JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023


They EXPOSED Beyoncé’s Hypocrisy


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11 minutes

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193.685

Word count

2,241

Sentence count

6

Harmful content

Misogyny

51

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Hate speech

34

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In this episode, we discuss what it means to be an alpha female and how women can be alpha females. We discuss the difference between being an alpha females and being a leader in a boss. We also discuss the lack of alpha females in the entertainment industry.

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00:00:00.000 An example of that I think I know I know what you mean, okay, I can give you an example then
00:00:04.420 Jay-z and Beyonce Beyonce she's a leader. She's a boss
00:00:10.020 independent woman the biggest capper
00:00:12.100 She doesn't need a man when she you know, you know, it's music business 0.90
00:00:32.800 But that's what I'm saying. She's she's busy brainwashing 0.85
00:00:42.100 I'm not saying that I'm not arguing that point. I'm not even arguing that point
00:00:47.020 Wait, wait, wait, wait, so so when when when her when she caught Jay-z cheating
00:00:52.100 Was she an alpha female or did she say you know what?
00:00:56.100 She said me no way. She was an alpha because she was like, do you know what Bridgen? I'll submit to that one actually
00:01:00.980 But maybe that's what I said when I'm losing him, but you were saying sorry as I said as I made my point
00:01:06.780 some women 1.00
00:01:08.780 Understanding remember what we spoke about the other day pearly some men if you're in the entertainment business
00:01:15.240 You know the guy's gonna cheat she's understanding 1.00
00:01:18.120 Am I gonna throw away this legacy? I'm gonna throw away this business or should I just get up with it and throw along?
00:01:23.740 You know, I'm trying to say I'm not saying that she's not a leader in a boss
00:01:27.640 but I'm saying there's some women that can be a leader in a boss and 1.00
00:01:30.900 Be understanding don't mean they're not submissive. Yeah, you know
00:01:34.160 She did cap the whole situation on lemonade like I believe when Beyonce came out with that lemonade album 0.78
00:01:40.000 Yeah, I believe everybody said no to their boyfriend and they ran away from her boyfriend and then she was like I'm pregnant with twins 0.97
00:01:47.360 I was like, oh, how are you gonna bring out the lemonade that didn't you pregnant? 1.00
00:01:50.820 No, no, no, no, no
00:01:52.620 You just made me break up with my man dog
00:01:54.660 That's what people get for following celebrities
00:01:57.560 I've just never I've never met a girl that calls herself an alpha female
00:02:02.500 Yeah, I really believe is submissive in a relationship
00:02:05.340 Yeah, yeah, I think that people take the word alpha
00:02:07.880 Do you think women can actually be alpha females? 1.00
00:02:11.220 Is there such things?
00:02:12.260 To me
00:02:12.640 No, no, no, let's get into it, please
00:02:14.640 Because I need to understand
00:02:16.260 I'll let you hear if you wanted to say something
00:02:18.320 To me, an alpha woman can be a very strong woman who's just got her shit together 1.00
00:02:22.540 Tell him again
00:02:23.140 And she knows how to take care of her man 0.98
00:02:25.800 She does her thing
00:02:27.400 She gets on with life
00:02:29.380 And yeah, she's a strong woman
00:02:31.300 She can do a bit of DIY
00:02:32.680 She can do everything
00:02:34.140 Do you know, I've got four sisters 0.96
00:02:36.500 And let me tell you
00:02:37.820 All my four sisters can do more than me 0.89
00:02:40.120 Including DIY, everything
00:02:42.340 They can do everything
00:02:43.560 Because I grew up in a big family
00:02:46.580 Where my sisters had to basically defend themselves
00:02:49.660 And they grew up in the 90s
00:02:51.700 In Whitechapel, Bethnal Green
00:02:53.620 So it was a time where you had to be strong
00:02:56.000 You had to stand up for yourself
00:02:58.120 So you would say they're more modern than traditional
00:03:00.020 Yes, they're more modern
00:03:01.040 But like what has better outcomes?
00:03:02.640 If the modern alpha females had good outcomes 1.00
00:03:05.920 Why are men getting their passports and leaving? 0.94
00:03:09.060 What men?
00:03:09.700 I saw these other men
00:03:10.840 That's a fair one
00:03:11.680 If they're not being taken care of
00:03:14.500 If they're not being taken care of
00:03:16.220 Then they're going to run away
00:03:17.300 Hold on, one minute, one minute
00:03:18.120 Because more time
00:03:19.120 One minute, more time
00:03:20.060 If you ask most of these men
00:03:21.020 They were brought up by a single mum 1.00
00:03:22.860 Wait, hold on
00:03:23.860 So
00:03:24.380 Would they say that their mum
00:03:26.280 Was not an alpha?
00:03:28.140 That's just what I'd like to throw out
00:03:30.100 Because I'm sure
00:03:31.460 If they were raised by a woman 0.99
00:03:33.820 Who had to hold it down
00:03:35.140 For their whole family
00:03:36.160 And look after them
00:03:37.320 And bring them all up
00:03:38.060 It sounds to me like
00:03:39.400 She sounds like she's a bit of an alpha 0.70
00:03:40.960 But so he was raised by a woman 0.96
00:03:42.420 That doesn't know how to 1.00
00:03:43.240 How to have a functional relationship
00:03:45.000 Who said she doesn't know how to? 1.00
00:03:46.180 Because she couldn't
00:03:46.820 He could have kept it moving
00:03:47.560 Because if she's a single mother 0.99
00:03:48.900 She doesn't know how to have 1.00
00:03:49.920 A functional relationship
00:03:50.560 How did she know?
00:03:51.140 She could have done that 0.97
00:03:51.740 Because those are the results
00:03:53.980 No
00:03:54.320 Some duds, you know 0.99
00:03:55.780 Wait, wait, wait, wait
00:03:57.000 That's not saying
00:03:57.200 You failed the test
00:03:58.240 But oh my god
00:03:58.840 Wait, wait, wait, wait
00:04:00.440 So
00:04:00.680 Wait, no, wait, wait
00:04:02.640 So
00:04:02.920 Yeah
00:04:03.420 So she doesn't know
00:04:04.520 How to have a functional relationship
00:04:06.240 Because
00:04:06.660 The father of the child decided
00:04:09.280 He was like
00:04:10.860 No, he decided
00:04:11.500 I don't want to be a dad
00:04:12.680 And he walked out on the child
00:04:14.240 So she doesn't
00:04:15.040 She doesn't know how to have a functional relationship 1.00
00:04:16.160 Yeah, because women leave 1.00
00:04:17.040 70 to 80% of the time
00:04:18.460 90% of their college
00:04:19.500 Yeah, no, no
00:04:19.660 No, no, some percentage
00:04:20.680 I'm just saying
00:04:21.500 So she doesn't know
00:04:22.700 So you're just saying
00:04:23.680 She doesn't
00:04:24.260 She doesn't
00:04:24.760 She either picked someone
00:04:26.480 Like, I mean, come on
00:04:27.660 Why would you have a kid with someone
00:04:29.040 That isn't going to stick around?
00:04:30.760 Well
00:04:31.040 You don't know sometimes
00:04:34.180 You don't know sometimes
00:04:35.540 Someone play the game
00:04:37.500 Can I just say something?
00:04:39.040 There are some men
00:04:41.800 Who will get a few baby mamas 1.00
00:04:44.120 And they visit
00:04:45.360 One from another
00:04:46.680 And they kind of set up their lives
00:04:48.680 Yeah
00:04:49.020 So there are men who do that
00:04:50.580 And women too 1.00
00:04:51.200 And because the women 1.00
00:04:52.980 Are getting financed
00:04:54.500 Or they're getting support
00:04:56.020 They're fine with it
00:04:56.860 Because they're living their lives
00:04:57.780 Yeah, but this is exception
00:04:58.860 Like you guys keep talking about exceptions
00:05:00.520 I'm talking about the rule
00:05:01.540 The majority of men
00:05:02.400 Don't have multiple baby mothers 1.00
00:05:03.780 Yes
00:05:04.280 One out of three men
00:05:05.040 Are either virgins
00:05:05.680 Or haven't had sex in the past
00:05:06.820 So we're talking about the rule
00:05:07.960 Not the exception
00:05:08.720 And I think a lot of girls 1.00
00:05:10.220 Will continue to talk to these men
00:05:12.120 Even though they know
00:05:13.160 They have multiple baby mothers
00:05:14.400 Oh yeah
00:05:14.660 And they pretend they don't know
00:05:16.580 Because they're she 1.00
00:05:16.600 Yeah
00:05:17.080 But they're she 0.97
00:05:19.280 Trying to compete
00:05:20.140 With the wives 0.81
00:05:21.340 So
00:05:21.540 So
00:05:22.120 So
00:05:23.120 So
00:05:23.640 Wait, wait, wait
00:05:24.740 So we go back to your question
00:05:26.260 Your question
00:05:26.800 Which is
00:05:27.200 Can't
00:05:27.920 Do single mothers 1.00
00:05:29.080 Know how to have a functional relationship
00:05:30.560 No, no, I didn't say that
00:05:31.400 You
00:05:31.580 No, you asked if that's what I was saying
00:05:33.960 Yeah, and I'm saying
00:05:34.840 I stand out that
00:05:35.680 No, in general
00:05:36.560 No, are there exceptions?
00:05:38.240 Not many
00:05:38.700 No, no
00:05:39.460 Yeah
00:05:41.000 But I'll be
00:05:41.560 Snored though
00:05:42.400 I'll be real though
00:05:43.320 I'll be real
00:05:44.180 That's like you failed the test
00:05:45.400 You see me
00:05:46.040 Like it depends
00:05:47.520 It depends on
00:05:48.480 Your environment
00:05:49.840 Yep
00:05:50.160 Your background
00:05:51.260 The community you've been raised on
00:05:53.420 Yes
00:05:53.700 To what you will see
00:05:54.900 And what you will visualize
00:05:55.780 Yes
00:05:56.220 So we might see
00:05:57.600 Something different to what you see
00:05:59.380 Function
00:05:59.780 And something else to what you see
00:06:01.360 But I'll be real
00:06:02.480 I don't know if it's a small majority
00:06:05.160 It's like
00:06:05.720 Because I know a lot of people
00:06:07.180 Are single moms
00:06:08.220 Or
00:06:08.440 You know
00:06:08.860 My friends
00:06:09.340 Are single moms
00:06:10.320 Family members
00:06:11.900 Family members
00:06:12.880 But
00:06:13.300 Okay
00:06:14.140 If they're single mothers 0.92
00:06:15.240 Okay
00:06:15.640 It's like if you're
00:06:16.260 Okay
00:06:16.520 If I'm applying for a job
00:06:18.280 Alright
00:06:18.640 And I say
00:06:19.400 That job I failed
00:06:20.440 That job I failed
00:06:21.840 That job I also failed
00:06:23.440 How can I say
00:06:24.780 I did the job well
00:06:25.940 When you ask the child
00:06:27.280 And
00:06:27.660 What I think
00:06:28.460 That we're overlooking as well
00:06:29.540 Is no
00:06:30.040 By no means
00:06:30.840 Does any woman 1.00
00:06:31.660 Can any woman 1.00
00:06:32.820 Predict
00:06:33.420 The outcome of their relationship
00:06:35.240 Right
00:06:35.540 Or if the man's going to stick around
00:06:36.840 Or if I have a kid with this guy
00:06:38.120 Is he going to stay with me
00:06:38.900 Is he going to marry me
00:06:39.960 But what women do do 1.00
00:06:41.300 Is we overlook red flags
00:06:42.980 We overlook things
00:06:44.000 That
00:06:44.260 Overlook
00:06:45.000 Everything
00:06:45.920 And
00:06:46.660 Again
00:06:47.880 It's not everybody
00:06:48.800 But
00:06:49.200 A lot of women don't listen 1.00
00:06:51.020 A lot of men don't listen 0.93
00:06:51.960 But if we're just talking about this
00:06:53.260 For a moment
00:06:53.860 Women 1.00
00:06:54.520 Women make choices 1.00
00:06:55.720 That they know
00:06:56.920 Are not the right choices
00:06:57.900 When they know
00:06:59.500 That it's not the right man
00:07:00.580 And then
00:07:01.180 Do the woe is me
00:07:02.500 When he leaves
00:07:03.320 But you
00:07:03.860 And women also 0.97
00:07:05.400 Leave for stupid
00:07:06.640 And women
00:07:07.360 And women also 0.97
00:07:08.480 Leave for stupid reasons
00:07:10.180 Like what
00:07:10.640 Of course
00:07:11.020 For stupid
00:07:11.640 Okay
00:07:12.420 So okay
00:07:13.600 Okay
00:07:14.100 Reason number one
00:07:15.860 Reason number one
00:07:16.820 Okay
00:07:17.180 When you take your marriage vows
00:07:19.100 It's supposed to be
00:07:19.840 For better or for worse
00:07:21.080 For sicknesses and health
00:07:22.360 Not if I don't feel happy today
00:07:24.920 I
00:07:25.680 We fell out of love
00:07:27.420 And I lost myself
00:07:28.660 What happened to
00:07:29.720 For better or for worse
00:07:30.700 What happened to
00:07:31.440 In sickness and health
00:07:32.440 Women leave 1.00
00:07:33.680 For stupid reasons
00:07:34.840 Can we talk about
00:07:35.620 Before marriage
00:07:36.920 One of the number one
00:07:38.200 Wait
00:07:38.540 One of the number one
00:07:39.340 Indicators of divorce
00:07:40.220 Is if a woman 1.00
00:07:40.860 Will start out earning her man 0.89
00:07:42.200 And she puts
00:07:43.460 Financial gain
00:07:44.800 Above her kids
00:07:45.860 That's a stupid reason
00:07:47.280 Thank you
00:07:48.260 What kind of women 1.00
00:07:49.260 Are these
00:07:49.620 Can we talk about
00:07:50.620 Before marriage
00:07:51.560 How many people
00:07:52.340 Are married
00:07:52.820 In this room
00:07:53.680 50% of marriages
00:07:56.040 End in divorce
00:07:56.760 So half
00:07:57.480 Half
00:07:58.080 One or two
00:07:58.860 Has anyone been married
00:08:00.480 Have you been married
00:08:01.340 Have you been married
00:08:02.140 No
00:08:02.440 Have you been married
00:08:03.520 He's married
00:08:05.460 Ten years
00:08:06.260 Oh yeah
00:08:07.200 I'm too young
00:08:08.580 That's why I'm not married
00:08:09.660 So what I'm saying is
00:08:10.840 Obviously
00:08:12.160 We're talking
00:08:12.960 If we're talking
00:08:14.240 Now on the spectrum
00:08:14.960 Of 25 to 40
00:08:16.920 Yeah
00:08:17.880 In that range
00:08:18.500 That age range
00:08:19.320 Then obviously
00:08:20.480 Like
00:08:21.020 We can talk about
00:08:22.260 The things of
00:08:22.920 The woman has to do 1.00
00:08:24.120 What she does
00:08:24.640 And the man
00:08:25.060 Please just re-up
00:08:26.260 On what you said
00:08:26.840 Because my ADHD
00:08:27.860 Is going a bit wild
00:08:28.980 What
00:08:29.580 Which part
00:08:30.400 Which part
00:08:30.780 Oh I said
00:08:31.640 Women divorce 0.99
00:08:32.280 For stupid reasons
00:08:33.300 Right
00:08:33.580 So
00:08:33.840 Free reasons
00:08:34.560 Why do
00:08:34.980 Why do women 1.00
00:08:35.900 Okay
00:08:36.640 I can name some more
00:08:37.880 If you want
00:08:38.260 Please
00:08:38.580 I'm invested in this now
00:08:41.560 When women are dating 0.98
00:08:43.120 In their 20s and 30s
00:08:44.560 Right
00:08:44.780 I can speak obviously
00:08:46.160 For 20s
00:08:46.800 You know
00:08:49.720 The thing is
00:08:50.320 You give people
00:08:51.280 Chances 0.72
00:08:52.080 You give people
00:08:53.760 Chances 0.72
00:08:54.140 Because you're like
00:08:54.700 No
00:08:54.840 At the end of the day
00:08:55.780 Guys guys guys
00:08:56.500 Nah
00:08:56.820 I'm not trying to find
00:08:58.480 A perfect man
00:08:59.220 Who does nothing wrong
00:09:00.200 No
00:09:00.640 Because I do
00:09:01.420 Things wrong
00:09:02.000 Okay well
00:09:02.600 I feel like
00:09:03.400 I feel like
00:09:04.260 Guys
00:09:05.160 Wait wait wait
00:09:05.940 Wait wait
00:09:06.920 What's wrong
00:09:07.780 I want to dissect
00:09:08.660 Wait wait
00:09:09.160 I want to
00:09:09.500 I wasn't finished
00:09:10.360 Sorry sorry
00:09:10.840 I wasn't finished
00:09:11.460 I wasn't finished
00:09:12.260 Alright
00:09:12.420 I'll get
00:09:13.240 On that side yeah
00:09:14.100 So women 0.99
00:09:14.740 Don't want to leave
00:09:15.780 But then
00:09:16.300 Now you're saying
00:09:17.080 Why do women leave 1.00
00:09:18.100 Right
00:09:18.620 And their women 0.99
00:09:19.180 Their reasons are stupid
00:09:20.560 For leaving
00:09:21.020 Yeah
00:09:21.300 Have you heard about
00:09:22.660 This thing called intuition
00:09:23.740 Now potentially
00:09:25.500 It could just be
00:09:26.700 Fucking crazy
00:09:27.380 Sorry
00:09:27.780 It could be crazy
00:09:29.640 But
00:09:30.360 At the end of the day
00:09:32.480 Like we know
00:09:33.380 That women have 0.99
00:09:34.180 More connection
00:09:35.220 To certain things
00:09:36.160 If they haven't been
00:09:37.480 On contraception
00:09:38.320 For years
00:09:38.900 And they haven't been
00:09:39.960 Eating all the garbage
00:09:41.000 That they've been eating
00:09:41.840 And drinking all the gin
00:09:42.780 And doing all of those things
00:09:44.320 It desensitizes the human
00:09:45.700 Connecting to the earth
00:09:47.580 So I'm just saying
00:09:48.620 Intuition's a real thing
00:09:50.280 Okay yeah
00:09:51.020 But
00:09:51.200 You know what I mean
00:09:51.640 Yeah
00:09:51.920 That's like
00:09:52.440 Women feel different 1.00
00:09:53.480 Intuition
00:09:54.080 Every other week
00:09:55.160 Based on where we are
00:09:56.060 In our cycle
00:09:56.760 One week
00:09:57.500 It's like
00:09:57.820 Yeah yeah yeah
00:09:58.720 If you know your cycle
00:09:59.800 Wait wait wait
00:10:00.920 So it's like
00:10:01.660 I'll talk to a girl 1.00
00:10:02.360 One week
00:10:02.960 And she hates her boyfriend 0.89
00:10:04.180 And then the next week
00:10:04.940 She's in love
00:10:05.740 With her boyfriend
00:10:06.360 Yeah I'm sick of it
00:10:07.240 I actually feel sorry for their boyfriend
00:10:10.980 Because I'm like
00:10:11.560 He probably doesn't know
00:10:12.380 Whether he's coming or going
00:10:13.480 Because I'm like these
00:10:14.760 Because these times
00:10:15.700 I'm like this
00:10:16.160 One minute
00:10:16.540 In the space of 10 seconds
00:10:17.860 I love him so much
00:10:18.700 But he's done this
00:10:19.460 I'm like this
00:10:19.860 Darling I'm already tired
00:10:21.120 I don't know about your boyfriend
00:10:21.980 But I'm tired
00:10:22.520 I'm out
00:10:22.860 And then we'll
00:10:23.560 Guys
00:10:23.760 They'll guys
00:10:24.260 They'll guys
00:10:25.300 They'll guys it under
00:10:27.520 Intuition
00:10:28.380 It's like
00:10:28.840 That's not
00:10:29.740 Guys don't
00:10:31.200 Guys
00:10:31.920 I read something
00:10:34.100 So interesting
00:10:35.100 The other day
00:10:35.840 So basically
00:10:36.740 You know when women 1.00
00:10:38.180 Have these
00:10:38.660 Contraceptive things
00:10:40.280 On their arms
00:10:41.140 Apparently it changes
00:10:42.860 Your hormones
00:10:43.400 So imagine if you meet someone
00:10:45.300 And it's been found recently
00:10:47.260 Basically if you're on these pills
00:10:49.460 Contraceptive pills
00:10:50.360 And you meet someone
00:10:51.340 And then you get married
00:10:52.740 And all of a sudden
00:10:53.480 You go off of them
00:10:54.600 And then apparently
00:10:56.120 The hormones change
00:10:56.860 So you're not attracted
00:10:57.660 To your partner
00:10:58.300 So that is
00:11:00.180 A lot of the things
00:11:01.380 That's happening
00:11:01.960 Around the world now
00:11:03.100 Contraceptive pills
00:11:04.240 Are messing people's lives up
00:11:06.260 They are ruining girls 1.00
00:11:07.460 And men
00:11:08.020 Ruining thousands of pounds
00:11:09.820 They've been doing that for years
00:11:12.160 And whose fault is that
00:11:13.560 Who took it
00:11:14.260 Women 1.00
00:11:14.880 Why?
00:11:17.500 Because they
00:11:17.880 Because they stopped
00:11:18.680 Just banned on TikTok
00:11:21.140 And we are demonetized
00:11:22.860 On a daily basis
00:11:24.120 On this platform
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