This is The Modern Woman Mentality
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about why women have higher standards than men and why that is the main reason why women don t get married and stay single. We also talk about what it means to be a woman and why we should play the role of a woman in a relationship.
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yeah and they did the studies in person because i know a lot of people will say oh well we don't
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find 80 of men is ugly but yeah they did the studies like in person and on dating apps and
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like literally 80 of men ugly i wonder what why that is though is it purely based on looks those
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dads because it's swiping so it's purely based on looks right because i feel like women looks
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when it comes to men women don't really care that much about looks as long as you're well put
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together we're more concerned with height height is like i'm not concerned about but usually men
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don't look taller than me usually men don't look as good in pictures as well so if it's just dating
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apps then you can't really go just off no but it's not just going off of that it's in person too like
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they raided the men in person and they also thought they were ugly that's so interesting
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maybe because women have way more beautiful features there's way more like different
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attributes well women wear makeup so we got boobs and like we got we got things that like sexually
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no but like for like towards a man like yeah but he could do it he could do a topless photo
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i think women just have higher standards like they actually say that women um judge like men
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heart more harsh on appearance than men judge women i think i wouldn't have thought that
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men swipe right around 50 of the time women swipe right five so even if let's just say we tripled it
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like in person she finds three times as many people attractive it's still only 15 i think that's
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contributing to why women are just single and yeah you know rates are going up for why women are not
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really married and single by 25 and 30 because yeah the standards are definitely gone high
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um so uh the same question though like what would you say you bring outside of looks
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um outside of looks um okay obviously like personality um and just morals as well and like ambition worth
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ethic i feel like i'm not really the type to just kind of sit down and just be bummy like i'm always
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trying to like better myself and work harder and stuff like that which i personally feel like
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is a good thing because i want that in a guy too i feel like that's a very attractive thing to like
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be ambitious and then other than that um i can keep i can cook a few bits and bobs nothing too crazy
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um like i said like i can actually drive so i'm not gonna be like oh my guy needs to have a car and i
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can't drive like she can actually have a car um and then i'm very like family oriented i have good morals
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like like i said i feel like personality no i feel like looks is it can only get you so far i feel like
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like your soul like internally you have like you have to check those boxes too so i feel like i check
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those boxes as well okay uh what about you um do you think you're above average and what do you bring
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to an above average man yes i do think i'm above average uh what do i bring to the table um
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um i just feel like yeah looks is like one thing it's the surface right but i take pride in my
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appearance so it's not just like makeup and all of like oh getting botox or lip fillers and stuff
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it's not that i'm talking about facials manicures pedicures like health and well-being going to the
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gym like going to the doctors like these type of things like beyond the surface like i actually really
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take care of myself like moisturizing like i know it sounds like oh i just cream my skin but like i
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take really good pride in that like my skin is really soft so i'm happy about that um that's just
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on the surface but then like in terms of other things like as a woman i just feel like i'm very
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nurturing maybe it's my stuff to do my star sign if you guys believe in that stuff or it's just me my
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just biological makeup but i'm very nurturing um in terms of like my duties in the household like
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cleaning and cooking i will always do for for whatever man that i'm with because it just comes
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naturally to me um in terms of like you're like 100 of the household chores yeah yeah yeah yeah well
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as in usually like well the person with now he does parts as well because he likes to be clean as
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well so that's a good thing but i'm happy to do like 90 of it i've got this theory like i want tradition
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to play like 85 90 in the relationship but that that 15 10 is just modern day society we're not
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in the 1950s anymore things have changed so that 15 10 means that the man can do the dishwasher
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sometimes or the woman can like go and work sometimes as well like it's okay but i feel like
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our roles should um overpower the other percentage of you get what i'm trying to say um but yeah like i i
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definitely feel like i bring a lot to the table not that my man or anyone i date should ask me what i
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bring to the table because i think he should just i don't like that question from a man but
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i know yeah yeah you're a woman yeah of course i'm gonna tell you how but like as a man i wouldn't
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that would be a complete red flag if he's like demanding what seeking really yeah like because
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i just don't yeah no i think men should ask women what they bring i think my women should ask men too
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you might want to not to phrase it you might not phrase it like that i've never asked a man what you
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bring to the what he brings you might not phrase it like that but you want to know what his job is
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you want to know his relationship with his family like they ask it to you they just don't do it that
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directly typically like guys will ask you questions on dates to like figure out stuff about you but do
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you think that's because men we can ask men because what we're asking for is more to see like if they
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provide and stuff and that's more like factual like what i do for a job what i earn whereas a
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woman it's more you need to experience her to see if she you can't you can say i'm nurturing but
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you might not but you need to kind of be around her see how she is how see how she talks but yeah adding to like
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you could ask like um when's the last time you like babysat or watched children like how often
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do you interact with kids that's the way you could tell um yeah is that a good indication yeah i think
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so if you want a mother like it would you don't think like doing the thing that you would have to
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do if you're a mom because nurturing goes beyond kids but yeah okay it's i'm just saying that's one
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one way yeah yeah yeah but there's like ways you can ask the question yeah yeah yeah fair enough that's
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fair that's fair but i think men should ask more questions to be honest because i i think that
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like a lot of guys don't ask the right questions and they get bamboozled later i know but i like
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the level of like mystery that woman carries and i think that's her femininity like you shouldn't i
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don't think you should tell a man a lot especially well if he's your partner of course but when you're
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first dating him i don't think you should tell him a lot because you could tell him the facts of
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course but don't air out your dirty laundry and stuff because you're a woman you're feminine you
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that mystery that mystique is really important i think yeah but you don't okay there's a difference
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between airing it like talking about your ex-boyfriend and answering questions he asks yeah as long as
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the question's appropriate no i think like when guys ask you questions and you don't answer it's like
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not feminine yeah because i think it's like disagreeable the question i guess i think it's like
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disagreeable yeah if you're gonna okay let's let's say it like this if a guy said to me what's your
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body count i'm not gonna answer him because i just think that's inappropriate disrespectful
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actually i don't even want to talk to you anymore so i'm just gonna get up and leave you think it's
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a disrespect absolutely i think i think men should know that to be honest um i don't think i think
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it's disrespectful if it's someone like you don't know i mean not disrespect like it's it's private
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right but it's like if so if he wants to if he's taking you seriously and wants to marry you i think
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it's a valid question i just think it's only valid if you've been with someone that he is associated
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with like friends or family i feel like a guy that has no kind of connection to your guy i don't think
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it actually matters and furthermore you can ask a woman however many times what her body count is
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first of all she's always gonna lie even if she doesn't lie how do you know she's telling the truth
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were you in her body for all the years she's been alive never tell on themselves like guys start to
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count like because you'll be like oh that's what guys tell me that the women will tell on themselves
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later yeah i think most guys like don't ask to be fair but i mean when you look at the numbers as a
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guy i don't know how you wouldn't care especially men have so much to lose in divorce um court today
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it's like if the girl's a virgin on her wedding wedding night she has an 80 chance of a happy marriage
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you know it drops down to if she slept with more than five people what 20 so if you slept with more
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than five people your chance of a happy marriage in 10 years goes down to 20 and if you slept with
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more than 10 it's like you're you're probably going to be divorced like more likely than not within five
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years have they said what the reason is for that i mean i think it's good i think it's going against
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nature like throughout all of history like when have women been as promiscuous as they are today you
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don't undo biology just because we have birth control now so do you think that's down to because she's
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experienced so many partners that she then doesn't feel fulfilled or do you think it's down to the
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man finding out and not respecting her what do you think it's down to well it's the women leaving
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so it's not the men like women usually leave not men um so i think it's the psychology of choice if
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you have 10 meals in front of you and you pick one you're not as happy but if there's one in front of
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you you're happy you're just happy to be eaten you know what i mean and so i think girls start to
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compare so they'll say like the first guy uh he had this second yeah you're not no it's true no i agree
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with that i actually agree with that yeah and then i think like the the more you've been with it's like
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the odds are the guy you married isn't your favorite and so now you're getting married to
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your second choice is that good and i think we can all like think of a girl that maybe had an
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ex that she kept going back to or didn't get over maybe an excellent you that happened to you
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you know um i think that's common because women start running out of time so they run to their
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like second or third choice true that's what i think anyway you know there's no that never happens
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to as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are demonetized on a daily basis on this
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