JustPearlyThings - June 14, 2023


This Modern Woman Got HIT With REALITY @ModernLifeDating

Hosted by
Hannah Pearl Davis
Mentioned
Andrew Tate Divorce Danelva Versus Joker
This Is Why Modern Men Are Weak Pearl EXPOSES Her Toxic Trait In Her Last Relationship

Episode Stats


Length

8 minutes

Words per minute

208.06

Word count

1,818

Sentence count

55

Harmful content

Misogyny

29

sentences flagged

Toxicity

19

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Hate speech

29

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Summary

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In this episode, we have a special guest on the show to talk about the problem of modern men and how they treat women. We discuss how modern men treat women, how women treat them, and how to deal with it.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Hey, then oh my god the poor modern man like I said earlier he's a bitch 1.00
00:00:05.160 Well, and he's a bitch cuz he's raised by one 1.00
00:00:07.160 No, he's a bitch because he's just one because not every single modern man out there is from a single mother home 1.00
00:00:12.400 But the majority of them are 0.99
00:00:14.400 You're talking to a guy that coaches men he coaches like that like I would write you coach a man run
00:00:20.560 Yeah, right I coached thousands of men
00:00:22.660 Yeah, he knows more than you do about like what like type of homes these men come from
00:00:27.540 Okay, that's fantastic, but I'm the one that deals with men on a more personal level because I'm a woman and I know how 0.88
00:00:33.520 Most of these modern men act and can I just say more than what he will know because they don't try to chat him
00:00:37.900 No, listen, they I've talked listen you're wrong with all due respect my love tell me. Okay. I talk to
00:00:44.100 Thousands of men for tens of thousands of hours and I understand intimately what the problem is
00:00:51.100 And a lot of things this do one thing a lot of these single moms do is 1.00
00:00:55.040 Is they will guilt trip and turn these sons into like a de facto husband?
00:01:02.580 Where the son is now helping paying the rent the son is like helping like he becomes they're like
00:01:09.000 Husband placement holder that happens a lot if you watch that movie the Joker, right?
00:01:14.040 There's a scene at the end when he kills his mother and a lot of these guys for the incel community and stuff like you know 1.00
00:01:20.480 I wish like that's what that's how I feel my mom was oppressing me and stuff like that
00:01:24.180 So I mean when you're just trying to say that
00:01:27.340 This is entirely men's fault 1.00
00:01:30.240 You're wrong and it's also wrong when we say it's entirely women's fault 1.00
00:01:35.240 Because listen because because it's the truth because here's the thing if women want all the rights and 1.00
00:01:42.520 Responsibilities that men have they also must have the accountability that comes with the responsibility because you can't have responsibility
00:01:51.220 Without accountability and that's why I love exactly what you said because you acknowledge the fact that is both of our faults
00:01:57.160 Rather than just being the typical red pill who just says is women's fault is women's fault and another thing I want to mention
00:02:02.280 Can I find something out though whenever we bring up a problem about women the gut reaction is always to say but men
00:02:08.100 When we always are talking about men and then no, but i'm saying but we have so many conversations
00:02:13.480 There's been 50 years of media talking about men's issues. I don't want no scrub and you know the you know 1.00
00:02:19.300 Like the many shit is normal like we have so many and you don't see the men come in 0.99
00:02:25.600 And say oh, but women and there's a shift to you got. Okay. You don't know what you're you're like in your 30s. How are you 30? 1.00
00:02:31.960 Yeah, so you remember this you remember the song? I forgot who's saying it
00:02:34.640 But she would say the boy is mine. Yeah, remember that now you have these always like I don't need no man fuck this guy 0.99
00:02:41.680 You know, I do big shifts as well. Hold on. I do agree men's songs have gotten simpier 0.99
00:02:47.600 Do you know why I get no, no, no, no, no drake has changed even drake is thinking he's a gangster
00:02:53.220 I don't know hotline bling. I don't know hotline bling. That's
00:02:59.220 Listen right there
00:03:01.220 No, no drake is a simp. I'm not gonna lie. There you go. There we go. Oh, not all 0.97
00:03:07.960 Music nowadays is but made by simps a lot of these men like won't you stay with that guy would get taken to an alley
00:03:15.920 That's pretty old though. That's pretty old though. Now what is he singing?
00:03:19.660 Back in the day 1.00
00:03:24.660 I avoid that shit like the plague. I don't know 1.00
00:03:26.660 Men used to serenade women's with their songs. They used to sing outside used to like it's raining
00:03:31.200 But the difference is women used to be worth serenading 1.00
00:03:34.320 No, that's a w on pearl for that. That's a w on pearl
00:03:40.320 They downgrade you in their songs and they just have like you half naked and they say that you're basically worthless
00:03:45.680 You're just you're good for one night, but who's dressing half naked
00:03:48.960 No, but there's less 0.99
00:03:57.120 Just just question and I need raise your hand are there more whores today than there were 50 years ago 1.00
00:04:02.560 Raise your hand if you think yeah, everything's different. No, no, no. Yes. Okay. Come on. Thank you 0.97
00:04:09.200 So so is it is it really like can we blame them for treating us like whores when there are more whores to treat like 0.99
00:04:16.240 Can I say something effort? Let me this is the problem I have right if a dad constantly tells his daughter 0.98
00:04:21.800 You're a whore. You're a whore. You're a whore. You're ugly. You're ugly. You're ugly 1.00
00:04:24.320 Guess what's gonna happen? She's gonna continue to think that for sure 1.00
00:04:26.880 It's the same thing with terrible these rappers when they continue to call women hoes hoes hoes
00:04:30.340 bbb's tricks tricks tricks women are gonna actually start to believe that this is what they like or this is what they want 1.00
00:04:35.860 And this is what I mean by this this lack of acknowledgement when it comes to where the men are going wrong in this type of conversation
00:04:42.420 But we acknowledge it all the time in media and music like it even in general conversation like it's okay
00:04:49.460 He knocked her up. Who's the accountability on him?
00:04:52.820 We have so many phrases that just like literally absolve women of any accountability 0.83
00:04:57.300 And so it's like whenever men have a movement like women feel the need to police how they speak about women 0.62
00:05:02.820 But what I feel like I'm sorry
00:05:04.500 Can I just quickly say something what I feel like is what's because I used to really be this like red pill type of thing
00:05:09.620 But now that I'm looking deep into it
00:05:11.140 What I'm scared of is that society is gonna turn into what the feminist movement is turning into you 0.98
00:05:15.940 Which is just putting the blame on women women women the way we used to put the blame on men men men
00:05:20.180 When are we just gonna stop pause and try to find like a middle ground between each other because I genuinely feel like this is what is turning into
00:05:26.820 There's no middle ground with the way the laws are if the idea is hey, let's come to a compromise and get married
00:05:34.100 I think most men are for that
00:05:35.780 But the problem is women have voted for these systems that actively oppress men and we can see it with the tate interview
00:05:42.340 Because a top 1% guy that can afford the best lawyers in the world is in a prison because the women me to him 0.99
00:05:49.700 And so so the difference is i'll tell you the difference the difference is men have no power right now
00:05:54.580 Yeah, I will I will push back on that and it is in the romanian justice system, which is romania is notoriously corrupt 1.00
00:06:01.700 So like I do but I understand what you're saying but at the same time like, you know
00:06:06.580 There is objective truth in the sense that
00:06:10.820 when it comes to
00:06:13.460 Divorce and breaking up the families
00:06:16.020 78% of the women are doing this and so let's just theoretically say
00:06:21.940 The men are at fault for the divorces
00:06:26.020 Why aren't women better at choosing good guys? 1.00
00:06:28.660 Because they don't have fathers in the home to teach them how to 0.71
00:06:31.220 Who kicked the father out the home? 0.74
00:06:32.740 They did! A woman is not just going to decide I don't want a husband in the home 1.00
00:06:36.260 The husband has to do something and that's the part of the conversation that no one is acknowledging
00:06:40.820 That's kind of annoying like a woman's not just going to decide I'm going to kick you out 1.00
00:06:44.500 The man has to be being very useless for him to kick him out
00:06:47.220 So then why is she choosing a bad guy? 0.88
00:06:49.300 How are you going to know?
00:06:49.780 Because maybe she didn't even have a dad because her dad wasn't even in the home to teach her how to 0.52
00:06:53.460 And some guys are good dead but they know how to hide well
00:06:55.860 Okay, cool, cool, cool
00:06:56.980 So who kicked her dad out of the house? 0.51
00:06:59.220 Can I tell you?
00:06:59.780 He kicked himself out of the house
00:07:00.660 Can I add something?
00:07:01.620 Can I add something?
00:07:02.820 Can I add something?
00:07:03.780 Because we keep talking
00:07:05.620 Whenever we have these conversations I can argue for both men and women very easily
00:07:10.260 But if we're going to learn anything from Andrew Tate
00:07:12.740 And one of the things that he does say that I stand for the most
00:07:15.300 And I'm like, yeah, do you know what?
00:07:16.180 You're a G for seeing this
00:07:17.300 It's the matrix, right?
00:07:19.060 And the matrix is that there is just like a figurative term
00:07:23.860 To explain the people that are running this whole thing
00:07:26.980 The whole machine that actually influences the whole world
00:07:29.220 On every level from media to energy industries to politics to everything
00:07:35.140 And those people at the top are men
00:07:37.780 The world is actually run by men 1.00
00:07:40.180 As much as we're trying to run away from that
00:07:42.180 That is a fact
00:07:43.140 Women have a lot of power in a man's world 1.00
00:07:45.460 Because we have the sexuality side of things
00:07:47.860 But it's men running this machine 0.86
00:07:49.300 I agree with you
00:07:50.340 And they use women as a tool in my opinion 1.00
00:07:52.820 Because they know that we
00:07:55.140 We know that women can be easily 1.00
00:07:57.140 Like propagated
00:07:58.420 Yeah, and manipulated
00:07:59.780 Because we agree to
00:08:00.660 So
00:08:00.820 Okay, so
00:08:02.740 And so it goes back to the point of saying
00:08:05.220 Man them
00:08:06.180 Stop getting smarter
00:08:07.220 Since we are supposed to be the weaker beings
00:08:09.300 Why are you letting this mess up?
00:08:10.500 What percentage of men are
00:08:13.220 Like what percentage of men are making those decisions
00:08:15.540 Versus women being manipulated?
00:08:17.940 And even it's funny
00:08:18.820 I say manipulated
00:08:19.620 Like the women don't choose this 1.00
00:08:22.420 It's like in our language, right?
00:08:23.540 Women are being manipulated 1.00
00:08:25.380 Men are being manipulated
00:08:26.580 I'm saying like if we're going to go
00:08:27.540 It's men versus women 1.00
00:08:28.820 I agree with you
00:08:29.460 It is a small percentage of men running things
00:08:32.100 And they use women as a tool 1.00
00:08:33.620 But I'm saying more women are being used as a tool 1.00
00:08:35.940 Than men running things 0.99
00:08:37.220 Well, to an extent
00:08:37.780 Because that's a very, very small percentage of men
00:08:40.100 That's like less than one percent
00:08:41.540 And Danelva, you're correct
00:08:42.420 But yeah, yeah
00:08:43.380 So I agree with you