This Is Why Men And Women Can’t Be Friends
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Summary
In this episode, we talk about boundaries and how important it is to have them in place in a relationship. We also talk about cheating and how to deal with it. We have a special guest on the show this week.
Transcript
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She wanted to come around my yard and work or something,
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and she was like, oh, her boyfriend won't allow it
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She's working from, instead of working from home,
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It's about not putting her, so her boyfriend said no.
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It's about her not being in a space or in a situation
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and do her assignment, but by the end of the night,
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yo, my girl's trying to say I was cheating on her.
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And I'm like, yeah, but bro, you were cheating on her.
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You just don't want to put yourself in a situation
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I think that there should be boundaries in place.
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it's not okay for her to be bopping up to your room to work.
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We got in a situation where I knew she had feelings for me.
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Okay, I want to know if you guys, I know you're not single, but when you were single, if you
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guys would respond or not, and what you would think of him.
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I feel like if I saw this Instagram, I would think prop.
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That's the one that the gauge respond to you on.
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I don't think this is, I don't need this type of problems.
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Like the last picture and this picture is fine.
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There was a couple pictures that I'd be like, mm.
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I think you're a good looking guy, but I don't know, because of course you had your, you
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I know you think you're a good looking guy, but I think, yeah, there was a couple of pictures
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It's just, yeah, there's just something I, I don't know.
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But it's just, I mean, I think I have that view in general though, like even if a girl
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is like, and I'm not going to say I haven't done this in the past, but if you're out there
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like bikini, like tits, like tits in the camera, like showing off your body in a certain
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type of way, you want a certain type of attention to like, I can't take you seriously.
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I was like, I just have like, I would think, cause when you see a profile like that, I
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would just assume you get so much attention, which is true.
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Have you guys ever went through a girl's phone?
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Most of the time, you know, guys, we're a bit, we're just, we don't go for the right
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I think once, once you're in that place where it becomes a thing where you need to, then
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and there's difference, like someone going, someone opening up your phone in your sleep
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is different to like someone leaving you with their phone and then you might just, you
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If you're like waking people up or like trying to do all that kind of stuff, I think there's
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I think sometimes there's a curiosity thing where that people have where it's just open
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and you just, you might just, or like, cause there's even times where I'll put it down
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to someone being on their phone next to you and how many times, like let's say someone's
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How many times do you, man don't want to be guys, so we do this.
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But we do that because your women will look at it easy, but you know, guys, you want to
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feel secure, so you're just like, no, I'm not even going to look because you don't
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But sometimes you, you just look and see, cool, what's going on?
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Yeah, I don't, I haven't checked in the same way of like being that one, like person who's
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very worried and had to check through the phone.
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The check-in, check-in quote unquote, is one of those ones, like you said, you're on her
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phone, you're playing fucking Fruit Ninja or whatever, and like a text comes up and you're
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I'm like, I don't, I don't go through anyone's phone.
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But you see the name and you see what the message is and you're like, okay, you just keep
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I think, yeah, if you don't trust your partner, then I think that that is, it's already, life
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is, life is too short for me to go through your phone.
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I think for me, there's a question from the chat.
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They want to know from the girls, if, is cheating, what, which would you prefer?
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Um, you go through his phone and you find him, he has naked pictures from another girl
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or he was buying her things, but there was, but there is nothing physical.
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No, you gotta, you gotta, that's not the question.
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I think, I think, I think naked pictures is definitely worse.
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So if he bought her a bunch of clothes or something, that wouldn't be as bad as naked pictures.
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No, I have to disagree because, like, let's be real.
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Some of the stuff that girls post on Instagram, does it really make a difference if you're
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sending nudes privately on Snapchat or if you're just posting that on Instagram?
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Like, you're gonna have people doing what they do.
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If I found out a dude was buying some random Instagram girl, a bunch of shit.
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Like, the nudes, it's like, okay, a man's a man, a man has a penis, like, he's gonna do
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But it's like, the buying things, it's like, that's the effort.
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Versus looks up corn online, is it that big of a.
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Because it's all just, like, I mean, it's just flesh.
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But, like, the act of buying someone a gift takes thought and effort.
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Like, a guy getting nudes, he's getting that for one thing.
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The intentions of why he's buying her something as well.
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Like, he's probably buying her something so that he can sleep with her eventually.
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You know the detectives in the movie, they say, yeah.
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Would you guys break up if zero contact happened?
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Because, you know what's funny when you ask that first question?
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Because we both know if he's buying someone else a gift, that is worse.
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That means he's really having a conversation with this girl.
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He's looking to have a conversation with this girl.
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And he's talking to her enough that he knows her well enough to think that he can buy her things and know what she likes.
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That means he's been talking to her for a while.
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Which means he's down to book a ticket if she drops to the address.
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No, that's the difference between a fling and a fair.
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A fair is, you know, you follow the money, you'll find the affair.
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Fling is any news you're going to find or whatever.
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Because you can, if he's a cheater, he can be getting news from 11 people whenever.
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If he's like a serial cheater, then he's getting news from everyone.
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But if he's sending, if he's got to a point of messaging this person to a point where he's sending a gift on a somewhat regular basis.
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