, no, other people.
00:05:32.300 You get what I'm saying?
00:05:33.300 Yes, I would believe it, I believe it.
00:05:34.300 You get one in three.
00:05:35.300 Oh, come on. 0.87
00:05:36.300 You know, come on.
00:05:37.300 Who do you, what girl do you know that's a virgin? 1.00
00:05:39.300 I don't know anyone that's a virgin.
00:05:41.300 So then, don't you think that women cheat more than men? 0.56
00:05:44.300 I think men cheat more than women, but I feel like women, women have more of a reason 1.00
00:05:48.300 to.
00:05:49.300 Just because I feel like it's more complicated with women. 0.94
00:05:52.300 Do you guys like tall men?
00:05:53.300 Over six foot.
00:05:54.300 What percent of men do you think are over six foot? 0.99
00:05:56.300 Maybe over 40?
00:05:58.300 No, only 15% of men are over six foot.
00:06:00.300 Oh, wow.
00:06:01.300 Do you think one in three women under 30 haven't had sex in the past?
00:06:04.300 Absolutely not.
00:06:05.300 No.
00:06:06.300 So then, by that logic, don't women sleep around more than men? 0.92
00:06:10.300 Yes, son, yes.
00:06:11.300 Aren't they less loyal?
00:06:12.300 I think they do.
00:06:13.300 I am old you.
00:06:14.300 I think they do.
00:06:15.300 Especially, like, London and things like that.
00:06:16.300 I'm speechless.
00:06:17.300 Personally, from my experience, I don't sleep around, but I don't know what other girls 1.00
00:06:20.300 get up to.
00:06:21.300 Who gets caught more, men or women?
00:06:22.300 Men for sure.
00:06:23.300 Oh, yeah.
00:06:24.300 We're good at lying.
00:06:25.300 Who gets away with cheating more, men or women?
00:06:28.300 Women don't get caught. 1.00
00:06:29.300 We're smarter about it.
00:06:30.300 Have any of you been cheated on?
00:06:31.300 No.
00:06:32.300 No.
00:06:33.300 Oh, wow.
00:06:34.300 Never? 0.99
00:06:35.300 No, yes I fucking have. 1.00
00:06:36.300 Lies. 0.99
00:06:37.300 So how did you find out he cheated?
00:06:38.300 Having another girlfriend, and then I found out he had another girlfriend.
00:06:40.300 Did you leave when you found out?
00:06:42.300 No.
00:06:43.300 How long did you stay after you found out?
00:06:45.300 Six months, maybe.
00:06:46.300 Six months?
00:06:47.300 Then I realised on Valentine's Day, when he's spending half the day with me and half
00:06:51.300 the day with her.
00:06:52.300 It's not really good, is it?
00:06:53.300 But I was young.
00:06:54.300 I was 17.
00:06:55.300 Oh, you were 17.
00:06:56.300 No, that is very young.
00:06:57.300 Right now, never. 1.00
00:06:58.300 But back then, I was stupid. 0.98
00:07:00.300 Have you ever been cheated on? 0.99
00:07:02.300 Probably, yeah.
00:07:03.300 I'd say yeah.
00:07:04.300 What have you found out about?
00:07:05.300 I saw some messages, but I don't know if that's classed as cheating or not.
00:07:08.300 I mean, is it cheating?
00:07:09.300 Yeah.
00:07:10.300 Yeah, probably.
00:07:11.300 Yeah, I'd say yeah.
00:07:12.300 Did you stay after you found out he cheated?
00:07:14.300 Yes, but I was like 18, 17, so you've got to let me off for that.
00:07:19.300 Like, I didn't know.
00:07:21.300 Have you ever been cheated on?
00:07:23.300 No.
00:07:24.300 No, never.
00:07:25.300 Never.
00:07:26.300 Have you ever looked through a guy's phone to see?
00:07:27.300 A few times.
00:07:28.300 We all have.
00:07:29.300 Yeah, we all have.
00:07:30.300 Yeah, a few times, yeah.
00:07:32.300 But you never found anything, that's good.
00:07:34.300 No, no, yeah.
00:07:35.300 Where are you from, by the way?
00:07:37.300 Finland.
00:07:38.300 So, in Finland, do you guys have more traditional gender roles or is it more modern, would you
00:07:43.300 say?
00:07:44.300 It's like traditional, yeah.
00:07:46.300 It's turning more into modern, but the traditional is still up there.
00:07:53.300 Do you like that?
00:07:54.300 I think that Finland is a super old school country, and I would like that they would 1.00
00:08:02.300 take some notes on the other countries, like in the UK.
00:08:06.300 Do you prefer it when a guy pays or do you prefer to split it 50-50?
00:08:10.300 It doesn't matter for me.
00:08:11.300 I can split my pillow.
00:08:12.300 You make your own money.
00:08:13.300 I make my own money, yeah.
00:08:15.300 I can pay my flowers.
00:08:17.300 Have you ever been cheated on?
00:08:19.300 I wouldn't say cheated, but disappointed.
00:08:22.300 What does that mean? 1.00
00:08:23.300 Just, you know, some sneaky, sneaky shit. 1.00
00:08:26.300 So, after you found the sneaky shit, did you stay or did you leave? 1.00
00:08:29.300 Oh, I'm gone with the wind. 1.00
00:08:31.300 Gone.
00:08:32.300 Okay, okay.
00:08:33.300 Have you guys ever been cheated on?
00:08:34.300 Yes.
00:08:35.300 Yes.
00:08:36.300 Okay, so for the two that have been cheated on, after you found out he was cheating, did
00:08:40.300 you stay?
00:08:41.300 Yeah.
00:08:42.300 Yeah.
00:08:43.300 I was 16.
00:08:44.300 It was like...
00:08:45.300 How long after he cheated did you end up leaving?
00:08:49.300 Probably about like four or five months.
00:08:51.300 Yeah, it was a good couple of months.
00:08:54.300 I think the phrase is true that women planned the breakup six months before. 0.84
00:08:58.300 Yes!
00:08:59.300 Yes!
00:09:00.300 100% yeah.
00:09:01.300 In the words of Chris Brown, are these hoes loyal? 1.00
00:09:05.300 No, they ain't loyal.
00:09:07.300 These hoes ain't loyal. 1.00
00:09:09.300 These hoes ain't loyal. 1.00
00:09:10.300 No.
00:09:11.300 They're not loyal.
00:09:12.300 Don't trust them.
00:09:13.300 No.
00:09:14.300 These hoes ain't loyal. 1.00
00:09:16.300 Never.
00:09:17.300 I am.
00:09:18.300 I was an ex-ho.
00:09:19.300 I'm not ho anymore. 0.69
00:09:20.300 I'm married.
00:09:21.300 I'm definitely an ex-ho, but I am loyal.
00:09:24.300 So what age did you stop being a ho? 1.00
00:09:27.300 25.
00:09:28.300 24.
00:09:29.300 But I started at about 17.
00:09:31.300 As many of you know, I was just banned on TikTok.
00:09:34.300 And we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform.
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