JustPearlyThings - April 04, 2023


These Men Broke down the Modern Clown World


Episode Stats

Length

10 minutes

Words per Minute

190.64781

Word Count

2,063

Sentence Count

166

Misogynist Sentences

26

Hate Speech Sentences

21


Summary

In this episode, we discuss why women should not have sex with men before getting married, the benefits of sex before marriage, and the dangers of not sleeping with a man before marriage. We also discuss when women should settle and when their standards are too high.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 When, so 50% of women over 30 are single and childless.
00:00:04.760 They have the lowest birth rate ever, practically, in human history.
00:00:09.220 When should women settle and when are their standards too high?
00:00:14.540 I think their standards are too high when it becomes unattainable.
00:00:18.820 Okay.
00:00:19.780 And illogical.
00:00:23.720 As far as when they should settle, I can't answer that,
00:00:27.420 but with regards to their standards being too high, I feel like if something's unattainable,
00:00:30.720 then your standards are too high, just by default.
00:00:33.120 Okay.
00:00:33.440 What do you guys think?
00:00:35.440 I don't necessarily think our standards are too high.
00:00:38.500 I think, like, so, you should be typically being a virgin as a woman before you actually,
00:00:51.080 like, before you actually have sex with a man, be thinking about putting a ring on it.
00:00:54.840 And I would always say that, like...
00:00:57.340 What was that?
00:00:58.380 Say that again?
00:00:59.240 Can you rephrase that?
00:01:00.180 Sex before marriage, bro.
00:01:01.960 Oh, you're saying sex before marriage is important?
00:01:04.480 No, I'm saying marriage...
00:01:06.120 You shouldn't be having sex before marriage.
00:01:07.740 Right, right, right.
00:01:08.040 Got you.
00:01:09.180 Got you.
00:01:09.780 You're going to start doing it from now on.
00:01:12.120 No, no, no.
00:01:12.860 No, I'm saying the reason why girls should practice marriage before sex
00:01:16.980 is because the other way around disadvantages them.
00:01:20.380 It doesn't disadvantage me.
00:01:22.040 I am completely in my zone when you don't want to ask for commitment.
00:01:28.440 Yeah.
00:01:28.600 I don't need it.
00:01:30.080 Like, it's not...
00:01:31.220 You know what I mean?
00:01:31.640 It's not...
00:01:32.320 I don't have to spend money on you.
00:01:33.580 I don't have to be thinking about you.
00:01:34.940 I don't have to do...
00:01:35.620 Like, do you know what I mean?
00:01:36.160 Yeah.
00:01:36.420 So, it's worse for you if we don't have a commitment.
00:01:39.480 So, women should not sleep with men before they are married?
00:01:42.720 Yes, but the Bible said that.
00:01:44.020 The Quran could...
00:01:44.040 Well, to start, if they're virgins, but the problem is you have women that, you know,
00:01:48.840 get ran through and then ask the guy to wait, and I'm not sure that's the best strategy.
00:01:54.180 But you said as well, our connections are built through sex, and sex is a very important
00:01:58.780 part.
00:01:59.220 Yes.
00:02:00.360 So, what happens for the divorce money?
00:02:03.820 Because what if the sex is shit?
00:02:05.320 I've waited.
00:02:06.580 Got a big old ring.
00:02:08.220 Your sex is dead.
00:02:09.640 Okay, the pen's...
00:02:10.440 How would you know it's bad sex if you've never had sex with anyone else?
00:02:16.020 Unless, like...
00:02:16.780 You'd only know for one of two reasons.
00:02:19.200 You're comparing him to another guy, or your friends are telling you stuff he's not doing.
00:02:23.260 Yeah, my friend is probably saying you're meant to...
00:02:25.540 Maybe something's meant to happen at a point in sex.
00:02:29.300 But then you can grow with someone when it comes to sex, isn't it?
00:02:32.680 I suppose.
00:02:33.420 You can have sex with someone for the first time, and it's not that good.
00:02:36.360 But then once you...
00:02:37.400 It's called practice.
00:02:38.140 Ladies, you're going to miss a lot of good sex if you do that.
00:02:41.440 No, no, no.
00:02:42.160 Because, do you know what it is?
00:02:43.460 Like, think feminism got confused, yeah?
00:02:45.760 They're like, oh, men were sitting down in a dark corner, all cuddling together, thinking,
00:02:50.960 how can we screw over women?
00:02:52.300 Instead of thinking it as men actually love their women, and think, how can we best protect
00:02:57.200 our women and our daughters?
00:02:58.800 The best way is for her to be married, my daughter to be married with a man that I've
00:03:02.900 vetted, I've made sure he's all right.
00:03:06.000 Like, yes, it's hypergamous, but I've vetted him.
00:03:09.120 Even, like, do you know what I mean?
00:03:10.000 We're marrying a family to another family of two, what do you call it, two decent families.
00:03:17.440 We're not just marrying the person, we're marrying the family as well.
00:03:19.920 So we're marrying the...
00:03:20.640 So now, when you're 89 and you've got all your kids and your aunties around, you're
00:03:24.520 not lonely, you don't have the cat around.
00:03:26.820 You know what I'm trying to say?
00:03:27.600 You enjoy your life and fulfill your life, because that's what the main purpose of life
00:03:31.620 isn't it?
00:03:31.940 To reproduce.
00:03:32.940 The happiest life of a woman is simply that she doesn't run through loads of men, she
00:03:37.240 gets married, she has loads of kids, she gets to have grandkids, and then later on
00:03:43.300 she gets spoiled by standing in her living room, and she's got 20, 30 people that have
00:03:48.940 all just come from her.
00:03:50.120 And at the end of the day, it's not that...
00:03:52.960 Well, ultimately, women, they can't have been dicked down by so many different men and
00:04:01.100 then expect to have a man take them seriously in a long-term relationship.
00:04:05.360 It's okay making the man weigh ever so slightly, but that's if he knows you don't have a history
00:04:11.380 of being run through by loads of different men.
00:04:13.420 I think that alone is going to give men the security to say, right, look, I'm now willing
00:04:16.940 to wait a little bit, because I know that this woman's heart is in it for the right
00:04:19.840 reason, and now I know that I can wife her, and we can do it for the right reason.
00:04:23.600 We can actually have kids, and we can have a long-lasting relationship.
00:04:26.200 Personally, I do agree with you all that actually the government's involvement, to me, is bullshit
00:04:30.260 as well.
00:04:30.620 I hate it, but the sentiment of it is far more biologically beneficial to you, but men will opt
00:04:40.880 in as long as you don't have that background, as long as you don't have that history, and
00:04:45.360 as long as loyalty is there, first and foremost, and that you will treat man, so you will treat
00:04:50.580 your men as men.
00:04:53.520 Don't get me wrong, they have to be men in the first place, and by men, I mean actual
00:04:55.980 masculine men.
00:04:57.180 They have to have the right frame.
00:04:58.560 They have to have the finances in order, but as long as they can see that you have the
00:05:03.800 right history, you have the right motive, and then the loyalty is there altogether,
00:05:07.520 whatever, I think we could all agree in here that a relationship is now going to last,
00:05:11.880 and it's going to be fruitful forever.
00:05:13.520 What's more important, a low body count or loyalty?
00:05:17.020 What's more important?
00:05:18.600 I don't think I need to pick either one.
00:05:20.340 They tend to be the same.
00:05:21.480 I was going to say, they kind of...
00:05:22.980 They go hand in hand, because if a girl has a higher body count, it's more baggage.
00:05:27.800 It's more excess he has to deal with.
00:05:29.720 It's more like, I hate this term, but like alpha widows.
00:05:33.560 I've never heard that.
00:05:34.840 Yeah, it's basically like the ex that the girl can't get over, but there's more of them,
00:05:39.220 the more people she's slept with.
00:05:41.380 I do agree with certain points that you said about getting married.
00:05:43.880 I do agree with body count, and I do...
00:05:46.580 I was raised on women shouldn't get run through, and I do agree with that, and I'll preach
00:05:52.140 that to my daughters, but I don't...
00:05:54.540 What I don't agree with is the perfect family, the scenario, the greatest thing for a woman
00:06:01.360 is when she's standing in her living room with 30 people celebrating her.
00:06:05.700 Yeah, for some people, yeah.
00:06:07.500 For some people, that is their life goal.
00:06:11.120 I don't think...
00:06:14.000 My aunt...
00:06:14.860 I've got a few people in my family that can't have kids.
00:06:17.900 So...
00:06:17.980 That's the exception.
00:06:18.720 That's the exception.
00:06:19.340 And that's an exception.
00:06:20.220 So it's to say she can't have kids, her life is any less fulfilled than my other auntie
00:06:27.320 that has got the...
00:06:28.260 Maybe, maybe, but she's living her best life.
00:06:31.360 Or in foreign...
00:06:32.700 Like...
00:06:33.480 Is she?
00:06:34.100 She's had to adjust ultimately.
00:06:36.180 No, yeah, I hear you.
00:06:37.280 So we can adjust, and I don't think her life is any less fulfilled.
00:06:40.920 No, it's not.
00:06:41.400 It's not going to be any less fulfilled.
00:06:43.300 I mean, technically, it will be.
00:06:45.020 No, I hear what you're saying, because she has been through probably periods of her life
00:06:47.860 where she's wanted to kids.
00:06:48.660 I get that.
00:06:49.400 But again, I mean, that is the exception to the rule, and it doesn't mean she can't be happy,
00:06:53.840 but she's not going to be as happy.
00:06:55.020 Now, that's just the sad truth of it, right?
00:06:56.280 But if you're a woman...
00:06:59.540 I mean, to go back to your previous point, what would a woman want more than to later
00:07:04.580 on be able to say that they're a grandmother, great-grandmother, with loads and loads of
00:07:08.560 kids, loads of people that have come from there?
00:07:10.220 What would a...
00:07:10.740 I know you said that that's not every woman's goal.
00:07:13.120 What goal would you say a woman would value more than that long term that society hasn't
00:07:17.680 told her she should have?
00:07:18.500 Yeah, I'm like, I want to cut the 30 great-grandkids down to like eight, nine, because the cost
00:07:26.600 of living out here is crazy.
00:07:28.340 That's a lot of Christmas presents.
00:07:29.820 But the point is, if a woman doesn't prioritize a family, she ends up unhappy in the long term
00:07:35.180 in general.
00:07:38.400 Because this is when you survey women, because it's all fun and games when you're still hot,
00:07:44.140 right?
00:07:44.300 And you still look good, right?
00:07:45.780 And you still get attention from men, but at some point that goes away.
00:07:49.120 Like, no guys are lining up to date 50-year-olds.
00:07:51.600 Yeah, we have that.
00:07:51.940 And you're going to live to be 90.
00:07:53.220 Go ahead.
00:07:53.700 Yeah, sorry.
00:07:54.380 We have that window.
00:07:55.900 So that's why we want that commitment early on.
00:07:57.940 Fertility window, yeah.
00:07:59.140 Yeah.
00:07:59.480 So we need to optimize in that and try and find that commitment when we're in that window.
00:08:07.820 So then...
00:08:09.020 So women are nurturing.
00:08:11.160 They want to have kids naturally.
00:08:13.760 Not all.
00:08:14.520 Not all.
00:08:15.340 Naturally.
00:08:15.780 Naturally, you do.
00:08:17.340 But I believe the only reason why some women will say they don't, and I personally believe
00:08:22.420 I'm yet to be convinced otherwise, is because modern day social conditioning.
00:08:27.520 Society has convinced you that's not your ultimate goal.
00:08:30.020 But if you actually walk into a dark room with nobody in there by yourself, completely
00:08:33.960 caught, and ask yourself, what do you want?
00:08:35.540 What does your biology want?
00:08:36.560 I think you'll know the answer.
00:08:37.400 When you ask girls that are 18 and they're graduating high school, they all want to be
00:08:40.760 married with kids.
00:08:41.680 That's the first thing they want.
00:08:42.760 Yeah, but who sold them that dream?
00:08:44.900 It's just nature.
00:08:47.000 It's definitely not society.
00:08:48.760 You have feminism pushing.
00:08:49.940 You can get your own bag.
00:08:51.360 Female empowerment.
00:08:52.940 Like, I've been told from the youngest age that I can do whatever I want.
00:08:57.140 Society's telling you that you should have this big career.
00:08:59.600 Yeah.
00:08:59.840 And make it on your own.
00:09:02.960 Bullshit.
00:09:03.600 That's, in the long run, you're just going to, if you're going to be like a high up lawyer
00:09:09.600 with loads of money, you may have loads of money, but you'll be lonely because you won't
00:09:13.380 have your children.
00:09:15.420 You get a couple of more holidays a year out of your money.
00:09:17.560 So fucking what?
00:09:18.140 At the end of the day, what does it matter to you if you've not got a family?
00:09:21.240 That's ultimately what you want.
00:09:22.560 To have children.
00:09:24.220 That's the gift we have.
00:09:25.840 That's not how to procreate.
00:09:26.920 You're breeding machines.
00:09:28.960 That's literally what you're biologically designed.
00:09:31.240 I know this, but I want to ask you guys something.
00:09:34.140 Now, the LGBT community should be allowed to conduct themselves how they conduct themselves.
00:09:41.080 So more than likely, we're not going to get any kids from that area.
00:09:45.680 Now, the women that we're now telling go to work, go to career and stuff, don't have
00:09:52.420 kids late.
00:09:53.360 Now, we're telling those women not to have kids.
00:09:55.140 What do you think happens to the human race when people stop having kids?
00:10:01.760 It will become extinct, won't it?
00:10:03.560 It will become extinct.
00:10:04.120 That's what I'm talking about.
00:10:05.460 So we need a man and a woman to have kids, right?
00:10:07.840 Mm-hmm.
00:10:08.400 Right.
00:10:08.860 Otherwise, we need to continue the human race.
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