JustPearlyThings - April 04, 2023


They Exposed How Women Exploit Men


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Length

11 minutes

Words per minute

195.87013

Word count

2,188

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Hate speech

27

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about our hoe phases and what it s like to be a hoe in the 21st century. We discuss our own experiences with our hoes phases and how to deal with them. We also talk about the perils of being a dominatrixe and why you should never get paid for sex online.

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00:00:00.000 participation women can't be hoes forever oh yeah i mean okay okay so so question for the women and 1.00
00:00:08.300 remember you don't have to answer if you don't want to have you ever had a hoe phase and how 0.93
00:00:13.140 long did it last i don't think i'm out no i'm joking well i can't really answer that question
00:00:21.360 i've been with my husband for nine years where is your husband right i know that's why i asked i knew
00:00:31.980 that's all yeah gangster we got married on our nine year anniversary oh that's cute so i mean i was 15
00:00:38.680 when i met him oh we started dating at 16 yeah and they've kind of just been together ever since
00:00:44.700 can we get a round of applause for that like i think we can get a round of applause for that
00:00:47.760 for sure appreciate it appreciate it i mean could you not have it together
00:00:51.920 pardon could you not have heard it together i don't like sharon i'm not a fan of sharon and i know that
00:00:58.700 she's the same so to be fair we thought we'd keep it simpler and just be us two and just fucking do it 0.86
00:01:04.060 that's cute that's cute that's cute uh what about you guys ever had a hoe phase 0.95
00:01:09.860 um i attempted to and then i realized it's just not for me
00:01:15.760 yeah um yeah that's pretty much it i don't want to share anymore
00:01:20.320 can i ask how long it lasted because it sounds like not that long
00:01:24.680 um it lasted for about two months but i feel like it's not for the week
00:01:30.160 no yeah like i've attempted to before but i just i think i fall in love too easily with people
00:01:37.020 and also i don't like that feeling of like being used or like someone's only
00:01:42.200 like interested in you sexually i think that's so like ill 0.62
00:01:46.140 hold on are you you the sugar baby
00:01:48.920 yeah i mean i mean it's good it's good for money but
00:01:54.620 but isn't that like multiple people yeah but it's more online the way i do it
00:01:58.800 oh okay so no physical yeah like usually they're from america and they're just real desperate to talk to like
00:02:04.220 a girl and yeah it's like andrew tate's like girls type stuff yeah where they would just like talk
00:02:09.900 yeah literally like giving them false hope giving them false promises oh so you're manipulating people to take that money is that what you say online
00:02:17.100 i would never do it with someone i genuinely like like money's not something that impresses me but if someone's gonna give it to me
00:02:39.720 i'm not yeah i'm not gonna be like no i'll bitch i'm trying to get paid 1.00
00:02:45.020 i know someone that i worked with that's now stopped working and she's she does um she's like a dominatrix 1.00
00:02:52.780 and she she does like pay picks something like that yeah that's literally it 1.00
00:02:57.700 do they ink do they pass them oh god knows i mean i i've never been there to actually
00:03:03.560 no you literally just call them pathetic put them down and it gets them off
00:03:07.640 and you hit them as well and they say like ruin my life ruin my life and she's like i'll ruin your life send me your savings
00:03:15.980 i would like that i know they actually asked they are they actually ask her to record them
00:03:23.460 as they withdraw money from their atm yeah and um and she'll be like good boy
00:03:28.580 those are the men that do exist hiding in the closet i'm just saying
00:03:32.600 so you try to hope a short period of time yeah i mean i did it like i did like my one little hookup
00:03:44.600 or whatever and i was just like it wasn't even like anything deep i literally yeah like a little
00:03:50.540 touch and i just didn't like that feeling of being used and i didn't like i wasn't getting money in
00:03:56.920 return so yeah it was pointless would you if you were getting money in return or this would it have been
00:04:02.960 different i mean i don't mind being eye candy for money that's fine but you just said if if it was
00:04:11.120 touching then it would have been okay so that isn't just eye candy that is i guess exchange of
00:04:16.220 money i guess i wouldn't like have sex for money but i definitely i don't know someone was like
00:04:22.660 kind of like touch up give you a mess i've been paid for a massage before okay i think most girls 1.00
00:04:27.780 in london know how to be eye candy especially if you've been to like mayfair clubs i mean i used to
00:04:32.900 be a promoter when i was like 18 19 and as much as i felt bad for saying to the girls like
00:04:38.140 you know you're a bit you know you're not gonna get in or she's your friend's gonna have to pay 0.81
00:04:44.280 at the same time it's like you kind of understand that you have all these footballers and
00:04:49.220 all these celebrities and rich business people paying 10 15 grand for a table why does their 0.75
00:04:55.500 club differ from anyone else in camden where you can just walk in and not pay that much so you have
00:05:01.060 to differ somehow and it's you have to accept your account eye candy at that point because you're
00:05:04.580 going in for free you're drinking for free but is that a hoe phase though being eye candy isn't a 0.98
00:05:08.480 hoe phase yeah not really like when i was younger i'm still young but so wait pull your mic closer
00:05:16.020 i'm just just yeah go ahead i know you guys are sharing so it's a little hard um when i was younger
00:05:21.100 would i have called it a hoe phase no was i open to exploring and did i date yes and so i guess other 0.80
00:05:30.020 people may have seen that as a hoe phase but i didn't see it as a hoe phase i was exploring and 0.88
00:05:34.320 also when you go to buy a car you try out all the cars first you don't just pick the first car
00:05:38.340 well except i did i'm a gemini so i ain't never gonna pick the first car i need to try
00:05:44.080 i mean i just i'm not very good at choosing one thing straight away and sticking to that one thing
00:05:58.040 in that moment and just being like okay i'll have that kind of pop and that's even if i go into the
00:06:02.180 shop to buy a packet of crisps it takes me a minute so how long did uh the kind of hoe phase it sounds 0.97
00:06:08.340 like you're not you're hesitant to call it a hoe phase but yeah because i don't like to label why 0.90
00:06:12.420 should we label it a hoe phase i mean that's what it is kind of why to describe it i think everyone 0.88
00:06:17.580 has a hoe phase yeah well yeah um how long did it last um well i was in a nine-year relationship 0.89
00:06:25.760 with my son's dad so it stopped then and then it started again and then it stopped and it started
00:06:30.500 again i think in between relationships like where i've been like like total how much time would you say
00:06:36.640 a year total maybe like two three months between each time something like that yeah we'll go with that
00:06:41.200 two years yeah we'll go with that okay
00:06:43.160 we'll go with that whatever you want no we'll go with a year
00:06:49.360 i'm just asking the question we'll go with a year in total in the 35 years i've been on this
00:06:54.540 earth a year okay okay denelva what about you
00:06:58.140 i haven't had a hoe phase i've been mostly in relationships almost back to back i have experience 0.91
00:07:04.360 but no never been a hoe but that's the same as not labeling it as a hoe like you were experienced i 0.96
00:07:12.420 experienced i said what i said i said what i said it was being like in total i've been in
00:07:18.080 relationships for about 10 years and i've only been single for just a year that's crazy
00:07:25.520 do you know what i think p what do you think i think that if you are not this lady right here 0.99
00:07:34.280 with a ring on her finger you're stuck in the hoe phase forever now and until you get a ring 1.00
00:07:39.920 wait wait wait when you say hoe phase can i just i'm so sorry to do this but when you say hoe phase 0.89
00:07:45.140 are we talking sleeping with men or are we saying it doesn't matter if you're seeing loads of men
00:07:49.500 because up until i met him even though i was young i was 15 i was seeing loads of guys at the same time
00:07:54.660 i mean i didn't do anything with him i didn't even hold hands with them yeah but i was continuously
00:07:58.820 talking to loads of guys this is what i'm saying but the thing with me was it was from a young age
00:08:03.680 even like when i was seven my first boyfriend i broke up with him because he had bad grades
00:08:08.200 and i went out to his best friend but like to cut to go back to like the point is that
00:08:13.600 the hoe phase exists that's your like as a single woman that is your mission to get out of that area 1.00
00:08:20.380 in my eyes because if you're single you can access the hoe phase anytime you like like women have the 1.00
00:08:26.740 power to be at home minding their business and they can just pull out their rolodex and call somebody
00:08:32.860 and they know somebody's gonna show up 100%
00:08:36.260 you can activate like the power rangers
00:08:39.560 activate whole face
00:08:43.640 that's the same thing as you saying that every man has the capability to kill therefore every man is a murderer
00:08:50.260 that's so yeah and but you know what jordan peterson says the same thing a dangerous man is a good man
00:08:55.660 a weak man isn't a good man you want a man to be able to be dangerous but control it that's what
00:09:01.080 makes a great man that's why a woman is not a hoe because when she is controlling it she's not a hoe 1.00
00:09:05.940 she still has she's a wife when she controlling it 1.00
00:09:08.500 donava wouldn't you say that if a woman's acting like a hoe she's a hoe 1.00
00:09:12.100 yeah but just because you're single doesn't mean you're a hoe 1.00
00:09:14.100 what he was saying is is every woman as we know we all have options we all have options right
00:09:26.440 so what he's saying is at any given time i have the option to be like you know what i want to fuck 0.84
00:09:32.600 so i'm gonna press this thing and power ranger man is gonna come through that's what he was saying
00:09:37.440 so in his mind it's like if you're single you have the potential to be in that hoe phase 0.97
00:09:42.660 especially yeah everybody has a potential to do a lot i think okay i think i understood so you're
00:09:47.060 basically saying like you might as well be a hoe because you have the option to and you're never 0.99
00:09:50.420 gonna know yeah and that's up to you and women have that freedom because we as like i said we as men 0.99
00:09:54.580 we would never ever know wait wait can i just jump in yeah go on would you say that as the option or
00:09:59.120 the power too because those are two very different things i mean well she she has the option to exert 1.00
00:10:04.740 that power true you know the reason i say i put a spin on it is just because i feel like if you're
00:10:11.320 going to go down that whole path and that's very different than just having the option to kind of
00:10:16.120 dip your toe in every once in a while yeah you got the option not that either one is good or yeah i
00:10:20.660 hear what you're saying but then it falls into that like language where it would fall under dating
00:10:25.180 oh i'm dating again now on our first day do you see what i'm saying so it's like it depends on the
00:10:29.200 intention and where you're doing it from but that's why i ask but that's why i ask what we mean by
00:10:33.580 hope is because if we mean by hope is that someone's sleeping around because if you're going on a date and
00:10:37.720 then on the second date you're sleeping with someone i would say that's a hoe phase but if 0.93
00:10:41.660 you're going on a date and you're like actually on a second one you know i don't feel that i'm gonna
00:10:48.240 go on the next day and the next day and the next day i don't consider you're looking for a husband
00:10:52.680 i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this platform if you want to
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