This Is Number 1 Problem With Modern Women
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Summary
In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and are joined by special guest, to talk about toxic women, toxic men, and toxic women in the dating world. We also talk about female treachery and the dangers of online dating.
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accountability you know what's crazy men want younger women but i think more men would be open
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to dating not old old women but like say like a girl that's 30 like a guy that's 45 right i think
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they'd be more open to it but the problem is they're not finding that the young women the
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older women are more mature they're finding that they're less mature than the young women so it's
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like if you can't like if you're going to be older at least be wiser but the problem is they have
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it's so crazy to me how i mean even yesterday who was more mature on the couch the most mature one
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was the youngest kamara yeah yes i like her yes yes and it's like this is what we're giving yeah
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well and then you know because i saw somebody say this right because um honestly tinder bumble hinge
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these things fucked up american society you know in in japan they're trying their damnedest to get
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tinder off the ground and they just can't they just can't make it work um but the thing is this
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like back in the day right pre-social media pre-dating apps like if someone dumped you you had to go home
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and be like why did i why did i get dumped this shit sucks gonna look in the mirror like well i am kind
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of fat i'm kind of ugly my teeth are yellow you know all these different things you would look and be
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like i am kind of an asshole you have to like reflect and be like damn it i gotta do better but now
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people are just like fuck that it's the other person's fault everybody's so narcissistic nowadays
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and so they're like fuck it's the other person's fault uh let me just fucking delude myself by
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finding cheap sex with some other whore or some other fucking man whore you know nobody's taking a
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moment to sit down and be like where did i fuck up you know what i mean and i talked about this when
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i was on brandon carter's uh podcast a couple weeks ago victory talk and i say like when you
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don't take accountability for your failures you leave power on the table you know when you take
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accountability you're like you know what i am kind of an asshole i am kind of uncaring of a person or i
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you know post my asshole too much on fucking instagram or only fans maybe i should delete that
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shit there's no moment where people are like okay wait i fucked up let me make myself better and then i
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can attract somebody better because the reality is in current dating structures that are happening
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right now you're if you're constantly attracting shitty people into your life that's on you because
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you're what you're putting out there is what you're attracting and another thing is this even if you are
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a good person but you're constantly attracting shitty people then that means you you have a pretty
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bad picker your picker is broken or self-esteem or self-esteem right but you leave so much power on the
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table when you just you know what they say like when they when you point the finger at somebody
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you have three fingers pointing back at you no that's what i always say i think everything in
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life is my own fault yeah even if somebody does you wrong it's like okay you you have to look at where
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what did you do to attract that person yeah because they're and this is like another thing it's like
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when women will talk about being in toxic relationships it's always them that they were toxic
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but you cannot i'm sorry i just do not believe you could be in a toxic relationship long term
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without being toxic yourself well yeah and and i'll even say like i'll even say there's been
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times where i was absolutely toxic in a relationship you know really now we're getting spicy yeah no i
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was give us a jpt exclusive how are you toxic um i mean i think going through a guy's phone is toxic
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i've done that ah the every girl on this planet is fucking toxic yeah yeah you're so nice you're like
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you're okay no every girl on this planet is toxic i think that's toxic you should go through
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dude girls girls girls bro girls can't even help themselves they can't they're like you a girl
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listen let me tell you about female treachery okay if you have like a four digit passcode on your phone
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a woman will like look over your shoulder you cover your face in shame
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a woman will like get a one digit at a time and be like fucking detective
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and like figure out your passcode that's why when they do shit like this and then they're like
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oh yeah sorry i didn't get your text like fuck you you got my text you goddamn liar
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because you want to go full batman detective mode to like crack my password
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and even when you change your password they're like wait did you change your password like
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how did you know i changed my password psychopath how did you like what's going on over here i'll
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tell you another trick we do i'll tell you what let's hear it you you tilt it and the light to see
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where it swipes oh because usually yeah yeah so like you can see where like the because usually
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there's like dots yeah and you know when a girl too like i dated a girl and she had like a screen
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protector on her phone so you couldn't see from the side yeah i was like what are you up to
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something what do you what what bullshit are you up to you know so no i mean female treachery is there
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but again men and women men and women everybody at home if you suck at relationships start blaming
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yourself find problems within yourself and improve yourself and watch the quality of your life go
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through the roof you know i'm friends with a guy called king dre on uh on social media he's a great guy
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and we are we're having a conversation and we're you know him and i both kind of leveled up in our
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30s you know became financially successful individuals and we both have noticed like
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really high quality women were like all of a sudden like shooting up i don't know he does a lot of he's
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gone to a lot of things he's like you know he's gone to therapy talks about on his podcast and
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he's overcome a lot of his demons i've gone to a lot of therapy good therapist masculine therapist
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i've overcome a lot of my demons and then now like a lot of like high quality like attractive women are
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coming out of the woodwork and we were both having a conversation we're just like damn maybe we were
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just shitty individuals and like now that we got our shit sorted out we're attracting quality women
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and it's so true that's a you know one thing with the red pill and all the people talking about dating
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advice the bottom line is this if you're consistently attracting people that you are not satisfied with
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in the dating marketplace that's a direct reflection of your value you know you got to level up if you
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don't level up you're going to keep on attracting what you're getting well and then it's like if you
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admit there's a problem you can work on fixing it yeah like it's not and a lot of people take the red
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pill is trying to like shit on women or like try like but it's like we can't even admit there's a
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problem like okay if we're overweight let's lose weight yeah you know if if you're traumatized from
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your ex let's work on that like let's do you see them all attack me because i said i don't want a
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traumatized woman in my life no you know no you don't why would you i don't want to try and like
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i feel the same way i don't think it's the same but i don't want a super traumatized guy that's
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bitching about his ex who cheated on him or what i like that we don't we don't want to hear that
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either and like like girls we have all like we all know that guy that's super jealous or can and not
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not like the fake one you know not like but like real like crazy no i'm listening this is a great
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story no no no but it's like so it's like i just we don't want traumatized people either so i don't
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know why we are demonizing men for not wanting traumatized women why why would you i don't want
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to traumatize employee i don't want to traumatize girlfriend i don't want to deal with traumatized
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family members like go over there drink yourself to death like get away from me if you don't want to
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help yourself and you're going to just self-destruct like get out of my sight i don't want to deal with
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that yeah women used to like die with secrets you know what i mean yeah now they talk about it on
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tiktok yes yes well i know what i know what my muslim friends would say i don't know if you're a
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christian i don't know how you're supposed to act i don't know what you're supposed to adult i don't
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get it anymore the true believer says the true believer the true believer but how many are true
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believers in i don't know i see all over twitter all these churches are losing their minds i it just it
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seems very complicated islam seems very very simple you know what's right you know what's wrong i have
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a question uh regarding we talked about tolerance and acceptance and the other end of that is
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extremism so i'm a jew yep christian newfound muslim respect look at us all hanging out here yeah
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it's the beginning of a joke somewhere you know so i'm talking about accepting the i have gay
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friends i have lesbian friends bisexual the t's friends of destiny it's kind of like what's
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actually been happening here you know i'm not a yeah this is not my wheelhouse nor any of our
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wheelhouses but one could argue that you know on the on the opposite end of the acceptance and the
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tolerance is absolute extremism yeah and i'm sure the allies of the lgbt will point to islam
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and point to the middle eastern countries and point to the north african countries that have
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islam is the religion and say they are the most extreme when it comes to lgbt they say
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that it should be illegal yep to be gay and in some countries you should be killed if you are gay
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this is just i'm just pointing out stats you're right and it's a super interesting argument because
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i will i will sit here and say that i guarantee in most islamic countries there are gay people and i
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guarantee that they have gay relationships and nobody cares as long as they're not trying to
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inflict on the children it's illegal to walk down the street and do indecent things in front of
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children but i guarantee if you were gay in a lot of these countries no privately nobody would care
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because they're trying to preserve the family unit and to a degree you have to always protect
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innocence when you're talking about extremism i would be friends with a gay person yes i'm a muslim
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but i would be friends with a gay person because if a full-grown man decides to make that is one thing
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that i was always really thankful for my mom about was she was very big on like keeping kids as
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innocent as long as possible she was not with this whole like we need sex ed in school she was not with
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this whole like let like the kids need to have adult conversation she let us believe in santa claus
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till we were old as hell like nobody else believed that's good yeah but it's it's because like you're
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not adult you're a kid and i just don't understand like why we have these like adults that want to
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ruin children's innocence even sex i am so anti-sex ed in schools yeah it's so it's disgusting why on earth
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are we teaching children how to have sex no like why are we teaching them about std like why do they
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need to know that and and the thing is what the school doesn't understand is each kid is different
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yeah like i have a bunch of siblings like i can think of one sibling that needed a sex ed talk
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as soon as possible immediately and i could think of another that would have been gone maybe yeah i don't
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want to throw this brother under the bus you just did yeah well i got a lot of brothers so you know which
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one okay but and then i i have a sister who it's like you know she always seemed like she was younger
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and so like she would have been fine till she was like 17 18 because she was just more innocent
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and so but but who knows that not the school the parents because they know their kids and they're
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the only one ones that have a vested interest in how the children turn out yeah like a stranger some
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feminist single childless women miserable person miserable that's inflicting her shit onto your kids
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because she doesn't have any of her own and she's just getting pumped and dumped so it's like her
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hatred for men is building yeah it's she's not gonna have the best interest of your kids the parents