JustPearlyThings - June 09, 2023


This MISANDRIST Woman Said THIS


Episode Stats

Length

8 minutes

Words per Minute

210.67982

Word Count

1,878

Sentence Count

2

Misogynist Sentences

9

Hate Speech Sentences

4


Summary

In this episode we discuss the controversial topic of Women vs Men in the modern world and the impact of women being physically stronger than men. We also discuss the recent video of Ronda Rousey beating a man who is physically smaller than her and the backlash that has been going on since.


Transcript

00:00:00.000 go up to Dwayne The Rock Johnson and you punch him no one's gonna be mad or no one's gonna feel
00:00:04.900 bad for you when you get punched back right yeah I don't think I'll be punching him but yeah
00:00:10.100 but that's what I'm saying like girls like if the argument is that the girls are weaker like
00:00:14.940 then you could say the thing if a weaker man goes up to a stronger man and hits him do we feel bad
00:00:20.040 when he gets hit back no but it's kind of weird because kind of thing I guess you'll be seen as
00:00:25.100 bullying then in that aspect what do you mean so I give us because someone your own size if
00:00:29.920 you're saying a weaker man yeah I'm saying if the weaker man picks a fight with the bigger man
00:00:34.540 and then the bigger man hits back nobody feels bad for the weaker man because he picked the fight
00:00:40.200 but for some reason with women it's not the same like if a woman picks a fight with a man
00:00:44.440 and it's hitting a man but if she gets hit back people it's in that scenario that we saw if the
00:00:51.200 man was to retaliate if the man was to retaliate during that time right it's a different ball game
00:00:57.780 yeah but the chances are he's if I was to punch you and he punched me back you're gonna hurt me
00:01:03.240 a lot more I'm not justifying it but but that is truth you know you are the strongest sex so
00:01:08.880 I'm not saying that I'm not gonna I don't go around punching men and I wouldn't but because as a
00:01:15.000 woman I know that if I did and he hit me the chances are he's gonna hurt me like the domestic
00:01:19.580 violence like statistics are I'm with you and I'm not with you um you have a point but then I think
00:01:26.720 that you you you spoke on the narrative of you're weaker because you're a woman yeah yeah but that
00:01:31.540 is that is biological is it not uh we could take it we could say we could take the same example with
00:01:37.680 Dwayne The Rock Johnson like it's by like he's huge biologically and so if a skinny man picks a fight
00:01:43.260 with a big man and he punches back nobody feels bad for the skinny guy of course but but domestic
00:01:48.020 violence over here a woman's dying every three to four days I'm everywhere I'd yeah no of course
00:01:55.420 but I'm talking about the UK so I don't know what the opposing argument so well most um domestic
00:02:00.220 violence is um mutual so both parties are hitting each other but one-sided abuse is actually more
00:02:05.300 common for um men to be hit one-sided than women to be hit one-sided I've actually got some statistics
00:02:12.380 for domestic violence when it comes to women and men um against men um specifically because I'm I've
00:02:18.560 gone to the national center of domestic violence right and it actually says this male victims the
00:02:24.340 find a finding was mirrored in an annual crime survey for England and Wales which found a quarter of all
00:02:29.760 domestic abuse crimes in 2018 to 2019 were committed against a male victim in the same year 16 men died
00:02:38.860 at the hands of their partner or ex-partner compared with 80 women the crime survey stats also showed
00:02:45.400 that 3.8 percent of men which is equal to 786 000 were victims of domestic abuse in 2018 2019
00:02:54.700 so I'll be very interested in that that video except having a woman that was bigger than the man
00:03:03.100 right do you think that you think that was done typecast like do you think that was done deliberately
00:03:07.440 just to probably no I think they just they just got who they could to to play the roles but it'll be
00:03:12.260 interesting if you had a woman say say Ronda Rousey right Ronda Rousey bullying a smaller dude
00:03:17.920 you can't make the argument that if Ronda Rousey punched you it wouldn't hurt no of course how many
00:03:23.200 she's trained yeah how many women are built like that though uh yeah well you know that's what that's
00:03:28.480 what I'm saying but it'll be interesting to see to see how this logic lines up when you have a woman
00:03:32.700 that's more physically imposing because I guess the idea with that video is that the man is
00:03:37.260 obviously going to be this the more physically dominant one right so he can take he can take
00:03:42.560 more and whenever he wants he can he can finish the situation and so that's why it's more it's more
00:03:47.180 so would you say that is a would you say that is a misandrist type of view no I think it's just
00:03:51.840 based on reality okay like the guy like if he wants to beat her up he could like it's not it's not
00:03:59.040 like it's not like she's physically stronger than him it only changes if when you have a woman who's
00:04:03.480 physically stronger than a man I would like to see whether society holds that up in the same lens
00:04:07.300 like would that would that be bullying I don't know could you say the woman should like sustain more
00:04:12.800 should be more patient because the guy is weaker than her and you know this that would they put the
00:04:17.440 same responsibility on the woman to be the more mature more patient kind of part of you know that
00:04:22.960 would be very interesting to me so before I was talking about misandria and what it means like do you
00:04:27.140 I'm saying do you think that the society has become more misandrist yeah because misogyny is
00:04:33.020 spoken about a lot isn't it like we speak about misogyny men are misogynists you know and there's
00:04:37.800 a lot of talk about misogyny um when it comes to the whole feminist movement but I I can see from
00:04:43.660 what I can see I can see that misandria is kind of taking more of a foothold now over misogyny I can
00:04:48.380 see men women actually hating men and hating on men men are trash men are dogs men are this men are that
00:04:55.500 like why why are you smiling and laughing what would you expect that it's a consequence of
00:05:01.940 misogyny that's where it comes from if you take that out the equation then you won't get so I don't
00:05:07.480 think it's as a woman I know for well uh it won't ingrained in me to hate men but as you grow up and
00:05:13.220 you see them act a certain way then you're gonna have an opinion of them I wouldn't go swimming I
00:05:17.920 wouldn't go swimming in Australia even if there was one shark attack I wouldn't go near it because I
00:05:22.120 know the consequences but yeah as women we're expected to to still um trust men that that hurt
00:05:28.560 us what okay oh wow what do you mean what do you mean like what like what you said what do you what
00:05:34.620 do you see that men do that's so bad well first of all I said about the domestic violence and then I
00:05:40.560 think if you look at like women do it too no of course but men ain't dying at the same rates so well
00:05:46.180 they can't who's to say what do you mean who's to say I think everything that we see is this is
00:05:52.020 what's given to us as facts we can't take that as gospel do you know do you know men have died from
00:05:56.940 domestic violence male suicide male suicide is is one of the biggest indicators of male suicide is
00:06:01.360 relationship conflict yeah or or breakup so you know maybe it's not being logged as domestic violence
00:06:07.340 yeah but there is definitely abuse going the other way and and that's a significant part of
00:06:11.560 and more women hit men one-sided than men hit women one-sided I I struggle I do struggle with
00:06:17.520 this like uh on this on the websites that I've seen like women are arrested more for domestic violence
00:06:23.420 than men even though they suffer more and on like when in 2000 in 2000 in 2020 when 110 women died
00:06:32.340 that year because of that the hands of male 50% of those deaths were overkill which means they killed
00:06:37.960 them they was there was like brutally killing them long before that long after that 110 in London
00:06:43.340 no in the UK that's really not a lot one every three days you don't think that's 110 for the
00:06:49.360 whole year so say from the whole year yeah from the whole year so from then to now so say at the
00:06:54.660 what percentage of deaths is that that's got to be less than one person do you honestly think that
00:06:59.220 a woman dying every three to four days is not a lot I don't think it's like um I don't think it's
00:07:05.760 like a pressing like if it's not how do you not because it's not one of the number one ways people
00:07:10.540 are dying here so like like if if we're going to talk about if that if that's the big issue like
00:07:16.000 then we should maybe put obesity why is it always fat people when that alcohol is a drug and it's so
00:07:22.640 normal why is the default always fat why is the default always fat like it could be alcoholism because
00:07:30.760 because because because that can because the stuff that self more people die what I think what Paul's
00:07:35.680 trying to say is more people die each year from self-inflicted things than something that's been
00:07:40.320 inflicted on somebody else does that make sense yeah that does make sense but it doesn't excuse it
00:07:45.740 do you see what I mean so say so say when I wouldn't excuse it I don't believe anyone should
00:07:49.960 it's just putting it into context yeah if you take if you take a number like 110 out of a country
00:07:54.760 with like 60 million people yeah and try and make the case because that's why well because you're
00:07:59.480 trying to generalize something about men but and so if you're gonna if you're gonna make a
00:08:03.560 generalization about men I want to see is this prevalent among men is this really common when
00:08:08.400 you said 110 I'm like well okay the UK is very populated that doesn't sound like a lot of people
00:08:13.540 and when you put it into context but if you put into context I don't think it's okay I don't think
00:08:18.040 no I'm not saying you do but then if you put it into context the same amount of women have died
00:08:21.760 this year right so it's one in one every three to four days so say from 2020 2021 2022 if you
00:08:29.400 multiply 110 that's 330 yeah that's close to a year so out of three years there was one year
00:08:35.940 where a woman was dying every day as many of you know I was just banned on tiktok and we are
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