JustPearlyThings - This MISANDRIST Woman Said THIS

00:00:00.000 go up to Dwayne The Rock Johnson and you punch him no one's gonna be mad or no one's gonna feel

00:00:04.900 bad for you when you get punched back right yeah I don't think I'll be punching him but yeah

00:00:10.100 but that's what I'm saying like girls like if the argument is that the girls are weaker like 0.99

00:00:14.940 then you could say the thing if a weaker man goes up to a stronger man and hits him do we feel bad

00:00:20.040 when he gets hit back no but it's kind of weird because kind of thing I guess you'll be seen as

00:00:25.100 bullying then in that aspect what do you mean so I give us because someone your own size if 0.96

00:00:29.920 you're saying a weaker man yeah I'm saying if the weaker man picks a fight with the bigger man

00:00:34.540 and then the bigger man hits back nobody feels bad for the weaker man because he picked the fight

00:00:40.200 but for some reason with women it's not the same like if a woman picks a fight with a man 1.00

00:00:44.440 and it's hitting a man but if she gets hit back people it's in that scenario that we saw if the

00:00:51.200 man was to retaliate if the man was to retaliate during that time right it's a different ball game

00:00:57.780 yeah but the chances are he's if I was to punch you and he punched me back you're gonna hurt me

00:01:03.240 a lot more I'm not justifying it but but that is truth you know you are the strongest sex so

00:01:08.880 I'm not saying that I'm not gonna I don't go around punching men and I wouldn't but because as a

00:01:15.000 woman I know that if I did and he hit me the chances are he's gonna hurt me like the domestic 1.00

00:01:19.580 violence like statistics are I'm with you and I'm not with you um you have a point but then I think

00:01:26.720 that you you you spoke on the narrative of you're weaker because you're a woman yeah yeah but that

00:01:31.540 is that is biological is it not uh we could take it we could say we could take the same example with

00:01:37.680 Dwayne The Rock Johnson like it's by like he's huge biologically and so if a skinny man picks a fight

00:01:43.260 with a big man and he punches back nobody feels bad for the skinny guy of course but but domestic

00:01:48.020 violence over here a woman's dying every three to four days I'm everywhere I'd yeah no of course

00:01:55.420 but I'm talking about the UK so I don't know what the opposing argument so well most um domestic

00:02:00.220 violence is um mutual so both parties are hitting each other but one-sided abuse is actually more

00:02:05.300 common for um men to be hit one-sided than women to be hit one-sided I've actually got some statistics

00:02:12.380 for domestic violence when it comes to women and men um against men um specifically because I'm I've

00:02:18.560 gone to the national center of domestic violence right and it actually says this male victims the

00:02:24.340 find a finding was mirrored in an annual crime survey for England and Wales which found a quarter of all

00:02:29.760 domestic abuse crimes in 2018 to 2019 were committed against a male victim in the same year 16 men died

00:02:38.860 at the hands of their partner or ex-partner compared with 80 women the crime survey stats also showed

00:02:45.400 that 3.8 percent of men which is equal to 786 000 were victims of domestic abuse in 2018 2019

00:02:54.700 so I'll be very interested in that that video except having a woman that was bigger than the man 1.00

00:03:03.100 right do you think that you think that was done typecast like do you think that was done deliberately

00:03:07.440 just to probably no I think they just they just got who they could to to play the roles but it'll be

00:03:12.260 interesting if you had a woman say say Ronda Rousey right Ronda Rousey bullying a smaller dude 1.00

00:03:17.920 you can't make the argument that if Ronda Rousey punched you it wouldn't hurt no of course how many

00:03:23.200 she's trained yeah how many women are built like that though uh yeah well you know that's what that's 1.00

00:03:28.480 what I'm saying but it'll be interesting to see to see how this logic lines up when you have a woman

00:03:32.700 that's more physically imposing because I guess the idea with that video is that the man is

00:03:37.260 obviously going to be this the more physically dominant one right so he can take he can take

00:03:42.560 more and whenever he wants he can he can finish the situation and so that's why it's more it's more

00:03:47.180 so would you say that is a would you say that is a misandrist type of view no I think it's just

00:03:51.840 based on reality okay like the guy like if he wants to beat her up he could like it's not it's not

00:03:59.040 like it's not like she's physically stronger than him it only changes if when you have a woman who's

00:04:03.480 physically stronger than a man I would like to see whether society holds that up in the same lens

00:04:07.300 like would that would that be bullying I don't know could you say the woman should like sustain more

00:04:12.800 should be more patient because the guy is weaker than her and you know this that would they put the 0.70

00:04:17.440 same responsibility on the woman to be the more mature more patient kind of part of you know that

00:04:22.960 would be very interesting to me so before I was talking about misandria and what it means like do you

00:04:27.140 I'm saying do you think that the society has become more misandrist yeah because misogyny is

00:04:33.020 spoken about a lot isn't it like we speak about misogyny men are misogynists you know and there's

00:04:37.800 a lot of talk about misogyny um when it comes to the whole feminist movement but I I can see from 0.99

00:04:43.660 what I can see I can see that misandria is kind of taking more of a foothold now over misogyny I can

00:04:48.380 see men women actually hating men and hating on men men are trash men are dogs men are this men are that 0.83

00:04:55.500 like why why are you smiling and laughing what would you expect that it's a consequence of

00:05:01.940 misogyny that's where it comes from if you take that out the equation then you won't get so I don't

00:05:07.480 think it's as a woman I know for well uh it won't ingrained in me to hate men but as you grow up and

00:05:13.220 you see them act a certain way then you're gonna have an opinion of them I wouldn't go swimming I

00:05:17.920 wouldn't go swimming in Australia even if there was one shark attack I wouldn't go near it because I

00:05:22.120 know the consequences but yeah as women we're expected to to still um trust men that that hurt

00:05:28.560 us what okay oh wow what do you mean what do you mean like what like what you said what do you what

00:05:34.620 do you see that men do that's so bad well first of all I said about the domestic violence and then I

00:05:40.560 think if you look at like women do it too no of course but men ain't dying at the same rates so well

00:05:46.180 they can't who's to say what do you mean who's to say I think everything that we see is this is

00:05:52.020 what's given to us as facts we can't take that as gospel do you know do you know men have died from

00:05:56.940 domestic violence male suicide male suicide is is one of the biggest indicators of male suicide is

00:06:01.360 relationship conflict yeah or or breakup so you know maybe it's not being logged as domestic violence

00:06:07.340 yeah but there is definitely abuse going the other way and and that's a significant part of

00:06:11.560 and more women hit men one-sided than men hit women one-sided I I struggle I do struggle with

00:06:17.520 this like uh on this on the websites that I've seen like women are arrested more for domestic violence 0.75

00:06:23.420 than men even though they suffer more and on like when in 2000 in 2000 in 2020 when 110 women died

00:06:32.340 that year because of that the hands of male 50% of those deaths were overkill which means they killed

00:06:37.960 them they was there was like brutally killing them long before that long after that 110 in London

00:06:43.340 no in the UK that's really not a lot one every three days you don't think that's 110 for the

00:06:49.360 whole year so say from the whole year yeah from the whole year so from then to now so say at the

00:06:54.660 what percentage of deaths is that that's got to be less than one person do you honestly think that

00:06:59.220 a woman dying every three to four days is not a lot I don't think it's like um I don't think it's

00:07:05.760 like a pressing like if it's not how do you not because it's not one of the number one ways people

00:07:10.540 are dying here so like like if if we're going to talk about if that if that's the big issue like

00:07:16.000 then we should maybe put obesity why is it always fat people when that alcohol is a drug and it's so

00:07:22.640 normal why is the default always fat why is the default always fat like it could be alcoholism because

00:07:30.760 because because because that can because the stuff that self more people die what I think what Paul's

00:07:35.680 trying to say is more people die each year from self-inflicted things than something that's been

00:07:40.320 inflicted on somebody else does that make sense yeah that does make sense but it doesn't excuse it

00:07:45.740 do you see what I mean so say so say when I wouldn't excuse it I don't believe anyone should

00:07:49.960 it's just putting it into context yeah if you take if you take a number like 110 out of a country

00:07:54.760 with like 60 million people yeah and try and make the case because that's why well because you're

00:07:59.480 trying to generalize something about men but and so if you're gonna if you're gonna make a

00:08:03.560 generalization about men I want to see is this prevalent among men is this really common when

00:08:08.400 you said 110 I'm like well okay the UK is very populated that doesn't sound like a lot of people

00:08:13.540 and when you put it into context but if you put into context I don't think it's okay I don't think

00:08:18.040 no I'm not saying you do but then if you put it into context the same amount of women have died

00:08:21.760 this year right so it's one in one every three to four days so say from 2020 2021 2022 if you

00:08:29.400 multiply 110 that's 330 yeah that's close to a year so out of three years there was one year

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JustPearlyThings - June 09, 2023

This MISANDRIST Woman Said THIS

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