JustPearlyThings - May 26, 2023


This Is Why Men Are Leaving The Church


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Length

8 minutes

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212.47632

Word count

1,795

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

11

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Hate speech

6

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In this episode, the brother and sister duo of the and are joined by their good friend Rollo. They discuss the state of marriage in the church and the future of women in the modern era.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 and so you feel that now can you ask can you ask do you know and you're 26 years old right wow
00:00:08.760 jeez i don't want to tell you what i was doing at 26 but i was a male whore at 26 i'll be honest 0.78
00:00:15.560 you know that's my body count no but do you have you do you know tim do you know a handful of
00:00:25.280 around you and let's say the 40 and under generation that have been married for 15 plus years
00:00:30.580 do you know anyone yeah you do i do okay and are these people that you grew up with or these people
00:00:35.300 where these what do these people do what's their lifestyle wait are you saying you said 40 and
00:00:38.860 under 40 and under so you can't talk about your parents you can't talk about 60 70 because that's 0.95
00:00:43.720 a different generation right i was on the cusp me and rollo and kevin were on the cusp of of seeing
00:00:49.500 it dwindle away right i know see see no i don't that's so true you said what 15 plus years yeah
00:00:59.460 no yeah you won't see it no no there's too many distractions in my opinion i know yeah because i
00:01:05.440 was thinking everyone i know is over 40 wow that's so true and so we we know and you've you've said this
00:01:13.000 stat by 2030 what is it 50 of women will be single and childless yeah isn't that scary yeah it's super
00:01:20.120 scary and then they're going to be on tiktok when they're my age talking about i'm single and then
00:01:24.560 the next tiktok nobody wants to date me and they're crying and they're at so we we talk about this in
00:01:29.760 the lobby about finding jesus right okay let's talk about that what is it with women when they when 1.00
00:01:38.620 they i don't want to say hit the wall but they hit they get to 30 and they get 35 and then they
00:01:45.200 between 35 and 45 or 40 go find jesus yeah and then what happens then talk about that because you see
00:01:52.560 these responses oh god i am but jesus i'd like to say i'm catholic i know i know you guys are talking
00:01:58.980 about catholic school earlier we're talking about catholic girls yeah yeah i am i am catholic so i i i don't
00:02:05.600 want it to come off like i think religion's a bad thing or like any of that because a lot of times
00:02:10.380 people misconstrue what i'm saying but i just think there's a lot of like feminism has infiltrated the 1.00
00:02:15.620 church and they constantly pander to women and tell us what we want to hear and they basically tell us
00:02:20.340 that you can be like 30 31 32 33 with a child and do this born again virgin type stuff and the girls buy 0.98
00:02:28.360 it they buy it and they buy it they think there's a man at the end of it that's equally yoked no man
00:02:33.340 that's as like super religious is trying to wife up a 32 year old with a kid i'm sorry but you think
00:02:39.040 that the men that buy into that the the simps at the church buy into that will do that because they
00:02:44.900 because they're the ones that are part of that you know born again virgin right yeah so they accept
00:02:49.020 that but outside of the church you're like no i'm good well i think that's why you see like men are
00:02:53.520 leaving the church really if you look at the under 40 stats i don't know what they are off the top of
00:03:00.080 my head but men are leaving the church go into go into a church look at the people under like 38
00:03:05.600 roughly they're mostly women and i don't want to say something because i was thinking about this on
00:03:09.440 the way here um you know i'm a christian right but i'm not a bible thumper right yeah and when people say
00:03:14.800 oh you guys are hypocrites no i'm a hypocrite christianity is not a hypocrite catholicism is a 0.93
00:03:20.680 part of christianity that's not a hypocrite or islam or whatever religion but it's the person
00:03:24.860 right because i sin every day as a man not not sexually i'm just talking like i speed that's a
00:03:29.560 sin or i may look at a woman oh she's hot right i check out a woman she's hot you know and i had 1.00
00:03:34.660 this lady say oh why do you look at women or or or you know like women's pages i said well it's okay 0.99
00:03:41.480 for somebody to like my girlfriend's instagram but then i can't like somebody's you see what i mean
00:03:45.420 it's a it's a it's a hypocritical move well and they all talk about like the men always preach
00:03:51.440 about like issues from the women's point of view like they never and you'll once you see this 0.99
00:03:57.380 oh god i watched rollo's stream on church like a couple years ago and i titled it rollo ruined church
00:04:02.840 for me because because like all of the freaking um churches they always preach about problems from 0.61
00:04:10.040 the woman's point of view so for example they'll have um i'm gonna say corn addiction groups oh yeah
00:04:14.960 yeah but they never have social media addiction groups for the women they never talk about i've never
00:04:19.580 heard a preacher talk about that they'll talk about men cannot cheat or step out but they don't
00:04:24.260 talk about the women that stop sleeping with their husbands after they get the two kids they don't 0.99
00:04:28.400 talk about that's a sin right you're supposed to and the other thing too i don't know how we got down
00:04:33.340 this road but but it's funny and i don't and i don't know these individuals yeah i don't know matt
00:04:38.660 walsh i don't know ben shapiro yeah but you know patrick pitt david or whatever they're more on the
00:04:42.860 conservative side right you have the red pill conservative two different things i saw somebody talk about
00:04:47.240 that on on the whatever podcast right what's red pill conservative they're they're separate they're
00:04:51.960 separate right i'm kind of in the middle i kind of got but it's funny because a lot of these guys have
00:04:59.520 slept with their wife before they were married which is a sin right so in essence i think when people say
00:05:06.300 you know i i use you know like i said i i love jesus but i'm not a bible thumper right i'm not going
00:05:12.840 after people with the bible i'm not perfect but i i use it as a foundation to keep me grounded
00:05:17.560 right because i'm as a man i'm like hey i'm i'm ready to go well that's why i need something to ground
00:05:23.440 me now i'm not perfect you know i play poker that's gambling right that's a sin i'll check out
00:05:28.520 a hot chick wow she's hot you see the ass that's a sin but i'm not like the bible thumper guy that's 1.00
00:05:34.260 just how i was raised a catholic and i just came in non uh you know just a four square christian
00:05:40.980 you know whatever you know non-denominational type you know go ahead well i think it's more
00:05:45.500 honest because a lot of times i think what turns people off of christianity is like this holier
00:05:49.920 than thou attitude you know what i mean yeah and so like a lot of times like i i was i was beefing
00:05:55.140 with the christians recently and a blessing says i should stay away from that i'm sorry i can't do it
00:06:00.400 but i'm sorry was i i didn't know i'm not supposed to cover that no no no we're not showing her
00:06:05.080 no it's okay i like i like talking about this but before we go by the way i'm going to give a
00:06:10.160 shout out we're not gonna put them on camera uh blessings is her producer right producer and he's
00:06:15.260 a wizard a genius so if you ever need questions on any of this stuff like go watch uh just pearly
00:06:21.960 things podcast the show's amazing it's produced properly it's it's one of the best shows out
00:06:27.600 there so go ahead yeah i don't remember what i was talking about i was going in on the holder than
00:06:31.480 now oh oh i was beefing with the christians on twitter because i said okay i said if a guy steps
00:06:38.040 out you should try to work it out because i said that you're putting your kid at every statistical
00:06:42.880 disadvantage they're more likely to go to prison they're more likely to commit suicide they're more
00:06:48.180 likely to run away from home like in and they're more likely to be sexually abused by whoever the
00:06:52.740 woman dates next so it's like okay you're gonna put your kid at every statistical advantage because 1.00
00:06:57.460 he he screwed some stripper in vegas it's like maybe we could try to work it out and i started
00:07:02.680 looking into like the cheating data and um it was like 15 percent of only like three percent of the
00:07:10.020 time um it was like the guy's a serial cheater the majority of the time it's a one-time thing now let's
00:07:16.060 just say they're big liars and we double it that's still only six percent of the time it seems like it
00:07:20.660 could be worked out but all the preachers were just like oh no you can divorce for it and i'm like
00:07:26.120 we're supposed to be on the same team we're supposed to be on the same yeah like keep the family together
00:07:32.520 like i thought that but you know maybe and there's different forms of cheating right right like these
00:07:37.280 these women will have these these instagram now my my girlfriend's instagram she's she's in fitness 1.00
00:07:41.720 she competes so there's some pictures on there but she's she's not she doesn't have an only fan she's
00:07:46.200 not showing you know right but she's an athlete right so she's like well do you want i said no i'm not 0.99
00:07:51.980 even on her instagram i don't want to be because that's her brand right i ruin her brand she put me
00:07:56.540 on her instagram she lost like you know 2 500 followers immediately right and vice versa i don't
00:08:02.720 want women feminists going after her just like your ex right people went after him right so i don't want 1.00
00:08:08.780 to get into that but uh as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are demonetized on a
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