JustPearlyThings - This Is Number 1 Problem With Modern Women

00:00:00.000 accountability you know what's crazy men want younger women but i think more men would be open

00:00:05.520 to dating not old old women but like say like a girl that's 30 like a guy that's 45 right i think

00:00:11.180 they'd be more open to it but the problem is they're not finding that the young women the 0.95

00:00:15.400 older women are more mature they're finding that they're less mature than the young women so it's 1.00

00:00:20.040 like if you can't like if you're going to be older at least be wiser but the problem is they have

00:00:24.940 it's so crazy to me how i mean even yesterday who was more mature on the couch the most mature one

00:00:31.680 was the youngest kamara yeah yes i like her yes yes and it's like this is what we're giving yeah

00:00:38.140 well and then you know because i saw somebody say this right because um honestly tinder bumble hinge

00:00:44.720 these things fucked up american society you know in in japan they're trying their damnedest to get 0.95

00:00:50.520 tinder off the ground and they just can't they just can't make it work um but the thing is this

00:00:56.560 like back in the day right pre-social media pre-dating apps like if someone dumped you you had to go home 0.97

00:01:01.900 and be like why did i why did i get dumped this shit sucks gonna look in the mirror like well i am kind 0.98

00:01:07.740 of fat i'm kind of ugly my teeth are yellow you know all these different things you would look and be 1.00

00:01:14.280 like i am kind of an asshole you have to like reflect and be like damn it i gotta do better but now 0.99

00:01:19.880 people are just like fuck that it's the other person's fault everybody's so narcissistic nowadays 1.00

00:01:23.700 and so they're like fuck it's the other person's fault uh let me just fucking delude myself by 1.00

00:01:28.660 finding cheap sex with some other whore or some other fucking man whore you know nobody's taking a 1.00

00:01:33.500 moment to sit down and be like where did i fuck up you know what i mean and i talked about this when 1.00

00:01:38.420 i was on brandon carter's uh podcast a couple weeks ago victory talk and i say like when you 0.90

00:01:44.040 don't take accountability for your failures you leave power on the table you know when you take 0.90

00:01:51.600 accountability you're like you know what i am kind of an asshole i am kind of uncaring of a person or i 1.00

00:01:58.460 you know post my asshole too much on fucking instagram or only fans maybe i should delete that 0.99

00:02:02.880 shit there's no moment where people are like okay wait i fucked up let me make myself better and then i 1.00

00:02:11.760 can attract somebody better because the reality is in current dating structures that are happening 0.99

00:02:16.480 right now you're if you're constantly attracting shitty people into your life that's on you because

00:02:23.260 you're what you're putting out there is what you're attracting and another thing is this even if you are 0.74

00:02:28.960 a good person but you're constantly attracting shitty people then that means you you have a pretty

00:02:32.660 bad picker your picker is broken or self-esteem or self-esteem right but you leave so much power on the

00:02:39.840 table when you just you know what they say like when they when you point the finger at somebody

00:02:43.860 you have three fingers pointing back at you no that's what i always say i think everything in

00:02:47.560 life is my own fault yeah even if somebody does you wrong it's like okay you you have to look at where

00:02:53.200 what did you do to attract that person yeah because they're and this is like another thing it's like

00:02:58.700 when women will talk about being in toxic relationships it's always them that they were toxic 1.00

00:03:02.940 but you cannot i'm sorry i just do not believe you could be in a toxic relationship long term

00:03:08.300 without being toxic yourself well yeah and and i'll even say like i'll even say there's been

00:03:13.220 times where i was absolutely toxic in a relationship you know really now we're getting spicy yeah no i

00:03:18.800 was give us a jpt exclusive how are you toxic um i mean i think going through a guy's phone is toxic 0.98

00:03:23.680 i've done that ah the every girl on this planet is fucking toxic yeah yeah you're so nice you're like 1.00

00:03:29.500 you're okay no every girl on this planet is toxic i think that's toxic you should go through 1.00

00:03:34.820 dude girls girls girls bro girls can't even help themselves they can't they're like you a girl 1.00

00:03:41.560 listen let me tell you about female treachery okay if you have like a four digit passcode on your phone 0.90

00:03:48.480 a woman will like look over your shoulder you cover your face in shame 1.00

00:03:52.600 a woman will like get a one digit at a time and be like fucking detective 1.00

00:03:59.080 and like figure out your passcode that's why when they do shit like this and then they're like 1.00

00:04:04.460 oh yeah sorry i didn't get your text like fuck you you got my text you goddamn liar 1.00

00:04:10.000 because you want to go full batman detective mode to like crack my password 1.00

00:04:14.100 and even when you change your password they're like wait did you change your password like

00:04:18.080 how did you know i changed my password psychopath how did you like what's going on over here i'll

00:04:22.740 tell you another trick we do i'll tell you what let's hear it you you tilt it and the light to see

00:04:28.680 where it swipes oh because usually yeah yeah so like you can see where like the because usually

00:04:37.940 there's like dots yeah and you know when a girl too like i dated a girl and she had like a screen 1.00

00:04:43.960 protector on her phone so you couldn't see from the side yeah i was like what are you up to 0.95

00:04:48.500 something what do you what what bullshit are you up to you know so no i mean female treachery is there 1.00

00:04:54.540 but again men and women men and women everybody at home if you suck at relationships start blaming 1.00

00:05:00.460 yourself find problems within yourself and improve yourself and watch the quality of your life go

00:05:07.520 through the roof you know i'm friends with a guy called king dre on uh on social media he's a great guy

00:05:12.040 and we are we're having a conversation and we're you know him and i both kind of leveled up in our

00:05:16.340 30s you know became financially successful individuals and we both have noticed like

00:05:21.280 really high quality women were like all of a sudden like shooting up i don't know he does a lot of he's 0.99

00:05:26.240 gone to a lot of things he's like you know he's gone to therapy talks about on his podcast and

00:05:30.220 he's overcome a lot of his demons i've gone to a lot of therapy good therapist masculine therapist

00:05:35.260 i've overcome a lot of my demons and then now like a lot of like high quality like attractive women are 1.00

00:05:41.160 coming out of the woodwork and we were both having a conversation we're just like damn maybe we were 0.97

00:05:45.280 just shitty individuals and like now that we got our shit sorted out we're attracting quality women 1.00

00:05:50.200 and it's so true that's a you know one thing with the red pill and all the people talking about dating 0.99

00:05:55.660 advice the bottom line is this if you're consistently attracting people that you are not satisfied with

00:06:04.720 in the dating marketplace that's a direct reflection of your value you know you got to level up if you

00:06:14.840 don't level up you're going to keep on attracting what you're getting well and then it's like if you

00:06:19.400 admit there's a problem you can work on fixing it yeah like it's not and a lot of people take the red 0.97

00:06:23.920 pill is trying to like shit on women or like try like but it's like we can't even admit there's a 0.98

00:06:28.600 problem like okay if we're overweight let's lose weight yeah you know if if you're traumatized from 0.99

00:06:34.000 your ex let's work on that like let's do you see them all attack me because i said i don't want a 0.96

00:06:38.460 traumatized woman in my life no you know no you don't why would you i don't want to try and like

00:06:43.940 i feel the same way i don't think it's the same but i don't want a super traumatized guy that's

00:06:49.160 bitching about his ex who cheated on him or what i like that we don't we don't want to hear that

00:06:54.120 either and like like girls we have all like we all know that guy that's super jealous or can and not

00:07:01.080 not like the fake one you know not like but like real like crazy no i'm listening this is a great

00:07:07.720 story no no no but it's like so it's like i just we don't want traumatized people either so i don't

00:07:14.580 know why we are demonizing men for not wanting traumatized women why why would you i don't want

00:07:19.860 to traumatize employee i don't want to traumatize girlfriend i don't want to deal with traumatized 0.88

00:07:24.080 family members like go over there drink yourself to death like get away from me if you don't want to 0.92

00:07:27.220 help yourself and you're going to just self-destruct like get out of my sight i don't want to deal with 0.89

00:07:31.720 that yeah women used to like die with secrets you know what i mean yeah now they talk about it on 1.00

00:07:37.460 tiktok yes yes well i know what i know what my muslim friends would say i don't know if you're a

00:07:43.720 christian i don't know how you're supposed to act i don't know what you're supposed to adult i don't

00:07:46.780 get it anymore the true believer says the true believer the true believer but how many are true

00:07:50.860 believers in i don't know i see all over twitter all these churches are losing their minds i it just it

00:07:55.840 seems very complicated islam seems very very simple you know what's right you know what's wrong i have 1.00

00:08:01.140 a question uh regarding we talked about tolerance and acceptance and the other end of that is

00:08:07.480 extremism so i'm a jew yep christian newfound muslim respect look at us all hanging out here yeah

00:08:14.580 it's the beginning of a joke somewhere you know so i'm talking about accepting the i have gay 0.58

00:08:20.320 friends i have lesbian friends bisexual the t's friends of destiny it's kind of like what's

00:08:25.860 actually been happening here you know i'm not a yeah this is not my wheelhouse nor any of our

00:08:31.340 wheelhouses but one could argue that you know on the on the opposite end of the acceptance and the

00:08:37.040 tolerance is absolute extremism yeah and i'm sure the allies of the lgbt will point to islam 1.00

00:08:43.460 and point to the middle eastern countries and point to the north african countries that have

00:08:47.520 islam is the religion and say they are the most extreme when it comes to lgbt they say 1.00

00:08:52.780 that it should be illegal yep to be gay and in some countries you should be killed if you are gay 0.98

00:08:57.880 this is just i'm just pointing out stats you're right and it's a super interesting argument because 0.96

00:09:01.440 i will i will sit here and say that i guarantee in most islamic countries there are gay people and i

00:09:06.280 guarantee that they have gay relationships and nobody cares as long as they're not trying to 0.97

00:09:09.820 inflict on the children it's illegal to walk down the street and do indecent things in front of 0.63

00:09:13.620 children but i guarantee if you were gay in a lot of these countries no privately nobody would care 0.98

00:09:18.140 because they're trying to preserve the family unit and to a degree you have to always protect 0.55

00:09:22.220 innocence when you're talking about extremism i would be friends with a gay person yes i'm a muslim

00:09:26.560 but i would be friends with a gay person because if a full-grown man decides to make that is one thing

00:09:29.960 that i was always really thankful for my mom about was she was very big on like keeping kids as

00:09:35.320 innocent as long as possible she was not with this whole like we need sex ed in school she was not with

00:09:41.200 this whole like let like the kids need to have adult conversation she let us believe in santa claus 1.00

00:09:46.900 till we were old as hell like nobody else believed that's good yeah but it's it's because like you're

00:09:53.040 not adult you're a kid and i just don't understand like why we have these like adults that want to 0.54

00:09:58.620 ruin children's innocence even sex i am so anti-sex ed in schools yeah it's so it's disgusting why on earth

00:10:06.220 are we teaching children how to have sex no like why are we teaching them about std like why do they 0.95

00:10:11.580 need to know that and and the thing is what the school doesn't understand is each kid is different

00:10:16.920 yeah like i have a bunch of siblings like i can think of one sibling that needed a sex ed talk

00:10:22.300 as soon as possible immediately and i could think of another that would have been gone maybe yeah i don't

00:10:28.660 want to throw this brother under the bus you just did yeah well i got a lot of brothers so you know which

00:10:33.540 one okay but and then i i have a sister who it's like you know she always seemed like she was younger

00:10:39.260 and so like she would have been fine till she was like 17 18 because she was just more innocent 1.00

00:10:44.020 and so but but who knows that not the school the parents because they know their kids and they're

00:10:49.840 the only one ones that have a vested interest in how the children turn out yeah like a stranger some 1.00

00:10:56.580 feminist single childless women miserable person miserable that's inflicting her shit onto your kids 1.00

00:11:03.040 because she doesn't have any of her own and she's just getting pumped and dumped so it's like her 1.00

00:11:06.720 hatred for men is building yeah it's she's not gonna have the best interest of your kids the parents 0.98

00:11:11.940 have the best interest

JustPearlyThings - June 14, 2023

This Is Number 1 Problem With Modern Women

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