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Summary
In this episode, we discuss cheating in relationships and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. We also discuss why cheating is a deal breaker within a relationship and why cheating should never be tolerated in a marriage. We are joined by our good friends and former co-hosts to discuss cheating and how cheating should be dealt with in relationships.
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All right, Damon Barcell, I'm Puerto Rican, I can definitely tell you we don't pick overweight
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women over skinny, please stop capping. Watchmen, are they prepared to give their lives for their
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significant other? Then why can't you either follow their authority or disconnect with social
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media? Women age like beef, Mason, everybody built like Humpty Dumpty or the Michelin man now.
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Bro Davis, women age like cheese, the Haven Project. By and large, modern women can't even
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define what a woman is. Ask the panel, what is the wife? See if you get an answer. We did that
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question. They probably came late. Okay, would you guys accept, would you guys try to work
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through cheating? I think I'd be all right with cheating, honestly. As long as I could film
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that throw new fans on. If you could do it in front of me, that'd be fine. Man or woman,
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I wouldn't. Okay, go ahead. If you asked me this about five years ago, I would have said
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nah. Now, I would be, I'd have to think about something. I couldn't make that dramatic.
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No. Okay, you'd think about working through it. I'd think about if it was like, yeah, if
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it was the first time I'd have to think about that. I can't like, just, it depends as well
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of how long we're in the relationship for, what we've got going on. If it's something early,
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then I don't think he's taking me serious, really. I think it's just a play, play thing.
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I wouldn't. What changed from five years ago to now? I was young, mentally. I wasn't thinking,
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I was thinking, oh, I'm the only one that you have to, yep, it's all about. I wasn't looking
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into a man. I didn't know what a man is. I didn't know what men had to offer. I didn't
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know. I was really young. Okay. So my mentality was different. Not saying, you know, there's so
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much about, there's so much around it. There is so much around it and I can't just sit
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here and rant on about it forever. But I do know that back then I would have been like,
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no. But I think it's because I experienced it when I was younger and it put me in a very
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dark place. I was very like, guard up. If you cheat on me, I swear, I'm never going to deal
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with it. What's stressful? Like being on their phone all the time trying to figure out what
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they're doing? No, no, no. What do you mean? Like, I just find that like, like if you're
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worried about cheating all the time, it's stressful. Oh, I don't, I don't know about, no, I don't
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know. I feel like going into a relationship without thinking about cheating is a bit more
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of a healthier. If you're there thinking about it, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.
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You're not ready. Yeah, I agree. You need to heal. Yeah. The healing. Yes. Love healing. What he
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said, the healing. We all need to heal. No, yeah, yeah. What about you? Cheating? Yes, we can talk
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through it. Okay. Yeah, I've already said, yeah, from earlier, I don't feel like that's a deal
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breaker within marriage. I feel like it's something that you can work out as a couple. Okay. If it's
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sexual, then no. I mean, like picture post and whatever. But I feel like it's different for a woman to
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have sex, cheat in a marriage than it is for a man to cheat in a marriage. I know it's going to
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sound so bad, but it is very different. Someone said, actually, I'll read this later. Go ahead.
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Oh, it's intrigued to know. Yeah, I think it's something that you can write. Have you ever
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worked through it? Yes, I have. Okay. Do you feel like, were you able to let it go or did you
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still bring it up? I feel like if a guy's making you feel inferior to that other woman
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or makes you feel like no self-worth and stuff, then that's really wrong. But then if it does
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it in a way where he kind of just keeps that like to himself, like, oh no, like, I don't
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know, like when he starts to wreck the home or say the woman becomes a home wrecker, the
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woman that is like flirting with or whatever, and she starts phoning you and abusing you and
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sort of like causing disruptions in the home, then I feel that that's like really, really
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wrong. But then on the other hand, I don't know, I wouldn't say it's acceptable, but.
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If it was a fling in Napa, then you'd be like, right, it's never going to see that person
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again. I still wouldn't really be happy about it.
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Yeah, I wouldn't be happy about it. But, however, you know, I think there's levels, man. There's
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definitely levels to it. There's definitely levels.
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Well, I've come to the understanding when it comes to cheating, when the male is cheating
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anyway, is that there's a reason why the male has cheated. And it's most likely because the
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female is lacking something within that relation. So it can be worked upon if they have that
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conversation or communicate that, and she kind of fixes what she's lacking. If she can't
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fix what she's lacking, then, you know, he's going to continue to cheat. And then obviously
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that female is going to feel hurt or what the case may be. So would I work on it? Um, if
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I was lacking something, I would. If I wasn't lacking anything, and he was cheating for the
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sake of cheating, then no, I will not work on it.
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That's very personal. I know I'm going to get drawn up for this, but I consider myself
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as a high quality woman. So compared to a lot of females that's out there, I would see myself
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as high quality currently today. Right. But I said lacking nothing.
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The things that I lack wouldn't, um, wouldn't be so much of a big deal to a male.
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Okay. What do you lack? I'm annoying. I'll ask you that question.
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That's literally the first thing that will make the man go and cheat, that you're annoying.
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You think so? 100%. What? When you can get someone that's just gonna say, oh yeah, you're
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the best man in the world. And then he comes on to you and you're just being annoying. Like...
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Um, okay. Well, your siblings can be annoying, but you're not going to hate them for it.
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Or you're not going to now say that you're siblings.
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Yeah, he doesn't hate you because he cheated. He just wanted to put his dick somewhere else.
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He wouldn't cheat because someone annoys you. So you wouldn't...
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So why don't you listen? He's a man. Like, why are you telling him why...
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You're just funny. It's like we don't listen to what the men say.
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Oh, we're not even dating. Imagine if we're dating, bruh.
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My annoying... I don't mean annoying in the times where you would hate me. Obviously, you
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wouldn't even be with me in the first place. But I'm annoying in the sense where, you know,
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like how your siblings would be annoying, but you still love them at the same time.
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Everyone's annoying to a certain degree. There's some aspects of all of us that will...
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You don't think there's any areas you could improve it.
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And you said, well, I'm annoying, but that wouldn't make him cheat.
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She did say she was gonna get drawn out right now.
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Like, some men can have their cake, their cherry and their icing and still cheat.
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Like, you can be the perfect wife. You do everything.
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They're just them guys that just like going out.
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Yeah, but supposing she's doing none of all those things then.
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And she's doing like, what are we supposed to do?
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Well, if she's doing everything now, what are we supposed to do?
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I'll tell you what she's probably lacking in femininity because part of femininity is humility.
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Well, you just said that men will cheat regardless.
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And you even said that women should just accept it.
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I said go into the marriage assuming it may happen and try to work through it.
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Yeah, but it's in our biological system to want to reproduce it.
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Without it being any fault on the woman, it's still...
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There's no more chances for men to want to cheat.
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What you're saying is just how that comes with the male makeup.
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So for a man to actively go out and look for a woman to cheat with,
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when he can't really even attract women means that there is actually something wrong.
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for him to actually leave his woman who is meant to be, obviously...
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But it's in our makeup like you're saying, bro.
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but I read this book by a guy who was a pimp in New Orleans,
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because that's how he just saw his environment, how his mom was.
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it doesn't matter what kind of woman he's going to pee with.
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But the whole point is most men don't even get the opportunity to do that.
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Like it's only 15, 20% of men that can really cheat like that.
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One out of three men are either virgins or haven't had sex in the past year.
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That men can't get a woman if he desires to want to have sex.
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It's just the type of quality a woman he's not going to get.
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I went to like a pickup artist conference once.
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And this is where like men pay thousands of dollars to know how to get laid.
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There's one out of three men that are very, very lonely.
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That like most women I think would be very hard to get a woman to sleep with.
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I've seen a real life experience that I wasn't even involved in.
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So when I was very young, I was working at Domino's.
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So I went to go and do a delivery and I saw two people having sex in front of my car on
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And the man was just penetrating her in front of my car.
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So the guy can have sex if he wants to have sex.
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But I think my point is, you know, women find 80% of men is ugly.
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I don't think that's why females are opening up their legs.
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There's different reasons why females are opening up their legs.
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Females are opening up their legs in an emotional state.
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And that emotional state can also be financial.
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And the data is that we swipe right 5% of the time on dating apps.
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So that's telling us that less and less men are having sex, but more women are having sex.
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If they wanted to, they can have sex with just a low caliber woman.
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But no, my whole point is there's very few men that have women coming at them to the point they could cheat a lot.
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But I'm saying most men don't have women approaching them like that.
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And if you look at the data, it's like we rate 80% of men as ugly.
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I mean the brothels just outside say I want sex.
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I mean you could say my whole point is that most men cannot cheat like that.
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Most men do not have women throwing themselves at them like that.
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But my whole point is most men are not going to cheat on you like that because they don't
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That's why they ain't having sex because they ain't going on dates and they don't
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How many men can actually afford to pay for sex?
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On a regular basis to the extent, to the point that we need sex.
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How many men can pay for it on a regular basis?
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So my whole point is you're speaking on something you don't even know.
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It depends on when some men are going to get done.
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We're all speaking on stuff we don't even know.
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So his whole point is that they can't afford sex.
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I mean there's more unemployed men than there's been in a really long time.
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In England they spend over a third of their income on rent.
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We have talked about inflation and you're acting like they have this discretionary income.
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Even if you're on benefits you're getting 250 pound a month.
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You will sacrifice 50 pound a month to go and get that vagina.
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You might not, can't afford it but you will sacrifice.
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I feel like I've been mis-concepted then and it could like differently.
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I thought guys like got all the pick up everything.
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So like just hearing those facts, that's news to me.
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It's something I'm going to have to go away from here and go do a bit more research on.
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But in my era growing up, yeah, like even like you talk from your grandmother and your mother, like it's the boys that come to you.
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So traditionally it's for the guy to come and ask you for a date, et cetera, et cetera.
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So I don't really know about all females going to a male going, oh, do you want to go out on a date?
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No, but I'm saying the number one way we're meeting is dating apps.
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Over 30, it's different, but under 30, the number.
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For my generation, that weren't really a thing.
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I think that's something that is Americanized, right?
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But it weren't here like 25 years ago, 30 years ago.
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But differently now, like from what I've seen when it just, like not even really come
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I watched like serial killer shows and stuff like that from America.
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And I just thought, oh, guys that go on dating apps are like serial killers.
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And then they're like trying to meet you and all that kind of stuff.
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Well, there's a whole group of men that women don't see.
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It's like fours, fives, sixes and sevens are sleeping with eights, nines and tens.
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So that's why we think we're hotter than we are.
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So it's a small percentage of men screwing all the chicks.
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Yeah, because I've got that, what do you say, the run of the wrist.
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So that's why I say the average chick gets to pick.
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The small percentage of men get to pick, but the other men are just taking what they can get.
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And historically, only 40% of men have reproduced ever.
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Because if most men have been having sex, that number will be higher.
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Because it's only recent times we've had contraceptives.
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So if most men have been having sex in the past, there will have been more men that will have reproduced.
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What it was, was back then it was only the strongest, the richest men that could reproduce
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Can you elaborate or clarify, where are these hoes coming from?
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I think he got AIDS or something, I won't even lie to you.
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So if we were to do the maps and weigh out how many females are in this world and how much men are in this world, and how much hoes we have currently today.
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Sorry, but where's this calculator as well that says all these numbers and stuff?
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What do you think the average body count is today?
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Sometimes I don't think about these type of things.
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I don't even know how many people are on this earth.
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Based on what I see today, based on the climate of how females are behaving, the decisions
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that they're making that their mothers now, single mothers, baby mothers in that sense, I would say their body counts are higher than their age.
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And that's not coming from a realistic point of view.
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So at every age from the moment they break 10 and pass their age, it doesn't come down.
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So, so like the whole, the whole point in these, by historical point of view, 96% of women would be whores.
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Because if you weren't a virgin on your wedding day, you were a whore, you're a concubine, you weren't worthy of marriage.
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So even the low body counts are considered whores if we go at a historical standpoint.
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Because men are now compromising with the virgin.
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Because like there, there's research that shows that men have a need for sex.
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So when all they have is fat hoes, it's like they take one.
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What is, you know, everyone's got their own view on it.
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I mean, roughly, roughly like five to eight partners, like his, like from.
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I'm saying, I'm saying where, where the data drops below, like, like a 20% chance of happy marriage, 25%.
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I can't remember off the top of my head, but it's like five to eight over 10.
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So, so, so I'm saying like, I mean, in modern times, I would say that, I mean, in modern times,
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I, God damn, they'll accept anything under like 10, but like from a historical point of view,
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most women would be disqualified for marriage if they've slept with more than one person.
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I would say if you ask most men today, it's over 10.
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That's like the most common answer I get in 2023.
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Um, I, I would also say from a historical point of view, it's two.
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So if you took the last a thousand years, it's two.
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Um, yeah, that's, and I would say the data says you're pretty much going to have a hard
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If you slept with more than like five to eight people roughly.
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I guess that also confirmed the divorce rate that we have in.
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But you have to say like a lot, a lot changed in society.
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Cause when I went to school, we used to sing like that and have the Bible lessons and
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Whereas now we, we, we don't, we don't have to do that.