In this episode, we talk about our hoe phases and what it s like to be a hoe in the 21st century. We discuss our own experiences with our hoes phases and how to deal with them. We also talk about the perils of being a dominatrixe and why you should never get paid for sex online.
00:01:48.920yeah i mean i mean it's good it's good for money but
00:01:54.620but isn't that like multiple people yeah but it's more online the way i do it
00:01:58.800oh okay so no physical yeah like usually they're from america and they're just real desperate to talk to like
00:02:04.220a girl and yeah it's like andrew tate's like girls type stuff yeah where they would just like talk
00:02:09.900yeah literally like giving them false hope giving them false promises oh so you're manipulating people to take that money is that what you say online
00:02:17.100i would never do it with someone i genuinely like like money's not something that impresses me but if someone's gonna give it to me
00:02:39.720i'm not yeah i'm not gonna be like no i'll bitch i'm trying to get paid
00:02:45.020i know someone that i worked with that's now stopped working and she's she does um she's like a dominatrix
00:02:52.780and she she does like pay picks something like that yeah that's literally it
00:02:57.700do they ink do they pass them oh god knows i mean i i've never been there to actually
00:03:03.560no you literally just call them pathetic put them down and it gets them off
00:03:07.640and you hit them as well and they say like ruin my life ruin my life and she's like i'll ruin your life send me your savings
00:03:15.980i would like that i know they actually asked they are they actually ask her to record them
00:03:23.460as they withdraw money from their atm yeah and um and she'll be like good boy
00:03:28.580those are the men that do exist hiding in the closet i'm just saying
00:03:32.600so you try to hope a short period of time yeah i mean i did it like i did like my one little hookup
00:03:44.600or whatever and i was just like it wasn't even like anything deep i literally yeah like a little
00:03:50.540touch and i just didn't like that feeling of being used and i didn't like i wasn't getting money in
00:03:56.920return so yeah it was pointless would you if you were getting money in return or this would it have been
00:04:02.960different i mean i don't mind being eye candy for money that's fine but you just said if if it was
00:04:11.120touching then it would have been okay so that isn't just eye candy that is i guess exchange of
00:04:16.220money i guess i wouldn't like have sex for money but i definitely i don't know someone was like
00:04:22.660kind of like touch up give you a mess i've been paid for a massage before okay i think most girls
00:04:27.780in london know how to be eye candy especially if you've been to like mayfair clubs i mean i used to
00:04:32.900be a promoter when i was like 18 19 and as much as i felt bad for saying to the girls like
00:04:38.140you know you're a bit you know you're not gonna get in or she's your friend's gonna have to pay
00:04:44.280at the same time it's like you kind of understand that you have all these footballers and
00:04:49.220all these celebrities and rich business people paying 10 15 grand for a table why does their
00:04:55.500club differ from anyone else in camden where you can just walk in and not pay that much so you have
00:05:01.060to differ somehow and it's you have to accept your account eye candy at that point because you're
00:05:04.580going in for free you're drinking for free but is that a hoe phase though being eye candy isn't a
00:05:08.480hoe phase yeah not really like when i was younger i'm still young but so wait pull your mic closer
00:05:16.020i'm just just yeah go ahead i know you guys are sharing so it's a little hard um when i was younger
00:05:21.100would i have called it a hoe phase no was i open to exploring and did i date yes and so i guess other
00:05:30.020people may have seen that as a hoe phase but i didn't see it as a hoe phase i was exploring and
00:05:34.320also when you go to buy a car you try out all the cars first you don't just pick the first car
00:05:38.340well except i did i'm a gemini so i ain't never gonna pick the first car i need to try
00:05:44.080i mean i just i'm not very good at choosing one thing straight away and sticking to that one thing
00:05:58.040in that moment and just being like okay i'll have that kind of pop and that's even if i go into the
00:06:02.180shop to buy a packet of crisps it takes me a minute so how long did uh the kind of hoe phase it sounds
00:06:08.340like you're not you're hesitant to call it a hoe phase but yeah because i don't like to label why
00:06:12.420should we label it a hoe phase i mean that's what it is kind of why to describe it i think everyone
00:06:17.580has a hoe phase yeah well yeah um how long did it last um well i was in a nine-year relationship
00:06:25.760with my son's dad so it stopped then and then it started again and then it stopped and it started
00:06:30.500again i think in between relationships like where i've been like like total how much time would you say
00:06:36.640a year total maybe like two three months between each time something like that yeah we'll go with that
00:06:41.200two years yeah we'll go with that okay
00:06:43.160we'll go with that whatever you want no we'll go with a year
00:06:49.360i'm just asking the question we'll go with a year in total in the 35 years i've been on this
00:06:54.540earth a year okay okay denelva what about you
00:06:58.140i haven't had a hoe phase i've been mostly in relationships almost back to back i have experience
00:07:04.360but no never been a hoe but that's the same as not labeling it as a hoe like you were experienced i
00:07:12.420experienced i said what i said i said what i said it was being like in total i've been in
00:07:18.080relationships for about 10 years and i've only been single for just a year that's crazy
00:07:25.520do you know what i think p what do you think i think that if you are not this lady right here
00:07:34.280with a ring on her finger you're stuck in the hoe phase forever now and until you get a ring
00:07:39.920wait wait wait when you say hoe phase can i just i'm so sorry to do this but when you say hoe phase
00:07:45.140are we talking sleeping with men or are we saying it doesn't matter if you're seeing loads of men
00:07:49.500because up until i met him even though i was young i was 15 i was seeing loads of guys at the same time
00:07:54.660i mean i didn't do anything with him i didn't even hold hands with them yeah but i was continuously
00:07:58.820talking to loads of guys this is what i'm saying but the thing with me was it was from a young age
00:08:03.680even like when i was seven my first boyfriend i broke up with him because he had bad grades
00:08:08.200and i went out to his best friend but like to cut to go back to like the point is that
00:08:13.600the hoe phase exists that's your like as a single woman that is your mission to get out of that area
00:08:20.380in my eyes because if you're single you can access the hoe phase anytime you like like women have the
00:08:26.740power to be at home minding their business and they can just pull out their rolodex and call somebody
00:08:32.860and they know somebody's gonna show up 100%
00:08:36.260you can activate like the power rangers