This Is Why Men Don't Date After Divorce
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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the issue of single fathers and single mothers and how to deal with it, as well as what single fathers do and don't do, and what single mothers do, in the modern era.
Transcript
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of so for the single fathers what actually stops the guy from getting a replacement woman
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what stops him what stops him getting a replacement woman
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i mean maybe he doesn't like the modern women today a lack of wives
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um common law marriage i mean the risks that come with marriage not wanting to bring a bunch of
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women in and out of the home knowing they might leave and like knowing that's hard on a child
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yeah but and even if he just finds a girlfriend to just facilitate the mother being there so he
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doesn't have to be a full-on feminine single dad he might not want to be introducing women to his
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child because it's not easy he might think oh if i introduce this woman how long is she going to be
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there for i mean women i mean women leave 70 to 80 percent 80 percent of the time in divorce like in
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marriages and so if it's a girlfriend how long is she really going to be there
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i'm sure he can find a solution for that i mean i i think that's a feminine point of view because
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for us it's like there's always someone yeah but for men it's not always i mean one in three men are
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sexless they've been had sex in the past year or they're virgins under 30 and so it's not as simple
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as oh just find someone i beg to differ it's very very very easy to actually find just a normal genuine
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female that can actually facilitate her needs because we have to disagree i think it's extremely
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difficult to find anybody in the world today like yeah when you say like there's men that have gone
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without being in a relationship for years i'm i'm one of those people like i've gone years without
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seeing anyone because i'm not foreseeing that particular with what i want in my life and then
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in terms of like having someone around my child i don't believe i could even consider anyone being
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around my child worthy enough to actually i don't want anybody around my child because i know my
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partner would be upset about the fact that there's another man around his child so i don't think that
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i find that very disrespectful unless your man has specifically said i'm happy with that so i couldn't
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disrespect his principles there but if you really think about it from the beginning when you're actually
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dating someone there's red flags and you've got green flags and it's very easy to actually suss out the
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red flags that are there very easy people reveal themselves in many different ways and like i said
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we have the feminists out there that's revealing that they want to be a feminist so it's now easy
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for men to point out okay this is what the feminists display as i now know what i do not want it's
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it's very easy i think women are very smart i can say not just women i say men like once you become
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entangled in relationships like children marriage you that or living with somebody i think that's when you
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really get to know someone like people change like people are pretending to be somebody whether it's
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red or green flags whatever you want to say but once you generally get to know someone things change
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people change one in four marriages are sexless and it's usually on the part of the women
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how is a guy going to predict that one in four it's very easy for me well no one's a mastermind no one
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can actually hide their true self throughout the whole time that's based to the decision that's up to
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some people get married and they'll buy a house together and like then the woman or all man will
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want all of the house like they will lose everything and have to start all over again then you've got
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broken men and women in society who are truly broken plus the children and everything i know someone that
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got divorced and his ex-wife killed his dog how would he predict that from the beginning she would have
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to spend some time i don't think that people like you're saying from the beginning but you can meet
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someone in the beginning and they're amazing and that was their true self and then they've gone
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through a life experience whilst being with you and they change people change people change
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monthly daily yearly we're better liars men or women women women definitely women women definitely
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women men men are not very good liars i don't think i think you can always see it in the eyes
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i think women maybe i'm not too sure i'm not too sure women women act better but i don't know
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definitely women i think we're better at hiding things definitely
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um but seeing someone and living with them is two different things yeah you never know someone
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until you live with them and how much are you going to change in 40 50 years a lot yeah
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like if you really want a long marriage i mean people change at times yeah um i agree with you
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some guys do ignore red flags but i i just think when it's their kid that's at risk it's like a lot
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of guys just would rather avoid that situation altogether um i think that's the most likely
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person that is to abuse your child like sexually it's a step parent wow yeah that's actually crazy
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wow um okay i'm gonna read super chats for a second um see dumbledorf men don't meet their real
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wife until they meet her in divorce court um sick lid great conversation pearl can you get jessica x on
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your show um yeah i totally would have her on the show see dumbledorf as a single father of three girls
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it is effectively impossible to find out a woman who i could trust to be around them and i need to be
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more masculine in the role not less cowboy crypto she's right there are certain feminine roles that
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i have stepped into my ex refuses to put our daughter in a dress so i make sure to do so uh
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tony imagine managing people actively breaking laws made for equality for men and women and doing the
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same work for 60 years ago minimum in the western world g money as someone who has worked in construction
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in construction all my life no general labor will make no general labor will make as much as a
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journeyman wilson she tried true facts i'm a 41 year old man who raised four kids from eight to 18
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stepfather stepfather hood is stupid my decisions made more more sense but it would but it went her way
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because i worked was at work longer i fought more when i came home and i had to str i don't know what
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that stands for um bone man um thank you pearl for showing neutrality and acknowledging both sides of
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gender dynamics which is an aspect of physical physics necessary to being at harmony at a societal
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scale it all begins with the nuclear family and fatherless households with women who have daddy issues
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the blonde woman is truly refreshing to hear from she is so grounded and humble and dare i say beautiful
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she is so humbled that she does not believe she's in the top 20 percent she is easily wd-40 you want
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to put your instagram you might have a fan you got id no oh no she doesn't okay um wd-40 um whichever
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one said that she would go to war is lying our countries are already fighting war in ukraine without
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officially telling us pack your bags and head out then uh bone man women want equal rights but refuse to
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be drafted and or participate as equal under the law in context to what the substantial rights are for
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men and woman um das token e30 wear a flannel cutting your hair and talking deeper doesn't make you a
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xy in the slightest xx a woman can never be men um see dumbledorf um for the blonde admitting you're not
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20 puts you in the top 20 for men keep that attitude stay feminine keep your body count under 500
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and you'll get a good man zero follow throughout history women have always worked in some source
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in some form the fairy tale of women staying at home was always the rich only in recent times was
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the stay-at-home mom a thing for the masses elite gamer 876 why do modern women think being submissive
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to their boss is better than to her man my wife is the ceo of our family i am in the top 20 she wins
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luke clark a blonde girl you're doing great keep it up see dumbledorf women look for romance because
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it's foreign to them men feel romantic love women only feel lust or conditional love it's just
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biology and brifault's law das token women is the new man role how does she have to steer steer steel
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toe shoes does she work after work does she sleep in bed during the weekends women can never be men
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90 frito pie first woman to be honest about how they love um david rivas i make six figures a year
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and the lady on the far right with the child is going to be alone he has to make more and take her
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take care of her and the child a mr unmerciful a man can't be the head of the household if his
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woman makes more than him sorry you pay the cost to be the boss brandon colon um you can count on
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pearl to ask the question some most people don't want to answer honestly she keeps she does her best
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to keep them honest you rock pearl i'm anti-gen hi auntie men who are not the product of single
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parent mother homes make the best partners and husbands they have less issues and are more masculine
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prove me wrong see dumbledore if any woman who says i am the table has literally objectified themselves
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it is uncomfortable an uncomfortable admission that they bring zero to the table the greater the
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bravado behind it the greater the lie um it 2298 keep up the good work see dumbledore i don't believe
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that men do that it doesn't matter what you believe it's how you how we feel we call it post nut clarity
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and all men feel that way it is easier for us to have connectionless sex um damp or dumb feminism leads
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to islam i'm gonna refresh the page real quick guys just to make sure there's no more