JustPearlyThings - May 23, 2023


This O.F Model REJECTED This


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15 minutes

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3,373

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1

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19

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Summary

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In this episode, we discuss the dating pool in the black community and what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. We also discuss the current state of the dating scene in the Black community and how it affects women.

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00:00:00.000 talking about like the traditional outcome like being a housewife so only like roughly 20 percent
00:00:04.140 of women get to do that right to stay home so it's competitive like it's and the guys that 1.00
00:00:09.180 want a housewife like i mean you have to compete for them and typically they don't pick girls with 1.00
00:00:13.200 only fans corn stars like that's just not what they pick but i don't want to be a typical house
00:00:18.220 well i was only i i don't i don't know what you want i was talking about what she's right because
00:00:22.220 i said and there's moments in my life where i'm just i'm like fuck it i'll do that because dealing 0.80
00:00:26.800 with being a woman and dealing a black woman at that and dealing with this workforce like i said
00:00:30.960 i'm from la so it's hell that i deal with on a day-to-day basis and i'm sick of it yeah but it's
00:00:36.260 like at 33 like you just can't be a traditional woman anymore and i don't i don't think you would 0.55
00:00:40.360 claim to be right but and it's like a lot of times like we want these traditional outcomes but it's
00:00:45.180 like do we qualify you know right right that's very true but it's i mean it's like damned if you do
00:00:50.940 damned if you don't at some point you know what i mean with that attitude i mean like at that point i
00:00:54.780 mean listening to everything you're saying have you been realistic with the men that you're going
00:00:58.300 for like you're saying like the men that you're going on dates with like your job isn't good
00:01:01.420 enough this isn't good enough have you ever like taken time to stop and be like damn maybe it is me
00:01:05.620 and not these men you know what i mean like it's and i have and i tell people that i definitely have
00:01:10.080 because i'm a i'm a virgo i'm an over thinker and so i analyze every fucking thing you know what i 0.95
00:01:14.380 mean and so i do be like and that's why i just told her when she asked are you like really looking
00:01:18.720 i'm like you know what nobody you need to sit your ass down and get yourself together right now 0.93
00:01:22.440 because being real about it you know what i mean maybe this is not the time you know what i mean
00:01:26.780 for you to be trying to get it if you don't fully have your shit together if that's what guys are 0.72
00:01:31.560 going for now if you make it to 35 and you're not married you only have like a 15 i think percent
00:01:37.540 chance 20 percent chance right and that was scary it's actually it's actually sorry sorry the dating
00:01:42.960 pool in la is not the best i was gonna say the men in la are some of the worst men i've ever
00:01:51.080 experienced my entire life speak they are they are they act like they want something serious and
00:01:58.400 they want a real relationship and a real true loving partner and when they get that they go
00:02:02.280 and turn around and they're like oh i have this already and then they go and turn around and cheat
00:02:05.280 thank you i think well it's because no it's because women go for a small percentage of men
00:02:10.640 i don't say no because at the end of the day all i care about is making sure that i'm loved i'd rather
00:02:17.260 have somebody who will commit to me and tell me that they love me and actually show me that they
00:02:20.620 love me over someone who's chris fucking brown yeah i'd rather be loved than have somebody with 0.99
00:02:25.340 status any fucking day yeah i don't even give a fuck about status i'm dating ugly that's yours it don't 1.00
00:02:30.960 matter the thing is like that's great that's great for you right and i'm not i'm not talking about
00:02:34.960 you guys individually but there's no shortage of women trying to sleep with chris brown trying to 0.99
00:02:40.700 sleep with drake right trying to sleep with these entertainers actors high status that women will 1.00
00:02:48.440 know for a fact will not be faithful to them it's living in the city it honestly is the further away
00:02:54.860 you get from a metropolitan area the better your odds are going to be because it's the people in
00:02:58.940 cities there's so many people here your pool is so deep you can just look at somebody swipe left
00:03:03.700 swipe right you can toss them aside you can cheat on it's also really easy to disguise what you're
00:03:07.680 doing if there's so many people around to be perfectly honest because i feel like i used to
00:03:11.400 feel the same way i used to be like oh my god i hate dating you know like because i'm from alabama
00:03:14.180 like mom fuck nowhere and i hate dating but like then i came to la and i was like i hate dating in la 0.87
00:03:19.840 and i was like well where i had to sit down and shut the fuck up and be like well where am i actually 0.64
00:03:23.400 looking at dating and my guy now who's like a blue collar job he's not a lineman or a rig worker
00:03:28.320 yeah they're great but a lot of people don't want to admit that those guys sometimes are the
00:03:34.860 best people and the best prospects to date we want the flashy stuff as much as we say we don't guess
00:03:39.860 the hell we do all the social media and say if you don't have this if you don't have this kind of
00:03:43.640 money if you don't fucking drive a bugatti you're not worth my time so a lot of these guys a lot of 0.97
00:03:47.380 these normal guys that we complain aren't around they're around we just don't give a shit about
00:03:51.280 them if you move outside of a major metropolitan area and you live outside of like a medium-sized
00:03:58.920 city like 45 minutes outside of it and you participate in life in that town that and you
00:04:03.240 work somewhere where you do not work around the majority of the same gender that's the biggest 1.00
00:04:06.900 problem i get a lot of people that are like nurses teachers social workers they always talk about how
00:04:10.960 they can't find anybody they can't find anybody because they work with all women all bitches yeah 1.00
00:04:15.240 and then also i love those types of jobs yeah well women women choose those jobs women go into 1.00
00:04:22.400 those jobs and then we can't wait to get out of them because you get into them and they suck
00:04:25.360 and the other issue is women find 80 percent of men as unattractive not okay not eh meh it's
00:04:31.120 you find 80 percent of men you meet ugly but i've dated ugly ones i tried to go against the ground
00:04:36.600 that's why you need to work around men if you're looking for a partner if you're looking for a 1.00
00:04:49.160 spouse you need to work around men because you have to know the men in order to actually know 0.99
00:04:52.480 if they're attractive to you yes i agree with what you're saying but the thing is women will care less 0.99
00:04:58.320 about how attractive a man is if they are in close proximity to that man and they like him yes that is
00:05:03.880 how people get married right most people i know but i'm not talking about like what's ideal i'm
00:05:07.420 talking about what is no what i'm talking about what is most people yeah yeah no but no now the
00:05:11.800 number one way is dating apps it's not work anymore i think dating apps personally are the dumbest thing
00:05:18.320 created because personally for me like i go on personality at the end of the day like yes the first
00:05:24.340 thing you see when you meet somebody is their looks but like i've dated men that i haven't found
00:05:30.220 conventionally attractive and they have been the sweetest human beings to me ever was it because
00:05:35.480 you knew them from something other than meeting them and like meeting them in a bar and being
00:05:40.720 attracted to them well actually so before i also bartended on the side when i was doing i was
00:05:46.940 bartending yeah when i was doing only fans it was in austin he was a dj uh oh you worked together
00:05:52.200 yes so he was he was more well we didn't work at the same bars but it was like the industry austin's a
00:05:57.640 very very small nightlife industry yeah so the person that i dated he was not conventionally
00:06:02.560 attractive at all overweight just not my type that i would see at all but his personality
00:06:09.900 completely how long were you with him we were together for i mean it was he died while we were
00:06:16.540 talking but um it was a very amazing we were friends before and then it just kind of switched
00:06:23.540 into something more but i think it was it was like i knew him for a very long time so i wouldn't say
00:06:29.420 there was really a time of us like talking but i think that's why i think dating apps are like the
00:06:34.380 dumbest thing ever i agree with you i mean if we if we meet someone on a dating app like we only
00:06:38.820 swipe right five percent of the time so if you're meeting with someone online like typically he's got
00:06:43.420 a lot of women because again he's getting all of the likes i wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for
00:06:47.380 the day now that's how i met brian if brian hit me and we swiped on each other and he's talking about
00:06:51.800 when you want to come on my shop like you ain't gonna ask me out first a lot of something i think
00:06:56.920 it really missed too a lot of us here are content creators and if some if a guy is doing well on a
00:07:01.700 dating app it's really because he can write sales copy and that's a problem because it means that men 0.94
00:07:06.260 who can write sales copy and know how to take photos that look a certain way are the ones that get
00:07:11.120 chosen over and over and those are the wrong ones i just want to say that when i'm on a dating app i
00:07:16.720 do read through what they put on that on the questions and stuff like that because you can be
00:07:23.080 the finest motherfucker in the room and if i can't carry a conversation with you and you're not making 0.99
00:07:28.020 me laugh or smile it's over with it's raps the guys you're gonna match with are the ones that know
00:07:33.720 what to say yeah they're optimized they're literally i don't know because i've seen a lot of really cute
00:07:38.140 motherfuckers on there saying don't know what to say but again but again you're only you're only 0.77
00:07:44.100 swiping right five percent of the time five percent and you have to remember on a dating app too women 1.00
00:07:48.980 are the product right women are the product the men are the customers on a dating app women are the
00:07:53.000 product it's it's and i mean they're selling us on some of them sorry to interrupt not on all of
00:07:58.280 them yeah like bumble and hint yeah some of them the rest of them yeah yeah it's your product i don't
00:08:03.020 think most people really use tinder as much anymore i think it's at least in la it's mainly bumble
00:08:07.800 and hinge and then the uh the celebrity one i guess that's because most people in la be crazy
00:08:13.400 as hell and got banned off tinder already la dating really is like the guys are scared to get used for 0.53
00:08:20.840 their money and the women are scared to get used for their pussy that's really what it is so it's 1.00
00:08:24.860 just like we can't win los angeles is high school on steroids yeah and and to be honest with the los
00:08:32.080 angeles dating to it from from being here for like less than a year i've already noticed that
00:08:38.000 the what la is known for is they want that instant gratification when it comes to sex money clubs drugs 1.00
00:08:44.320 everything instant gratification they don't want to work for for it for very long or have it for
00:08:50.020 very long if they've already obtained it and that's what i've noticed here i don't agree with
00:08:53.440 that because a lot of these people that are in this area they've worked extremely hard to get to
00:08:57.940 where they're at no not like business wise because i've seen people put their all into like music or
00:09:04.120 whatever their niches but i'm saying like when it comes to dating i've noticed that people are very
00:09:09.260 quick to like get it in then hey can you scoot into the table please you're too far back
00:09:13.500 go ahead yeah no that was pretty much all right um so guys we uh technical issues the monitors are
00:09:22.780 busted so i'm gonna have to be controlling a lot of stuff on here so i'm gonna read some super chats
00:09:27.820 we have uh beaten cheeks here with the hundred thank you george miller is the blank that took rollo
00:09:32.860 to ma as pseudonym oh are you talking about rollo i don't know if i can show these man uh ordeal bs
00:09:40.740 vasectomy ordeal that is making red pill content go bogus you're welcome on educating you okay
00:09:45.100 darth perdisius thank you for the hundred back again after calling nala out for her cheating kink
00:09:49.420 huge oh hold on let me trigger that fuck i can't see any of these by the way guys so i'm just huge 0.98
00:09:56.380 fan of gwen and zoe zoe based as fuck uh and impressed by your statements pearl have loved many 0.80
00:10:02.540 of your shows just hate some of the feminists okay thank you darth perdisius we have here 1.00
00:10:09.860 odin thank you for the hundred it is said people have looks or personality girls that rated 0.94
00:10:15.960 themselves a 10 does this mean you have no personality also why does height add to a guy's
00:10:20.760 attractiveness score curious as a 6 5 guy okay why does height well first off does uh height matter
00:10:29.600 i don't think so it hasn't historically like with the people i've dated they've been all over the
00:10:36.120 board like height wise but i think sometimes it's nice to feel small nice to feel small okay i think
00:10:42.040 personally height does matter for me because i'm looking for somebody to be the father of my kids
00:10:48.220 and my dad is 5 5 and i need somebody to balance out my genes you know okay uh hold on flan life
00:10:57.940 thanks for the gifted by the way guys it's like i said major technical issues so all the super chats
00:11:02.360 is going to be scuffed tts is going to be tts is working but it's scuffed ish um okay so height um
00:11:09.960 do you have a height minimum well i'm only five feet tall so i say you got to be at least taller than
00:11:16.460 my dad how tall is your five five okay you have to balance out his genes if we have sons they gotta
00:11:23.180 they have to be at least taller than five five good looking you know yeah i don't want to do that to
00:11:28.780 them all right okay we have uh wait hold on why does height add to a guy's attractiveness score
00:11:37.500 does anyone i think honestly for me i'm five nine when a guy is too tall like because all my exes have
00:11:44.460 been around like five nine five eight i had two exes one was six two one was six one any guy over six
00:11:51.080 one for me to start they just start to look funny so i can't i think it's like biological
00:11:56.880 because we like we're looking for a protector yeah i think so yeah okay all right odin thank you man
00:12:04.660 appreciate it we have uh doc vanadlis thank you the golden ratio is the objective standard of beauty and
00:12:10.860 preserved not only across cultures but also nature one one to one point six look up the marquardt
00:12:19.280 mask and see how your face conforms to the golden ratio well we could pull it up if our monitors
00:12:24.720 weren't scuffed um doc thank you man appreciate it uh depper dave thank you man uh pearl gave a poor
00:12:31.480 example of red pilled from the matrix it means you see the world now and see oh fuck i didn't pull it 0.85
00:12:37.740 up sorry guys you see how modern western wait what it means you see the world now and see how modern
00:12:45.560 western women operate delusional on what men really want yes body count does matter 1.00
00:12:52.440 okay that's what you said you can't like when you say the definition of red pill you just can't
00:12:58.860 win like i feel like that's what you said but all right we have uh bob done away here thank you man
00:13:05.240 uh long time voyeur first time donator hey thank you man welcome for joining i apologize that your
00:13:11.240 first uh chats on an absolute scuff stream because you brought pearly things all you women are created 1.00
00:13:16.480 thoughtfully by loving god keep the body count down but don't live in guilt uh live in conviction
00:13:22.280 hey bob thank you man appreciate it all right and then we have a couple soup chats also guys the
00:13:28.760 soup chats are going to be a little bit scuffed if i missed a couple of the displays um okay we have
00:13:35.180 filthy with the hundred thank you man do the women in the adult film industry of want to have children 0.97
00:13:43.020 if so are you worried about the effects your act she is pregnant um if so are you worried about the
00:13:49.800 effects your actions will have on them in the future specifically for boys remember the internet
00:13:55.080 is forever and what we do in life echoes in eternity your response to filthy i mean i didn't really
00:14:05.460 think about it before i got pregnant um but after i did i definitely again i don't regret anything i've
00:14:14.060 done in my life because it has gotten me to where i am today but i wish i could have went about things
00:14:20.280 differently i wish i didn't fully get into being able for people to search me up on the hub and stuff
00:14:28.720 um i'm fine with the only fans aspect of it but yeah i mean it is not going to be the easiest when
00:14:37.480 i have if i do have a son and they go to school and he gets older and his friends are like hey you know
00:14:44.560 your mom's on the hub i just looked her up so that's also why like i'm glad that i took a step
00:14:50.380 back when i did from being on porn hub okay anybody else who does OF won't answer that anybody
00:14:58.480 kirsten i mean i think it'll definitely affect children like i said before i've had one of my
00:15:04.000 old managements she was huge on porn hub and her kids are severely bullied because of it it definitely 1.00
00:15:09.560 will i know when i get to that point when i do eventually want to have kids i'm going to do my best
00:15:13.740 to wipe myself from the internet but you know what i made the decisions that i made and i'm okay with
00:15:18.100 that i think it's just also having a conversation with your kids and sitting them down and letting
00:15:22.540 them know beforehand because i would rather sit my kids down before it gets to a certain age where
00:15:28.520 people start going on these websites and letting them know so they're aware of it and they can kind
00:15:33.420 of get a thicker skin before they walk into something that they're not aware of yeah kind of control
00:15:37.000 the narrative a little bit exactly as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are
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