JustPearlyThings - October 23, 2023


This Feminist WORD RUINS All Relationships

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Rolf Deegan Amaris
This Unhinged Single Mother Gets Kicked Out For Saying This Trash Modern Women Are Bad Communicator

Episode Stats


Length

9 minutes

Words per minute

178.2

Word count

1,704

Sentence count

157

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

sentences flagged

Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

16

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Summary

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In this episode, I talk about how the word "partner" has replaced the term "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" as the most common term used in relationships, and why I think this is a problem. I also talk about the fact that women are getting more and more entitled and how we should spend our money on men.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Speaking of feminist terms, so guys, I've been in England for about almost, I think, two years now. 0.63
00:00:06.340 And one thing I noticed when I came to England, so if you guys don't know, I was recruited from
00:00:12.500 America to the UK to play volleyball, and I play volleyball here in England. And when I first got
00:00:17.620 here, one thing I noticed was how much more prevalent the word partner is than a husband
00:00:22.580 or boyfriend or girlfriend. And this just like blew my mind every show. So I do, I used to do a
00:00:29.220 show four days a week on relationships. And every show, I would come out and we would talk about all
00:00:34.520 this, all these different things in relationships. And even married women would call their husband's
00:00:39.540 partner. And Rolf Deegan on Twitter recently put out a study that said in the past decade,
00:00:46.000 partner has overtaken the term boyfriend and girlfriend on Twitter for one significant other.
00:00:51.620 So again, husband implies that you submit to their authority. Partner implies that you are equal.
00:01:00.820 And this shows just how deep feminist language is in our culture, because language shapes behaviors 1.00
00:01:07.940 and behaviors shape language. It goes both ways. I don't actually know which way it goes. Does
00:01:13.020 behavior shape language or does language shape behavior? But I mean, they impact each other. I don't
00:01:19.380 really think this is disputed. And the fact that the culture is now referring to husband and wife as
00:01:25.440 equal, the same, really implies that men don't have authority in their own household. So some
00:01:30.840 individuals have chosen to adopt the gender neutral term partner to refer to their romantic
00:01:35.360 counterpart in place of the gender terms boyfriend and girlfriend. In the past, partner was used by
00:01:40.400 individuals within the LGBTQ plus community to describe their romantic interests. However, here we
00:01:47.260 explore this linguistic trend with data from millions of individuals, self descriptions and US Twitter
00:01:52.500 users profile bios from 2012 to 2023. We found increased use of partner coincident with decreased
00:01:59.220 use of boyfriend and girlfriend. Wow. I wonder what happened in 2013. It looks like there's like a steep
00:02:07.520 drop. Like what happened in 2013, guys? Let me know what you think in the comments. I don't even know.
00:02:12.440 But I would say this is a problem. And until we start implementing policies and creating societal
00:02:18.680 change that really implies that men are the head of the household and we should submit to men's 0.76
00:02:23.700 authorities, I don't see this changing. And it's really sad because I really think you're going to
00:02:29.460 keep seeing the breakdown of the family and you're going to keep seeing that it's going to get harder
00:02:34.560 and harder to get into relationships if this trend continues. So another trend we've talked about on the
00:02:41.100 show, I mean, how many times is that women are getting more and more entitled. And the problem 1.00
00:02:47.280 we're going to have in 2023 is if as the price of women gets higher and higher, you're going to see 1.00
00:02:52.320 less men wanting to buy and sign up for marriage and relationships. Unfortunately, after a certain
00:02:58.320 point, men are going to look and just say the juice is not worth the squeeze. So there is a woman that 1.00
00:03:03.620 is going viral because she wanted 15,000 pounds for a holiday. Let's pull it up. 0.97
00:03:08.580 I buy stuff. Even the holidays that he's mentioning is even still a problem. Because when I ask
00:03:15.360 him for holidays, it's not like he even still wants to provide as well. Listen, this woman 0.58
00:03:19.740 wants me to give her 15,000 pounds for her to go on a four-day trip to Miami. Oh, okay. The cost of 0.78
00:03:25.920 living is just stupid these days. And she wants me to give her 15 grand so she's go, go, go waste on 1.00
00:03:30.380 holiday. You already know how I live my life. I haven't lost my mind. 15 grand. Okay, guys, let's
00:03:40.180 just be objective. Can we pull up, pull up, pull her up again? I want to see if we should rate her 0.95
00:03:44.180 one to 10. King, what would you rate her? One to 10. What would you rate her? One to 10. Okay,
00:03:49.640 that's what I would say to you. Okay, so we have a chick that's maybe slightly above average. She's 1.00
00:03:54.620 what, a six? Six, five, six. I mean, who knows how under all that makeup? We don't even know what she 1.00
00:03:59.760 looks like. And she's demanding. I mean, honestly, I would say that's like nine prices. Guys,
00:04:07.300 think about it this way. When you have men spending a bunch of money on women, when you have,
00:04:12.220 I honestly, I've thought about this and I'm playing around with this idea, but you guys can tell me
00:04:16.480 what you think. I think that women should spend money on men. Yes, yes. Okay, hear me out. Hear me 1.00
00:04:23.020 out. I think women are in their true femininity. It's not really about money. It's not really about 1.00
00:04:29.080 soft life. If you look back, I want you guys to Google a day in the life of the Amish. These 1.00
00:04:33.700 women get up at like 6 a.m. to milk the cows. They tow the fields. They help their husbands. Like 1.00
00:04:40.560 true femininity is not, it's not the soft life wearing a pretty dress. No, true femininity is
00:04:48.260 serving the men. Yes, yes, guys. I was thinking about this. I'm like, when men are spending all this
00:04:55.060 money on women, really, they're serving the women. So I actually think, I'm going to get so much hate
00:05:01.340 for this opinion, but I actually think it makes more sense for women to serve the men. If you guys
00:05:06.540 didn't know this, chivalry is actually gynocentric. So again, I believe that gynocentrism is basically 0.88
00:05:12.620 women good, men bad. And really, gynocentrism disrupts the natural order of the world. And I think 0.96
00:05:19.360 the natural order is God, men, women, children. And the women have to serve the men. And chivalry 0.99
00:05:25.540 started basically 1,000 years ago. So 1,000 years ago, proposals and just romantic love really
00:05:32.080 started. And it used to be that men would submit to the authority of stronger men and stronger men
00:05:37.860 would submit to the authority of God. And it used to be that men would bow down to the king and they
00:05:44.000 would kneel to the king. And a proposal actually switches it where the woman is in the place of the 0.94
00:05:50.080 king. So think about that, guys. What does that do? That implies that the woman is above the man. 0.99
00:05:55.940 Chivalry is generally seen as a good thing by the right and the left. It's generally seen as what we
00:06:00.880 are supposed to do, the good old days. I would argue, I'm sorry, guys. I'm sorry. I don't want to ruin
00:06:08.040 this for you. But I would argue it's not. I would argue it is not a good thing. And the reason being is
00:06:13.320 because it disrupts the natural order of the world and puts the woman above the man. 0.84
00:06:17.800 Why does the woman deserve the man's hard-earned money? Why? What has she done to earn it? Now, 0.99
00:06:23.980 I also hear the argument that men are supposed to protect and provide, and that's why they should 0.95
00:06:27.840 pay on date. I question this narrative because typically the protection and provisioning,
00:06:34.600 historically, romantic love wasn't really a big thing. And the protection and provisioning was given
00:06:40.220 in exchange for children. And actually, women in a lot of countries came with a dowry. So women would 0.99
00:06:46.480 actually spend money first. I mean, it would come from their dads, but you guys see the idea.
00:06:51.140 It was, he's offering the protection and provisioning for a lifetime. And he was seen as
00:06:57.520 the prize. He was seen as far more valuable than her. And he was given money to take care of her for
00:07:04.060 a lifetime. So I haven't, I'm not definitive on this topic. Okay. I could go both ways, but I'd love
00:07:11.280 to hear you guys' argument in the comments section, because I think there's a solid argument that could
00:07:16.660 be made for women needing to spend money on men. Okay. Just Production said, why would you even 1.00
00:07:22.960 entertain a woman like that? Weak man. I agree. Amaris, this woman has standards and under, oh no, 1.00
00:07:29.500 oh my God. This woman has standards and understands her worth. Really? Okay. I, man, want to be a man
00:07:36.380 until we ask for something. Then they really bring nothing to the table. 15 grand? Oh my gosh.
00:07:46.540 Oh my gosh. Wow. Badness. Madness. So there, I watched a documentary this morning, actually. I watched
00:07:54.500 it on a day in the life of the Amish. And there's actually a community of the Amish that it's literally
00:07:59.300 like going back in time because they have no contact with the outside world. Like there's
00:08:03.640 some Amish that kind of are like half in, half out. It was so interesting listening to the women 1.00
00:08:08.660 because the women knew that their job was to serve the men. And you, you had none of this entitlement 0.52
00:08:14.300 bullshit. It was literally like going back in time. And now you have women asking for cash and 1.00
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