JustPearlyThings - This MISANDRIST Woman Said THIS About Men

00:00:00.000 okay yeah and i don't see men doing the same thing to women like i know men that have experienced

00:00:04.320 sex yeah yeah and i know men that have been in domestic violence situations and they don't

00:00:09.360 look at women as predators do you get i mean that's what i mean yeah but it's not i don't 0.91

00:00:13.360 think it's as daily occurrence as it is for us why do you not think that though isn't that an

00:00:18.080 assumption i think considering if you were to say it's a daily occurrence i know these women that 1.00

00:00:22.640 have had this experience we're supposed to take your opinion and and what you've heard as fact

00:00:27.360 but i just think you can stand here and say i don't think it happens as frequently to men

00:00:31.520 not being a man not doesn't mean anything not being in that space and that's like a valid statement

00:00:36.560 apparently i don't understand of course but i think i could tell you everything that's happened

00:00:40.400 everything that i've seen everything this and you would still deny it yeah but i could say i'm a

00:00:44.720 woman too and i could say the opposite and you would deny it yeah yeah yeah the thing is no one's 0.83

00:00:52.400 gonna deny that grape happens and essay happens i don't deny that they happen right my i guess my

00:00:58.160 issue is the attitude that you have that's spreading that you say i'm not spending anything no but you

00:01:02.800 said men are men are predators you know what i'm saying when you when you say that you like i said

00:01:08.800 you blanket you blanket men like that and it's like um if men grow up this is what we're talking

00:01:14.320 about misandry if men grow up in a society where they are demonized right from the get-go yeah right 1.00

00:01:20.800 just automatically demonized they haven't done anything you you as a woman wouldn't like to be 0.96

00:01:25.040 demonized right but just because you're a woman but no anyway but but the way in which you saw the

00:01:31.840 video and she wasn't demonized even when she was but that one video is gonna one video but that that 1.00

00:01:37.040 there's there's data to back that up that men aren't taken seriously as domestic violence and rape

00:01:42.000 victims and you just you just proved that you just said oh i don't think it really happens the thing is

00:01:46.880 you said all men are predators you don't say no okay sorry so he just asked me and i just went

00:01:52.640 with yes over no like i explained to you i didn't come up here and think you as a predator if i saw

00:01:58.080 you at night walking down an alleyway i would be scared so you called him a predator you you would

00:02:03.680 be scared of me though i think 100 any man i bought i've lived all right so i've i've had to walk a lot

00:02:09.120 i don't drive i feel like i'm a nice kind of guy i don't know that though do i i don't know you

00:02:13.200 i would feel the same way if it was a woman down but i feel i feel like you're you're feeling

00:02:19.040 entitled to feeling to safety and and the thing is like men don't feel safe walking alone at night

00:02:25.200 either but aren't they meant to protect us they do and that's the thing like if you're walking alone

00:02:30.080 if you're walking alone at night i would argue that women are more likely to be protected than if

00:02:33.840 another guy is attacked 100 yeah because if if if sara gets punched by some other dude like no one's 1.00

00:02:39.280 coming to save him but it's a man punching him i'll him up me no but it's a man punching you so

00:02:45.200 it could be i mean look at the video we just want to be innocent it could be innocent it could be the

00:02:49.840 people have done this experiment so many so many times yeah it's very true you could look up 10 videos

00:02:53.920 that have the same exact experiment with the same exact result men don't particularly take men seriously

00:02:59.360 so that's where i find the problem if i went on tiktok no can i just finish if i went on tiktok

00:03:03.520 and saw a video of a 30 year old teacher that had raped a 13 year old sorry sorry great the the

00:03:10.640 comments are from men saying oh that's my teenage dream he would have loved that don't tell me blah

00:03:14.960 blah blah it's all men saying that what it's men saying that yeah yeah but the thing is there are

00:03:20.480 some men saying that but you're acting as if there's women in the comments not as often not as often

00:03:25.680 i'm sorry but you're acting as if most men are saying that no no i'm just not saying the way in which

00:03:31.280 your blanket in men right now makes absolutely no sense it sounds like you're taking it to heart

00:03:36.240 like i mean you no no because i no because i asked you i specifically asked you uh do you see all men

00:03:42.320 as predators and you said yes sorry sorry but hang on if you if you say you see all men as predators

00:03:47.360 like i said if a man was to say he sees all women as x he would be called a misogynist that would be

00:03:53.680 that would be the the thing that would be leveled at him so when we say when you say that and we're

00:03:57.760 talking about misandry versus misogyny so you you would be a misandrist then i'm not gonna lie i

00:04:02.800 have to agree with you and you're you come across as a lovely person and i think i think you do it

00:04:07.360 unintentionally yeah it's ingrained you're just brainwashed i don't think you realize that i don't

00:04:11.360 think it's brainwashed all your opinions i think there's a lot of trauma i don't think it's brainwashed

00:04:15.360 i just think it's unintentional i think it's misdirection in the sense of yeah maybe yeah yeah because

00:04:20.560 when i when i'm listening to you speak i'm hearing where you're coming from but i'm also hearing

00:04:25.760 and how you're following this wrong route and the mistakes you're making like what's wrong okay the

00:04:30.880 mistakes you're making is like he's saying blanking which is a good nice word and it's basically what

00:04:36.560 you're doing you're stereotyping yeah yeah so and i could take offense for the fact that you've just

00:04:42.160 come in here i'm not i don't think you have done it intentionally i can take offense to the fact you

00:04:46.400 come in here and say oh i'm not rooting under you because you use a lot of men how about you're not 1.00

00:04:50.880 rude to none of us because we're just normal human beings who don't need to be spoken to in a

00:04:55.840 certain way so it shouldn't be based on our sex or you know just the fact that we're men we're bigger

00:05:02.960 than you and all these kind of things it should be based on personal experiences and if you have

00:05:07.360 experience you need to forgive yourself and also maybe look at dealing with that situation properly

00:05:13.280 because you will spoil a lot of opportunities you will put yourself in a lot of boxes narrow off

00:05:20.720 where you can go to and basically pass it on unintentionally just how you're speaking now

00:05:26.160 so what if you switched what you were saying with race oh but this is what if you what if you were going

00:05:31.440 to make generalizations about a group based on race yeah and say oh oh but i'm polite to this race

00:05:37.600 can i can i just can i say something about that please because that's that's a valid point and i want to

00:05:41.600 say that because i'm seeing here obviously like um with black men and a black woman now i i want to

00:05:48.240 say to you that if your opinion on white people was she i get where you're coming from because i've seen

00:05:54.720 the destruction that white people have caused when we see kanye west with all lives matter

00:06:01.840 sorry sorry that's that's that argument to me that's a similar argument because you're american

00:06:08.160 can you agree to a certain extent what people say about america because of what they've done

00:06:12.960 so if you want i think america is great actually oh okay i think it's a great place to live i think

00:06:18.000 most people are lucky to come okay well again that's i think i grew up so my dad employed people from

00:06:23.920 india and um they were very very excited to come to america there's a lot more opportunity there than a

00:06:29.600 lot of places in the world and i think a lot of people in the west are very spoiled but isn't there a

00:06:33.760 lot more opportunity for them over here because of the destruction that's being caused um i i would

00:06:37.600 argue i would argue no than in the uk because um i just see the tax rates you guys have here and a

00:06:43.440 lot of them are able i want i want to know what the point i want to know what a point you were trying

00:06:46.880 to make is that so okay so say if i'm on tick tock and i'm scrolling and i see videos of people slagging

00:06:52.960 off white people slagging off english people blah blah blah i can take that because there's an element of truth

00:06:59.520 there okay because of history so i don't understand why when you can look at the statistics of

00:07:05.120 everything and how men are yeah but imagine i but imagine i walked in there what if we flipped it what

00:07:10.640 if we didn't use white people what if we use black people would it be okay but what do you mean sorry

00:07:14.880 so what if you flipped it i'm going to make a generalization about a group let's say let's say 0.94

00:07:20.320 we did black people would that be okay um the thing i'm coming from from a woman so okay so i know 0.99

00:07:25.280 the struggle for women and and against men okay so i i knew this guy right this is an anecdotal piece

00:07:30.320 of evidence i knew this guy that was in school with me right and he was bullied in school by some

00:07:36.320 asian people right and when he grew up he said i don't like asians right however his idea of not

00:07:44.480 liking asians right what came from a minute uh lens that of his own personal experience in his own

00:07:51.840 personal trauma so for him to now generalize all asians right would be a wrong thing to do

00:07:57.680 now i don't know your personal trauma and i don't know what you've been through right and you may have

00:08:01.520 been through some traumatic things but to generalize all men is the exact same thing that that guy would

00:08:07.040 have been doing with race i think i think where i went wrong with that is when you say predator a

00:08:12.720 hundred percent it depends on the situation because i'm not taking that back if i see if i will pass any

00:08:17.440 of you down an alleyway there's going to be a part of me that's going to be scared okay i'll admit

00:08:21.600 that and because i see you is that because we're men yeah that's what i'm saying is that because i'm

00:08:25.760 black no it's because you're a man okay as many of you know i was just banned on tick tock and we are

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JustPearlyThings - June 09, 2023

This MISANDRIST Woman Said THIS About Men

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