JustPearlyThings - June 30, 2023


This Is Why Khloe Kardashian Deserves NO SYMPATHY


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Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

220.69215

Word Count

2,030

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1


Summary


Transcript

00:00:00.000 think again a lot of them are predatory true and i agree with that and i also believe that i think
00:00:05.340 being logistic us women sometimes we fantasize over things and want things without actually
00:00:10.160 knowing what comes with it so me i would actually not go for an nba player or want a footballer
00:00:14.380 for the money or whatever it is because i know what comes with that i want to be the only woman
00:00:18.120 in that man's life i want to be appreciated so i'm willing to in a sense like not be with that
00:00:24.160 person or care to be with that person because the morals that i have and the values that i have so
00:00:28.200 so why do we have sympathy for chloe it's like come on she she dated lamar i get it but there's
00:00:35.980 women that are not chloe kardashian or lamar or nba players that go through similar scenarios that
00:00:40.660 still feel the same way she's still human she still was tricked into a situation regardless
00:00:45.140 whether of his you know his past history what he's done before she couldn't see that she couldn't
00:00:50.480 foresee that we can't see tomorrow you know you know i'll give you one guy that can trick you but
00:00:55.120 it's like girl you slept with the whole team like who did you what did you think was gonna happen
00:01:00.040 it's the same thing over and over again i can't support you on that one
00:01:03.040 it's like okay you start dating at what 16 yeah 18 how long are you gonna do the same thing over
00:01:10.540 and over again and expect different results that's that's i think with chloe it's different because
00:01:15.240 she just didn't cheat on her once already after her first baby and she still went to have another
00:01:21.580 baby with him yeah so it's like the only reason why i think that she was not clear in that situation
00:01:27.280 is that she trusted that he changed just because he said that he changed you know what i'm saying
00:01:31.500 yeah so that is she should have just stayed i think i don't know if he was willing to wife i mean like
00:01:38.400 what'd you expect is the grass gonna be greener on the other side now your home's split yeah it's like
00:01:44.020 at least if she stayed like the next guy is probably gonna cheat too she might as well they date
00:01:49.440 athletes they date celebrities but you think she's gonna marry the plumber
00:01:53.500 stop it she might as well staying with the father of her kid sorry god i was just gonna say i think
00:02:00.080 with a lot of these arguments that the whole unfair this unfair that i think the problem is
00:02:04.200 that women do look at that top 10 percent of guy as the majority of men there's a whole what's that
00:02:10.080 stat isn't it like women find like literally 80 percent of men unattractive yeah women like you guys
00:02:15.440 are forgetting the average man like chloe kardash sorry yeah chloe kardashian she could have gone
00:02:20.680 for the guy that works at tesco's or 7-eleven in america but she didn't want that she was to date
00:02:25.320 the top of the top or nba players so or she could have even gone for like the businessman yeah you know
00:02:30.840 what i mean she didn't but she's going for the entertainers like what did you i'm like it's it's
00:02:35.700 because she will constantly be in the news like you have to like you when people so when women
00:02:41.760 in these sort of situations right there's a lot that comes with it and they accept it so she knows
00:02:47.840 she's going to be cheated on okay it's going to bring her in the news every day she's going to be
00:02:51.720 the hot topic um you know there's people there's women who get cheated on and they say oh my god
00:02:58.260 he's cheated on me again but like they're accustomed to that and that's something that they will accept
00:03:03.120 they probably because of media wise they'll be like oh no that's a really bad thing but in the back
00:03:08.260 of their mind they know and sometimes like they say how you get a man is how he's gonna leave you
00:03:13.880 for the next woman like it's just a fact so sometimes when they're like whoa me they know
00:03:19.000 the situation before they come into it and they just accept it but face wise they have to act like
00:03:24.660 it's affecting them and but they have this all planned out i mean you know and i think
00:03:30.780 and i feel like you know women i'd say they definitely
00:03:34.780 they definitely get attracted to the wrong things and i feel like sometimes that's why it goes wrong
00:03:40.060 because how you start is how you mean to go on and i think you know with i'd say with myself if
00:03:46.080 someone's trying to be flashy in the beginning trying to show off you know even drive nice cars
00:03:50.900 speedy and i'm like bro my life like please please drive at 20 miles per hour or just let me take the
00:03:54.940 bus or something jump in my own car but like i have to see you underneath all of that what are you
00:04:00.760 showing me other than that because anyone can buy me red bottoms anyone can buy me a louis bag
00:04:05.580 anyone can take me to one of the best restaurants anyone you've got multiple louis bags i mean no but
00:04:10.340 i'm just saying like anyone
00:04:11.660 anyone can work
00:04:15.100 that's never happened to me i don't know
00:04:16.100 anyone could what i'm saying is anyone can go out there work make money and do that for someone
00:04:20.680 how much is a louis bag i mean it depends on what one you're buying
00:04:23.600 but i don't know that sounds like is that like five thousand
00:04:26.940 depends on the range you know you guys have people buying you thousand dollars back
00:04:32.520 no but i'm saying men will some men will offer to do that because they feel like they need to do that
00:04:36.560 to get you but then they moan about you know women only wanting them for that that's all you're
00:04:40.640 putting out and again women then feed into that and then get upset like you said they're cheating or
00:04:45.260 actually i can't get through to you half time in the day or whatever it is but
00:04:48.660 them things was not what you was focused on from the beginning so how can you expect that now
00:04:52.740 and i feel like that's where it goes wrong because they're chasing the wrong things from a man
00:04:56.000 i'm curious how important is money to you guys in a relationship a man's money i don't think money
00:05:01.640 is necessarily it's like driving ambition is sexy so you can be a gardener but if you want to be the
00:05:05.880 best gardener and that's like the driving ambition so he's making 25 000 pounds a year as a gardener
00:05:12.640 you don't care no not anymore um i've got when you were younger you did quite possibly okay
00:05:18.300 i've got like a deeply personal story to talk about with regard to the birth control thing
00:05:23.180 that i wasn't going to talk about but i will um my ex-husband uh this happened to him what happened
00:05:29.400 to that we've been talking about he met a person after we split up she got herself pregnant he now
00:05:35.160 has a baby that he didn't want and yeah so there's also the ripple effects so i've got two daughters they
00:05:42.040 now have a brother that they don't know about so it's not just about those two people and that baby
00:05:48.280 there are ripple effects so i think my view is that men should have a choice i think the baby
00:05:55.100 should be in the world so they get they can not not the way we can be in the world but because then
00:06:00.900 you can't so you can the baby if she wants to have the baby that's her choice meet the baby then decide
00:06:06.720 if you want to be in the baby's life how has that affected your family um currently not i'm sorry
00:06:13.540 that's probably not the right sound to make um my girls don't know so they're too young
00:06:18.400 oh they don't have any idea no um but obviously it's uh yeah it's got a ripple effect onto everyone
00:06:26.240 um did that happen like while you guys were together literally straight after wow yeah
00:06:33.700 would you ever think about getting back with him no no but not for that reason no no there was
00:06:39.460 reasons why i ended in the first place but yeah i mean that's definitely a uh like a seal the deal
00:06:44.780 kind of situation but yeah so i do think men should get the choice because i think if he had the choice
00:06:50.420 then and what did she do she lied she poked a hole in the condom or she lied i think i don't know
00:06:55.960 the ins and outs that's really bad terminology but um no i think she's told him that she couldn't
00:07:02.820 get pregnant but i mean he was a 40 year old guy he could have used a condom like he's not 16 he
00:07:07.200 doesn't know what's going to happen i think she said it wasn't her time in the month to get pregnant
00:07:10.280 like the three-day thing you're saying from the narrative that i've been told but um he's a 40
00:07:16.100 old guy he should if you definitely don't know you don't want to have a baby and you definitely know
00:07:20.520 you can use protection come out of your question of course you know you know when you say it happened
00:07:26.360 just after like you split do you do you have any feeling that it could have been happening just
00:07:31.800 before that happened quite possibly okay yeah at the time frames are all i'm told what i'm told yeah
00:07:37.720 when you said um drive and ambition um so what what about you guys um is how important is money to
00:07:47.960 you guys i think it's important but i don't know if i'm just saying that because like i'm younger than
00:07:52.000 everyone like me personally like i feel like at this age like i want to go out i want to have fun
00:07:57.680 and stuff like that but like if i'm gonna be in a relationship then i feel like i want to be with
00:08:02.000 somebody who can live that life with me like go on holidays and stuff like that obviously when i'm older
00:08:07.000 you know you want to be focusing on like investments and stuff you want to have a house you want to have a
00:08:13.060 car and stuff you want to be able to support yourself financially but i just feel like when
00:08:18.840 you're my age like i want to go on holiday i want to go party i want to you know buy all the expensive
00:08:25.260 stuff go shopping because i don't have any real responsibilities right now but yeah for me like
00:08:31.500 if i'm going to be dating at this age i want someone who can spend on me do you do you expect him to cover
00:08:36.920 all the bills when you go out not all the bills like what percent you mean give me specifics how
00:08:41.700 how often do you need to be taken out in a week like i don't mind like going out like once a week
00:08:46.760 so once a week yeah if we go out once a week okay you want to take me how expensive is the dinner
00:08:51.420 if the if the dinner's like i don't know how much it costs if the dinner okay let's let's let's just um
00:08:58.360 put it basic yeah chick-fil-a if the no if the dinner is like no i don't mind like i'm not fussy in it
00:09:04.100 but like if the dinner is like we're going out to like an expensive place say we're going to like
00:09:07.800 mayfell or something like he can cover the bill but if it's like his birthday or something that i'll
00:09:11.640 pay