JustPearlyThings - This Is Why Men Can't File For Divorce

00:00:00.000 this is my point yeah so my point actually so you're kind of derailing the combo so not not

00:00:04.240 even talking about this the reason i think water women like to be cheated on is because they catch 1.00

00:00:07.520 him cheating they never leave and i've had girl after girl after girl after girl and sometimes

00:00:11.760 they do but whenever i ask when did you leave it's never when they catch him cheating it's like when

00:00:16.000 he stops it's like it's like it's like no no it's like they cheat sheets they catch him and six

00:00:22.400 months later then you leave why you could have you could have left when he was cheating so so

00:00:28.240 in my head it's like when he's cheating when she has actual evidence of cheating she stays when she

00:00:32.720 has no evidence of him cheating she leaves so modern women like to be cheated on that's my point 1.00

00:00:38.240 modern men i've never heard men say oh i was cheated on and i stayed because they don't admit it i'm a

00:00:44.480 therapist i work with men who just stay with cheating women you don't work and be around that

00:00:49.280 but if you if you are around it you see men all the time saying i got with this guy i know she was a bit

00:00:54.240 loose she had her pictures on instagram i know she slept with one of the guys i knew but i still 1.00

00:00:58.320 loved it i got married you're selecting cheaters as well why why did they stay that's what i want to

00:01:04.000 know why did they stay the whole point the whole point is like when he's cheating she's staying when 0.88

00:01:09.520 he stops she leaves the men don't men don't typically leave relationships women leave 90 of

00:01:13.840 the time if they're college educated they're not likely to leave even if a woman's cheating in 0.98

00:01:17.680 marriages they're more likely to stay in marriages where women cheat because they're cucked they're 1.00

00:01:23.840 cucked yeah yeah let me let me let me let me take let me take half of your assets up to 70 in the uk 0.73

00:01:29.440 and your kids i mean it's not like they want to stay the government's the government's making them

00:01:33.600 stay they have to stay they have no choice yeah but they they pick cheaters as well but you agree

00:01:38.400 with that right yeah i don't think you have a choice especially when you've got kids because then

00:01:41.760 you lose kids with women when we leave we don't lose our kids you lose your kids but i do think 0.99

00:01:46.880 that men pick cheaters as well because you'll see the girls who've got clear red flags that i'm 1.00

00:01:51.200 gonna cheat her body's out on instagram she's lots of guys know her whatever it is they're the girls 0.95

00:01:55.520 that get the most attention and if you didn't want a cheating woman you wouldn't she wouldn't 1.00

00:01:59.040 even come on your radar yeah but where does you said where does relationship starts through sex you

00:02:04.560 said that earlier in your podcast they start through sex but who wish women make it to the final 1.00

00:02:10.080 rounds not the unfaithful ones you'd be not not for the men with the options i agree they're a

00:02:14.560 desperate there's a simp epidemic yes there is a simp epidemic yeah but the men the men that have

00:02:19.840 the choice i don't i don't think they pick cheaters men that have the choice i did but alpha men like i

00:02:25.120 was saying in the alpha men don't pick cheaters not at all but the majority of men aren't alpha and they

00:02:30.240 choose who's beautiful you're saying she is like it's a blood type someone someone can be in a situation

00:02:35.920 and they just get lost in the sauce and they fuck up or they choose to go and cheat it's not it's not like a 0.66

00:02:43.280 oh this person is a cheater that person is not there are definite signs but someone has to cheat 0.97

00:02:49.520 first once at least do you get me so before they cheated they was i mean the whole the whole point

00:02:54.000 is that when he's cheating she stays when he's not cheating she goes like i don't i don't see the same

00:02:58.880 thing for men where when she's cheating he stays when she's not cheating he goes i don't feel like

00:03:04.320 men are quicker to leave but yeah yeah yeah but i do but it doesn't add up statistically if you're

00:03:09.840 saying women file for divorce more and women cheat more that tells us that women are being 1.00

00:03:14.400 selected more and they're the ones choosing to leave so men aren't leaving cheaters and they're

00:03:18.160 choosing them that doesn't add up statistically say that again so if women are more likely to divorce a 1.00

00:03:23.040 man and women are more likely to cheat that shows us that men are more likely to stay with cheaters

00:03:28.240 women are the ones exiting there's a simp epidemic that's absolutely true i think also adding up i think also 1.00

00:03:34.480 maybe the the women aren't cheating first maybe because i think you know the woman will stay with 1.00

00:03:40.000 the man that's cheated for a little while and then she'll find you know the jujitsu guy or the best

00:03:46.320 friend or the cassie and diddy kind of situation yeah that's true and then that that betrayal is so

00:03:51.200 much that he just you know i mean yeah maybe they're not cheating first they're not cheating but they're

00:03:54.720 cheating more i think they're more to cheat in general yeah no i i think that it's like the women 1.00

00:03:59.600 i mean i think it's mostly like the girls settle with the like the beta guy or the guy she didn't

00:04:05.200 really i mean i want to say settle it's really her level but she settles with the guy she doesn't want

00:04:08.720 and then cheats with the guy she does i can't i can't speak on that do you think i i don't i wouldn't

00:04:17.680 be able to i've never been with a pizza i don't know what i'd be honest i don't cheat i don't know

00:04:26.480 what that vibe what it is um so i can't really speak on it but i do think you know when a girl's

00:04:32.640 able to cheat just like when you know with a man i disagree you know i swear to god there's this oh my

00:04:37.600 god i've told the story on my on my podcast before i don't think you'd know there's a girl on my um my

00:04:42.160 i need to be careful sometimes i'll be finding these people there's a girl on i was on three

00:04:47.920 different teams so there's a girl on a team i was on in college yeah and literally she was a girl

00:04:51.600 next door you would never know she seemed like the sweetest chick and i swear to god she had a 1.00

00:04:56.000 a guy she dated her freshman year of college dated him for a month he cheated he was like all around

00:05:00.400 town whatever her senior year um she was with a guy that bought her bought her house she moved in 0.99

00:05:05.920 and i was i was yeah yeah i've told it before and i was at a party and literally like her and her body 0.91

00:05:11.680 wasn't on instagram she was a school teacher good with kids sweet nice like and literally 1.00

00:05:17.120 she was in the bathroom with the guy from freshman year at the party her boyfriend came to

00:05:22.480 and and he bought her house he bought her 0.93

00:05:29.360 and that was kind of a red pill moment for me where i was like god damn you would never know

00:05:32.960 yeah and i also maybe because i live in dubai and i see a lot where these men are setting the

00:05:37.040 women up they're getting them nannies getting them drivers and they're using that spare time 1.00

00:05:40.960 and his money to go on dates with their boyfriend and that's where i think the cheating on the 0.92

00:05:45.040 women's side is so much worse because she's doing it on his clock and on his money i've seen it 1.00

00:05:49.520 firsthand that it's like with his car they're going out to that's that's simping though yeah

00:05:54.960 like but they're okay with it because they they want to cheat as well so there's like as long as

00:05:59.440 there's a lot of there's a lot of open marriages in hollywood and stuff so do you think it's just

00:06:04.000 a way forward sadly what both people cheating open marriages of course i think it's just it's

00:06:10.960 different it's different it's not i think everyone says with cheating and and and stuff like this in

00:06:15.280 general it's just like everything's the same the men can cheat so therefore women can cheat and women 0.75

00:06:20.000 men cheat the same way and we just cheat as much it's all nonsense and it's completely different

00:06:24.160 sure both sexes cheat both genders cheat whatever but the men are doing it for a different reason 0.99

00:06:29.040 to the women are and the women are doing it from different ways i mean i think as a woman if you're 0.99

00:06:32.560 if you have an instagram that's open and you got like like sexual pictures i think that's cheating

00:06:37.760 yeah yeah and they pick that girl i think that's worse i don't really see that i'm caribbean and

00:06:46.160 obviously like once you obviously we have our carnival yeah so our costumes as you lot know they are

00:06:50.480 very revealing so me personally like i had this conversation my guys many many years in a row

00:06:54.560 that my ex obviously she was my girl type but my ex she would dress up in the most when it comes 1.00

00:06:59.360 to carnival and all you really see is is a little little bra that covers the nipple because something

00:07:03.760 that covers the tonton and big old feathers now me personally now her instagram's all of that

00:07:08.480 i don't mind any of that to me i don't see that as being cheating because i'm okay with it it's only

00:07:13.280 cheating if you as your spouse is not okay with it and you're still doing it against the whole that's

00:07:18.000 you don't think that's an invitation you don't think that's an invitation was she advertising

00:07:22.400 she could advertise to the bob ain't the world touching it so can she make only fans yeah we

00:07:27.360 we making only fans together i'm i'm down for that your definition is because the definition of

00:07:32.560 cheating is there has to be some level of sexual intimacy and there has to be some level of secrecy

00:07:37.440 if there's no secrecy then it's not cheating so i think he's right yeah so if you're in an open

00:07:42.240 relationship it's not cheating that wasn't no relationship i just i just i think accepting

00:07:49.680 i mean look if if you're in if you're in a relationship and you know you're with a guy

00:07:54.880 that says it's okay you know it's kind of the same thing as like being with a woman or like with a guy

00:08:00.000 that's like a woman that says it's okay to sleep with other girls like but i just think attention is 1.00

00:08:04.080 currency to women and you're like accepting attention from other men like i just i wouldn't 1.00

00:08:07.600 that's disrespectful that notion is disrespectful no because it's how you receive it it's how they

00:08:12.960 receive it it's like it's only a matter of time before somebody that is giving the attention is

00:08:17.840 someone that she wants to reciprocate the attention to it's only a matter of time but that's where

00:08:21.600 trust is supposed to come into it but there's trust and then there's you're supposed to put borders

00:08:25.840 around and boundaries around to limit the environment like i said i'm caribbean so this culturally

00:08:30.480 that's normal for man so we act about if i can go to a club and wine and chuck up on 15 20

00:08:35.280 gal knowing that yeah i'm not taking no instagram no numbers no nothing and i'm going home to my

00:08:38.880 gal and i'm still cutting up in bed listen when when the snipers are out and they're looking for

00:08:44.400 women that are in relationships so you think ah cool yeah this girl will probably chew on the man 1.00

00:08:47.440 what do you guys think are the are the telling signals and one of them is like revealing themselves

00:08:52.800 in a certain kind of way because i look at the women that are happy in their relationships and they

00:08:57.200 don't do that they don't even post exactly yeah that's disrespect why would you still post revealing

00:09:00.960 pictures if you're already in a

JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023

This Is Why Men Can't File For Divorce

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