JustPearlyThings - June 12, 2023


This man is the BIGGEST simp on Planet Earth


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Length

9 minutes

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201.70618

Word count

1,994

Sentence count

48

Harmful content

Misogyny

23

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Hate speech

15

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In this episode we discuss cheating in relationships, open relationships, and how to deal with cheating in a relationship. We also discuss the importance of boundaries in relationships and how they should be put in place in order to ensure trust is maintained.

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00:00:00.000 Oh, yeah, and I also maybe because I live in Dubai and I see a lot where these men are setting the women up 0.99
00:00:04.860 They're getting them nannies getting them drivers and they're using that spare time and his money to go on dates with their boyfriend 1.00
00:00:10.620 And that's where I think the cheating on the women's side is so much worse because she's doing it on his clock and on his money 0.98
00:00:16.160 I've seen it firsthand that it's like with his car. They're going out too
00:00:20.820 That's simping though. Yeah, I said it like but they're okay with it because they they want to cheat as also
00:00:25.580 So there's like as long as there's a lot of there's a lot of open marriages in Hollywood and stuff
00:00:30.400 So do you think it's just a way forward sadly what both people cheating?
00:00:34.460 Open marriages of course. I think it's just it's different. It's different. It's not I think everyone says we're cheating and
00:00:41.460 And stuff like this in general. It's just like everything's the same
00:00:44.340 Men can cheat so therefore women can cheat and women and men cheat the same way and we just cheat as much
00:00:49.040 It's all nonsense and it's completely different
00:00:50.960 Sure, both sexes cheat both genders cheat, whatever, but the men are doing it for a different reason to the women are and the women are doing it 0.99
00:00:57.840 From different ways. I mean, I think as a woman if you're if you have an Instagram that's open and you got like like sexual pictures
00:01:04.140 I think that's cheating
00:01:05.140 Yeah, that's not
00:01:05.840 Yeah, and they pick that girl 1.00
00:01:07.860 I think that's worse
00:01:10.300 Slightly, I don't really see that as this. I'm Caribbean and obviously like once you obviously we have our carnival
00:01:15.440 Yeah, so our costumes as you lot know they are very revealing
00:01:18.540 So me personally like I had this conversation my guys many many years in a row that my ex
00:01:22.680 I'll see she was my girl type of my ex she would dress up in the most when it comes carnival 1.00
00:01:27.200 And all you really see is is a little little bra that covers the nipple because something that covers the tonton and big old feathers 0.92
00:01:33.200 Now me personally now her Instagram's all of that
00:01:35.180 I don't mind any of that to me
00:01:37.620 I don't see that as being cheating because I'm okay with it
00:01:40.320 It's only cheating if you as your spouse is not okay with it, and you're still doing it against the old 0.86
00:01:45.020 You don't think that's an invitation you don't think that's an invitation was she advertising
00:01:49.240 She can advertise to the world ain't the world touching it, but so can she make OnlyFans? 1.00
00:01:53.920 Yeah, we can only find together
00:01:55.920 I'm down for that
00:01:57.760 Your definition is because the definition of cheating is there has to be some level of
00:02:02.040 Sexual intimacy and there has to be some level of a secrecy if there's no secrecy, then it's not cheating
00:02:06.720 So I think he's right yeah, so if you're in an open relationship, it's not cheating
00:02:10.740 That wasn't an open relationship
00:02:12.940 I just I think it's something I mean look at if you if you're in if you're in a relationship and you know
00:02:21.780 You're with a guy that says it's okay
00:02:23.340 You know, it's the kind of the same thing as like being with a woman that are like with a guy that's like a woman that says
00:02:28.660 It's okay to sleep with other girl like but I just think attention is currency to women and you're like accepting attention from other men 0.99
00:02:34.200 I just that's disrespectful that notion is disrespectful you know because it's how you receive how they receive it
00:02:40.960 It's like a matter of time before somebody that is giving the attention is someone that she wants to reciprocate the attention to
00:02:47.320 It's only a matter of time
00:02:48.320 But that's what really is supposed to come into it
00:02:50.580 There's trust and then there's you're supposed to put borders around and boundaries around to limit the environment
00:02:55.600 I'm Caribbean so this culturally that's normal for man
00:02:58.740 So we act about if I can go to a club and wine and chuck up on 15-20 gallon knowing that
00:03:03.300 Yeah, but I'm not taking no Instagram no numbers no nothing. I'm going home to my girl and I'm still cutting up in bed
00:03:07.920 And spooning with her. Listen when when the snipers are out and they're looking for women that are in relationships
00:03:12.920 So I you think I cool. Yeah, this girl probably chew on a man 1.00
00:03:14.740 What do you guys think are the other telling signals and one of them is like revealing themselves in a certain kind of way?
00:03:21.060 Because I look at the women that are happy in their relationships and they don't do this. They don't even post exactly 1.00
00:03:26.340 Yeah, that's disrespect. Why would you suppose revealing pictures if you're already number in there?
00:03:29.700 And you don't really want to go out like that when you're happy. Exactly. That's what I mean as a girl anyway
00:03:34.980 What you disagree though. What do you think you said?
00:03:38.160 I just agreed with you said that it's it's not a prison a relationship. I think oh, yeah
00:03:42.740 Yeah, so I feel like the boundaries of having to not post what you want on your Instagram. That sounds quite like a prison
00:03:51.460 Because it's that is
00:03:53.460 I have a question. Would you give up your social media for a guy if he said I'm not comfortable with it?
00:04:00.180 Um
00:04:03.380 Or would you mind if he was liking thirst traps like or is that putting boundaries on him and that's
00:04:07.700 No, see, yeah, even that I think it's weird. I think if he was commenting
00:04:11.780 I think guys that don't like when their girl posts it's weird
00:04:14.740 I feel like when girls don't like when their guy likes other girls pictures 0.80
00:04:19.300 I feel like those are like really about two serious boundaries like
00:04:22.660 It depends like you can't be a hypocrite
00:04:24.900 You can't be like the girls that don't like it
00:04:27.140 You did the guy then can't be dumb like you can't be a hypocrite with the situation if one's open with it
00:04:31.460 I feel like that one should be open to a certain degree as well
00:04:34.020 No, I'm yeah, I'm saying they're both weird
00:04:37.220 Listen
00:04:37.780 You're a great girlfriend
00:04:40.260 It also does depend on what they post you're saying about or whenever they post it's about what they post that's the issue
00:04:45.060 That's the thing is the content
00:04:46.260 Yeah, it's the issue
00:04:47.140 I don't think so
00:04:48.420 I feel like what you post is a reflection of like like your thought process maybe your style whatever
00:04:54.820 Um, it's it doesn't necessarily mean it's an invitation for people
00:04:57.780 What do ass pics say about your style? 1.00
00:05:00.340 It just says you've got a good fucking butt 1.00
00:05:03.300 And it doesn't mean that you're inviting people to come cheap
00:05:05.460 That's it, that's how I see it
00:05:07.540 It doesn't matter how guys see it
00:05:09.620 Well, no, but if you're in a relationship with a guy then it does matter how you respect
00:05:13.460 It only matters how your guy sees it
00:05:15.860 You know, you know
00:05:20.180 If it works for you then cool
00:05:21.700 Okay, I'm gonna take a second to read super chats. Um guys, um blessing wants a monopod. Did I say it right?
00:05:27.540 A monopod. Yeah, so i'm also the top super chatter today gets um, we're gonna send you
00:05:33.860 Am I gonna sign like a hat or something? I don't know. I'm signing something and it will be sent to you. Um, allegedly
00:05:39.620 Um, okay, so clifford range imagine buying a new car
00:05:45.140 But the salesman tells you that they want to keep a for sale sign in the front window. That's instagram
00:05:50.740 Um, doug mpa bro in the back is the king of simps simp. Um, 90 frito pie 0.80
00:05:56.020 Relationships are from god. This is why we fail them. Um, jacob mckenzie the girl's argument makes no sense by definition
00:06:01.620 You must be chosen to cheat in the first place
00:06:04.100 So girls are either single or they cheat therapists are always nuts 90 frito pay 1.00
00:06:08.660 What's your girl's insta hot guy simp? Um, 90 frito pay youtube censors hard. Is there another way to chat?
00:06:14.820 Um, I probably can add cash app or something next show. I'll look and do it jared brags
00:06:19.220 Um men on mass aren't picking cheat men cap men on mass aren't picking cheating women 90 frito pie
00:06:26.340 Domestic violence is not justified it hat dude equal simp 0.66
00:06:30.340 Um, marriage causes divorce all the research shows women get over divorce quicker as they have been planning it 1.00
00:06:36.340 Whereas the men lose everything like money house and the kids 0.88
00:06:39.140 Um, and sx if you are a broke chad, but high energy and seems smart and ambitious
00:06:43.540 She will bed you in hopes that to help you succeed and earn a bag 1.00
00:06:47.620 You got three months can extend if you show progress time short true for 90 of women 0.98
00:06:54.020 90 frito pie name a funny woman 0.98
00:06:56.500 90 frito pie your toner is off get better at speaking miss k
00:07:00.500 90 frito pie if you had no
00:07:03.860 Um, if you had no of pussy then what leverage would you have doug mpa? 0.99
00:07:09.620 Discount kim k needs to realize that men smash nines and tens but marries sixes and sevens nines and tens are too much maintenance and will always 0.99
00:07:16.660 Take up too much energy russell warren. Thanks for the discussion. I appreciate it. I'm edgar reyes
00:07:22.180 My great grandpa had a wife and he had five other women my grandpa had oh another woman across town double standard 1.00
00:07:28.340 Maybe and sx if a man walks away from his career chances chances
00:07:33.700 Increase she will lose interest if he wants a career back 1.00
00:07:37.300 After 12 months. He is likely disadvantaged by three-year careers men's shoes career
00:07:42.020 Please i'm gonna refresh it really quick just to make sure there are no other ones guys like the video
00:07:46.740 Um, there are over 2 000 people watching live. So I think we should have at least 2 000 likes
00:07:52.020 um
00:07:53.460 Okay, spent spencer
00:07:56.020 Caribbean what this man is saying is cap if he cared about his woman
00:07:59.620 He wouldn't be happy for her just to be out there like that. He is just a pimp
00:08:03.460 Um, pj cornell just travel and find non-western women clifford range. Oh, I read that one. Okay. Um, okay 1.00
00:08:10.020 So I was gonna show this earlier. Let me pull it up
00:08:16.580 What percent
00:08:19.540 Of nba players do you think get divorced after retirement?
00:08:24.420 90%
00:08:27.700 Because they put up with that shit and now it's like are you broke?
00:08:31.700 You will learn and I look at pippin and that that is a nutty
00:08:34.420 What do you guys think? I think it would be high
00:08:36.020 But I think it's more for the fact that the women were used to them not being around so much 0.58
00:08:40.500 And they didn't realize that it had so much conflict until they spend so much time together and then they divorce. Yeah, I agree. Yeah
00:08:46.660 So what person do you think it has nothing to do with the money?
00:08:49.460 Definitely has a percentage of course 100%
00:08:51.860 What percent?
00:08:54.340 No, what percent get divorced? Do you think a very high like 70 75 75? Yeah, I would say about 70. What do you think?
00:09:01.300 I think maybe like 50
00:09:04.820 87%
00:09:08.980 And I think it's within a couple years
00:09:12.180 That is way too high. They're not on the purpose. He's not even making his money anymore and he's she still takes off
00:09:17.220 She's crazy 0.64
00:09:19.540 And she can cheat on him and still take his half his money. Isn't that crazy? 1.00
00:09:23.780 She gets coaching and she would be able to
00:09:27.780 Invest in ring for your door
00:09:29.780 Yeah
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