JustPearlyThings - May 18, 2023


This Bi-Sexual Man Said THIS

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
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Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

215.77

Word count

1,760

Sentence count

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Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

2

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Hate speech

4

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Summary

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In this episode, we talk about bisexuality, bisexuality in same-sex relationships, bisexual men and bisexual women, bisexual women and bisexual men in same sex relationships. We also discuss the difference between men and women when it comes to bisexuality and what it means to be bisexual in the modern era.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 so i have a question you said you're bisexual indeed all right can i ask you questions go for
00:00:04.400 it um they always say that a guy can't be bisexual that he's only gay have you heard that before
00:00:10.800 never heard that and i'm guess and i tell you this the women i've been with wouldn't say that either
00:00:15.920 they wouldn't say does it like put off girls at all yeah so men find it a turn on women are like 1.00
00:00:23.680 intrigued because they're like oh they asked the question to me again they go are you sure you're
00:00:28.800 bisexual i'm like i'm definitely sure tell me about the differences between dating men and
00:00:34.560 dating women men are liars and men will tell you what they want to tell you to men are men will tell 0.92
00:00:41.120 you what they want to tell you which most of the time is just to to get into a situation whether it's 0.99
00:00:49.520 bad or whether it's a date or whatever do men have to lie to other men to get sex i feel like they do
00:00:54.320 i feel like they do with a woman you know where you stand like if you've done something wrong
00:01:01.360 they let you know you they don't need to say anything their body language or expression the
00:01:06.560 way they carry themselves like you know you've messed up with a guy like they'll try and like play it off
00:01:14.880 so like for me um yeah i i'm still i'm still trying to like figure the whole thing out i've been i mean
00:01:22.400 like i know i was bi since i was eight and i've been like dating guys or whatever the last four
00:01:27.120 or five years but majority of my life has been with females so i understand females to a t to a guy 1.00
00:01:32.400 i'm just like sometimes i meet a guy and i'm just like huh i thought i had it figured and i still don't
00:01:37.040 have it figured oh who's more of a player men or women men men men now i'm at a stage where i'm like
00:01:45.920 now i understand why women be out there like oh you guys be playing this and that because it's like 1.00
00:01:51.440 it's it's it's a it's a crazy world are we going to give you the same advice that we give to all these
00:01:55.920 women i wonder i wonder if men like if in in same-sex relationships like because women we know are
00:02:04.480 hypergamous i'm like i wonder is it the same like is it the same like when it's same sex are you guys all
00:02:10.160 sleeping with the same man or is it more i'm i'm very particular okay so some guys
00:02:18.400 i've been told sometimes i'm not gay enough where i'm just a pacific person who like what i like and
00:02:26.880 i think it's come to a point where like i'm 33 years old i'm like confident who i am and everyone
00:02:31.840 knows and blah blah blah where i'm just like it's not just about how you look or whatever it's actual
00:02:37.040 the conversation the attraction the the the overall how you are as an individual like i've
00:02:43.360 been with people who i physically wouldn't have been attracted to but i've gotten to know them
00:02:48.640 and it's been like you've wowed my mind and that i find um sexy and i find it um yeah and attractive
00:02:56.160 is that the same for women both okay it's it's it's both because i don't hear guys say that often
00:03:02.880 where they can like they don't find a girl attractive and she can like talk her way into being 1.00
00:03:06.640 attractive but i hear i hear women say that about men that's why it's interesting yeah it is i've
00:03:11.360 i've fallen for a person a female who um i just used to hang out with and i physically wouldn't
00:03:19.360 have normally found her attractive but after going out with her on just as a friendship thing i found
00:03:24.880 myself not falling in love with her but falling for her and seeing her in different light so you
00:03:30.160 were basically the the gay best friend that they need to worry about you know what's funny you know 0.65
00:03:35.680 what's funny right one of my one of my girls that's no longer a friend of mine because her boyfriend 1.00
00:03:41.920 um sorry as uh i was i've been this guy where people where guys have stopped their girls being
00:03:48.800 friends with me yeah because they're like oh blah blah blah i'm like but your man knows i'm gay just
00:03:54.640 say i'm gay though and he's like no you know you're bi so it's like it could go both ways blood and i've
00:04:00.320 been like just tell him i'm not bi anymore just say i've seen the light and i've got all the way gay 0.65
00:04:05.520 honestly and it don't work if i was a boyfriend on the situation i'm on the same vibe but would you
00:04:11.760 basically as a bisexual i'm just a lover of all people so just allow me to hang out with your girls
00:04:17.280 nah nah that's mad no way would you guys let your girlfriend hang out with a guy that was bi
00:04:26.640 nah you know what because he's he you're able to kind of tap into that emotional side yeah on that
00:04:32.880 side and then you're able to do whatever lay whatever you need to lay in it so yeah that's
00:04:38.960 i'm a good guy yeah i'm sure you're a good guy but you know you'll be under the same category it's just
00:04:44.000 a male best friend yeah it's not it's not like sometimes a gay best friend kind of gets a little
00:04:48.080 blight yeah because it's like he ain't interested in that's what makes you scary because you're you
00:04:52.400 you've got all the attributes of the gay best friend but at the same time on some days you're 0.90
00:04:56.640 not that gay best friend you know what i mean um okay so today's topic is i'm talking about social
00:05:04.960 media and how it pertains to relationships um so i want to hear from the women um on a given day
00:05:11.600 how many messages do you receive from men interested in you
00:05:18.320 i think it depends i think if i put stories up then i'll have more interaction but
00:05:23.360 yeah i think it just depends really okay that's not an answer sorry and when i put stories up yeah
00:05:29.120 i'll get a couple fair few messages to be fair okay so how many a day like maybe like three four five
00:05:35.920 okay so five a day so um okay so go ahead i think for me um i don't post every day and any sort of
00:05:45.760 like love or attention that i receive from dudes is from guys i already know or have already like
00:05:51.360 had an encounter with like met before so i don't really get strangers like hey like what's up like
00:05:57.760 i don't really get that often but people that i know will will show me love okay so how many messages
00:06:04.560 you get a day from then like a zero okay so you get no messages from guys interested in you
00:06:10.320 do you have a public instagram yes yes but i don't post often and when i do it's the people that
00:06:16.960 already know me i really get and if i do is from like an uncle that's like 25 years older than me
00:06:22.880 that i'm going to ignore it's like once in a blue moon okay so what about you i don't really see them
00:06:31.680 come up as much because they go into message requests let's say on average between maybe one
00:06:37.040 two one to two hey guys how many how many messages do you get a day you know what it's about when you
00:06:45.680 post if i post because i'm a personal trainer so if i post like a um update from like my gym progress
00:06:52.720 then i'll get a flurry of people i might get like 20 to 25 but on a normal day not like so if you post
00:07:02.160 you get oh and if you don't post if i don't post yeah if you're beating the women yeah 1.00
00:07:09.360 yeah i don't know so so you get more dms than the girls i guess so well you know what would you say is 0.97
00:07:14.720 the quality of the girls that dmu um like out of every 10 what percent are you would actually yeah maybe
00:07:21.440 like 10 okay it's that 10 yeah i mean if i post it if i was to post a trap it may be that 40 okay
00:07:28.960 just on average sometimes you know i might i might get some wings in there
00:07:35.120 but no no but yeah usually just yeah about 10 i'll see okay yeah because the gays love a personal trainer
00:07:43.760 um so my account is no longer public i've made it private and the reason why is because
00:07:49.760 my situation women are lovely because women would just like and then be like oh i love like how 1.00
00:07:56.080 positive you are and blah blah blah on social media guys are very different there's not i don't think
00:08:01.600 i think there's a shortage of like masculine mandem as they call it guys so i made my account private
00:08:10.400 because guys have kept dming me through like and then so like let's say for example the black gay 0.92
00:08:20.800 community in london as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily
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