This Is Why Men Can't File For Divorce
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Summary
In this episode we discuss cheating in relationships, why women cheat, why men cheat and why they stay with cheating cheaters. We also discuss why women like cheating and why men tend to stay with cheaters as well.
Transcript
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this is my point yeah so my point actually so you're kind of derailing the combo so not not
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even talking about this the reason i think water women like to be cheated on is because they catch
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him cheating they never leave and i've had girl after girl after girl after girl and sometimes
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they do but whenever i ask when did you leave it's never when they catch him cheating it's like when
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he stops it's like it's like it's like no no it's like they cheat sheets they catch him and six
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months later then you leave why you could have you could have left when he was cheating so so
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in my head it's like when he's cheating when she has actual evidence of cheating she stays when she
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has no evidence of him cheating she leaves so modern women like to be cheated on that's my point
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modern men i've never heard men say oh i was cheated on and i stayed because they don't admit it i'm a
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therapist i work with men who just stay with cheating women you don't work and be around that
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but if you if you are around it you see men all the time saying i got with this guy i know she was a bit
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loose she had her pictures on instagram i know she slept with one of the guys i knew but i still
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loved it i got married you're selecting cheaters as well why why did they stay that's what i want to
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know why did they stay the whole point the whole point is like when he's cheating she's staying when
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he stops she leaves the men don't men don't typically leave relationships women leave 90 of
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the time if they're college educated they're not likely to leave even if a woman's cheating in
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marriages they're more likely to stay in marriages where women cheat because they're cucked they're
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cucked yeah yeah let me let me let me let me take let me take half of your assets up to 70 in the uk
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and your kids i mean it's not like they want to stay the government's the government's making them
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stay they have to stay they have no choice yeah but they they pick cheaters as well but you agree
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with that right yeah i don't think you have a choice especially when you've got kids because then
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you lose kids with women when we leave we don't lose our kids you lose your kids but i do think
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that men pick cheaters as well because you'll see the girls who've got clear red flags that i'm
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gonna cheat her body's out on instagram she's lots of guys know her whatever it is they're the girls
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that get the most attention and if you didn't want a cheating woman you wouldn't she wouldn't
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even come on your radar yeah but where does you said where does relationship starts through sex you
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said that earlier in your podcast they start through sex but who wish women make it to the final
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rounds not the unfaithful ones you'd be not not for the men with the options i agree they're a
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desperate there's a simp epidemic yes there is a simp epidemic yeah but the men the men that have
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the choice i don't i don't think they pick cheaters men that have the choice i did but alpha men like i
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was saying in the alpha men don't pick cheaters not at all but the majority of men aren't alpha and they
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choose who's beautiful you're saying she is like it's a blood type someone someone can be in a situation
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and they just get lost in the sauce and they fuck up or they choose to go and cheat it's not it's not like a
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oh this person is a cheater that person is not there are definite signs but someone has to cheat
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first once at least do you get me so before they cheated they was i mean the whole the whole point
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is that when he's cheating she stays when he's not cheating she goes like i don't i don't see the same
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thing for men where when she's cheating he stays when she's not cheating he goes i don't feel like
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men are quicker to leave but yeah yeah yeah but i do but it doesn't add up statistically if you're
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saying women file for divorce more and women cheat more that tells us that women are being
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selected more and they're the ones choosing to leave so men aren't leaving cheaters and they're
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choosing them that doesn't add up statistically say that again so if women are more likely to divorce a
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man and women are more likely to cheat that shows us that men are more likely to stay with cheaters
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women are the ones exiting there's a simp epidemic that's absolutely true i think also adding up i think also
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maybe the the women aren't cheating first maybe because i think you know the woman will stay with
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the man that's cheated for a little while and then she'll find you know the jujitsu guy or the best
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friend or the cassie and diddy kind of situation yeah that's true and then that that betrayal is so
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much that he just you know i mean yeah maybe they're not cheating first they're not cheating but they're
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cheating more i think they're more to cheat in general yeah no i i think that it's like the women
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i mean i think it's mostly like the girls settle with the like the beta guy or the guy she didn't
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really i mean i want to say settle it's really her level but she settles with the guy she doesn't want
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and then cheats with the guy she does i can't i can't speak on that do you think i i don't i wouldn't
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be able to i've never been with a pizza i don't know what i'd be honest i don't cheat i don't know
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what that vibe what it is um so i can't really speak on it but i do think you know when a girl's
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able to cheat just like when you know with a man i disagree you know i swear to god there's this oh my
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god i've told the story on my on my podcast before i don't think you'd know there's a girl on my um my
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i need to be careful sometimes i'll be finding these people there's a girl on i was on three
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different teams so there's a girl on a team i was on in college yeah and literally she was a girl
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next door you would never know she seemed like the sweetest chick and i swear to god she had a
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a guy she dated her freshman year of college dated him for a month he cheated he was like all around
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town whatever her senior year um she was with a guy that bought her bought her house she moved in
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and i was i was yeah yeah i've told it before and i was at a party and literally like her and her body
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wasn't on instagram she was a school teacher good with kids sweet nice like and literally
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she was in the bathroom with the guy from freshman year at the party her boyfriend came to
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and that was kind of a red pill moment for me where i was like god damn you would never know
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yeah and i also maybe because i live in dubai and i see a lot where these men are setting the
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women up they're getting them nannies getting them drivers and they're using that spare time
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and his money to go on dates with their boyfriend and that's where i think the cheating on the
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women's side is so much worse because she's doing it on his clock and on his money i've seen it
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firsthand that it's like with his car they're going out to that's that's simping though yeah
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like but they're okay with it because they they want to cheat as well so there's like as long as
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there's a lot of there's a lot of open marriages in hollywood and stuff so do you think it's just
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a way forward sadly what both people cheating open marriages of course i think it's just it's
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different it's different it's not i think everyone says with cheating and and and stuff like this in
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general it's just like everything's the same the men can cheat so therefore women can cheat and women
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men cheat the same way and we just cheat as much it's all nonsense and it's completely different
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sure both sexes cheat both genders cheat whatever but the men are doing it for a different reason
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to the women are and the women are doing it from different ways i mean i think as a woman if you're
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if you have an instagram that's open and you got like like sexual pictures i think that's cheating
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yeah yeah and they pick that girl i think that's worse i don't really see that i'm caribbean and
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obviously like once you obviously we have our carnival yeah so our costumes as you lot know they are
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very revealing so me personally like i had this conversation my guys many many years in a row
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that my ex obviously she was my girl type but my ex she would dress up in the most when it comes
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to carnival and all you really see is is a little little bra that covers the nipple because something
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that covers the tonton and big old feathers now me personally now her instagram's all of that
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i don't mind any of that to me i don't see that as being cheating because i'm okay with it it's only
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cheating if you as your spouse is not okay with it and you're still doing it against the whole that's
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you don't think that's an invitation you don't think that's an invitation was she advertising
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she could advertise to the bob ain't the world touching it so can she make only fans yeah we
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we making only fans together i'm i'm down for that your definition is because the definition of
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cheating is there has to be some level of sexual intimacy and there has to be some level of secrecy
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if there's no secrecy then it's not cheating so i think he's right yeah so if you're in an open
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relationship it's not cheating that wasn't no relationship i just i just i think accepting
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i mean look if if you're in if you're in a relationship and you know you're with a guy
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that says it's okay you know it's kind of the same thing as like being with a woman or like with a guy
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that's like a woman that says it's okay to sleep with other girls like but i just think attention is
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currency to women and you're like accepting attention from other men like i just i wouldn't
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that's disrespectful that notion is disrespectful no because it's how you receive it it's how they
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receive it it's like it's only a matter of time before somebody that is giving the attention is
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someone that she wants to reciprocate the attention to it's only a matter of time but that's where
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trust is supposed to come into it but there's trust and then there's you're supposed to put borders
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around and boundaries around to limit the environment like i said i'm caribbean so this culturally
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that's normal for man so we act about if i can go to a club and wine and chuck up on 15 20
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gal knowing that yeah i'm not taking no instagram no numbers no nothing and i'm going home to my
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gal and i'm still cutting up in bed listen when when the snipers are out and they're looking for
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women that are in relationships so you think ah cool yeah this girl will probably chew on the man
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what do you guys think are the are the telling signals and one of them is like revealing themselves
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in a certain kind of way because i look at the women that are happy in their relationships and they
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don't do that they don't even post exactly yeah that's disrespect why would you still post revealing