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Summary
In this episode, we discuss the dating pool in the black community and what it means to be a woman in the 21st century. We also discuss the current state of the dating scene in the Black community and how it affects women.
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talking about like the traditional outcome like being a housewife so only like roughly 20 percent
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of women get to do that right to stay home so it's competitive like it's and the guys that
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want a housewife like i mean you have to compete for them and typically they don't pick girls with
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only fans corn stars like that's just not what they pick but i don't want to be a typical house
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well i was only i i don't i don't know what you want i was talking about what she's right because
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i said and there's moments in my life where i'm just i'm like fuck it i'll do that because dealing
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with being a woman and dealing a black woman at that and dealing with this workforce like i said
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i'm from la so it's hell that i deal with on a day-to-day basis and i'm sick of it yeah but it's
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like at 33 like you just can't be a traditional woman anymore and i don't i don't think you would
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claim to be right but and it's like a lot of times like we want these traditional outcomes but it's
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like do we qualify you know right right that's very true but it's i mean it's like damned if you do
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damned if you don't at some point you know what i mean with that attitude i mean like at that point i
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mean listening to everything you're saying have you been realistic with the men that you're going
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for like you're saying like the men that you're going on dates with like your job isn't good
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enough this isn't good enough have you ever like taken time to stop and be like damn maybe it is me
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and not these men you know what i mean like it's and i have and i tell people that i definitely have
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because i'm a i'm a virgo i'm an over thinker and so i analyze every fucking thing you know what i
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mean and so i do be like and that's why i just told her when she asked are you like really looking
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i'm like you know what nobody you need to sit your ass down and get yourself together right now
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because being real about it you know what i mean maybe this is not the time you know what i mean
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for you to be trying to get it if you don't fully have your shit together if that's what guys are
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going for now if you make it to 35 and you're not married you only have like a 15 i think percent
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chance 20 percent chance right and that was scary it's actually it's actually sorry sorry the dating
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pool in la is not the best i was gonna say the men in la are some of the worst men i've ever
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experienced my entire life speak they are they are they act like they want something serious and
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they want a real relationship and a real true loving partner and when they get that they go
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and turn around and they're like oh i have this already and then they go and turn around and cheat
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thank you i think well it's because no it's because women go for a small percentage of men
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i don't say no because at the end of the day all i care about is making sure that i'm loved i'd rather
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have somebody who will commit to me and tell me that they love me and actually show me that they
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love me over someone who's chris fucking brown yeah i'd rather be loved than have somebody with
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status any fucking day yeah i don't even give a fuck about status i'm dating ugly that's yours it don't
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matter the thing is like that's great that's great for you right and i'm not i'm not talking about
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you guys individually but there's no shortage of women trying to sleep with chris brown trying to
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sleep with drake right trying to sleep with these entertainers actors high status that women will
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know for a fact will not be faithful to them it's living in the city it honestly is the further away
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you get from a metropolitan area the better your odds are going to be because it's the people in
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cities there's so many people here your pool is so deep you can just look at somebody swipe left
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swipe right you can toss them aside you can cheat on it's also really easy to disguise what you're
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doing if there's so many people around to be perfectly honest because i feel like i used to
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feel the same way i used to be like oh my god i hate dating you know like because i'm from alabama
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like mom fuck nowhere and i hate dating but like then i came to la and i was like i hate dating in la
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and i was like well where i had to sit down and shut the fuck up and be like well where am i actually
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looking at dating and my guy now who's like a blue collar job he's not a lineman or a rig worker
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yeah they're great but a lot of people don't want to admit that those guys sometimes are the
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best people and the best prospects to date we want the flashy stuff as much as we say we don't guess
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the hell we do all the social media and say if you don't have this if you don't have this kind of
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money if you don't fucking drive a bugatti you're not worth my time so a lot of these guys a lot of
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these normal guys that we complain aren't around they're around we just don't give a shit about
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them if you move outside of a major metropolitan area and you live outside of like a medium-sized
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city like 45 minutes outside of it and you participate in life in that town that and you
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work somewhere where you do not work around the majority of the same gender that's the biggest
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problem i get a lot of people that are like nurses teachers social workers they always talk about how
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they can't find anybody they can't find anybody because they work with all women all bitches yeah
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and then also i love those types of jobs yeah well women women choose those jobs women go into
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those jobs and then we can't wait to get out of them because you get into them and they suck
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and the other issue is women find 80 percent of men as unattractive not okay not eh meh it's
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you find 80 percent of men you meet ugly but i've dated ugly ones i tried to go against the ground
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that's why you need to work around men if you're looking for a partner if you're looking for a
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spouse you need to work around men because you have to know the men in order to actually know
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if they're attractive to you yes i agree with what you're saying but the thing is women will care less
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about how attractive a man is if they are in close proximity to that man and they like him yes that is
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how people get married right most people i know but i'm not talking about like what's ideal i'm
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talking about what is no what i'm talking about what is most people yeah yeah no but no now the
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number one way is dating apps it's not work anymore i think dating apps personally are the dumbest thing
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created because personally for me like i go on personality at the end of the day like yes the first
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thing you see when you meet somebody is their looks but like i've dated men that i haven't found
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conventionally attractive and they have been the sweetest human beings to me ever was it because
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you knew them from something other than meeting them and like meeting them in a bar and being
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attracted to them well actually so before i also bartended on the side when i was doing i was
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bartending yeah when i was doing only fans it was in austin he was a dj uh oh you worked together
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yes so he was he was more well we didn't work at the same bars but it was like the industry austin's a
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very very small nightlife industry yeah so the person that i dated he was not conventionally
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attractive at all overweight just not my type that i would see at all but his personality
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completely how long were you with him we were together for i mean it was he died while we were
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talking but um it was a very amazing we were friends before and then it just kind of switched
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into something more but i think it was it was like i knew him for a very long time so i wouldn't say
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there was really a time of us like talking but i think that's why i think dating apps are like the
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dumbest thing ever i agree with you i mean if we if we meet someone on a dating app like we only
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swipe right five percent of the time so if you're meeting with someone online like typically he's got
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a lot of women because again he's getting all of the likes i wouldn't even be here if it wasn't for
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the day now that's how i met brian if brian hit me and we swiped on each other and he's talking about
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when you want to come on my shop like you ain't gonna ask me out first a lot of something i think
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it really missed too a lot of us here are content creators and if some if a guy is doing well on a
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dating app it's really because he can write sales copy and that's a problem because it means that men
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who can write sales copy and know how to take photos that look a certain way are the ones that get
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chosen over and over and those are the wrong ones i just want to say that when i'm on a dating app i
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do read through what they put on that on the questions and stuff like that because you can be
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the finest motherfucker in the room and if i can't carry a conversation with you and you're not making
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me laugh or smile it's over with it's raps the guys you're gonna match with are the ones that know
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what to say yeah they're optimized they're literally i don't know because i've seen a lot of really cute
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motherfuckers on there saying don't know what to say but again but again you're only you're only
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swiping right five percent of the time five percent and you have to remember on a dating app too women
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are the product right women are the product the men are the customers on a dating app women are the
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product it's it's and i mean they're selling us on some of them sorry to interrupt not on all of
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them yeah like bumble and hint yeah some of them the rest of them yeah yeah it's your product i don't
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think most people really use tinder as much anymore i think it's at least in la it's mainly bumble
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and hinge and then the uh the celebrity one i guess that's because most people in la be crazy
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as hell and got banned off tinder already la dating really is like the guys are scared to get used for
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their money and the women are scared to get used for their pussy that's really what it is so it's
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just like we can't win los angeles is high school on steroids yeah and and to be honest with the los
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angeles dating to it from from being here for like less than a year i've already noticed that
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the what la is known for is they want that instant gratification when it comes to sex money clubs drugs
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everything instant gratification they don't want to work for for it for very long or have it for
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very long if they've already obtained it and that's what i've noticed here i don't agree with
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that because a lot of these people that are in this area they've worked extremely hard to get to
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where they're at no not like business wise because i've seen people put their all into like music or
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whatever their niches but i'm saying like when it comes to dating i've noticed that people are very
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quick to like get it in then hey can you scoot into the table please you're too far back
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go ahead yeah no that was pretty much all right um so guys we uh technical issues the monitors are
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busted so i'm gonna have to be controlling a lot of stuff on here so i'm gonna read some super chats
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we have uh beaten cheeks here with the hundred thank you george miller is the blank that took rollo
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to ma as pseudonym oh are you talking about rollo i don't know if i can show these man uh ordeal bs
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vasectomy ordeal that is making red pill content go bogus you're welcome on educating you okay
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darth perdisius thank you for the hundred back again after calling nala out for her cheating kink
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huge oh hold on let me trigger that fuck i can't see any of these by the way guys so i'm just huge
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fan of gwen and zoe zoe based as fuck uh and impressed by your statements pearl have loved many
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of your shows just hate some of the feminists okay thank you darth perdisius we have here
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odin thank you for the hundred it is said people have looks or personality girls that rated
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themselves a 10 does this mean you have no personality also why does height add to a guy's
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attractiveness score curious as a 6 5 guy okay why does height well first off does uh height matter
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i don't think so it hasn't historically like with the people i've dated they've been all over the
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board like height wise but i think sometimes it's nice to feel small nice to feel small okay i think
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personally height does matter for me because i'm looking for somebody to be the father of my kids
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and my dad is 5 5 and i need somebody to balance out my genes you know okay uh hold on flan life
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thanks for the gifted by the way guys it's like i said major technical issues so all the super chats
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is going to be scuffed tts is going to be tts is working but it's scuffed ish um okay so height um
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do you have a height minimum well i'm only five feet tall so i say you got to be at least taller than
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my dad how tall is your five five okay you have to balance out his genes if we have sons they gotta
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they have to be at least taller than five five good looking you know yeah i don't want to do that to
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them all right okay we have uh wait hold on why does height add to a guy's attractiveness score
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does anyone i think honestly for me i'm five nine when a guy is too tall like because all my exes have
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been around like five nine five eight i had two exes one was six two one was six one any guy over six
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one for me to start they just start to look funny so i can't i think it's like biological
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because we like we're looking for a protector yeah i think so yeah okay all right odin thank you man
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appreciate it we have uh doc vanadlis thank you the golden ratio is the objective standard of beauty and
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preserved not only across cultures but also nature one one to one point six look up the marquardt
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mask and see how your face conforms to the golden ratio well we could pull it up if our monitors
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weren't scuffed um doc thank you man appreciate it uh depper dave thank you man uh pearl gave a poor
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example of red pilled from the matrix it means you see the world now and see oh fuck i didn't pull it
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up sorry guys you see how modern western wait what it means you see the world now and see how modern
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western women operate delusional on what men really want yes body count does matter
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okay that's what you said you can't like when you say the definition of red pill you just can't
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win like i feel like that's what you said but all right we have uh bob done away here thank you man
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uh long time voyeur first time donator hey thank you man welcome for joining i apologize that your
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first uh chats on an absolute scuff stream because you brought pearly things all you women are created
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thoughtfully by loving god keep the body count down but don't live in guilt uh live in conviction
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hey bob thank you man appreciate it all right and then we have a couple soup chats also guys the
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soup chats are going to be a little bit scuffed if i missed a couple of the displays um okay we have
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filthy with the hundred thank you man do the women in the adult film industry of want to have children
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if so are you worried about the effects your act she is pregnant um if so are you worried about the
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effects your actions will have on them in the future specifically for boys remember the internet
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is forever and what we do in life echoes in eternity your response to filthy i mean i didn't really
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think about it before i got pregnant um but after i did i definitely again i don't regret anything i've
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done in my life because it has gotten me to where i am today but i wish i could have went about things
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differently i wish i didn't fully get into being able for people to search me up on the hub and stuff
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um i'm fine with the only fans aspect of it but yeah i mean it is not going to be the easiest when
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i have if i do have a son and they go to school and he gets older and his friends are like hey you know
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your mom's on the hub i just looked her up so that's also why like i'm glad that i took a step
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back when i did from being on porn hub okay anybody else who does OF won't answer that anybody
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kirsten i mean i think it'll definitely affect children like i said before i've had one of my
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old managements she was huge on porn hub and her kids are severely bullied because of it it definitely
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will i know when i get to that point when i do eventually want to have kids i'm going to do my best
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to wipe myself from the internet but you know what i made the decisions that i made and i'm okay with
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that i think it's just also having a conversation with your kids and sitting them down and letting
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them know beforehand because i would rather sit my kids down before it gets to a certain age where
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people start going on these websites and letting them know so they're aware of it and they can kind
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of get a thicker skin before they walk into something that they're not aware of yeah kind of control
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the narrative a little bit exactly as many of you know i was just banned on tiktok and we are
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