JustPearlyThings - July 03, 2023


This Is The BIGGEST Green Flag In Women

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Heated Debate Between PRO-LIFE And PRO CHOICE Pearl Gave Her A Reality Check

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8 minutes

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184.69

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1,480

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Misogyny

20

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

6

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In this episode of the podcast, we are joined by a very special guest who has been a part of our team for the past 10 years. She is the founder of a company that specialises in marriage and family counselling, and has been in the business for over a decade. She is also a former fashion model and has worked with some of the most traditional women in the world.

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00:00:00.080 talking i was talking to king about this the other day i was like what percent we've had
00:00:03.600 hundreds like how many guests have we logged here like because we started logging guests like a
00:00:08.960 couple months ago so three four months ago we've maybe had what 600 700 in the system and this
00:00:14.880 doesn't even count um we just started like logging them like we i probably had way more come through
00:00:21.600 here and we're thinking like how many traditional women out of all these hundreds of women that have 1.00
00:00:27.360 been here and i was thinking i don't even think at 10 like i think i would i would say maybe five i
00:00:32.720 could think maybe yeah yeah you know and i don't say this to be insulting right i'm not saying they're
00:00:38.720 bad people i'm not saying this is like but i was thinking about it i'm like can you really have a
00:00:43.360 traditional woman over the age of 25 because like traditional women get like that means you think the 1.00
00:00:49.920 family comes first so if you make it to 25 and you're not married like in a way you can't be
00:00:56.080 traditional and i'm 26 so i would include myself in this right like i was playing volleyball in my
00:01:00.720 early 20s that's not what traditional women do they get married in their early 20s yeah you know so 1.00
00:01:08.000 that's what i was thinking about this the other day so like if a guy wanted to get married to a
00:01:12.560 traditional woman like where where would he go especially in this culture you know as a man who's been
00:01:21.600 in the game and the man who's now married i would say one thing that i would think is makes a good
00:01:26.640 woman is when she talks about her father uh not to say a woman is not good if she doesn't talk well 1.00
00:01:35.680 about her father but if a woman talks well about her father and her and their relationship that tells
00:01:42.240 me at the bare minimum she had a good role model and probably at the bare minimum she's not going to 1.00
00:01:50.080 permit you to disrespect her the likelihood is probably much smaller than if she had a bad
00:01:56.480 relationship and that was one thing i saw firsthand repeatedly in my like about a decade of working 0.62
00:02:03.040 with fashion models in new york city nightclubs the ones that behave like whores maybe nine out of ten 1.00
00:02:09.840 occasions yeah but it kind of it all goes back to the family dynamic right because even you you were
00:02:16.560 saying that like a lot of um when you were sleeping around it was because um you had mommy issues and
00:02:23.840 you see the same thing with daddy issues and it's so interesting because we have a higher standard of
00:02:28.560 living than ever before but we have so many mental problems because the family unit is not intact anymore
00:02:37.040 and it's like even if people grew up with married parents how many were arguing all the time couldn't
00:02:41.440 get along it's like i genuinely think my generation is afraid of traditional outcomes in marriage because
00:02:47.840 of what we've seen from previous generations yeah yeah i mean in in that in that 10 years i i i mean i i
00:02:56.880 it was startling to me but i remember that a lot of the girls that i felt uh were the most conservative
00:03:04.240 that were the most traditional in the sense of they're not going to be act like whores um 0.82
00:03:12.320 they they had good relationships with their dad i'm not saying it then i'm not saying every single
00:03:17.920 situation but more often than not if a girl had a good relationship with her dad he was checking in 0.57
00:03:23.600 with her you know while she's in new york he cared gave a fuck she was much less likely and also many of
00:03:30.640 those girls i think were also probably much less likely to even go out to a lot of nightclubs yeah 1.00
00:03:37.200 so i was probably seeing the women who were already in that way broken you know that would like to 1.00
00:03:43.360 party the party girls are the ones i generally met yeah we're the party girls so that was the pool yeah
00:03:48.880 i mean it's also like modern men and modern women kind of find each other right where it's like because
00:03:54.560 i i do know because when i think of like the stereotypical traditional woman i think of a girl 0.99
00:03:59.360 that's a virgin on her wedding day right and it's kind of crazy because i was curious i'm like what
00:04:03.840 percent of women actually wait only five percent so that means i'm like there's only five percent of 0.97
00:04:11.120 women that i would say like true like actual traditional right and i was thinking of the women 1.00
00:04:16.640 i know that did that and i was like they got married at like 21 22 like two traditional men in churches
00:04:24.400 yeah that's that's uh it's a very small like subset obviously like i've had hundreds of women here i 1.00
00:04:33.120 think there was one girl that i believe was a virgin you know yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah well the other 1.00
00:04:40.000 ones kind of just lie it's like very obvious right well what do you see what do you see in your experience
00:04:48.240 what do you mean like just in general like for traditional women and men like here in london
00:04:53.200 how do you see it i i don't think they really exist traditional women not in the cities anyway 0.64
00:04:57.680 um i'd say like in small like church subsets i'll see more traditional but it's really interesting
00:05:04.320 because a lot of women still don't have like the traditional mindset like if i said do you do you obey 1.00
00:05:10.080 your husband it's still like oh well maybe and so that's how like i can kind of test where a girl's 0.99
00:05:16.960 mindset is if she believes in like true biblical submission which is like you're supposed to obey
00:05:22.960 your husband yeah you know yeah and the thing is is like my wife is pretty pretty traditional yeah but
00:05:31.760 i don't abuse it right i don't abuse it it's it's it sounds crazy to people when you talk like this
00:05:38.080 yeah but it's it's not it there are many people who have like my wife is free she's a liberal you know
00:05:46.080 she's actually a liberal yeah you know and she's a college graduate and she lives in a wealthy 0.99
00:05:50.960 country yeah germany yeah and her father is a ceo in the auto sector but she's also traditional and 0.96
00:05:56.560 she's happy being a housewife yeah you know it's like this it's it's like a myth of like and so it's
00:06:03.280 like a and it's like a myth almost like we're talking about the stone age we're talking about women
00:06:09.120 that are from like you know this third world country where you know they're not able to talk that's not 1.00
00:06:14.400 the case yeah well we've had like 100 years of propaganda yeah so it's like we've had 100 years
00:06:20.320 of propaganda saying if if you submit to it like one you always have to have a backup plan
00:06:25.760 so like i've even had girls come on and say they want backup houses you imagine like a backup house 1.00
00:06:32.400 like just in case the man goes wrong and starts abusing you one day oh my god like this is like think
00:06:37.760 about how the gut reaction to whenever we talk about a lot of hot button topics it's always the man's
00:06:43.840 an abuser or a gripist like it's always those two things like this is the propaganda in the culture 0.99
00:06:50.480 that you see where they just paint men as either one idiots and the woman's the smart one or two they 1.00
00:06:56.080 paint them out as abusers that will which i honestly think that women abuse men more than men abuse women 0.99
00:07:03.680 yes yeah yes i do i think it just the men are like they don't want to go to the police and say and say
00:07:09.760 yeah this is just anecdotal just my just my opinion right but in my opinion i just think like we have 0.99
00:07:18.400 a hundred years of propaganda saying you can't trust men saying men are idiots saying if you give 0.99
00:07:24.880 all your the authority to men they will abuse it yes yeah even though they really run the whole 1.00
00:07:32.800 infrastructure of society they really do you know society we could not survive without men 1.00
00:07:39.360 yet yet the women will say oh oh the men just will abuse me oh oh submitting to it the crazy thing is
00:07:47.520 they'll submit to a boss but not a husband that's what baffles me that's what blows my mind they'll 0.94
00:07:52.880 listen to their boss but if i say would you listen to your husband it's crazy