JustPearlyThings - April 08, 2023


They EXPOSED Beyoncé’s Hypocrisy


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

193.685

Word Count

2,241

Sentence Count

6

Misogynist Sentences

51

Hate Speech Sentences

34


Summary

In this episode, we discuss what it means to be an alpha female and how women can be alpha females. We discuss the difference between being an alpha females and being a leader in a boss. We also discuss the lack of alpha females in the entertainment industry.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 An example of that I think I know I know what you mean, okay, I can give you an example then
00:00:04.420 Jay-z and Beyonce Beyonce she's a leader. She's a boss
00:00:10.020 independent woman the biggest capper
00:00:12.100 She doesn't need a man when she you know, you know, it's music business
00:00:32.800 But that's what I'm saying. She's she's busy brainwashing
00:00:42.100 I'm not saying that I'm not arguing that point. I'm not even arguing that point
00:00:47.020 Wait, wait, wait, wait, so so when when when her when she caught Jay-z cheating
00:00:52.100 Was she an alpha female or did she say you know what?
00:00:56.100 She said me no way. She was an alpha because she was like, do you know what Bridgen? I'll submit to that one actually
00:01:00.980 But maybe that's what I said when I'm losing him, but you were saying sorry as I said as I made my point
00:01:06.780 some women
00:01:08.780 Understanding remember what we spoke about the other day pearly some men if you're in the entertainment business
00:01:15.240 You know the guy's gonna cheat she's understanding
00:01:18.120 Am I gonna throw away this legacy? I'm gonna throw away this business or should I just get up with it and throw along?
00:01:23.740 You know, I'm trying to say I'm not saying that she's not a leader in a boss
00:01:27.640 but I'm saying there's some women that can be a leader in a boss and
00:01:30.900 Be understanding don't mean they're not submissive. Yeah, you know
00:01:34.160 She did cap the whole situation on lemonade like I believe when Beyonce came out with that lemonade album
00:01:40.000 Yeah, I believe everybody said no to their boyfriend and they ran away from her boyfriend and then she was like I'm pregnant with twins
00:01:47.360 I was like, oh, how are you gonna bring out the lemonade that didn't you pregnant?
00:01:50.820 No, no, no, no, no
00:01:52.620 You just made me break up with my man dog
00:01:54.660 That's what people get for following celebrities
00:01:57.560 I've just never I've never met a girl that calls herself an alpha female
00:02:02.500 Yeah, I really believe is submissive in a relationship
00:02:05.340 Yeah, yeah, I think that people take the word alpha
00:02:07.880 Do you think women can actually be alpha females?
00:02:11.220 Is there such things?
00:02:12.260 To me
00:02:12.640 No, no, no, let's get into it, please
00:02:14.640 Because I need to understand
00:02:16.260 I'll let you hear if you wanted to say something
00:02:18.320 To me, an alpha woman can be a very strong woman who's just got her shit together
00:02:22.540 Tell him again
00:02:23.140 And she knows how to take care of her man
00:02:25.800 She does her thing
00:02:27.400 She gets on with life
00:02:29.380 And yeah, she's a strong woman
00:02:31.300 She can do a bit of DIY
00:02:32.680 She can do everything
00:02:34.140 Do you know, I've got four sisters
00:02:36.500 And let me tell you
00:02:37.820 All my four sisters can do more than me
00:02:40.120 Including DIY, everything
00:02:42.340 They can do everything
00:02:43.560 Because I grew up in a big family
00:02:46.580 Where my sisters had to basically defend themselves
00:02:49.660 And they grew up in the 90s
00:02:51.700 In Whitechapel, Bethnal Green
00:02:53.620 So it was a time where you had to be strong
00:02:56.000 You had to stand up for yourself
00:02:58.120 So you would say they're more modern than traditional
00:03:00.020 Yes, they're more modern
00:03:01.040 But like what has better outcomes?
00:03:02.640 If the modern alpha females had good outcomes
00:03:05.920 Why are men getting their passports and leaving?
00:03:09.060 What men?
00:03:09.700 I saw these other men
00:03:10.840 That's a fair one
00:03:11.680 If they're not being taken care of
00:03:14.500 If they're not being taken care of
00:03:16.220 Then they're going to run away
00:03:17.300 Hold on, one minute, one minute
00:03:18.120 Because more time
00:03:19.120 One minute, more time
00:03:20.060 If you ask most of these men
00:03:21.020 They were brought up by a single mum
00:03:22.860 Wait, hold on
00:03:23.860 So
00:03:24.380 Would they say that their mum
00:03:26.280 Was not an alpha?
00:03:28.140 That's just what I'd like to throw out
00:03:30.100 Because I'm sure
00:03:31.460 If they were raised by a woman
00:03:33.820 Who had to hold it down
00:03:35.140 For their whole family
00:03:36.160 And look after them
00:03:37.320 And bring them all up
00:03:38.060 It sounds to me like
00:03:39.400 She sounds like she's a bit of an alpha
00:03:40.960 But so he was raised by a woman
00:03:42.420 That doesn't know how to
00:03:43.240 How to have a functional relationship
00:03:45.000 Who said she doesn't know how to?
00:03:46.180 Because she couldn't
00:03:46.820 He could have kept it moving
00:03:47.560 Because if she's a single mother
00:03:48.900 She doesn't know how to have
00:03:49.920 A functional relationship
00:03:50.560 How did she know?
00:03:51.140 She could have done that
00:03:51.740 Because those are the results
00:03:53.980 No
00:03:54.320 Some duds, you know
00:03:55.780 Wait, wait, wait, wait
00:03:57.000 That's not saying
00:03:57.200 You failed the test
00:03:58.240 But oh my god
00:03:58.840 Wait, wait, wait, wait
00:04:00.440 So
00:04:00.680 Wait, no, wait, wait
00:04:02.640 So
00:04:02.920 Yeah
00:04:03.420 So she doesn't know
00:04:04.520 How to have a functional relationship
00:04:06.240 Because
00:04:06.660 The father of the child decided
00:04:09.280 He was like
00:04:10.860 No, he decided
00:04:11.500 I don't want to be a dad
00:04:12.680 And he walked out on the child
00:04:14.240 So she doesn't
00:04:15.040 She doesn't know how to have a functional relationship
00:04:16.160 Yeah, because women leave
00:04:17.040 70 to 80% of the time
00:04:18.460 90% of their college
00:04:19.500 Yeah, no, no
00:04:19.660 No, no, some percentage
00:04:20.680 I'm just saying
00:04:21.500 So she doesn't know
00:04:22.700 So you're just saying
00:04:23.680 She doesn't
00:04:24.260 She doesn't
00:04:24.760 She either picked someone
00:04:26.480 Like, I mean, come on
00:04:27.660 Why would you have a kid with someone
00:04:29.040 That isn't going to stick around?
00:04:30.760 Well
00:04:31.040 You don't know sometimes
00:04:34.180 You don't know sometimes
00:04:35.540 Someone play the game
00:04:37.500 Can I just say something?
00:04:39.040 There are some men
00:04:41.800 Who will get a few baby mamas
00:04:44.120 And they visit
00:04:45.360 One from another
00:04:46.680 And they kind of set up their lives
00:04:48.680 Yeah
00:04:49.020 So there are men who do that
00:04:50.580 And women too
00:04:51.200 And because the women
00:04:52.980 Are getting financed
00:04:54.500 Or they're getting support
00:04:56.020 They're fine with it
00:04:56.860 Because they're living their lives
00:04:57.780 Yeah, but this is exception
00:04:58.860 Like you guys keep talking about exceptions
00:05:00.520 I'm talking about the rule
00:05:01.540 The majority of men
00:05:02.400 Don't have multiple baby mothers
00:05:03.780 Yes
00:05:04.280 One out of three men
00:05:05.040 Are either virgins
00:05:05.680 Or haven't had sex in the past
00:05:06.820 So we're talking about the rule
00:05:07.960 Not the exception
00:05:08.720 And I think a lot of girls
00:05:10.220 Will continue to talk to these men
00:05:12.120 Even though they know
00:05:13.160 They have multiple baby mothers
00:05:14.400 Oh yeah
00:05:14.660 And they pretend they don't know
00:05:16.580 Because they're she
00:05:16.600 Yeah
00:05:17.080 But they're she
00:05:19.280 Trying to compete
00:05:20.140 With the wives
00:05:21.340 So
00:05:21.540 So
00:05:22.120 So
00:05:23.120 So
00:05:23.640 Wait, wait, wait
00:05:24.740 So we go back to your question
00:05:26.260 Your question
00:05:26.800 Which is
00:05:27.200 Can't
00:05:27.920 Do single mothers
00:05:29.080 Know how to have a functional relationship
00:05:30.560 No, no, I didn't say that
00:05:31.400 You
00:05:31.580 No, you asked if that's what I was saying
00:05:33.960 Yeah, and I'm saying
00:05:34.840 I stand out that
00:05:35.680 No, in general
00:05:36.560 No, are there exceptions?
00:05:38.240 Not many
00:05:38.700 No, no
00:05:39.460 Yeah
00:05:41.000 But I'll be
00:05:41.560 Snored though
00:05:42.400 I'll be real though
00:05:43.320 I'll be real
00:05:44.180 That's like you failed the test
00:05:45.400 You see me
00:05:46.040 Like it depends
00:05:47.520 It depends on
00:05:48.480 Your environment
00:05:49.840 Yep
00:05:50.160 Your background
00:05:51.260 The community you've been raised on
00:05:53.420 Yes
00:05:53.700 To what you will see
00:05:54.900 And what you will visualize
00:05:55.780 Yes
00:05:56.220 So we might see
00:05:57.600 Something different to what you see
00:05:59.380 Function
00:05:59.780 And something else to what you see
00:06:01.360 But I'll be real
00:06:02.480 I don't know if it's a small majority
00:06:05.160 It's like
00:06:05.720 Because I know a lot of people
00:06:07.180 Are single moms
00:06:08.220 Or
00:06:08.440 You know
00:06:08.860 My friends
00:06:09.340 Are single moms
00:06:10.320 Family members
00:06:11.900 Family members
00:06:12.880 But
00:06:13.300 Okay
00:06:14.140 If they're single mothers
00:06:15.240 Okay
00:06:15.640 It's like if you're
00:06:16.260 Okay
00:06:16.520 If I'm applying for a job
00:06:18.280 Alright
00:06:18.640 And I say
00:06:19.400 That job I failed
00:06:20.440 That job I failed
00:06:21.840 That job I also failed
00:06:23.440 How can I say
00:06:24.780 I did the job well
00:06:25.940 When you ask the child
00:06:27.280 And
00:06:27.660 What I think
00:06:28.460 That we're overlooking as well
00:06:29.540 Is no
00:06:30.040 By no means
00:06:30.840 Does any woman
00:06:31.660 Can any woman
00:06:32.820 Predict
00:06:33.420 The outcome of their relationship
00:06:35.240 Right
00:06:35.540 Or if the man's going to stick around
00:06:36.840 Or if I have a kid with this guy
00:06:38.120 Is he going to stay with me
00:06:38.900 Is he going to marry me
00:06:39.960 But what women do do
00:06:41.300 Is we overlook red flags
00:06:42.980 We overlook things
00:06:44.000 That
00:06:44.260 Overlook
00:06:45.000 Everything
00:06:45.920 And
00:06:46.660 Again
00:06:47.880 It's not everybody
00:06:48.800 But
00:06:49.200 A lot of women don't listen
00:06:51.020 A lot of men don't listen
00:06:51.960 But if we're just talking about this
00:06:53.260 For a moment
00:06:53.860 Women
00:06:54.520 Women make choices
00:06:55.720 That they know
00:06:56.920 Are not the right choices
00:06:57.900 When they know
00:06:59.500 That it's not the right man
00:07:00.580 And then
00:07:01.180 Do the woe is me
00:07:02.500 When he leaves
00:07:03.320 But you
00:07:03.860 And women also
00:07:05.400 Leave for stupid
00:07:06.640 And women
00:07:07.360 And women also
00:07:08.480 Leave for stupid reasons
00:07:10.180 Like what
00:07:10.640 Of course
00:07:11.020 For stupid
00:07:11.640 Okay
00:07:12.420 So okay
00:07:13.600 Okay
00:07:14.100 Reason number one
00:07:15.860 Reason number one
00:07:16.820 Okay
00:07:17.180 When you take your marriage vows
00:07:19.100 It's supposed to be
00:07:19.840 For better or for worse
00:07:21.080 For sicknesses and health
00:07:22.360 Not if I don't feel happy today
00:07:24.920 I
00:07:25.680 We fell out of love
00:07:27.420 And I lost myself
00:07:28.660 What happened to
00:07:29.720 For better or for worse
00:07:30.700 What happened to
00:07:31.440 In sickness and health
00:07:32.440 Women leave
00:07:33.680 For stupid reasons
00:07:34.840 Can we talk about
00:07:35.620 Before marriage
00:07:36.920 One of the number one
00:07:38.200 Wait
00:07:38.540 One of the number one
00:07:39.340 Indicators of divorce
00:07:40.220 Is if a woman
00:07:40.860 Will start out earning her man
00:07:42.200 And she puts
00:07:43.460 Financial gain
00:07:44.800 Above her kids
00:07:45.860 That's a stupid reason
00:07:47.280 Thank you
00:07:48.260 What kind of women
00:07:49.260 Are these
00:07:49.620 Can we talk about
00:07:50.620 Before marriage
00:07:51.560 How many people
00:07:52.340 Are married
00:07:52.820 In this room
00:07:53.680 50% of marriages
00:07:56.040 End in divorce
00:07:56.760 So half
00:07:57.480 Half
00:07:58.080 One or two
00:07:58.860 Has anyone been married
00:08:00.480 Have you been married
00:08:01.340 Have you been married
00:08:02.140 No
00:08:02.440 Have you been married
00:08:03.520 He's married
00:08:05.460 Ten years
00:08:06.260 Oh yeah
00:08:07.200 I'm too young
00:08:08.580 That's why I'm not married
00:08:09.660 So what I'm saying is
00:08:10.840 Obviously
00:08:12.160 We're talking
00:08:12.960 If we're talking
00:08:14.240 Now on the spectrum
00:08:14.960 Of 25 to 40
00:08:16.920 Yeah
00:08:17.880 In that range
00:08:18.500 That age range
00:08:19.320 Then obviously
00:08:20.480 Like
00:08:21.020 We can talk about
00:08:22.260 The things of
00:08:22.920 The woman has to do
00:08:24.120 What she does
00:08:24.640 And the man
00:08:25.060 Please just re-up
00:08:26.260 On what you said
00:08:26.840 Because my ADHD
00:08:27.860 Is going a bit wild
00:08:28.980 What
00:08:29.580 Which part
00:08:30.400 Which part
00:08:30.780 Oh I said
00:08:31.640 Women divorce
00:08:32.280 For stupid reasons
00:08:33.300 Right
00:08:33.580 So
00:08:33.840 Free reasons
00:08:34.560 Why do
00:08:34.980 Why do women
00:08:35.900 Okay
00:08:36.640 I can name some more
00:08:37.880 If you want
00:08:38.260 Please
00:08:38.580 I'm invested in this now
00:08:41.560 When women are dating
00:08:43.120 In their 20s and 30s
00:08:44.560 Right
00:08:44.780 I can speak obviously
00:08:46.160 For 20s
00:08:46.800 You know
00:08:49.720 The thing is
00:08:50.320 You give people
00:08:51.280 Chances
00:08:52.080 You give people
00:08:53.760 Chances
00:08:54.140 Because you're like
00:08:54.700 No
00:08:54.840 At the end of the day
00:08:55.780 Guys guys guys
00:08:56.500 Nah
00:08:56.820 I'm not trying to find
00:08:58.480 A perfect man
00:08:59.220 Who does nothing wrong
00:09:00.200 No
00:09:00.640 Because I do
00:09:01.420 Things wrong
00:09:02.000 Okay well
00:09:02.600 I feel like
00:09:03.400 I feel like
00:09:04.260 Guys
00:09:05.160 Wait wait wait
00:09:05.940 Wait wait
00:09:06.920 What's wrong
00:09:07.780 I want to dissect
00:09:08.660 Wait wait
00:09:09.160 I want to
00:09:09.500 I wasn't finished
00:09:10.360 Sorry sorry
00:09:10.840 I wasn't finished
00:09:11.460 I wasn't finished
00:09:12.260 Alright
00:09:12.420 I'll get
00:09:13.240 On that side yeah
00:09:14.100 So women
00:09:14.740 Don't want to leave
00:09:15.780 But then
00:09:16.300 Now you're saying
00:09:17.080 Why do women leave
00:09:18.100 Right
00:09:18.620 And their women
00:09:19.180 Their reasons are stupid
00:09:20.560 For leaving
00:09:21.020 Yeah
00:09:21.300 Have you heard about
00:09:22.660 This thing called intuition
00:09:23.740 Now potentially
00:09:25.500 It could just be
00:09:26.700 Fucking crazy
00:09:27.380 Sorry
00:09:27.780 It could be crazy
00:09:29.640 But
00:09:30.360 At the end of the day
00:09:32.480 Like we know
00:09:33.380 That women have
00:09:34.180 More connection
00:09:35.220 To certain things
00:09:36.160 If they haven't been
00:09:37.480 On contraception
00:09:38.320 For years
00:09:38.900 And they haven't been
00:09:39.960 Eating all the garbage
00:09:41.000 That they've been eating
00:09:41.840 And drinking all the gin
00:09:42.780 And doing all of those things
00:09:44.320 It desensitizes the human
00:09:45.700 Connecting to the earth
00:09:47.580 So I'm just saying
00:09:48.620 Intuition's a real thing
00:09:50.280 Okay yeah
00:09:51.020 But
00:09:51.200 You know what I mean
00:09:51.640 Yeah
00:09:51.920 That's like
00:09:52.440 Women feel different
00:09:53.480 Intuition
00:09:54.080 Every other week
00:09:55.160 Based on where we are
00:09:56.060 In our cycle
00:09:56.760 One week
00:09:57.500 It's like
00:09:57.820 Yeah yeah yeah
00:09:58.720 If you know your cycle
00:09:59.800 Wait wait wait
00:10:00.920 So it's like
00:10:01.660 I'll talk to a girl
00:10:02.360 One week
00:10:02.960 And she hates her boyfriend
00:10:04.180 And then the next week
00:10:04.940 She's in love
00:10:05.740 With her boyfriend
00:10:06.360 Yeah I'm sick of it
00:10:07.240 I actually feel sorry for their boyfriend
00:10:10.980 Because I'm like
00:10:11.560 He probably doesn't know
00:10:12.380 Whether he's coming or going
00:10:13.480 Because I'm like these
00:10:14.760 Because these times
00:10:15.700 I'm like this
00:10:16.160 One minute
00:10:16.540 In the space of 10 seconds
00:10:17.860 I love him so much
00:10:18.700 But he's done this
00:10:19.460 I'm like this
00:10:19.860 Darling I'm already tired
00:10:21.120 I don't know about your boyfriend
00:10:21.980 But I'm tired
00:10:22.520 I'm out
00:10:22.860 And then we'll
00:10:23.560 Guys
00:10:23.760 They'll guys
00:10:24.260 They'll guys
00:10:25.300 They'll guys it under
00:10:27.520 Intuition
00:10:28.380 It's like
00:10:28.840 That's not
00:10:29.740 Guys don't
00:10:31.200 Guys
00:10:31.920 I read something
00:10:34.100 So interesting
00:10:35.100 The other day
00:10:35.840 So basically
00:10:36.740 You know when women
00:10:38.180 Have these
00:10:38.660 Contraceptive things
00:10:40.280 On their arms
00:10:41.140 Apparently it changes
00:10:42.860 Your hormones
00:10:43.400 So imagine if you meet someone
00:10:45.300 And it's been found recently
00:10:47.260 Basically if you're on these pills
00:10:49.460 Contraceptive pills
00:10:50.360 And you meet someone
00:10:51.340 And then you get married
00:10:52.740 And all of a sudden
00:10:53.480 You go off of them
00:10:54.600 And then apparently
00:10:56.120 The hormones change
00:10:56.860 So you're not attracted
00:10:57.660 To your partner
00:10:58.300 So that is
00:11:00.180 A lot of the things
00:11:01.380 That's happening
00:11:01.960 Around the world now
00:11:03.100 Contraceptive pills
00:11:04.240 Are messing people's lives up
00:11:06.260 They are ruining girls
00:11:07.460 And men
00:11:08.020 Ruining thousands of pounds
00:11:09.820 They've been doing that for years
00:11:12.160 And whose fault is that
00:11:13.560 Who took it
00:11:14.260 Women
00:11:14.880 Why?
00:11:17.500 Because they
00:11:17.880 Because they stopped
00:11:18.680 Just banned on TikTok
00:11:21.140 And we are demonetized
00:11:22.860 On a daily basis
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