JustPearlyThings - April 05, 2023


This Modern Women Could NOT Answer THIS


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Length

10 minutes

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Word count

1,871

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

15

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Hate speech

2

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In this episode, I talk about beauty standards in the modern world and why modern women don t care as much as beauty standards. I also talk about the beauty standards of modern women and how they differ from those of the past.

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00:00:00.000 today's topic is that modern women don't care about beauty standards that's that's my premise 0.95
00:00:06.560 today so i my first question is what are beauty standards and then start here go around then
00:00:13.760 second row go ahead um for me i think you know due to the nature of my job i do singing you know i
00:00:20.400 perform a lot you know in the public eyes so i think beauty is important uh in a way that
00:00:26.960 you need to be confident enough for people to you know to see your talent eventually i mean there
00:00:32.880 are different beauty standards i'm from italy so as you probably can imagine um maybe the beauty 0.84
00:00:39.760 standards over there are just a little bit different who's someone that is the italian
00:00:43.760 beauty standard is there like a celebrity yes celebrities or you know people on t no i was
00:00:48.480 just like someone you could think of um monica bellucci monica could we put her on the screen 0.91
00:00:54.720 i just want to see what she looks like yeah it's pretty mediterranean vibe monica bellucci yeah 1.00
00:00:59.440 okay it's an actress i'm gonna i'm gonna look it up here just while he's doing it so i can see
00:01:03.440 is she tall short she's tall um brown hair you know the typical mediterranean oh yeah yeah she's 1.00
00:01:12.720 yeah i don't know if you consider that as a beautiful i think she's beautiful um but um i think for
00:01:19.360 i would lie if i would say like no beauty doesn't matter at all i mean it's that's i think it's a
00:01:26.800 lie to me personally speaking but at the same time i wouldn't generalize you know for different people
00:01:32.640 beauty can be different i for me for example i try like to look nice without always being so
00:01:39.040 up there like showing up like your body all the time so that can be beautiful because you can
00:01:44.720 you know let men guess what's behind yeah you're very i like your outfit a lot it's very cute i try
00:01:51.600 you know i knew that i was coming here so i was like i need to be in a decent stand do you think
00:01:57.840 that um british women um have you been to america too i'm just curious yes yes what would you say um
00:02:03.680 who is more put together usually when they go out american women british women or italian women
00:02:08.400 italian women yes i would guess that yes because you know we are this is why you know i say from the
00:02:15.200 beginning i come from a country where like you know being nice and looking nice is quite important
00:02:22.400 but at the same time i feel like my beauty standards are not necessarily what the modern women they want
00:02:28.800 to you know say like oh yes let's put you know boobs out everything out and that's beautiful sexy and 0.99
00:02:33.600 provocative i kind of like like to people guess more what's behind you know the surface would you
00:02:40.560 say in italy um that that like beauty standards are higher there or lower i think they are higher
00:02:50.480 it's more competitive you'd say yes yes definitely like from tv you know anything you know you can see
00:02:56.880 if you're not in a certain type of body shape sometimes can be i mean it's changing it's changing
00:03:02.240 but i feel like that is still quite predominant that like and what would you say about um like
00:03:09.280 promiscuous clothes is that more i'm just curious because we don't always get people from italy on
00:03:13.680 the show you know um so would you say that that's more frowned upon in italy or um or is it more open
00:03:21.840 there it's a warmer the thing the thing is you know with the younger generations it's really changing
00:03:26.800 because they're quite more into this western world you know they're bombarded with social media and
00:03:31.360 images and everyone is trying to impress everyone so it's changing a little bit but i would say and
00:03:36.960 you know people like myself or you know other friends or acquaintances you know we like to think
00:03:42.720 that that are also part of women they still like to not impress just you know by i'm gonna be naked 0.98
00:03:49.840 tonight and i'm gonna show you know how sexy i am there is sexiness isn't being absolutely fully covered
00:03:54.960 i believe so okay um so what do you think um beauty to me it's i feel like it's within to be honest with
00:04:03.040 you but i'm also half bayesian so in the bayesian community beauty is being revealing and right in
00:04:12.800 the when the you're sorry say that again half bayesian say barbados oh be honest from okay um so we
00:04:19.440 usually are quite you know revealing and nails done hair makeup sort of thing um but yeah as i said beauty
00:04:28.240 to me is is within okay yeah and you can't tell if one girl is more attractive than the other it all 1.00
00:04:34.080 looks the same um but then that goes by preference i can say well this person looks really good and but
00:04:43.440 then again this yeah it goes by its preference like i might think this person doesn't look so good
00:04:51.120 um where to others someone else they might look really good you don't think there's general beauty
00:04:57.280 at all like you think it's different for every person or do you think that in general we can kind
00:05:01.840 of tell who's the most attractive and who's the least attractive to society yeah but who's society
00:05:08.400 to our society yeah but when you say society like who would who is society um well people in the uk
00:05:16.880 okay so you would say that people can tell who's more attractive and less attractive um because
00:05:22.560 you like that's when you say society it's people right yeah it's people it's people in the uk but i
00:05:27.440 think it's different all over as i said like in barbados they would say rihanna is what you call um
00:05:34.080 you know beauty um attraction she's you know she's she's very pretty i mean i think they'd say that 0.99
00:05:39.520 in america too we love rihanna she's beautiful everywhere come on yeah but you know like over
00:05:48.720 here is she not beautiful somewhere it's all right where's rihanna not hot that's true 1.00
00:05:56.800 you know like i feel like there's like preferences like some people like might think one celebrity's
00:06:02.080 hotter than the other but they're all hot yeah you know unless you're blind you can tell so that's
00:06:06.720 why i just never understand what people say they're all hot i like if i look i if i look at beyonce i
00:06:11.520 don't think she's in comparison to um you know to rihanna i think rihanna is more beautiful to me
00:06:18.160 than beyonce so i mean just being honest my opinion depends when i don't know because beyonce is a bit
00:06:29.040 older isn't she yeah but it doesn't matter about that i think my preference is rihanna over beyonce
00:06:36.880 okay what do you think what are beauty standards like she said it's within you i'm very big on that
00:06:42.800 i do not get that with it yeah like we're not blind we're not blind you could find someone so
00:06:51.360 attractive but they have the most shittiest personality yeah but we're i'm just talking i'm
00:06:56.560 just talking physical like okay they're ugly after even even if beyonce came in you might say rihanna's
00:07:02.400 hotter but beyonce's still hot nobody can deny that beyonce's hot yeah yeah she's pretty but like 0.99
00:07:07.920 everyone has their own preferences so who you might think's good looking i might think he's
00:07:13.200 definitely not what about men do you think men look at women and say the same thing that beauty 0.82
00:07:18.640 comes from within i would like to say so but i feel like the ones that have been hurt maybe they
00:07:27.360 start looking at beauty within maybe the ones that have been hurt you know that's when you start
00:07:34.160 hearing what is it what's the saying they say beauty beyond the eyes or something like that they
00:07:37.920 say right yeah then you start hearing that but you would say in general men do look at beauty
00:07:44.400 to an extent i definitely sometimes don't think men look at anything but oh you know just
00:07:52.960 what they can have okay so um when we talk about beauty standards it's all about to you it's all about
00:07:57.760 what comes from within yeah nothing physical my background's indian so like she picked up her she's
00:08:02.320 she's beijian i'm indian and we pretty much cover ourselves back home what does that have to do with
00:08:11.040 the beauty standards so that comes within because we're not here we're quite covered up to be fair
00:08:15.760 so we look at beauty like they very well i'm from a village so oh yeah so they don't wear makeup
00:08:22.800 they they just literally they my mom's always said this to me what part of india are you from
00:08:26.320 punjab where is that that's like in a border right next to pakistan so it's closer to pakistan side
00:08:32.880 so i miss i would say south india okay because i went to um abu dhabi or not no not sorry not
00:08:38.160 abu dhabi sorry sorry hyderabad how's your bad where's that that's in india yeah india's really
00:08:44.560 big yeah i think it's south i think i don't know it was a long time ago i i barely can remember the
00:08:50.080 name obviously so it's a bit different because we're from village and we just like we women always 0.95
00:08:57.200 do their hair but they're very rarely wear makeup they're very rarely wear yeah anything really they're
00:09:02.960 just because they don't have to have their hair done so that's where my grandparents are from so
00:09:08.160 when i look at that and i'm like b is from within so that's what i mean when i say that uh what do
00:09:14.560 you think beauty standards um i mean i kind of have to disagree with the ladies to my left because i feel 0.75
00:09:20.640 like it's evident um i feel like everybody knows who like a beautiful person is i feel like if a woman
00:09:27.440 walks in the room you'll know that a woman will be classified as beautiful if she has her nails done 1.00
00:09:31.920 her hair is done her eyelashes her eyebrows everything is straight everything is put together
00:09:36.560 um i feel like if another woman was to walk in and she doesn't have that i won't i don't feel
00:09:40.000 like people won't say she's beautiful i just feel like people will be more attracted and will look
00:09:44.640 um to the woman who has everything done first initially do you get what i mean so i feel like
00:09:50.400 um and to ask your question about men i feel like men that's the first thing they look at beauty
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